Have your New Year's resolutions come true...mine not. PS: The next video will be wojak opening (anime intro) so it may take a little longer than usual to make.
I spent my teens and early 20s exactly like this,but most of the time it wasn't bad. Movies,video games,books,music, drawing. There's a lot of things people can do when they are by themselves. Being alone and being lonely are two different things,a man who has his interests and knows himself well can rarely feel lonely. But still,every person needs a soulmate or a friend. People aren't meant to be alone.
@@Jakamuku I have. And I've followed it for a while,but being an emotionless robot is not exactly what I was looking for. I mean it helps when things are tough. Don't fall into desperation,things will change. But same goes for when life is good,enjoy it,but be prepared for things to become harder at some point. Overall I would say,being cool headed and always doing what is necessary to survive is what got me here. Don't despair,but don't act like life is all sunshine and rainbows. You gotta have balance. I always try to focus on positiveness,but am always ready for something bad to happen,while not allowing it to ruin my happiness. That's the best way I can explain it,if you understand me 😀
It depends on values and options. If your value is to be with somebody but you can't do it, it is the same way as being short/weak/handicapped and envying those who have become a basketball superstar, beaten Tyson, or have legs, sight, health in general. Just imagine yourself living in Afghanistan and being a girl or just living in poor Africa. All of these people already envy any of us who can type a few words on the Internet.
@@week3106 That's why I say people forget to be thankful nowadays. If you have roof over your head,a bed,food and the people you love are healthy,then you are lucky. You gotta appreciate the small things,because for someone that's their dream you're living. That's why you gotta toughen up and find a way. You may have it hard,but some have it harder.
It's so lonely, but we can just admire the fireworks or the first sunset/rise and try to be proud for passing another year alive, despite all the people who died instead of you.
Disagree. Used to be able to hang around other people. Having no one to kill time with ever is wearing me down a bit rn. Used to go to parties. On the moment at least you dont feel like shit.
Agree. Some weeks ago I went to a party full of people yet nobody was actually able to find a fucking thing to talk about. When a I got back home I felt relieved. Even though next day loneliness kicked in again... I wish I could find someone similar to me
@@ther1934 how so? Couldnt get anyone to talk about themselves or the stuff they like? Uncontroversial politics maybe? Unless the others really dont want to talk usually you end up finding something to talk about maybe anecdotes of other parties or random shit. Unless you re all sober..
I was at a party with good friends and kissed with a super nice girl and had fun, bro sorry for that i just wanted to show what the opposite can look like, and the thing is last year i also was home alone and didnt see any one, also got heartbroken a month ago before my birthday. I just wanna say that things can turn around and I want to encourage you. I worked on my self the last year and I know Im not even near my highes potential but I think when live gives us a gift we should take it on and don't take it for granted. love to you all!
@@isdenn7 Things can turn around fast indeed, it was the opposite with me last year. I had a girl who loved me but she left me a month ago and now I'm here. Things turn around fast...
@@isdenn7 I'm happy for you man, it used to be like this for me like 5 years ago... Well as you say things can turn around really fast I'm busy with my engineering studies so to be honest I don't really mind but it can be cool to have a cool party in new year's eve sometime... :)
It is scary, isn't it ? I know that feeling too damn well, just trying to switch between trying to be happy with a lot of people around and being antisocial and alone, it's like a drug addiction that won't go away...
Or how about that moment when you bump into a random stranger at like 3 in the morning and no one's around but you have the most eye opening conversation in life - *A glitch in the capitalist society*
I have no friends too and I've been like this for so long... It doesn't bother me but sometimes I miss to have a good conversation or a chit chat or a good laugh with someone. I guess as we get older things won't get any better but at least I feel a little better knowing that I'm not the only lone guy out there.
I'm spending a lonely New year, but somehow this video is uplifting for me. I guess I have changed. For all of you who read this, I wish you the peace you long for, whether next year of later. Take care.
I'm grateful that I'm still able to celebrate my new years with my family. For those of you who are the same, please don't take it for granted as there are people out there who aren't so lucky.
My family makes me feel subhuman while smiling to my face. They don't appreciate my uniqueness but instead want me to conform and be miserable like them. I'm glad you enjoy yours and they enjoy you.
@@erikmclennan3934don’t be pressured by them into changing who you are. Even though they are your family that doesn’t mean they’re necessarily good, or at least good to you. Stay strong bro, you will make it.
I think another closing line would be "When we set ourselves up for failure." Let's say we lied about being popular and then we were accepted - then we would know we were only accepted because of the lie, and anything built on a lie will be even more painful than the truth would have been. Now I understand why JBP says to tell the truth "or at least don't lie." There's really no choice. I really need to work on that, badly...
I used to do that, and drown in my own sorrow. I'm just brutally honest with everything now, and I have never felt more accepted by the people around me. Tell the truth, tell people how you feel and what you think. There are more people willing to help and accept you for who you are, then meets the eye.
I recently started helping my neighbours with just about anything they felt like needing help with, sometimes even stopping to chat for a bit out of the blue. I never actually knew how just simply interacting with people can boost your overall mood, regardless how you felt prior to that event. Happy new year, bros.
@@Aworology323 Eventualy you get uset to it and become dead inside. It does not geat easier or suddenly better but you will stop caring about reality and just exist.
@@Aworology323 you only think that because of FOMO. Because you think everybody else is living it up and having so much fun and you've never experienced what they've experienced. If you actually went to the parties, you'd realise that often it's an effort to talk BS to people all night. And you dance around to some music a bit and f around. And that's really all there is to it. Maybe get your D wet at the end of the night with some girl, but that gets old too. If you're antisocial (which is why you're lonely to begin with probably) it'll be a real chore to go to parties. Truuuuuuust me. I mean, they're fun now and again. But after you've been to enough, you lose the FOMO and come to self realisations that you'd rather have a quiet night. But society makes you think you should be partying it up or you're a failure.
@@Aworology323 what are you talking about? Do you realize some people REALLY like to be alone? And these days you are probably "alone" playing video games online anyway.
I remember going to these kind of parties and feeling lonely as hell.Today I know that tomorrow I'll be lifting weights without hangover and my money are still in my pocket.Never give value to something just to look cool.Happy new year everyone.
@@z.b.8168 Yeah, only *some* of his money will be in his pocket. Unless he's lifting weights at home. But then he wouldn't be walking around the house with money in his pocket. Really makes me question the whole comment....
@@465marko yes and why he doesn't lift at home, why not start with his own weight. many people drive with their car to the gym to simulate some boring bike ride there and pay for it.
This has been the loneliest New Year I've ever felt in my entire life, all I could do was drink the rest of the Jack Daniels I've bought during Christmas. I tried to sleep but I felt like someone had punched me in the chest, I could do nothing but roll over my bed for 3 hours then just gave up. I tried to cry to get some relief but it was just a few drops of tears, I watched live videos of fireworks and celebrations etc to check on people who've had it better today and now I'm here, commenting at 8:37 AM, January 1 2024 from the country of Turkey. I wish you all the best guys, be happy during New Year for I could not... Since this was so burdening
my brother, I can relate, everybody says we are not alone but still, we are the ones who are alone in the night with our thoughts and feelings, we are the ones alone with our pain and despair.. only we can make a change (I guess). i wish u best of luck for the new year, I wish you real love brother.
There is absolutely nothing wrong about being alone on new years eve. Most people like to get pissed drunk on new years, they end up forgetting it and wake up feeling terrible, with a bad start of the year. I hope this made you feel better if you're feeling that social pressure, if you can't handle it just unistall social media like instagram for tonight. Write a Journal describing how your year went, what you are grateful about and what you want to improve and pursue. Go to sleep and wake up early to see the first sunrise of the year, then start working on yourself and live a happy year!
*Uninstall social media forever. There's pretty much no easier way to ensure that this next year is better than last year, social media is nothing but a drain on mental health.
Isnt it sad, that the only way to be social is to get drubk every time, it's like people can't function without an underlying excuse drink themselves into a stupor
i thought this new years was going to be the same, everybody posting about their happy lives and im sitting here seething in my own sorrow expecting something to change, but those changes never happen unless you push for it, im not going to waste another year, i thought this video was going to be depressing but im surprised with my own feelings, this year is the year things change and i will change them and crave my path, i hope everyone has a decent new years, im proud you all for making it through another year.
Go on bro, that's the mindset! Since 2017 my life has taken a whole new turn for the better and I'm becoming the person I want to be, but what only I see is the huge effort I put into it. Hope this year to be even better.
@@vinayakdan3018 Jobs just take away your freedom and a third of your life just to "survive" by giving you a piece of paper or a number on your debit card that you can use to buy food and liquids that your body needs.
“I waited for a future that would not come, counting on moments that are too late” My whole life I felt these deeply, and that my whole self was defined by waiting for opportunities, and things, and people, and ultimately letting life slip me by. I thought academia for instance would deliver me, same with Epolitics, the same with any other phantasy. But life passes you by without you knowing it, until it’s too late.
@@asmrbully6980 There is not much to explain except that sometimes, people treat life… Too passively. They spend too little time trying to force something to happen and just… Wait. I know that feeling far too well, although probably for very different reasons.
@@solok4150 > Says this comment has a flaw > Does not elaborate when asked >Profit I personally see no flaw in that comment, all people are able to connect when they have something in common
30 minutes before new year's eve I took a walk while listening to Boy's don't cry and that was the best walk I've ever had. Sad but happy in some kind of way since the year was ending
Fuck going to parties bro, parties are supposed to be fun, and if you don't have fun in them, why harm yourself with intoxicating drinks or pretend you are having fun? I did what I find fun this new year ALONE and it was the best one I've ever had.
The worst when you have some friends to spent New Year's Eve with and make plans with them but suddenly a day before all of them start to write they changes planes - some of them are going to another friends without you, some of them decided suddenly to spend the time with their gfs/bfs n you're the only one left alone. And every year is more or less the same....
Why is this video showing exactly what my life is? I can relate to this just too much. Made me cry. Well, I wish you all a Happy New Year. I really hope you have loved ones and friends to spend this time with, cherish these moments.
Just had to put my dog down 2 days ago after 14 years with him, he was my best friend and sitting here alone without my friend hurts a lot. I don't want anything from anyone, I just want my dog back. Rest in peace Bolt, I love you man, I hope you are in a better place now x
On christmas eve I decided to spend my time alone, only with the company of my dog, this was the first time I did something like that and my family was surprised but they didn't said anything. you can't imagine how much joy I felt being alone, I felt so relaxed and happy to be watching movies with my dog and playing some Xbox while ordering some pizza. Sometimes is better if you spend time by yourself instead of people that makes you feel lonely or uncomfortable, it works. Happy New year to all of you, don't worry if you didn't achieve something relevant in the former year, keep trying at your own pace, you are doing fine
you don't know how hard this hits rn, after a shitty Christmas and new year with my family arguing about dumb crap I never realized how miserable it made me
I Can't Even Remember The Last Time I Enjoyed A New Year Let Alone Any Other Holidays... Just Here In Bed On My Phone Alone... Thank God For UA-cam Most Days It's All I Have As A Spark Of Entertainment 🙏🏾❤️🩹
Hey MillenialThinker, Happy New Years. And thanks for exploring a lot of social issues that genuinely help me and other in life. I know by exploring all this bleak and dark subject can make your world view very depressing and also cynical to the point where you feel hollow inside but it helps a lot to be aware and understand this dilemma. I hope you know you are appreciated and for you and others be sure to take care of yourself and take care of others. For even if the world seems bleak and empty at least we can still show just shred of empathy.
Been a year, nothing's changed. It's nice to revisit this video again tho. I'm really not looking forward to the new year. Wish everything ended with this year but too bad.
Every year is same bro nothing change hate my life so much wish i was never born and something tells me I’m gonna be like this the next year new years as well
@@ganjalfilv3rde508 honestly if you like drinking going to the party with that other guy would be a simple way to have a good evening. Always easier to try and get inside a bigger group if you re not completely alone.
I have spend my 2024 and 2025 alone in my bed . Went outside on 31st evening of both times to have a dinner alone , but everyone was with somebody else and having a lot of laugh and good food . I came home crying with more weight in my chest and a realization . And it's gonna occurs occasionally...
Every December 31st, I find myself thinking “this next one will be my year.” Hopefully this time it’ll turn out to be true. Chin up lads, and happy New Year.
@@Sharpshot45 The past few have been rocky for me, at best. Seems there’s been way more good days than bad. Best I can do is tell you you’re not alone. The response these videos get is a testament to that fact. Hopefully things turn around this year and 2022 is better than the last two years have been.
I said so for the last 2 years. Ended up not reaching my goals of getting to a competitive bodybuilders size and doing a show. I got side tracked both years due to hard labor jobs, school, partying and just doubt. This year I started by starting my off-season prep on the 25th if november. When I've stepped on stage next December, then I can party and celebrate. Not now.
Something that got me out as a doomer and kept my sanity was having a healthy hobby such as working out I hope all of you find something that makes you happy cheers
I feel so lonely and hopeless..and i don't know what to do anymore. I am 33, have only one real friend, but who is too busy with work most of the time. I am not really the most attractive, partially overweight..I have no job due to circumstances, no relationship with a woman, even though i deeply wish for one because i yearn for that feeling of being loved and being held when i feel down or lonely..and give that care and comfort right back to that someone. I want to have a family, to have children, live a happy, fulfilled and a not lonely life.. I would try to go out and be around people, talk to new people or even try to get into dating, but with what little money i have it's difficult to engage in things like clubs, activities or parties..and i fear that due to all of these factors that people will just not like me and reject me.. The only few distractions i can find from this horrible feeling of loneliness and dread is when i get to talk to people with similar interests online, but at the same time it also reminds me of how i most likely will never meet any of those people, who live across the world..and that reinforces that feeling of isolation even more.. But I just..don't know what to do.. i'm sorry, i know it all sounds pathetic..
My brothers, thinking you are missing on something creates 90% of the pain we feel being alone, for there are people partying who are wishing they'd just chill at home and get a good night's sleep.
It's almost midnight in central Europe. I don't expect everyone to find happiness but at least I hope everyone of you will find some inner peace. Happy New year everyone.
It's not like I wasn't ever grateful for having friends, it's just realisations like the one I had after watching this video fortify my gratitude towards my friends being around and being there for me. I'm glad I could spend New Year's Eve with them and the barbecue the day after, get-togethers like those are what create the good memories.
Happy New Year's Eve everyone, I don't believe we have to resign ourselves to the fate we feel lurking. The world keeps on turning. Go out and live your life as much as you can. Take care.
I'm so invested in the messages and stories you pass on to us. Thanks bro. I hope you're overcoming your obstacles and coming out a better version of yourself on the other side.
I am 16 and now all off my classmates and friends are out partying having fun doing something with friends but I just missed the step from a kid where you spend your birthday New Year’s Eve and all that stuff with your Family to partying with your friends on those days. Feels bad man.
@@stanisawaugustponiatowski1978 :/ i will try my hardest to find somewhere to go but I don’t think that I can find something. New Year’s Eve gonna be negative the first time. But we will get this 🤞 one day we will meet the right people on the right time. I wish you all of luck to find someone to hang out
I can't really enjoy partying anymore because I'm haunted by the thought of achieving my goals. You know what, even if it sounds corny or pretty depressing, I finally enjoy being alone and evolving my time to my journey, year after year I'm getting closer and closer, I'm living what seemed impossible 8 years ago, and now I think it's time to jump to the next level. I never experienced such happiness like this, no drugs can make you feel like this. I just want to say it's good for you to let go of everything in pursuit of your passions, people, clothes, toxic behaviors. I just hope you chase your dreams as well guys love u
I feel you, since I have set some personal goals I have the feeling to find my inner peace. I listened to a motivation video each day and the guy said, a man has to wake up happy to know that he has a full day infront of himself. And this year was the first time i felt that, just one time but I never felt that. Life can be nice but we have to work for it and suffer. You suffer anyway, so choose to suffer in order to accomplish your goals
The first sentence is very relatable only instead of partying I would say making friends for me. I don’t know if that’s a good thing or a bad thing though.
Same, friend. I can't properly enjoy parties, outings and leisure time anymore because I think about how I could spend the time moving forward in life and working on my goals. I struggle with this but remember to take a breather and just turn off your mind and enjoy the moment, the endless pursuit for self improvement will eventually get more and more tiring and you will really keep chasing the unicorn forever. Remember that all the work you put in has lead to moments like these, and these breaks are to be cherished and enjoyed.
203X: Dried up oceans, leather jackets with single shoulder pads for protection, strange deadly martial arts that have been in hiding for a thousand years, and motorcycles with infinite gazoline
@@son-zora5174 fight loneliness, don't be alone. Use your dark times to make better times. We are not alone. Work on yourself every day and do or discover things that make you happy. And never lose hope no matter how hard it gets :) i personally am in hard times right now. Defeat is not an option.
hello everyone. happy new year everyone. New year in 3 hours. but I am sad. because I'm alone today. I don't have anyone to talk to except on the phone
I remember when I was in this exact state a few years ago. To whoever reads this... PLEASE, don't let go of yourself. Keep it together, make yourself stronger, so that other people can rely on you in the future. Being selfless for the most part brought me more satisfaction and happyness.
IMO It's perfectly normal to enjoy new-year alone. Pressure from society and then Fomo is what causes this to be such a bad time. Otherwise don't feel guilty about it
@@Pabl0_88 I'm fine, enjoying my time and out of nowhere people come and talk about how am I gunna celebrate a random day and its just like a reminder that I'm doing things wrong because I'm not celebrating some random thing
I can't enjoy New Years Eve alone because of our culture / social media, the people just hype it too much and act as if it's weird to enjoy solitude. I had to cut off a lot of false friends this year and it made me pretty lonely in the end and while that choice was the right move and I do not regret it, I'm still bitter about not being able to party and get drunk with other people and to just get lost in the moment for a while.
ou have already made some hard but healthy choices thus year. Don't fall into bitterness because you aren't immersing yourself in hollow and false merriment. What makes YOUR heart sing? Get lost tonight ( and find true meaning) in THAT.
I started doing the same honestly. And although the author scares us with fomo type of garbage at the end, I believe you should cut people who bring you down out of your life, even if it results in loneliness. That loneliness is really temporary compared to the years wasted being next to people who make you feel like shit because their outlook on life is so full of hatred and negativity. Don't just wait for the future to come, actually put in the work to achieve that future you want. Don't blame yourself for cutting people off and looking for new ones, it's really the healthy thing to do.
I cut off neglectful friends as well. Once a "talk and message everyday and hang out every few days" to no calls, messages being left on read for 8 days. Make plans to hang out once every 2 months even though we live in the same area zip code etc. I don't think partying with those kinds of false friends would make me happy
Hey millennia, I've been a watcher of yours even when you were smol and every other video relates to me. I always considered my self a doomer and this year is especially hard. Your videos bring me fleeting joy in a world where there is little. Thank you.
Have your New Year's resolutions come true...mine not.
PS: The next video will be wojak opening (anime intro) so it may take a little longer than usual to make.
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I suppose so, idk.
Sheeesh
Maybe Next Year. Hopefully?
Never had any. Or atleast, only had resolutions that were achievable in the 1st few months. So, I guess?
For what it's worth, Happy new year everyone.
happy new year @021MR
happy new year
@@larumenta4005harry new year.. We're going to need a dumpsterfire emoji for the next one..
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Happy new year mate
If you are depressed just go to settings and turn it off
~Master Oogway~
Oho...
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@@stupidcat9591 yo dad gae
@@johndoesstuff352 yo dad gone
Thanks, it helped
I spent my teens and early 20s exactly like this,but most of the time it wasn't bad. Movies,video games,books,music, drawing. There's a lot of things people can do when they are by themselves. Being alone and being lonely are two different things,a man who has his interests and knows himself well can rarely feel lonely. But still,every person needs a soulmate or a friend. People aren't meant to be alone.
You are so right
I dont know if u heard of the stoicism but this quote sounds like it and it is very helpful for depressed or sad people
@@Jakamuku I have. And I've followed it for a while,but being an emotionless robot is not exactly what I was looking for. I mean it helps when things are tough. Don't fall into desperation,things will change. But same goes for when life is good,enjoy it,but be prepared for things to become harder at some point. Overall I would say,being cool headed and always doing what is necessary to survive is what got me here. Don't despair,but don't act like life is all sunshine and rainbows. You gotta have balance. I always try to focus on positiveness,but am always ready for something bad to happen,while not allowing it to ruin my happiness. That's the best way I can explain it,if you understand me 😀
It depends on values and options. If your value is to be with somebody but you can't do it, it is the same way as being short/weak/handicapped and envying those who have become a basketball superstar, beaten Tyson, or have legs, sight, health in general. Just imagine yourself living in Afghanistan and being a girl or just living in poor Africa. All of these people already envy any of us who can type a few words on the Internet.
@@week3106 That's why I say people forget to be thankful nowadays. If you have roof over your head,a bed,food and the people you love are healthy,then you are lucky. You gotta appreciate the small things,because for someone that's their dream you're living. That's why you gotta toughen up and find a way. You may have it hard,but some have it harder.
This is pretty sad actually. Hope I can still wake up in the morning and look at the first sunrise.
Dont worry
You will. Haply new year
painless dying in sleep FeelsGoodMan
We all do
I hope I die.
@@animetv6364 dont do it boys, find something you enjoy and focus on that, or watch my videos lol
It's so lonely, but we can just admire the fireworks or the first sunset/rise and try to be proud for passing another year alive, despite all the people who died instead of you.
@@recitationtohear Shut up and get a life.
Bro at this point with coronavirus and all, I'd rather not be alive
@@AngshumanVI Don't be like that. Be happy still have something to appriciate.
@@AngshumanVI a lot of people feel like that right now but it’ll all be ok eventually. Try and find a hobby to distract yourself from it
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First New Year’s Eve alone
It’s Much Better To Be Alone Than To Be With Someone Who Makes You Feel Lonely. You won't find happiness at those parties.
Why Do So Much People Write Like This
Thank you man...
Facts.
Not really I’d rather be out doing stuff to keep my mind off it than be sitting around doing nothing
we gonna stay togueter on network 🐰
It's even worse when you are with a lot of people who make you feel lonely.
No it isn’t.
Agreef
Disagree. Used to be able to hang around other people. Having no one to kill time with ever is wearing me down a bit rn.
Used to go to parties. On the moment at least you dont feel like shit.
Agree. Some weeks ago I went to a party full of people yet nobody was actually able to find a fucking thing to talk about. When a I got back home I felt relieved. Even though next day loneliness kicked in again... I wish I could find someone similar to me
@@ther1934 how so? Couldnt get anyone to talk about themselves or the stuff they like? Uncontroversial politics maybe? Unless the others really dont want to talk usually you end up finding something to talk about maybe anecdotes of other parties or random shit. Unless you re all sober..
Another lonely new year... Happy New Year to everyone! Enjoy your time.
Yup even in 2024
ig its time for 2025..
Sadly, this is exactly how mine went, minus a stranger talking to me part.
Same...
I was at a party with good friends and kissed with a super nice girl and had fun, bro sorry for that i just wanted to show what the opposite can look like, and the thing is last year i also was home alone and didnt see any one, also got heartbroken a month ago before my birthday. I just wanna say that things can turn around and I want to encourage you. I worked on my self the last year and I know Im not even near my highes potential but I think when live gives us a gift we should take it on and don't take it for granted. love to you all!
@@isdenn7 Things can turn around fast indeed, it was the opposite with me last year. I had a girl who loved me but she left me a month ago and now I'm here. Things turn around fast...
@@isdenn7 I'm happy for you man, it used to be like this for me like 5 years ago... Well as you say things can turn around really fast
I'm busy with my engineering studies so to be honest I don't really mind but it can be cool to have a cool party in new year's eve sometime... :)
same. I've never been to a new years party in my life
Happy new years we ain’t alone 🖤
No, we are
poor doomer can't even live without his feeling of being alone
It is scary, isn't it ? I know that feeling too damn well, just trying to switch between trying to be happy with a lot of people around and being antisocial and alone, it's like a drug addiction that won't go away...
lonely ≠ being alone
@@richardlovas4590 i know people going into madness cause of lake of relation and feel lonely the wise one are the people who can live with it
@@someone-yw2qw exactly, I love being alone as opposed to spending Christmas or New year with people I don't give a shit about.
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2:28 "I think he stole my Lighter..." Is what he's saying Incase anyone got tired of pausing at the precise moment.
Thanks man
Was about to comment that. Good eye
You're a timesaver
That would of driven me mad! Thanks!
put the speed to 0.25, it's easier that way
Am i only one who appreciates finding cool strangers on random occasions? I find those moments so cool
That truly is one of the best feelings.
Great feeling indeed. Had a nice convo with this random guy on mcdonalds, we were both waiting for our orders.
Yep, having conversations with strangers are more comfortable than talking to people who know me(/vice versa)
Or how about that moment when you bump into a random stranger at like 3 in the morning and no one's around but you have the most eye opening conversation in life - *A glitch in the capitalist society*
Да, сразу чувствуешь, что все люди вокруг становятся ближе к тебе
It is comforting to think that I am not the only freak who has no friends. And that every "new year" not only I spend alone.
Fucking same brotha this is how I spent my new year I almost cried realising that I've no one out there.
I have no friends too and I've been like this for so long... It doesn't bother me but sometimes I miss to have a good conversation or a chit chat or a good laugh with someone. I guess as we get older things won't get any better but at least I feel a little better knowing that I'm not the only lone guy out there.
Well, i hope we find a new friends in 2022...
Go easy on yourself, you're only human. Just need to become comfortable in your own space
Damn bro I like these videos but tbh I mean everybody got atleast 1 friend right like you weren't partying on new year's eve?
It gets darker, and darker, every year...until we break
It doesn't have to be like that...
Darkness cannot BE in the Light.. search for the LIGHT and don't let anything stop you. It IS THERE.
don't break, just bend. And bend reality as you wish
@@deborahmondon8371 it's good to be in the dark because if you dont' know how to cope with darkness you won't appreciate the light.
And UA-cam ends up recommending this to me again. Thanks.
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Felt that dawg
"waiting for the future that would not come" - that's where I am right now
Too relatable.
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I'm spending a lonely New year, but somehow this video is uplifting for me. I guess I have changed. For all of you who read this, I wish you the peace you long for, whether next year of later. Take care.
Wish you to and wish u the best
...you too...thank you 👍....
Can somebody tell me the name of the meme who is like an attractive feels guy with anime hair?
welcome back, gentlemen.
I'm grateful that I'm still able to celebrate my new years with my family. For those of you who are the same, please don't take it for granted as there are people out there who aren't so lucky.
My family makes me feel subhuman while smiling to my face. They don't appreciate my uniqueness but instead want me to conform and be miserable like them. I'm glad you enjoy yours and they enjoy you.
Yeah, happy to still be there, it feels weird to know that some did not make it. Some people, that you yourself might know... man.
this i regret i spended it 4 years ago with foolish friends instead of dad hope hes here to take sip with me...miss him a lot.
@@erikmclennan3934don’t be pressured by them into changing who you are. Even though they are your family that doesn’t mean they’re necessarily good, or at least good to you. Stay strong bro, you will make it.
@@TheFireGoose thank you bro, happy new year to you
I love how his bathroom tiles look like a transparent PNG layer.
Or just tiles
Wait where, I dont see a a bathroom
@@waffles9771 0:07 - 0:09
@@fancybaguette :D thanks
The worst kind of loneliness is when you are surrounded by people and still feel alone.
That’s far from been lonely.
That’s just not fitting in or mixing with the wrong crowd....
Can’t relate, anon
real
Ok normie.
Surrounded by people makes just too much noice
I think another closing line would be "When we set ourselves up for failure." Let's say we lied about being popular and then we were accepted - then we would know we were only accepted because of the lie, and anything built on a lie will be even more painful than the truth would have been. Now I understand why JBP says to tell the truth "or at least don't lie." There's really no choice. I really need to work on that, badly...
@@recitationtohear dont click the link, it's a bot
Juden "I can't do it" Peterstein
@@winstonwolf5706 Don't let the perfect be the enemy of the good.
I used to do that, and drown in my own sorrow. I'm just brutally honest with everything now, and I have never felt more accepted by the people around me. Tell the truth, tell people how you feel and what you think. There are more people willing to help and accept you for who you are, then meets the eye.
Well if you lie about everything you tell a person, then sure. But we all stretch the truth from time to time.
I recently started helping my neighbours with just about anything they felt like needing help with, sometimes even stopping to chat for a bit out of the blue. I never actually knew how just simply interacting with people can boost your overall mood, regardless how you felt prior to that event. Happy new year, bros.
Thanks for the advice. Happy new year bruh.
Love thy neighbor
@@JamecBond that or sp/t in their face because they are a different r4ce & steal from them repeatedly🙄.
@@iclickedbecauseiamtiredofs4630 don't do that
@@JamecBond yes. Yes do that. Dont go from simping over chix to neighbors, especially when you realize once YOu stop they wont waddle over to you🙄.
I've been alone on New Year's Eve for the last 12 years, it doesn't phase me anymore, it's just like any other day of the year for me at this point.
It doesn't have to be like that, man, things can be better. Belive..!
If you aren't depressed, well good for you. Is about your happiness, dude. Take care!
Been alone my last 6 or 7 birthdays (not sure) too which happens to be a day before new year. I actually don't feel anything anymore.
@@neochris2 it do be like that bro. stay strong and find yourself
Try to make it a point to reach out this coming year.....there is someone out there who will be encouraged by what you can share.
this is literally me
except I don't smoke, and I won't even go outside to sit on a bench
alpha)))
Róbert Nagy? MAN YOU ARE HUNGARIAN! FOR GOD'S SAKE, ATTILA'S BLOOD IS RUNNING ON YOU, START WORKING OUT AND BE PROUD ⚡⚡⚡
You should start
@@quique3671 I do home workout
@@robertnagy3942 Nagyon Jo! :)
Sleep is more important to me. Happy and prosperous 2025 to everyone.
For an introvert like me, being alone every holiday doesn't feel as bad as people say.
Wait a few more years. Eventually, you’re going to feel lonely. Then you’re going to wish you weren’t so introverted.
@@Aworology323 Eventualy you get uset to it and become dead inside. It does not geat easier or suddenly better but you will stop caring about reality and just exist.
@@Aworology323 you only think that because of FOMO.
Because you think everybody else is living it up and having so much fun and you've never experienced what they've experienced.
If you actually went to the parties, you'd realise that often it's an effort to talk BS to people all night. And you dance around to some music a bit and f around. And that's really all there is to it.
Maybe get your D wet at the end of the night with some girl, but that gets old too.
If you're antisocial (which is why you're lonely to begin with probably) it'll be a real chore to go to parties. Truuuuuuust me.
I mean, they're fun now and again. But after you've been to enough, you lose the FOMO and come to self realisations that you'd rather have a quiet night. But society makes you think you should be partying it up or you're a failure.
@@Aworology323 what are you talking about? Do you realize some people REALLY like to be alone? And these days you are probably "alone" playing video games online anyway.
@@janodefenua4603 That's start getting ugly when you feel you're lonely. Alone is a much better word.
I remember going to these kind of parties and feeling lonely as hell.Today I know that tomorrow I'll be lifting weights without hangover and my money are still in my pocket.Never give value to something just to look cool.Happy new year everyone.
but you need to pay for the gym
@@z.b.8168 Yeah, only *some* of his money will be in his pocket. Unless he's lifting weights at home. But then he wouldn't be walking around the house with money in his pocket.
Really makes me question the whole comment....
@@465marko yes
and why he doesn't lift at home, why not start with his own weight.
many people drive with their car to the gym to simulate some boring bike ride there and pay for it.
Some people never get the chance too
This has been the loneliest New Year I've ever felt in my entire life, all I could do was drink the rest of the Jack Daniels I've bought during Christmas. I tried to sleep but I felt like someone had punched me in the chest, I could do nothing but roll over my bed for 3 hours then just gave up. I tried to cry to get some relief but it was just a few drops of tears, I watched live videos of fireworks and celebrations etc to check on people who've had it better today and now I'm here, commenting at 8:37 AM, January 1 2024 from the country of Turkey. I wish you all the best guys, be happy during New Year for I could not... Since this was so burdening
You are not alone. I also watched the celebrations live while on my bed. But be happy. Maybe next year.
my brother, I can relate, everybody says we are not alone but still, we are the ones who are alone in the night with our thoughts and feelings, we are the ones alone with our pain and despair.. only we can make a change (I guess). i wish u best of luck for the new year, I wish you real love brother.
hello my friend, there are many others like you who have as simmilar situation.
God bless you brother 🙏
All the way from Los Angeles 🤗
There is absolutely nothing wrong about being alone on new years eve.
Most people like to get pissed drunk on new years, they end up forgetting it and wake up feeling terrible, with a bad start of the year.
I hope this made you feel better if you're feeling that social pressure, if you can't handle it just unistall social media like instagram for tonight.
Write a Journal describing how your year went, what you are grateful about and what you want to improve and pursue.
Go to sleep and wake up early to see the first sunrise of the year, then start working on yourself and live a happy year!
*Uninstall social media forever. There's pretty much no easier way to ensure that this next year is better than last year, social media is nothing but a drain on mental health.
@@thenew4559 well that's true for the most part
@@thenew4559 Yeah I guess if you are not very social you don't need social media.
I really needed this, thank you
Isnt it sad, that the only way to be social is to get drubk every time, it's like people can't function without an underlying excuse drink themselves into a stupor
i thought this new years was going to be the same, everybody posting about their happy lives and im sitting here seething in my own sorrow expecting something to change, but those changes never happen unless you push for it, im not going to waste another year, i thought this video was going to be depressing but im surprised with my own feelings, this year is the year things change and i will change them and crave my path, i hope everyone has a decent new years, im proud you all for making it through another year.
Good luck bro
Good luck, it will not be an easy ride, but make baby steps and be oke with what you'll accomplish.
You can do it dude!
now your getting it. Nothing can change without action. Good luck!
Go on bro, that's the mindset! Since 2017 my life has taken a whole new turn for the better and I'm becoming the person I want to be, but what only I see is the huge effort I put into it. Hope this year to be even better.
Happy new year to all the loners! Y’all are wonderful
2:29 "i think he stole my lighter" i felt that
Didn't expect to see you here.
@@GHXST6-9 im everywhere
How bizzare it is that I'm watching this, sitting on a bench alone in the park...
have a good year man!
Have a good 2022 man!
If everyone is suffering, who are celebrating outside. Something tells me they're all bots to make you feel pain
Look at little@humanity is a joke to our ancestors Jr, Gonna cry?
🔥
happy new year guys, I'm proud of you for making it through 2021
And you too
@@DarkAtHearts Happy New Year to u too!!💖✨
wdym proud? all I did was sit on my chair playing video games, like every other year.
the baby girl was so pretty
@@vinayakdan3018 Jobs just take away your freedom and a third of your life just to "survive" by giving you a piece of paper or a number on your debit card that you can use to buy food and liquids that your body needs.
“I waited for a future that would not come, counting on moments that are too late”
My whole life I felt these deeply, and that my whole self was defined by waiting for opportunities, and things, and people, and ultimately letting life slip me by.
I thought academia for instance would deliver me, same with Epolitics, the same with any other phantasy. But life passes you by without you knowing it, until it’s too late.
Expln
@@asmrbully6980 There is not much to explain except that sometimes, people treat life… Too passively. They spend too little time trying to force something to happen and just… Wait. I know that feeling far too well, although probably for very different reasons.
@@Arcaryon hmm
@@Arcaryon so you mean
@@Arcaryon ppl try to wait for something good to happen and not take action
Imagine if all the people who claim being alone united and established friend groups
This has a flaw
@@solok4150 Which flaw?
@@solok4150 > Says this comment has a flaw
> Does not elaborate when asked
>Profit
I personally see no flaw in that comment, all people are able to connect when they have something in common
The problem is that people who are alone are often introverts or have trauma and don't trust people very well.
@@luc1d356 Hangin out with at least normal people will help you overcome it
Ah tak! Kolejna porcija depresji i smutku od myśliciela tysiąclecia! Wesołego nowego I wszystkiego najlepszego !
I agree
Kosovo je Srbija!
Nie spodziewałem się tu polskiego komentarza
@@saulhudson9083 Kanał "Nie wiem ale się dowiem" zrobił ostatnio animację w podobnym stylu i w komentarzach wspomniano o myślicielu tysiąclecia.
Same here
I think it's just me, but I like to spend New Year by myself to reflect on the year and the coming year.
Me too
Same
Same
I had to go to a NYE party and it's uhhhhh cool to say I went to that party, but tbh I wouldn't mind just staying at home. Zzzzzzzz
Damn watching this on NYE as the fireworks go off outside 😢
30 minutes before new year's eve I took a walk while listening to Boy's don't cry and that was the best walk I've ever had.
Sad but happy in some kind of way since the year was ending
Boys don't coz even if you do who tf cares.
The Cure is the best.
Fuck going to parties bro, parties are supposed to be fun, and if you don't have fun in them, why harm yourself with intoxicating drinks or pretend you are having fun?
I did what I find fun this new year ALONE and it was the best one I've ever had.
I think "Everybody Knows" sums everything up about now.
The Cure and Leonard Cohen - guaranteed to lift those spirits!!
The worst when you have some friends to spent New Year's Eve with and make plans with them but suddenly a day before all of them start to write they changes planes - some of them are going to another friends without you, some of them decided suddenly to spend the time with their gfs/bfs n you're the only one left alone. And every year is more or less the same....
Their loss....you sound like a dependable friend to have.
@@deborahmondon8371 Nonsense. OP doesn't have friends. Just people that use OP's better nature. A friend would never do these things.
all ready for another year of being alone! Happy new year..
Why is this video showing exactly what my life is? I can relate to this just too much. Made me cry.
Well, I wish you all a Happy New Year. I really hope you have loved ones and friends to spend this time with, cherish these moments.
It hits worse when it’s ur birthday… and all those relatives just send happy texts… and never call u back again after it’s over
spending your new year's eve with your family is always warming doesn't have to be a big party
stay safe lads and happy new year
what family
@@user-2Hteyasizyc Parents?Siblings?Cousins?
faxx
I wish ❤I’m 6 hrs away from my family
Just had to put my dog down 2 days ago after 14 years with him, he was my best friend and sitting here alone without my friend hurts a lot. I don't want anything from anyone, I just want my dog back. Rest in peace Bolt, I love you man, I hope you are in a better place now x
Just remember the good life and the love you gave him.
Today is the last day of 2023
Happy New Year everyone!
loneliness actually helped me understand my inner self better that if not fall in a depression or something. loneliness can be useful
Thats pretty much how i felt this new years eve
Me too
e aí português, também está solitário assim como eu?
Me too
On christmas eve I decided to spend my time alone, only with the company of my dog, this was the first time I did something like that and my family was surprised but they didn't said anything.
you can't imagine how much joy I felt being alone, I felt so relaxed and happy to be watching movies with my dog and playing some Xbox while ordering some pizza.
Sometimes is better if you spend time by yourself instead of people that makes you feel lonely or uncomfortable, it works.
Happy New year to all of you, don't worry if you didn't achieve something relevant in the former year, keep trying at your own pace, you are doing fine
that trick of the music during the call is a good one. I will use it next time.
another lonely New Year.
real
Some call it lonely,
I call it peaceful.
Amen
Yeah...
You haven't been lonely long enough yet. Wait.
@@ihatelensflare People are different. The OP may enjoy solitude, while you may not. We shouldn't project our own experiences onto others.
you don't know how hard this hits rn, after a shitty Christmas and new year with my family arguing about dumb crap I never realized how miserable it made me
I Can't Even Remember The Last Time I Enjoyed A New Year Let Alone Any Other Holidays... Just Here In Bed On My Phone Alone... Thank God For UA-cam Most Days It's All I Have As A Spark Of Entertainment 🙏🏾❤️🩹
Happy new years guys, here's to hoping 2024 will be better
I suppose it's nice knowing I'm not the only one celebrating new year's alone 😭. Happy new year to all my fellow Wojaks
happy new year bro!
Same
Wojaks together
Happy New Year
My asexual girlfriend is staying with her bestie for the night. Been with her for 5 years without sex. Not sure how I ended up here.
Hey MillenialThinker, Happy New Years. And thanks for exploring a lot of social issues that genuinely help me and other in life. I know by exploring all this bleak and dark subject can make your world view very depressing and also cynical to the point where you feel hollow inside but it helps a lot to be aware and understand this dilemma. I hope you know you are appreciated and for you and others be sure to take care of yourself and take care of others. For even if the world seems bleak and empty at least we can still show just shred of empathy.
Been a year, nothing's changed. It's nice to revisit this video again tho.
I'm really not looking forward to the new year. Wish everything ended with this year but too bad.
Same here
same
bro thought only I would be here
Every year is same bro nothing change hate my life so much wish i was never born and something tells me I’m gonna be like this the next year new years as well
Saying this as a doomer myself - you can’t wait for things to happen for you. You have to make them happen.
Wow. SO TRUE.
yeah like the doomer guy could have asked the guy he gave the lighter to his number or insta and tryed to make a new friend
Well yeah. Tough luck when you can barely gather the motivation to get out if bed or do things you like.
@@ganjalfilv3rde508 honestly if you like drinking going to the party with that other guy would be a simple way to have a good evening. Always easier to try and get inside a bigger group if you re not completely alone.
Ive already started making changes in my life. Full battle mode, wish you guys the best
How are all your videos so relatable?
Because many people face this, in fact our facing of this is part of what drives us further from helping eachother.
So here we all return once again...
2:29
“I think he stole my lighter”
Thank me later
Nothing's changed..
I have spend my 2024 and 2025 alone in my bed . Went outside on 31st evening of both times to have a dinner alone , but everyone was with somebody else and having a lot of laugh and good food . I came home crying with more weight in my chest and a realization . And it's gonna occurs occasionally...
Every December 31st, I find myself thinking “this next one will be my year.”
Hopefully this time it’ll turn out to be true. Chin up lads, and happy New Year.
For me there hasn't been a good year since 2019
@@Sharpshot45 The past few have been rocky for me, at best. Seems there’s been way more good days than bad.
Best I can do is tell you you’re not alone. The response these videos get is a testament to that fact. Hopefully things turn around this year and 2022 is better than the last two years have been.
You gotta work for it tho brotha, whatever it is. You can’t just expect it to happen all of a sudden.
I said so for the last 2 years. Ended up not reaching my goals of getting to a competitive bodybuilders size and doing a show. I got side tracked both years due to hard labor jobs, school, partying and just doubt. This year I started by starting my off-season prep on the 25th if november. When I've stepped on stage next December, then I can party and celebrate. Not now.
Make it happen
Something that got me out as a doomer and kept my sanity was having a healthy hobby such as working out I hope all of you find something that makes you happy cheers
Baking makes me happy.
Hell yeah, become a gym bro. You might still be lonely, but you won't be depressed about it
@@devontaeharris9191 that's what I want to do now but this covid BS in Canada has taken that option from me. Boo-urns
Good to hear ! Glad for you, Jose.....that's Great sdvice
@@Hekinsieden and I bet it makes others happy too! 😊
I feel so lonely and hopeless..and i don't know what to do anymore. I am 33, have only one real friend, but who is too busy with work most of the time. I am not really the most attractive, partially overweight..I have no job due to circumstances, no relationship with a woman, even though i deeply wish for one because i yearn for that feeling of being loved and being held when i feel down or lonely..and give that care and comfort right back to that someone. I want to have a family, to have children, live a happy, fulfilled and a not lonely life..
I would try to go out and be around people, talk to new people or even try to get into dating, but with what little money i have it's difficult to engage in things like clubs, activities or parties..and i fear that due to all of these factors that people will just not like me and reject me..
The only few distractions i can find from this horrible feeling of loneliness and dread is when i get to talk to people with similar interests online, but at the same time it also reminds me of how i most likely will never meet any of those people, who live across the world..and that reinforces that feeling of isolation even more..
But I just..don't know what to do..
i'm sorry, i know it all sounds pathetic..
No pathetic at all. A lot of people just "exist". That's all. Life is strange, hoping that this will not be our last.
Same here.
My brothers, thinking you are missing on something creates 90% of the pain we feel being alone, for there are people partying who are wishing they'd just chill at home and get a good night's sleep.
another friendless lonely new years =(
damn. i really searched this up
Same 😭
The third time I've watched this every year I watch it
Same bro……..
It's almost midnight in central Europe. I don't expect everyone to find happiness but at least I hope everyone of you will find some inner peace. Happy New year everyone.
buon anno anche a te
off topic:
if i say "skype ringtone"
do you also have the ringtone in your head immediately
@@z.b.8168 no. I've never used Skype
@@matteofazio7845 ok
inner peace is better than happiness
I come back to watch this every new year
It's not like I wasn't ever grateful for having friends, it's just realisations like the one I had after watching this video fortify my gratitude towards my friends being around and being there for me. I'm glad I could spend New Year's Eve with them and the barbecue the day after, get-togethers like those are what create the good memories.
Happy New Year's Eve everyone,
I don't believe we have to resign ourselves to the fate we feel lurking. The world keeps on turning. Go out and live your life as much as you can.
Take care.
On new years eve, i was definitely lonely, but i was just lucky enough to have another lonely online friend on discord
That end quote hit different this time.
Ikr...I wonder if MillenniaThinker is ok.
Ikr...I wonder if MillenniaThinker is ok.
I'm so invested in the messages and stories you pass on to us. Thanks bro. I hope you're overcoming your obstacles and coming out a better version of yourself on the other side.
I am 16 and now all off my classmates and friends are out partying having fun doing something with friends but I just missed the step from a kid where you spend your birthday New Year’s Eve and all that stuff with your Family to partying with your friends on those days. Feels bad man.
Same bro I have enough of this shit
@@stanisawaugustponiatowski1978 :/ i will try my hardest to find somewhere to go but I don’t think that I can find something. New Year’s Eve gonna be negative the first time. But we will get this 🤞 one day we will meet the right people on the right time. I wish you all of luck to find someone to hang out
I can't really enjoy partying anymore because I'm haunted by the thought of achieving my goals. You know what, even if it sounds corny or pretty depressing, I finally enjoy being alone and evolving my time to my journey, year after year I'm getting closer and closer, I'm living what seemed impossible 8 years ago, and now I think it's time to jump to the next level. I never experienced such happiness like this, no drugs can make you feel like this.
I just want to say it's good for you to let go of everything in pursuit of your passions, people, clothes, toxic behaviors.
I just hope you chase your dreams as well guys
love u
I feel you, since I have set some personal goals I have the feeling to find my inner peace. I listened to a motivation video each day and the guy said, a man has to wake up happy to know that he has a full day infront of himself. And this year was the first time i felt that, just one time but I never felt that. Life can be nice but we have to work for it and suffer. You suffer anyway, so choose to suffer in order to accomplish your goals
The first sentence is very relatable only instead of partying I would say making friends for me. I don’t know if that’s a good thing or a bad thing though.
Best thing I read this evening, have an amazing 2022
Same, friend. I can't properly enjoy parties, outings and leisure time anymore because I think about how I could spend the time moving forward in life and working on my goals.
I struggle with this but remember to take a breather and just turn off your mind and enjoy the moment, the endless pursuit for self improvement will eventually get more and more tiring and you will really keep chasing the unicorn forever. Remember that all the work you put in has lead to moments like these, and these breaks are to be cherished and enjoyed.
cyber hug
2020: The great toilet paper shortage
2021: The great economic collapse
2022: Aliens
It better be
203X: Dried up oceans, leather jackets with single shoulder pads for protection, strange deadly martial arts that have been in hiding for a thousand years, and motorcycles with infinite gazoline
The recently launched James Webb Space Telescope will detect them aliens on exoplanets for us curious earthlings.
You know what? Bring it on. I'll chill with them in a spaceship listening to Electric Light Orchastra
@@TheyWantMeGone69 But will they allow you to? Will you pass their metal health tests?
When you hate New Year's party.
dont settle, take action and keep grinding ! Happy new year everyone. Wish you the best !
I think I understood somewhat of the message but could you explain the message behind this video to me more pls
@@son-zora5174 fight loneliness, don't be alone. Use your dark times to make better times. We are not alone. Work on yourself every day and do or discover things that make you happy. And never lose hope no matter how hard it gets :) i personally am in hard times right now. Defeat is not an option.
Agreed. Use that time to build and work on yourself. When are you going to improve yourself if your schedule is flooded with meeting people anyway?
hello everyone. happy new year everyone. New year in 3 hours. but I am sad. because I'm alone today. I don't have anyone to talk to except on the phone
no one congratulated me. I feel a little better watching loneliness videos on you tube. (this is the worst new year of my life)))
get used to it
Happy new year brother, I hope you get better
give me your discord bro we gon hang out
bro that's literally me every year in my apartment
Cashier: "doing anything for New Years?"
Me: "No, not much, just going to have a quiet one indoors I think."
Do they ask ppl? That would feel embarassing.
@@aswler yeah just small talk really. Its why I usually use the self-checkout, to avoid talking
cashiers making polite small talk.
how i miss them.
Be happy. Life is too short to be sad
Life is sad en short 😂
The end of 2022 is no different.
I remember when I was in this exact state a few years ago.
To whoever reads this... PLEASE, don't let go of yourself.
Keep it together, make yourself stronger, so that other people can rely on you in the future.
Being selfless for the most part brought me more satisfaction and happyness.
LET ME GIVE YOU A HUG TOO
I dont even want to be reliable for people anymore because I hate them so much for treating me like I don't exist. Happy new years.
@@harjasdhariwal5960
You deserve a good hug too my brother.
Happy New Year.
@@erikmclennan3934
I was there too my man.
Good people will find their way to you.
Just make sure, you are happy with yourself.
Happy New Year!
Advice from one who "has been there" is always good to consider. THANK YOU!
At this point it's normal for me to spend new-year alone
IMO It's perfectly normal to enjoy new-year alone. Pressure from society and then Fomo is what causes this to be such a bad time. Otherwise don't feel guilty about it
@@Pabl0_88 I'm fine, enjoying my time and out of nowhere people come and talk about how am I gunna celebrate a random day and its just like a reminder that I'm doing things wrong because I'm not celebrating some random thing
Same I'm working
watching it again, happy new year!
You're never lonely if you like the person you're alone with.
I can't enjoy New Years Eve alone because of our culture / social media, the people just hype it too much and act as if it's weird to enjoy solitude. I had to cut off a lot of false friends this year and it made me pretty lonely in the end and while that choice was the right move and I do not regret it, I'm still bitter about not being able to party and get drunk with other people and to just get lost in the moment for a while.
ou have already made some hard but healthy choices thus year. Don't fall into bitterness because you aren't immersing yourself in hollow and false merriment.
What makes YOUR heart sing? Get lost tonight ( and find true meaning) in THAT.
I started doing the same honestly. And although the author scares us with fomo type of garbage at the end, I believe you should cut people who bring you down out of your life, even if it results in loneliness. That loneliness is really temporary compared to the years wasted being next to people who make you feel like shit because their outlook on life is so full of hatred and negativity. Don't just wait for the future to come, actually put in the work to achieve that future you want. Don't blame yourself for cutting people off and looking for new ones, it's really the healthy thing to do.
psychologist at all the other
You only need at least few friends, a cat or dog, a cold beer or gin, barbeque, and a table, and it is enough to enjoy yourselves
I cut off neglectful friends as well. Once a "talk and message everyday and hang out every few days" to no calls, messages being left on read for 8 days. Make plans to hang out once every 2 months even though we live in the same area zip code etc. I don't think partying with those kinds of false friends would make me happy
At 2:29 : “I think he stole my lighter”.
For those wondering what that little white line said at 2:29.
Hey millennia, I've been a watcher of yours even when you were smol and every other video relates to me. I always considered my self a doomer and this year is especially hard. Your videos bring me fleeting joy in a world where there is little. Thank you.