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@@SParker1289 Hey that's so great to hear! I would be absolutely delighted to welcome you to our Patreon family. Do let me know if you have any questions, otherwise I will look forward so much to seeing you there. patreon.com/notdefining.
Really glad you found the inner strength to come through the other side of your anxiety and depression. It's so powerful how you are using your experiences to help others ❤
Mark! First of all, I am sorry for the abuse you suffered. I can tell it was making your emotional to talk about but MAN that's the vulnerability we need to see when it comes to sharing the truth of our stories. I can not thank you enough for opening up like this seeing as how this story resonates with me deeply. I too have put myself in some situations I am not proud of and I'm thankful to still be here today without any serious illnesses. With all that being said, I resonate deeply with the anxiety when it comes to sexual interactions with women. The ED, obsessive thoughts, everything. I am hoping to find out more about how you've overcome that or atleast manage it. I was personally hoping that sex with a man would just trigger something in my brain and I'd be OK. but as that opportunity is getting closer and closer I'm not out of my mind excited about it like I would be with a woman I am attracted to. Nevertheless, the anxiety part is something that gets me the most. Thank you for opening up like!
Hey thank you so much for your kind words. They mean a lot. I felt so alone when I went through this so just wanted to share it and hope people can connect. So your comment is very important to me. I totally get what you’re saying and want to let you know that I’m here for you to assist in what you’re going through. You may find this video of interest ua-cam.com/video/zKjgbh4m-v8/v-deo.html. I discuss the topic of testing out our sexuality. Let me know if it’s helpful. I provide dedicated support on patreon.com/notdefining to help you understand yourself and get to feeling great in yourself. I also respond to all comments here so I’d be happy to help if you’d like to tell me more. Or I can just be here as you go along and know that you have a community to come to and connect when you need it. Anyway I’m so glad you’re here. Thank you for watching and keep in touch. You’re not alone and I’m sending all my love to you. Mark x
I been lucky for the most part . I will say way back in 2008 all my coworkers where men that important. Anyway one day where on a break or lunch and basically they said we know your gay and it ok man we dont care and basically kind of wish they were because it would be easier then dealing with woman. Sadly at the time I denied it and laughed it off kind of wished I did not do that and kind seen if I was bi or gay .
Ah thanks so much for watching and for relating. It is extraordinarily powerful to be vulnerable and then to be validated and seen by my community. I love you so much and am deeply grateful.
To book a 1:1 coaching session with Mark, click here: www.notdefining.com/coaching-info.
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Oh boy! You about to get a Patron out of me. My first Patron subscription! Let's go with some coaching my man!
@@SParker1289 Hey that's so great to hear! I would be absolutely delighted to welcome you to our Patreon family. Do let me know if you have any questions, otherwise I will look forward so much to seeing you there. patreon.com/notdefining.
I'm so glad you lived to share your story /experiences. You're a positive Bi male role model I never had when I was growing up. Thank you Mark!
Really glad you found the inner strength to come through the other side of your anxiety and depression. It's so powerful how you are using your experiences to help others ❤
Thank you for being so courageous and vulnerable with your story, your beauty is powerful and I see you ❤
Thank you so much!
Mark!
First of all, I am sorry for the abuse you suffered. I can tell it was making your emotional to talk about but MAN that's the vulnerability we need to see when it comes to sharing the truth of our stories.
I can not thank you enough for opening up like this seeing as how this story resonates with me deeply.
I too have put myself in some situations I am not proud of and I'm thankful to still be here today without any serious illnesses.
With all that being said, I resonate deeply with the anxiety when it comes to sexual interactions with women. The ED, obsessive thoughts, everything.
I am hoping to find out more about how you've overcome that or atleast manage it. I was personally hoping that sex with a man would just trigger something in my brain and I'd be OK. but as that opportunity is getting closer and closer I'm not out of my mind excited about it like I would be with a woman I am attracted to.
Nevertheless, the anxiety part is something that gets me the most. Thank you for opening up like!
Hey thank you so much for your kind words. They mean a lot. I felt so alone when I went through this so just wanted to share it and hope people can connect. So your comment is very important to me.
I totally get what you’re saying and want to let you know that I’m here for you to assist in what you’re going through.
You may find this video of interest ua-cam.com/video/zKjgbh4m-v8/v-deo.html. I discuss the topic of testing out our sexuality. Let me know if it’s helpful.
I provide dedicated support on patreon.com/notdefining to help you understand yourself and get to feeling great in yourself.
I also respond to all comments here so I’d be happy to help if you’d like to tell me more. Or I can just be here as you go along and know that you have a community to come to and connect when you need it.
Anyway I’m so glad you’re here. Thank you for watching and keep in touch. You’re not alone and I’m sending all my love to you. Mark x
I been lucky for the most part . I will say way back in 2008 all my coworkers where men that important. Anyway one day where on a break or lunch and basically they said we know your gay and it ok man we dont care and basically kind of wish they were because it would be easier then dealing with woman. Sadly at the time I denied it and laughed it off kind of wished I did not do that and kind seen if I was bi or gay .
Hey thanks for sharing this. Gosh what an experience. I relate a lot as I had an experience that wasn’t so dissimilar. Hard isn’t it?
@@notdefining Yea not ever one has a good experience for sure.
❤ thank you for sharing, I am sorry you had to go through this! It means so much that you share your experience
Ah thanks so much for watching and for relating. It is extraordinarily powerful to be vulnerable and then to be validated and seen by my community. I love you so much and am deeply grateful.
Thank you so much for sharing. It’s beautiful that you have come through this wanting to help others. 🩷💜💙
Thank you so much!