i feel u but for me i never hit the pretty stage, now i often wonder “am i pretty enough for that person to talk to me” “am i good looking enough to be their friend?”. So many situations I don’t put myself in because I know i’m ugly :((
Trust me you’re not ugly not even at all, even if i never met you i promise you are beautiful. Its just the society dumb standard that was constructed! The only way i hit the “pretty stage” was just simply trying to heal myself and rather trying to fot the standard i try to fit my own standard if that make sense? Just rather trying to be “pretty” calling myself ugly growing up to turning to my mirror to tell myself im beautiful. Its you and yourself you need to convince no one else 🩷 you’re beautiful and i known how you felt
As i mixed asian girl thats lived in Asia and in england ive always rlly struggled to feel pretty because even tho i am im never the right kind of pretty to people because im quite mixed. And when im in japan people think im really pretty but in a fetishise way and when im in china they just see me as a foreigner when im in Korea they think im super pretty but my skin should be whiter and in england idk bc ive been bullied when i lived in london but the few that liked me did bc they had an Asian girl fetish, and in France and Switzerland people think im pretty but just straight up dont like me bc i cant speak french and all my white family can. Its so confusing growing up like this because your pretty but you can never ever fit in a box which ive grown to like abit (im 13 now btw) also im your 100th subscriber!!!
I totally understand! Im not mix bur I do experience within asian cultural especially as a vietnamese there is beauty standard within us! My family will often comment how my skin is not light enough, my nose or how im not exactly thin to standard. I often get imposter syndrome when being told im beautiful. And i feel like “am i?” Due to the standard i been told. Im so sorry as a 13 year old you have to experience this! I cant say it would get better as someone whos 23 now 😭 but at some point you will find the beauty standard to YOU only not in everyone else expectation. You are the person who can give yourself the most uplifting, confidence, and compliments that matters SO much more then anyone else. To that will slowly become less confusing because its you yourself that gives you that confidence 🩷🩷 AND AAAH im so happy you are my 100th subscriber!! Im so happy, welcome to my awkward vlogging channel lolol 🫶🫶
@ tysm, its nice to know there are people that struggle with similar issues regarding race and beauty standard, i love your vlogs there really comforting and your editing style is so amazing!
@ 😚😚 THANK YOU im so happy you enjoy my vlog! Im a bit rusty on my video but im happy it brings you joy! Currently trying to figure out when to post more (if you dont know) capcut an editing app i use to edit my vlog is now banned in my country 😭😭😭 so im going to try to figure out to edit and post regularly once i figure out a new editing program. But stay tune! 🙂↔️🫶🫶🫶
Thank you 🩷🩷 you are too even if i never met you :) this video is just basically trying to show everyone is beautiful and the construct “standard” is more harmful even for children.
i feel u but for me i never hit the pretty stage, now i often wonder “am i pretty enough for that person to talk to me” “am i good looking enough to be their friend?”. So many situations I don’t put myself in because I know i’m ugly :((
what race are you ?
Trust me you’re not ugly not even at all, even if i never met you i promise you are beautiful. Its just the society dumb standard that was constructed! The only way i hit the “pretty stage” was just simply trying to heal myself and rather trying to fot the standard i try to fit my own standard if that make sense? Just rather trying to be “pretty” calling myself ugly growing up to turning to my mirror to tell myself im beautiful. Its you and yourself you need to convince no one else 🩷 you’re beautiful and i known how you felt
As i mixed asian girl thats lived in Asia and in england ive always rlly struggled to feel pretty because even tho i am im never the right kind of pretty to people because im quite mixed. And when im in japan people think im really pretty but in a fetishise way and when im in china they just see me as a foreigner when im in Korea they think im super pretty but my skin should be whiter and in england idk bc ive been bullied when i lived in london but the few that liked me did bc they had an Asian girl fetish, and in France and Switzerland people think im pretty but just straight up dont like me bc i cant speak french and all my white family can. Its so confusing growing up like this because your pretty but you can never ever fit in a box which ive grown to like abit (im 13 now btw) also im your 100th subscriber!!!
I totally understand! Im not mix bur I do experience within asian cultural especially as a vietnamese there is beauty standard within us! My family will often comment how my skin is not light enough, my nose or how im not exactly thin to standard. I often get imposter syndrome when being told im beautiful. And i feel like “am i?” Due to the standard i been told. Im so sorry as a 13 year old you have to experience this! I cant say it would get better as someone whos 23 now 😭 but at some point you will find the beauty standard to YOU only not in everyone else expectation. You are the person who can give yourself the most uplifting, confidence, and compliments that matters SO much more then anyone else. To that will slowly become less confusing because its you yourself that gives you that confidence 🩷🩷 AND AAAH im so happy you are my 100th subscriber!! Im so happy, welcome to my awkward vlogging channel lolol 🫶🫶
@ tysm, its nice to know there are people that struggle with similar issues regarding race and beauty standard, i love your vlogs there really comforting and your editing style is so amazing!
@ 😚😚 THANK YOU im so happy you enjoy my vlog! Im a bit rusty on my video but im happy it brings you joy! Currently trying to figure out when to post more (if you dont know) capcut an editing app i use to edit my vlog is now banned in my country 😭😭😭 so im going to try to figure out to edit and post regularly once i figure out a new editing program. But stay tune! 🙂↔️🫶🫶🫶
People will try to judge on based on the cover,but it doesn’t matter, you’re beautiful and just as worthy as everyone else ❤
Thank you 🩷🩷 you are too even if i never met you :) this video is just basically trying to show everyone is beautiful and the construct “standard” is more harmful even for children.