Narcissist gets married, has an affair and murders his wife, happens all too often, they should give out handbooks with narcissistic traits in high school.
Absolutely right a text book narcissist in every way. All those questions and actions she wanted answered and acted on in her letter would never have been answered or done by him the narcissist, everything is about them nothing is about you.
I saw no tears roll down his cheek when he was talking to the media. I can’t stand men like him…a dishonest, cheater, murderer. He gave no regard to his wife’s heartbreak. He is a cruel narcissist.
My former husband's parents lived in Brookfield, a tight, well healed, semi rural suburb in western Brisbane. The evening after she was reported missing, I drove my son to his grandparents house (where his father was again living), and on approach there were numerous police cars all along the road by the local stores and showground, we then drove beyond there and up above we noticed luminous green lights overhead and wondered what they were. When we arrived, Rod said the police had been door knocking every property in the area all day and that they were searchlights scanning the region. Although we were by then divorced many years, we still met up at the local bar and he of course knew the locals. I personally had never met Allison though the local hairdresser had given Allison a haircut the evening before as she and her husband had an important meeting at their office workplace the next day. Allison was murdered that Thursday night after the children had gone to sleep. From the very beginning, his behaviour, the obvious scratches on his face and his odd demeanour stood out. His mistress was the catalyst, pushing him to end the marriage once and for all and chose her. This vile woman also worked in the same workplace. She got off but should have been charged as an accessory to this horrible murder which tore the community apart and left these beautiful children without their loving mother. A horrible, senseless, selfish and cruel murder by an absolutely monstrous narcissist. Rest in peace Allison.
I went to school with Allison. She was a year above me at IGGS. She was a lovely person and I was so terribly shocked that this happened to her. It felt surreal at the time. She was extremely clever and a high achiever and was always too good for the narc husband. Just like her friends said in the 60 minutes interview. They knew from the first he was no good.
Sounds exactly like the Chris Watts case…it’s eerie how many similarities there are between the two. 1. Shanaan wanted her marriage to work desperately, just as this woman did… 2. Chris Watts also had a mistress who appeared to be the catalyst that drove a wedge between their marriage, I believe her name was Nicole… 3. Chris Watts also worked with his mistress, and many people felt she should have Been charged having “inadvertently”, contributed to the demise of the Chris kids and wife. 4. Chris also promised his mistress he would leave his wife… 5. Chris was also in debt or financially bad off…
I was looking at buying a house in Brookfield and he showed us a few houses. He was a self-absorbed creep, with delusions of grandeur- mentioning ties with scouts, who he knew, how great his business was and stating he owned several investment properties in the area. . We went back to his office in Kenmore, he joked with my husband that his life was busy juggling women. We knew he was broke, he was asking my husband where to buy cheap printer cartridges and he hated paying for the printer as it was on an agreement. Anyone who was listening could see that there was a narcissist who would stop at nothing, he thought he was the cleverest person in the room. I felt so uncomfortable around him, that we decided not to see any more properties with him.
I almost had the same end to my life. When I was isolated, my family fell for his excuses that I was a "bad" wife, having had a very abusive and ScapeGoat upbringing.
I'm so glad you survived that horrible experience n Thank you Lord for you being with us today.I pray your life is full of love and happiness.🙏💕God Bless you❤❤❤
I survived two attempts on my life by my then husband. Today, our daughter whom he grossly neglected is dismissive of me but related with her father in a way that baffles me. I hurt inside but do not want to deny her a relationship with her father who never was a dad.
Unfortunately it happens far to often. I visited her plaque at the bridge and wished I had known to bring sunflowers. Poor woman. Can’t remember if I did a clip of it on my channel but so sad. God bless her children and her family
She must have fought for her life in the end. Look at those marks on him. Makes me sick that he threw the mother of his children away like trash. You couldn't even give her dignity in death.
@@stujones3566 Unfortunately….He is not rotting in jail…he is getting fed, clothed and has a roof over his head..unlike some…but he is doing some education classes provided by the government in prison…he’s been on the news here in Brisbane a few times since being jailed.
This is the reason why I left Australia because my Ex- husband, cheated on me with a lady at his work. I got out of their way and left Brisbane for Thailand my birth Country.
Like my sister. She went back to uk from Australia 1998. He left her and then left his new 2yr old son from the mistress, after he suffered a heart attack at the end of the rugby world cup. 2003 He was a driver for horrid fans. Stressed him out. Killed him.
I think the mistress was just as guilty. She knew he was married.why ca these women find their own man and leave the married men alone.she should be in jail with him. I hope the rest of her life is miserable for all the misery she has caused
True. But it's the married person who gets most of the blame in my book. They are the ones that said "I do". Then they 'don't'. After years with someone and kids with them. Disgusting.
@@diane4488 absolutely! But if the man was decent he'd not be looking out, ready to destroy his family. No matter the type of woman. This goes for women who cheat too, married on not.
What a monster. I pray that all murders are solved. I contacted the police about the girl that went missing in 1997 at Bathurst and nothing at all was done about it.
@@kimaglioti7775They are to lazy I think. I seen the car they described and even chatted to the driver with my father even being there. We were camping in a remote Forrest trying to get a deer when we seen the car and later the guy came up from this bush area and was shocked to see us. I only seen the cold case show a few months back and contacted the police and heard nothing back. It was my birthday so that’s how I remembered as it was the last time I went camping with my dad
Coercive control from the start she wasn’t allowed to see her friends! She should run a mile early on in the relationship, he is a psychopath, hope he is never released let him rot the low life!
I read this sad story several years ago. I remember how mean and deceitful he had treated her. I thought she was beautiful with a kind smile. He, on the other hand, was a selfish creep who should never get parole. Hope the girls have flourished as best they can . 😔🙏🏻🇺🇸
Alison was such a beautiful soul. He is simply a low life con man who didn't deserve such a wonderful lady. He wanted to bring her down to his level. If only she had never met him or believed him.
I was in the same class as his oldest daughter when this happened. After she went missing, he came in to drop his daughter off. Not a drop of concern or remorse on his face. I met Allison only once when she came to read to our class. She seemed very sweet but sad. His daughters grew up to be very good girls.
yes, i wished i was educated about narcissistic personality disorder before i was married.. the other trait is “the go getter” narcism mistaken for ambition
It is your responsibility to stop a partner who tries to isolate you from others. Love, protection or safety are no excuse to do what they tell you. If you are and adult, you have to choose.
I have actually been in two very mentally emotionally and physically abusive relationships, I need some of them are so good at what they do and it happens so slowly over time sometimes that you don't even really know what happened until it's already done, they are extremely conniving and manipulating. And then when you try to get away and get restraining orders that's nothing but a piece of paper that majority of them don't care about.
@@kristibyerts5987yeah me too.. i never realised i was married to someone that had pushed away everyone else i had I n my life.. 😳 and then when i left the marriage i had no one.. at the time i was eligible for 6 free counselling sessions under medicare.. and that was it.. ive had to self diagnose that i have PTSD from the entire experience and am a shadow of my former self. there’s limited help for men in abusive relationships.. narcissistic personality disorder is rife throughout society..
My ex cheated. I took everything he had at my house, to her house. I told her, "you can have HIM, but the house, cars, business, are MINE ONLY, you get NOTHING BUT HIM, and his debt". He called CRYING to come home. i just laughed. The mistress always wants what the WIFE has built with the husband. Did not happen on me. I refused to allow ANYONE to take MY EMPIRE.
What infuriates me is when these monstrous killers cries in front of the camera and pretend as if they are really hurt and cure about their victims after their evil deeds.
These people who do such a thing, as what happened to Alison are total narcissist's. They only care about themselves and the attention they can receive ...they are very charming, manulative, self-centered people that will stop at nothing to get what they want out of you.
This husband was obviously a Narcissitic monster. No one can predict their behavior. As a Narcissist myself, I have to really monitor my reactions to slights and other negative behavior from others. Narcissists do suffer from the perceived slights. I have worked very hard to reflect on my reactions and emotions. This lady was brainwashed by her abusive husband. The control creeps up on you and before you know it, the victim is bound as if wire was tightly wrapped around you. I doubt that this lady was not aware of her husband's poisonous personality. The police who find the victims alive tell you: RUN! The victims has it very hard, you have to plan youir escape carefully, tell your family what you are facing and the potential danger you are facing. I think of Chris Watts and countless other victims who are murdered.
Agreed! Maybe I'm too cynical, or watch too much true crime but an affair is the end of the line for me too. It's unconscionable and there's absolutely no excuse!! 😡
yep.. no moral compass whatsoever.. unfortunately television has been promoting this type of behaviour since the 1950s and it has just about become “normalised” 😳 society is crumbling.. i think there won’t even be any families in another generation..
Got that right! When you break your marriage covenant, you can NEVER be fully trusted again. PERIOD! Can't understand why somebody would want to give a cheating spouse a second chance!
I remember this case. I was in year 10 when Alison was murdered. My heart broke for her family and friends who knew her. I’ve always believed that the scratches Alison left on Gerard’s face helped gain a conviction of guilt. And I have always hoped that her girls are coping okay with what happened. And know that their mum adored them.
Why would you want to try to mend the relationship with the man who betrayed you. I don’t get it. No one can tell me that you can then peacefully lie next to the person who slept with someone else and ever trust them again. Leave asap and never look back.
People come in all different looks ....you stated your look. I see the evil and decide ... I can give it back or I can make this world a better place. She was much stronger than you ....work it out girl!
They’re not saying what happened to her beautiful kids , and how much evil husband get prison sentence . Rip beautiful lady hopefully now you’re in better place 🙏🏻🌹🌹🌹
We know the family. They had to take the kids to see him in prison. And the girls are growing up beautifully thanks to Allison's parents and Vanessa her sister.
Each method used by the toxic control freak are now regarded as criminal offences in the UK. Same there? Wonderful that the canoist noticed Allison and that the foliage helped put the rancid dimwit in jail. Sadly not for long. Thank you to everyone who shared their hearts and minds on this video. I hope you can get to the place where the creep has no longer any negative power over you whilst Allison is always lovingly remembered. ❤❤❤
What people should understand is that when your partner is being unfaithful to you, it's not because you have done something wrong to deserve that. It's just that they are like that, looking for the next exciting thing- like Peter Pan. They are usually irresponsible individuals ( still kids inside) who also suffer from trauma they do not want to address. Marriage doesn't change them nor having kids, that actually makes everything much worse.
As in every case like this one, one must place partial blame on the "other woman." She had no regard for Allison nor her three daughters nor the other people who loved her. She is despicable and an accessory to what happened.
That media interview threw up a few red flags! It's very important that the surviving spouse does these interviews. The Gone Girl situation is exceptional.
I heard more of this murder here then anywhere else. The mistress was interviewed on camera and put all the blame on him, another narcissist, they seem to be attracted to people like themselves. 😮
I have in my life been blind where men are concerned, but I don't think there could be a more obvious archetype of the creepy, shallow and delusional malignant narcissist, than him. Yes, good for her that she at least left those scratches in one last effort to fight back and mark him as her murderer. I read that in his first few years in jail, he was studying all these books on law to find out how he could appeal his case. Arrogantly delusional and unremorseful to the end. May he rot there and never be released.
The mistress is as bad as him. She could have called the police at any time and prevented the crime. He undoubtedly told her that he was going to kill his wife.
This fucking buster was before Chris Wats evil. Absolute devastating story. I was watching it unfolding in front of my eyes in Australia at that point. In disbelief. Poor Alison and family, my heart goes out to their family.
He sounds my ex-partner. That's why I left him. He wanted a child , I didn't but when I fell pregnant, even he kept punching my stomach as he's in a boxing match. An police or doctor didn't do anything.
My condolences to family and friends. Allison sounds so wonderful hearing her story from her family, and friends; a loving wife and mother to her children so sad she didn't deserve to hv a life taken away from her. Rest in peace. That husband is a horrible human; to take the life of his wife: whom he promise to God to take care of, to love, and cherish giving birth to ur three beautiful daughters. He deserve the death penalty. My view...The husband very selfish, and selfishly took away his children mother; didn't for one minute think of those children; only about himself. He live for the flesh and now reap destruction.
All of Australia knew he was guilty! His interview was pathetic ..playing the grieving husband which was so bad! Hope he rots in hell RIP: Beautiful Allison 💫
Wrong! I am a well-educated woman who frequently writes letters. Unless it is business or professional, I often shorten or abbreviate words. It has nothing to do with knowing how to spell.
How much must you loathe your spouse to murder her??...why not divorce....surely you know you will be caught. And he sounds so calm during that Police call?? Psychopath!
A tragic loss of a beautiful woman. 😢 So sorry 😞 for her daughters that are growing up without her. Her parents, siblings and friends that are also going through heartache. 💔 A selfish, cruel and abusive monster 👿 that doesn’t deserve to see the light of day again! Rot in hell Gerard! 🤬 Toni Mckew, you sicken me. So disgusting 🤢 R.I.P. Allison. ☮️❤😢 May your family and friends have ongoing healing and support for each other. 💕🦋🌹✨
I have the same experience, my husband's family never supported me and scapegoats me as well for no reasonable reason at all, I think marriage kills love, and u constantly have to juggle at being the " 2 families- pleaser" that causes extreme levels of stress, u can't satisfy your inlaws and your parent at the same time! It drives me crazy, so I can relate to your important comment, life is a mess as a married woman spouse, ure never good enough for "THEM"
I watched the interview with Tony the mistress and I don’t believe a single word she said she tried to portray her innocence and put all the blame on the husband 🤦🏽♀️
I always says to my Children when they drive. When you behind the wheel knowing that Your life and the people inside and other people outsides LIVES are in YOUR hands. 😢
To think this moron of man would prefer that not at all attractive woman, to the gorgeous, very intelligent & classy woman ,the mother of his children, is astounding. He wanted the insurance so he could bed hop and not be in debt. If he had ended up with the other woman ( and not caught)and became bored after a short time , he would have done the same again. Can’t understand what Allison saw in that creepy monster, she could have anyone with her looks, personality and sweetness, also a wonderful mother😢RIP Dear Allison and well done scratching the murderer and leaving evidence❤️
Gerard and the mistress deserved each other, imo. There was no way Gerard deserved Alison. She was way too good for him based on how her family and friends loved her
Fabulouse cheaters always cheat. I read a story where the husband dumped his wife for his mistress. He married her had a child and did not turn out well, beg his ex wife to take him back 😅 she said sorry darling I am extremley happy with my 30yr old lover. Justice served
No words. What a beautiful, brave, champion of a human being. Impossible to forget this case or this lady. No doubt God himself has found the perfect PA in Alison.
Narcissist gets married, has an affair and murders his wife, happens all too often, they should give out handbooks with narcissistic traits in high school.
U said it right lots of life would have been saved
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I said the same thing. They should teach about this in hs
Once a so called husband commits murder TAKE HIS DARN LAST NAME OFF THE GRAVE STONE it’s the biggest insult to the victim and her family.
I thought exactly the same.
I agree.
Dang right!!
Definitely!!!
I could not agree more.
This guy makes my skin crawl. What an outright creep that was appalling to his wife. Disdain for her and the children. May he rot in jail.
He wasn’t a “doting father and big time successful real estate agent.” He is a narcissist.
.... a narcissist that needed control to the end.
Yup😢.
@margotgray3330 They are like Psychopaths . There is no cure for
them. They always are suave and romantic. Hiding their true lights.
Absolutely! That 1.5h long wedding day speech of his was a MAJOR red flag. MAJOR. And to talk about his parents most of all? just disgusting.
Absolutely right a text book narcissist in every way. All those questions and actions she wanted answered and acted on in her letter would never have been answered or done by him the narcissist, everything is about them nothing is about you.
I saw no tears roll down his cheek when he was talking to the media. I can’t stand men like him…a dishonest, cheater, murderer. He gave no regard to his wife’s heartbreak. He is a cruel narcissist.
For the love of her babies, she fought, she left her mark on a killers face .Bless you Alison ❤RIP.
Amen 🙏
My former husband's parents lived in Brookfield, a tight, well healed, semi rural suburb in western Brisbane. The evening after she was reported missing, I drove my son to his grandparents house (where his father was again living), and on approach there were numerous police cars all along the road by the local stores and showground, we then drove beyond there and up above we noticed luminous green lights overhead and wondered what they were. When we arrived, Rod said the police had been door knocking every property in the area all day and that they were searchlights scanning the region. Although we were by then divorced many years, we still met up at the local bar and he of course knew the locals. I personally had never met Allison though the local hairdresser had given Allison a haircut the evening before as she and her husband had an important meeting at their office workplace the next day. Allison was murdered that Thursday night after the children had gone to sleep. From the very beginning, his behaviour, the obvious scratches on his face and his odd demeanour stood out. His mistress was the catalyst, pushing him to end the marriage once and for all and chose her. This vile woman also worked in the same workplace. She got off but should have been charged as an accessory to this horrible murder which tore the community apart and left these beautiful children without their loving mother. A horrible, senseless, selfish and cruel murder by an absolutely monstrous narcissist. Rest in peace Allison.
I went to school with Allison. She was a year above me at IGGS. She was a lovely person and I was so terribly shocked that this happened to her. It felt surreal at the time. She was extremely clever and a high achiever and was always too good for the narc husband. Just like her friends said in the 60 minutes interview. They knew from the first he was no good.
Sounds exactly like the Chris Watts case…it’s eerie how many similarities there are between the two.
1. Shanaan wanted her marriage to work desperately, just as this woman did…
2. Chris Watts also had a mistress who appeared to be the catalyst that drove a wedge between their marriage, I believe her name was Nicole…
3. Chris Watts also worked with his mistress, and many people felt she should have Been charged having “inadvertently”, contributed to the demise of the Chris kids and wife.
4. Chris also promised his mistress he would leave his wife…
5. Chris was also in debt or financially bad off…
@@keluvnme wow, it's like a copy cat murder. Very eerie indeed.
Coercive control
@@keluvnme where did the Chris Watts case occur? When?
I was looking at buying a house in Brookfield and he showed us a few houses. He was a self-absorbed creep, with delusions of grandeur- mentioning ties with scouts, who he knew, how great his business was and stating he owned several investment properties in the area. . We went back to his office in Kenmore, he joked with my husband that his life was busy juggling women. We knew he was broke, he was asking my husband where to buy cheap printer cartridges and he hated paying for the printer as it was on an agreement. Anyone who was listening could see that there was a narcissist who would stop at nothing, he thought he was the cleverest person in the room. I felt so uncomfortable around him, that we decided not to see any more properties with him.
Its sad that more women cant see a narcissist when they meet one. Good for you for being so insightful. It would save more heartache and lives😮
I almost had the same end to my life. When I was isolated, my family fell for his excuses that I was a "bad" wife, having had a very abusive and ScapeGoat upbringing.
I'm so glad you survived that horrible experience n Thank you Lord for you being with us today.I pray your life is full of love and happiness.🙏💕God Bless you❤❤❤
So glad you made it , God Bless you .
I survived two attempts on my life by my then husband. Today, our daughter whom he grossly neglected is dismissive of me but related with her father in a way that baffles me. I hurt inside but do not want to deny her a relationship with her father who never was a dad.
😢correction: relates with her father ...
I hope you left them all.
He’s scum. The detective work on this case was well done
Alison was so beautiful and able to articulate herself in a very mature and loving way even when broken. 😢
Unfortunately it happens far to often. I visited her plaque at the bridge and wished I had known to bring sunflowers. Poor woman. Can’t remember if I did a clip of it on my channel but so sad. God bless her children and her family
Those scratches are haunting.This lovely lady fought that narcissistic waste of space.Heart breaking.
I agree 😔
He's just a little creep and she'll always be beautiful and remembered with love... RIP Allison ❤ God bless her family and daughters forever 🙏
She must have fought for her life in the end. Look at those marks on him. Makes me sick that he threw the mother of his children away like trash. You couldn't even give her dignity in death.
This is why they should put him in main stream prison and not in protection. The other prisoners would love to do a few things to him.
@@WeeJasperVetClinic. The other prisoners have beaten him up…I live in Bristol and it was on the news several times.
@@stujones3566 Unfortunately….He is not rotting in jail…he is getting fed, clothed and has a roof over his head..unlike some…but he is doing some education classes provided by the government in prison…he’s been on the news here in Brisbane a few times since being jailed.
What a basterd hope he rots in hell how can he live with himself but narcissists do because they don't care it's all about them poisonous snakes
All those scratches - she fought and left her mark.
An hour and a half speech!!!! That alone shows how much of a narcissistic he was to love to hear his own voice
Shocking! Big red flag. 😮
He only wanted to be married to himself.
He basically held the guests hostage with that lengthy speech
Sounds like my wedding to my ex. All about his family and his brother hardly mentioned me.... glad I escaped
This is the reason why I left Australia because my Ex- husband, cheated on me with a lady at his work. I got out of their way and left Brisbane for Thailand my birth Country.
Like my sister. She went back to uk from Australia 1998. He left her and then left his new 2yr old son from the mistress, after he suffered a heart attack at the end of the rugby world cup. 2003
He was a driver for horrid fans. Stressed him out. Killed him.
What a beautiful woman, trying to keep it all together. The letter is heart wrenching.
Sad thing is, I don't think he would have given two minutes of real thought to her letter. It was just something he didn't want to deal with.
This was such a well put together film, great job telling a sad story.
Life in prison for this scumbag, well done !
Thumbs up to the Australian justice !
I think the mistress was just as guilty. She knew he was married.why ca these women find their own man and leave the married men alone.she should be in jail with him. I hope the rest of her life is miserable for all the misery she has caused
Thank God I am not the only one that believes that.
I agree why should she still be roaming free, the low life b….. I hope and pray she suffers greatly for the rest of her life.
True. But it's the married person who gets most of the blame in my book. They are the ones that said "I do". Then they 'don't'. After years with someone and kids with them. Disgusting.
Yes, but if you know someone is married, it's vile and immoral to keep chasing them, and demanding they leave their partner.
@@diane4488 absolutely! But if the man was decent he'd not be looking out, ready to destroy his family. No matter the type of woman. This goes for women who cheat too, married on not.
Alarm bell should have rung when he made a 1 and a half hours speech!
I'm so lucky to be happily single and independent. I don't light up a room with my presence and I don't have life insurance. 😅
Ditto
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Absolutely sickening 😢 to think this disgusting behaviour is still happening 😢
Those poor children loosing thier mum like that 😢
I like that we get insight in to the life of the victim , unlike other channels where the victim gets lost to the perp, and they get all the attention
What a monster. I pray that all murders are solved. I contacted the police about the girl that went missing in 1997 at Bathurst and nothing at all was done about it.
Sickening. Why?????
@@kimaglioti7775They are to lazy I think. I seen the car they described and even chatted to the driver with my father even being there. We were camping in a remote Forrest trying to get a deer when we seen the car and later the guy came up from this bush area and was shocked to see us. I only seen the cold case show a few months back and contacted the police and heard nothing back. It was my birthday so that’s how I remembered as it was the last time I went camping with my dad
It might be that they are going through lots of tips. Phone them again and insist to talk to someone. Don't leave it down to them
Go into the station, don't call them. Any little bit of information may help police to bring closure to her family.@@WeeJasperVetClinic
What you have written is extremely important and is taken much more seriously in todays climate. I urge you to contact crime stoppers.
Coercive control from the start she wasn’t allowed to see her friends! She should run a mile early on in the relationship, he is a psychopath, hope he is never released let him rot the low life!
Been there, done that. Got away but the court cost, I lost my home and had to start again. Stay safe.
I read this sad story several years ago. I remember how mean and deceitful he had treated her. I thought she was beautiful with a kind smile. He, on the other hand, was a selfish creep who should never get parole. Hope the girls have flourished as best they can .
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I have met the daughters.
They are doing well
Alison was such a beautiful soul. He is simply a low life con man who didn't deserve such a wonderful lady. He wanted to bring her down to his level. If only she had never met him or believed him.
Con man doesn't begin to describe thismonster of a husband.
I agree 100%
I was in the same class as his oldest daughter when this happened. After she went missing, he came in to drop his daughter off. Not a drop of concern or remorse on his face. I met Allison only once when she came to read to our class. She seemed very sweet but sad. His daughters grew up to be very good girls.
When your partner separates you from Your friends and and family that is a big red flag
yes, i wished i was educated about narcissistic personality disorder before i was married.. the other trait is “the go getter” narcism mistaken for ambition
It is your responsibility to stop a partner who tries to isolate you from others. Love, protection or safety are no excuse to do what they tell you. If you are and adult, you have to choose.
Agree 💯. Once they isolate you from family and friends, the abuse will only get worse. 🇺🇲
I have actually been in two very mentally emotionally and physically abusive relationships, I need some of them are so good at what they do and it happens so slowly over time sometimes that you don't even really know what happened until it's already done, they are extremely conniving and manipulating. And then when you try to get away and get restraining orders that's nothing but a piece of paper that majority of them don't care about.
@@kristibyerts5987yeah me too.. i never realised i was married to someone that had pushed away everyone else i had I n my life.. 😳 and then when i left the marriage i had no one.. at the time i was eligible for 6 free counselling sessions under medicare.. and that was it.. ive had to self diagnose that i have PTSD from the entire experience and am a shadow of my former self. there’s limited help for men in abusive relationships.. narcissistic personality disorder is rife throughout society..
Was the saddest, yet so typical of so many deaths relating to domestic abuse & violence 😢 Great interviews Chris Bath x
I wonder if homewreckers ever feel guilty destroying lives directly or indirectly 😡
No, they don't. I've watched many crime shows and they never feel shame.
My ex cheated. I took everything he had at my house, to her house. I told her, "you can have HIM, but the house, cars, business, are MINE ONLY, you get NOTHING BUT HIM, and his debt".
He called CRYING to come home.
i just laughed. The mistress always wants what the WIFE has built with the husband. Did not happen on me. I refused to allow ANYONE to take MY EMPIRE.
Bravo, well.played Jessie, well played!
What infuriates me is when these monstrous killers cries in front of the camera and pretend as if they are really hurt and cure about their victims after their evil deeds.
These people who do such a thing, as what happened to Alison are total narcissist's. They only care about themselves and the attention they can receive ...they are very charming, manulative, self-centered people that will stop at nothing to get what they want out of you.
That wasn't crying. You can hear it's a put on and his eyes aren't wet.
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Its disgusting and doesn't pass the smell test. One sees it over and over again. These men sadly are too common
@@thisisme3238just a plain murderer. Good life in prison ....rot there
Rest in Peace Alison, our Lord will take care of you in Heaven.
Thank you 7 for putting this case out there and for women going through the same thing can see all the red flags!!!!!
She was such a beautiful person. Way too kind and forgiving to that creepy conman with the unattractive side chick.
100%. The wife is absolutely gorgeous, and the mistress looks like Dylan Mulvaney
@@petia64 😂
Love these women who loved Allison. May she rest in peace.
This husband was obviously a Narcissitic monster. No one can predict their behavior. As a Narcissist myself, I have to really monitor my reactions to slights and other negative behavior from others. Narcissists do suffer from the perceived slights. I have worked very hard to reflect on my reactions and emotions. This lady was brainwashed by her abusive husband. The control creeps up on you and before you know it, the victim is bound as if wire was tightly wrapped around you. I doubt that this lady was not aware of her husband's poisonous personality. The police who find the victims alive tell you: RUN! The victims has it very hard, you have to plan youir escape carefully, tell your family what you are facing and the potential danger you are facing. I think of Chris Watts and countless other victims who are murdered.
Thankyou for your honest comment, so refreshing
He didn,t deserve her..and he knew it..
Far too Good Better than the Person she Married, Sad that she did not get away from the Evil Man.
An affair would be the last straw for me. No second chances. No trying to keep a man who cares nothing about your feelings.
Agreed! Maybe I'm too cynical, or watch too much true crime but an affair is the end of the line for me too. It's unconscionable and there's absolutely no excuse!! 😡
yep.. no moral compass whatsoever.. unfortunately television has been promoting this type of behaviour since the 1950s and it has just about become “normalised” 😳 society is crumbling.. i think there won’t even be any families in another generation..
Got that right! When you break your marriage covenant, you can NEVER be fully trusted again. PERIOD! Can't understand why somebody would want to give a cheating spouse a second chance!
I remember this case. I was in year 10 when Alison was murdered. My heart broke for her family and friends who knew her.
I’ve always believed that the scratches Alison left on Gerard’s face helped gain a conviction of guilt.
And I have always hoped that her girls are coping okay with what happened. And know that their mum adored them.
Why would you want to try to mend the relationship with the man who betrayed you. I don’t get it. No one can tell me that you can then peacefully lie next to the person who slept with someone else and ever trust them again. Leave asap and never look back.
People come in all different looks ....you stated your look. I see the evil and decide ... I can give it back or I can make this world a better place. She was much stronger than you ....work it out girl!
They’re not saying what happened to her beautiful kids , and how much evil husband get prison sentence . Rip beautiful lady hopefully now you’re in better place 🙏🏻🌹🌹🌹
He was sentenced to life in prison, fortunately
They would need to protect the privacy of the children
He tried for release but was denied.
@@myunknownland9272good that it was denied. may he rot in prison and never be released
We know the family. They had to take the kids to see him in prison. And the girls are growing up beautifully thanks to Allison's parents and Vanessa her sister.
the only solution to an unhappy marriage is divorce before things get too ugly
Each method used by the toxic control freak are now regarded as criminal offences in the UK. Same there?
Wonderful that the canoist noticed Allison and that the foliage helped put the rancid dimwit in jail. Sadly not for long. Thank you to everyone who shared their hearts and minds on this video. I hope you can get to the place where the creep has no longer any negative power over you whilst Allison is always lovingly remembered. ❤❤❤
What people should understand is that when your partner is being unfaithful to you, it's not because you have done something wrong to deserve that. It's just that they are like that, looking for the next exciting thing- like Peter Pan. They are usually irresponsible individuals ( still kids inside) who also suffer from trauma they do not want to address. Marriage doesn't change them nor having kids, that actually makes everything much worse.
As in every case like this one, one must place partial blame on the "other woman." She had no regard for Allison nor her three daughters nor the other people who loved her. She is despicable and an accessory to what happened.
Truth
Feral monster needs to be put down 🤬
Rest in Paradise Allison ❤🕊❤️🕊
Truly evil!! Her poor children lost their loving mother to this ugly monster.
And that vile woman responsible
Rest in Peace Allison 🤍
Amen 🙏
She was so beautiful and so smart . A great mother a great wife yet this isn’t enough to this monster .
That media interview threw up a few red flags! It's very important that the surviving spouse does these interviews. The Gone Girl situation is exceptional.
When somebody starts to be so controlling they have something to hide.
An hour and a half speech at a wedding?! That's bananas.
I heard more of this murder here then anywhere else. The mistress was interviewed on camera and put all the blame on him, another narcissist, they seem to be attracted to people like themselves. 😮
Keep it please because it's better than the 60 minutes version.
That letter was a waste of time. He couldn’t care less! I really don’t understand why she stayed
I have met Allison's family at the annual Strive to be Kind Day.
Rest in peace angel.
Gerad does not deserve to be a part of your lives.
His mistress is just as bad as him both narcissistic
What an absolute monster. Seriously unhinged! Poor woman and her family.
I have in my life been blind where men are concerned, but I don't think there could be a more obvious archetype of the creepy, shallow and delusional malignant narcissist, than him. Yes, good for her that she at least left those scratches in one last effort to fight back and mark him as her murderer. I read that in his first few years in jail, he was studying all these books on law to find out how he could appeal his case. Arrogantly delusional and unremorseful to the end. May he rot there and never be released.
The mistress is as bad as him. She could have called the police at any time and prevented the crime. He undoubtedly told her that he was going to kill his wife.
Narcissist at his best... such a beautiful lady gone for this evil sick man.
So sad...🙏 RIP❤
What a total jerk 😢😢
The mistress total 'slot',too. Misspelled on purpose.
This fucking buster was before Chris Wats evil. Absolute devastating story. I was watching it unfolding in front of my eyes in Australia at that point. In disbelief. Poor Alison and family, my heart goes out to their family.
She had such beautiful blue eyes! So much more beautiful than his mistress.
That's what happens when woman has everything her narcisisst husband doesnt.
He sounds my ex-partner. That's why I left him. He wanted a child , I didn't but when I fell pregnant, even he kept punching my stomach as he's in a boxing match. An police or doctor didn't do anything.
The background music is so loud I can’t watch it. So unfortunate 😢
My condolences to family and friends. Allison sounds so wonderful hearing her story from her family, and friends; a loving wife and mother to her children so sad she didn't deserve to hv a life taken away from her. Rest in peace.
That husband is a horrible human; to take the life of his wife: whom he promise to God to take care of, to love, and cherish giving birth to ur three beautiful daughters.
He deserve the death penalty.
My view...The husband very selfish, and selfishly took away his children mother; didn't for one minute think of those children; only about himself. He live for the flesh and now reap destruction.
Well said
All of Australia knew he was guilty!
His interview was pathetic ..playing the grieving husband which was so bad!
Hope he rots in hell
RIP: Beautiful Allison 💫
Wrong! I am a well-educated woman who frequently writes letters. Unless it is business or professional, I often shorten or abbreviate words. It has nothing to do with knowing how to spell.
Horrendous. Poor woman poor girls
RIP
How much must you loathe your spouse to murder her??...why not divorce....surely you know you will be caught. And he sounds so calm during that Police call?? Psychopath!
Horrible man! Controlling is never for love!!
A tragic loss of a beautiful woman. 😢
So sorry 😞 for her daughters that are growing up without her.
Her parents, siblings and friends that are also going through heartache. 💔
A selfish, cruel and abusive monster 👿 that doesn’t deserve to see the light of day again! Rot in hell Gerard! 🤬
Toni Mckew, you sicken me. So disgusting 🤢
R.I.P. Allison. ☮️❤😢
May your family and friends have ongoing healing and support for each other. 💕🦋🌹✨
Knew his family as a kid. He was a psychopath even then
……his sister seems………
Toni is leagues BELOW Allison 🤢
I have the same experience, my husband's family never supported me and scapegoats me as well for no reasonable reason at all, I think marriage kills love, and u constantly have to juggle at being the " 2 families- pleaser" that causes extreme levels of stress, u can't satisfy your inlaws and your parent at the same time! It drives me crazy, so I can relate to your important comment, life is a mess as a married woman spouse, ure never good enough for "THEM"
I watched the interview with Tony the mistress and I don’t believe a single word she said she tried to portray her innocence and put all the blame on the husband 🤦🏽♀️
Hope he's having awful time in
Prison evil scumbag those poor children i pray
They never go
2prison 2see
Him 😡😡😡
I always says to my Children when they drive. When you behind the wheel knowing that Your life and the people inside and other people outsides LIVES are in YOUR hands. 😢
Whenever you hear the word 'perfect,' there's a problem.
To think this moron of man would prefer that not at all attractive woman, to the gorgeous, very intelligent & classy woman ,the mother of his children, is astounding. He wanted the insurance so he could bed hop and not be in debt. If he had ended up with the other woman ( and not caught)and became bored after a short time , he would have done the same again. Can’t understand what Allison saw in that creepy monster, she could have anyone with her looks, personality and sweetness, also a wonderful mother😢RIP Dear Allison and well done scratching the murderer and leaving evidence❤️
If they'll do it with you, they'll do it to you.
Clear as day to intelligent/mature people.
Didn’t prefer her - she was just part of his harem - he would have had more women if he’d been wealthy enough
I saw a video of his mistress and I find her disgusting. She knew he was married and didn’t care. He even cheated on her! What’s wrong with women?
Sickening
Gerard and the mistress deserved each other, imo.
There was no way Gerard deserved Alison. She was way too good for him based on how her family and friends loved her
He was jealous of her. Narcissistic.
Too bad the music is too loud and drowning out the story.
Such a shame GBC will be released from jail!
And he isn't even good looking. He is less than plain and seriously under par in the looks department. Waste of space.
This is very sad. And that mistress, she's shamelesss
Fabulouse cheaters always cheat.
I read a story where the husband dumped his wife for his mistress. He married her had a child and did not turn out well, beg his ex wife to take him back 😅 she said sorry darling I am extremley happy with my 30yr old lover. Justice served
His call to the police sounds weird em, uh, em ??? very weird!
I wonder how the mistress feels, if she feels any guilt 😢
I dont think she has feeling for what she did.she enjoyed being side chick.such a low class women.
I'll reiterate, if a man is extremely good looking, take care, if he's charming it's a red flag. If he's both, get out of there!!!
No words. What a beautiful, brave, champion of a human being. Impossible to forget this case or this lady. No doubt God himself has found the perfect PA in Alison.
Amen 🙏
Rip Allison.