How To (Ethically) Get Her to Say YES to Everything

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  • Опубліковано 29 сер 2024
  • How to get "yes" answers rather than "no" answers. That's almost the definition of success in game... but also in sales and in life. Here's how:
    And if you want to take these concepts to the absolute most advanced level, check out: verbalgameacad...

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  • @sickranchez4742
    @sickranchez4742 5 місяців тому +13

    I learnt about the yes ladder during my stint as a salesperson. VERY useful!

  • @exxie1
    @exxie1 5 місяців тому +9

    I notice I just tell them "lets grab a drink some time" always when the vibe is right, and they can tell me they don't drink, then just invite them for coffee and they've "always" said yes

    • @Floof_Factory
      @Floof_Factory 5 місяців тому

      I never ask to go for drinks. Only when we get back to my place.

    • @exxie1
      @exxie1 5 місяців тому

      @@Floof_Factory what does your first dates look like?

  • @MigueTran
    @MigueTran 5 місяців тому +72

    Bro, please chill with the camera movements and editing. I get dizzy...

    • @LtVadim
      @LtVadim 5 місяців тому +20

      Yes!! And all of those "Wooosh!" sounds. Chill! Your videos are for the interested audience, not a tik-tok brain bubble gum. It's not like you need to re-draw attention every 5-10 seconds.

    • @CeceliPS3
      @CeceliPS3 5 місяців тому +1

      Same.

    • @ronaldraygunpew
      @ronaldraygunpew 5 місяців тому +2

      Toughen up

    • @CeceliPS3
      @CeceliPS3 5 місяців тому +3

      @@ronaldraygunpew not how it works, buddy.

    • @jaksa2257
      @jaksa2257 5 місяців тому +2

      Completely agree, I stopped watching and am now only listening.

  • @JonathanBanales
    @JonathanBanales 5 місяців тому +8

    I'm a man with two sisters and two nieces, and I think it's safe to say, or at least I hope it's safe to say, that most men don't want to lead girls on and then break their hearts knowing that they're just after sex. So how can I actually use honesty in a way that lets the girl know that I am only interested in a hookup, but that I also genuinely enjoy her company and would like to keep taking her out, showing her a good time and end the night with sex without her getting attached or too emotionally attached? I want her to know from the very start of our first interaction that I have zero interest in a typical relationship.

    • @swaggybaconcheese1566
      @swaggybaconcheese1566 5 місяців тому +5

      I would guess the answer has to do with framing the interaction that way from the jump and choose a plotline that's congruent with that and still a win for the girl

    • @bolt9110
      @bolt9110 5 місяців тому +3

      Worry about what you want. Let her worry about what she wants.

  • @brookvalley907
    @brookvalley907 5 місяців тому +3

    Love the "Yes Ladder".

  • @Alebib
    @Alebib 3 місяці тому

    Genius insights into psychology! Much gratitude to Todd! 👏

  • @Youtuber19841
    @Youtuber19841 5 місяців тому +1

    The effects are perfect.

  • @j-star1
    @j-star1 4 місяці тому

    Thanks for sharing Todd, great info.
    Would love to hear you in podcast format talking about dating stories and experiences.
    Cheers

  • @swaggybaconcheese1566
    @swaggybaconcheese1566 5 місяців тому +2

    Needed this

  • @aitorinarra
    @aitorinarra 5 місяців тому +1

    So good Todd!

  • @Bill-wh2zf
    @Bill-wh2zf 5 місяців тому +1

    Question:
    Should I still tease her on an opinion I disagree with or think is stupid - even if she's extremely passionate about it?

    • @omarel-begawy7397
      @omarel-begawy7397 5 місяців тому

      You can tease lightly. People in general don't like to be told they're stupid. Also, be respectful of other's opinions, you might learn something yourself.

  • @bolt9110
    @bolt9110 5 місяців тому +3

    Not getting compliance from a girl. "Day game wasn't good enough" - Tom Torero

  • @harmonica212
    @harmonica212 5 місяців тому +1

    Todd, Do you have difficulty/trouble getting a yes and women online because they may know you are a Pickup Artist/Dating Coach because they may have seen your videos and they know what you are up to? Does it make it easier when women know who you are?

    • @qsfqfqdqsdqsd
      @qsfqfqdqsdqsd 5 місяців тому +1

      he spoke already abt this, they usually get weirded out, there was 1 girl who liked him tho, its rare

    • @harmonica212
      @harmonica212 5 місяців тому

      ​@qsfqfqdqsdqsd, It must be difficult if women recognize you from UA-cam. I have heard women say that Rsd Tyler Durden turns women off. This is a good reason it could be hard to get women if they know you were from RSD and think they all must act like Owen Cook gives others a bad name. The woman he was talking to was not even 8. 9. 10." in looks. This tells you women don't like him. They said he was weird gay awkward etc. This guy mentions Todd Valintine and Jeffy. RSD Tyler (Owen Cook) is a HUGE LIAR (Story From Ex-Employee) | High-Status Communication Review ua-cam.com/video/IVlnr36nd3k/v-deo.html

    • @qsfqfqdqsdqsd
      @qsfqfqdqsdqsd 5 місяців тому

      todd said that sometimes they like him but as soon they google him, they get weirded out, its kinda obvious it would turn out to be that way, women would feel manipulated and lied to !@@harmonica212

  • @mattmalone9659
    @mattmalone9659 5 місяців тому

    Todd I need a video on this right now. So many guys probably have a similar situation and could use the help. I went out with this girl a couple months back and she told me a few days later she only saw me as a friend. I want her and haven’t been able to move on, what do I do? We are friends at the end of the day and being in the same friend group makes it hard for me to figure out the best move. HELP!

    • @Samuel-vw2wy
      @Samuel-vw2wy 5 місяців тому

      get her to set you up with her hottest single friend then she’ll get jealous

    • @SirLenFoller
      @SirLenFoller 5 місяців тому

      Well, you actually move on. She isn't interested there is nothing you can do about it, short of dating other women and becoming more attractive. There is no magic technique or turning this around.

  • @SPACEDOUT19
    @SPACEDOUT19 5 місяців тому +1

    Winners never take "no" or "stop!" for an answer....so it doesnt even matter. Dennis Reynolds explained it perfectly

  • @supernotnatural
    @supernotnatural 5 місяців тому +4

    I just realized I dont even ask. I just assume we are gonna meet again, you know when the girl will say yes anyway

  • @jajajaaajaaa
    @jajajaaajaaa 5 місяців тому

    💎🔥

  • @Kielimies
    @Kielimies 5 місяців тому

    Sounds to me like he just doesn't know the optimal routines for it.

  • @CoachSteveJandS
    @CoachSteveJandS 5 місяців тому

    It's cool to be cool 😎

  • @GUITARTIME2024
    @GUITARTIME2024 4 місяці тому

    Stupid camera movement.

  • @fogdood6868
    @fogdood6868 5 місяців тому +7

    I like the ADHD editing tbh