Cool, a video about love and attachment, perfect after a break up. I actually have the reverse effect than you, I get super attached super quickly to people. Which ends pretty bad too, they don't see it the same way and move away as fast as they can. Being an 'attaching' (litteraly just invented that one) person has its downsides as well...
The Maxim's worlds I'll be going into my thoughts as to why I'm like this using psychology from what I know in a video tomorrow to accompany this video but essentially it's how we've grown up and growing up making attachments to friends and family help teach us how to react and act in relationships for later life etc so me I didn't have many attachments growing up so I've kinda suffered not really knowing what to do or how to act, now I don't know your situation but someone who attaches quickly would have had really strong attachments growing up, possible very dependant attachments to the care giver/parent etc according to the theory in psychology, but like a lot of the time it's out of our control, we can't just change how we are in these situations, it's all we know, best we can do is learn now through trial and error
The Maxim's worlds again, that's just how the theory goes, there will be many variables hence why I said I don't really know your situation, mine was mainly cause I isolated myself so much, I regret that but my anxiety forced me to be alone and now I struggle
The Maxim's worlds I've got it under control and it's getting better but still an issue, it's the same with family and friends too but people are patient with me so it's all I can ask for
Cool, a video about love and attachment, perfect after a break up.
I actually have the reverse effect than you, I get super attached super quickly to people. Which ends pretty bad too, they don't see it the same way and move away as fast as they can. Being an 'attaching' (litteraly just invented that one) person has its downsides as well...
The Maxim's worlds I'll be going into my thoughts as to why I'm like this using psychology from what I know in a video tomorrow to accompany this video but essentially it's how we've grown up and growing up making attachments to friends and family help teach us how to react and act in relationships for later life etc so me I didn't have many attachments growing up so I've kinda suffered not really knowing what to do or how to act, now I don't know your situation but someone who attaches quickly would have had really strong attachments growing up, possible very dependant attachments to the care giver/parent etc according to the theory in psychology, but like a lot of the time it's out of our control, we can't just change how we are in these situations, it's all we know, best we can do is learn now through trial and error
Actually I've grown up pretty much alone, just with my parents.
The Maxim's worlds again, that's just how the theory goes, there will be many variables hence why I said I don't really know your situation, mine was mainly cause I isolated myself so much, I regret that but my anxiety forced me to be alone and now I struggle
Can't help you with that, struggling here too...
The Maxim's worlds I've got it under control and it's getting better but still an issue, it's the same with family and friends too but people are patient with me so it's all I can ask for