To act like Im not there when they cry or say mom mom mommie... lol lol ... Just kidding one of the famous ultimate hacks I love being a mommy is just playing with your kids obsessively so they can have a great night of rest and so can Mommy😉💋🙆👈
Malika mad props to you and your son's father for doing co-parenting the right way. It will show Ace that love comes in all forms and families can be unique but you can and will always have a positive and strong bond. Love this episode ❤ Congratulations on baby #4 Khadijah!
I really needed to watch this tonight! My husband was diagnosed with Covid yesterday and is now quarantined upstairs in our room. I have been taking care of our two young kids, ages 1 & 4, plus the house, plus my hubby by myself while in quarantine and it has been TOUGH. I had a discouraging day today with the kids so I really needed some encouragement! Thank you!
You guys just sitting being sisters 👯♀️ is such a joy to watch 🥰 I’m an only child but I have 2 daughters and I pray they have a relationship as they get older like both of you. It’s beautiful.
I am a mother of 3 and my kids slept through the night from 5 to 7 weeks (11PM-5,5:30AM). Didn't even had to train my last one. To all the mommaa out there, just do the best you can. Especially around/during this pandemic.
I have a reminder on my phone everyday when I wake up that says I can do hard things thinking about adding I’m doing the best I can and my best is enough 💕
Being a mom of two boys, 14 and 6, is hard work. My oldest son wanted to live with his biological dad in TN while my youngest and I moved to New York for a better life. I wanted both of my children with me but I had to realize this is something he needed to do and I accepted that.
👏🏽 That’s awesome you and Ace’s dad are in a healthy & loving Coparenting relationship, it’s beneficial towards the child. I would love to have that someday but for now I’m doing the best that I can as a single mom. Children are a blessing congrats to the both of you for being awesome moms.
I'm absolutely loving your episodes! You both are so wise beyond your years. Love that you have a strong faith and strong morals. Two beautiful and brilliant women! Love yas❤❤❤
My baby girl is 5.5 months so I absolutely relate when it comes to figuring out your kid and doing the best you can. No book in the world is going to tell you how to raise YOUR child so it’s important to grant yourself a little grace on those very overwhelming days.
This was such a sweet episode ❤️ Thank you Malika & Khadijah for reminding us to take a moment to say “I’m doing the best I can” Congratulations on being a new mom and Auntie again. Peace and Blessings.
Thank You 😊 This was such a great episode and very encouraging. Blessings to you both and your beautiful families ♥️♥️♥️ By the way...I love all the names you both decided for your children A+👏🏾👏🏾
Congrats on the new baby! I envy both of your happiness, I wish I looked and felt this way more. Your Great sisters to each other and I love the bond. All the blessings your way 💋
I had my kids while I was in college in a studio apt , so I was super young .. I had to budget so we spent a lot of time on the floor playing and talking ,my son is now 28 and always say he loved how I just talked to them like people and did what they each loved to do I was a kid myself so spent I hours on the floor playing...it worked
You guys are great; very inspirational as well positive women for other women who may have a similar story. Keep doing what you doing and if you can do videos more often: this world need positivity in families.
Love you guys ❤️ Malika our sons are the same age. I appreciate your honesty when it comes to sleep training. It’s not easy but we are getting there!! Iam doing the best I can !!
@@vn2455 no he is not.hers are only Christian and Celine but she never ever says he is step son he loves him like he is his own and i love that about her
I color with my niece too and we also sign our names, the date, and where we were at the time (Ex. City, State) I got that from my Mom when I was little we would do crossword puzzles and sign, date, and location as well and we still do that to this day!! 😊❤
You don’t have instructions on how to parent ! We do the best we can and instincts are so amazing. We are mammals and we know how to care for our Cubs. They are unique individuals and they are fun to watch! I can’t wait to be a ftm soon but I am single and in bar school so that’s challenging but I love it
Same here. I have 2 nephews and 6 nieces. The boys are older and don't want to hang out with family like that anymore (unless my sister qorks their nerves and they want to escape to my house😂😂😂) but my nieces start calling and texting me on Tuesday morning asking if they are coming over for the weekend. Typically it's a yes, and even my friends know that my weekends are for them, so don't ask me to do anything outside of your wedding, baby shower or God forbid a funeral. Otherwise, my and my wild girls are busy.💗💗💗
@@SidebySidewithMalikaKhadijah Congratulations Khadijah... y’all literally great moms tho love y’all and y’all channel I looking forward to every episode please keep them rolling... I know you Malika going to continue being a great Auntie/Mommy!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥❤️❤️❤️❤️💯💯💯
When my one year old daughter is bored or antsy, I sit her in an empty tub with paint and paint brushes and let her create masterpieces! It gives her creative space and me a mommy break!
I am not yet a mother but for sure, I will go with ur parenting skills and add my own. Love this video very interesting! And congrats on baby #4 Khadija! Love u guys! Blessing!🙏🙏
OMG! Malika you have double joints. Does Khadijah have it as well? I notice when you hold up your hands your thumbs just go backwards. That's really cute.
Co parenting doesn’t always have to b hard,my ex n myself always make the kids our # 1 priorities n we made a pack that when we r around our kids we will only display n spread positive energy.kids r smarter than adults give them credit for they can sense tension n anger.that energy can transfer to the kid(s) n stress them out may have them thinking they may no longer have mom or maybe dad n their life if they they can’t get along.long term anxiety n stress can really wear heavy on kids🤷🏽♀️
Biggest thing I could say is let them learn to use a pacifier!🤣 my son was the only one who willingly took one from birth but it made life so much easier. My 4 girls didn’t and idk.. it just seems easier to use one lol and I’m about to make sure this baby I’m having soon does! Yes. You’ll definitely get an idea of their sleep schedule from within the womb and right now.. I feel like a night owl is what this baby is as well. But I guess knowing this is our last helps me push through the idea of being drained during the day with my other kids lol but low key.. I wanna cry too lol 🤣🤣🤣 And I can’t agree more, if they sleep better in the bed, let them. Get your rest by making them comfortable where they want to be! I also love slow mornings lol I try to avoid getting out of bed as long as possible! I don’t get business done done because these days I sleep when they sleep🥴🤣 I’m always tired.😭🤣 This is my biggest gap I’ve had in kids (2 1/2 years🤣 and I have 5 kids already) and I feel so anxious like I haven’t had a baby in sooo many years.💀
I am pregnant with my 2nd boy, all of a sudden anxiety kicked in, I feel like I am scared to meet him or his personality because my 1st son is so sweet & considerate I am wondering how is he going to be. 😒
This is an old school hack that was a blessing for me - don’t knock it until you try it Once your infant is healthy and reaches 12 lbs and you have a great schedule - you know what this hack is 100 % guaranteed I should patent it and sell it lol ok after their supper milk feeding no more milk until morning breakfast milk - what do you feed the baby you ask ?- initially the baby will wake up and be fussy but you introduce water yes ! plain distilled water no fluoride please- you start with a soft spoon feeding the water then a little in the bottle do not choke baby pls - this is the hack Caribbean moms have known-after abt a week - no baby waking up at night- the other benefit of this your child grows up loving water there it is sorry Caribbean moms I gave away the secret 🤐
I can't wait to be a momie top. I think that is the best feeling in the world but I'm really difficult with myself. I want him to give him all the best. And I'm afraid so ...
question me and my sons father are not together after being together for 10 years my question is would you still let your sons father take your son with him if the father wasnt doing his part because im taken care of our son by myself i feel that my sons dad needs to start doin his part and only get visitation because he makes no type of effort to come to his son
What are some of your "mommy hacks?"
Can you guys do a video on discipline for your children?
My advice is just to live in the moment... They’re only this little for so long 🥺 Document everything and keep giving them so much love 💗
To act like Im not there when they cry or say mom mom mommie... lol lol ... Just kidding one of the famous ultimate hacks I love being a mommy is just playing with your kids obsessively so they can have a great night of rest and so can Mommy😉💋🙆👈
Giving my toddler projects /feats to conquer so I can get more time for myself on the back end.
Hey twin
Am I the only one who thinks they should include where they get their outfits from in the description coz they are just 🔥🔥🔥😍😍😍
ABSOLUTELY!!!!
FACTS!
Malika mad props to you and your son's father for doing co-parenting the right way. It will show Ace that love comes in all forms and families can be unique but you can and will always have a positive and strong bond. Love this episode ❤ Congratulations on baby #4 Khadijah!
Amen to THIS! I ADORE Malika's little family!😍
I'm not a parent but I am Auntie. I'm DOING THE BEST THAT I CAN to be a fantastic Auntie❣❣❣❣
girllll im an auntie toooooo... power to the auntiesss
Same here on the Auntie tip...💕💕
Same here aunties are the best
Yes you are!
We Aunties ROCK!
This is so pure and amazing! Being a mom isn’t easy but you girls are killing it!
Thank you! Same to all the moms out there ❤️
I really needed to watch this tonight! My husband was diagnosed with Covid yesterday and is now quarantined upstairs in our room. I have been taking care of our two young kids, ages 1 & 4, plus the house, plus my hubby by myself while in quarantine and it has been TOUGH. I had a discouraging day today with the kids so I really needed some encouragement! Thank you!
Aww I hope your husband feels better soon!
You guys have a fantastic relationship and love the family dynamics. Keep on giving out amazing advice to your viewers.
Thank you!
They are so captivating when they speak. I love how they convey their thoughts! I love Malika and Khadijah they are truly unique and beautiful 💛💛💛
You guys just sitting being sisters 👯♀️ is such a joy to watch 🥰 I’m an only child but I have 2 daughters and I pray they have a relationship as they get older like both of you. It’s beautiful.
As a soon to be foster mom, this information is great!❤️ love you sistas!
Excited for you ❤️
“I’m doing the best that I can” I’m still processing these words. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Just so admire you guys relationship.
Why did I. Teary-eyed when I said “I’m doing the best that I can”🥺😂... Thanks ladies!
You're doing the best you can ❤️
I love Malika and Khadijah! ❤️❤️ Tuesdays are my favorite!! ✨
🥰
I am a mother of 3 and my kids slept through the night from 5 to 7 weeks (11PM-5,5:30AM). Didn't even had to train my last one. To all the mommaa out there, just do the best you can. Especially around/during this pandemic.
Solid advice, I hate to hear my baby cry too, it’s heart breaking
Both of you are doing an awesome job with your kids🥰
I love that... “I’m doing the best that I can”Taking it a step further and going to add... “and working on being better.”❤️
“ I’m doing the best that I can” I love that so much
I can’t wait to be a mommy!! ❤️
❤️❤️❤️
I have a reminder on my phone everyday when I wake up that says I can do hard things thinking about adding I’m doing the best I can and my best is enough 💕
“I was dealt an Ace”. I love you. Great video today ❤️
Being a mom of two boys, 14 and 6, is hard work. My oldest son wanted to live with his biological dad in TN while my youngest and I moved to New York for a better life. I wanted both of my children with me but I had to realize this is something he needed to do and I accepted that.
👏🏽 That’s awesome you and Ace’s dad are in a healthy & loving Coparenting relationship, it’s beneficial towards the child. I would love to have that someday but for now I’m doing the best that I can as a single mom. Children are a blessing congrats to the both of you for being awesome moms.
I love that you sing the name in the birthday song or hear how the name sounds when you yell it out loud! Those are really good ideas!! 🖤🤍
Well spoken Malika regarding single/co-parenting. I have done the best that I can and know you will too.
Ace looks just like his daddy. Malika I love how excited you sound speaking about mommy hood..
I'm absolutely loving your episodes! You both are so wise beyond your years. Love that you have a strong faith and strong morals. Two beautiful and brilliant women! Love yas❤❤❤
My baby girl is 5.5 months so I absolutely relate when it comes to figuring out your kid and doing the best you can. No book in the world is going to tell you how to raise YOUR child so it’s important to grant yourself a little grace on those very overwhelming days.
Malika and khadija are such incredible mommys..😌😌💓💓 God continue to bless y'all and keep y'all family safe🙏🏻🙏🏻
I just love watching y'all videos
Love love love these women and how transparent they are!!!👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿🤗🤗
This was such a sweet episode ❤️ Thank you Malika & Khadijah for reminding us to take a moment to say “I’m doing the best I can” Congratulations on being a new mom and Auntie again. Peace and Blessings.
Omg, I love these girls words can’t express so pure so sweet so unique so intelligent so polished, and yet so human God blessing 💚💚😍
I really enjoy listening to your stories. Thank you for sharing my sweet twinz
Thank you for the encouraging words. I'm doing the BEST that I can.
“ I’m doing the best that I can “
Thank You 😊 This was such a great episode and very encouraging. Blessings to you both and your beautiful families ♥️♥️♥️ By the way...I love all the names you both decided for your children A+👏🏾👏🏾
Congrats on the new baby! I envy both of your happiness, I wish I looked and felt this way more. Your Great sisters to each other and I love the bond. All the blessings your way 💋
As a mom myself I've learned to listen to my kids despite their ages.
Everyone has a great idea
Love your guy's realness it's addicting ♡ love how close you guys are also. ♡
Love u guys sooo much ❤
Congrats!!🎉🎉🎉 Babies 👶👶 to both ladies💏🙆🙆... Lol💋💋💋... And a happy new year...
Love your show and also you're sister's relationship between the both of you.
Big Sis is so humble
Love you both so much your such wonderful mamas!! So excited for you and the new baby Khadijah! 😍
🥰 I’m doing the best that I can. 🥰
❤️
you girls are sweet. I'm a little older but it's good to see your story :-)
I had my kids while I was in college in a studio apt , so I was super young .. I had to budget so we spent a lot of time on the floor playing and talking ,my son is now 28 and always say he loved how I just talked to them like people and did what they each loved to do I was a kid myself so spent I hours on the floor playing...it worked
Great mommy advice... OMGOOSH Ace is brushing his tooth 💖 he's so big ...
I loved this episode! I'm doing the best that I can!💖
You guys are great; very inspirational as well positive women for other women who may have a similar story. Keep doing what you doing and if you can do videos more often: this world need positivity in families.
Congratulations to Khadija on her 🤰🏻🍼 and baby no.4🙂😘.God bless her adorable family and keep y'all safe love you the Haqq Twins💓💓🙏🏻🙏🏻
this was so wholesome! I actually enjoyed this more then I thought I would
It's beautiful and very mature for Malika to coparent the way she does. The swaddle is key! 1st time mom here with a 2month baby boy. #boymom
Love you guys ❤️ Malika our sons are the same age. I appreciate your honesty when it comes to sleep training. It’s not easy but we are getting there!! Iam doing the best I can !!
Yes! We're are doing the best we can ❤️
This was a beautiful episode!
I'm doing the best that i can as an Auntie to my two beautiful nieces💓💓🙏🏻🙏🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻😌😌
So happy for the both of u💞💞💞💞💞
This is so interesting! Good advice 👍
I love the way you're so respectful to each other. The K sisters should take notes.
Can we have a nursery tour.
I did the best that I can my son is 30 he has his own home and he's Bless and highly favor. Thank you jesus😍😍😍
No long comment...really enjoy this series and this one was so endearing ❤️
I love how Khadija never calls Bobby Jr step son..she really is a great woman and mother
He’s not her son???
@@vn2455 no he is not.hers are only Christian and Celine but she never ever says he is step son he loves him like he is his own and i love that about her
@@maddylaempress4478 wow. I didn't know that❤❤❤
Love it ! I’m doing the best I can..
I color with my niece too and we also sign our names, the date, and where we were at the time (Ex. City, State)
I got that from my Mom when I was little we would do crossword puzzles and sign, date, and location as well and we still do that to this day!! 😊❤
I know you adults but you two are just so adorable! The sister/motherly love wonderful 👏
You don’t have instructions on how to parent ! We do the best we can and instincts are so amazing. We are mammals and we know how to care for our Cubs. They are unique individuals and they are fun to watch! I can’t wait to be a ftm soon but I am single and in bar school so that’s challenging but I love it
Wow, didn't know Khadijah was with child. Congrats, what a blessing. and Malika that white outfit is on point.
I'm an incredible Auntie to my most two nieces in the world i adore and love em so much they are my life #AuntieForLife💞💞🙏🏻🙏🏻🤗🤗
Same here. I have 2 nephews and 6 nieces. The boys are older and don't want to hang out with family like that anymore (unless my sister qorks their nerves and they want to escape to my house😂😂😂) but my nieces start calling and texting me on Tuesday morning asking if they are coming over for the weekend. Typically it's a yes, and even my friends know that my weekends are for them, so don't ask me to do anything outside of your wedding, baby shower or God forbid a funeral. Otherwise, my and my wild girls are busy.💗💗💗
Love you guys wait u having another baby!!! I wow congratulations ladies!!!
Khadijah is!
@@SidebySidewithMalikaKhadijah Congratulations Khadijah... y’all literally great moms tho love y’all and y’all channel I looking forward to every episode please keep them rolling... I know you Malika going to continue being a great Auntie/Mommy!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥❤️❤️❤️❤️💯💯💯
When my one year old daughter is bored or antsy, I sit her in an empty tub with paint and paint brushes and let her create masterpieces! It gives her creative space and me a mommy break!
OMGOOSH! Great idea👍🏾
Great idea!!
Great Idea and clean up is easy because you just bath her in that same tub when she's done!
I am not yet a mother but for sure, I will go with ur parenting skills and add my own. Love this video very interesting! And congrats on baby #4 Khadija! Love u guys! Blessing!🙏🙏
Amazing video! thanks for sharing!!!
Aww bless you guys I hope you all have a wonderful Christmas 🎄 🌲🎄🌲🎄
You too!
Love u guys!!!!
Ace is sooooo cute!!! 💗💕💗💕
Great video and yeeesss I'M DOING THE BEST I CAN!
You ladies are beautiful in and out. Love to see it! 💕💕💕
Khadijah is giving me baby fever 🤒
I have two and literally terrified to have a third
Same🤯
The more the merrier 😉
@@SidebySidewithMalikaKhadijah
🤣💕
I so enjoy this show!
I’ve caught up on the videos. Love it!
Great episode
OMG! Malika you have double joints. Does Khadijah have it as well? I notice when you hold up your hands your thumbs just go backwards. That's really cute.
Omg I have the same thumbs as Malika 😂
Co parenting doesn’t always have to b hard,my ex n myself always make the kids our # 1 priorities n we made a pack that when we r around our kids we will only display n spread positive energy.kids r smarter than adults give them credit for they can sense tension n anger.that energy can transfer to the kid(s) n stress them out may have them thinking they may no longer have mom or maybe dad n their life if they they can’t get along.long term anxiety n stress can really wear heavy on kids🤷🏽♀️
Good Afternoon Everyone!!!
It's goodnight here,,, 9:11pm
It’s good morning here 8:27AM
Aww. Good afternoon 😃
Hey ladies, I did the same thing with my crew names
Lol
I yelled their names out loud
I love when you said you have to have discipline to implement discipline...I never thought of it in those terms before so thank you for sharing!! ❤️
Advice: Don't forget to check your child's car seat harness.
#Love this Sisterly Love 💕💕
I love Malika and Khadijah they’re so pretty Manshallah
Her daughter name is Kapri! It’s on their Instagram
Biggest thing I could say is let them learn to use a pacifier!🤣 my son was the only one who willingly took one from birth but it made life so much easier. My 4 girls didn’t and idk.. it just seems easier to use one lol and I’m about to make sure this baby I’m having soon does!
Yes. You’ll definitely get an idea of their sleep schedule from within the womb and right now.. I feel like a night owl is what this baby is as well. But I guess knowing this is our last helps me push through the idea of being drained during the day with my other kids lol but low key.. I wanna cry too lol 🤣🤣🤣
And I can’t agree more, if they sleep better in the bed, let them. Get your rest by making them comfortable where they want to be!
I also love slow mornings lol I try to avoid getting out of bed as long as possible!
I don’t get business done done because these days I sleep when they sleep🥴🤣 I’m always tired.😭🤣
This is my biggest gap I’ve had in kids (2 1/2 years🤣 and I have 5 kids already) and I feel so anxious like I haven’t had a baby in sooo many years.💀
I am pregnant with my 2nd boy, all of a sudden anxiety kicked in, I feel like I am scared to meet him or his personality because my 1st son is so sweet & considerate I am wondering how is he going to be. 😒
I just love you amazing twins
I’m doing the best that I can.
Yes you are!
This is an old school hack that was a blessing for me - don’t knock it until you try it
Once your infant is healthy and reaches 12 lbs and you have a great schedule - you know what this hack is 100 % guaranteed I should patent it and sell it lol ok after their supper milk feeding no more milk until morning breakfast milk - what do you feed the baby you ask ?- initially the baby will wake up and be fussy but you introduce water yes ! plain distilled water no fluoride please- you start with a soft spoon feeding the water then a little in the bottle do not choke baby pls - this is the hack Caribbean moms have known-after abt a week - no baby waking up at night- the other benefit of this your child grows up loving water there it is sorry Caribbean moms I gave away the secret 🤐
great video
i love them
I can't wait to be a momie top. I think that is the best feeling in the world but I'm really difficult with myself. I want him to give him all the best. And I'm afraid so ...
question me and my sons father are not together after being together for 10 years my question is would you still let your sons father take your son with him if the father wasnt doing his part because im taken care of our son by myself i feel that my sons dad needs to start doin his part and only get visitation because he makes no type of effort to come to his son