Black Women Don't Want to Marry & Here's Proof!
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- Опубліковано 11 чер 2024
- Black Women Don't Want to Marry & Here's Proof!
In this video, I review a thought-provoking article from Business Insider that delves into the unique challenges Black women face in the college dating scene. The article, titled "College-Educated Black Women Face a Smaller Dating Pool Than Their Peers," highlights the difficulties and disparities that impact Black women seeking meaningful relationships during their college years.
Key points we'll cover include:
An overview of the article and its key findings.
The statistics and data that reveal the smaller dating pool for college-educated Black women.
The social and cultural factors contributing to these challenges.
Personal stories and experiences shared in the article.
The broader implications for Black women in higher education and beyond.
Join me as I break down the insights from this compelling article, discussing the systemic issues at play and offering my perspective on potential solutions. This video aims to shed light on an often-overlooked aspect of the college experience for Black women and to foster a deeper understanding of the social dynamics affecting their dating lives.
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It's all CAP. They make time for girls' trips for spring break, going to clubs, getting ran through. They make time for what they value.
This
Exactly. BW don't value family and marriage. I don't understand why people keep pretending like bw care. They aren't raised to be wives by their mother's, so it makes sense that marriage and family aren't their goal but being strong and independent is.
Those women are useful to the group. Medium Man did a livestream some time last year about this very topic. A lot of successful, good looking black women have already made up that they don't want to be married. That's okay. "They're useful to the group" because of everything you just listed.
I can recall two years ago at a teachers' conference I attended in north Florida. As a Black man, I was seated at a table of majority young white and Hispanic women. All of them were recent graduates out of college and married. Many of them spoke of their families and husband's blue-collar careers. I was compelled to ask why they think these experiences aren't reflected in Black women? The collective response was that they knew of Black women having great prospective choices of Black men, but they often prioritize their careers and putting off marriage for later. You are spot on Ms. Charde. 😮
This needs to be pinned.
Why would you even ask non-Black American women about a culture that’s not theirs in which they lack understanding of it’s history or any cultural context?
That sounds about right. In dating women from different races, the one constant that I know is true. What they valued is, you weren’t a bum, intelligent and treated them well(on a personal level). Outside of that ,there wasn’t much too it.
How many for instance, white women I know that would marry a cop or an electrician, etc. same cannot be said for black women. They will put their education first, hold off on marriage and wait to hopefully find a good man. When it’s too late.
Quite honestly, we are the only group of people on this planet that does shit assbackwards and expect the same successful outcomes as the people that follow the framework.
Securing a Black Husband, is not a priority. Let a white boy propose in a the same time - space, the - their verdict will change in a heart beat!!!
facts! They secretly want Zaddy but zaddy doesn't want em.
It is better!!
@@nmhoskins too bad Zaddy and other races are not trying to wife up a drama queen boss
0:01 They’re told to focus on school/education… because their mothers know EXACTLY the type of dudes they’re gonna try to date despite them going for education. While feminism and “strong and independent” narratives are definitely a reason, it’s also because the vast majority of educated melinated women don’t want to date educated black men with good careers despite being in the same schools as them, they prefer men that lack stability, which is why educated melinated women especially have such high single motherhood rates despite being successful. So the reason so many of them are “single” during college, is because a lot of them have come to the conclusion they’re not gonna be in long term relationships either way because their particular types in men is always gonna leave them a single mother.
Men with options will require reciprocity. Wanna be morally superior to someone? Date someone you consider beneath you
@@NobodyHasToAgreeAllTheTime couldn’t have said it any better.
1 hunnit
@@NobodyHasToAgreeAllTheTime💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥
@@NobodyHasToAgreeAllTheTime well said
"Other races go to college to find a husband. BW go to college to prove they don't need a husband".
- RIP Kevin Samuels
Good for BW, we are better off.
@@sORrYiMLaTEwHAtdiDiMiSs.and what evidence proves this claim?🤔
@@sORrYiMLaTEwHAtdiDiMiSs. really? this explains why yall the LEAST to be wives and FIRST to be baby mamas to pookies and ray rays.
@@sORrYiMLaTEwHAtdiDiMiSs. Lmao.
@@sORrYiMLaTEwHAtdiDiMiSs. For the rotten and degenerate bw yes we dont want or care for those types. The ones like chez which are rare now and just hard to find are what we care for
By the time they do want to get married, they have a kid and a bunch of debt yet EXPECT the top tier men.
Financial, emotional, relational and spiritual debt are all barriers to a relationship
Or old!
The majority of black women are pursuing a very small percentage of high value black men.
And what black women refuse to come to terms with is that the majority of black men are average with average jobs. And dating average men has become a non-negotiable for black women.
There is definitely a needed conversation on average people desiring and finding value in other average people. This goes for men and women.
The highly driven BM, as some BW would describe as their “Tupac in a corporate suit and a PhD”, won’t have time for broads who are bossy with the intent to compete with their men instead of providing him support. You see, since most families, well mostly single-mother ones, were raised under the influence of hardcore feminism and a gynocratic mindset. The women seem to think that they are better than the men, and therefore want the best because they “deserve better”. Their heightened expectations exceeds the reality that the average man would be more likely to be a choice than a “high-value man”. Then again, would any man like to tolerate her insufferable attitude? No! This is why the broads will remain single.
Average black men cannot be humbled while dating above average or college educated black women.
@@nmhoskins It seems that you have limited options. The men that you desire do not want you so it really depends on your attitude and if you harbour a sense of entitlement. It’s tough out there, huh?
But so many of these Black Woman are AVERAGE! Going to college does not mean you are not AVERAGE. Not if based on income. Most liberal arts degrees lead to average Income. Salary lower than blue collar jobs for Black Men.
BW don't want to be married to BM. Let Brad ask and see how fast this changes. It just is what it is.
You sound so like joe Biden
The question is why is it that way. The reason is more demonic than we know. Time will tell
@@dwannwilson1260doesn't matter. It's still truth.
@@sammajor2075it's called accepting reality as a mature adult. There's a type of black woman with a mammy mindset that worships Brad. Anyone with eyes can see. To think otherwise is a fantasy and delusion
He doesn’t want to marry them either, he wants his kids pure & looking like him
I did both (college & dating). I got married while in college and attained my degree.
Congrats! You did it the right way. Now STAY MARRIED and do not hang out with single hyenas. How many of your black female friends did the same? I'm willing to bet you are the ONLY one. Am I right?
They the "most educated" but can't prioritize a husband & maintain her career at the same time. Other races of women do it. Men do it all the time, we maintain finance and still keep a woman 💪🏽 and still do it with a -10 grade reading level. You don't have to be smart to be married...nor rich...life is just common sense, learned skills, and God
In my early 20s I realized the non sense of that logic and that they chose that route. I stopped trying to give advice or explain then all the sudden they wanted a relationship or "fun"🤡. It's a backwards logic
You dropped the ball with your Reperations comment.💯
Single mother rates high for a reason, they sometimes tell you they rather be a single mother then be married and "under a man" 🤡
We love you Chez.
BGS has been saying this for a while now… I think we are at the point where we all have to accept it.
We say all the time these women aren't single they're with Pookie instead of getting with the men on the college campuses they get with the dope dealers.
It shows their true evil nature they chase pookies and brad instead of going after a productive black man
@@backatitagain20 the so-called productive black men want Becky!!
I'm 45. I remember being in College and so many times, it didn't matter the Race, like you said at the beginning, it's like you can't do TWO THINGS at once?...they WOULD if the WANTED.
Education vs. marriage. It's like that old adage. "You can't walk, spit and chew gum at the same time." After being single for so long, you lose the desire for marriage, but only to secure a relationship for financial purposes, leaving off responsibilities of close and personal accountabilities. It's the mindset, being taught that nothing is more in important in this world than your higher degrees in education and cast everything else to the wind.
Been saying for years BW dont want to be married. Thats based on thier actions, not thier words. Their actions tell you they dont want marriage. Children yes, marriage no.
OUTSTANDING!
The PWI excuse is bogus. PWI schools have black enrollments higher than smaller HBCUs. For instance the University of Illinois at CU's black enrollment is 3700, This is higher than HBCUs such as as Xavier, Hampton or Fisk.
What does pookie the dope dealer who lives off campus major in 🤣
I agree, the funny thing about that excuse is no woman ever pours into a school. And if they do, it's only for the girls there. So no matter what, a guy that graduates college is far better suit and acclimated to the real world than a black girl.
@@NobodyHasToAgreeAllTheTime🤣🤣
Oh I wasn’t aware of that
@@NobodyHasToAgreeAllTheTime I'm dead..
It's all excuses to not do any inner reflection to have wife skills, to be nurturing, supportive, and feminine. All other ethnicities have the cultural values to pursue a successful marriage, career and family.
Black men DON'T value marriage!!
Black men DON'T value FATHERHOOD!!
Black men DON'T value black women and black children!!
Black men DON'T cultivate black families.
Now, y'all are surprised that black women are checking out of black marriages with black men!!??
❤❤❤ so true chez
You can not wanna be married and I’m okay with that but just admit you don’t wanna be married and stop blaming black men…
No one desires to be married to the most broke men in this country!😂😂😂
To be a good spouse you have to have a sense of duty to others. Laziness cannot be one of your top priorities. The way people show up, is proof of who they are. (Obesity)
I remember being in college. Freshman and sophomore year, everyone is partying. Junior and senior year all the non-Black women started pairing off and having relationships. By graduation there were a few engagements.
Graduate school, most of the non-Black women are about to get engaged, engaged, or just married. By the end of graduate school a lot of marriages and a few pregnancies.
Now we are 25,26,27 year-old young professionals and the non-Black women who are not already married are out there hunting for husbands.
If I was in the field of relationship anthropology this would have made for a great case study.
As for me one of those twenty somethings took a liking to me and we have been married almost 15 years now. She considers me a great return on her investment.
Thanks!
Marriage was slavery for me😂 I divorced over 20yrs ago and never ever did that again. I don’t wanna do anything for another person🙂↔️🤷🏽♀️😂
Same here!!! #free
They don't want to be married for sure. Its the power dynamic that they don't want to deal with especially if children are involved. They want to be able to do whatever to their children without the influence of the father. This is why they get knocked up by random men who were never intending to stay
Bw copy ww hair, eyes, voice etc. But not this? Make that make sense
so true. 🤣🤣🤣 they try to copy that too but Zaddy rather get a white girl who is willing to follow his lead than a sister that is prepared to fight him every step of the way.
Nah they make time to do damn tarot card readings and “spiritual journeys” while having kids but… yeah I’ll leave it there lol
it's not that they don't want to get married, it's simply they don't VALUE marriage.....us bm already came to that conclusion a while ago. most evidence shows bw want to be married ex: is the multiple videos of bw looking for relationships(dating shows etc) only a minority says they don't want to get married. that's the reason they put everything before marriage then it's too late when they finally start to value it
I ask this same question. My contention is that I believe many Black Women above all others simply want to be free to explore sex with different partners without guilt. As you pointed out. A person can be married and do everything else, and it would be easier when you have a great supportive spouse. That's even biblical. There is
not much you can't do better when married including raising children (Imagine that).
"free to explore sex with different partners without guilt" = 304s and it explains why they do are not wives. their mindset is off.
“Great supportive spouse” Key words. The reason most BW are weary of marriage is that they don’t know how to find this type of person.
@@allegrap1054 The assumption has to be that one's spouse "Good Wife or Good Husband" has to be Great and supportive. I would submit to you that the couple should not be marriage in the first place if being supportive isn't evident in the courting process. The real point is that many BW don't want to marry period. And I have not found one reason other than simply wanting to be free to "Explore."
N.o.t.
@@allegrap1054 THEY are not this person. They see those types of men all the time but those guys are nerdy and in the friendzone. They choose pookies.
Men control marriage✌🏾 Need to ask men these questions. Men don’t want to be married
Truthfully, most young men don't. That's why I recommend women dating older. My husband is 7 years older than me which works for us. It takes longer for them to get it together. Lol
The highest concentration of educated men you will meet will be on a college campus. Common sense would tell you if you want a educated man, look while you're at college. That is if you value that.
Thanks for finally saying it. women do not want to get married!
No disrespect, Queen Charde, please check out" Black Women are the least married because of this." by Rivah.
Its sad .... but true
💯🎯
Remember, The Most High YAHUAH Designed Marriage! All Praises To The Most High! HalleluYAH!
As Medium Man said, there are black women who just don't want to be married and that's fine.
That means those women are "useful to the goup."
Maybe FEW women of any race should look for husbands. The United States is not a theocracy and marriage is largely a religious institution that has ingrained itself in this society but too many problems arise from it the way it's currently practiced in the U.S.
On top of that.......
Black men in general tend to be naturally more polygamous than White men so that leads to more problems in the current monogamous marriage system that dominates the U.S.
Black men aren’t naturally polygamous. Hyper-sexuality is taught, conditioned or coerced. It’s not natural.
I disagree. Black men are Not naturally polygamous. ALL men are polygamous, it's in our DNA. The need to mate and procreate is Inherent in males of Any species of animal, particularly in mammals but Especially in primates.
Monogamy in human society is dictated by financial status. In General, the more money that's available to men, the more likely they will be polygamous. Think about it. If you can afford to maintain more than one household, you would do so. That's been the male mentality since the monetary system came into being. It's why kings and sultans had concubines and harems. Kevin Samuels addressed it and Myron of Fresh and Fit speaks about this today.
The average or below average earning male is monogamous because he can't Afford to take care of more than one household. And before you type it, Chads and Pookies are the Exceptions, NOT the rule.
Furthermore, as far as the comparison to black vs other races and cultures, if you do a deep dive, you'll find one thing in common with them vs us. Their children are brought up in a traditional household where the mothers take on their roles and allow their men to do theirs. Their children grow up with their men able to teach their children how to be functional in society. They become more inspired to succeed because of it, no matter if they are simple store owners, carpenters, delivery drivers or whatever, all the way up to the white collar careers.
It's only in our community where the male example is lacking and our children suffer for it. For Whatever reason, our households are splintered because there's no strong male presence there. In many cases, it's because the women create toxic environments that make it unbearable for men to stay or Want to stay, in a relationship for the children. Many black women make babies with Ray Ray, KNOWING that he's unstable in the workforce, yet they then want HVMs to save them from their bad choices and misery.
Our women Also take bad advice from other older, bitter women who have made the same mistakes and haven't tried to change their mindsets and way of life. Even more pertinent, we have Too Many of our women listening to the white woman, feminist rhetoric, while in the meantime, more BW are out working and single and then becoming more stressed out, homeless, and now, unemployed with Useless degrees.
No matter the culture or race, it's Clear that men are necessary for households and ultimately society, to survive.
College IS for education mainly. Finding a husband IS optional. Not the othe way around.
The sad reality of this single by choice, they won’t have any BM when they need someone. They won’t be anyone available over 30…
A woman cannot be inspirational anymore at all. Now black women were against marriage 50 years ago.
Black men cannot expect the granddaughters and daughters of black wives who experience ABU$E and ABANDONING during the 1950s and 1960s to STILL value marriages with black men,. right!!??
Thank god i'm a man, and I can afford to wait till i'm older to get married... save money, and unless you get lucky and find a true keeper.. let these woman be for recreational use.. never lower your standards just smash and move on until you finally find what works... evetually these women will get the message and switch up.
In the Bible it said men will have 7 women begging for their hand........blackwomen are getting ran through by chads and pookies
They want to marry certain men, Since i was a teen i always encountered women who wanted to marry me. Even now i have women ages 25 to 70 willing to marry me.
The 25 year old has a kid, so outside of cheek clapping im not offering anything else. But she has a slim body that i like and natural hair. she just has a kid. Turn off.
there a black woman 44, 52 and 70 that i am sleeping with who want to be married. One white lady i sleep with wants to be married she is 52 as well.
i know a few younger women who want marriage under the age 25 as well. But the thing is mindset. There are women who want marriage young.
But im not marrying a woman over the age of 25. The one who is 25 i met her when she was 23, but she has a kid.
Im not marrying a woman who is the following
Weighs over 150lbs has a fupa, muffin top or stomach
Has a child or children
Wears weave in her head
Who is over the age of 24.
You gotta be stopped fam. 70? Lol
How old are you BTW? Why do you think so many women are drawn to you, you rich, good looks, tall?
@@NobodyHasToAgreeAllTheTime she be paying my rent.
@@RC-fe9py im 47 years old, im 5ft8, im average looks with beer belly and balding, lol.
Women spend money on me, im stingy with money and i work at a call center. Im rich in Good D.
Lays it down in bedroom, If i go out an be among people i still get tons of choosing signals from girls.
Even younger girls be flirting with me.
@@RC-fe9py To answer your question: How tall are you whats your weight, whats your hairstyle and AGE? an are you in America....Because city by city you will have different experiences.
One thing i live STL MIssouri. I went to highschool With the Rapper "Nelly". SEXYY REDD is from Saint Louis too. I spent time in California it was super easy getting girls when i was a teen.
Women been drawn to me since i was a kid.
I lost my virgintiy when i was 8 years old she was 12. She was way bigger and taller than me.
By age 10 i had my first girlfriend and messed around til i was 15 years old. So 5 years
Both women approached me SXXXUALLY
I went through drought from 15 and half to 16 years old. about 6 months no sex.
Then my high sweetheart approached me in biology class. i would never approached her i was too shy, but after getting with her and some other chicks
who approached me first, I started learning how to cold approach.
By age 16 i got really good at cold approached. Around 25 i narrow down my methods to make it less effective but better quality and higher conversion rate.
i digress i got so much Box from cold approach, like in the 100s. But i focused mainly on the girls i have been smashing for more than 5 years. I use cold approach in person in real life. I also use social circle to get some girls. An back in 2000 a social media site came out called Black planet, i got so many women off that site.
In the past i use
Black Planet
Myspace
Tagged
i also recently got some girls recently from
BLK
Tagged
POF
Tik Tok
Facebook (the 23 year old i met off of facebook when i was 45 years old)
i am currently sleeping with several women off of these websites i didnt list above that are apart of my main rotation. My main rotation are all women i been sleeping with for atleast 5 years to 25 years to date. The one who is 44 i met when i was 22 years old. How ever the lady who is 70 i met when she was 65, she is a natural body builder like Ernestine Shepperd. She is about 140lbs and she has huge Natural BREAST that are real not implants. She is skinny with a huge chest. I didnt care how old her face looked i saw her when i was grocery shopping an i approached her, an got her number. I had few older ladies i was messing with off an on, One was 60, not as fit like other lady. But her breast and booty was huge and she was like 5ft11. I approached that lady in post office and messed with her for about 7 years we recently lost contact. I approached alot of women, i get alot of rejections, but i get more phone numbers than i have time to sleep with. Just this week alone i have like 15 phone numbers i have no intention of calling of women i simply am not excited enough to sleep with.
The best places to meet women at for me have been the skating rink and the gorcery store. When i had a six pack the best places was the club, the pool, the mall.
Black WOMEN don’t want to MARRY in their PRIME YEARS but after the debts pile up, the bodies pile up, the engagement proposals stop, the DMs dry up and they get tired of paying bills and working then they want a high value man in his PRIME to bail them out⁉️Stay single QUEENS💔🖤✈️💸✈️💸✈️🌎💍🏆🦁👑
Thank the welfare system
don't blame the system. black women CHOSE the system over the BM. They rather a bear than a man. BM have options. BW do not