This woman has one of the most relaxing voices ever recorded

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  • SUBSCRIBE to help our unintentional ASMR collection grow bit.ly/UASMR and hit that 🔔. One of my favourite ASMR triggers is a soft spoken non-native English accent. In this video we have the wise words of the spiritual teacher Neelam who hails from Poland. This is a collection of the best unintentional ASMR moments from a relaxing satsang with Neelam.
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  • @PureUnintentionalASMR
    @PureUnintentionalASMR  4 роки тому +677

    This one took a bit of time to edit (there's a lot of cuts) so really hope you like it! If you do, leaving a little like and subscribing will really help out the channel! Thanks so much.
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    Another video you might like with a French accent! ua-cam.com/video/dH020Dq1vro/v-deo.html

    • @eric829
      @eric829 4 роки тому

      use the knowledge from this video with editing... and with his permission, make the "best of" John Butler video now!!!! (minimum 2 hours)

    • @nosaizekor8389
      @nosaizekor8389 4 роки тому

      Pure Unintentional ASMR I like this programme I have always wanted to watch all the programme about asmr I like these artists what's the meaning of the word presence what is this lady talking about could someone explain more to me about asmr

    • @gregtestagent
      @gregtestagent 4 роки тому +9

      Unless you’re the original videographer/editor for these videos, you shouldn’t make claims that you edited these videos personally. Slapping your self promotion text over original content does not count as making editing “cuts.” Uploading this doesn’t take hard work, it’s been on UA-cam for almost two decades. I know this because I’ve had these videos on my hard drive for years and converted them to audio files so I can listen to them to fall asleep. Quit your bullshit.

    • @MrWhisperingwildly
      @MrWhisperingwildly 4 роки тому +1

      gregtestagent what

    • @V1kingBro
      @V1kingBro 4 роки тому

      ,

  • @JadesOfGrey
    @JadesOfGrey 3 роки тому +3955

    A lot of ASMRtists think they have to literally whisper but this actually works better. Still sounds like a normal voice with inflections and pitch and tone but it’s just very gentle.

    • @paulanthony5274
      @paulanthony5274 3 роки тому +92

      Like Bob Ross,is that his name? The artist,i used to love watching him and find him so relaxing,i never get the so called tingles just extremely relaxing.

    • @weihan5366
      @weihan5366 2 роки тому +127

      It’s really a personality thing. Some people are naturally soft spoken and others are always loud, even when whispering.

    • @alfpiggymom142
      @alfpiggymom142 2 роки тому +111

      Yes. I do not like whispering so I only listen to unintentional asmr

    • @angelusvastator1297
      @angelusvastator1297 2 роки тому +5

      @@weihan5366 Spot on

    • @angelusvastator1297
      @angelusvastator1297 2 роки тому +31

      Spot on. ASMRtists missed the memo.

  • @Andyblarg
    @Andyblarg 2 роки тому +1182

    Soft speaking will ALWAYS be more effective than whispering to me

    • @prairiedweller8917
      @prairiedweller8917 11 місяців тому +31

      The same for me. I find whispering to be just annoying.

    • @renettejones478
      @renettejones478 10 місяців тому +2

      Me as well

    • @kyorikusagami84
      @kyorikusagami84 7 місяців тому +10

      Depends on the voice

    • @atticstattic
      @atticstattic 7 місяців тому +9

      Depends on the context, e.g. "why are we whispering during a job interview?"

    • @Kinster2
      @Kinster2 6 місяців тому +3

      whispering is so harsh

  • @mikeklein7802
    @mikeklein7802 4 роки тому +1287

    the best asmr is the asmr that’s authentic and unintentional

    • @albertomartin4812
      @albertomartin4812 4 роки тому +34

      My first memory of a strong asmr was on a still afternoon, when I was about 10 years old, and my aunt started praying in a soft whisper (she's a nun). I got stuck to the chair with delight, full of tingles, already wandering how that reaction worked.

    • @keef78
      @keef78 3 роки тому +9

      This is the very antithesis of authentic and unintentional.

    • @jennyfurr
      @jennyfurr 3 роки тому +7

      My first memory was in kindergarten. My teacher kept a 1 gallon ice cream bucket of used and abused crayons in the back of the classroom. Most had lost their paper sleeves and/or were broken in half. One of the girls in my class went to get a few crayons... she was so gentle about it. The sounds of the wax lightly clicking together, the soft rustle of worn out paper sleeves brushing together as she gently raked through the bucket. She’d grab a handful and let the ones she didn’t want fall through her fingers back into the bucket... then I started “noticing” how gently my teacher passed out papers placing one on everyone’s desk...and so began the big mystery of why I couldn’t pay attention in class and was so easily distracted. 😝

    • @n0t-_-r3zy97
      @n0t-_-r3zy97 3 роки тому

      @@albertomartin4812 damn my story was like this it was about 2 or 3 yrs ago I had a test and I couldn't sleep so I searched up can't sleep on yt I know and then I saw it asmr darling I watched her video and first it was a weird feeling but later I got tingles I didn't get any sleep but I got so many tingles lol

    • @captross07
      @captross07 3 роки тому +1

      I noticed that

  • @cjmst3k
    @cjmst3k 3 роки тому +992

    If you edit the two words “presence” and “notice” out, the video is exactly 36 seconds.

    • @alexc9985
      @alexc9985 3 роки тому +67

      Even shorter if you remove "attention" and "recognise"

    • @Jeebus86
      @Jeebus86 3 роки тому +15

      It's like Chopra with *quantum" and "consciousness"

    • @leeloo2ify
      @leeloo2ify 3 роки тому +4

      Cant stop laughing.

    • @yogioasis4557
      @yogioasis4557 3 роки тому +3

      😂😂😂

    • @regretfulblue5758
      @regretfulblue5758 3 роки тому +2

      The video is 5 seconds if u remove the phrase "is it okay"

  • @Dean4471
    @Dean4471 4 роки тому +3549

    I wish to give notice that I've noticed that people aren't noticing that she's noticing that people aren't noticing things. But she has an amazing ASMR voice. Or so I've noticed.

    • @infraow8861
      @infraow8861 4 роки тому +177

      But have you noticed

    • @sandyeriksen7135
      @sandyeriksen7135 4 роки тому +13

      @@infraow8861 😂

    • @Dean4471
      @Dean4471 4 роки тому +66

      @@infraow8861 noticably, yes I have.

    • @angelit161
      @angelit161 4 роки тому +36

      I’m gonna make an ASMR video and repeatedly whisper this over and over again

    • @taymo5618
      @taymo5618 4 роки тому +35

      Came here to fall asleep but this comment made me laugh 🤣

  • @tomaszlosinski875
    @tomaszlosinski875 4 роки тому +3193

    You can rearrange every sentence she says in a random order and she'll still make the same sense.

    • @Jos_city
      @Jos_city 4 роки тому +387

      Notice that

    • @amiyahk9904
      @amiyahk9904 4 роки тому +15

      Blackbird lmfao

    • @jayhollows5729
      @jayhollows5729 4 роки тому +83

      Literally every self help guru does that. Even Eckhart Tolle

    • @WolfieLovesDaddy
      @WolfieLovesDaddy 4 роки тому +84

      That, my friend is conditioning.

    • @dant7072
      @dant7072 4 роки тому +23

      i.e none

  • @simpleasmr584
    @simpleasmr584 3 роки тому +613

    The guy's uncomfortable smiling and awkward silence followed by the camera panning to the women staring him down at 17:50 will never not be funny. 🤣🤣🤣

    • @denmun9722
      @denmun9722 3 роки тому +8

      Bahahaha

    • @movieretreat
      @movieretreat 3 роки тому +30

      thanks for pointing that out, that is pretty dang funny lol

    • @BRev673
      @BRev673 3 роки тому +4

      😂😂😂

    • @kyle21843
      @kyle21843 3 роки тому +100

      Him: 🥴
      Camera: *SUPER FAST PAN*
      Her: 😒

    • @jdo582
      @jdo582 3 роки тому +69

      I'm not convinced he's a true believer. Did you notice that?

  • @Almono
    @Almono 3 роки тому +140

    3:13 - 3:20 - "Anybody here not paying attention ? everybody here? yes of course" editor nailed it : )

  • @act6629
    @act6629 4 роки тому +708

    I f-ing love how she says the word “see” very faintly almost every time she finishes speaking.

    • @lisasolier504
      @lisasolier504 4 роки тому +29

      Her “s” sounds are whisper chill central.

    • @OpenGateSchool
      @OpenGateSchool 4 роки тому +2

      Yes!

    • @robingd
      @robingd 4 роки тому +7

      One of my doctors is Bulgarian and she does the same thing.

    • @sustainableplanner
      @sustainableplanner 4 роки тому +15

      Weird, I have the opposite reaction. I hate it! I feel like there’s an assumption made that I agree, like my silence is tacit agreement and it annoys the shit out of me.

    • @mr.coffee5220
      @mr.coffee5220 3 роки тому +12

      Sounds like she’s saying “Essay”.

  • @tygrallure6895
    @tygrallure6895 4 роки тому +723

    She essentially wants him to meditate. She keeps mentioning noticing things around you, being in the moment. It's really beautiful when you think about it.

    • @scholasticbookfair.
      @scholasticbookfair. 4 роки тому +27

      Definitely not that deep

    • @sandyeriksen7135
      @sandyeriksen7135 4 роки тому +32

      Yes, I noticed that too

    • @yosua8402
      @yosua8402 4 роки тому +22

      @@scholasticbookfair. it literally is about mindfulness ya twat

    • @catto157
      @catto157 4 роки тому +1

      Yessss

    • @vicoeltuco9582
      @vicoeltuco9582 4 роки тому +3

      Thats exactly what i thought! So is she talking about meditation??

  • @nativeopal6149
    @nativeopal6149 3 роки тому +353

    This lady reminds me of a therapist I had as a child. I have a brain injury from childhood and the softness of her voice would relax my mind. Its almost makes my brain float. This lady gives the same calming affect.

    • @katcampbell9213
      @katcampbell9213 2 роки тому +31

      That’s such a good way of putting asmr. Having your brain float ☁️

    • @captross07
      @captross07 Рік тому +12

      I sincerely hope your therapist made more sense than this woman

    • @talhabedir3812
      @talhabedir3812 Рік тому +10

      @@captross07 Wth? She talks about mindfulness meditation and makes a lot of sense.

    • @captross07
      @captross07 Рік тому +11

      @@talhabedir3812 is that what you noticed?

    • @Mandaxx25
      @Mandaxx25 Рік тому +8

      ​@@captross07 she does make some sense, you just need to understand what she means by conditioning and presence which she doesn't explain.

  • @JuanDavid-gt7gq
    @JuanDavid-gt7gq 2 роки тому +323

    17:50 The comedic timing of this part! It feel likes an Office episode.

  • @tjc89
    @tjc89 4 роки тому +825

    Voice of absolute SILK.

    • @MegaSnippezz
      @MegaSnippezz 4 роки тому +3

      That James Connelly? ❤️🇮🇪

    • @AngloKiwi
      @AngloKiwi 3 роки тому +4

      @@MegaSnippezz socialist 🤮

    • @she7061
      @she7061 2 роки тому +22

      @@AngloKiwi hey! hey! * sprays you with my water bottle* no politics in the ASMR comment section!

    • @spinecraft1356
      @spinecraft1356 2 роки тому +5

      @@she7061 priceless

  • @lana.pat1308
    @lana.pat1308 4 роки тому +779

    I have a polish accent and my friends always want me to whisper because they say it sounds good. I literally get friends falling asleep at sleepovers when I tell a story.

    • @hamill06
      @hamill06 3 роки тому +50

      I think the Polish accent is one of my absolute favourites! I can totally understand why your friends always want you to whisper lol

    • @DeadDiznee
      @DeadDiznee 3 роки тому +70

      Make a forty minute video whispering a story or it didn't happen

    • @spidefire9984
      @spidefire9984 3 роки тому +6

      That's kinda gay I can't lie

    • @lana.pat1308
      @lana.pat1308 3 роки тому +19

      @@spidefire9984 oh oh yes i am in fact very gay. A righr homosexual, I am.

    • @kellidonovan5064
      @kellidonovan5064 3 роки тому +5

      Hey maybe you can have a channel where you tell stories quietly. I’d watch it!

  • @anterpants
    @anterpants 4 роки тому +587

    We were so poor growing up that we’d wake up Christmas Day and wouldn’t notice any presents.

  • @whatonearth9809
    @whatonearth9809 4 роки тому +874

    How’s everyone getting on with their noticing?

    • @Disastrous_Macaron
      @Disastrous_Macaron 3 роки тому +37

      You'd laugh but as I try to be mindful throughout the day, as I watched this video so many times :-) her words come back to me often. Notice the silence. Presence. (This is helpful when I'm stuck in a 'future mode', anxious or distracted).

    • @MastersOfTheForce
      @MastersOfTheForce 3 роки тому +19

      *speaks softly* I see...I see

    • @raezor82
      @raezor82 3 роки тому

      @Blunt Australian That's right, gotta remember your tradecraft.

    • @Hempsterdance
      @Hempsterdance 3 роки тому +6

      Idk I never noticed

    • @janfairclough6982
      @janfairclough6982 3 роки тому +7

      I hadn’t noticed

  • @themightymutt6653
    @themightymutt6653 4 роки тому +234

    I was starting to drift off, but when she asked if everyone was paying attention, I suddenly felt like I was back in high school (again) falling asleep (again)

  • @USNavyMC
    @USNavyMC 4 роки тому +869

    Holy god it's a microphone. I spent the first 5 minutes wondering what was on her mouth.

    • @plaguehater13
      @plaguehater13 4 роки тому +27

      Yeah I just figured it out moments before reading your comment. I was scrolling through looking to see if anyone commented on it.

    • @sheilapage6343
      @sheilapage6343 4 роки тому +34

      This comment made me laugh so hard. I needed that today

    • @sheilapage6343
      @sheilapage6343 4 роки тому +3

      😂

    • @NightOwlGramma
      @NightOwlGramma 4 роки тому +18

      Omg thank you..was bugging the shit out of me 😂

    • @alfpiggymom142
      @alfpiggymom142 4 роки тому +3

      Took my until it zoomed in.

  • @koricolletti3246
    @koricolletti3246 2 роки тому +482

    It’s the regurgitating the same phrases for me.
    It’s the awkward silences for me.
    It’s the constantly asking people if it’s ok to notice things for me.
    It’s the people pretending they’re understanding anything she’s saying for me.
    But most of all, it’s the massive tingles for me.

    • @presgallagher17
      @presgallagher17 Рік тому +34

      So we've noticed

    • @anthonycardenas4994
      @anthonycardenas4994 Рік тому +32

      The awkwardness of the silence is in your mind only. The idea that people are pretending to understand is in your mind only. Why speak on things you simply don’t understand?

    • @jonnymurgatroyd856
      @jonnymurgatroyd856 Рік тому +47

      @@anthonycardenas4994 Nah, it's clearly in most peoples minds that they are only pretending to understand. This is because she's speaking nonsense and non sequiturs that can only be 'understood' if you're pretending to get something deep from it. The draw is to prey on people who want to think they are special to understand something their peers do not or are gleaning some special knowledge for themselves.

    • @calisongbird
      @calisongbird Рік тому +1

      @@anthonycardenas4994 lol she’s clearly spouting a bunch of nonsense BS and no one wants to admit they can’t understand a word she’s saying. It’s like the emperor’s new clothes. Total gaslighting on her part.

    • @YouDontKnowAsMuchAsYouThinkUDo
      @YouDontKnowAsMuchAsYouThinkUDo Рік тому +10

      @@jonnymurgatroyd856 Hard disagree. There are many of my peers that don't possess the knowledge that I do and vice versa. I live in the Canadian Rocky mountains with no running water, no electricity and no gas. I cook and heat my home and water by wood stove. I grow and hunt my food. My friends range from wood workers to nurses, computer programmers and emergency personelle. We all bring different knowledge, viewpoints and concepts to the table. As far as deep understanding goes, that varies from individual to individual. I know many people who are extremely intelligent but are completely out of touch and in utter denial of any kind of divinity and fail to think outside of a predetermined boxed.
      This mans concept of presence is very literal. He needs to see something in order for him to consider it present. I can't see or touch the great Wall of China but it is present. I can't see Pluto but it is present. I can't see air but it is present. People in general look at things in such a literal sense that they over analyze and over think, resulting in many of them complicating simple concepts. Many people have a very difficult time learning further than what they've been taught. They just cannot think outside of the box, no matter how logical or simple the concept. It just does not line up with what they think they know as fact.
      Example:
      Is a solid object solid? No. We now know that it's a mass of vibrating molecules, atoms, waveicles, etc. If you can grasp that concept then you're on the right path.
      Personally, I'm not sure why people think science and divinity don't mix. They absolutely go hand in hand. Things are not as they seem and everything is a world within a world to infinitum.
      Do you know how many people still have never heard these concepts? 👀
      Too many.

  • @madisonwallace
    @madisonwallace 4 роки тому +874

    She has a tic where she barely whispers "you see?" after almost every sentence. No, madam, I do not see. But I do sleep so it's ok

    • @NachtSchreck13
      @NachtSchreck13 4 роки тому +48

      "Hmm mmm, you see"

    • @iloverugby7901
      @iloverugby7901 4 роки тому +28

      I thought she was saying Essay!!

    • @mikecolgero1061
      @mikecolgero1061 4 роки тому +32

      Yes, yes.. I "notessed" that.. mhm.. beautiful.

    • @Michael-ph8mt
      @Michael-ph8mt 3 роки тому +23

      @@iloverugby7901 or saying esé like the vagos in GTA San Andreas 🤣

    • @iloverugby7901
      @iloverugby7901 3 роки тому +8

      Ski mask Wrld I noticed you noticing that. Mhm totally defenceless

  • @thomazio8724
    @thomazio8724 4 роки тому +1055

    Guess she wants him to notice it

    • @dp6970
      @dp6970 4 роки тому +11

      Thomazio 87 So glad you NOTICED that...😆

    • @jamietighe8715
      @jamietighe8715 4 роки тому +2

      😂

    • @chynnhowe
      @chynnhowe 4 роки тому

      Thomazio 87 nOtIcE tHaT

    • @mariajoaoprimo7218
      @mariajoaoprimo7218 4 роки тому +4

      ObViOuSly prEsenCe is HeRe

    • @b.jr.7816
      @b.jr.7816 4 роки тому

      Thomazio 87 She’s talking to her Senpai

  • @yurei7081
    @yurei7081 Рік тому +65

    People who are struggling with panic/anxiety attacks should listen to this, i don’t exactly know why and what but what she said clicked something in my brain and it made so much sense, I’m grateful I stumbled over this video ❤

  • @Scalytt
    @Scalytt 4 роки тому +482

    She’s trying to say that we are so busy with our lives and it constantly being so busy and loud that we miss the silence, the peace and how calming it is.
    Edit: wow y’all I came back after two years thanks for all the likes and comments I still stand by my comment.

    • @mauigio
      @mauigio 3 роки тому +26

      True, be in the moment, meditation
      Recognize the moment, don't just go
      It's lovely

    • @annemarieke88
      @annemarieke88 3 роки тому +45

      She could have said that instead😂

    • @Druffmaul
      @Druffmaul 3 роки тому +34

      Oh shut up and just notice presence.

    • @squidbedoe
      @squidbedoe 3 роки тому +63

      Yes. It's disappointing to see how many cynical reactions there are to her simple message. There's nothing metaphysical about it; she's just encouraging a simple kind of meditation.

    • @captross07
      @captross07 3 роки тому +26

      The fact that it took her 34 minutes to say that should help you notice how full of herself she is.
      I certainly noticed that

  • @davidrichards5964
    @davidrichards5964 2 роки тому +74

    This is amazing. To watch someone talk so much and say so little that makes any actual sense is truly impressive. She could be Depak Chopra's sister.

    • @playlist9980
      @playlist9980 5 місяців тому +3

      Notice that emptiness. The lack of meaning is the absence of the thing itself. The absence of the ego imposing its presence over the big nothingness. It's really powerful. It's an absence but it's a presence at the same time. The presence of absence.

    • @edgypaleboy6097
      @edgypaleboy6097 3 місяці тому +2

      But it does make sense

  • @Idk-dd2gn
    @Idk-dd2gn 4 роки тому +2275

    She is saying so much and saying nothing at the same time

    • @Kevin-ox3db
      @Kevin-ox3db 4 роки тому +62

      Ikr! Glad someone else noticed it. Xd

    • @juanitolondon2680
      @juanitolondon2680 4 роки тому +168

      Typical with a lot these “enlightened “ ones

    • @musicforeverr1
      @musicforeverr1 4 роки тому +9

      Kevin omg hahahaha

    • @Idk-dd2gn
      @Idk-dd2gn 4 роки тому +91

      Kevin right? 30 minutes of talking and I have no idea what she’s on about lol

    • @Kevin-ox3db
      @Kevin-ox3db 4 роки тому +53

      @@Idk-dd2gn That's me in some college presentations. Hahaha

  • @ifonefan1147
    @ifonefan1147 4 роки тому +1967

    This is the most relaxing bs I have listened to in a while.

    • @drycleanernick7603
      @drycleanernick7603 4 роки тому +4

      MrOverCritical1989 yeah sounds like some Taoism shiz

    • @mzmoth
      @mzmoth 4 роки тому +14

      😂😂😂

    • @mzmoth
      @mzmoth 4 роки тому +20

      Maths tutorials are good for this as well

    • @xer0c
      @xer0c 4 роки тому +75

      Notice that.

    • @CasperLD
      @CasperLD 4 роки тому +49

      If only Donald Trump did ASMR. That would be some relaxing horseshit.

  • @andrewelam4124
    @andrewelam4124 3 роки тому +864

    The most calming nonsense I've ever heard.

    • @weewee2169
      @weewee2169 2 роки тому +27

      i think she’s got a point

    • @MrNeotek
      @MrNeotek 2 роки тому +1

      and youre the most nonsense ive ever seen

    • @weewee2169
      @weewee2169 2 роки тому

      @@MrNeotek right steady on ffs

    • @user-li5wk2yq4b
      @user-li5wk2yq4b 2 роки тому +5

      @@weewee2169 don't you steady on him at all. I'll not have Irish tricks here by god I will not.

    • @weewee2169
      @weewee2169 2 роки тому +3

      @@user-li5wk2yq4b
      wtf lol

  • @diaz5292
    @diaz5292 3 роки тому +172

    I find the best unintentional ASMR occurs when the speaker is speaking utter nonsense.

    • @israeldlr4365
      @israeldlr4365 3 роки тому +7

      unfocuses your brain yet another layer to strip down the thinking more

    • @imadoptid1280
      @imadoptid1280 3 роки тому

      What part

    • @nickys6656
      @nickys6656 2 роки тому

      I agree!

    • @honkhonk5181
      @honkhonk5181 2 роки тому +3

      She’s actually a master zen teacher disguised as an inarticulate woo woo nu ager. By spouting incoherent blabber, she pushes the students closer and closer to giving up thinking entirely due to the mental exhaustion. Then once it happens, enlightenment!

    • @skymaster4121
      @skymaster4121 2 роки тому +1

      Then you fall asleep to politicians making promises to get elected? Hmmm….smart!

  • @UglyJack
    @UglyJack 4 роки тому +350

    When the microphone picks up her first breath, you knew it was gonna be a good video.

  • @Eweyhen
    @Eweyhen 4 роки тому +422

    Oh my. This is a true gem.

    • @PureUnintentionalASMR
      @PureUnintentionalASMR  4 роки тому +35

      Yeah, I figured you guys might like it!

    • @Eweyhen
      @Eweyhen 4 роки тому +15

      @@PureUnintentionalASMR Brooooo her and the guy around 16:50 LMAO. He aint having none of her crap and she aint digging his smirk. Wooooow.

    • @lockandloadlikehell
      @lockandloadlikehell 4 роки тому +2

      @@Eweyhen
      *Bruh*

    • @gabriellagelir2027
      @gabriellagelir2027 4 роки тому +1

      @@Eweyhen that was hilarious....lol and she just holds him with an awkward gaze...lol

    • @catto157
      @catto157 4 роки тому

      @@PureUnintentionalASMR yessss pls more like this ♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @lro001
    @lro001 4 роки тому +413

    2015: Let the Neck be Free
    2020: Presence

    • @jsonbreathes9894
      @jsonbreathes9894 4 роки тому +32

      2009: sandwich breath

    • @lro001
      @lro001 4 роки тому +14

      2010: A navy suit for war

    • @Alice_Walker
      @Alice_Walker 4 роки тому +22

      OMG I'd forgotten about let the neck be free lady! 😍

    • @mranderson8461
      @mranderson8461 4 роки тому +25

      Effort... Less

    • @lro001
      @lro001 4 роки тому +8

      Alice Walker 😆never forget ma’am

  • @FifthAssassin
    @FifthAssassin 4 роки тому +160

    She really might be the best unintentional ASMR voice, ever

    • @CME1994
      @CME1994 11 місяців тому +2

      I’ve listened to many, none as good as hers.
      Literally makes me feel tickly inside my chest and the heaviest eyes possible so good

    • @christophebonhoefferofbelg9846
      @christophebonhoefferofbelg9846 7 місяців тому +2

      I’ve noticed 🙄

  • @Balloonbot
    @Balloonbot 4 роки тому +125

    Shes talking about getting out of your own head basically. Being "in the moment" as people know it, but without the need for external stimulus to do so. Essentially shes encouraging the people in the room to look at the world without the fog of thoughts that clutter our perspective. Some of the comments label it nonsense but you all have hobbies, watch movies and the biggest one of all: drink alcohol - as all these things to allow us to do what shes talking about. This is aligning more with science aswell, many psychologists would recommend meditation for this purpose also.

    • @alfredschnozzenstein1657
      @alfredschnozzenstein1657 4 роки тому +2

      Thank you for explaining it my friend. Honestly, I wanted to pay attention and truly understand what she was saying because it sounded deep, but the moment she started speaking, I went comatose.

    • @jenrose4177
      @jenrose4177 4 роки тому +6

      Nobody cares. It's the asmr that matters.

    • @Balloonbot
      @Balloonbot 4 роки тому +5

      @@alfredschnozzenstein1657 No worries, honestly theres not much to it - but these spiritual teachers would reach more people if they explained more clearly haha.

    • @mariamatedei
      @mariamatedei 4 роки тому

      Maybe I misunderstood you but if any psychologist is advising you/anyone to drink for any reason they're insane

    • @Balloonbot
      @Balloonbot 4 роки тому +3

      @@mariamatedei You did misunderstand me yes, i said: "many psychologists would recommend meditation"

  • @morganlewis99ml
    @morganlewis99ml 4 роки тому +1881

    This is calming and nice but seriously, wrf is she talking about.

    • @paramedivmso4
      @paramedivmso4 4 роки тому +366

      Haha. she is teaching how to let go and be in the now.Because when you practice this and learn to use this power, that we all have, all things disappear and you realize you are in control of your thoughts and feelings. It is not what is done to you but how you react to it that matters. You are in control of your reality.

    • @commonunicorn1975
      @commonunicorn1975 4 роки тому +81

      Sounds like meditation. Or some grounding techniques for therapy.

    • @MrWhisperingwildly
      @MrWhisperingwildly 4 роки тому +48

      Presents

    • @shelley2he844
      @shelley2he844 4 роки тому +46

      She is teaching a mindfulness class x it's very good.

    • @tackyman2011
      @tackyman2011 4 роки тому +32

      @@paramedivmso4 My reality wants a hamburger.

  • @ellareynolds6800
    @ellareynolds6800 3 роки тому +46

    She has such a motherly vibe omg it’s so relaxing

  • @kateOwens79
    @kateOwens79 Рік тому +43

    The little mic helps her voice to sound so soothing. Without it , it’s not the same! I love to listen to anyone with one of those little mics. Old fashioned asmr, when people use the mic attached to head phones has a similar sound. It picks up the clicking sounds etc naturally.

  • @rayorbison4699
    @rayorbison4699 4 роки тому +171

    4:50
    Hey, may I have a slice of that chocolate cake over there on the table?
    Her:

  • @WhisperAudiosASMR
    @WhisperAudiosASMR 4 роки тому +963

    Ok this hits the spot 😴

    • @MarcoMorales
      @MarcoMorales 3 роки тому +4

      Yesss it doessss 😴😴

    • @lro001
      @lro001 3 роки тому +15

      This is my “go to” when other ASMRs fail.

    • @mahnzcakautabu5757
      @mahnzcakautabu5757 3 роки тому +12

      which spot?😏

    • @orlandoherrera791
      @orlandoherrera791 3 роки тому +21

      “Notice that” spot lmao

    • @josefk2132
      @josefk2132 3 роки тому +1

      A true compliment there from one of the best. 👍🏻

  • @ToniAnnBarandon
    @ToniAnnBarandon 4 роки тому +7

    She's talking about becoming aware that you are not being who you really are, but rather playing out conditioning that you've been programed with in your upbringing. The noticing and presence she's referring to, are to help stop identifying with, and addiction to, content (conditioning/programing/beliefs), by becoming the observer of it, and as a result seeing through it. Realizing you are the consciousness that mental, physical, and emotional content arises in, not the content itself. Be the sky. The clouds are just passing through.

  • @beefyiceman94
    @beefyiceman94 Рік тому +24

    The presence of ASMR in this video is very noticeable.

  • @3m5r56
    @3m5r56 4 роки тому +84

    The soothing voice would go well with a full body massage. Her voice tokes you to the relaxing place of being awake and thinking you are sleeping. Soothing Prescence

  • @daletinsley2954
    @daletinsley2954 7 місяців тому +10

    I literally listened to this for 36 hours. I couldn't keep my eyes open after that. Very relaxing

  • @TheBaldyheed
    @TheBaldyheed Рік тому +34

    Her voice is awesome but what she is actually saying is even more awesome, how she encourages us to notice our true self and not our conditioned self is fantastic ❤️

  • @227Love
    @227Love 3 роки тому +13

    I’m half polish, and throughout my childhood I’ve always found tingles when people spoke Polish around me, my other language not so much lol

  • @b.jr.7816
    @b.jr.7816 4 роки тому +86

    Holy guacamole, this is some platinum level UASMR. Right into my sleep playlist 🙏

  • @EdgeOfLight
    @EdgeOfLight 2 роки тому +15

    the short pauses in between questions are amazing.. it increases the acuteness of the next sentence

  • @egd5588
    @egd5588 3 роки тому +85

    I love how she says “gwhat is happening gright gnow” her accent is so relaxing lol

  • @mrslippay6967
    @mrslippay6967 Рік тому +8

    I absolutely love these spiritual life coaches or whatever they're called, because they're not actually saying anything. Like all of that means absolutely nothing. She's just saying words that vaguely hint to something that is coherent, but it never reaches the point of actually having any substance. Fascinating

  • @sammyleet03
    @sammyleet03 7 місяців тому +7

    My therapist I had in high school was very soft spoken, I could have listened to her voice all day. This woman’s voice is so soothing and it almost matches my therapist’s

  • @gimj1_8
    @gimj1_8 3 роки тому +19

    Her voice is ultra gentle.

  • @adambowman3399
    @adambowman3399 3 роки тому +208

    Hello, my name is Inigo Montoya. You killed my father. Prepare to...notice that.

    • @anamosa1574
      @anamosa1574 3 роки тому +6

      Needs more likes

    • @Why-in9ms
      @Why-in9ms 3 роки тому

      Is that true??

    • @matildaxx8775
      @matildaxx8775 3 роки тому +5

      @@Why-in9ms it’s from the princess Bride

    • @Why-in9ms
      @Why-in9ms 3 роки тому

      @@matildaxx8775 Ah okayy🤦‍♀️

    • @Kittycathead
      @Kittycathead 3 роки тому

      this was such a great movie

  • @rachelmhenry
    @rachelmhenry 4 роки тому +38

    “Effortless” - the theme of all incredible unintentional ASMR

    • @Rick-remlrp
      @Rick-remlrp 3 роки тому +4

      Or, as Diana Dawson says - Effort-Less :)

    • @anontablet6304
      @anontablet6304 3 місяці тому

      With a bit of arms coming forward but thats ok.

  • @burakdavut4
    @burakdavut4 4 роки тому +154

    ---N o T i C e---

  • @WhisperingRay
    @WhisperingRay 4 роки тому +59

    OK, I have been listening to this every night for the ASMR. It puts me down fast. But I feel like I am absorbing her message in lots of subtle ways, and it is having kind of a profound impact. I find myself being quiet during the day and being aware of my own awareness. It is peaceful and energizing at the same time. Anyone else experience this? Who is this woman, does anyone know?

    • @Disastrous_Macaron
      @Disastrous_Macaron 3 роки тому +6

      Yes. I've watched it so much it repeats in my head through the day. It helps.
      Not sure who she is but she has a UA-cam channel

    • @WolfieLovesDaddy
      @WolfieLovesDaddy 3 роки тому +6

      It is the state of mindfulness. Being entirely immersed in the present with no expectation of why, where or how. Just being present in the absolute moment.

    • @Meownold
      @Meownold 3 роки тому +4

      She makes me want to shed my clothes and quietly be with myself until I notice.

    • @DeadDiznee
      @DeadDiznee 3 роки тому

      @@Meownold 2nd 😅

    • @egd5588
      @egd5588 3 роки тому +3

      Her name is Neelam satsang and she does have a UA-cam channel

  • @hummingbird4335
    @hummingbird4335 3 роки тому +10

    This is where my love for asmr has brought me. Now I've seen everything.

  • @juliadrummond8663
    @juliadrummond8663 3 роки тому +4

    This is by far EXACTLY what I've been looking for so long in the same videos. Thank you! I love natural asmr videos where people don't seem to be forcing a certain performance.

  • @GiveMeBackMyUsernameYouTube
    @GiveMeBackMyUsernameYouTube 3 роки тому +69

    I can't help feeling there's something missing... something I haven't noticed.

  • @301larussomusic
    @301larussomusic 4 роки тому +45

    What she wanted that guy to understand is that he is present but not in the moment. He is probably present with what concerns that are going on in his life. Or just nervous about being in a group setting and his minds on that.

    • @WolfieLovesDaddy
      @WolfieLovesDaddy 4 роки тому +3

      Chris Larusso yeah like he is trying too hard.

  • @zidanecristianoaveiro
    @zidanecristianoaveiro 4 роки тому +10

    I dont care if what she is saying is nonsense
    it still helps me relax and helps my relief

  • @Kevin_Forde
    @Kevin_Forde 5 місяців тому +6

    I wouldn't claim to understand what she is saying, but it doesn't seem to matter because her voice is just so relaxing! 😌

  • @gill5570
    @gill5570 4 роки тому +367

    Her voice is fantastic, but I got annoyed every time another person spoke. I only want to hear her voice, no matter how out of context it is. 😁

    • @PureUnintentionalASMR
      @PureUnintentionalASMR  4 роки тому +59

      Yeah it's a difficult balancing act. I removed almost all the questions from the audience but I left in any that I felt were relaxing themselves.

    • @SraTacoMal
      @SraTacoMal 4 роки тому +20

      Pure Unintentional ASMR Perhaps two versions, one with context left in and the other without. You can get two uploads out of one video!

    • @bigfoot5629
      @bigfoot5629 4 роки тому +2

      Agreed

    • @rchloe-wk3rp
      @rchloe-wk3rp 4 роки тому +18

      yeah, i wanted that dude offscreen to shut up.

    • @NichtNameee
      @NichtNameee 3 роки тому +4

      Yes of course, it's available.

  • @mi_kirsh
    @mi_kirsh 3 роки тому +15

    I like how she differentiates between “paying attention to” and “getting involved with”. Regarding meditation, those are two very different things and the former is much harder to do with your own thoughts and feelings.

  • @jennh310
    @jennh310 3 роки тому +25

    most of the people that are talking back to her sound like they just got called on by a teacher and weren’t paying attention in class and trying to make up an answer on the spot😭

  • @partylikeits1066
    @partylikeits1066 4 роки тому +53

    Wow based on the comments I didn't expect what she was saying to resonate with me so much but it really did. In a way I've only started understanding in recent years after a lot of reflection and personal development. This gave me a really interesting way of thinking about ideas and feelings I've had for a while. It's always great to find when others have had similar discoveries to you!

  • @zachz699
    @zachz699 4 роки тому +53

    “So presence is.. identity?”
    .. “presence is natural yadda yadda”
    *guy smirking and trying not to laugh xD

  • @amethyste684
    @amethyste684 3 роки тому +30

    Im sad many people believe she isn't making any sense. Her mentoring really centered my mind and put me at ease. Maybe people dont believe shes making sense because they aren't listening to her words, and are instead too focused on how soft spoken and relaxing her voice is...

    • @littlebubbleguy
      @littlebubbleguy Рік тому +11

      If you focus on her words, she'll start to make less and less sense, until you get really embarrassed and realize she's probably just scamming people with ambiguous and relatable statements, and a calm tone to make you feel good. I felt centered too, until I realized she's just speaking while saying absolutely nothing.

    • @amethyste684
      @amethyste684 Рік тому +7

      @@littlebubbleguy We have been conditioned to believe the world is out to get us, but there are good people in the earth...
      We have to earn a living somehow, this lady makes her living off helping people to feel at peace and grounded. Quite a lovely job no harm in it.

    • @MAAF808
      @MAAF808 Рік тому +2

      "Presencee... you seeee... okay, beótiful..."

    • @amethyste684
      @amethyste684 Рік тому +2

      ​@@MAAF808 Words of comfort❤

    • @teallineart8805
      @teallineart8805 5 місяців тому

      ⁠@@amethyste684Within a capitalist system, literally anyone who has a business is out to get you. I'm glad you found it useful, but I would've been pissed that my time was being wasted, if I was there. I've only had one of these annoying meditative therapies once. The entire time I was told to lay down, close my eyes and explain what I see. Spoiler alert: It was mostly orange due to the light shining on my eyelids. Sometimes I would see certain shapes, but that was it. I asked the therapist at one point how long the therapy's supposed to last, since I had work right after the appointment. He literally said, 'It'll end once you feel healed.' That motherfucker held me hostage until I told him what he wanted to hear. That certainly wasn't going to happen, because the entire time I felt more bored and annoyed rather than relaxed. Around the end, I lied and said I feel cured. I wasn't letting this asshole hold me back from earning money. AKA Doing something actually useful with my time. My mom paid $300 for it, because she genuinely thought it would help me. I feel so sorry for her, because she falls so much for this bullshit when she and I can literally just meditate at home for free.

  • @JerrySaraviaCinema1895
    @JerrySaraviaCinema1895 2 роки тому +6

    Silence can be only really understood when there are others in the same room and you share it all equally. This is one of the best ASMR videos. Presence.

  • @amandalridley
    @amandalridley 4 роки тому +28

    “Notice what is present.”
    Okay, so notice what, exactly, the silence Orrrr...
    “Notice. Beautiful.”

  • @richardsmusic5577
    @richardsmusic5577 Рік тому +5

    One of the best soft spoken voices I've ever heard in my life. Wow

  • @tabe_k
    @tabe_k 3 роки тому +60

    I think she uses the sentence "you see" exactly as many polish people tend to abuse the word "tak".

  • @Mojo-IRE
    @Mojo-IRE 9 місяців тому +2

    Such a beautiful and calm smooth voice. Perfect ASMR.
    That's speaking this pure, raw, unfiltered NONSENSE.

  • @AuntieMamies
    @AuntieMamies 3 роки тому +8

    This woman has an AMAZING voice for ASMR

  • @LavenderSkyla
    @LavenderSkyla 3 роки тому +4

    As soon as she started talking I got tingles down my scalp and spine. Just wow.

  • @kevinphotos5929
    @kevinphotos5929 2 місяці тому

    I have listened to this dozens of times and have not ever made it to the end, I’ve lasted about 20 minutes at best before I fall asleep - awesome ASMR

  • @octagest
    @octagest 2 роки тому +13

    i haven't watched the whole video but it sounds like she's talking about mindfulness meditation, which isn't bs it's just a state of mind

  • @OwenRhodri
    @OwenRhodri 4 роки тому +16

    When reading the title alone my asmr senses started tingling, after listing to the video I can say that I wasn't disappointed. What a great find!

  • @moonwatcher2001
    @moonwatcher2001 3 роки тому +3

    I love her. She hypnotizes me with her whispers. Thanks for this video.

  • @laursey1969
    @laursey1969 2 роки тому +20

    Either she knows exactly what she’s trying to say but is supremely bad at explaining it, or she is talking absolute broken biscuits. Either way, she has the ultimate ASMR voice.

    • @Lorenzo9214
      @Lorenzo9214 Місяць тому +1

      Exactly, I couldn't have said it better

  • @catto157
    @catto157 4 роки тому +5

    She is talking about meditation, presence and the beautiful benefits from this. She is so calm I bet she meditates 24/7 that's why. Love it so relaxing it makes my mood

  • @EdyIggs9790
    @EdyIggs9790 4 роки тому +3

    Oh yes Pure u did it! Her soft voice and manners make me feel the tingles!

  • @anonnico5475
    @anonnico5475 3 роки тому +66

    did she break into a house party with microphones in hand and start leading a guided meditation sesh?

  • @austinneves7559
    @austinneves7559 5 місяців тому +2

    I’m glad we can all seem to agree that soft spoken voices are superior to whispers.
    Only very few whisperers have gotten my attention.
    Bob Ross is the ultimate king of the soft spoken voice.

  • @SpaceMango
    @SpaceMango 3 роки тому +8

    I wish more people used these microphones, they are so relaxing.

  • @NEIGH6699
    @NEIGH6699 Рік тому +15

    I notice everyone in the comments noticing their presence, you see. Beautiful

  • @thebat2785
    @thebat2785 4 місяці тому +3

    her accent is lovely and her voice is really pleasant, thank you!

  • @michaelreddington658
    @michaelreddington658 3 роки тому +8

    When she said ‘notice that’...I felt that 😂

  • @mtjanglefins781
    @mtjanglefins781 Рік тому +6

    "Notice the silence." The enlightened form of shut up.

  • @markheithorn3905
    @markheithorn3905 4 роки тому +20

    This is some of the best asmr I have ever heard.

  • @JeniferSheppard
    @JeniferSheppard 4 роки тому +5

    This is perfection! I don't even know where to begin so I'll just watch it 100 more times.

  • @jaywilly-hw6dt
    @jaywilly-hw6dt 3 місяці тому +1

    Her voice is so soothing 🥰❤️

  • @tanerth
    @tanerth 2 роки тому +4

    This is what I called ASMR she's got perfect voice that made me tranquilized, period...

  • @Roostest
    @Roostest 4 роки тому +199

    You noticed this comment, right?

    • @Jos_city
      @Jos_city 4 роки тому +9

      Notice this reply. Notice.

    • @mr.coffee5220
      @mr.coffee5220 3 роки тому +1

      Yes and I need a navy suit for war to be established.

    • @d66dle
      @d66dle 3 роки тому

      i do now

    • @calyxman
      @calyxman 3 роки тому +1

      @Big Smoke You noticed that, see?

    • @DanielLopez-dy1ul
      @DanielLopez-dy1ul 3 роки тому

      I’ve noticed that she’s noticed that people aren’t noticing that she’s noticed they haven’t noticed…presence

  • @xer0c
    @xer0c 4 роки тому +298

    She's talking a bunch of gobbledegook but I'm relaxed lol.

    • @justabitofjunkie2595
      @justabitofjunkie2595 4 роки тому +24

      I think you have to shave your head and start wearing bed sheets for this to make sense.

    • @Timgoodblades
      @Timgoodblades 4 роки тому +38

      Notice that

    • @BlstFrmThPst
      @BlstFrmThPst 4 роки тому +10

      Timgoodblades lmfao you just killed me dude 😂 💀

    • @monicarose723
      @monicarose723 4 роки тому +2

      Ryan Clark 😂 that’s hilarious!

    • @gnarcissist666
      @gnarcissist666 4 роки тому

      😂😂😂

  • @chrisd530
    @chrisd530 2 роки тому +4

    I love how she asks him what he notices, and he just makes up some shit about "hot spots". He had absolutely no idea how to answer that and it was obvious.

  • @sarahmcmahon8923
    @sarahmcmahon8923 4 роки тому +25

    I really like the combo of unintentional asmr and personal growth stuff-it feels like I'm spending my time on something useful for me :) thanks

    • @PureUnintentionalASMR
      @PureUnintentionalASMR  4 роки тому +12

      That's literally what I'm trying to do with this channel. I want my videos to be relaxing but I also want them to be informative too so I'm glad you enjoyed it.

    • @keef78
      @keef78 3 роки тому +3

      There's one born every minute.

  • @jayh708
    @jayh708 4 роки тому +21

    These guys are like, damn I've paid $1000 for this course, should've just smoked a few joints in a quiet room instead and I'd probably leave feeling the same!
    Her voice is incredible though

  • @gracemon2oe
    @gracemon2oe 8 місяців тому +2

    Okay I haven’t had tingles that strong in a while. Whoa. Every time she says notice, my head goes ✨✨✨

  • @LouiseB228
    @LouiseB228 Рік тому +1

    A couple years ago I had a masseuse who spoke very soft and gently just like this. It was amazing.

  • @Dryadkal
    @Dryadkal 4 роки тому +5

    Ooo love this. You edited this well already, would you mind considering making a second version with just her, even if its out of context? You could perhaps throw this version in the description box so people can see the context if they want to? Thanks very much for the video, and very relaxing lady.