BEING BISEXUAL IN A HETERO RELATIONSHIP
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- Опубліковано 7 вер 2024
- A lot of people always ask how it is to be a bisexual woman in a hetero relationship -- and well I'm here to answer your questions. Remember, this is ALL opinion based and my own thoughts. I don't and won't ever speak for anyone else's opinions, other than my own!
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I'm a straight guy who dating a bisexual women I accept her for who she is I want her to know she is love and it a whole new meaning to dating
that's nice of you!
Topics that was because back then it was very dangerous to have gay sex and often led to diseases and death
A good man supports the woman he cares about, including her lesbian relationships. People can be committed to each other regardless of how they identify, however, girl/girl love is never cheating on a guy
@@SapphoSweethearts if she is doing it while committed to a guy, that is called cheating and it is evil
Now what if she’s bisexual and has a pansexual friend ? I can tell my girl is easily influenced by her pansexual friend because pansexuals have more sexual freedoms I guess but here’s the disconnect hows do you as a man deal with a bisexual woman who sounds like she probably wants to indulge in pansexual activities to either suffice her sexual desire or to find herself because after our first conversation I’ve convinced myself she’s either a lil confused about her own bisexuality or she wants to be bisexual an do pansexual activitys with other couples… now I am wrong for thinking this could be a potential waste of time ??? That’s the biggest question lol someone hear me out
I wish I could be more vocal about this. I live in a small town and cannot find anyone to talk to. The person I'm married to doesnt believe bisexual is as real thing. It's very real! Lifetime real!
I totally feel you omg I'm lonely
Sorry to hear that. I hope he can accept you for you are
That’s the reality of life... feel u babe!
I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope he learns to accept you, you deserve to be validated and accepted
No offense but I don't thin I could ever marry someone who thinks that of me. I've already got a problem with my current boyfriend thinking I'll be unfaithful to him because I've dated a lot of people and him being intimidated by my bisexuality. I want to believe he will grow out of this childish nonsense but if he doesn't....we're gonna have a lot to talk about when he gets down on one knee.
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AH you're so sweet!!
The disconnect is: how bi women claim to be Bi while dating a straight man. It makes men feel like you're claiming to have thoughts and fantasies about other people while dating-- as if it is somehow different because it's a woman. OR that the bi woman has future plans of being with a woman-- which destroys stability/trust in a relationship.
Couldn't you argue the same thing about other sexualities? If a straight woman is with a man, does her attraction to men as a whole mean that she'll cheat or make future plans with other men in mind? Not necessarily! It's the same thing with bisexuality and pansexuality. Just because you're capable of being attracted to one or more gender, that doesn't mean that you'll throw away your relationship with your partner or think of other options with other people. People do cheat, but that's just based on who you are as a person, not your sexuality.
I’m bi and I have been criticised for being in straight relationships
!!! it's annoying
ItsAmandaWan ikkkk I really hate it, ur an amazing UA-camr btw I watch all of ur LGBT videos xxx
The morons who think that way probably don’t realise that about 96% of people are straight and straight relationships are way easier to find. Basic statistics tells us that a bisexual who likes men and women equally will have a 96% chance of being in a straight relationship and a 4% chance of being gay.
Hell must be fun
My girlfriend is bi and im straight but shes more attracted to girls. Help me out
As a bi person I figured that it's way easier to date another bi person no matter the gender cause they actually understand you.. In my experience with both lesbians and straight man, they would always feel weird about me hanging out with literally anyone as if I was going to cheat on them and even felt insecure themselves about whether I have a preference, which I don't.. It's hard to find people that actually get you;(
That is exactly how I feel it would be easier to date a bi girl or bi boy cause they understand
Unfortunatley if you are male and bi, wanting to find a woman who’s also bi it would be hard because most bisexuals either hate liking men or prefer women 😞
@@thedudetakedubs5903 you’re in a relationship right now with a bi girl yet you’d rather have a one night stand with one...yikes
omg…i feel so seen by your comment. my ex (who was also toxic) literally told me I wasn’t allowed to sleepover with my friend who was a girl BECAUSE IM BI! See, we were long distance and i had just started uni and was feeling very lonely so I wanted to hang out with a friend but he immediately called me and said no. Made things worse when the next day he found out that my friend was also bi, it made him even more angry cuz he thought i would cheat on him. Surprise surprise he was actually the one that cheated on me in the end :P
On the other hand, they'll criticize us and call us gay if we are in a homosexual relationship.... World's annoying.
yup that's not what bisexuality is!
But you are gay.
EVERYONE needs this video ♥️♥️♥️
ahhh thank you!
How about say "straight male" cis Male, really?
They’re actually two different things
As a bi dude, I think if you are in a committed relationship, you are either gay, straight, or polygamous. How can you be in a monogamous relationship, and constantly talk about your attraction, and even act on your attraction to a sex different than your partner. That’s just cheating. I’ve dated bisexual girls and it sucks when your partner is constantly talking about the same sex and even going as far as to cheat on you. That’s just how I look at it. I think bisexual is just a label and we should stop putting such strict labels on things. Most bisexual people go back and forth from dating guys and girls and in different stages in life.
I am a pan woman who has only ever been in one relationship (and only kissed and had sex etc with that one person), namely with my current partner and a cis guy. What I get a lot is not so much that I'm "straight again", but more that some people from the community tell me that I don't really count as a member of the LGBTQIA+ community because I never had to deal with most of the unpleasantness that would have followed had I ever dated a woman.
Soo...I know this is a little weird...but I'm in a kinda similar but also completely different situation...
I'm a 21 year old bisexual girl in a longterm, loving hetero relationship. Because we started dating so early, I couldn't experiment as much as I probably should have...cause now I'm in this beautiful relationship, but also finally want to experience flirting with girls or sth. Like this...
I feel like I'm bad representation for every bi person, cause the struggle is to show people, that bi people can do that and don't need necessarily experiences with the same sex.
But I feel like...I want to have these...
Did u ever struggle with this? Because u said u only ever kissed this one boy. Is this something u had never any doubt or worries about...?
Something similar happened to me. I've only ever dated one person, who happened to be a cis male. We broke up a while ago but I haven't really dated anyone, man or woman. Still, I get told by my family (I'm still in high school so living at home) that I'm not actually bi because I've never been with a woman before. I don't really feel attracted to anyone I know at the moment, but most of the people I know that I've had feelings for are guys, even though I like women and other genders too. Honestly, it's really confusing, but you're completely valid and a member of the LGBTQIA+ community no matter what.
There really is this constant pressure for bi/pan people to be with every gender they're attracted to because they're bi/pan. I think Lissy mentioned this as well, and it can be a burden sometimes. Our attraction to different genders isn't exactly split evenly, we have preferences and it's also just about who we happen to like as a person. This narrative that people who are attracted to multiple genders have to like all of them at the same time, in the same way, is so tiring and honestly degrading.
@sallyannekolar9388 because I found a man that I really love and who is a good person. He doesn't want a poly relationship, and I don't want to leave him , so I respect that.
Also I don't know If I could handle two persons at the same time:D
@@schmandkackemen always win the bi women
@@lanaanghel8771men always win in the end. Hope you find the man of your dreams.
Love you girl 💕
love you!! hope to see you at vidcon??
AWEE, I know I'm late but I've recently found out I'm in the same boat as you were whe this video was made or to the people this video was made for.. I am searching for videos on how to accept that part of me because its valid too and just watching his video you made, made it feels like I was having a conversation with an older sister I never had. 🥺 thank you for your kind words. 💕 helped me out a lot and will for other people thinking the same!!
You always make good content and I respect you
aw thanks!
for a while i thought i wasn't actually bi because i dated men more than women, despite the fact that i'm attracted to both. i feel like there are so many expectations that people have of different sexualities or gender identities in general, when everyone is different and none of these things fit one mold
exactly! bisexuality isn't a fluid / one sided thing, it's different for everyone
@@ItsAmandaWanmen win in the end, enjoy.
I am a bisexual woman in a heterosexual relationship (married). 🏳️🌈❤️ I have yet to come out and I am scared. I almost came out to one of my coworkers but I chickened out. 🙃
Yay! And it’s difficult especially when you’re in a hetero relationship, everyone will think you’re lying I totally understand you. You got this!
@@ItsAmandaWan Thank you 💜
Have you come out yet? How did it go?
Mind if i ask… now that you are married do you feel like you are missing out? Do you want to start a relationship with a woman?
Don't share with anyone at work (ever). Show your husband some love and respect. Trust that he loves and accepts you.
I have always been attracted to bisexual girls but never got one and always find straight girls getting attracted to me a lot...... that's why I have never been in a relationship and always been single
my problem is that i have only dated men and i only plan to but i'm still attracted to women. my feelings for women never reach the height of my feelings for men and i have a boyfriend rn so i'm not really attracted to anyone else but him
that's okay!
I'm in a similar situation. I would date a woman but so far I've just dated men. You only planning on dating men doesn't mean that your attraction to women is any less valid.
0:50 when she said I dated cis male, and said "idk that's what happened" what does that mean, well it sounds like she just likes men more than women, and that's fuckin OKAY! I'm a bi-sexual guy, but I prefer a woman more when it comes to a long term relationship, I feel gay men are a bit more promiscuous, and I never really found a good guy worth being with, and women are just a more loyal partner.
yes i totally agree you can like women or men more than the other and that is okay and doesn't make your sexuality any less valid
This so helpful thank you for this video ❤️
aw! thank you!
I love your videos and literally everything about you 🙌😍 I'm new here just started my channel recently but I'm glad I found you! :) Peace, JR.
Aw! This means a lot! Thank you!
Thank you for doing this video. I really feel you, because I'm pansexual and in a hetero relationship right now. I've been out before having my current boyfriend and crushes on girls and also people of multiple genders before him. My boyfriend before has been my best friend and made it easier for both of us because he knew from the very start. Still it isn't easy to be pan and in this relationship no matter how much I'm in love with him. Sometimes I also think he has problems himself talking to some rude classmates that won't accept the situation we are in. It's very hard for both of us and I just hope people will realise we are a couple as every other one exept for the fact that I'm a queer woman in a heterosexual relationship. Thanks for putting it out there. I'm sure it will help people in these situations a lot.
Yes it's not easy at all, trust me i always get the "oh the phase is over?" - we got this!! i'm glad you enjoyed.
@sallyannekolar9388 first off, this comment is really, really old and we are no longer dating but I can still answer this: being pansexual means I am attracted to people regardless of gender. I fall in love with them because of the person they are, no their gender. So, I did with my then bf and I did with other partners, male, female and nonbinary later on. The comment itself isn't about me being in a seemingly straight relationship but about how people told me that I was straight because I dated a man. I also got told I was lesbian when I dated woman, so it works both ways. It is about how people tell you you aren't your own sexuality just because you currently date one gender. I was still pan when I dated him and I also would've been if he would've been a girl
Hi ik this video is like 2 years ago but I want advice and this is the most recent video, I have been dating my gf for over 5years now, and today she came out as bi to me but I had 'suspected' it before. She said she doesn't want a threesome or anything and I haven't said this to her yet but I don't know what to do. I love her and accept her. There is no specific reason really but I can't stand it when she talks about other women in this way as I know I will never be able to fulfill those needs. What do I do?
shes with you for a reason! it'll be okay, just let her know you're there for her and if you two are open and know how to communicate it'll be fine!
Ok but why are so many ppl claiming that a girl dating a guy and another girl is normal
people who are non-monogamous are still valid and that's their choice. i personally do not do that.
Is it normal to feel like your straight now when in a straight relationship for the first time?
yeah, why not? Your sexuality can only be defined by yourself. Honestly many gay people only realised they’re gay after being in a straight relationship for a while. Why can’t the opposite also happen to you or anyone else? they’re both valid :))
I'm Bi... The thing is, I have always been so scared about telling others about my sexuality... I'm afraid they would judge.
No one will judge if they truly love you as a friend. You got this, I believe in you and happy you know your true self
Can someone please help me because I just don’t understand. My boyfriend is bi but we both agreed that we literally don’t find anyone else attractive/aren’t attracted to anyone else. So how can he still be bi unless he would still feel attraction for other people? :(
I’m just worried that I won’t be enough to satisfy him. I also love him more than anything and genuinely don’t feel attracted to or see attraction in anyone else so I don’t understand how he could still be aware that he’s bi unless he sees other people he’s attracted to😭 please help me understand
Are you still straight even if you’re dating your boyfriend? Yes. Your sexuality doesn’t have to do with if you’re dating someone or not.
Your sexuality is always there single or not.
My problem about bi people is that they need to fucking choose before they ask someone out for example my ex girlfriend/girlfriend asked me out and then about a week later at 3am I got a text that said "I realized that I only like girls so I am dumping you " pretty much is what it said but anyway we got back together like 2 days later and she broke up with me again like a week later but she asked my best friend to tell me that she wanted to brake up and here I am someone explained what the fuck happened in that relationship
Right??
Thank you for this video!
I think I’m more attracted to bisexual woman because they’re more open than heterosexual woman. I think honestly I want a poly relationship with two woman. It’s uncommon but I think happiness comes with all genders. It’s something about a woman attracted to both men and woman. I respect it.
whatever makes you happy!
So are you gonna marry a man or woman? How does commitment work? Polygamy or monogamy? It just sounds confusing
It’s really not confusing! You can marry a man or a woman, whoever you fall in love with. Polygamy and monogamy have nothing to do with bisexuality :)
@@ItsAmandaWan And wont desire to be with the other sex again?
Say you marry a woman. Does that rule out men or say you marry a man. Does that rule out women??
It doesn't matter, if she has a partner and is monogamous, then she'll stay loyal to that partner. Very easy concept. If she's polyamorous, then she can date multiple people. Also not very hard to understand
@@Gods_Child_52 it rules out anyone other than the person you marry, just like anybody else 😁
Ur so strong and beautiful❤ such an inspiration uh are🌸
aw you're so sweet thank you!
Why does this video feel like there is a contest to achieve a higher status of queerness?
Doesn't make a lot of sense, straight, bi, gay, whatever, seems like where the cop out occurs is not being committed to the other person, and wanting to be a hosexua, next you'll be attracted to cats, dogs, horses.
I am bisexual and I am tired of people thinking I am straight 🙄! I guess it is because I have dated nothing but women.
I feel u on that
@@ItsAmandaWan 🤗🤗🤗
@@raymondjblaze7761bi men love women
Thank you for this video
thanks for watching and enjoying!
not sure why you said a CIS male because if you’re dating a trans male then why wouldn’t people think you’re straight as well
Because people are judgemental and don’t understand essentially
ItsAmandaWan but if a trans male is following society’s view of what a male looks like or even if they aren’t then if they are viewed like a male, because they are one, then surely it would also be seen as a hetero relationship
All I know is at the end of the story, you will screw over the man and rationalize and dirty behavior you do to him
all i know is you are wrong!
So can som1 help me so i love my girl so much and she told me she is bi and its been really hard on me because she tels me she dusent want to have girl friends because she would be afraid she would fale in love with here so and i aint comforter if she only have man friends i just want us to have a normal life and i dont want to be scared ol the time that she is going to fall in love with som1 if you get me can you pleas help me i have real trust issues its been hard on me and i real love her and would do ainting for here but am scared please help me 😓😣
just because someone is bisexual doesn't mean you are at higher risk of them "falling" for someone else. even a straight person can. so get that stereotype out of your mind and hopefully that'll ease you!
ItsAmandaWan oke thank you it helps 😁thank you
I am a straight married male who has always preferred bisexual women. I am also a staunch polygyny advocate and I vehemently defend openness to committing to multiple women if they desire one another to be in a triad relationship. I never understood why if multiple partners wanted to be in a committed union society frowns on such a union.
I agree
Damm I hopefully I get girl that is BI so we can invite another girl in the relationship so we can try a triolationship
How many times have you cheated ?
Never. Thank you. But I’ve actually been cheated on by a straight cis male so! go off!