The 9 Signs He's IN LOVE With You!

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  • @MeetStephanSpeaks
    @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 роки тому +409

    ❤️ Get your copy of the bestselling book "The Man God Has For You" here 👉 www.themangodhasforyou.com 👈 It is absolutely worth it!

    • @TheTimeOracle1234
      @TheTimeOracle1234 3 роки тому +14

      My man cometh !!! 💘 I'm getting prepared. 🙏🌟✨

    • @jamieeichelberger8987
      @jamieeichelberger8987 3 роки тому +2

      Aaaaaaaàaaaaa a QP

    • @DiscoveryWonders
      @DiscoveryWonders 3 роки тому +8

      I like your brain, Stephan. Thank you for your videos!!!

    • @madelinebigio7565
      @madelinebigio7565 3 роки тому +5

      Yesssss the more for less you playing house and cooking dinner all the time ! But you are not a girlfriend or in relationship.. Constantly you sacrificing yep don’t really respect you demonic ways

    • @madelinebigio7565
      @madelinebigio7565 3 роки тому +2

      A heart that was never there that is true! He was never apologizing and I forgave him and he did it again.. Lairs and manipulators and liars.. so true hallelujah Amen

  • @angelinpdx2297
    @angelinpdx2297 3 роки тому +3668

    “The man who loves you wants to bring you PEACE and CLARITY. The man who doesn’t care-or who isn’t serious-brings you CHAOS and CONFUSION.” Brilliant and so helpful. 💜💥💜

  • @altheatibbs4495
    @altheatibbs4495 3 роки тому +1071

    A man that loves his woman he prays for her he brings peace to her and treats her like a queen

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 роки тому +32

      You're absolutely right!

    • @elizabethjose1360
      @elizabethjose1360 3 роки тому +11

      Yes he does, thank You Jesus for my beloved husband and king after YOU Lord!!!. And my pastor also!!…. ❤️💕🙏

    • @italianprincess8107
      @italianprincess8107 3 роки тому +8

      That dont exist only in a movie ..

    • @mgmtherapy6661
      @mgmtherapy6661 3 роки тому +8

      The man I’ve been dating has prayed for and with me. You are so right and when we’re on the phone he leads us in prayer.

    • @t.5021
      @t.5021 3 роки тому +10

      @@italianprincess8107 Anything you ask for, God can deliver queen...even when you ask big. The father is a true miracle worker! All things are possible through him. Remember to have faith & seek him first. Everything else will follow

  • @sherry2250
    @sherry2250 3 роки тому +914

    A man who honestly loves a particular woman will pay attention to her instead of ignoring and disregarding her.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 роки тому +37

      You're absolutely right!

    • @Rise-ce1wb
      @Rise-ce1wb 3 роки тому +6

      I seem to see this a lot. I believe it's from stress, busying himself with too many tasks at hand. Not purposefully to avoid to tackle the things at hand. An I wrong? I myself take time to listen the best I can.

    • @sherry2250
      @sherry2250 3 роки тому +30

      All too often, a man's walk and talk don't match so a woman can never tell if he's really in love with her...that's the problem 😒. The walk matters far more than the talk!!!!!

    • @jillianmcleod6912
      @jillianmcleod6912 3 роки тому +25

      Nancy M. Urban a lot
      Of these men are more broken than the women and guard themselves so they are too insecure to go all out so it’s easier for them to juggle women than to be held accountable by one

    • @issahugues4474
      @issahugues4474 3 роки тому +22

      Yes so true! A man can tell you all day he loves you, but if he ignores you and his actions don't match his words than that's proof right there how he really feels about you.

  • @mariespi96
    @mariespi96 9 місяців тому +290

    I had ALL this with my husband of 32 yrs. He passed away last year. I miss him every minute of every day. 😢
    Everything Stephen is saying made our marriage so happy. Wishing all of you the best. The kind of love that surpasses death and time.

    • @favoriteisaacz5098
      @favoriteisaacz5098 9 місяців тому +11

      Am so sorry ma'am 💔😔 may God give u happiness and joy, to surpass d pain.. take fortitude, In d memories, u both shared❤❤

    • @marioncarter3805
      @marioncarter3805 9 місяців тому +1

      😮 0:42 0:42 😮

    • @marioncarter3805
      @marioncarter3805 9 місяців тому

      ​@@favoriteisaacz5098 😅😮😅😂 1:09

    • @jaelldixon
      @jaelldixon 9 місяців тому +3

      Sorry for your loss Hun. 😢 I have EVERY trait in my guy too. Been together only 9yrs

    • @PatriciaHandy-xd7qb
      @PatriciaHandy-xd7qb 8 місяців тому +2

      Yah Bless you sis Amen

  • @angelpolinek3153
    @angelpolinek3153 Рік тому +53

    30:00 the man who loves you wants to bring you peace, the man who doesn't brings you chaos

  • @beefaye18
    @beefaye18 3 роки тому +1860

    When you tell him of a problem you have.....he immediately try to fix it....if he can't.....he get someone he knows to help you...PRICELESS 😁

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 роки тому +55

      Indeed, that is priceless!

    • @bonitami_amor56
      @bonitami_amor56 3 роки тому +5

      YUP!!

    • @kristenhendricks6934
      @kristenhendricks6934 3 роки тому +4

      Facts!

    • @jillianmcleod6912
      @jillianmcleod6912 3 роки тому +38

      It’s unfortunate that Kevin samuels has more young men’s ear that Stephan I think what’s missing is God from these relationships

    • @valerieadyer4594
      @valerieadyer4594 3 роки тому +22

      I'm not sure that I agree with this statement because I was married for 35yrs. And I lost the love of my life to liver cancer in 2011, and when I had a problem come up and, I spoke with my husband about it, I wasn't telling him so he could solve it for me sometimes we need to vent, I loved that he would listen and ask me have you figured out how to solve this issue and if I couldn't figure it out, I would go back and talk to him and ask for his help and he would handle whatever the situation was. I loved that he gave me space to try to solve it by myself first!!! I still miss him to this day huge loss for myself and our family.
      R.I.H Eddie April 29, 2011

  • @MEL2theJ
    @MEL2theJ Рік тому +120

    "Please understand the difference between a hardened heart and a heart that was never given to you." -Stephan Speaks

  • @johannad3042
    @johannad3042 3 роки тому +643

    He professes his love and even when there is conflict he protects you.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 роки тому +16

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

    • @sallyhutt5201
      @sallyhutt5201 2 роки тому +6

      SO TRUE, 🏵️

    • @Pinkcandy777
      @Pinkcandy777 2 роки тому +1

      Nobody wants me 😞😓

    • @caseyj5597
      @caseyj5597 2 роки тому +3

      @@Pinkcandy777 🤗

    • @mariatiscareno8442
      @mariatiscareno8442 2 роки тому +11

      @@Pinkcandy777 please don't say that God loves you and he will give you that great love but on his time ...God bless you always 🙏

  • @susannaokan-boye7230
    @susannaokan-boye7230 Рік тому +113

    You are right . A man who loves you will provide and protect you .

    • @maryyoung4046
      @maryyoung4046 6 місяців тому

      What about if he "wants" to provide, but doesn't (not physically disabled).

  • @solfrid41
    @solfrid41 3 роки тому +291

    Fall in love with the process of becoming the very best version of yourself. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @bonitami_amor56
    @bonitami_amor56 3 роки тому +240

    I just secured a nice apartment, finally getting away from my toxic family, next step is receiving my Soul Mate.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 роки тому +11

      Glad to hear that, you got this, and thank you for sharing!

    • @stephanielerence4988
      @stephanielerence4988 3 роки тому +7

      @Bonita Mi_Amor
      On the same page as you 😎 best move much in store for us on this new chapter.

    • @tashamack8701
      @tashamack8701 3 роки тому +7

      Congrats on your move. I am right behind you.

    • @NicoleVivianTV
      @NicoleVivianTV 3 роки тому +10

      Congratulations! Take your time and let him find you 😉

    • @darnellcollier8391
      @darnellcollier8391 3 роки тому +10

      @@NicoleVivianTV No one has to look for anyone. It is God who puts people together. Think about Adam & Eve

  • @khaliathompson2251
    @khaliathompson2251 3 роки тому +579

    I've found him, finally❤❤❤ My honey is all these things and more.

  • @lindsayvaupel2008
    @lindsayvaupel2008 3 роки тому +654

    Have been in love with my guy since we met. I was farther along in my healing than he was. In the beginning it didn’t seem like he was into me and effort only lasted a few weeks After getting to know eachother and my effort to show him what he deserves now he has hit all these marks. I gave space for him to make his choices and do his healing while letting him know i was here for him and he opened up more. Sometimes guys are damaged from exs or long terms they thought would workout and need time to move on so they can give what someone else deserves. Good things take time and patience

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 роки тому +28

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

    • @cheryllawson6411
      @cheryllawson6411 3 роки тому +13

      Amen

    • @ihavealotofnames
      @ihavealotofnames 3 роки тому +14

      Well said!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽

    • @shenika77
      @shenika77 3 роки тому +38

      Amen. That's where I'm at with my guy, and I'm being supportive and showing patience and giving him space. He's slowly learning to trust me.

    • @wilhelminamcneill
      @wilhelminamcneill 3 роки тому +51

      I agree with you on that. Only if he cares to heal though. Some people hold on to the past so they can use it to manipulate people. Unfortunately if you a person is inexperienced with this behavior, they find out to late and waste a lot of time trying to show the other person love not knowing it's a narcissist behavior.

  • @conniemartin9362
    @conniemartin9362 3 роки тому +47

    The Man that makes you cry, Isn't worth it! The Man that IS worth it, Will NEVER make you cry!!!

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 роки тому +3

      Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

  • @joleenconners3736
    @joleenconners3736 Рік тому +41

    My man wants take care of me and my kids. My kids actually warmed up to him like him never been close to anyine like him. The lord blessed me. He wants to take care of me and my kids. Never had anyine like him before.

  • @shackerajackson9648
    @shackerajackson9648 3 роки тому +548

    To love is one thing , to be loved is another but to be loved by the one who loves you is EVERYTHING. I have found the man who is after my heart and sometimes I’m afraid that I might loose this because this man pours into my life like no one else has. My heart is bursting with love for him.

    • @isabelltecaxco4987
      @isabelltecaxco4987 3 роки тому +41

      You are so blessed to have found someone so wonderful. Praise God! I've been alone over 7yrs now and abstinent as well. I'm a 60yrs Hispanic lady, no children, I'm hoping that it's not to late for me. God bless you both

    • @gracemitchell373
      @gracemitchell373 2 роки тому +15

      @@isabelltecaxco4987 Yours s sound similar to mines I have children I was single for 3yrs soon hit 60 to be honest I use think and say am getting old no man and then I stop thinking about man I go my jolly way mine my business I start to focus more on God I tell God the type of man that I need in my life I meet someone and him never gives me a reason to ? anything about him continue to trust God he will give you the desire of your heart ❤️

    • @jenaya_laila2442
      @jenaya_laila2442 2 роки тому +3

      Probably only 5% of people get to experience that in life!

    • @shackerajackson9648
      @shackerajackson9648 2 роки тому +5

      @@jenaya_laila2442 I pray you have this or will find this!

    • @maryrose6281
      @maryrose6281 2 роки тому +3

      Good for you!!!

  • @ktrnpatino
    @ktrnpatino 3 роки тому +42

    Man who loves a woman will show her and will make effort . He will listen and understand you and appreciate having you in his life. He will not be afraid to show you off.

    • @vanessaodom227
      @vanessaodom227 3 місяці тому +1

      u said that right. he will not be blaming u for things that normally happen or say if u won't do another will. I JUST TURN MY HEAD N WALK AWAY. I always try to give respect because it is earn not just given.

  • @LifeHappened
    @LifeHappened 3 роки тому +328

    Love is an untamed force. When we try to control it, it destroys us. When we try to imprison it, it enslaves us. When we try to understand it, it leaves us feeling lost and confused.

    • @Carmie_B
      @Carmie_B 3 роки тому +19

      Best comment I’ve ever read about “love” !

    • @lynzypooh80
      @lynzypooh80 3 роки тому +10

      Explained so accurate

    • @BrandiNaCole
      @BrandiNaCole 3 роки тому +8

      That's beautiful.

    • @angelcliford7063
      @angelcliford7063 3 роки тому

      I can recommend you to father EDIALE his spells and manifestations are the best 💯💯💯💯.....

    • @angelcliford7063
      @angelcliford7063 3 роки тому

      Message him via whatsap

  • @trini_a_Lana
    @trini_a_Lana 2 роки тому +42

    He will defend you and be protective of you…. He does not want to control and dictate you ✅

    • @Ohkeh640
      @Ohkeh640 2 роки тому +5

      Love this. I hate controlling dictating men who intimidate and talk down …

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  2 роки тому +3

      You're absolutely right!

    • @Pinkcandy777
      @Pinkcandy777 2 роки тому +1

      My best male friend does all these nice things 4 me? Why isn't he yet making me his girlfriend?

  • @Softsoul.
    @Softsoul. 2 роки тому +189

    Watching this with a big smile because dating someone who's madly in love with me. After being in other toxic relationships where i also wasn't my best self, i think i found the one and yes it STILL exists! As a black woman i also expended my dating options and definitely found the one. He met me in my best time! I worked on myself physically and emotionally (still doing it).

    • @Softsoul.
      @Softsoul. 2 роки тому +9

      @Barbara Boix good to hear queen so happy for you. Cheers to love.

    • @Followmybliss777
      @Followmybliss777 Рік тому

      Psh he’s probably love bombing you too - most of these men are users

    • @lonestar4374
      @lonestar4374 Рік тому +4

      Me to,lol 😊 you just feel it and know it. Specially with enough experiences from before!

    • @agbatamaryann78
      @agbatamaryann78 Рік тому +2

      Congratulations sis
      I pray for mine too😊
      There are lots of wolves in sheep's clothing.

  • @victoriaharry1048
    @victoriaharry1048 3 роки тому +96

    I prayed to God and I got one. He gives me peace and Pampers me. God is great

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback, God is great!

    • @wshelby83
      @wshelby83 3 роки тому +3

      Victoria awww!! You’re so lucky. I wish you all the best

    • @victoriaharry1048
      @victoriaharry1048 3 роки тому

      @@wshelby83 thanks dear.

    • @deewils381
      @deewils381 3 роки тому +1

      💝

    • @angelcliford7063
      @angelcliford7063 3 роки тому

      Hello lovely I can Introduce you to the same powerful relationship restorer who helped me recover back my ex.

  • @CHI6898
    @CHI6898 3 роки тому +115

    So true !!! When a man truly loves a woman he wants to make sure she is totally happy in every way and she motivates him naturally to always be better in every way of his life and vise versus. Mentally, Physically, Spiritually, etc. No NARCS allowed !!!

    • @angelcliford7063
      @angelcliford7063 3 роки тому +1

      I can recommend you to father EDIALE his spells and manifestations are the best 💯💯💯💯........

    • @angelcliford7063
      @angelcliford7063 3 роки тому

      Message him via whatsap .....

    • @angelcliford7063
      @angelcliford7063 3 роки тому +1

      ±²³⁴7014025813💕💕💕.....

    • @Pinkcandy777
      @Pinkcandy777 2 роки тому +3

      Hi God has sent me a kind very patient caring beautiful saved man. We r staying pure. His family are missionaries.
      But he's hesitatant 2 attend church. But we get regular fellowship with my church friends together like cofee at a cafe etc. He invites them to his home :) does God mind?

  • @tayoriginal4067
    @tayoriginal4067 3 роки тому +327

    When he makes you homemade breakfast while you're stuck in your office working. When he gets up with the baby to let you sleep. Pours everything into his family and even does without sometimes so his family is taken care of. Not just financially. My husband does all of these things and so much more. We have definitely had our ups and downs but never anything that broke our marriage. I'm grateful 🙏

    • @shenahenderson2487
      @shenahenderson2487 3 роки тому +10

      This is beautiful!!

    • @healthbeauty5152
      @healthbeauty5152 3 роки тому +10

      Love hearing real true love stories like this 🤗

    • @Rise-ce1wb
      @Rise-ce1wb 3 роки тому +5

      So wonderful to hear you botb work together and really love each other. 💟😀

    • @WassupItsAnna
      @WassupItsAnna 3 роки тому

      Yes!!! Love this post!

    • @t.5021
      @t.5021 3 роки тому

      Nope that was just me, & he only worked. You are though to have such a man! Your husband sounds like a real partner.

  • @Janet1975
    @Janet1975 Рік тому +43

    I love that: “True love, genuine love flows both ways.”💞

  • @Jennifo007
    @Jennifo007 Рік тому +11

    I've been through bad relationships in the past. I'm in a new relationship. We've talked for 3-4 months. My boyfriend has a son who is 9 years old. He truly loves me, he treats me right. He loves me so deeply. I don't know why I sometimes question it.

  • @franklove2374
    @franklove2374 3 роки тому +136

    A family who prays together, stays together. 💓

    • @angelcliford7063
      @angelcliford7063 3 роки тому

      I can recommend you to father EDIALE his spells and manifestations are the best 💯💯💯💯........

    • @angelcliford7063
      @angelcliford7063 3 роки тому

      Message him via whatsap ......

    • @angelcliford7063
      @angelcliford7063 3 роки тому +2

      ±²³⁴7014025813💕💕💕.....

    • @krystallee3611
      @krystallee3611 3 роки тому +1

      AMEN Amen& Amen 💯💯💯💖🙏💖🙏💖🙌🙌😀✨

  • @mikkiafoskey
    @mikkiafoskey 3 роки тому +294

    For me as I've been learning once you have a personal relationship with God, you want someone who treats you as God does to some extent of course God is better. Once you understand your worth and someone else worth you will do as Stephan is saying here willing and naturally.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 роки тому +6

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback!

    • @msann1026
      @msann1026 3 роки тому +14

      Yes, if he believes and follows Gods word you have a better chance of dating a guy who will respect and love you with all he has.

    • @angelcliford7063
      @angelcliford7063 3 роки тому

      I can recommend you to father EDIALE his spells and manifestations are the best 💯💯💯💯.....

    • @angelcliford7063
      @angelcliford7063 3 роки тому

      message him via whatsap

    • @angelcliford7063
      @angelcliford7063 3 роки тому

      ±²³⁴7014025813💕💕💕

  • @angelagriszell5763
    @angelagriszell5763 3 роки тому +62

    The part talking about “intentionally not trying to hurt you” that’s why I can’t tolerate someone cheating because I feel the person did it intentionally.. that’s intentionally hurting someone that you “supposedly” in love with

  • @Coach.Kallista
    @Coach.Kallista Рік тому +179

    1.) Willing/ wants to provide for you - give to you.
    2.) Willing to make sacrifices - ie open minded to your interests
    3.) Does not intentionally hurt you - Don't care about your feelings.
    4.) Willing to apologize - willing to humble himself and park his pride.
    5.) Opens up to you & lets you into his world
    6.)
    7.) He will defend you & want to protect you - make sure you are not in harms way
    8.)
    9.) You're genuinely in love with him.

    • @ladyalexonsm
      @ladyalexonsm Рік тому +30

      6. He will pay attention to the details about you
      8. He will be consistent

    • @Ms.Tee65
      @Ms.Tee65 Рік тому +16

      Wow I’m in the wrong relationship.

    • @marysterling691
      @marysterling691 Рік тому +3

      ​@@Ms.Tee65Me too!

    • @Justbu45
      @Justbu45 Рік тому +6

      Because someone loves him doesn't mean he loves them

    • @TBHealthy
      @TBHealthy Рік тому +1

      So is a man who meets 8 of the criteria/signs truly in love?

  • @reneeroberson1217
    @reneeroberson1217 Рік тому +23

    Every man doesn't always speak about their emotions but, will show you that he cares and love you through his motions. If a man is introverted will not speak about their emotions but will show you in other ways that he cares

  • @kayrobbie5840
    @kayrobbie5840 3 роки тому +52

    This video confirmed what I already knew. that my man whose deceased genuinely loved me. When we were dating. He always gave me something and told me things he never told another living sole. He was protective but not possessive. He always shared whatever he had. I was extremely blessed to have found true love.

  • @sandramoore1391
    @sandramoore1391 3 роки тому +147

    A man who loves you always mirror you
    He gives eye contact when talking to you
    He will remember everything you say to me
    He compliments you
    He laugh at your silly jokes

    • @ericagroce4834
      @ericagroce4834 3 роки тому +2

      Wow! Thank you Miss Sandra.

    • @LiliansGardens
      @LiliansGardens 2 роки тому +1

      Thanks , These are just five but will do . Thanks.

    • @Pinkcandy777
      @Pinkcandy777 2 роки тому +1

      Then why won't he make me his girlfriend? Yet

  • @diannovianti101
    @diannovianti101 3 роки тому +230

    I love the bonus❤
    As wise men said: "When you don't know why you love someone, that's true love"

    • @angelinabryant7428
      @angelinabryant7428 3 роки тому +4

      Great information! People need to hear this, both women AND men! Thank you Stephan👊🏾❤🌹

    • @lindac.177
      @lindac.177 3 роки тому +1

      That's the honest truth!!!!

    • @lindac.177
      @lindac.177 3 роки тому +1

      💯❤

    • @ASMRcandy
      @ASMRcandy 3 роки тому +1

      I cried and fell out of love with this guy that told me think of no man not even him. He told me go see my son and start my life over there. He also said he enjoyed our conversations 2gether. He's a veteran now retired. And I am in love with him all over again and trying not to be. I'm trying to fight it

    • @jliwei6611
      @jliwei6611 3 роки тому +3

      @@ASMRcandy I hurt a lot, but I can’t seem to find the right sedative to numb my pain. I never knew love could be this wicked.

  • @rehamelton
    @rehamelton Рік тому +29

    The last point was on point. It’s so true that love flows both ways

  • @MEL2theJ
    @MEL2theJ Рік тому +14

    "You can't come at him disrespectful but expect him to maintain his poise and to handle it accordingly." - Stephan Speaks

  • @shebuddha
    @shebuddha 3 роки тому +336

    I hope you find the woman worthy of all this wisdom too

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 роки тому +57

      thank you very much, I appreciate that

    • @kimberlyjackson8064
      @kimberlyjackson8064 3 роки тому +19

      He’s single? Didn’t know

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 роки тому +18

      ❤🙂 Thank you!

    • @kinshonrichards9359
      @kinshonrichards9359 3 роки тому +18

      Amen I hope you do too Stephan Speaks.☺️❤️

    • @mikkiafoskey
      @mikkiafoskey 3 роки тому +31

      I was thinking the same thing, like God where is this man's wife? I'm sure God has someone perfect for him.

  • @mrmegabuckssongs
    @mrmegabuckssongs 3 роки тому +62

    I'm a guy from London England and I cosign this. Truth.

    • @dinadina9689
      @dinadina9689 3 роки тому

      Thanks

    • @jamaicanqueenpampie
      @jamaicanqueenpampie 3 роки тому +1

      What if the man is protected and possessive at the same time because I'm experiencing that right now

  • @indsmind7475
    @indsmind7475 2 роки тому +12

    My best friend checks out literally all 9 boxes and I've been sort of downplaying his confessions. I feel bad about my behavior and genuinely grateful for the amazing man God has given me.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  2 роки тому +2

      Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

  • @ambercockcroft9801
    @ambercockcroft9801 3 роки тому +28

    My boyfriend of 16 months shows all of these signs. To be honest this is the first relationship I’ve been in where I can actually be myself, he respects me, he’s open with me, he supports and protects me, he’s amazing with my little girl and I also have a great relationship with his kids too. There has been a few obstacles along the way mainly due to my own anxiety and insecurities but he has never given up on me. We both still have wounds that need healing but we are getting there together and he always makes me feel loved, wanted and needed.

  • @verlisha2696
    @verlisha2696 3 роки тому +598

    Your videos help give me moments of clarity. Sometimes we want something so bad that we try to force it with the wrong person. Great tips!

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 роки тому +17

      Yes, and it definitely isn't an easy situation. Thank you for sharing!

    • @almamorrison192
      @almamorrison192 3 роки тому +15

      I agree with you 💯% there. If it don't fit, don't force it. Just relax & let it go!!! Something better for you.

    • @NicoleVivianTV
      @NicoleVivianTV 3 роки тому +7

      This can get us into a world of trouble leaving us more heartbroken and in need of more healing than before trying to force it with the wrong one.

    • @traceyfawkes7675
      @traceyfawkes7675 3 роки тому +6

      I agree with you on this ! I wanted this man so bad and I was carrying the whole weight of the relationship that should have been balanced,and not me working so hard to keep it .This guy who I thought I was madly in love with he only was present for the benefits of a relationship. He was not truly ready for commitment but I am.I finally realized my worth/value and said to myself I deserve better. He had me thinking no one else out there so you better stick with me.But now I know better my lifetime dream partner is out there waiting for me . So now I stop wasting time on my ungrateful ex.

    • @kathleengagliardi7669
      @kathleengagliardi7669 3 роки тому +3

      Smart lady! Spot On.

  • @pastorkimbutler8816
    @pastorkimbutler8816 3 роки тому +80

    A hardened heart: whew!
    Only God can do it! Awesome point!
    I pray that God continues to use you.

  • @vashtikelly6837
    @vashtikelly6837 3 роки тому +216

    10TH SIGN HE'S IN LOVE WITH YOU...............HE AGREES WITH EVERY SINGLE THING STEPHAN HAS BEEN TELLING US WOMEN ABOUT WHAT A GOOD MAN IS.......... ALL THIS TIME......

  • @TerriF124
    @TerriF124 3 роки тому +31

    You just described my whole failed marriage of 29 years. I wish I had heard you in college. I would have avoided much heart ache.

  • @Amazinglilflowers
    @Amazinglilflowers 5 місяців тому +3

    Just realizing that I was never loved by anybody. Thank you for this video. When you have never been exposed to love, you never know what love is.

  • @charligodschild2850
    @charligodschild2850 3 роки тому +52

    When he is retired, but he wakes up early with me to make me my morning cup of ☕ ☕, he's definitely a keeper! 👌🏿💞🙏🏿

    • @chacaragibson5060
      @chacaragibson5060 3 роки тому +6

      That's love 💕🥰 lol

    • @angelcliford7063
      @angelcliford7063 3 роки тому

      I can recommend you to father EDIALE his spells and manifestations are the best 💯💯💯💯........

    • @angelcliford7063
      @angelcliford7063 3 роки тому

      Message him via whatsap

  • @JKsims96
    @JKsims96 3 роки тому +50

    My man checked all the boxes, ever since I've met him I thought there is something different here, a genuine connection I've never felt before.. thanks for the video!!

  • @brendacatolucas9509
    @brendacatolucas9509 9 місяців тому +53

    All I want is my husband to be my best friend and a good listener.

  • @nakkia30
    @nakkia30 Рік тому +19

    After 21 years of marriage. I couldn't figure out if he did or didn't love me genuinely. I poured everything in him the first 10 years.

  • @wendyschanbeck9801
    @wendyschanbeck9801 3 роки тому +132

    Well when you've been cheated on beat on abused and hurt and had your heart broken you just never know who to trust anymore or to give that person another chance

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 роки тому +9

      I feel you it definitely isn't an easy situation but you need to focus on doing what is truly best!

    • @chukwunwemlove9956
      @chukwunwemlove9956 3 роки тому +8

      Exactly what I'm going through. I don't know who to trust. Or who to believe is true to his word

    • @rnewton0773
      @rnewton0773 3 роки тому +7

      Dear Wendy, I fully understand where you're coming from. Take some time to heal your heart and begin to trust and protect yourself. We have to be whole for us to attract someone whole.

    • @emmahmaepa7071
      @emmahmaepa7071 3 роки тому +2

      same here trust issues

    • @shirleyagee6677
      @shirleyagee6677 3 роки тому +8

      I agree with you dont keep going back to him you deserve better god will send you someone who will treat you like a queen I understand where you coming from I cant be with a man that wont love me back it time to let it go bless you🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @danielleconstantino9323
    @danielleconstantino9323 3 роки тому +49

    I dated a narcessist for only two years. It has taken 5 yrs to recover from that. Even though I have severe PTSD from that situation, I have learned so much from dealing with it. Avoid the guys that hurt you on purpose or "poke the bear." That is a huge red flag.
    I have spent five years working on myself figuring out what went wrong that I allowed myself to be treated this way by anyone, let alone people I thought "loved me." I also knew, I didn't want my two daughters to see me with men or anyone that I allowed treat me like nothing.
    I am proud to say that I have reached that point in my life where I love myself. I turned all that love I was begging to share into myself, my daughters and a very few close friends. I still have moments of fear from what people have done to me in my past. But, I've chosen to no longer let my fears of what OTHER people did to me in my past, dictate how I communicate with others. I left my baggage at the door. Forgave the ones that hurt me, so that I could forgive myself for allowing people to do it for so long. And you know what happened? I started opening myself up more. I still have moments of fear. But I choose to let people's actions show me how they feel about me. And I met someone that gets me on a level I cannot even describe. We're both admittedly damaged but we are working on ourselves before rushing into something. It's been almost two years and I've never experienced anything like it.
    So my advice. Take the journey to love yourself. Listen to the universe. All that love you pour into others, share some with yourself as well. The journey is painful but absolutely worth it. #loveyourselffirst #nevergiveup

    • @patriciafields-wright2204
      @patriciafields-wright2204 3 роки тому +2

      Thank you. I've been married for 20 years and when COVID hit we were forced to spend time together. It seems like we grew more apart. Now I see him as a total stranger, not sure of his love ac cording to what I know about love. I understand that he had prostate cancer,, but It seems he doesn't love anymore.

    • @chloeg7353
      @chloeg7353 3 роки тому +2

      This was really great, thank you

    • @sherylsalazar4822
      @sherylsalazar4822 Рік тому +1

      Beautifully spoken.

    • @annawallace3264
      @annawallace3264 7 місяців тому

      thank you for sharing, my story is similar been married to a Narc Husband. He is now in Assisted Living facility with Alzheimers for 3 yrs. I am healing. Wish I knew then what I know now about Narcs and enjoy listening to Stephans videos, am learning a lot at now a much older age.

    • @janetsims3603
      @janetsims3603 4 місяці тому

      Thank You for sharing ❤❤😊

  • @jaytasiamgotchgotch4796
    @jaytasiamgotchgotch4796 Рік тому +25

    The man that loves you will show by all means

  • @ERICtheWOLFMAN
    @ERICtheWOLFMAN 3 роки тому +226

    This video hit me to the core. I genuinely provided each and every one of these signs to a woman, and it left her confused and lost because she was a already damaged from multiple past abusive relationships. It took awhile for my love to blossom with her, maybe too long, but eventually all of these signs I set forward, it brought me joy. Painfully, I had to close the door and walk away when it wasn't getting through to her. She clinged on to her toxic past. Tragic

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 роки тому +42

      I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

    • @hilo5901
      @hilo5901 3 роки тому +17

      I hope you find a beautiful woman who appreciates you for you. If it’s taking too long, it might be a sign for you to move on. If you are not willing to, you may be sprung! 😉 my Best to you!

    • @missafrica4092
      @missafrica4092 3 роки тому +19

      do not call people damaged, they are broken, in pain, traumatized.

    • @dii-N-sd
      @dii-N-sd 2 роки тому +9

      @@missafrica4092 broken = emotionally damaged...same thing

    • @missafrica4092
      @missafrica4092 2 роки тому +6

      @@dii-N-sd its not the same thing , mind your words when you talk about people

  • @mandy19202
    @mandy19202 Рік тому +19

    I have to say I absolutely love everything I just heard you say because you made me realize that my baby really does love me and I need to chill out with everything I've Question in our relationship. and all because of past relationships and this man that has come into my life, I now know that he truly loves me... thank you so much

  • @FullOfGlow1980
    @FullOfGlow1980 3 роки тому +50

    "One Sided Relationships"... Should be your next video...I speak on that all the time... Last point was great!!

  • @mashadi3263
    @mashadi3263 3 роки тому +47

    "Demonic" was actually the perfect word to describe it. Lol! 🙈

  • @Itchpls
    @Itchpls 3 роки тому +152

    I realize that I’m not in love with my boyfriend. I put so much in and received so little out of things. His great with our kids but he’s terrible when it comes to me. Your videos have actually helped me out a lot.

    • @noneofyourbuizness
      @noneofyourbuizness 3 роки тому +14

      When relationship are becoming a"job" 💀💀💀

    • @shakiaseabrook4833
      @shakiaseabrook4833 3 роки тому +3

      @@noneofyourbuizness it requires consistency

    • @princessenzinga528
      @princessenzinga528 3 роки тому +9

      Since kids are involved, please try to think about it twice. Maybe he has some unfixed traumas which prevents him from being the best partner. A good question to ask would be what relationship does he have with his mom: apparently, when men have a terrible relationship with their mother they tend to have issues in their relationship.
      Again please think about it deeply
      Take care

    • @jlindsey3906
      @jlindsey3906 3 роки тому +6

      Good for you to realize this. I have 2 kids myself and divorced my ex. I do everything by myself. Your kids dad may be a good dad but that doesn't mean you have to stay with him. You deserve HAPPINESS. he can still be a good father in his own household. Be happy. Please! Im the happiest and I do things alone.

    • @lisahill6817
      @lisahill6817 3 роки тому

      Take your kids and get out!

  • @chrisharris557
    @chrisharris557 9 місяців тому +4

    Unselfishness ❤ is what you look for: not to the point where he has low self esteem, but willing to compromise at times.

  • @madisonjugon2624
    @madisonjugon2624 Рік тому +24

    Yes a man is protective and provides and the women wants to nurture and cherish him ❤️ masculine and feminine balance makes us one and that is beautiful

  • @maczoo4584
    @maczoo4584 3 роки тому +238

    This is awesome. I ended a relationship 2 months ago. Usually it takes me quite a long time to get over a break up because I take it as rejection, apposed to, "he's not the man for me". Your videos have helped me realize it wasn't me and I did the right thing by walking away. Twice I had a very very bad feeling in my gut and I listened and learned. This is huge for me. I am currently talking to 2 nice fellows and it's amazing how different I am with just talking. No nonsense going on. Hahahaha

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 роки тому +14

      I'm glad to hear that, thank you for sharing. You got this!

    • @mamielee9040
      @mamielee9040 3 роки тому +8

      Am Happy for you! Thanks for sharing I just may have lost hope in finding the one.

    • @maczoo4584
      @maczoo4584 3 роки тому +18

      @@mamielee9040 awe dont lose hope. Stop and love yourself while learning these things. I listen everyday so I am actively working on myself. Eventually you won't even entertain nonesense from a man. Its very eye opening. Don't give up. Enjoy the process while learning. I will pray for you to see you are worthy of a good man.

    • @jliwei6611
      @jliwei6611 3 роки тому +4

      @@maczoo4584 walking away is the best thing that you can do. But staying alone sometimes hurts. I feel so lonely without a woman by my side

    • @angelcliford7063
      @angelcliford7063 3 роки тому

      I can recommend you to father EDIALE his spells and manifestations are the best 💯💯💯💯.....

  • @tamekagrigler4869
    @tamekagrigler4869 3 роки тому +21

    My husband open up the door for me all the time and he's do anything for me and take Care of he's God kid's and I can not ask for nothing more better. He never let me down since we been together 💃🏽🙌🏽♥

  • @pamelajones6492
    @pamelajones6492 3 роки тому +23

    My man loves me with all his heart soul he calls me everyday three times a day and every night we talk for hours

  • @ctgeblue17
    @ctgeblue17 2 місяці тому +1

    This popped on my feed and it's 3yrs ago but these golden nuggets is timeless. But I'm older now and know all this. A 20 something will really benefit from this video! Wish I had Stephan in my younger days looking for love.

  • @oanaelena4001
    @oanaelena4001 Рік тому +8

    Stephan is a healer❤

  • @jenniferh210
    @jenniferh210 3 роки тому +23

    Chaos & confusion vs. peace & clarity -
    effort and consistency where there is real love!

  • @amaampofowaa578
    @amaampofowaa578 3 роки тому +13

    I pray I find a man who will love me , cherish me n value me🥺🥺🥺🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @julianamendez7311
    @julianamendez7311 3 роки тому +130

    Great advice!! I was feeling so doubtful after our break up but you helped me realized that my spirit was not in it. I was trying to make toxic work knowing very well his behavior was not love. Thank you

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 роки тому +4

      I'm glad I could help, thank you for sharing!

    • @angelcliford7063
      @angelcliford7063 3 роки тому

      Hello lovely I can Introduce you to the same powerful relationship restorer who helped me recover back my ex.

  • @jenniferscobey4747
    @jenniferscobey4747 3 роки тому +52

    This video speaks to me. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and at times it has been hard on me to love the right way due to the long distance. I am learning to trust God through it all. The Lord brought us closer together so that we wouldn’t have to be apart anymore. I was in a bad relationship before this and I am learning everyday to lean on Jesus and trust him more.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 роки тому +5

      I'm happy this has been helpful to you and I pray that you heal all you have been through 🙏

    • @Pinkcandy777
      @Pinkcandy777 2 роки тому

      Awesome x

    • @catherinekidai6016
      @catherinekidai6016 Рік тому +2

      Waaaaaoooow! MAY ALL UR DREAM CIMES TRUE IN JESU NAME, , , AMMMMEEEEEN

    • @agathaunoma6980
      @agathaunoma6980 Рік тому

      It is time to get to the next level to marriage

  • @kidchocolate9253
    @kidchocolate9253 3 роки тому +27

    That was the best explanation of confusion. When your mind is fighting what your spirit is telling you. That was deep yall!

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 роки тому +1

      ❤ 🙂 Thank you!

    • @susanna4064
      @susanna4064 2 роки тому

      Susanna anna witherington Stephan Speaks I am happy now just let you know that you are with me and by myself I am so glad that you’re around my side forever you are the only thing that I need in my life I am so thankful for you in my life you’re my ride or die you are everything to me I miss you so much

  • @annekajordan6952
    @annekajordan6952 3 роки тому +143

    I love when you stop and just say what’s on your spirit - I think that is a beautiful thing 🙏. Your last point in particular really resonates, love is certainly a two way thing and both should be giving of each other.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 роки тому +10

      Yes, we both need to pour into each other. Thank you for sharing!

    • @annekajordan6952
      @annekajordan6952 3 роки тому +1

      @Stephan Speaks Absolutely 💯

    • @angelcliford7063
      @angelcliford7063 3 роки тому

      ±²³⁴7014025813💕💕💕.....

    • @angelcliford7063
      @angelcliford7063 3 роки тому

      Hello lovely I can Introduce you to the same powerful relationship restorer who helped me recover back my ex.

  • @nicoladouglas4059
    @nicoladouglas4059 3 роки тому +16

    Aman that truly loves you goes the extra mile just to make you happy. He never ignores you in any shape or form regarding what it is he's willing to work things out.

  • @JamaicaLove876
    @JamaicaLove876 3 роки тому +48

    Excellent video. Agree, that when a man is in love with you he wants to pour into you and make you feel safe and provided for. A willingness and desire to give reflects love as love is giving expecting nothing in return. A true sacrifice of your time and attention conveys love as well as when he becomes open-minded to things you like. Love is selfless. When a man is vulnerable, and opens up with you that conveys trust. Love is taking risk. My favorite point, to my surprise, is that when you are genuinely in love with him the love will flow, and you will feel selfless in pouring into each other. It will remind you of a waterfall that flows effortlessly, love is unconditional. Thank you for the video. Always abundance, peace & love to you.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

    • @mamielee9040
      @mamielee9040 3 роки тому +1

      That was so well put, if only that man is darn near non existent. So much is changing now from a decade ago.

    • @JamaicaLove876
      @JamaicaLove876 3 роки тому +4

      @@mamielee9040 Times have changed but decency and God's promises are truth, and does not change .

    • @angelcliford7063
      @angelcliford7063 3 роки тому

      Hello lovely I can Introduce you to the same powerful relationship restorer who helped me recover back my ex.

    • @angelcliford7063
      @angelcliford7063 3 роки тому

      Message him via Whatsapp

  • @40what18
    @40what18 Рік тому +10

    Thank God for my husband. He ❤ me

  • @jokettedj
    @jokettedj Рік тому +3

    He can't provide for me financially, but doesnt need to, im fine as I am. What he DOES do, is look at me lovingly and stroke my face, holding me close, reassuring me... providing me a place to feel safe and held and THATS all I ever wanted... ❤

  • @simoniously
    @simoniously 3 роки тому +58

    I believe that everything happens for a reason, even if I don't fully understand the reasons. It wasn't luck that brought me to your video today. I have met a man recently who is exactly what I prayed for and we are experiencing all of the items you covered. I'm thankful for this confirmation of what my spirit already knows. Thank you.

    • @chabee3666
      @chabee3666 3 роки тому +4

      That part. You just wrote my comment word for word. It’s a blessing a d the best feeling. Best wishes

    • @BklynBredDiva
      @BklynBredDiva 2 роки тому +1

      Your comment made me think of the speech "Everything Happens for a Reason", that I uploaded this week on my UA-cam channel. Check it out if you like... I'm sure it will resonate with you. Have an awesome day!

    • @BklynBredDiva
      @BklynBredDiva 2 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/ODHtlXsXNXI/v-deo.html

    • @ericajones2537
      @ericajones2537 Рік тому +1

      I feel you on this point 💯!!!!! EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON. I'm finally getting it through my thick-ass head, with help of GOD,of course......

  • @kourtney101
    @kourtney101 3 роки тому +28

    You gave us the most significant signs of a man who's in 🤎 with his woman. I tend to look at attributes like his gentleness and kindness towards me, and you covered that under the way he protects his woman. Excellent work!

  • @8ks141
    @8ks141 3 роки тому +16

    💯 about men being providers and protectors. I totally agree with all your points.

  • @Yamina-n1z
    @Yamina-n1z 5 місяців тому +1

    The good thing with realise he never loved you .its you dont miss him .Wats is in it to miss? Nothing

  • @patriciascorner4686
    @patriciascorner4686 3 роки тому +46

    Great video!
    Chaos & Confusion = Conman.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

    • @t.5021
      @t.5021 3 роки тому +1

      Hello!

    • @theosaka69
      @theosaka69 3 роки тому

      MAJOR FACTS!

  • @margaretguaragna6504
    @margaretguaragna6504 3 роки тому +10

    This is EXACTLY what my man is made of .. .. ALL of these things you have talked about and more and he is one in a million !!!!!! Thank you for this video.

  • @Rise-ce1wb
    @Rise-ce1wb 3 роки тому +20

    Respect each other & the others boundaries. Those things that hurt or repeatedly annoy or conflict with the other can be become an issue. Don't let it become an altercation!

  • @elvirapascua1651
    @elvirapascua1651 Рік тому +4

    I don't like those signs , until a man doesn't tell me anything, I don't want to assume.

  • @sharonmccartney8866
    @sharonmccartney8866 Рік тому +2

    Love can be so deep that emotions can be felt even when we re apart .. I believe that's true love ❤

  • @chrisandcrys6520
    @chrisandcrys6520 3 роки тому +13

    Wow! My husband really loves me. He checks all 9 boxes

  • @josefenebaliwag8430
    @josefenebaliwag8430 Рік тому +35

    I wish I could meet someone who will truly love me😢

    • @Le_Bold_Thinker
      @Le_Bold_Thinker 8 місяців тому +2

      Awwwww! You WILL. But trust that it's going to be in God's time, when He feels you're ready. Sometimes we think we know best, that we ARE ready for anything. But we risk meeting the wrong person, who may hurt us or worse, if we don't be patient. Many blessings to you, God will send you a gift of the man for you .

    • @shuesther
      @shuesther 7 місяців тому +1

      Love yourself first. Live your life to the fullest regardless if you meet him or not.

    • @NthabisengSelinaModise
      @NthabisengSelinaModise 5 місяців тому

      You will in time dear dnt despair

    • @pearl607
      @pearl607 4 місяці тому

      Psalm 37:4 God says “ delight yourself in me and I will give you the desires of your heart”

  • @angelabaker9962
    @angelabaker9962 Рік тому +5

    A lot of us women know how we are. Mistakes we made. Take any guy just to have one

  • @damitajohnson8389
    @damitajohnson8389 Рік тому +1

    I was dating a man that fell into all the criteria of the signs a man is in love with you, I felt like he was my best friend. We enjoyed everything in common. I have never in my 53 years desired a man that had everything I desire he was my best friend and then after six months, he said we were on different paths he didn’t want what I wanted, which was him a marriage and a long-term relationship that he knew the whole six months prior, but continue to touch all those points. You mention I was devastated.

  • @JaniceSherman-my4du
    @JaniceSherman-my4du Рік тому +5

    When a man love you he will spend his last money for you and he will do what you want even though he do not think it is right for you he will do anything for you to make you happy i have that kind of love

  • @marjoriesyoutube4530
    @marjoriesyoutube4530 3 роки тому +28

    Hi Stephan, you don't know how your video , came just in time , one sign that resonated with me was the third one a man doesn't intentionally want to hurt you. you are so right , thank you I needed to hear that . you hit the nail on the head for me, , as a a 48 year woman , who is finding herself soon to be divorce , im learning a lot about myself . I appreciate you for sharing your wisdom, thank you. 🙏 👍😊

  • @karenstephenson6668
    @karenstephenson6668 3 роки тому +49

    I wish I can find a Man who will be in love with me, some times I wonder.

    • @Coolct
      @Coolct 3 роки тому +3

      You will, pray and trust God and keep listening to Stephen ❤️

    • @NicoleVivianTV
      @NicoleVivianTV 3 роки тому +9

      The key is to stop looking and work on self. Put out the best energy and similar energy will find you.

    • @mandyug3540
      @mandyug3540 3 роки тому +3

      You will love,just believe it n u will receive it!!

  • @maryahmedina8388
    @maryahmedina8388 3 роки тому +101

    21:30 - 23:25 I needed to hear that!!! You spoke to me right now! That is the confirmation that my spirit needed in order to let my brain know the truth. I am always making excuses for the wrong men trying to make them seem right, but my heart knows I deserve better and I need to trust that intuition instead of covering it up with excuses 😭

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 роки тому +5

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

    • @cortlynsanders
      @cortlynsanders Рік тому +2

      Beautifully said. ❤❤❤ I’m ready to Love again wholeheartedly. I love me now and someone will too

  • @nicolasenikxy6306
    @nicolasenikxy6306 3 роки тому +18

    Omg the ex was the opposite to all this!
    He begrudged paying bills! Never bought me random gifts in the 18 years together! Was tight with money even with our daughter! We were supposed to be a family but called me a free loader! Thing was anything I needed I had to ask him, tell him what I needed for and he’d transfer the money if he was ok with that!
    He never made me feel like he loved me!
    Was never allowed to express how I felt, if I tried he would shout over me and talk about me and my faults.
    Would hardly apologise infact the next day he’d act like nothing happened. Nothing ever got resolved!

    • @crystaljoseph86
      @crystaljoseph86 3 роки тому

      Same wit my ex

    • @africanchild4525
      @africanchild4525 3 роки тому

      Same with my ex

    • @Betterlattethannever307
      @Betterlattethannever307 3 роки тому

      I hear you. Mine wasn’t tight with money. The money was spent on him and his hopes and dreams. He would say that I could buy what I want, but it was only to justify his choices and we didn’t have the extra income for me to get anything.

    • @LS-fe4ob
      @LS-fe4ob 2 роки тому

      Same with my ex too!

    • @PrettyMamaPatchwork
      @PrettyMamaPatchwork 8 місяців тому

      Sounds like we lived the same life, only we had a son who he destroyed. Our son died 2 yrs ago from addictions having a broken heart his father did not want him nor did he care about our feelings. He's been gone many years now but Iam so broken I've lost my only child because of that selfish monster I made the mistake marrying.

  • @MsDeevah3867
    @MsDeevah3867 Рік тому

    When your man consistently says you're a good girl babe. Am so happy i found this love and then again and am honestly scared about loosing my man. Am 33 going on 34 and have never had this outburst of love.

  • @lisajones-franklin3574
    @lisajones-franklin3574 3 роки тому +295

    "You have to believe it to receive it" 🙏🏽❤🙌🏽Thank you Stephan.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 роки тому +9

      My pleasure ❤

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      @angelcliford7063 3 роки тому

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    • @susanna4064
      @susanna4064 2 роки тому +1

      Susanna anna witherington Stephan Speaks do you like me or are you talking to my friend

  • @LevenLyfe
    @LevenLyfe 3 роки тому +12

    My boyfriend hits all of these. So I'm a loved woman. With the apologizing thing, he never use to apologize in the beginning, he would do something, and then act like nothing happened. 😒, I talked to him twice about it, the third time he lost his temper, i broke up with him. It took a week for him to ask me how we could fix it, then i made rules for disagreements between us. Now he apologizes when he messes up because like you said, i go about it the right way.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 роки тому +2

      Glad to hear that thank you for sharing!

    • @LevenLyfe
      @LevenLyfe 3 роки тому

      You're welcomed

    • @only1toyia
      @only1toyia 3 роки тому +1

      This gives me hope... Thank you.

    • @LevenLyfe
      @LevenLyfe 3 роки тому +2

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  • @Ms.TriceyK
    @Ms.TriceyK 3 роки тому +27

    I love this! So true and it describes the man in my life. He’s genuinely a beautiful man and I know he loves me. I thought of him throughout this video. Keep providing this wonderful information!☺️

  • @VictoriousWellness
    @VictoriousWellness 9 місяців тому +1

    Aw, my man is in love 🥰 It took 37 years to earn him. Don’t quit 💛

  • @mashiahaaroeh3506
    @mashiahaaroeh3506 Рік тому +6

    9 things?! You will be counting all day looking for these when you can tell by his kiss!

  • @AAbbb18
    @AAbbb18 3 роки тому +18

    My dear brother by 9:30 mns in your video . I just kissed the screen and said thank you . Everything you said in that video is on point . Thank you for talking from your heart and bringing sense to our brains . You're doing our Father's job , our brother's job . May God bless you abundantly 🙏🏾

  • @perfectlyimperfect4678
    @perfectlyimperfect4678 3 роки тому +14

    I love this yess a man will never intentionally hurt you if he truly cares !! Somebody who does it anyways knowing you addressed concern doesn’t respect you

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      @angelcliford7063 3 роки тому

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