Life Lessons My Iron Taught Me About Overcoming Adversity | Emem Washington | TEDxRoyalCentralSchool

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  • Emem Washington shares lessons learned from her iron to highlight the importance of a resilience mindset, and how to use it to survive and succeed in the midst of overwhelming adversity.
    Known as ‘The Dream Ambassador’ to many, Emem Washington, is an International Speaker, Author, Coach and multi-passionate creative entrepreneur. She is also an Attorney and Recording Artist. Her mission is to inspire, equip and cheer millions towards success, regardless of where they are, where they are from, or where they have been.
    She blends her legal, entrepreneurial, familial and spiritual experiences into real and relatable advice, sharing from her heart and inspiring women to uncover and live out their purpose and use their gifts.
    She is married and the proud mom of 2 sons. When she is not teaching, researching or leading worship, Emem enjoys spending time with her family, listening to music, and scribbling down thoughts, ideas and aha moments on napkins and post it notes.
    Get to know her further at www.ememwashington.com. Known as ‘The Dream Ambassador’ to many, Emem Washington, is a Speaker, Author, Coach and multi-passionate creative entrepreneur.
    She is the author of “Rise from the Shadows: Overcome Your Past, Reclaim Your Voice, Live Your Light” and the co-author of the anthology “Women of Purpose” and has been blessed to speak internationally.
    Emem blends her legal, entrepreneurial, familial and spiritual experiences into real and relatable advice, sharing from her heart and inspiring women to uncover and live out their God-given purpose. - This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @MomTheEbayer101
    @MomTheEbayer101 3 роки тому +3

    Wow!!!! This was absolutely beautiful!! Now I'll never look at my iron the same again lol!! Thank you for sharing your story because it definitely strengthend me to simply enjoy the process, utilize my base and to embrace the heat because it's just as important as anything else. Wow!! Great Emem - Great Job!! ❤️

    • @Saunders7
      @Saunders7 3 роки тому

      I dont iron.

    • @EmemWashington
      @EmemWashington 3 роки тому

      Thank you for listening to my talk and for your kind words, Angel. I’m so happy it resonated. ❤️🙏🏾

  • @danielblanchard2757
    @danielblanchard2757 Рік тому +1

    Great insight about overcoming adversity.

  • @DrmOeAnderson
    @DrmOeAnderson 11 місяців тому +1

    I've watched this several times when the road of life became bumpy. Emem always inspires me with her words and warmth! Great talk. ❤

  • @ameliebaxter553
    @ameliebaxter553 2 роки тому +1

    Omg, a very good topic! I'm also like this!!

  • @quincyn4010
    @quincyn4010 4 роки тому +2

    Thanks you so much for sharing... I picked up on some amazing points. So sorry about your mom. Great 👍🏿 job...!

  • @IncomingThought
    @IncomingThought 3 роки тому +1

    REally enjoyed meeting you in Clubhouse. Thank you for sharing your unique perspectives on what ironing can teach you. Ben Chai.
    PS Ironically I enjoy ironing ;-)

    • @EmemWashington
      @EmemWashington 3 роки тому

      Thank you, Ben. So good meeting you on Clubhouse and listening to the wisdom you shared. I’ve learned to cherish those who enjoy ironing, almost as much as those who enjoy matching socks after laundry, ha! Thank you for listening.

  • @julesj2381
    @julesj2381 4 роки тому +2

    Wow! Beautiful analogy. Amazing how the natural things around create life lessons... Thanks Emem

    • @EmemWashington
      @EmemWashington 4 роки тому

      Thank you, Jules! I’m so glad it resonated.

  • @yingmclane941
    @yingmclane941 Рік тому +1

    What a beautiful story! The analogy is right on point! I love how she speaks with honesty and humor. We all have wrinkles in our lives, and it's our attitude and action toward those wrinkles will make a life difference!

    • @EmemWashington
      @EmemWashington Рік тому

      Thank you for listening and sharing your thoughts, Ying! 🙏🏾

  • @jessicareed51
    @jessicareed51 4 роки тому +2

    Loved the way she explained things. absolutely great points!

    • @EmemWashington
      @EmemWashington 4 роки тому

      Thank you so much. I’m glad it resonated.

  • @ashleyevans8801
    @ashleyevans8801 Рік тому +1

    Such a valuable lesson from something so simple. Thanks for the reminder to take note of our surroundings and learn life’s lessons gently. Valuable lessons here.

    • @EmemWashington
      @EmemWashington Рік тому

      Thank you for taking the time to listen and share your thoughts, Ashley. ❤

  • @benyanthony
    @benyanthony 4 роки тому +3

    Awww dear Sibling! What an awesome analogy. Sooo proud of how you are graciously wearing your testimony!
    Yes we do need the heat in our lives to straighten those wrinkles...LOL some of us take our clothes to the dry cleaners...
    There is this form of heat aka Discipline.
    No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produced a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it. Hebrews 12:11

  • @kelseyellenwood853
    @kelseyellenwood853 3 роки тому +1

    I Learned so much from this talk! Thanks!

    • @EmemWashington
      @EmemWashington 3 роки тому

      I’m glad, Kelsey. Thank you for your comment.

  • @joyogunneye
    @joyogunneye Рік тому +1

    Wow, so so profound. I love and resonate with the ironing analogy. And love how we can learn valuable lessons from chores we hate doing. Thanks so much for being such an inspiration and helping us connect the dots through your testimonies. Powerful!

    • @EmemWashington
      @EmemWashington Рік тому +1

      Thank you, Joy!
      P.S I still hate ironing😅

    • @joyogunneye
      @joyogunneye Рік тому

      @@EmemWashington hahahaha lol 😂

  • @aaronscott9974
    @aaronscott9974 4 роки тому +1

    Very valuable lessons. we learn in life that we need time to become better.

  • @charlesmiller8286
    @charlesmiller8286 4 роки тому +1

    Emme your talking is very inspiring,I learnt a lot.

  • @gBalldevelopmentllc
    @gBalldevelopmentllc 3 роки тому +1

    I lost my precious mom in August, 2020. It still hurts.

    • @EmemWashington
      @EmemWashington 3 роки тому +1

      Glenda, please accept my condolences. I’m so sorry for your loss. Reach out if you need a listening ear.

  • @poojakapoor2441
    @poojakapoor2441 4 роки тому +1

    Excellent of way explaining. Learned a lot!

  • @TomiFavored
    @TomiFavored 4 роки тому +2

    So inspiring and encouraging Ms. Emem! Thank you so much for sharing these lessons.

  • @jamiesmith1145
    @jamiesmith1145 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks for sharing the lessons. More power to you!

    • @EmemWashington
      @EmemWashington 3 роки тому

      Thank you for listening, and for your kind words.

  • @akashgupta-vv8sb
    @akashgupta-vv8sb 4 роки тому +1

    Very well spoken and really encouraging.

    • @EmemWashington
      @EmemWashington 4 роки тому

      Thank you for listening. Much appreciated.

  • @umoh0
    @umoh0 4 роки тому +2

    Beautiful speech. I am proud of you.

  • @leeyuna4131
    @leeyuna4131 Рік тому

    OW, SUCH AN EYE OPENER. YOU EXPLAINED EVERYTHING WELL, YOU'RE MY FAVORITE SPEAKER NOW

  • @marysmith9371
    @marysmith9371 4 роки тому +1

    I get a valuable lesson, thank you Emem.

  • @simonyoung7785
    @simonyoung7785 3 роки тому +1

    Truly inspired by the talk!

    • @EmemWashington
      @EmemWashington 3 роки тому

      I’m happy to know. Thank you for listening.

  • @laurabarnett5643
    @laurabarnett5643 4 роки тому +1

    Yes strong base is a great lesson! love your speech

  • @davidjensen2469
    @davidjensen2469 3 роки тому +1

    I have to say that every bit of what I heard was really motivating and educating. great work!

    • @EmemWashington
      @EmemWashington 3 роки тому

      Thank you, David. That’s awesome to hear.

  • @sharlenemeyer2385
    @sharlenemeyer2385 Рік тому

    so inspirational, hope you can talk more about this topic. i love listening to your words, you give good analogy.

  • @ronniechambers4755
    @ronniechambers4755 4 роки тому +1

    Iron begin to talk to you is all about self awareness, I can understand. Beautiful lesson ❤️

  • @jetmirarema1563
    @jetmirarema1563 4 роки тому +1

    I watched the video and found it very interesting!🙂

  • @mikejohnson-vp2ms
    @mikejohnson-vp2ms 4 роки тому +1

    You have explained things really well! great speech! 👏🏿

    • @EmemWashington
      @EmemWashington 4 роки тому

      Thank you. I’m glad it resonated. 🙏🏾

  • @2morot
    @2morot 4 роки тому +2

    A very beautiful presentation. Emem, this is awesome...more grace to you

  • @ifyetuokwu1370
    @ifyetuokwu1370 4 роки тому +1

    Relatable • Poignant • Thought-provoking
    These lessons spill into the many fabrics of life and your words have encouraged and lit a fire within. Thank you for sharing your heart Emem!

    • @EmemWashington
      @EmemWashington 4 роки тому

      I’m so glad! Thank you for watching and for your encouraging comment.

  • @ronnyrossi3206
    @ronnyrossi3206 4 роки тому +1

    I love irony 😝, I can totally relate

  • @mattperry4691
    @mattperry4691 4 роки тому +1

    I really needed to hear this. great talk!

    • @EmemWashington
      @EmemWashington 4 роки тому

      I’m so glad it resonated. Thank you for watching.

  • @oluchiozumba7122
    @oluchiozumba7122 4 роки тому +2

    Wow! Great analogy and very informative. Great job! I love these Ted talks.🙏🏾👍🏾

  • @estherakogun3201
    @estherakogun3201 4 роки тому +2

    Way to go Emem, I am so proud of you! I love the analogy and the lessons resonate! I especially like the lesson of living and loving while we still have the time! May the memory of your mum remain blessed!

    • @EmemWashington
      @EmemWashington 4 роки тому

      Amen. Thank you so much! I am so glad they resonate. Blessings to you.

  • @jamescutler2486
    @jamescutler2486 4 роки тому +1

    this was really inspiring. self awareness is really important.

  • @jeremymartinez6869
    @jeremymartinez6869 4 роки тому +1

    This was inspiring to listen!

  • @melm3526
    @melm3526 4 роки тому +1

    Women helping women entrepreneurs brought me here 🙋🏽‍♀️ Lord knows I needed this. Thank you & Congrats 🤍

    • @EmemWashington
      @EmemWashington 4 роки тому +1

      Oh I’m so glad to know that it resonated. Thank you, Mary!

  • @christinajohnson9941
    @christinajohnson9941 4 роки тому +1

    This was really inspiring and very valuable life lessons.

  • @cukomadu
    @cukomadu 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you for reminding me that life will not always be wrinkle-free. I’m embracing the heat in every area of my life so it can do it’s work. I too had the I don’t need anyone mentality. But, I’m learning to collaborate with others. There’s beauty in having a solid base. Thank you so much for an amazing 🙌🙌🥳🤩🥰👏👏👏 talk. I enjoyed your stories, presentation style, and mannerisms 😂

    • @EmemWashington
      @EmemWashington 4 роки тому

      Thank you so much! I’m very happy that it resonated with you. Good for you, regarding collaborating with others more. And yes to beauty in a solid base!! ❤️🙏🏾

  • @RegumDomini
    @RegumDomini 4 роки тому +1

    Good work Mimi. This blessed me, and stirred up valuable lessons.

  • @dr_htown6910
    @dr_htown6910 4 роки тому +1

    Thanks Emem for sharing! Love the analogy. I needed to hear this

    • @EmemWashington
      @EmemWashington 4 роки тому

      I’m so glad it resonated. Thank you for watching.

  • @chiomaosibodu7166
    @chiomaosibodu7166 3 роки тому +1

    I love this..soo much insight, coming at the right time!!!

    • @EmemWashington
      @EmemWashington 3 роки тому

      I’m so glad it resonated with you. Thank you for your warm comment. 🙏🏾

  • @kemistrykemidada9256
    @kemistrykemidada9256 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you for this well delivered speech.🙏
    It's indeed true that no man is an Island. We need a strong support base.
    It's also important to learn from our 'wrinkles', even while the heat of the iron is being applied.
    It's funny you mentioned the hairdresser because I have that relationship with mine. 🤣

    • @EmemWashington
      @EmemWashington 4 роки тому +1

      I get it. My friend is a hairdresser and she just shared with me that many of her clients have that relationship with her too. Thank you for watching and for your beautiful comment.

  • @remiwilloughby7095
    @remiwilloughby7095 4 роки тому +1

    Excellent presentation, Emem! So proud of you.

  • @lorijones3637
    @lorijones3637 4 роки тому +1

    Very engaging ❤️

  • @nishatiwari9542
    @nishatiwari9542 4 роки тому +1

    The way you used the iron as example for life lessons is amazing.

    • @EmemWashington
      @EmemWashington 4 роки тому

      I’m so glad that it resonated with you. Thank you.

  • @tolaniadewole848
    @tolaniadewole848 4 роки тому +3

    Exactly what I needed to hear! I learnt that I can’t do life alone. Don’t rush it, somethings take time. I am not failing, I Just needed more time😀. Thank you!

    • @EmemWashington
      @EmemWashington 4 роки тому

      I’m so glad it resonated. Yes, please don’t do life alone.

    • @by_on
      @by_on 4 роки тому +1

      Right, don't do life alone 👍🙏

  • @emeugwuegbu5317
    @emeugwuegbu5317 4 роки тому +1

    Excellent presentation dear cousin. I was captivated to the very end. So proud of you.

  • @Wisdom_Works
    @Wisdom_Works 3 роки тому +1

    I’m so glad you shared this! I needed to hear this message, this morning! What a blessing!!!

    • @EmemWashington
      @EmemWashington 3 роки тому

      Thank you. I’m so glad it resonated with you.

  • @delilahbardlette
    @delilahbardlette Рік тому +1

    Bravo 👏🏾

  • @anietieudoh8832
    @anietieudoh8832 4 роки тому +1

    Very good analogy of using the iron! Having a support system as well as trusting the process is definitely major components of ironing! Thank you Mrs. Washington!!

    • @EmemWashington
      @EmemWashington 4 роки тому

      Thank you for watching. I’m glad it resonated!

  • @Tsemoe
    @Tsemoe 4 роки тому +3

    The lessons we learn when we open our hearts to listen. Great analogy, great delivery, excellent presentation.

    • @emc8556
      @emc8556 4 роки тому

      I love how you said that: “the lessons we learn when we open our hearts to listen”.

    • @EmemWashington
      @EmemWashington 4 роки тому

      Thank you 🙏🏾

  • @stacyegbo1
    @stacyegbo1 4 роки тому +1

    Learn from what you hate doing !

    • @EmemWashington
      @EmemWashington 4 роки тому

      Yes, it’s possible! Which lesson resonated with you most?

    • @stacyegbo1
      @stacyegbo1 4 роки тому +1

      The heat irons out the wrinkles

    • @EmemWashington
      @EmemWashington 4 роки тому

      Stacy Egbo awesome! ❤️🙏🏾

  • @mfonmays5733
    @mfonmays5733 4 роки тому +2

    Very powerful. Gives you different ways to analyze life

  • @efiokibokette883
    @efiokibokette883 4 роки тому +1

    Enemies you are great and I thank God for your life

  • @HeyShawnQ
    @HeyShawnQ 4 роки тому +2

    This is SO GOOD!

  • @deleteexistence6175
    @deleteexistence6175 4 роки тому

    Your iron should have just told you to buy an ironing board and be more patient.
    You only really need to buy it once, occasionally you might need to replace the cover. Also then the board and the iron will have its place (organised) and the ironing process will have its spot.

    • @deleteexistence6175
      @deleteexistence6175 4 роки тому

      The lesson from that is to just get some things you put off out the way and it makes your life less stressful in the long run.

    • @EmemWashington
      @EmemWashington 4 роки тому

      Interesting

  • @ramatunjoku4260
    @ramatunjoku4260 4 роки тому +2

    I am so proud of you Emem

  • @xtravaganzapluswithusenika103
    @xtravaganzapluswithusenika103 4 роки тому +1

    I learned a few things from this talk Emem, well done 👍🏼

    • @EmemWashington
      @EmemWashington 4 роки тому

      Thank you so much and thanks for watching!

  • @meriesegovender3286
    @meriesegovender3286 4 роки тому +1

    Amazing analogy🌼

  • @bowlocheerios
    @bowlocheerios 4 роки тому +1

    Iron? Like ironing clothes?

  • @manelkh3706
    @manelkh3706 4 роки тому +2

    Are we seriously doing this? These talks are getting ridiculous

    • @tolaniadewole848
      @tolaniadewole848 4 роки тому

      Did you listen to it?

    • @quincyn4010
      @quincyn4010 4 роки тому

      Doing what ...why don’t u go out there and make your own talk. Look in the mirror and you will see what ridiculous is. Someone needs some heat here...

  • @caerusnetreferralteamsoffi944
    @caerusnetreferralteamsoffi944 3 місяці тому

    Now I know why you hate irons. But without them, we'd be all wrinkles! Great talk, Em!