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  • @SidebySidewithMalikaKhadijah
    @SidebySidewithMalikaKhadijah  3 роки тому +36

    What are some of your "mommy hacks?"

    • @chynahardeman2018
      @chynahardeman2018 3 роки тому +2

      Can you guys do a video on discipline for your children?

    • @hollygonzales9637
      @hollygonzales9637 3 роки тому +3

      My advice is just to live in the moment... They’re only this little for so long 🥺 Document everything and keep giving them so much love 💗

    • @JCP88889
      @JCP88889 3 роки тому +2

      To act like Im not there when they cry or say mom mom mommie... lol lol ... Just kidding one of the famous ultimate hacks I love being a mommy is just playing with your kids obsessively so they can have a great night of rest and so can Mommy😉💋🙆👈

    • @yolowllandmifamilia2371
      @yolowllandmifamilia2371 3 роки тому

      Giving my toddler projects /feats to conquer so I can get more time for myself on the back end.

    • @bandkidporsha370
      @bandkidporsha370 3 роки тому

      Hey twin

  • @nyajosephentertainment1229
    @nyajosephentertainment1229 3 роки тому +86

    Am I the only one who thinks they should include where they get their outfits from in the description coz they are just 🔥🔥🔥😍😍😍

  • @ashbootalks2991
    @ashbootalks2991 3 роки тому +39

    Malika mad props to you and your son's father for doing co-parenting the right way. It will show Ace that love comes in all forms and families can be unique but you can and will always have a positive and strong bond. Love this episode ❤ Congratulations on baby #4 Khadijah!

    • @10meme11
      @10meme11 3 роки тому +6

      Amen to THIS! I ADORE Malika's little family!😍

  • @shanitatravis3525
    @shanitatravis3525 3 роки тому +100

    I'm not a parent but I am Auntie. I'm DOING THE BEST THAT I CAN to be a fantastic Auntie❣❣❣❣

  • @coraliebourdeau2837
    @coraliebourdeau2837 3 роки тому +62

    This is so pure and amazing! Being a mom isn’t easy but you girls are killing it!

  • @bekki3112
    @bekki3112 3 роки тому +9

    I really needed to watch this tonight! My husband was diagnosed with Covid yesterday and is now quarantined upstairs in our room. I have been taking care of our two young kids, ages 1 & 4, plus the house, plus my hubby by myself while in quarantine and it has been TOUGH. I had a discouraging day today with the kids so I really needed some encouragement! Thank you!

    • @chellehighness
      @chellehighness 3 роки тому

      Aww I hope your husband feels better soon!

  • @nerissanicholas6623
    @nerissanicholas6623 3 роки тому +45

    You guys have a fantastic relationship and love the family dynamics. Keep on giving out amazing advice to your viewers.

  • @QueenYayYa
    @QueenYayYa 3 роки тому +15

    They are so captivating when they speak. I love how they convey their thoughts! I love Malika and Khadijah they are truly unique and beautiful 💛💛💛

  • @kinesis4868
    @kinesis4868 3 роки тому +10

    You guys just sitting being sisters 👯‍♀️ is such a joy to watch 🥰 I’m an only child but I have 2 daughters and I pray they have a relationship as they get older like both of you. It’s beautiful.

  • @worldtraveler6087
    @worldtraveler6087 3 роки тому +27

    As a soon to be foster mom, this information is great!❤️ love you sistas!

  • @kasmirsdaughter6211
    @kasmirsdaughter6211 3 роки тому +1

    “I’m doing the best that I can” I’m still processing these words. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @witneylopez6223
    @witneylopez6223 3 роки тому +15

    Just so admire you guys relationship.

  • @JourneyWithMencha
    @JourneyWithMencha 3 роки тому +12

    Why did I. Teary-eyed when I said “I’m doing the best that I can”🥺😂... Thanks ladies!

  • @hollygonzales9637
    @hollygonzales9637 3 роки тому +8

    I love Malika and Khadijah! ❤️❤️ Tuesdays are my favorite!! ✨

  • @sonitaluvfamily
    @sonitaluvfamily 3 роки тому +4

    I am a mother of 3 and my kids slept through the night from 5 to 7 weeks (11PM-5,5:30AM). Didn't even had to train my last one. To all the mommaa out there, just do the best you can. Especially around/during this pandemic.

  • @wandabellahiles
    @wandabellahiles 3 роки тому +18

    Solid advice, I hate to hear my baby cry too, it’s heart breaking

  • @natalieperez4982
    @natalieperez4982 3 роки тому +15

    Both of you are doing an awesome job with your kids🥰

  • @br3ttanym
    @br3ttanym 3 роки тому +3

    I love that... “I’m doing the best that I can”Taking it a step further and going to add... “and working on being better.”❤️

  • @daviddoan3129
    @daviddoan3129 Рік тому

    “ I’m doing the best that I can” I love that so much

  • @mrsb0215
    @mrsb0215 3 роки тому +32

    I can’t wait to be a mommy!! ❤️

  • @lilybrowning2335
    @lilybrowning2335 3 роки тому +2

    I have a reminder on my phone everyday when I wake up that says I can do hard things thinking about adding I’m doing the best I can and my best is enough 💕

  • @alexakearney
    @alexakearney 3 роки тому +6

    “I was dealt an Ace”. I love you. Great video today ❤️

  • @missdbanks25
    @missdbanks25 3 роки тому +2

    Being a mom of two boys, 14 and 6, is hard work. My oldest son wanted to live with his biological dad in TN while my youngest and I moved to New York for a better life. I wanted both of my children with me but I had to realize this is something he needed to do and I accepted that.

  • @allechant87
    @allechant87 3 роки тому +3

    👏🏽 That’s awesome you and Ace’s dad are in a healthy & loving Coparenting relationship, it’s beneficial towards the child. I would love to have that someday but for now I’m doing the best that I can as a single mom. Children are a blessing congrats to the both of you for being awesome moms.

  • @knl5330
    @knl5330 3 роки тому +1

    I love that you sing the name in the birthday song or hear how the name sounds when you yell it out loud! Those are really good ideas!! 🖤🤍

  • @michegoodman4747
    @michegoodman4747 3 роки тому

    Well spoken Malika regarding single/co-parenting. I have done the best that I can and know you will too.

  • @itsjustmeflo8684
    @itsjustmeflo8684 3 роки тому +1

    Ace looks just like his daddy. Malika I love how excited you sound speaking about mommy hood..

  • @alicias-a-list
    @alicias-a-list 3 роки тому

    I'm absolutely loving your episodes! You both are so wise beyond your years. Love that you have a strong faith and strong morals. Two beautiful and brilliant women! Love yas❤❤❤

  • @EmmytheBelle
    @EmmytheBelle 3 роки тому

    My baby girl is 5.5 months so I absolutely relate when it comes to figuring out your kid and doing the best you can. No book in the world is going to tell you how to raise YOUR child so it’s important to grant yourself a little grace on those very overwhelming days.

  • @aunty_ivy9368
    @aunty_ivy9368 3 роки тому

    Malika and khadija are such incredible mommys..😌😌💓💓 God continue to bless y'all and keep y'all family safe🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @georgearmistad5010
    @georgearmistad5010 3 роки тому +6

    I just love watching y'all videos

  • @catonne73
    @catonne73 3 роки тому

    Love love love these women and how transparent they are!!!👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿🤗🤗

  • @lhamilton6041
    @lhamilton6041 3 роки тому

    This was such a sweet episode ❤️ Thank you Malika & Khadijah for reminding us to take a moment to say “I’m doing the best I can” Congratulations on being a new mom and Auntie again. Peace and Blessings.

  • @claudettegreen1103
    @claudettegreen1103 3 роки тому

    Omg, I love these girls words can’t express so pure so sweet so unique so intelligent so polished, and yet so human God blessing 💚💚😍

  • @kimberlyroute5983
    @kimberlyroute5983 3 роки тому +3

    I really enjoy listening to your stories. Thank you for sharing my sweet twinz

  • @shelandaflowers516
    @shelandaflowers516 3 роки тому

    Thank you for the encouraging words. I'm doing the BEST that I can.

  • @dianetteluberisse4299
    @dianetteluberisse4299 3 роки тому +6

    “ I’m doing the best that I can “

  • @andriaspatterson2084
    @andriaspatterson2084 3 роки тому

    Thank You 😊 This was such a great episode and very encouraging. Blessings to you both and your beautiful families ♥️♥️♥️ By the way...I love all the names you both decided for your children A+👏🏾👏🏾

  • @jenabeagle6189
    @jenabeagle6189 3 роки тому +1

    Congrats on the new baby! I envy both of your happiness, I wish I looked and felt this way more. Your Great sisters to each other and I love the bond. All the blessings your way 💋

  • @naturallybeautiful6007
    @naturallybeautiful6007 3 роки тому

    As a mom myself I've learned to listen to my kids despite their ages.
    Everyone has a great idea

  • @samoorebp
    @samoorebp 3 роки тому

    Love your guy's realness it's addicting ♡ love how close you guys are also. ♡

  • @Life_with._Kamo
    @Life_with._Kamo 3 роки тому +4

    Love u guys sooo much ❤

  • @JCP88889
    @JCP88889 3 роки тому +9

    Congrats!!🎉🎉🎉 Babies 👶👶 to both ladies💏🙆🙆... Lol💋💋💋... And a happy new year...

  • @dianasimply8869
    @dianasimply8869 3 роки тому +1

    Love your show and also you're sister's relationship between the both of you.

  • @sheliad1265
    @sheliad1265 3 роки тому

    Big Sis is so humble

  • @katelynalbrecht9750
    @katelynalbrecht9750 3 роки тому

    Love you both so much your such wonderful mamas!! So excited for you and the new baby Khadijah! 😍

  • @pinkbunnie57
    @pinkbunnie57 3 роки тому +7

    🥰 I’m doing the best that I can. 🥰

  • @patriciamartin2501
    @patriciamartin2501 3 роки тому +8

    you girls are sweet. I'm a little older but it's good to see your story :-)

  • @ronid816
    @ronid816 3 роки тому

    I had my kids while I was in college in a studio apt , so I was super young .. I had to budget so we spent a lot of time on the floor playing and talking ,my son is now 28 and always say he loved how I just talked to them like people and did what they each loved to do I was a kid myself so spent I hours on the floor playing...it worked

  • @queenj8795
    @queenj8795 3 роки тому +4

    Great mommy advice... OMGOOSH Ace is brushing his tooth 💖 he's so big ...

  • @beverlyjones9699
    @beverlyjones9699 3 роки тому +1

    I loved this episode! I'm doing the best that I can!💖

  • @Yuuuuuummmtyu
    @Yuuuuuummmtyu 3 роки тому

    You guys are great; very inspirational as well positive women for other women who may have a similar story. Keep doing what you doing and if you can do videos more often: this world need positivity in families.

  • @aunty_ivy9368
    @aunty_ivy9368 3 роки тому

    Congratulations to Khadija on her 🤰🏻🍼 and baby no.4🙂😘.God bless her adorable family and keep y'all safe love you the Haqq Twins💓💓🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @beezinauci5398
    @beezinauci5398 3 роки тому

    this was so wholesome! I actually enjoyed this more then I thought I would

  • @Sunnie5561
    @Sunnie5561 3 роки тому

    It's beautiful and very mature for Malika to coparent the way she does. The swaddle is key! 1st time mom here with a 2month baby boy. #boymom

  • @sagalali9769
    @sagalali9769 3 роки тому +1

    Love you guys ❤️ Malika our sons are the same age. I appreciate your honesty when it comes to sleep training. It’s not easy but we are getting there!! Iam doing the best I can !!

  • @GirlfriendsintheCity
    @GirlfriendsintheCity 2 роки тому

    This was a beautiful episode!

  • @aunty_ivy9368
    @aunty_ivy9368 3 роки тому

    I'm doing the best that i can as an Auntie to my two beautiful nieces💓💓🙏🏻🙏🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻😌😌

  • @meemeepalmer4144
    @meemeepalmer4144 3 роки тому +1

    So happy for the both of u💞💞💞💞💞

  • @lanecrescent4161
    @lanecrescent4161 3 роки тому

    This is so interesting! Good advice 👍
    I love the way you're so respectful to each other. The K sisters should take notes.

  • @wandabellahiles
    @wandabellahiles 3 роки тому +10

    Can we have a nursery tour.

  • @tinadanzler5142
    @tinadanzler5142 3 роки тому +5

    I did the best that I can my son is 30 he has his own home and he's Bless and highly favor. Thank you jesus😍😍😍

  • @deeoakley516
    @deeoakley516 3 роки тому

    No long comment...really enjoy this series and this one was so endearing ❤️

  • @maddylaempress4478
    @maddylaempress4478 3 роки тому +3

    I love how Khadija never calls Bobby Jr step son..she really is a great woman and mother

    • @vn2455
      @vn2455 3 роки тому +2

      He’s not her son???

    • @maddylaempress4478
      @maddylaempress4478 3 роки тому +1

      @@vn2455 no he is not.hers are only Christian and Celine but she never ever says he is step son he loves him like he is his own and i love that about her

    • @QueenYayYa
      @QueenYayYa 3 роки тому

      @@maddylaempress4478 wow. I didn't know that❤❤❤

  • @margowademorton3371
    @margowademorton3371 3 роки тому +3

    Love it ! I’m doing the best I can..

  • @knl5330
    @knl5330 3 роки тому

    I color with my niece too and we also sign our names, the date, and where we were at the time (Ex. City, State)
    I got that from my Mom when I was little we would do crossword puzzles and sign, date, and location as well and we still do that to this day!! 😊❤

  • @kittyk3603
    @kittyk3603 3 роки тому

    I know you adults but you two are just so adorable! The sister/motherly love wonderful 👏

  • @laetitiannyoung6545
    @laetitiannyoung6545 3 роки тому +1

    You don’t have instructions on how to parent ! We do the best we can and instincts are so amazing. We are mammals and we know how to care for our Cubs. They are unique individuals and they are fun to watch! I can’t wait to be a ftm soon but I am single and in bar school so that’s challenging but I love it

  • @richreese1075
    @richreese1075 3 роки тому

    Wow, didn't know Khadijah was with child. Congrats, what a blessing. and Malika that white outfit is on point.

  • @aunty_ivy9368
    @aunty_ivy9368 3 роки тому +1

    I'm an incredible Auntie to my most two nieces in the world i adore and love em so much they are my life #AuntieForLife💞💞🙏🏻🙏🏻🤗🤗

    • @Nille0212
      @Nille0212 3 роки тому

      Same here. I have 2 nephews and 6 nieces. The boys are older and don't want to hang out with family like that anymore (unless my sister qorks their nerves and they want to escape to my house😂😂😂) but my nieces start calling and texting me on Tuesday morning asking if they are coming over for the weekend. Typically it's a yes, and even my friends know that my weekends are for them, so don't ask me to do anything outside of your wedding, baby shower or God forbid a funeral. Otherwise, my and my wild girls are busy.💗💗💗

  • @marcusgamble5909
    @marcusgamble5909 3 роки тому +2

    Love you guys wait u having another baby!!! I wow congratulations ladies!!!

    • @SidebySidewithMalikaKhadijah
      @SidebySidewithMalikaKhadijah  3 роки тому +1

      Khadijah is!

    • @marcusgamble5909
      @marcusgamble5909 3 роки тому

      @@SidebySidewithMalikaKhadijah Congratulations Khadijah... y’all literally great moms tho love y’all and y’all channel I looking forward to every episode please keep them rolling... I know you Malika going to continue being a great Auntie/Mommy!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥❤️❤️❤️❤️💯💯💯

  • @laporchiacogar8987
    @laporchiacogar8987 3 роки тому +18

    When my one year old daughter is bored or antsy, I sit her in an empty tub with paint and paint brushes and let her create masterpieces! It gives her creative space and me a mommy break!

    • @queenj8795
      @queenj8795 3 роки тому +3

      OMGOOSH! Great idea👍🏾

    • @EmmytheBelle
      @EmmytheBelle 3 роки тому +2

      Great idea!!

    • @knl5330
      @knl5330 3 роки тому +4

      Great Idea and clean up is easy because you just bath her in that same tub when she's done!

  • @maame6224
    @maame6224 3 роки тому

    I am not yet a mother but for sure, I will go with ur parenting skills and add my own. Love this video very interesting! And congrats on baby #4 Khadija! Love u guys! Blessing!🙏🙏

  • @TrendingTenz
    @TrendingTenz 3 роки тому

    Amazing video! thanks for sharing!!!

  • @mj3026
    @mj3026 3 роки тому

    Aww bless you guys I hope you all have a wonderful Christmas 🎄 🌲🎄🌲🎄

  • @samtaylor278
    @samtaylor278 3 роки тому +2

    Love u guys!!!!

  • @hollygonzales9637
    @hollygonzales9637 3 роки тому +2

    Ace is sooooo cute!!! 💗💕💗💕

  • @fateemajohnson825
    @fateemajohnson825 3 роки тому

    Great video and yeeesss I'M DOING THE BEST I CAN!

  • @DorothyTuash
    @DorothyTuash 3 роки тому

    You ladies are beautiful in and out. Love to see it! 💕💕💕

  • @ajohonly3721
    @ajohonly3721 3 роки тому +9

    Khadijah is giving me baby fever 🤒
    I have two and literally terrified to have a third

  • @sher-sasha9817
    @sher-sasha9817 3 роки тому

    I so enjoy this show!

  • @smon9698
    @smon9698 3 роки тому

    I’ve caught up on the videos. Love it!

  • @missafrica4092
    @missafrica4092 2 роки тому

    Great episode

  • @bevroncooksvegan9746
    @bevroncooksvegan9746 3 роки тому +2

    OMG! Malika you have double joints. Does Khadijah have it as well? I notice when you hold up your hands your thumbs just go backwards. That's really cute.

  • @meemeepalmer4144
    @meemeepalmer4144 3 роки тому

    Co parenting doesn’t always have to b hard,my ex n myself always make the kids our # 1 priorities n we made a pack that when we r around our kids we will only display n spread positive energy.kids r smarter than adults give them credit for they can sense tension n anger.that energy can transfer to the kid(s) n stress them out may have them thinking they may no longer have mom or maybe dad n their life if they they can’t get along.long term anxiety n stress can really wear heavy on kids🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @ms.crystal5888
    @ms.crystal5888 3 роки тому +2

    Good Afternoon Everyone!!!

    • @cathybt
      @cathybt 3 роки тому

      It's goodnight here,,, 9:11pm

    • @hollygonzales9637
      @hollygonzales9637 3 роки тому

      It’s good morning here 8:27AM

    • @mrsb0215
      @mrsb0215 3 роки тому

      Aww. Good afternoon 😃

  • @mswinkof06
    @mswinkof06 3 роки тому

    Hey ladies, I did the same thing with my crew names
    Lol
    I yelled their names out loud

  • @carlymarieduff
    @carlymarieduff 3 роки тому

    I love when you said you have to have discipline to implement discipline...I never thought of it in those terms before so thank you for sharing!! ❤️

  • @MelWJ1974
    @MelWJ1974 3 роки тому

    Advice: Don't forget to check your child's car seat harness.
    #Love this Sisterly Love 💕💕

  • @suheybamohamed6913
    @suheybamohamed6913 3 роки тому

    I love Malika and Khadijah they’re so pretty Manshallah

  • @beyoncabirts1881
    @beyoncabirts1881 3 роки тому +2

    Her daughter name is Kapri! It’s on their Instagram

  • @karaniqueskorner
    @karaniqueskorner 3 роки тому

    Biggest thing I could say is let them learn to use a pacifier!🤣 my son was the only one who willingly took one from birth but it made life so much easier. My 4 girls didn’t and idk.. it just seems easier to use one lol and I’m about to make sure this baby I’m having soon does!
    Yes. You’ll definitely get an idea of their sleep schedule from within the womb and right now.. I feel like a night owl is what this baby is as well. But I guess knowing this is our last helps me push through the idea of being drained during the day with my other kids lol but low key.. I wanna cry too lol 🤣🤣🤣
    And I can’t agree more, if they sleep better in the bed, let them. Get your rest by making them comfortable where they want to be!
    I also love slow mornings lol I try to avoid getting out of bed as long as possible!
    I don’t get business done done because these days I sleep when they sleep🥴🤣 I’m always tired.😭🤣
    This is my biggest gap I’ve had in kids (2 1/2 years🤣 and I have 5 kids already) and I feel so anxious like I haven’t had a baby in sooo many years.💀

  • @ladyqngomane
    @ladyqngomane 3 роки тому

    I am pregnant with my 2nd boy, all of a sudden anxiety kicked in, I feel like I am scared to meet him or his personality because my 1st son is so sweet & considerate I am wondering how is he going to be. 😒

  • @farhiyasaid9174
    @farhiyasaid9174 3 роки тому +1

    I just love you amazing twins

  • @wandabellahiles
    @wandabellahiles 3 роки тому +4

    I’m doing the best that I can.

  • @victoriab241
    @victoriab241 3 роки тому +1

    This is an old school hack that was a blessing for me - don’t knock it until you try it
    Once your infant is healthy and reaches 12 lbs and you have a great schedule - you know what this hack is 100 % guaranteed I should patent it and sell it lol ok after their supper milk feeding no more milk until morning breakfast milk - what do you feed the baby you ask ?- initially the baby will wake up and be fussy but you introduce water yes ! plain distilled water no fluoride please- you start with a soft spoon feeding the water then a little in the bottle do not choke baby pls - this is the hack Caribbean moms have known-after abt a week - no baby waking up at night- the other benefit of this your child grows up loving water there it is sorry Caribbean moms I gave away the secret 🤐

  • @Niqueway1981
    @Niqueway1981 3 роки тому

    great video

  • @Quran114vibes
    @Quran114vibes 3 роки тому

    i love them

  • @JordaneYoubi
    @JordaneYoubi 3 роки тому

    I can't wait to be a momie top. I think that is the best feeling in the world but I'm really difficult with myself. I want him to give him all the best. And I'm afraid so ...

  • @brittanymorrow3727
    @brittanymorrow3727 3 роки тому

    question me and my sons father are not together after being together for 10 years my question is would you still let your sons father take your son with him if the father wasnt doing his part because im taken care of our son by myself i feel that my sons dad needs to start doin his part and only get visitation because he makes no type of effort to come to his son