How to HEAl + Rebuild Yourself after a BREAKUP | STYLEDBYKAMI

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  • @QueenieDarling__
    @QueenieDarling__ 3 роки тому +211

    Thank you so much girl! I’ve been in this healing process ever since my break up with my first love of 3 years. I’ve been doing self care things. Trying to get to know myself, by myself, and for myself. It’s been hard because we’ve been together through high school and college. I’ve noticed he moved on much quicker than me. He is now EVERYTHING that I asked and wanted him to be when we went out. So that hurts me. A lot actually. I’m absolutely happy for him. Okay now I’m talking to much like this is a therapy session. (If you read this whole paragraph, like it lol. B/c ur a real one) *my first love/ first heart break/ first boyfriend/ first everything. 😞

    • @breec.1787
      @breec.1787 3 роки тому +2

      I'm dealing through the same thing. I just had a mutual breakup with my bf of 2 1/2 years and was going to 3. He was my first for everything as well and its only been a month :(

    • @qwinperry8861
      @qwinperry8861 3 роки тому

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    • @qwinperry8861
      @qwinperry8861 3 роки тому

      I recommend you to a powerful man who can help you get your ex back immediately..

    • @qwinperry8861
      @qwinperry8861 3 роки тому

      Message him on WhatsApp..

    • @jazminhall9931
      @jazminhall9931 2 роки тому +5

      High school sweetheart 2 and a half years broke up with me a month ago. my first everything.. its catipulted me into a deep spiritual healing and I can see what a beautiful reason this happened for.. this happened for me, not to me.. life has a beautiful way of working of for your highest good

  • @prettyillmatic8301
    @prettyillmatic8301 4 роки тому +109

    It comes and goes in waves for me! It hurts so bad. I thought I was healing, then boom 💥 it hit me again. This is so painful.

    • @maribeltapia738
      @maribeltapia738 3 роки тому +5

      Girl same): it’s been 3 months and there’s days where i feel like I’m healing and getting better and then theres days that i feel like i did in the beginning, it hurts sm

    • @Ana-ly5ek
      @Ana-ly5ek 3 роки тому +2

      Maribel Tapia same, I hadn’t thought about him for months but then it came back. He’s the only guy I’ve loved so that makes it worse

    • @maribeltapia738
      @maribeltapia738 3 роки тому +2

      @@Ana-ly5ek aww girl): we’ll eventually heal, i promise🥺

    • @qwinperry8861
      @qwinperry8861 3 роки тому

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    • @qwinperry8861
      @qwinperry8861 3 роки тому

      I recommend you to a powerful man who can help you get your ex back immediately..

  • @mariahmorgan9284
    @mariahmorgan9284 4 роки тому +64

    I needed this today, I broke up with my fiancé because hes friends with someone who disrespected my deceased mother twice and is still trynna be a bully to my today. I just wanna better myself and attract someone better

    • @qwinperry8861
      @qwinperry8861 3 роки тому

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    • @qwinperry8861
      @qwinperry8861 3 роки тому +1

      I recommend you to a powerful man who can help you get your ex back immediately..

    • @qwinperry8861
      @qwinperry8861 3 роки тому

      Message him on WhatsApp..

    • @user-hy7br8ne9m
      @user-hy7br8ne9m 2 роки тому +1

      @@qwinperry8861 huh😭

  • @malibuReddd
    @malibuReddd 4 роки тому +78

    Girl!!! It’s like you were in my brain! Currently trying to heal from a 17year relationship and it’s 😩😩😩

    • @susanntillzxo3626
      @susanntillzxo3626 4 роки тому +1

      I know how you feel sis, just broke up with mines 😩

    • @malibuReddd
      @malibuReddd 4 роки тому +6

      susanntillz xo it’s been a year now! And we have two kids so it’s tough! I don’t want him I just Wana forget all the fucked up shit he didn’t

    • @malibuReddd
      @malibuReddd 4 роки тому

      *did

    • @susanntillzxo3626
      @susanntillzxo3626 4 роки тому +2

      MalibuRedd I cannot imagine how hard it is with children, but girl you got this! Self healing + forgiveness really is the key. Take it easy Mama 💋

    • @malibuReddd
      @malibuReddd 4 роки тому +2

      susanntillz xo thanks love!!

  • @JaJaKisses
    @JaJaKisses 4 роки тому +24

    saw ur breakup vid when i broke up w mine of 8yrs in feb. you gave me strength but i crumbled and gave back in lol. the shock was too crazy. but stories like yours planted the seed for me. we broke up for real over a month ago and i've been waaay more productive and loving to myself. finally having good days and embracing the sad days too. thank you for sharing your experience

    • @qwinperry8861
      @qwinperry8861 3 роки тому

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    • @qwinperry8861
      @qwinperry8861 3 роки тому

      I recommend you to a powerful man who can help you get your ex back immediately..

    • @qwinperry8861
      @qwinperry8861 3 роки тому

      Message him on WhatsApp..

  • @Claudia-yc8xk
    @Claudia-yc8xk 2 роки тому +4

    I needed this so much, I'm 2 months into a break up. I was with him for 7 years and we planned our whole life together. I realized that we had outgrown eachother big time, communication was terrible and we just couldn't give eachother what we needed. We both were not serving eachother anymore and we bought out the worse in eachother. I decided to end the relationship for good the end of February. I then found out he was in a relationship by March.
    The heart break and pain is absolutely real, I've never felt anything like it. I can't wait to heal honestly 💔

  • @imaginationswiththant6427
    @imaginationswiththant6427 3 роки тому +17

    if anyone needs some motivation, start right now because if u don’t, a year from now u would’ve wished u started earlier. do it so your future self will thank u!!

  • @xinyi_yap
    @xinyi_yap 3 роки тому +8

    Thank you for sharing from your experience. I have made the decision after trying to make it work for 2 years and while I’m still at that pre-break up process, I know I can do this. I have done a lot more difficult things and lived alone, so I can do this again - this time, with more self-compassion. So thank you again 💜

  • @kianaspeaks
    @kianaspeaks 4 роки тому +11

    This was all so beautifully said. I’m only 17 but i see so much of the woman i am, along with the woman i want to be in you and your presence. I’m loving these videos you’ve been making, especially recently. Thank you so much, Kami. Sending you love! 🤎

    • @qwinperry8861
      @qwinperry8861 3 роки тому

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    • @qwinperry8861
      @qwinperry8861 3 роки тому

      I recommend you to a powerful man who can help you get your ex back immediately..

    • @qwinperry8861
      @qwinperry8861 3 роки тому

      Message him on WhatsApp..

  • @quaishilithapace2535
    @quaishilithapace2535 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you so much I needed this today, I just completely cut contact for good from a man I fell in love with. My heart is broken because he he was not in love with me, I wasted a year of my life now I have to let go. I am strong but I know I have work to do. I want to date again but plan to get into therapy, so tired of getting hurt.

  • @freddymaccheese
    @freddymaccheese 3 роки тому +8

    Ahhh sis, I wish i met you before. The words i needed to hear. I wish my healing wad straightforward but it really is roller-coaster. I appreciate you sharing this. I'll watch the other videos, this has been a blessing, even as a guy

    • @qwinperry8861
      @qwinperry8861 3 роки тому

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    • @qwinperry8861
      @qwinperry8861 3 роки тому

      I recommend you to a powerful man who can help you get your ex back immediately..

    • @qwinperry8861
      @qwinperry8861 3 роки тому

      Message him on WhatsApp..

    • @wenseym4059
      @wenseym4059 2 роки тому

      Hey Freud. Mind sharing your story?

  • @WarriorKingRules
    @WarriorKingRules 3 роки тому +4

    Thank you for sharing your brokenness and past relationship experiences----they are helping.me cope with a recent break-up that I went through and, am still trying to get over. It's especially difficult for me to move on and move forward as an older man but, God...

    • @qwinperry8861
      @qwinperry8861 3 роки тому

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    • @qwinperry8861
      @qwinperry8861 3 роки тому

      I recommend you to a powerful man who can help you get your ex back immediately..

    • @qwinperry8861
      @qwinperry8861 3 роки тому

      Message him on WhatsApp..

  • @haley8591
    @haley8591 2 роки тому +4

    Thank you for telling me there is no time limit. I am a little over 2 months since the breakup and I have worried that time is ticking and I need to be better by now. But I still have loss of appetite at times and I am still struggling with insomnia and anxiety attacks that feel like physical pain in my chest and stomach and throat. I am improving but it’s not happening fast.
    And I only dated the fella for 3 months but it was more of a connection than I have had with guys I was with for years or months longer.

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 роки тому

      Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 роки тому

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      @ameliajones8727 2 роки тому

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  • @mackie3251
    @mackie3251 2 роки тому

    Your vulnerability is astounding! I needed this ❤️🙏🏾 Thank you, Thank you!

  • @LOAPrayerandMeditation
    @LOAPrayerandMeditation 3 роки тому +10

    He broke it off yesterday! I'm having a hard time with this. I cried in walmart and all down the road home. Can't control my emotions. This sucks!

    • @qwinperry8861
      @qwinperry8861 3 роки тому

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    • @qwinperry8861
      @qwinperry8861 3 роки тому

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      @qwinperry8861 3 роки тому

      Message him on WhatsApp..

    • @itoriathridgill1280
      @itoriathridgill1280 3 роки тому

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    • @ghanaianqueen7891
      @ghanaianqueen7891 3 роки тому +1

      How are you feeling now, ?

  • @mickey7217
    @mickey7217 4 роки тому +23

    We just broke up yesterday 😭😭, tell me UA-cam ain't stalking me 💀😂

    • @StyledbyKami
      @StyledbyKami  4 роки тому +3

      Im right on time then. hope it was helpful my love

    • @mickey7217
      @mickey7217 4 роки тому +1

      @@StyledbyKami of course, I love your videos! Thank you! 💕💕

    • @qwinperry8861
      @qwinperry8861 3 роки тому

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    • @qwinperry8861
      @qwinperry8861 3 роки тому

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      @qwinperry8861 3 роки тому

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  • @angeliqueerasmus165
    @angeliqueerasmus165 3 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing some healthy advise. Not just how to distract yourself and make it look like youre over it.

  • @alanna4148
    @alanna4148 2 роки тому

    You being so positive is really something i needed to hear . Thank you so much

  • @sisjones623
    @sisjones623 2 роки тому

    I feel so safe and understood here . This blessed me tremendously. ❤️😍

  • @NaturallyNae
    @NaturallyNae 3 роки тому +2

    I needed to come across this video. I will be okay!

  • @DecemberJay_
    @DecemberJay_ 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you! It’s only been a week for me. I needed to hear this

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 роки тому

      Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 роки тому

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      @ameliajones8727 2 роки тому

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    • @amazing5165
      @amazing5165 Рік тому

      That is me right now😢

  • @samuelerighawilliams
    @samuelerighawilliams 4 роки тому +4

    My girlfriend just broke up with and I attempted to take my life... we were in love but only to realize that she’s still stuck in the past... that hurts so bad... I truly really love her

    • @samuelerighawilliams
      @samuelerighawilliams 4 роки тому +1

      @@SmushyMcMushy yes it does so bad... it hurts really bad

    • @slangsjnnn
      @slangsjnnn 3 роки тому +2

      i hope you are doing well 🤍

    • @samuelerighawilliams
      @samuelerighawilliams 3 роки тому +2

      @@slangsjnnn well I’m tryna be okay

    • @lynnmorris8659
      @lynnmorris8659 3 роки тому +2

      @iBreed Official please believe when I tell you that NOTHING is serious enough to take your own life. You’ll smile again one of these days, and this rough patch will be a thing of the past for you. Be strong, but more importantly be kind to yourself.🙏🏿

    • @Ana-ly5ek
      @Ana-ly5ek 3 роки тому +1

      iBreed Official I know what you mean. I’m still in a post breakup depression and it’s been almost 2 years. I believe we can get out of it though. Stay strong

  • @Paigyxs
    @Paigyxs 4 роки тому +6

    You are so inspiring and this came at the perfect time. Thank you.

    • @StyledbyKami
      @StyledbyKami  4 роки тому

      Paige Swager I’m glad! Thank you sweetheart

    • @olivere263
      @olivere263 4 роки тому

      Only that came up that I agreed with was just moving on from that person

    • @qwinperry8861
      @qwinperry8861 3 роки тому

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    • @qwinperry8861
      @qwinperry8861 3 роки тому

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      @qwinperry8861 3 роки тому

      Message him on WhatsApp..

  • @CPR4THEBODYlivingaenrichedlife
    @CPR4THEBODYlivingaenrichedlife 2 роки тому +1

    Connection with those going through as support would be great.

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 роки тому

      Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 роки тому

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      @ameliajones8727 2 роки тому

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  • @alanna4148
    @alanna4148 2 роки тому

    Girl you are so beautiful ! You look like Beyonce but your own unique self ❤️ sending you lots of blessings for your future and journey. Thank you for your advice

  • @larryjoe8683
    @larryjoe8683 4 роки тому +2

    Each day is different this was good

    • @qwinperry8861
      @qwinperry8861 3 роки тому

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    • @qwinperry8861
      @qwinperry8861 3 роки тому

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      @qwinperry8861 3 роки тому

      Message him on WhatsApp..

  • @SZAliaBanks
    @SZAliaBanks 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for your transparency.

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 роки тому

      Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 роки тому

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      @ameliajones8727 2 роки тому

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  • @BetaoftheBass
    @BetaoftheBass 3 роки тому

    thank you for making this video, its exactly what i need

  • @TimewithLivi
    @TimewithLivi 3 роки тому +1

    You are speaking truth. Thank you❤️

  • @LeighaLeighton
    @LeighaLeighton 2 роки тому

    Thank you for this beautiful video ♥️

  • @shyannJ30
    @shyannJ30 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you for this 🙌🏽💕

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 роки тому

      Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 роки тому

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      @ameliajones8727 2 роки тому

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    • @shyannJ30
      @shyannJ30 2 роки тому

      @@ameliajones8727 repent for this is witchcraft.

  • @nduwimanafazil8989
    @nduwimanafazil8989 3 роки тому

    I think I'm gonna stick with this one.. the comments seems trusted

  • @kenditheglamour5396
    @kenditheglamour5396 2 роки тому +1

    This was helpful

  • @denispavlovic9815
    @denispavlovic9815 3 роки тому +2

    I was discovering myself 6 years and was ready for a relationship. What happened? I met a girl, that later on i found out is was a borderline. Desire for relationship made me ignore all the red flags and now...well, now im totally emotionally destroyed. Dont have a clue, how to get out of this, no life at all...im on survival mode only. 🙄

  • @05.nguyenminhang93
    @05.nguyenminhang93 3 роки тому

    yup, I also made a lot of progress using it

  • @princesstiara.7273
    @princesstiara.7273 3 роки тому +7

    After 9 years. I feel like what do I do next. feels like I'm downing

    • @babaloto8193
      @babaloto8193 3 роки тому +1

      hi friend I was in a situation like this when I see a powerful man who help me out...

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      @babaloto8193 3 роки тому

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      @babaloto8193 3 роки тому

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    • @itoriathridgill1280
      @itoriathridgill1280 3 роки тому

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    • @ashleybriel8786
      @ashleybriel8786 3 роки тому

      Any update ? How are you now

  • @jeromeroberts5616
    @jeromeroberts5616 2 роки тому +3

    I jus got into a break up and I’m jus upset we haven’t talked in 5 days and then I texted her to and it sounds like she is really done

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 роки тому

      Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 роки тому

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      @ameliajones8727 2 роки тому

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    • @lifetree4843
      @lifetree4843 2 роки тому

      That hurts real bad

  • @janaijames3097
    @janaijames3097 4 роки тому +1

    Thanks poo you me and mine and girl so needed this 😘

    • @qwinperry8861
      @qwinperry8861 3 роки тому

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    • @qwinperry8861
      @qwinperry8861 3 роки тому

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      @qwinperry8861 3 роки тому

      Message him on WhatsApp..

  • @Lilevieebaby
    @Lilevieebaby 3 роки тому +2

    Today me and my dude broke up because I did something unforgivable, and it hurts sooo much rn I have so much shame and I know he is gonna be happy without me and I’m gonna be here stuck crying wondering why I did this

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 роки тому

      Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 роки тому

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      @ameliajones8727 2 роки тому

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  • @TerryAB
    @TerryAB 4 роки тому +1

    Can I use these advice on my own self ? As something has been broken inside of me for a few years ?

    • @StyledbyKami
      @StyledbyKami  4 роки тому +3

      Absolutely. There is something you are still struggling with subconsciously that you need to heal from

    • @qwinperry8861
      @qwinperry8861 3 роки тому

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    • @qwinperry8861
      @qwinperry8861 3 роки тому

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      @qwinperry8861 3 роки тому

      Message him on WhatsApp..

  • @blue-vh8ji
    @blue-vh8ji 3 роки тому

    You are so beautiful ❤️

  • @11sunsign
    @11sunsign 3 роки тому

    💜

  • @firesign4297
    @firesign4297 3 роки тому +1

    🙏AMEN!!!🙏👏👏👏👍👍

  • @isaiahwilson3512
    @isaiahwilson3512 4 роки тому

    Bro how I feel !!!

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      @qwinperry8861 3 роки тому

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    • @qwinperry8861
      @qwinperry8861 3 роки тому

      I recommend you to a powerful man who can help you get your ex back immediately..

    • @qwinperry8861
      @qwinperry8861 3 роки тому

      Message him on WhatsApp..

  • @EmpressSelah
    @EmpressSelah 3 роки тому

    🦋💙🦋

  • @olivere263
    @olivere263 4 роки тому +1

    Booo👎👎👎 I said it already I’m not rebuilding anything

    • @StyledbyKami
      @StyledbyKami  4 роки тому +3

      Oliver E please explain lol

    • @qwinperry8861
      @qwinperry8861 3 роки тому

      +/"1/" (/"7/"5/"7/") 7/"0/"4-3/"5/"6/"4/''.....k

    • @qwinperry8861
      @qwinperry8861 3 роки тому

      I recommend you to a powerful man who can help you get your ex back immediately..

    • @qwinperry8861
      @qwinperry8861 3 роки тому

      Message him on WhatsApp..

  • @natalie8105
    @natalie8105 4 роки тому +18

    What if you don’t have a support system ?😌

    • @naypalmneo2824
      @naypalmneo2824 4 роки тому +1

      I had the same question 😆

    • @freddymaccheese
      @freddymaccheese 3 роки тому

      Well mine is blacktechfreud if anyone needs support. Wont intrude 🙏🏾

    • @qwinperry8861
      @qwinperry8861 3 роки тому

      +/"1/" (/"7/"5/"7/") 7/"0/"4-3/"5/"6/"4/''.....k

    • @qwinperry8861
      @qwinperry8861 3 роки тому

      I recommend you to a powerful man who can help you get your ex back immediately..

    • @qwinperry8861
      @qwinperry8861 3 роки тому

      Message him on WhatsApp..