My Prolapse Surgery Story - Prolapse Surgery Recovery Tips, Mesh and More
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- Опубліковано 23 лип 2024
- ⭐️ Jessica Valant, physical therapist and Pilates teacher, talks you through her own prolapse surgery story, including recovery tips, the use of mesh and how to know if you need surgery. Jessica's own prolapse surgery success story involves the repair of a bladder prolapse, rectal prolapse and uterine prolapse, resulting in a hysterectomy. This video will help give you hope and answer your questions about prolapse surgery. ⭐️
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I’m stage 2 but gyn scheduled me for surgery. I can touch my bladder and I have to splint to poop. I also have to have another to tighten vagina and possible take part of cervix they left at hysterectomy and then lap to see if I have endometriosis again , uterus was removed 2017 and they see it on ct scan dr thinks it’s endo
You're amazing for addressing this, thank you!!
Years ago a gyn surgeon warned against mesh surgery. ( I have grade 3 cystocele.) I tried several pessaries that weren't very effective. Finally sent to specialist who prescibed a ring pessary with a knob. Thank goodness, it works well. Fairly easy to remove (with removal tool), clean and reinsert. I am pain-free and can go about my daily life with no prolapse.
This has made life much easier.
(I am 77.)
Hi, what is the brand of that pessary?
What are pessaries
Your video has helped me so much! I was just told today, by my gynocologist, that I need to have bladder prolapse surgery. I was scared, but after watching your video, I feel so much better! I have a severe, stage 4 prolapse, and I am being sent to a urogynocologist for the surgery. I now feel ready to ask the right questions, thanks to you!!!
Thank you for the information. I am trying to make this decision right now. I am 69 and feel like I have been very lucky to have gone this long without having any problems. I really appreciate your candor. I found an excellent Gyno/Urolog. My biggest concern was the totally hysterectomy, but the more I read it is the best thing to do. I will read you Guide!
How are you doing now. Everything still going well? Having the same exact surgery coming up. I’m so happy you had a good outcome. It gives me hope! Thanks
I just came across your video, two days after the same surgery you had, for the same exact reasons. It was so affirming to hear your story and it validated my feelings and the decision I made. I watched your after surgery video as well. Thank you for your openness and willingness to share and educate. I plan to share your video information with my urogynycologist when I see her in two weeks. 🙏🏻
What kind of mesh for bladder sling
Your video was very informative! I liked your presentation and appreciated your investigation info. Thank you!
Thank you for sharing this information that is really helpful and so hard to find.
Thank you for this! I had a hysterectomy a couple of years ago and now have the vault and bladder prolapse. I'm having surgery in a few weeks and am happy to hear the you're pleased with your results!
did you have mesh
I had a hysterectomy a year ago and prolapsed right after…how did the repair surgery go for you?
Thank you your videos are so amazing and so helpful!
Thank you for sharing.. my surgery is scheduled in April - your video makes me feel much better about my decision.
How did your surgery go? How are you feeling now?
Bless your heart Jessica
I’m so glad I came across your video. Last year in Oct 2020 I had a partial hysterectomy due to uterine prolapse and endometriosis, months later I noticed a bulge and it was my bladder. Just 4 days ago I had the exact surgery you underwent, I’m currently recovering and now feel so much better that I’ve made the right choice. Thank you for sharing your experience
I am glad you have relief and pray that it works in the long run for you ❤ I just wish more women would have opened up about what a hysterectomy can cause as far as prolapse
Oh god so happy it helped you I had my surgery on Nov 16.23 Friday I’m 4days past surgery I kind of wish I knew about trying some natural ways to help me with that bump at the entrance of my V doctor said I was between a 2-3 and she recommended surgery a mesh thing.. how are you doing now? ? See I don’t know if I want 1 more kid and I did the surgery but I’m 39 times like ticking and single lol.
@@MeMyself984 what do you mean? that a hysterectomy can also be the cause of prolapse?
@lisagrace6471 mine sure was
Thank you so much for doing this.
I just want to say thank you for putting yourself out there and sharing your story. I came across your video when doing research. My surgery was scheduled with my longtime GYN. I too loved with mine prolapse for 8 years and had the very same issues as you minus the endometriosis’. I asked for a referral to a UROGyno. I’m so happy I did. He gave me lots more information and I felt so much better about having the surgery. I had the UROGyno do my surgery and I have 12 days post surgery. I can poop and pee so much better! TMI , I know, but sooo life changing for me. Thank you again
How are you doing now? I’m thinking of getting the surgery. I just want to know like all of the pros and cons of getting the surgery specifically from someone that has actually experienced it. Does it make the vagina area feel tighter like back to normal before all of this happened?? Does it take away the heaviness feeling? Does you vagina look different or back to normal? Do you see the bulge or did it mess your vagina up by them tampering with it?
Sorry I just feel like nobody talks about that stuff and I NEED to know ALL the info! Lol. Tmi but hope you get it since you have experienced the same thing.
I’m 28 and had the vacuum assist birth and very very quick birth. Had a tear. They didn’t even allow me to try to push the baby out. They basically just ripped her out to be honest. Like my body was forced into labor bc they wanted to do a balloon. Insisted that I did it actually. Anyway, I feel all of that is why I have the prolapse now. Just want details on what it looks, feels like afterwards- and of course if you would do it all over again?
Thanks!
Hi Michelle, how's the recovery going for you? And did you get a hysterectomy or only a repair of uterine?
@@hannahd9071 same here
What about age?
thanks for sharing your video, what symptoms were you having with the prolapsed bladder?
Thank you and bless you for helping us out with your very informative video. You are Awesome 👏 ❤❤
Thank you for sharing your story.
Had a similar surgery 2 weeks ago, your video was informative and I wish I would’ve done more research on what the exact procedures meant. Taking it easy has been tough and constipation is a reality and increased pain. No one seems to understand the depth of the pain when there are several surgeries done at the same time. I feel my surgeon was thorough and hope it lasts decades
How are you now
Making surgery decision is right or not
Do you eat a variety of foods that help combat constipation? I do not want to diminish your experience by saying “oh just eat this…” but I am wondering if you consider your foods carefully. I do. I have to choose the right combo of foods everyday to ensure my body eliminates properly so that I don’t have all that pressure. Also, I am a fan of probiotics and exercise to help with easier digestion too. I’ve had to make a lot of lifestyle changes but I finally feel like a have more control over my life and feel more free of this condition ❤
Hi I had my surgery on Nov 16.23 just on Friday how are you? I just msg my doctor saying I’m watching this and she said for me to not watch stuff online. How are you?
I wish I would have known about urogynecologists. We don’t have any here. I travel now. First hysterectomy failed. Now complete PoP and descent. I’m in good hands now. Can’t live like this anymore. He didn’t do any suspension. Thank you. I needed to hear this about mesh. I need it because I have hEDS. Found that out after hysterectomy. Thank you
Thank you. I really needed this.
My wife is 65. She had her hysterectomy done 35 years ago. Now she has vault prolapse with cystocele. The surgeon has recommended sacrocolpopexy with mesh.
How are you now three years after surgery?
Im stage 4, bladder prolapse, my doctor said my operation is going to take 5 hours , I’m 77 so of course I’m very scared 😱
Your videos have helped me so much. I am needing the same procedures as you are. I feel at peace about the decision. Still worried about the process, but we are going on it.
I just had my surgery on Friday Nov 16.23 I just hated peeing so much lol and walking my dog for a hour or 2 of wanting to pee it’s scary I’m recovering from it atm. Hope your well!
I truly appreciated your video and your sincerity came through . I just visited my Urogynecology and he wants to do the reconstructive surgery except he want to just use sutures and no mesh. I have the trifecta prolapse, bladder, rectocele, and uterus falling out. He also wat to do a hysterectomy. Do you have reference to using sutures only for this surgery? If anyone else has done that with sutures love to hear from you..
Thank you from France, it’s hard for me to have all informations I need, so thank you!😊
Thank you for sharing. Your videos so far have helped me so much in this process. I have been struggling and trying to manage this for 6 years. My surgery is scheduled for July with my urogynocologist, so this video is perfect timing. So much info online is terrifying, thank you for being so optimistic and informative 💗
I just had my first uro/gyno appt . today. I am hoping to relieve all this pressure. Kylee , I hope yours went well. Kathy
Please make your own decision. There are always problems after surgery. Listen to other sad storeys also. Varginal mess big on going problems.
How are you going.. Now after surgery
My mom is going through the surgery today as we speak she's in her late sixties and has a lot of medical problems I'm very worried for her but I'm putting my trust in God thank you for your video have a blessed day
I am 69, I had my first visit today. I hope your mom is doing well.
@@kathyhasty5519 thank you so much for the well wishes he's doing okay the worst part is he doesn't have money to get her pain medication she's in a lot of pain from it they use the laser on seven different areas they only gave her enough pain meds for one day I feel so bad for her I'm trying to do everything to get the money up now to get her script
She not he
I had my abdominal hysterectomy September 15 due to bladder and uterus prolapse. I'm scared still having pain. .
Hopefully she isn’t sensitive to foreign material because the mesh can cause autoimmune conditions which could destroy her quality of life. Look online at all the mesh lawsuits.
Thank you for sharing. I am 75 doing this, but my life is very isolating and I want to do things like walk with groups and not have to stop the group looking for a bathroom. Unless they are an older group in the late 60s or 70s, a younger group of women say 40 don't really understand. I was told 20% relapse again, that gives me 80% it will be okay.
Grace
Did you have your surgery for Cystocele? I'm 73 & may possibly end up having this surgery . But it scares me. Hope you recovered & please let me know how it went.
Thank You!
@@kristineberger3621 No Cystocele.
Grace,
Thank you. Just wanting to connect with women who have gone thru this procedure.
Wish you well.
Thanks for sharing!
Thank you. I have grade two and helps me to make the right decision
Thank you for sharing 😊
That helped me so much
I had the surgery 10 months ago, and have had no problems. It was a good decision for me. So much better than before!!
Can you please give guidance do and don't after surgery as I m planning for my surgery suggested by my doctor... Bt m scared about it's reoccurence.....
Can you share what is better for you a little more please?
Thank you 🙏
Thank you this was exactly what I needed. I really am experiencing the “I’ve done all I could and I don’t want to live like this”
I'm having my surgery next month and my anxiety is out of control, my doctor said it will be robotic surgery .
@@judithawalker2858 How did it go and how are you doing now? Who was your doctor? I hope the best for you.
Mine went well, wish I did it long time ago. Get the surgery. Women don't talk about this. You can get it fix. I'm 73, had surgery end of May. Doing great!
Your an inspiration to everyone I’m saying this on behalf of my mum 👍
Thank you so much! I'm glad it's been helpful.
Have you heard of Goretex?
That came up in my discussion. My issues are a little different but I was curious. Can't find much about it.
Age 61. Just completed hysterectomy/prolapse surgery sounds similar to yours. Pls send exercise protocol you mentioned. Very much enjoyed your video.
My dr wants to also do a hysterectomy also with this surgery. Did you notice any change in your stomach appearance after the surgery? I had read somewhere where this may be an issue. It’s a vain question I know but just curious. Also why after the surgery did you question doing it at times? Thanks so much for the info- I am scared of the surgery and you made me feel better!
EXCELLENT in sight!
Currently 41. Had prolapse uterus, had that removed last yr, now prolapsed bladder, I can see and touch my bladder. Next month I’m scheduled to fix that with sling. I’m worried what will happen next!!!
Thank you.
I had my surgery sept. 15. The best decision ever made!!!!
I probably need the surgery, painful legs
Are you still happy with the surgery two years later? Thanks.
@@icecreamladydriver1606 . i would like to know that too ??
Hi I was wondering if you had a mid urethral sling put in after your bladder lift surgery? Thanks
❤ really informative
just saw this video my prolas surg in 2 wks yes very nervous i have to have sacrospinous ligament suspension and possible anterior/posterio repair maybe the tvt.
I would love to learn more about how you decided sacrocopoplexy vs native tissue. That is the decision I need to make for my prolapse and upcoming hysterectomy, and I’m paralyzed to make that decision
I have been diagnosed with stage 2 cystocele and rectocele it’s been about two years they did put surgery on the table as a last resort I am 5 feet and seem to be bouncing between 143 and 150. It seems the minute I go anywhere above 143 I start to feel heaviness and seem sad, my cervix has prolapsed as well. Sometimes I can feel it with my hand when I wash I am terrified. I also feel most pressure right before my period I am 52 and in perimenopause I am not sure what to do so I’m comfortable at times I have been back-and-forth with PT I have to admit not very consistent, my regular GYN thinks I should avoid the surgery and try to fix it myself
Thank you for this video. I found it very helpful. Just found out today that my prolapse has worsened since I was last examined over 1.5 years ago. I've lived with cystocele and rectocele since a traumatic birth 4 years ago. The consultant confirmed my worst fears that I have a uterine prolapse too. I've tried everything to manage things conservatively so far but consultant suggesting surgery now. I'm terrified at the prospect so watching your video tonight was very timely for me. Its really helped! I've decided I will continue to hold off surgery for as long as I can but being nearly 41 years old I also am taking into account your comment re deciding to have your surgery as a younger woman before menopause.
I was just diagnosed with anterior /posterior prolapse,doc says surgery wait time is 8 to 9 months maybe longer,I am in Ontario Canada
I have grade 2 almost 3 and getting the op soon hopefully
Had my hysterectomy and bladder surgery 3 years ago I now have a Virginia vault prolapse stage 1
Pesaries wont stay in will I be better off having more surgery?
Thank you so much for this video! I already had a surgery for bladder prolapse and I’m still dealing with the same issue. I saw another urogynecologist and she advised that I would benefit from having a midurethral sling using mesh. I understand that using native tissue isn’t as effective. However, I would like to find a urogynecologist that does the surgery with native tissue. I have not been able to find one where I live in Florida. Would you be able to know where I can find a urogynecologist that does perform these surgeries without mesh? Thank you so much!!!
Love your video. Thank you so much. I just wanted to ask you if you had tried to use a pessary. prier to surgery. I am 63 and have the same exact thing you had. Been dealing with it for years as it has gotten so much worse and interfering with my life. I have been so depressed about it. Want to have the surgery. Trying the pessary but it’s just not working good for me. Would love to hear from you . Thanks
Thank you mine fell down last night I pushed it back in went to an ER today of course he couldn't do anything, gave me antibiotics, for my kidney infection,,going Monday to an OBGYN ,,to get me fixed oh I'm 65 ,I've had 4 births ,menopause ten year's ago ,,it's a scary thing to think your uterus has fell out more scary to find out its a bladder 😇
What have you heard about the anterior colporrhaphy with collagen xenograft? I cannot find much on this particular procedure and material?
Have you done this? How did it turn out?
Oh my God cant believe I found your video. Im 72 and I have prolapse for 7 or 8 years now and its getting unmanageable.
I recommend surgery. I had mine since 2005. Had hysterectomy, 2018. Then, Dr sent me for physical therapy. Didn't fix it. Went to a OBGYN and had it fix, almost a month ago. I'm 73, and I suggest surgery. It was easy and I feel like a new woman! You don't have to live with it.
Do you have an updated video? About how you are doing now?
Stinging nettle root saved me from endometriosis and being doubled over and unable to function. Interesting information about the rest.
Any information about bowel dropping from uterus prolapse?
I am trying to decide whether or not to have the same procedure as I, too, have global stage III prolapse. My concern is what will happen to our sex life?? Right now even with the POP our sex life is great…I don’t want to lose any sensation and I DEFINITELY don’t want to deal with pain…
Do you have a bruised/ black eye? I ask because I have similar bruising in the corners of my own eyes.
I had surgery 10 weeks out . Not sure what it is like a mesh or what. My surgery was short in description. He called it interior and posterior colporrhaphy, perineoplasty, mid urethral sling and cystoscopy for Cystocele, rectocele, perineal insufficiency, stress urinary incontinence. I think I made a bad decision on doctor and I am switching. now. Thanks for the tips
I just,at surgery for bladder prolaspe stage 2 I think. I just got the mesh.I'm 40 with 4 children. The pain that starts from the incisions in my bikini line on each side that goes into my ligaments sucks though.
Thanks from Australia
Thank you for sharing! I had prolapse surgery 8 months ago… rebuilt front wall, back wall, ‘tabletop’ . My doctor was astonished at my quick recovery. This week I suddenly have cystocele stage 3 almost 4. Dr unavailable for six weeks. Wondering do I choose a pessary for myself in the wait time? Highly uncomfortable and feels abraded.
How do I know what stage I am in?. I have been seeing a specialist for about 2 years she never told me about surgery I receive a shot well 2 on my left side every 3 months. I have been to therapy it did help me and it felt so good. But it never changed anything. I have had this for over 4 yrs. I lived in TX What a nightmare I went through and they wouldn't listen to me.
I have all 3 of these from the age of 38 . 4years later. I’ve tried all the pessarys which wouldn’t stay in they just fell out the same day. I’m
Waiting for surgery and full hysterectomy I’m in to much pain it’s so frustrating and surgery scares me. Great video .
Exactly! I don’t want to live like this anymore! I’m scheduled for a complete hysterectomy with vaginal correction(?) for prolapses this month. I’m 59 so menopause isn’t an issue and to be honest I’m looking forward to a rejuvenated me. But I opted out of the mesh. I hope I didn’t make a mistake 😩
How are you doing now? You sound just like me today 😟 What has happened and genuinely how are you today?
@@keeliekalayidol8876 the hysterectomy itself was not a big deal. The reconstruction of the anterior and posterior vaginal walls was more to recover from. Two months ago I started a rejuvenation laser therapy that helps with dryness and further tightens and strengthens the walls and as a nice side effect it stops bladder leakage, which was my main complaint.
@@elemis2826 Happy that you're doing ok. Thanks for your reply. I've been struggling through this alone (have a gyno but no females really to talk with) and try not to overwhelm myself with videos. It's been tough. But the prolapse has been the worse since going through perimenopause.....about 4 months w/out periods now. Grateful for that because I have a fibroid tumor in an awkward area. Changed my diet completely and within 7 mos or so lost nearly 40 lbs and began a quicker path toward menopause. BUT now the prolapse 😟 Just started kegels as an actual routine a few days ago. I know it takes time. But scared of a possible hysterectomy and reconstructive things simultaneously. My youngest has multiple mental illnesses and can't literally be without me and I have no idea how long until I'd be back home. Did you ever try the "pessary" thing or kegel weights/tools, if so are they even worth a try in your opinion? Sorry if a bother, I don't want you to feel like you have to reply. But I appreciate your kindness. Hoping for the best for you 🌺
@@keeliekalayidol8876 no bother at all! I tried kegals, but I just couldn’t get the result I needed to feel good about my anatomy. Maybe I was too far gone. I was told at a very young age that my uterus was tipped. I didn’t even know what that meant.
I asked my dr how women used to deal with it, because as I’ve went through this journey I’ve realized how not alone I am.
She told me they just let it all hang out. 🥺
I will say that you will need some help for a couple weeks especially if your child needs special care. You already know that healing processes better when you can rest and be relaxed. You wouldn’t want to do anything that can mess up the work you endured. The pain isn’t unbearable but having bowel movements is a challenge.
Now, I need to go through your videos and find inspiration to lose 30-40 pounds. 💕
PS - one plus of having surgery is that you don’t have to worry about associated cancers. And by the way I did not have the mesh.
@@elemis2826 Me too! I also have a tilted uterus. I've never known anyone else personally with it 🤗 I do feel a little better with your correspondence. Thank you 💗 Oh! As for weight loss I felt miserable at first because I went strictly to pistachios, peanuts, cauliflower & broccoli both raw and steamed, teriyaki noodles, mushrooms, baked potatoes with no butter just salt and pepper, etc. I add organic garlic to any and everything possible most of the time. Even garlic powder at times. I even purposefully eat baby carrots to keep my estrogen low and somewhat balanced to help a healthy perimenopause and in about 8 months have shrunk my fibroid tumor 2 cm. I went as organic as possible because even the spray on non organic apples have hormones. My favorite snacks are banana and or apple slices w/Jif peanut butter. I don't measure. I only eat pasta maybe once a month and it's strictly Barilla protein pasta now. I quit consuming dairy EXCEPT I do have some pizza a couple times a month and maybe a dab of sour cream with 1 baked potato once or twice a month but the rest of the potatoes salt & pepper & garlic powder, maybe crushed red peppers. I eat a hard boiled egg a few times a month and my favorite treat is an iced, Annihilator with white chocolate at Dutch Bros (sometimes with Almond milk instead of their 1/2 & 1/2). Black olives straight from the can or with black bean burritos a few times a month......I found that honey graham crackers smeared with Jif tastes IDENTICAL to Nutter Butter cookies 😉 Because of the fibroid tumor (and previous heavybleeds) I would do gentle pilates and walk whenever possible. Sometimes shooting hoops and tennis or hitting a volleyball over & over in the air as I walked around. It took determination and tears of perseverance honestly. I'll slip and have homemade french toast with no limit or eat 3 fries from one of the kids McD's meals (which are now limited too for their sake...instead of weekly those trips are a few times a month).
THANK YOU again 🤗🤘💗 You're truly awesome and much appreciated. If you need an ear I'm here.
I have just found out my prolapse is back I’m devastated
What kind of prolapse.
Very helpful. Thank you.🌻
~Thank you.
Hi Jessica, I had a car accident and injured my foot, stress fracture. If there is anything I can do as my doctors forbid everything including swimming 😢
What are your thoughts on laser for vaginal strengthening for grade 1 or 2 prolapses
I had mesh surgery at age 60 12 years ago. It was transvaginal mesh and it was the beginning of hell. Within 3 months the surgery failed and I had terrible pain in my low back and down both legs. I went to 3 urogynocologists ALL argued it had nothing to do with my surgery, even though I knew it was. Then I went to 5 other specialists. Each one had their own bias "it is spinal stenous", "it is brain damage from a car accident from 50 years ago', "it is ankalosing spondylis" --- BUT I JUST KNEW!!! After 10 years of agony....I finally got fitted for a pessary. I walked into the office with my cane barely able to walk because of my pain, and sciatic in my low back, hip, knee and down to my toes. As soon as the pessary was put it, ALL my sciatic pain lest and 50% of my other leg pain left. PESSARIES WORK...don't get sold on surgery!!!!!!
I think it depends on the needs of the patient. I have heard so many great things about pessary and they should always be tried before surgery.
For me, when I tried a pessary it hurt more and didn't help to hold up anything. Instead it fell behind the uterine prolapse making it far worse. But I also have stage 4 prolapse at 15 years old. So doctors doubted it would work but tried it anyways because my life is hell with my prolapse. But glad we tried it beforehand to make sure
pessary doesn't work for me
@@sweetberries683 what are you doing about it instead
@@gimygaming8655 @ I just have my hysterectomy & Mesh sling last week, I am on 1 week recovery journey at moment but yeah pretty painful
@@sweetberries683 do you feel it is helpful? Or does it feel like pressure has been lifted? Also how old are you, if you don't mind me asking? And is the mesh causing any irriation right now?
What does the flaxseed do for it? I’ve been on HRT mine still got bad still no surgery yet due to torn rotator cuff omg that’s horrible I guess you try and live with it or you get surgery I do have a great surgeon it’s just scary 😱 thank you I’m grade 3 so it is what it is!!
I am 65 and had hysterectomy and AP repair 5 yrs ago. It has failed and now Dr recommended mesh via laproscopy - I have a second opinion coming up - very scared to repeat this surgery. Thanks for telling your story - I don’t know if many successes with mesh. What’s the most important question I should ask?
I am scheduled for a Rectocele Repair in 7 days and for the first time am very anxious.
I have had multiple surgeries but this time more anxious than ever. I had no idea I had a rectocele, just thought it was my chronic constipation. Wish me luck
Hi may I ask how your surgery went?? I have this same thing and am getting ready to consult with a surgeon. I’m looking for some real life experiences. Looking hopefully for success stories! Thank you!!!
Can you recommend a surgeon in Macon Georgia area ?
I’m scheduled for the full hysterectomy, front wall repair and back wall repair. My gynaecologist doesn’t use any mesh at all, but says there’s no guarantee it will fix my prolapse as the tissues can be very buttery once she’s in there.🥴😟
I can’t find your link for the stay hydrated drink mix. It’s usually somewhere around the bell. Someone please respond. I will be so grateful. 🙏🙏🙏
And what is the name of it.
Thanks for sharing
I am 45 and I have went through all the different avenues of trying to help my vault prolapse. I do not want surgery due to the mesh. For some reason I am so nervous about this surgery. I had a hernia repair 18 years ago and mesh was used. I had no issues. This time I am worried about it. I don't know what to do.
Going to have all the surgery , you had, soon. 65 yrs old
I have rectocele i want to operate it but one de told me he will do it laparoscopically with mesh and another dr told me to dnt do this do vaginally by stitching which will be better pls help me i became confused pls reply
Hi! Did you ever do your surgery?? I’m looking for some post surgery experiences. I’m thinking of surgery. How did it go?
I need help with rectal prolapse Please help, I don’t want surgery. 😢😢
Dear Jessica! I am so happy I found your vid on this topic. I live in Hungary, Europe. I had the same surgery as you had 2 years ago.( I am 42 now). 6 days ago I started to have a very bad abdominal pain but my doctor could not find the cause. My big fear is that it is caused by my mesh implant ( it is the same type on the same place as yours) I am afraid that it started to "move" or something after 2 years. Do you think if it is possible after 2 years that it is because the mesh " is getting wrong" inside me? Is it possible according to your studies on this topic? Sorry my english is so bad, I hope you understand my question. Thank you and I whish you all the best!!
You need to have test done right away. Mess can wrap around Lower intestines and cause serious problems
I believe a rectocele and rectal prolapse are two different things. I have a rectocele and I also have recto anal intussusception. I need a rectopexy which is done by a colorectal surgeon. I had a total hysterectomy and bladder support in 2005. I am 66 years old.
I did the surgery 2 years ago it changed my life i was 33 years old .
How are you feeling now?
Synthetic mesh or bovine mesh ?
Just thank you.
Omg your advice was so sound and exactly the way I feel ! I have a rectocele I’m 66 I found out at 65 I elected to do pelvic floor exercises first by a terrific pt who specializes in pelvic floor only I finished up been applying those at home but I’m not feeling a difference I know I’m leaning towards surgery I’m scared to death 💀 I have a great uro/gynecologist I need to talk to about the surgery but this hanging out of my vagina is so uncomfortable I know it’s between he and I but it would be nice to talk to you if your willing because I can’t find anyone that knows about rectocele as far as females that’s horrible! Thank you
Hi, I have a rectocele prolapse too. I'm 51 and have had it since the birth of my son 14 years ago. It suddenly worsened when I missed my 1st period in February due to peri menopause. I went to a physio and do the exercises religiously and I have an oestrogen pessary I take twice a week. This has helped but not enough tbh and I've seen a surgeon who has recommended a repair. I'm terrified too but really can't live with this terrible heaviness and poop getting stuck in the bulge. How are you ? X
@@wendashaw6462 hi Wendy well I’ve done everything I can so I’m having a surgical consult September 7 to get it fixed I have a top surgeon who happens to be gyno/Uro so I’m confident with him it’s just the recovery it will be hard my greatest fear is having to move my bowels the first time but my Gynecologist said they have come so far with what they can do and he feels once I get it done I’ll say why didn’t I do it a year ago! I hope he’s correct it’s just scary!! Thank you for reaching out please let me know how your doing ok?💕
@@wendashaw6462 hi I saw your post on a prolapse UA-cam page. I have the same thing you have and I’m looking into surgery now. May I ask if you ever had surgery done? I’m looking for some real life experiences from surgery. Thank you. I’m 50 yrs old and I have rectocele with prolapse.
Hi, No, I decided against it in the end. It really terrified me and the surgeon I saw didn't fill me with confidence. I'm on HRT now , do pelvic floor exercises at least twice a day, take flax seed to help with toilet issues and I'm managing much better. It's such a traumatic choice to make and I didn't want to be out of action for 6 weeks. I'm hoping it won't get worse . I hope you can learn to manage it 🙏Goodluck x
I'm considering having a uterine prolapse surgery but I don't want a hysterectomy. I know you said you have to be cautious when recovering, but can you eventually go back to lifting weight or should you stay away from it all together? I have a 2 year old plus at work it's part of my job description to lift 50lbs. I've been living with this on and off since before getting pregnant with my last baby, but I didn't k ow what it was and when I went to the obgyn to get it checked out, she didn't see anything. But when I stand up or sit down I definitely know it's there.
I too don’t want a hysterectomy. Any advice from the video host.
You can go back to lifting slowly & nothing over 10lbs strictly for 6 weeks after surgery... keep in mind that's a gallon of milk. Nothing more then that. Proper rest. I didn't follow these guidelines after hernia surgery a year & half ago & it wasn't 3 months after surgery i felt the same previous pain & been dealing with it since. I messed up the permanent sutures so it's important to follow the orders in place.. i understand that's not possible in everyone's life especially with a toddler (that's what I did wrong myself) hence why I'm putting off the prolapse surgery myself. Blessings for you in your journey with this. ❤
How do you know which grade you have?
What happens to the body after a hysterectomy??? I’m so scared of all of this I’ve put off getting checked I’ve let my doc know that I wear bladder leak pads for the past 7 years but now the pain has gotten bad down there where I cannot even sit down down without pain down there and there feels like a bulge when I’m sitting on the toilet and I wipe and it hurts when I wipe there. I dno if it’s cancer or prolapse but the pain shoots up my my abdomen and makes me feel nauseas. I’m really scared of surgery
Go to the dr. Get diagnosis ask what the least you can do & the latest . Whatever is recommended . Get a 2nd. Opinion . You are in charge . You can say no to anything , or do your choice . Take your time on the decision.
I just had this surgery I wasn’t leaking I could hold my pee for a hour or longer but I had a bump at the entrance at my V I had my surgery on nov.16.23 she said I was 2.5/3 I wish I tried something else. I had the surgery and I slept we’ll surgery BUT then I couldn’t pee enough so they put a catheter in me so it was scary ISSUES WITH MESH OMFG I DIDNT EVEN KNOW THERE WAS PROBLEMS WITH IT 😢 I’m regretting doing the surgery even tho I’m ok but it’s 4days later after my surgery. Wish I tried natural stuff first. Listening to your video and I wish I seen your video before.
Hi I was diagnosed with a stage 2 cystocele, I only squirt when I sneeze or cough, I'm very constipated and have to strain very hard to poop, which pushes my bladder further out. I'm in a place of not knowing what to do, I'm 62 and scared of surgery😥
I am 13 days out from sacrocolpoperineopexy with sking and having bowel issues. It's like my bowels keep coming out. I am hoping that this is temporary.
Size matters after hysterectomy prolapse??