PNTV: When Things Fall Apart by Pema Chodron (
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Here are 5 of my favorite Big Ideas from "When Things Fall Apart" by Pema Chodron. Hope you enjoy!
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I AM impressed. Despite being a Buddhist, I still found the book-well, all her books, actually-rather daunting. The fact that Brian can break any of her books down into five major themes is astonishing.
Kudos, Brian!t
I have felt that excitement facing a variety of painful, wild events. I know it now as my own. See, when you feel fear it means you are open enough to feel the emotions and experiences of being human, and that is closer to being conscious. I spent so much time waiting, meditating without knowing I was doing it, feeling nothing, boredom, Deep Boredom, until I was hit with a surge of the underlying terror and knowing it for what it was. Breakdown can become breakthrough if you feel the bottom, and see it- it will dissolve. It happened with me; it can happen again.
I consider enlightenment something that can happen multiple times, and suffering can return if you do not take what you learned from enlightenment and practice your connection to Being, or the Now, consistently. Being is as important a human need as breathing.
This was a really good summary of her book and breaking down the different parts. You have a clear voice.
"Approaching challenges with a deeper level of grace." Yes! And great reminder that the point of meditation is not to become a good meditator. Very reassuring after a busy-mind meditation! Thanks, Brian :-)
Gina Newlin Amen, Gina!!! Always good to have that reminder, eh? :)
I liked the idea to engage strongly with life, with courage and fortitude , Thanks Brian!!
Your analogy for death and rebirth, with respect to Easter and Passover, is spot on! Your are a wise man, Guru Johnson! Thank you and Pema Chodron for the analogy of the mountain! You have help me come to terms with a huge challenge in my life! "If you can walk with crowds and keep your virtue!" The goal of being good at meditation is similar to an olympic weightlifter who believes he will be a great football player, because he is strong weightlifter.
Yehuda HaMaccabi :)
Totally enjoy all your old and current videos☺️ awesome idea with the chalkboard! Thank you for your hard work, you rock ✌️
Iris Arias Thank you, Iris!! :)
Wow Brian that’s Brilliant. I read the book and struggled to pull out the key messages.
Into the the mountain... Great way to put it.
Kevin Coffman Yes! Loved that idea as well!
Omg! I forgot how great your tutorials are! I'll be sharing this ...Thank you! ~*~
Jraymiami heheh and thanks! :)
Run towards fear - Lakota
Wonderful consolidated version of a very important message. Well done!
LIz Carrizal Thank you! :)
So great! Thank you for all that you do.
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This was well structured Bro. Always so. Thanks!
Glad you enjoyed it! Thank you for your note! :) -Zak from Team Optimize
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Just the video I needed right now. Thanks again.
code Evol Awesome.
great video really needed it at this particular crossroad of my life. i have a question though regarding your first point about overcoming fear. i totally agree with everything you said but how does one overcome that fear? all of us have different fears in our lives but is there a general approach to dealing with it to pass it and reach our infinite? thanks
funkdafied So happy you liked the video and it came at a good time for you. Regarding fear, I think you might dig these two videos I created: How to Conquer Your Fear in 30 Seconds: ua-cam.com/video/ko6bcGkI0QE/v-deo.html
Confidence 101: ua-cam.com/video/f_6QKzHoMjQ/v-deo.html
Sending love and courage!
Run towards your monsters!!
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Hi Brian, I loved the big idea #1. I'm facing some challenges (things are falling apart) and now I can attack it more confident because this is an opportunity to grow :) I'm luck!
I read some books and at end felt that I wasted my time. You always make a book more fun. How did you choose your books? Have a blessed day and thank you always for your feedback :)
cristian cris Awesome re: big idea #1 and your mindset shift! Sending love to you as you move thru your challenges!!
I hear ya on the books! I don't love every one I read and I hear ya on the feeling of wasting your time. haha. I try to make sure I'm going to like a book before I start it by flipping thru and lightly dipping in to some sections and I think it's important to abandon a book if it's just not awesome. Big waste of time to complete a book that you already know you don't love, eh? I find my books via recs from cool people in our community and recommendations from authors I love. I like to keep this Campbell gem in mind as well:
Moyers: “How do we know these things [how experience bliss]?”
Campbell: “I’ll tell you a way, a very nice way. Sit in a room and read--and read and read. And read the right books by the right people. Your mind is brought onto that level, and you have a nice, mild, slow-burning rapture all the time. This realization of life can be a constant realization in your living. When you find an author who really grabs you, read everything he has done. Don’t say, “Oh, I want to know what So-and-so did”--and don’t bother at all with the best-seller list. Just read what this one author has to give you. And then you can go read what he had read. And the world opens up in a way that is consistent with a certain point of view. But when you go from one author to another, you may be able to tell us the date when each wrote such and such a poem--but he hasn’t said anything to you.”
Thanks Brian :)
Chonky112 My absolute pleasure.
Hi Brian, you often say that habits should be doing on daily basis. Does it mean every single day? What about weekdays? If someone doing something every Monday to Friday, could it become a habit? Greetings from Indonesia :)
Yudha Agung Pribadi Hi Yudha! 7 days a week makes it, paradoxically, easier to form a habit. The break slows down the momentum and makes it easier to slip. Greetings right back from California! :)
great
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Thank you, I finally can do my essay
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Not so easy to face fear when a bear is chasing you. This advice way too generalized or meant for smaller problems. When people have big life-changing fears you don't just refer to a TedTalk and embrace the fear.
Nope! That's when it's time to go ANTIFRAGILE and put every tool/weapon we have ready at hand to work for us!
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