Opinionated Groom has Long List of What The Bride Shouldn't Wear | Say Yes To The Dress Atlanta
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- Опубліковано 29 вер 2024
- Julianne Poe wants a simple and straightforward dress, however she won't only have to appease her mum and mother in law but also her groom who has given her a list of things to avoid when picking her wedding dress.
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Everytime his mom mentions something the groom won't like, the bride goes totally dead in the eyes.
It's very sad. I've never met the man, but I hate him.
@@destinyrexya i gave them half year. He must be a control freak. If the girl had a little steght she never say yes to him :(
Everyone hates the guy but remember, she also consented to marrying him after knowing how he is. Can’t just hate on him 😂
electric nachos I agree with the fact that this man seems... not very likable, to say the least. However I‘m not sure that her reactions were actually like that - these types of TV shows tend to edit it in a way to make people’s‘ reactions seem way more dramatic, than they actually were, sometimes switching different clips to make up new situations.
electric nachos I think the mother was just forcing it to much and the groom really just wants her to be happy and the mother was pushing the ideas on her which adds more pressure
I wonder if it's the groom or the mother in law
Lost me at “Jordan set some ground rules” last I checked he doesn’t own you? Yikes.
He also sounds like the type to cheat when she gains 5 pounds then blame it on her
If shes not allowed to pick out her own wedding dress...yikes indeed.
Lost me at the fact her parents weren't allowed to come. Already distancing her from her family before the wedding even starts. Eek
Not On My Account neither of their parents come
@@pie4176 Yeah he wants them alone and her and her family clearly wanted to be together so it's kinda a red flag for me. just my opinion though :)
If my future fiancèe ever tells me what I can or can't wear, the wedding is off
meme fabulous You are absolutely correct....I wish this bride had that kind of personality....nobody should allow someone else to dictate their life....That is toxic.
me too i already had a control freak boyfriend
Foreal..the only thing he can say that I'll let slide is BABY DONT HIDE THE CURVES LOL😂🤦🏽♀️
I already did it in my life...he used to poke his nose in every matter of my life..so I broke off my wedding
@@suchetabasak9598 good you deserve better i had a controlling boyfriend told me what to wear and do and i dumped him
i'm sorry but i would never marry a man who thinks he can tell me what to do
So many red flags, he's already instructing her on what to wear, I bet he hates make up, and can't stand most of her friends and family.
Dear young lady, please run ...now!
My husband wouldn't dream of it... 15 years ago or now.
He married a strong willed woman on purpose.
There's no need to apologize.
If he has to tell her what to do, then it seems like he might not even like her for who she is, wanting to change her completely to make himself "the perfect wife"
Me either
The expression on her face every time his mother disagrees says a lot. She looked scared and hurt at the same time.
i noticed that too
i thought it was more an annoyed expression
Scared....
Right! The guy sent his mommy there to make sure he gets his way. Creepy af
The look on her mother's face was like she wanted to scream "don't marry this walking red flag"
I can make a scarf with all the red flags I’m sensing
Hilarious 😂
More like a freaking wedding dress *and* veil
That's hilarious
Hahaha 😂
Hell; I could make one of those giant banners they raise over car dealerships with the bad mojo I'm sensing!😳
It doesn’t matter which gown she picks. She’ll be able to choose the gown she really likes for her second marriage.
Hell. Yes.
This made me spit out my drink, but you’re absolutely right! With any luck she’ll have a chance to wear a dress that SHE feels beautiful in. Additionally, nobody else will have any say in it!
Next husband will have Her freedom
Just us 2
You have to have Witnesses
And you know they'll be one...
His mother will be a problem in their relationship. Just the fact that he tasks her with making sure his rules are followed and that she accepted the task says everything. This girl better run.
why aren't 3 family members and 1 friend not seeing how this groom and his mother are toxic AF??
Yugali Gullapalli I’m sure they do but unfortunately even if you see it or call it doesn’t mean the warnings will be heeded
Yugali Gullapalli yeah I think the mom knows but the daughter won’t listen.
I can only imagine the difficult dilemma the bride's family has right now. If you put your foot down about no one being allowed at the wedding and he's a controlling douchebag, then the daughter feels like she has to defend him because love can be blind. Then the family will lose the daughter for good because it'll drive a wedge that'll last for years. A wedge that he's already started by separating her from her family. So what's a mom to do? Open her mouth and lose a daughter or keep it closed and hope she's happy.
I think they see it but the bride not
Because you can't tell abuse victims they're being abused. They turn on you because they are in denial in the first place. They'll tear you down and remove you from their life, then you can't help them at all.
Her mom shouldn’t worry, another wedding is definitely gonna happen
Ellie Roy LOOOL
Hahaha so mean!
LOL 100%true
Right!
thais emanuella the truth hurts
I can’t see the dress through all the red flags 😭
Lmaooo
Agreed! 👌🏻
Same mann saaaaamme! 💀
💀
Ayyyy
True story... my father told my mother that if she wore make up, specifically lipstick, up the aisle, he'd walk out of the wedding.
I wish she'd rebelled, wore make up, and never had me.
She obeyed, had me, and put us (mom, me, sister, brother) through unending abuse.
There is respecting partner input, and there is submission to outrageous control and future abuse....
I'm so sorry for what you and your family went through! Are you all okay now?
If you don't mind me asking. Sorry if that's too personal!
Please know that there are now many people here sending prayers and hugs to you. The good that came out of your upbringing is that you know what you do NOT want and will NOT accept, so best wishes for a happy life with someone you really love and who loves you unconditionally.
So sorry to hear your story. Did your parents stay married may I ask? Are you okay now?
Oh my dear,that is so tragic!! I was in a family were my dad was mentally ill,and can identify!!!
I’m so sorry that you and your family endured such abuse. I hope you all are on a path to healing. ❤️🩹
The fact his mom decided to accept his "list" instead of slapping him in the face with it LOL
Yes!! I can’t believe a mother would let her son get away with that behavior once she was privy to it. So disturbing.
To show is cut for entertainment and not necessarily shows reality. They can anyone make look mean.
And what about her the girl she is really mad in love
I bet his dad has the same kind of personality. That’s why his mum doesn’t see anything wrong with her son. She said that her son has worked in men’s fashion for years. But they are not dressing a man. They are getting a dress for a woman
Mom is a victim too
How horrible of a mother in law. Just gross, she raised an abuser.🤢
She sounds like she may be an abuser as well. He just takes after his mom. I'm worried for her.
@@diamondfranck8666 they’re expecting a baby together soon and have been married for years, doesn’t mean she’s happy
@@lollypop6577 doesn't mean she's not
I don't think she'd knows any better at her age
@@BlueDauntless If you read her blog, she's been diagnosed clinically depressed. Doesn't seem very happy to me.
*boyfriend set some rules*
*sends his mom to enforce*
*said he ISN'T going to have a wedding, no debates*
*what HE likes and doesn't like*
Run, girl. Run.
Dashi run run run
RUNNNNN FOR REAL! This was cringe to watch let alone imagine marrying someone like that
@@showmeyrt33th He'll only get worse and more controlling.
ikr i was like why so controlling
I hope she broke off the engagement or at least got a divorce soon after.
As a Mother, my heart breaks for the Bride's Mom. I can't imagine NOT being at my Son's wedding. Too many "rules" and they hadn't even said their vows yet. Desperately hope she has seen the writing on the wall.
The first two dresses were beautiful. The last one not so much but HIS mother liked it. Trouble ahead there girl.
That's a red flag situation. She better run away from him immediately. I hope she will be fine.
i totally agree with you. this is going to get real scary such a dictatorship in this relationship
But if she were the one who wanted to control what he wears and what she wanted it’d be ok
@@nora4981 No it wouldn't be ok. We're just seeing from the perspective of this edited version. As a mother's perspective in my opinion something not right.
ereen jäger I thought the same thing
@@nora4981 no it's not okay. Controlling partner is never okay. From both sides men or women, in hetero relationship or homosexual relationship.
I can just smell the emotional abuse and manipulation from here
I know what you mean.....
Unless she doesn't mind being submissive, as she showed from this video. Or maybe just way too naive?
@@Runner8617 No excuse. Emotional abuse is emotional abuse.
@@crow6221 literally. Being submissive only works in bed sometimes for fun and some fantasy stuff. No other excuse.
@@idlkrky Exactly.
“Jordan has a great sense of fashion” *previously shows a picture of Jordan wearing cargo shorts* 😐
It’s that men’s clothing store experience 🥴
😂😂😂😂
And a cowboy hat 🤠
Like he works at Walmart
Jordon is a control moron and she needs to grow some balls
She should be allowed to wear the dress she wants this guy sounds like he's going to control her every move
Oh definitely! I was married to a guy like that for 8 years! His mother has apparently let him get his way all his life! Sad!
@Elisabetta So, he shouldn't get to decide what she wears. His opinion shouldn't be overriding what she wants when it comes to a dress she'll wear that her family is paying for.
@Elisabetta BS, he worked in a men’s clothing store, that is absolutely not the same as working in a Bridal Salon. He is a narcissistic controller and will make her lose her “sense of self” entirely. You need your head examined if you didn’t see what everyone else saw, it was a darn shame, his mother spoke and she cowered like a little child.
1 Month until the first " I walked into the corner of an open cabinet"," Or I fell down the stairs stairs carrying the laundry hamper". It's all so painfully predictable. That poor young lady💪😢
Narcissist
She’s so impressionable, she changes her opinion every time she gets negative feedback. It’s so sad to see :( she’s such a sweet girl
Yes. Rife for being abused in a controlling relationship, which this already seems to be.
I FEEL SO BAD FOR HER
Perfect person to be controlled by an abusive man.
@@lass-inangeles7564 Perfect VICTIM - too good, sweet, nice, but naiive and impressionable - malliable & easily manipulatable for a strong & controlling personality it seems
He doesnt deserve her shes so goddamn pretty
Seeing her mom so sad and heart broke makes me sad. Why her mom can't attend the wedding? It's so messed up. Smh.
I don’t get it either. My mom would have been devastated if I told she couldn’t come to my wedding. Now that I am a mother I too would be so heartbroken if I couldn’t attend my child’s wedding. Something is really off with this guy, there are too many red flags.
I think weddings are also about the people who helped you get there, I couldn’t imagine a wedding without my family.
I think that if you main focus about your child's wedding is making you happy and how that event can best for you, you should probably revaluate your priorities and realize this event is one of the biggest in your child's life it's about what they and their spouse want and not at all about you not even one little bit. I understand how it can be upsetting to not be able to be there but that's a compromise you make to put your children above yourself. In this situation this man seems possessive and control indeed but that's not the case when everyone that elopes. My fiancee has only treated me with love and compassion. We are chosing to get married somewhere away from home with only the two of us attending plus our witnesses. That's out choice for out relationship and while it wasn't my parents favorite thing to hear they supported the decision because they realized it wasn't their choice and to guilt me about it for their own gain would only take from mine and my loves special day.
her groom prob told her to not invite anyone 🤷♀️
@@kierracarbajal2486 It's very lovely of them not to make you feel guilty, but they must have felt deep pain you didn't want them there. I feel sorry for them.
“Jordan has worked in a men’s clothing store” yes but his wife isn’t a man ya control freak
For real! Men's fashion is *completely* different from women's fashion. A completely different set of guidelines to make someone look their best
Yeah and she’s a wedding planner
I’d trust the brides opinion way way more than his
feel like the 'men's clothing store' is like the GAP or something
@@Stinkee1129 exactly
@@alicard95 I completely agree
Way too many red flags with this fiance, it's all about what he wants, what he likes, family is excluded from day 1. Total isolation is his plan and sadly this bride is willing to give it to him. 🥺
The fact that the MIL was willing to pass along her son’s “opinions” is disgusting to me.
I would not have invited the MIL to this special event. For someone who was not there, his voice was extremely loud. By the way, what does working in a men's clothing store have to with selecting a wedding gown? He wears the suit and she wears the gown. I hope he is not still controlling her.
Disgusting is right. It's disgusting that the mother didn't bring up her son to be a loving and considerate partner instead of a self-centeres spoiled brat.
well she had a hand in his outcome soo
She is his enforcer. And this won't be the last time.
110%
I feel like her boyfriend is abusive but she is sugarcoating it.
Thunder Girls Same
So is his mother
The fiance probably forced her to elope...slowly cutting and isolating her from family
Wow great insight. So true.
Yes, my thought exactly.
Yep... Classic narcissistic, controlling behaviour. It is only going to get worse, poor girl.
Narcissists choose pleasers. He seems to be the former, she seems to be the latter. I fear she's in for a rough ride.
No like seriously..I kept looking at her mom throughout the video and I could see how bad she felt.. heartbreaking
I think it’s cruel to your parents especially to elope. It’s something so special to see your kids that you put so much work and soul into bringing them up that it would be heartbreaking to the parents. I could never elope. I had a small wedding of 17 people including my parents and it was the best.
I can't imagine how hurt that mom is.why can't they at least invite the parents.If the groom respected her parents they'd be there.
Hes isolating her... A control freak
He doesn't! And yes he is isolating her. I've been in this kind of abusive relationship.
tbh I can never imagine myself telling my parents I'm getting married and do the whole wedding party stuff with the family.
@@katrinaodegbesan7754 how were you able to get out of that kind of a relationship? Were there consequences afterwards?
@@strikelee3369 If it helps, I guess I can answer a bit. Yes, there will be consequences, sometimes to a scary extent. They'll try to get their victim back, start by persuading, try to manipulate you with the memories you've shared with them and eventually turn angry, abusive if you still do not listen. But it's the best to keep a distance from them until it gets over, while making sure you're safe. They might even try to play with your image and turn people against you. But in long run, people will realize and understand, that shouldn't be a cause of you getting back with them.
Summary, it could be exhausting but not impossible to get rid of abusive, toxic narcissists and live a better life. You deserve a healthy lifestyle.
"but i hear his voice right in my ear".... that is so scary, i also heard my narcissist boyfriend telling me what to to and what not to do, he is controlling her😓
Yup 💯
Yup, my ex
Me too
I hope you’ve broken up with him by now
No healthy relationship isolates you from your inner world and also hands you a list of how to be the version he wants you to be.
Dress #2 was so beautiful, simple and yet it was just gorgeous. I'm glad she picked one that she really loved, but dress 2 was definitely my favourite
*"Jordan set some rules for me"*
What? I thought he was her fiance not her father
If my dad had these rules for my wedding dress, me AND my mom would laugh right in his face.
You know the funny thing is even my dad won't set rules like these for me
@@micro-babe I would give their marriage 6 months max
Not even my dad ever told me what to wear! Poor girl
That soon to be mother-in-law sucks. Too many red flags here. RUN for the hills and don't look back.
I don’t know..yeah the third dress looked the best on her but she’s too eager to please and the groom is so comfortable with his demands on her that I think she’s going to have a burn out after marrying him.
She can’t be the only one trying to please in a relationship, he needs to do the same. Give her space and allow her the freedom to choose for herself. I’m so lucky that I have a husband who’s secure enough to not want to micro manage every aspect of my life.
You’re telling me a grown man said “no netting on the dress”
Imagine giving birth to a daughter/son and taking care of her/him for all that time,having dreams about their career and especially their wedding but only to know you arent allowed to attend your own child's wedding.
Dilesh V I know it’s so dumb. I want a small wedding like my parents, his parents, and a few friends. I don’t want more than 20 people. Not inviting your parents is just sad.
@@alexiscormier4059 THAT HOW MINE WAS.. MY KID'S .. OUR PARENT'S AND SIBLINGS.. NEICES AND NEPHEWS...A FEW FRIEND'S..
Who tf is the fiancé to decide to not invite her parents. Gosh damn the woman is a push-over. I hate people like that. There are things that you can’t compromise.
💀💀💀💀
That’s how my moms wedding went. I’m her daughter and even I didn’t get to go to it. Suprise suprise husband ended up being abusive
She needs to get away from that guy. He pushed her to elope and he should have no say in what kind of dress she likes. He is controlling and he needs to go. He is already telling her what to wear and how to look. She is so naive. I’ve been in a controlling relationship and he is controlling her. Her mom needs to step up and tell her he is not good for her.
In my honest opinion, there's a HUGE difference between "opinionated" and "controlling." A groom should want his bride to be happy. He should love her in ANY dress that she chooses. It might be HIS wedding day also, but HE'S not wearing the dress.
It's factual. Not just ur opinion. Ur damn right.
fact...his mom enables him. And HER mom is SO sad.
It’s her dress not the fiancés or the mother in law repeating what her son wants.
How does she look so good in each and every one of them !!!!
I don’t know about you guys but it’s unseemly for the bride to be almost gleeful that she’s actually making a choice that will clearly pain her mother.
"He knows what he likes" , then get him his own appointment to pick his own dress that he can wear
Groom dictating his rules for her dress.......DING DING DING, did anyone else hear those warning bells go off?
Notice how quickly she went from "I love it!" To "I really don't like it." Because of the Mother in Law? That's down right scary. I hope she's out of that relationship because it sounds like a literal hell hole
They’re still married and she didn’t even wear the dress she chose she wore a plain fitted mermaid dress. Such a shame!!
It wasn't the mother in law's fault, it was her son's fault. He told his mother what to say.
@@Moffeliten His mother could have refused.
@@SuperBeautyqueenxoxo how did you know?... can you send the video's link or whatever link to what happend at the wedding
@@SuperBeautyqueenxoxo Poor girl...
“My Future mother in law, Karen”
Her mother in law, is just ask controlling as the groom, omg so many red flags here! I hope this girl new what she was doing.
How selfish can you be to make a decision of not involving your own parents and family to your wedding...my heart is breaking for the mom
Actually, the "elopement" wasn't her idea at all!
Hopefully she said NO to the groom and the mother in law. 🥺
Jordan's mom is an enabler!
She the parent that over praises and acts like their child is the smartest, best looking, etc. He can do no wrong. That creates a monster, bka narcissist.
Furthermore, he's so controlling and has that kind of an effect while not even being there. Bride to be is clearly passive like her mom. She can't hide her facial expressions. It's clear she's unhappy.
Also, she has no friends there because he's isolated her. Her voice has been taken and she's obeying to keep the peace. It's clearly he's verbally abusive, wouldn't' be surprised if physical too.
She is a Karen of course that she would think her child is a baby jesus
And when Jordan ends up controlling her and beating her up, momma is gonna defend her son.
@@ouestlelivre yep. She's gonna say the woman did something to get beat
Danm you’re really good at this!! You mentioned a lot of things I didn’t noticed like her body language, social circle, etc
To set
This is why I’m shopping for my dress ALONE! They can see what I choose later.
She is heading for an abusive marriage . She is not even married and the love bombing has started . Mama- in-law is as narcissistic as her son . Evil duo ! I hope she has escaped . She reminds me of Gaby Petito .! Her friends need to tell her to leave . Her mother knows what he is and that they will be cut off .
So many red flags it’s so sad she doesn’t see them. The fact that she knows he’s so controlling “opinionated” about what she chooses for HER WEDDING DRESS is so sad. Also why does he not want anyone at the wedding? 🚩🚩🚩🚩
I wouldn’t be surprised if they seperated or if he started to abuse her
"he worked in mens fashion" he probably worked as a cashier in jcpennys or something lol
Nah probably the janitor
Xactly what I was thinking
That mother-in-law is so smug and awful
gmaweill Agree!
She probably thinks her son is a golden angel too
It's not smugness. It's fear.
Agreed. No wonder the groom is the way he is
Agreed!!!
Unless Jordan is going to wear the dress, he needs to shut up. I swear, these people get on my nerves!
"I think the dress is beautiful, but I wanna make him happy too"
GURL HE'S GETTING TO MARRY YOU, IF THAT DOESN'T MAKE HIM HAPPY THEN THROW HIM OFF THE MOUNTAIN
periodt
Well said!!
“Jordan is very opinionated. He knows what he wants.” Well he can know what he wants, but it’s not his dress, now is it?
Why does she want a dress for 3000 dollars when they are going to be just alone by themselves in a national park?
She's trying to hold on to any part of her happiness on the day that she can. Her fiance is a narcissist and is going to end up abusing her. The poor girl needs to run.
She might as well just wear a white cotton skirt and blouse. It will cost less, and she'll have less to regret when she ultimately divorces that control freak.
Totally!! I'd just get a modest style dress for under $500.
The title obviously means the bride should be running for the hills. It seems a little heartless to have your mom come help with dresses and not invite her to your wedding. Her excuse is weak too. Him sending his mom as his enforcer is a bad sign too. Anyone else thinking that fiancée has already scoped out burial sites at this park?
The groom has NOTHING to do with what the bride wears.
Groom and mother--> narcissist
Bride and mother -> empaths
How I hope she will find her strenghts
Maya H don’t blame those who are abused she is probably a lot stronger than you think she can’t just stand up to a man who is bigger and stronger than her he could hurt her or her family and isolate her even more.
Maya H I’m sorry but I don’t agree. She should stand up for herself but that could get her in trouble he biologically is bigger and stronger than her and could HURT HER, she has been lied to and manipulated she probably isn’t in the right mind set to make clear decisions. Would you tell a victim of rape that it was their fault they didn’t stand up for themselves? What she needs is empathy not people calling her weak, she probably gets that from the groom. I suspect that it’s domestic violence and if someone is cutting you off from your support and you’re not in a healthy state of mind she can’t escape, she can’t fight back. That’s like saying a teenager should beat up their dad it’s likely impossible. This man is obliviously unstable and would literally snap her in half if she did anything. Give her support not hate.
My Man will have no say in my dress. I know what I want. He will never change my mind.
His number 1 rule??!! His number 1 rule??? for a dress? She needs to run away!!!
Absolute hate the fact that the bride is not able to make her own opinion on the dresses due to some stupid yes and no list of the groom.
The bride is stupid to go along with "his list". Bet he controls everything in her life. RUN HONEY, RUN!
Run girl!! He will control you forever! What a jerk!
"I can hear his voice in my ear" she says through her teeth, wearing the most forced smile I've ever seen.
Please, _please_ tell me she didn't actually marry this man. I'm genuinely concerned for her wellbeing.
I've seen a few comments saying that they actually did get married. Some other person on here commented that they actually looked them up on Facebook, and on their wedding day, she ended up wearing a formfitting dress like he wanted, and all the other pictures were just him and his mom. 0 with her, the actual bride. I feel horrible for her. I genuinely hope she makes it out of that relationship alive.
I found her fb. She weared a form fitting dress like HE wanted to. They are still married and reciently had a child
I looked up and hes profile pinture is with his home on fb, BUT its a picture from 2014 and he has no activity whatsoever ok fb since a long time ago... then I found his instagram. Full of photos of his dog, his child and his wife. Always posting and tagging her on sweet things. Reciently posted apicture of their son with a caption that said "Welcome to the world, you are loved! Now please go to sleep to let @wife some rest"
The only time I hear my husband’s voice in my head is when I doubt myself and I hear him cheering me on. I feel for her.
@@RG-is2yw his is j_peace1 and hers is juliannepeace_
That dress with the netting and lace and the top was absolutely gorgeous on her, if Jordan wouldn’t think she was incredible in that then the man is blind
"Jordan set some rules for me" Oh hell no
If my guy doesnt like the dress that i want to wear then he can marry himself
My fiancé asked jokingly “what if I don’t like the dress?” and my reply “well obviously I do if I’m wearing it you can suck it up. He replied “ you where what you want, I can’t wait to see what beautiful dress you pick.” With a kiss.....that is healthy....list of rules NOT HEALTHY.
Narcissus? :]
I actually think their families hate each other because of obvious reasons (the groom seems to be an a hole and his mother is one, too) so she agreed to not invite anyone to avoid the drama
As a mother and a daughter, I don’t think I can overcome something like this. I think this is selfish af. Your parents did all they could to raise you and you are going to exclude them from one of the most important moments of your life🙄 I don’t know if Jordan is the best option for her
I sincerely pray that this beautiful woman does not succumb to every “wish” of her husband and lose herself in the process. This will only lead to resentment and hostility…….. not a good way to start a marriage.
Is it me or does anyone feel like he’s gonna be hella abusive towards her eventually?
I don’t agree. There’s no “eventually” about this situation, he’s already being disgustingly abusive. So sad to see her throwing her life away for that piece of trash!
Sarah Riddle true true true
Many red flags with this groom.....run girl run
"Jordan worked in men's clothing store, he has great fashion sense"
Did they sell gowns too in the MEN'S CLOTHING STORE??? SMH
Imagine letting a man working at a men’s fashion store dictate anything for you… flea circus
All I’m hearing is “my son is a looser”..
So khaki shorts and a basic polo shirt qualifies a "great fashion sense." Okie dokie.
“Something not too extravagant”
Budget: $3000
Why not just buy a white dress from Marshals?
Show should've had a disclaimer-- 'Woman, if you're with a man like this, get out, he's an abusive controller".
When I went dress shopping, I asked my fiancé if he had any ideas for the type of dress he’d like to see me in, he said: “you look beautiful in anything. It doesn’t matter what you wear, I just wanna marry you”
Now he is a winner!!!
Aww
My fiance is the same way I can not wait to be married
Girl, i wanna hear it one day too ❤
@@ТетянаБасіста-и7щ you will 😉
The 180 she did when she heard the mother say his “#1 rule” is heart breaking. He made that list so he could control her even if he wasn’t there. He doesn’t care about her finding a gown she adores and wants to be married in, he cares about him liking the dress on her, and the control she’s allowing him to have. Don’t even get me started on that enabling mother too holy shit
I understand some people’s desire to elope, but she doesn’t exactly seem excited about it. As a wedding planner you’re telling me she never once had this idea in her head of what HER wedding was going to be like? He’s isolating her. And the control he feels he has to have even though he isn’t there? And getting his mother to enforce those rules in his absence? It’s disgusting.
I know. As annoying as those bossy "fox in the henhouse" guys are - and they really are - I dislike Jordan a lot more than them, because he doesn't even have the balls to show up, and sends his mother instead. The other guys usually end up giving in at the end on at least one or two aspects of what they THOUGHT they wanted or didn't want because they can still admit they don't know everything or control everything. This guy, it's like he going to control by remote, taking no chance on having his edicts publicly called into question.
Every dress I tried on I know my husband would have loved because all he cared about was marrying me.
If I had been his mother, I would have told him to keep his mouth shut. The wedding dress is for the bride. Bride is already giving up her day for mister i don't want a wedding. Maybe she will have a better wedding next time.
This is what a “red flag” looks like, ladies.
notoriousPeanut couldn’t have said it better
Your profile pic makes this comment even better 😂
Amen sister, preach
So absolutely agree
100% Truth
“He’s worked in men’s fashions” but not women’s so he can shove his “great fashion sense” where the sun doesn’t shine. It’s her dress let her choose!
HAHAH I LOVE THIS COMMENT
My exact thoughts
Exactly!
I know right? Maybe he does in men's clothing, but his "preferences" did NOT apply to those dresses.
Right! He doesn’t like “lace and straps and too much dress”....well apparently he does not like wedding gowns. I give this marriage a year tops.
“Jordan doesn’t like netting and lace” well then I guess Jordan shouldn’t *wear* netting and lace 🙂
I like the way you think there person of the Internet.
Amen
😂 Basically
Yesss
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I found them on Insta, they got married and now have two kids. She works as a mental health counsellor so hopefully she’s doing ok
"he's always had a great sense of fashion"
*shows pictures of him wearing awful outfits*
Inka Demko what is his mom wearing
@@aiden4893 there is liking clothes, and there is thinking you know enough to dictate what a bride should wear!
@@lozzylols that's more about controlling and not so much fashion
🤣🤣🤣
This sucks to watch. She obviously loved the second dress and looked the most comfortable in it. Luckily her mom can just go to her second wedding.
Right. His list of demands gave me a queasy feeling
Yep I was thinking this marriage is not gonna last the way he is putting restrictions on her she is gonna break free from him!
They won't last a year
Best comment ever!! Definitely because hubby is gonna come out the controlling closet!!
And the mom can attend the next wedding too
This is not opinionated this is C O N T R O L L I N G and P O S S E S I V E
📢YES PREACH 🗣
Love is Not about controlling, manipulation, jealousy, or trying to dominating.
So is the mother in law. Feel sorry for the girl.
EXACTLY
Every time he gets mentioned her face drops x
I feel bad for her mom, she's trying so hard to be supportive but she's clearly heartbroken about who her daughter is marrying.
Mary Schwarzer about the way her daughter is getting married*
@@aileenpdlla4136 No. Both. This guy is abusive and controlling. If I were the mother I'd be heartbroken for my daughter.
@@maryschwarzer2972 same
True! I feel for her as well
True it feels odd I couldn’t imagine getting married without my mom there... I bet you everything the fiancé didn’t want her family there and he does sound kinda controlling my guy would just love for me to be happy and would love me in whatever I wear. That guy sounds like a dick
Is anyone else panicking about her marrying such a controlling man and mother in law who supports him over her?
Maybe dad's the same
This does not bode well for the bride.
I'm sure her mom is panicking enough for all of us
Scary!!!
The manipulation and grooming have already begun. The fact that she is willing to exclude her entire family from the wedding..this has more red flags than China and Russia combined...
He is already alienating her from her family. How can she not see this???
Tyler Curtis blinded by “love” and how long they’ve know each other and he’s probably “nice” rn but he’s gonna trap her and slowly get worse and worse..
@@castielbillius yup, just the beginning. The noose will just get tighter from here on.
I agree but she is in love and she doesn't see what he's doing but I hope she will realise soon
Sounds like he could be abusive 😒
Control happens over time and you don't realise it before it's too late. Sadly from experience others realise this before you do. It's horrible and I truly hope she realises sooner rather than later.
This guy screams 'abusive.' I hope she gets out before there are children. What a shame -- no family or friends at the wedding. Very sad situation.
“He’s worked in men’s fashion...so he knows a lot about fashion.”
I N M E N ‘ S F A S H I O N
Valid point
Could not roll my eyes more.
That’s a giant difference. He is way too controlling and is too specific about what fabrics.
not even men’s fashion, he worked in a men’s clothing store.
*A C L O T H I N G S T O R E*
bruhhhhhhhhhh
@@Eliana-ew1ng peppa? What are you doing here??
“Jordan has always had great fashion sense”
*baggy cargo shorts in every photo*
To Meme or Not To Meme Lmfaooo
To Meme or Not To Meme 😂
Lilith Ruetz lmao
ikr.... He worked in a MEN'S fashion store. He don't know about women's clothing
To Meme or Not To Meme And his mom acts like the Sun rises and sets on him and his opinion.🤨
I’m sorry, but if my fiancé gave me “rules” for my wedding dress... I’m throwing the whole man away.
Madisen Fitzpatrick yup, there is NO wedding if my man was like that
Something she should've probably done...
Same!
I know right. I've been married 28 years. My husband was so happy we were getting married that we talked briefly about the men's tuxedos (he wanted to know if we were doing tuxes or suites. Went and got measured and was happy to let my mom and i plan the rest. My mom didn't want him to see my dress at all until i came down the isle. She had the photographer take a photo of his face at the exact moment. It was WONDERFUL. My man is not critical or manipulating. He's my better half, not my boss.
On god dude
She’s entering an abusive marriage and i don’t think she realises it …
Edit - I guess a lot of people agree with me .
I agree , all the red flags are here-however deep down she knows-she just hasn't learnt to be strong, she's being a push-over*it is also no coincidence that her mother doesn't speak up when his bitchy mother offers her unwanted opinions, and it most certainly isn't a coincidence that his mother is as bad as him
Yup
I feel such anxiety for this marriage. 🚩🚩🚩🚩 all over the place.
They are good friends of Kara and Nate , one of my favourite travel vloggers. Julianne and Jordan joined them for their trips sometime.
Oh she knows shes just hoping he'll change when they get married....
*R E D* *F L A G S*
She has such a bright smile and clearly a gorgeous soul and I am so sad that she is marrying such a manipulative man.
The wedding is just between the two of them.. Is it that weird he let her know his preferances? Or that she wanted to wear something they'd both like? I don't like the way the mother in law mentioned it, but that's another thing.
*Tess * It’s not suggestions or preferences, it’s RULES. He sent her with strict directions. That’s manipulation and control
@@ScottMcGee-mu5gt exactly
@@ScottMcGee-mu5gt you're sooo right
*Tess * you keep writing the same comment under everyone else’s, wake up and realize he’s toxic
If your fiancee likes fitted gowns then that's what he should wear.
Lol
Lmao!
You are so right!
Lol
I'm betting when he saw the dress himself he went "ugh I told her no lace bodice!"
The fact that she wanted to include the family in the dress shopping tells me she really doesn’t want to elope 😢
Run hunny! 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 so many red flags!
The wedding is just between the two of them.. Is it that weird he let her know his preferances? Or that she wanted to wear something they'd both like? I don't like the way the mother in law mentioned it, but that's another thing.
*Tess * Yes, it is weird. It would be fine if he let her know what kind of dress does he usually like the best, but giving her a laundry list of what she _must_ and _mustn’t_ wear? If he's this controlling during their literal honeymoon phase then how horrible is he going to be when he knows that she won't easily get away anymore? Sounds to me like she's less of a partner and more of a property to him...
You got there before meeeee