Yeah... The sad part is (as an ISTP), sometimes I really just feel like a cameo in other people's lives, not a main character. Don't really care about Valentine's day in particular, but you get the idea.
Honestly, despite being an INTP, I actually related more to the INFJ, here. Finally working up the courage to ask an honest question only to be completely misunderstood and left utterly baffled. If a person gave me flower, I'd be much more likely to accept it well enough but spend hours considering the possible meanings of such a gesture and whether I should reciprocate the other person's sentiment, only to find that they walked away several hours ago. Person: *gives flower* Ne: What the hell? She just gave us a flower! Ti: What? What does that mean? Si: According to past experience, it's usually given as a token of affection. Ti: Token of affection, eh? Why would this person have affection for us? Si: We literally saved their life once, remember? Ti: Would that necessitate affection? Si: It does usually... although, not always romantically. Ti: However, when coupled with a romantic gesture, like this flower, the possibility of romance has accumulative force. Ne: Guys, you're in a loop. We need to come to decision. She's looking at us expectantly! Ti: Ok, ok, don't rush me! How do we feel about this person? Fe: Umm... I... err, I actually do like them, since you asked. I certainly wouldn't mind if we went out with them. Ti: You don't sound very confident. Are you sure? Si: Remember what happened the last time? Are you sure you can go through that again? Fe: Y-yes... it's worth the risk. I think. Ti: Ok, it's settled then. We'll agree to go out with them. Ne: Guys, she left. Ti: What? Why? Ne: She gave us that flower hours ago. Ti: Oh... what time is it now? Ne: 2am. Ti: We've been standing out here for 6 hours? Ne: Yup! Ti: ... shit.
...and this event will be further Ti-Si-looped for days (weeks? months?) to come. I was also wondering about the INFJ being maybe INTP but when binoculars came up, "yeah, that's INFJ".
I'm an INFP who knows the Beatles at least, but has definitely been in the situation of trying to figure out how to perfectly place me hand to signal that I want to hold hands. It's too scary to ask lmao
@@absolutelypointlessvideos707 you think that pop culture ignorance is your ally? I was born in it... MOLDED by it. I didn't know what Britney Spears looked like until I was already a man! And by then, she was nothing to me but an interesting case study in in the complex legal issue of conservatorship laws!
@@FalconOfStorms Nono, its definitely no ally, it's just relatable. I have to google famous celebrities just to try and rber what they look like and what they've done, only to forget later because I'm not genuinely interested in them, even though I'd like to have some conversational piece with people who are.
Fi identity is like “I don’t care what everybody else thinks, imma follow what I believe in” Ti identity is like “I don’t care what everybody believes imma follow what makes sense to me”
The ISTP's average word count in the prior two videos was 14 - 28, then 0. The ISTP's word count in this video? 14. For a holiday famously on the 14th. #TheDearKristinCode
Ooh chatty this time! Maybe you could extend your spreadsheet to also track the other 15 types?! My guess then of the chattiest top 3? ESFP (singing/soliliquying), ENFP (tangenting) and ENFJ (psychoanalysing). This guess doesn't include inner monologues obs otherwise the introverts are in with a chance! 😄
And, if you add the numbers in your comment, you get the number 70. And this is a video of Valentine's Day, in which everyone is spending time with their significant other, which I do not have. So you substract that and get the number 69.
As an INTJ, I can confirm that authenticity and honesty are valued. I would much rather be told the truth than flattered, so that I can be more certain when someone says something that is claimed to be the truth. Constructive criticism is 100% more appreciated than false praise, as it will help me improve. I may be single on this Valentine’s day (just as all past Valentine’s days), and doubtless many of you who have watched this video, and perhaps read this comment, are as well. Nonetheless, it is important to be cognizant of the fact that every person has positive attributes, and things to contribute. No one is perfect, everyone can improve, but no one is completely worthless or useless either. So take solace in that fact if you want, and don’t forget to be grateful for all the things you do have, especially family and friends.
As a fellow INTJ, I say that nothin' beats clear, reliable information that I can take at face-value and put towards some sort of practical use right away. ...Does Hallmark put that on a Valentine's Day card?
This should be called 15 Personalities on Valentine's Day because we're missing ISTP. 0:00 ESFP INFP 1:00 ENFP ISFJ 2:50 ENTJ ENFJ ENTP 4:45 ESTP ESTJ 5:15 ISFP INFJ 6:57 ESFJ ISTJ 8:45 INTJ INTP 9:43 ENFJ INFP 9:50 Boo and Subscribe 10:00 Random Stuff (Where did ISTP go?) As someone Ti Ne Se Fi, my primary INTP (Ti Ne) wonders where my secondary trait ISTP (Ti Se) is, and my tertiary ENFP trait (Ne Fi) feels like I need to share this.
Kristin knocked this one out of the dog park again! So many laughs! Boo should be paying her double as she takes so much trouble to make it part of the videos literally no-one will ever try to fast forward for fear of missing out. She just needs to put on her ESTJ persona when conducting negotiations! 😄
Loving the J/P interactions. Shows how different they are. Would’ve liked an INFP/INFJ interaction but I guess that would just be silence + inner monologuing.
Can we all give an award to Kristin for the ENFJ getting shocked and gasping as she holds onto the railing for support when the ENTJ tells her she used the poem as kindling 🤣
i am noooooot kidding i'm ENFJ and i had a crush on someone who liked tea so i sent her tea of her favorite flower and my favorite flower tea it was the height of delta, so i asked the seller to write the note for me instead and the really cute seller went all out with special paper and even added hearts to it my crush went "aww she's a really nice friend!" *slapped* the note *on the sink* near their trash and made tea she reeeeeally liked the tea and it was cute that she tried my favorite tea first, but i was so ✧ *affronted* ✧ by the note situation to fully process it
I was really needing the laughter that the INFP at the ending gave me, it was so funny, and the entire video was really good!! It cheered me up in a bad day!
I agree!!👍 Kristin was on point. That ISFP is so me..I would definitely play naive (to someone close only) or jokingly play around like that, and then come clean that I was joking. (Being oblivious to someone liking me happened in High school, now I'm more aware)
God, INTJ vs INTP was epic. We're lucky that you're part of the 0,1% of ESFP's interested in MBTI and psychology, you guys surely know how to entertain us. Most MBTI youtubers know an awful lot of things related to personality or typology, but most of the time they lack the comedy skills that you possess.
That surprise INFP ending was cute! (And sadly accurate.) But, I tell myself that each day I can't help but be a different person from yesterday. And each experience, interaction, and thought propels me to another version of myself. The ideal me, who rises bright and distant like a mirage, just out of reach and fading. (Not fully being facetious.)
The binoculars in the bushes hits me hard. That's how I stalked my ESTP crushed in high school tho. Please don't get me started about the time I climbed up the trees 🤣🙂😆
ENTP here, always battling between me being extremely independient and not needing a partner... and having my Fe moments were I am like, if only I had a partner need someone to connect to, lmao.
I was on a 1st date with INTP, conversation went well, we went through our question checklists and then she suddenly told me she liked me. I was like, ofcourse you do. She pointed out I didnt say I like her back. And instead of saying it back, I said "well Ive known you for 60 minutes I am not sure I like you yet". But she took it with humour and we dated for next 3 months. Looking at the flower skit reminded me the cute awkwardness she radiated. I am an INTJ.
You know, despite being an INTJ, I managed to be quite romantic. Of course, I dedicated myself to studying how normal people behave in those situations for a couple of years before trying it myself, but still!
Yesss!!! Finally an INFJ-ISFP couple! Those are my husband's and my types, so that was extra fun to see! The specifics of course varied (neither of us are actually dog people, although we adore our playful goldfish), but the part about them knowing each other since childhood and the INFJ having a crush on the ISFP that entire time -- totally accurate to us. 😊 I'm also confident that he Facebook-stalked me countless times before we were dating -- although to be fair, I was stalking him as well! And ours is the only relationship I was ever in that began with a natural and easy friendship rather than awkward infatuation and trying to read between the lines... This was a fun one, Kristin!! Thank you!
Yep, INFJ finally just blerting it out because they can no longer keep it inside anymore. Guilty. Running hundreds of love simulations. Guilty. Now scared out of mind that truth is reveled ie vulnerable. Guilty. Childhood friend for 20 years. Guilty. ISFP as a option? Very intrigued, shall now go stal--erm research one.
@@ShawnDavid91 Hahaha! Well some of us are more reclusive than others -- I'm more on the outgoing side -- but the general trend is that we are often outdoorsy and artistic, so perhaps places like a particularly beautiful nature park, an art class (especially the hands-on, 3D things like pottery, cooking, even woodworking), and generally just look for us in places that are particularly pleasing to the aesthetic, without being particularly risky (our tertiary Ni usually keeps us in check from bungee jumping or skydiving, lol that's kinda ESTP territory)... These are all generalizations, and a lot of these probably apply to INFPs as well as other types, but hopefully it's a bit of useful info if you are truly interested in an ISFP companion! It's a toss-up whether you're going to find us well-dressed (feeling the fancier side of our Se) or in total comfort garb (the Fi seeking solace and authenticity), but please know that while we do care a lot about how things look for ourselves, we don't necessarily impose that onto others in our lives, so you don't need to feel any pressure to "become fancier" -- just be you, and that authenticity is likely to draw us in... Best wishes on your search! Oh and a final note -- there are quite a few ISFPs who are not as "findable" due to being strongly homebody types, but most often the desire for adventure and a change of scenery will draw even those ones out on occasion!
The different locations in the skit, the continued comedy in the subtitles. Kristin you've completely upped your game. Thank you for the amazing content. You're incredible and I always look forward to your uploads🖤
I really like how you handle INTJs reaction to absurdity. Our default assumption is that there must be some concrete reason for it and we try to concretely identity local facts to make the situation understandable. INTJs usually do not reject new information off hand that is unusual.
OMG, I've done your INTJ exactly as you did it, it's so spot on! I also relate to the awkwardness of your INTP when they're caught off guard, I guess that's spot on too for an INTP.
Hahahhaha! ISFP here. The ISFP skit reminded me that one time someone kept telling me that they were very attracted to me because of my patent leather wingtip shoes (apparently a shoe and daddy fetish?) so I gave them my shoes to take home. :)
Infj - infp had me laughing. Kristin, thank you for bringing out the ISFP's humour, "I always see you in the bushes w/binoculars"🤣🤣 I knew she knew.. (SE). I have played clueless with an ENTP friend.. -ISFP
The INTJ and INTP meandering in the garden is almost line for line identical to the first date my wife (INTP) and I (INTJ) went on 6 1/2 years ago. Spot on perfect.
Your ISFP skit is the greatest psychological thriller of the decade. You are the greatest skit youtuber of all time, and the funniest youtuber of all time. Hope you and your family has a very Happy Valentine's Day, Kristin!
@@dearkristin I loved it. It's so complex that I had watched it multiple times and I want to watch it more. It was a big contrast with Frank James Valentines video where I burst out laughing but yours engaged my brain. It's like the difference between The Godfather and the Godfather Part II. I think Godfather the greatest movie of all time for it being more universal where everyone can see the incredible cinematic craftsmanship right way with the performances, music, visuals, camera work, etc (his skit wasn't thaaaaat good. haha) and pick up the theme of family and fall from grace right away, and it's the same deal with the Vito Corleone segments in the Godfather Part II where they're great but I'm way more interested in the Michael Corelone segments in Godfather Part II because of the uniqueness and complexity. Or another analogy. Your comedy hits on so many levels like early Simpsons where I never laughed out loud (stick with me!) as opposed to early Impractical Jokers where I kept bursting out laughing because I was so engaged in The Simpsons characterizations, rapid fire jokes, constant references, visual gags, continuity, etc. People look at me weird when I refer to something as being funny but I don't laugh because they think laughing is an indication of liking something but no. I actually laugh more to make others feel good. There's different types of comedy but skits with the ISFP and INFJ; ENFP and ISFJ skit; and ENFJ, ENTP, ENTJ were my favorite because it caught me off guard where things we're going compared to the hilarious ESFP and INFP; and INTP and INTJ skit that were easy to pick up right away. And you pointing out the visual continuity in the ESFJ, ISTP, and ISTJ skit was so awesome! I don't know if you liked the Simpsons for it to be a compliment but the reason why I thought those early Simpsons seasons in the 90s were so good because they were like this Valentine's skit where it had so much stuff going on for everybody. Also, was the ENFP a Blade Runner fan by chance? haha Take care, Kristin!
I loved the ISFP skit! I love showing people pictures of things that I like. I appreciated the accurate portrayal of the ISFP sense of humor combined with their sense of what's going on. I laughed the whole time! I love all of your videos btw! I've been watching for months. (ISFP 💕)
It's nice to see the INTJ-INTP couple developing their relationship from last year, even if there's been some backsliding on rose identification abilities.
I don't know if Peter Sellers was a fellow INTP, but I remember from my Muppets DVDs that when they had him on he asked them not to do the interview bit with Kermit. "I'll play any character you want, I'll play Queen Victoria, just don't make me be myself." During the interview with Kermit, when Kermit tells him he could just relax and be himself his reply was "but that, you see, my dear Kermit, would be altogether impossible. I could never be myself. You see, there is no me, I do not exist. There _used_ to be a me, but I had it surgically removed."
Istp, I can totally see myself with the minimal interaction that you presented. But I am soooo not cool , plus I’d be nervous, so all those bloopers at the end? Yeah, that’d be the real depiction of me. 😂
as an ENFP, yes. I've alwys wanted to meet a robot. And yes, it's better to set people up rather than have dates. And yes, I thought of "Boo, more like Woo" joke myself. Yes I will show yself the door
Dear Kristin, You are getting so good at the nuances of each type and portraying them accurately without being super stereotypical while still being able to keep it super funny and entertaining. You are a master! And I was able to correctly guess almost every single one! I did originally think the ENTJ was ISTP, but then when he told her he was available, I was like... no. I actually thought you were gonna show the INTP alone at home on the computer or something, lol! That would have been the stereotype, but you did a great job with the whole navigating of the romantic social situation between INTJ and INTP. I love how they're so similar, but also so different. Like both of them are not great with the social norms, but INTJ is very methodical about it and seems completely detached from emotion, while INTP tries to muster something up from within themselves to try to do it "correctly" and not look awkward, and failing of course, but almost in a self-deprecating way. - intp (in case you wanted to know... you know... for research purposes)
I felt that INFJ “What did I ask?” Moment in my bones. Hahahaha Normally that kind of thing happens when I’m on the phone. Once, I called the mechanic to ask about my car. The exchange was basically: Me: “Hi, this is ___. Just calling to ask about *mechanical issue*….” Guy on the phone: “Sir, we don’t sell ice cream here.” Me: “What?” *click* I did not call back. Too many question marks, no viable path forward. Lol I questioned reality for a solid fifteen minutes as I tried to figure out why the mechanic thought I was asking about ice cream.
@@dearkristin The best I can figure is that I must’ve mumbled into the phone. Lol But as an INTP, this is simply the pièce de résistance of a lifetime of awkward and bewildering phone calls. It’s beyond parody.
The ENFJ at the end definitely took me off guard! Hilarious! And only before that I thought that leaving roses aren’t my thing, it’s strange 😅😂 gotta admit, there’s something about ENTPs 😏
That INFJ/ISFP interaction had me dying inside. Good lord. 💀💀💀💀 (Also, if there is a country out there that regularly uses phone numbers as long as the ESTP’s, I am praying for you. 😔)
Had to laugh so hard from the last part. The INTP grabbing the rose like that, the ENFJ coming out instantly and the INFP responding to the identity crisis. Brilliant 🤣
Words are too weak to describe how much I love this video, you nailed it once again! It's also really creative how you make the sponsor part (boo) fun to watch, unlike all the other content creators.
enfj - I'm not personally very romantic, I like skipping to the part where I can develop an emotional connection with someone without all the bells and whistles. Probably an unpopular opinion though. Edit: Ok so the Fe dom inability to express suffering felt like a personal attack, even though it was for ESFJ. I do my best ok? Also, infps, you can be little bran muffins
idk if im ENFP, INFP, ESFJ, or what. maybe even ESTP. I've gotten ENFJ and INFJ on tests, but I don't really act like the ENFJ. I do act like an INFJ, but idk I kinda think I'm more of an extravert.
I guessed the ENTJ, INFJ, ISFP, ESFJ and ISTP right, but got close to some others, like IxTJ for ISTJ (I feel like some types are harder to guess/more vague/just kinda different from what I'm used to in it... Wonder if it's the Valentines vibe XD) Tho honestly, as an INFP who has never had a crush, IDK what to say... I've had no experience whatsoever with liking someone like that, so I can't approve it for certain, but I feel like it might happen - v - The ENTJ, ENFJ and ENTP scene was *hilarious* XD I love the running joke of 'booby traps' in the UK captions Same comment for the running joke of 'kidnapping animals' in the ISFP and INFJ scene, definitely one of the uh... more *interesting* pairs in this XD The INTP and INTJ moment was kinda wholesome, honestly 🥺💞 ENFJ and INFP at the end tho 😂 Overall, once again, great video, I do not regret spending, like 30 minutes, watching it twice with normal and joke captions *and* analyzing it to write this comment XD Thanks for uploading, Kristyyy, hope you and everyone else enjoy the upcoming Valentines Day 💖
You left out the next thought of the INFP, after "I wish I was a beetle right now . . ." " . . . and that someone would come along and step on me." Literally what I wish whenever thinking about all my blown (self-sabotaged) romantic opportunities.
Hahaha INTP was totally me the second to last time I hung out with a guy I like. Except I was too nervous to make a pun, and he's like the pun king himself LOL. So I was just awkward, unsure of how to receive a gift, and had trouble keeping eye contact with any consistency. 😂 I then went on to question what it is to "be myself" for the following 2-3 weeks. 👀
oh I get it.. because ISFP needs to feel like they’re being liked for who they are. we’re always so suspicious of someone being overly affectionate with us so quickly when we haven’t fully revealed very much yet. we want to make sure we’re not misrepresenting ourselves to you. and i don’t personally have that kind of relationship with animals and plants, but i do have Ni beliefs that are quite out there that i’d be very scared for anyone to know about for fear of sounding crazy and making people think twice about dating us. but anyway i would watch a whole film about the intj-intp rose relationship.
If you don’t have the uk captions on, please, I implore you, *turn it on* Highlights- Enfj: “but... living!” Entj: “Yeah so that notion of ‘living’ is a concept that cheesy motivational quotes and social media has tried to sell you. *True* living happens organically when you risk your life in the face of booby traps.” Also Entj: “when I tracked the DNA it led me to a dog, so I wasted hours on a false lead. That was a stupid mistake, I’ll admit” Enfj: “you- you tracked the dog-?” Entj: “Yeah I ended up enrolling it in my school and it’s undergoing undercover-soy training as we speak” Enfj: *offended gasp*
I look forward to your videos each time as I am genuinely interested in Myers-Briggs. I can't help but see the business side too, supply and demand. There is a general demand for this type of content among your niche market, however (I should change the word "however" to "at the same time" per your Fi video from last Friday), you seem to have a unique style even within the MBTI world of interest. It's cool as well that there are advertisers knocking on your door. You have found something you really love doing and making a bit of gravy at the same time. The video production is interesting to me as well. It would be cool to know how you learned this; was it through osmosis?
interesting side note of Fe trivia... (not really sure this is Fe trivia anymore. It's pretty detailed musically)the second part of "I want to hold your hand" that you were singing, is Paul's part of the harmony... John sang a lower part there... for example, when you get to the harmony split right after the C# note John, singing the melody line would drop a Major 2nd to a B, where Paul would raise a Major 3rd to an F for the harmony depending on the key. As far as I'm aware, they mostly sang the song in the key of B Maj with 5 sharps, which is "only a half-step" lower than the key you were singing it in which was the key of G Maj with only one sharp. Paul did such a good job with harmony that many of us want to raise the note and sing Paul's part. Why that matters is that John's part, was the melody, not Paul's. At the same time, it speaks volumes to the great harmony of the Beatles... Love them. (Ok I admit, this paragraph probably belongs in a music book rather than on here).
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Me: Waiting patiently for the INTJ.
Sees Kristin walk into a tree branch while deep in thought.
Me: "Ah, there she is."
I usually spot the character is always wearing black..... _JUST LIIIKE MEEEEE..._
@@thepickles8833 yes INTJ=black
True! And also i was wondering what type the INTJ gets as a crush and as soon as she GRABS the flower i was like „oooohhh great its an INTP“ 😂😂😂
I wasn't sure if it wasn't the INTP, but I assumed the INTP would rather be on the receiving end, and when they grabbed the flower, I knew.
Let's face it, the INTP and the INTJ getting together is the most romantic, albeit socially awkward, meet up ever. - INTJ
I love CC
The ISTP always feels like a cameo. Just like it should be.
That's how Kertins's videos get interesting
Yeah... The sad part is (as an ISTP), sometimes I really just feel like a cameo in other people's lives, not a main character. Don't really care about Valentine's day in particular, but you get the idea.
I'm Commander Shepard and this is my favorite comment on the Citadel.
That's so true, I'm always a bit disappointed in that. I feel like ISTP needs more screentime.
@@FalconOfStorms ISTP: I should go
INFJ: Thinks they are sneaky
ISFP: Has Se
Hahaha
Watching the INTP and INTJ was like watching two personified dating app bots attempt to appear human
I love the chemistry between INTJ and INTP.
The best
Yes my ex was an INTJ and I'm INTP
Honestly, despite being an INTP, I actually related more to the INFJ, here. Finally working up the courage to ask an honest question only to be completely misunderstood and left utterly baffled. If a person gave me flower, I'd be much more likely to accept it well enough but spend hours considering the possible meanings of such a gesture and whether I should reciprocate the other person's sentiment, only to find that they walked away several hours ago.
Person: *gives flower*
Ne: What the hell? She just gave us a flower!
Ti: What? What does that mean?
Si: According to past experience, it's usually given as a token of affection.
Ti: Token of affection, eh? Why would this person have affection for us?
Si: We literally saved their life once, remember?
Ti: Would that necessitate affection?
Si: It does usually... although, not always romantically.
Ti: However, when coupled with a romantic gesture, like this flower, the possibility of romance has accumulative force.
Ne: Guys, you're in a loop. We need to come to decision. She's looking at us expectantly!
Ti: Ok, ok, don't rush me! How do we feel about this person?
Fe: Umm... I... err, I actually do like them, since you asked. I certainly wouldn't mind if we went out with them.
Ti: You don't sound very confident. Are you sure?
Si: Remember what happened the last time? Are you sure you can go through that again?
Fe: Y-yes... it's worth the risk. I think.
Ti: Ok, it's settled then. We'll agree to go out with them.
Ne: Guys, she left.
Ti: What? Why?
Ne: She gave us that flower hours ago.
Ti: Oh... what time is it now?
Ne: 2am.
Ti: We've been standing out here for 6 hours?
Ne: Yup!
Ti: ... shit.
😅😅😅
Haha that was entertaining to read! I actually did think the INFJ portrayal was an INTP at first...
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...and this event will be further Ti-Si-looped for days (weeks? months?) to come.
I was also wondering about the INFJ being maybe INTP but when binoculars came up, "yeah, that's INFJ".
At first I thought the INFJ one was INTP 😂
This is... a rose. ~ INTP, 2021
This isn't even a rose. ~ INTP, 2022
No surprise she's questioning her entire existence, too.
I love how awkward INFP was, including not knowing The Beatles, and ESFP's general obliviousness!
I'm an INFP who knows the Beatles at least, but has definitely been in the situation of trying to figure out how to perfectly place me hand to signal that I want to hold hands. It's too scary to ask lmao
YES I'm so unplugged when it comes to pop culture, I didn't know what Harry Styles looked like until I watched the Eternals
@@absolutelypointlessvideos707 you think that pop culture ignorance is your ally? I was born in it... MOLDED by it. I didn't know what Britney Spears looked like until I was already a man! And by then, she was nothing to me but an interesting case study in in the complex legal issue of conservatorship laws!
@@FalconOfStorms Nono, its definitely no ally, it's just relatable. I have to google famous celebrities just to try and rber what they look like and what they've done, only to forget later because I'm not genuinely interested in them, even though I'd like to have some conversational piece with people who are.
@@absolutelypointlessvideos707 I was just making a brilliant joke based around a Dark Knight reference. XD
Single from the womb, single to the tomb. Excellent representation. Much applause.
one of the best lines I've heard on this channel lol
I actually got this line from a commenter! 🙌 Tony Stank was his name, if I recall correctly. Stuck with me!
@@dearkristin I've been using it all week now lmao
@@dearkristin Very good way to fine tune your impersonations of all the types :)
I loved it. I now know what to say when people ask why I'm not dating or married!
Fi identity is like “I don’t care what everybody else thinks, imma follow what I believe in”
Ti identity is like “I don’t care what everybody believes imma follow what makes sense to me”
The true yin and yang
My wife is an INTP and I'm an INTJ and we always get a kick out of your depictions of them interacting. Just wanted to say thanks for the laughs!
Relationship goals
No worries - glad you enjoyed and thanks for watching!
Nice, my hubby is INTJ and I’m INTP
The ISTP's average word count in the prior two videos was 14 - 28, then 0.
The ISTP's word count in this video? 14.
For a holiday famously on the 14th.
#TheDearKristinCode
Ooh chatty this time! Maybe you could extend your spreadsheet to also track the other 15 types?! My guess then of the chattiest top 3? ESFP (singing/soliliquying), ENFP (tangenting) and ENFJ (psychoanalysing). This guess doesn't include inner monologues obs otherwise the introverts are in with a chance! 😄
@@edwright4892 To "complete the set" would take about 50 hours. Not out of the question, but it would be awhile before I would get there. :-)
I've heard tell there is an Excel spread sheet for this 😍 *nerdy gasp*
And, if you add the numbers in your comment, you get the number 70. And this is a video of Valentine's Day, in which everyone is spending time with their significant other, which I do not have. So you substract that and get the number 69.
@@farrex0 Now you're using your noodles!
As an INTJ, I can confirm that authenticity and honesty are valued. I would much rather be told the truth than flattered, so that I can be more certain when someone says something that is claimed to be the truth. Constructive criticism is 100% more appreciated than false praise, as it will help me improve.
I may be single on this Valentine’s day (just as all past Valentine’s days), and doubtless many of you who have watched this video, and perhaps read this comment, are as well. Nonetheless, it is important to be cognizant of the fact that every person has positive attributes, and things to contribute. No one is perfect, everyone can improve, but no one is completely worthless or useless either. So take solace in that fact if you want, and don’t forget to be grateful for all the things you do have, especially family and friends.
Well said
Thanks :)
As a fellow INTJ, I say that nothin' beats clear, reliable information that I can take at face-value and put towards some sort of practical use right away. ...Does Hallmark put that on a Valentine's Day card?
Not true Joe Biden is worthless and so is Boris Johnson go Brandon
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This should be called 15 Personalities on Valentine's Day because we're missing ISTP.
0:00 ESFP INFP
1:00 ENFP ISFJ
2:50 ENTJ ENFJ ENTP
4:45 ESTP ESTJ
5:15 ISFP INFJ
6:57 ESFJ ISTJ
8:45 INTJ INTP
9:43 ENFJ INFP
9:50 Boo and Subscribe
10:00 Random Stuff
(Where did ISTP go?)
As someone Ti Ne Se Fi, my primary INTP (Ti Ne) wonders where my secondary trait ISTP (Ti Se) is, and my tertiary ENFP trait (Ne Fi) feels like I need to share this.
Hahaha ISTP gives the beer to the ISTJ!
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6:58 ISTP
@@dearkristin Haha! Love how ISTP is so discreet they go unnoticed.
Kristin knocked this one out of the dog park again! So many laughs! Boo should be paying her double as she takes so much trouble to make it part of the videos literally no-one will ever try to fast forward for fear of missing out. She just needs to put on her ESTJ persona when conducting negotiations! 😄
No, no. I'm sure that no dogs were knocked out -kidnapped- at the dog park...
the boo sponsorship was so well done
the INFJ and ISFP interaction 😂😂
Loving the J/P interactions. Shows how different they are. Would’ve liked an INFP/INFJ interaction but I guess that would just be silence + inner monologuing.
Until morals topic come
Only an ISTP could deliver a self-replicating beer.
Can we all give an award to Kristin for the ENFJ getting shocked and gasping as she holds onto the railing for support when the ENTJ tells her she used the poem as kindling 🤣
i am noooooot kidding i'm ENFJ and i had a crush on someone who liked tea so i sent her tea of her favorite flower and my favorite flower tea
it was the height of delta, so i asked the seller to write the note for me instead and the really cute seller went all out with special paper and even added hearts to it
my crush went "aww she's a really nice friend!" *slapped* the note *on the sink* near their trash and made tea
she reeeeeally liked the tea and it was cute that she tried my favorite tea first, but i was so ✧ *affronted* ✧ by the note situation to fully process it
although I was surprised it was an ENFJ, she just should have bring those roses and the poem to an INFP :D
As an INFP, I'm so glad I'm married now and don't have to deal with the awkwardness of dating anymore. 😆 And that ending was perfect.
Waiting for my day…
ISFP here and same!! Lol
I was really needing the laughter that the INFP at the ending gave me, it was so funny, and the entire video was really good!! It cheered me up in a bad day!
Yay! I'm so glad!
Same, i needed this today
Bad way?? 😭
The INTP-INTJ bit was amazing! I always enjoy seeing two robots falling in love.
Isn't there a saying that INTPs are the warmest robots and INTJs the coolest humans?
@@OnLifeandLove The saying is: INTPs are the coldest humans you will ever meet, and INTJs are the warmest machines.
I once went on a date with an INTJ and we ended up spending our first 30 minutes together debating the meaning of the word "collectivism".
But how did they meet? Couldn't have been through Boo … 😉
@@OnLifeandLove
I’ve literally had one coworker say that he thought I was a robot
The way the intj understood the intp even when she was having an existential crisis warmed my heart
ISFP is so me. I am either honestly clueless or playing clueless as a joke. That one was spot on, well done!
I agree!!👍 Kristin was on point. That ISFP is so me..I would definitely play naive (to someone close only) or jokingly play around like that, and then come clean that I was joking. (Being oblivious to someone liking me happened in High school, now I'm more aware)
I must confess: most of the time I am clueless and my face is an open book. I could never play it even if I wanted to.
Iam an intj but I also do this lol
God, INTJ vs INTP was epic. We're lucky that you're part of the 0,1% of ESFP's interested in MBTI and psychology, you guys surely know how to entertain us. Most MBTI youtubers know an awful lot of things related to personality or typology, but most of the time they lack the comedy skills that you possess.
Lol. I used to pass out my business card to possible dates. Lol. Every time I try to prove I’m not an estj… I am proven wrong
INTJ and ISTJ are probably the most relatable I've ever seen
“I’ve ruled out bran muffin” truly iconic
An INTP in love is basically a hyper intelligent robot that suddenly developed the ability to feel emotion and doesn't quite know what to do about it.
Perfection
I see the INTP still identifies flowers as roses this year too.
Great video as always, dear. Made me smile a little in a mourning day...
I'm so glad 😊
That surprise INFP ending was cute! (And sadly accurate.)
But, I tell myself that each day I can't help but be a different person from yesterday. And each experience, interaction, and thought propels me to another version of myself. The ideal me, who rises bright and distant like a mirage, just out of reach and fading. (Not fully being facetious.)
The accuracy is hilarious... yet painful 😂feel like I need to go reflect and write in my diary now - fellow INFP
@@raindropsonroses3919 😂 lol!
The binoculars in the bushes hits me hard. That's how I stalked my ESTP crushed in high school tho. Please don't get me started about the time I climbed up the trees 🤣🙂😆
ENTP here, always battling between me being extremely independient and not needing a partner... and having my Fe moments were I am like, if only I had a partner need someone to connect to, lmao.
I feel this in my bones
fellow ENTP. I don't know if I've been influenced by the stereotyping, but I'm thinking INFJ might be our best shot.
@@effulgENTPossibilities So I have heard, lucky for us INFJs are extremely easy to find....
@@farrex0 And when I do find them… they be female. As a straight female entp myself, this makes things tricky 😅
ok slogan: Being single is great... and for everything else, there's BOO... Ha or Being single is great, and for that Fe moment, there's BOO
I was on a 1st date with INTP, conversation went well, we went through our question checklists and then she suddenly told me she liked me. I was like, ofcourse you do. She pointed out I didnt say I like her back. And instead of saying it back, I said "well Ive known you for 60 minutes I am not sure I like you yet". But she took it with humour and we dated for next 3 months. Looking at the flower skit reminded me the cute awkwardness she radiated. I am an INTJ.
You know, despite being an INTJ, I managed to be quite romantic.
Of course, I dedicated myself to studying how normal people behave in those situations for a couple of years before trying it myself, but still!
As a fellow INTJ, it took years of studying for me to learn how to be romantic and how dating and relationships in general work
Yesss!!! Finally an INFJ-ISFP couple! Those are my husband's and my types, so that was extra fun to see! The specifics of course varied (neither of us are actually dog people, although we adore our playful goldfish), but the part about them knowing each other since childhood and the INFJ having a crush on the ISFP that entire time -- totally accurate to us. 😊 I'm also confident that he Facebook-stalked me countless times before we were dating -- although to be fair, I was stalking him as well! And ours is the only relationship I was ever in that began with a natural and easy friendship rather than awkward infatuation and trying to read between the lines... This was a fun one, Kristin!! Thank you!
Why am I not surprised that an INFJ-ISFP couple believes that their goldfish likes to play... ;)
@@FalconOfStorms Hahahaha! 😂
Yep, INFJ finally just blerting it out because they can no longer keep it inside anymore. Guilty. Running hundreds of love simulations. Guilty. Now scared out of mind that truth is reveled ie vulnerable. Guilty. Childhood friend for 20 years. Guilty. ISFP as a option? Very intrigued, shall now go stal--erm research one.
@@emilys3638 Hey erm, asking for a friend where does one find a ISFP?
@@ShawnDavid91 Hahaha! Well some of us are more reclusive than others -- I'm more on the outgoing side -- but the general trend is that we are often outdoorsy and artistic, so perhaps places like a particularly beautiful nature park, an art class (especially the hands-on, 3D things like pottery, cooking, even woodworking), and generally just look for us in places that are particularly pleasing to the aesthetic, without being particularly risky (our tertiary Ni usually keeps us in check from bungee jumping or skydiving, lol that's kinda ESTP territory)... These are all generalizations, and a lot of these probably apply to INFPs as well as other types, but hopefully it's a bit of useful info if you are truly interested in an ISFP companion! It's a toss-up whether you're going to find us well-dressed (feeling the fancier side of our Se) or in total comfort garb (the Fi seeking solace and authenticity), but please know that while we do care a lot about how things look for ourselves, we don't necessarily impose that onto others in our lives, so you don't need to feel any pressure to "become fancier" -- just be you, and that authenticity is likely to draw us in... Best wishes on your search! Oh and a final note -- there are quite a few ISFPs who are not as "findable" due to being strongly homebody types, but most often the desire for adventure and a change of scenery will draw even those ones out on occasion!
The different locations in the skit, the continued comedy in the subtitles. Kristin you've completely upped your game. Thank you for the amazing content. You're incredible and I always look forward to your uploads🖤
That lizard has great camera presence!
I really like how you handle INTJs reaction to absurdity. Our default assumption is that there must be some concrete reason for it and we try to concretely identity local facts to make the situation understandable. INTJs usually do not reject new information off hand that is unusual.
Istp on valentines day: outta nowhere we come take our shot and leave never to be seen again
Soy INTJ y mi esposo INTP. Así que me encantó que hicieras una interacción romántica de ambos.
I'm not sure which hit harder, the INFP at the start or the one at the end ❤️
Hehehe
Both equally valid, I’d say….
OMG, I've done your INTJ exactly as you did it, it's so spot on! I also relate to the awkwardness of your INTP when they're caught off guard, I guess that's spot on too for an INTP.
I love the way you seamlessly incorporated the Boo pitch into your skit, Kristin, it felt so natural! 💖
Your ENTP characters almost always have an ENTP vibe that I feel from the first words they say. You're damn good.
Hahahhaha! ISFP here. The ISFP skit reminded me that one time someone kept telling me that they were very attracted to me because of my patent leather wingtip shoes (apparently a shoe and daddy fetish?) so I gave them my shoes to take home. :)
Hahaha. That's so random
Infj - infp had me laughing. Kristin, thank you for bringing out the ISFP's humour, "I always see you in the bushes w/binoculars"🤣🤣 I knew she knew.. (SE). I have played clueless with an ENTP friend.. -ISFP
Ha I was just saying this about my ENTP husband! Surprisingly easy to tease in this way lol
The INTJ and INTP meandering in the garden is almost line for line identical to the first date my wife (INTP) and I (INTJ) went on 6 1/2 years ago. Spot on perfect.
Your ISFP skit is the greatest psychological thriller of the decade. You are the greatest skit youtuber of all time, and the funniest youtuber of all time. Hope you and your family has a very Happy Valentine's Day, Kristin!
Thanks, John!
@@dearkristin I loved it. It's so complex that I had watched it multiple times and I want to watch it more. It was a big contrast with Frank James Valentines video where I burst out laughing but yours engaged my brain. It's like the difference between The Godfather and the Godfather Part II. I think Godfather the greatest movie of all time for it being more universal where everyone can see the incredible cinematic craftsmanship right way with the performances, music, visuals, camera work, etc (his skit wasn't thaaaaat good. haha) and pick up the theme of family and fall from grace right away, and it's the same deal with the Vito Corleone segments in the Godfather Part II where they're great but I'm way more interested in the Michael Corelone segments in Godfather Part II because of the uniqueness and complexity.
Or another analogy. Your comedy hits on so many levels like early Simpsons where I never laughed out loud (stick with me!) as opposed to early Impractical Jokers where I kept bursting out laughing because I was so engaged in The Simpsons characterizations, rapid fire jokes, constant references, visual gags, continuity, etc. People look at me weird when I refer to something as being funny but I don't laugh because they think laughing is an indication of liking something but no. I actually laugh more to make others feel good.
There's different types of comedy but skits with the ISFP and INFJ; ENFP and ISFJ skit; and ENFJ, ENTP, ENTJ were my favorite because it caught me off guard where things we're going compared to the hilarious ESFP and INFP; and INTP and INTJ skit that were easy to pick up right away. And you pointing out the visual continuity in the ESFJ, ISTP, and ISTJ skit was so awesome!
I don't know if you liked the Simpsons for it to be a compliment but the reason why I thought those early Simpsons seasons in the 90s were so good because they were like this Valentine's skit where it had so much stuff going on for everybody.
Also, was the ENFP a Blade Runner fan by chance? haha Take care, Kristin!
I loved the ISFP skit! I love showing people pictures of things that I like. I appreciated the accurate portrayal of the ISFP sense of humor combined with their sense of what's going on. I laughed the whole time!
I love all of your videos btw! I've been watching for months.
(ISFP 💕)
It's nice to see the INTJ-INTP couple developing their relationship from last year, even if there's been some backsliding on rose identification abilities.
I don't know if Peter Sellers was a fellow INTP, but I remember from my Muppets DVDs that when they had him on he asked them not to do the interview bit with Kermit. "I'll play any character you want, I'll play Queen Victoria, just don't make me be myself." During the interview with Kermit, when Kermit tells him he could just relax and be himself his reply was "but that, you see, my dear Kermit, would be altogether impossible. I could never be myself. You see, there is no me, I do not exist. There _used_ to be a me, but I had it surgically removed."
I had two watch INTP-INTJ part a second time, I laughed so much !
Istp, I can totally see myself with the minimal interaction that you presented. But I am soooo not cool , plus I’d be nervous, so all those bloopers at the end? Yeah, that’d be the real depiction of me. 😂
Of course you are nervous,... as a human. Your aren't a perfect dating machine like me (INTP). 😂😂😂
as an ENFP, yes. I've alwys wanted to meet a robot. And yes, it's better to set people up rather than have dates. And yes, I thought of "Boo, more like Woo" joke myself. Yes I will show yself the door
Awwwi wanted to hear what happened with the intj and intp!
This was so great, I was completely invested in the characters!
Dear Kristin, You are getting so good at the nuances of each type and portraying them accurately without being super stereotypical while still being able to keep it super funny and entertaining. You are a master! And I was able to correctly guess almost every single one! I did originally think the ENTJ was ISTP, but then when he told her he was available, I was like... no.
I actually thought you were gonna show the INTP alone at home on the computer or something, lol! That would have been the stereotype, but you did a great job with the whole navigating of the romantic social situation between INTJ and INTP. I love how they're so similar, but also so different. Like both of them are not great with the social norms, but INTJ is very methodical about it and seems completely detached from emotion, while INTP tries to muster something up from within themselves to try to do it "correctly" and not look awkward, and failing of course, but almost in a self-deprecating way.
- intp (in case you wanted to know... you know... for research purposes)
Thank you for taking the time to write this comment, Lisha! I'm glad you enjoyed :)
I felt that INFJ “What did I ask?” Moment in my bones. Hahahaha
Normally that kind of thing happens when I’m on the phone. Once, I called the mechanic to ask about my car. The exchange was basically:
Me: “Hi, this is ___. Just calling to ask about *mechanical issue*….”
Guy on the phone: “Sir, we don’t sell ice cream here.”
Me: “What?” *click*
I did not call back. Too many question marks, no viable path forward. Lol I questioned reality for a solid fifteen minutes as I tried to figure out why the mechanic thought I was asking about ice cream.
Wow! Very curious about this one
@@dearkristin The best I can figure is that I must’ve mumbled into the phone. Lol But as an INTP, this is simply the pièce de résistance of a lifetime of awkward and bewildering phone calls. It’s beyond parody.
The ENFJ at the end definitely took me off guard! Hilarious! And only before that I thought that leaving roses aren’t my thing, it’s strange 😅😂 gotta admit, there’s something about ENTPs 😏
Ikr, we're great
The ESFJ mental breakdown is SO accurate
Also I love the INTJ/INTP relationship dynamic.
Soo good like always!
INFJ and ISFP were hilarious.
LOL
That INFJ/ISFP interaction had me dying inside. Good lord. 💀💀💀💀
(Also, if there is a country out there that regularly uses phone numbers as long as the ESTP’s, I am praying for you. 😔)
Had to laugh so hard from the last part. The INTP grabbing the rose like that, the ENFJ coming out instantly and the INFP responding to the identity crisis. Brilliant 🤣
I'd watch a movie based on the ISFP and INFJ one. That was so cute.
I CANT WAIT FOR YOUR CHANNEL TO BLOW UP YOU DESERVE IT SO MUCH ILY 💞🦋✨
The ISFP INFJ clip is probably one of my favourite mbti clips ever! Sooooooo funny (and I fell for ISFPs joke first)
The ESTJ going out into the middle of the street to confiscate the phone got me so hard hahaha great job!
To confuse the matter even more, the roses were yellow... a symbol of friendship 💛😆
""Living" is a concept that cheesey motivational quotes and social media has tried to sell you" truer words have never been said Kristin 😆
ahah love your skits
Words are too weak to describe how much I love this video, you nailed it once again!
It's also really creative how you make the sponsor part (boo) fun to watch, unlike all the other content creators.
enfj - I'm not personally very romantic, I like skipping to the part where I can develop an emotional connection with someone without all the bells and whistles. Probably an unpopular opinion though.
Edit: Ok so the Fe dom inability to express suffering felt like a personal attack, even though it was for ESFJ. I do my best ok? Also, infps, you can be little bran muffins
the INTX date callback oml
at least the INTP didn't run away this time
and not the INFP crying in the corner with an identity crisis 😭
idk if im ENFP, INFP, ESFJ, or what. maybe even ESTP. I've gotten ENFJ and INFJ on tests, but I don't really act like the ENFJ. I do act like an INFJ, but idk I kinda think I'm more of an extravert.
I'm starting to get really invested in this INTPxINTJ romance plot HAHAHAHAA
- INFP
It’s the same INTP and INTJ from the pantry at the party skit-
2:22 : "I've always wanted to meet a robot"
Me : I'm an INTJ so let's meet up !
I like how you can sort of figure out how long it took between the ESTJ shots by watching the lizard in the background.
Love your videos btw!
Love when people notice these details!
I guessed the ENTJ, INFJ, ISFP, ESFJ and ISTP right, but got close to some others, like IxTJ for ISTJ (I feel like some types are harder to guess/more vague/just kinda different from what I'm used to in it... Wonder if it's the Valentines vibe XD)
Tho honestly, as an INFP who has never had a crush, IDK what to say... I've had no experience whatsoever with liking someone like that, so I can't approve it for certain, but I feel like it might happen - v -
The ENTJ, ENFJ and ENTP scene was *hilarious* XD I love the running joke of 'booby traps' in the UK captions
Same comment for the running joke of 'kidnapping animals' in the ISFP and INFJ scene, definitely one of the uh... more *interesting* pairs in this XD
The INTP and INTJ moment was kinda wholesome, honestly 🥺💞 ENFJ and INFP at the end tho 😂
Overall, once again, great video, I do not regret spending, like 30 minutes, watching it twice with normal and joke captions *and* analyzing it to write this comment XD
Thanks for uploading, Kristyyy, hope you and everyone else enjoy the upcoming Valentines Day 💖
you're the sweetest!
It is notorious how INTP is developing her sense of dealing with receiving roses and interacting with this florist INTJ
You're always so spot-on! (ISFP 🐶)
So true I am a male infp but I am really not good picking up social cues unless she is an intj
completely didn't expect an ENFJ and INFP to pop out like that in the end! hahahahah
- INTP
You left out the next thought of the INFP, after "I wish I was a beetle right now . . ."
" . . . and that someone would come along and step on me."
Literally what I wish whenever thinking about all my blown (self-sabotaged) romantic opportunities.
Grabbing the flower was a great touch.
Damn the Shirt with the phone number on it is a really interesting concept !~ INTJ
The script writing and Kristen's portrayal of the characters keeps getting better. Great job Kristen!
Hahaha INTP was totally me the second to last time I hung out with a guy I like. Except I was too nervous to make a pun, and he's like the pun king himself LOL. So I was just awkward, unsure of how to receive a gift, and had trouble keeping eye contact with any consistency. 😂
I then went on to question what it is to "be myself" for the following 2-3 weeks. 👀
oh I get it.. because ISFP needs to feel like they’re being liked for who they are. we’re always so suspicious of someone being overly affectionate with us so quickly when we haven’t fully revealed very much yet. we want to make sure we’re not misrepresenting ourselves to you. and i don’t personally have that kind of relationship with animals and plants, but i do have Ni beliefs that are quite out there that i’d be very scared for anyone to know about for fear of sounding crazy and making people think twice about dating us.
but anyway i would watch a whole film about the intj-intp rose relationship.
i want infp-intj coupleeee and this was amazing and dont feel like skipping your videos at all.REALLY ENJOYED IT KEEP UP THE AMAZING WORK KRISTIE;)))
The ESFP and INFP were so cute. Also liked the iNTP and INTJ interaction
*gasp* the subtitles are evolving
they've taken on a life of their own
😅👍😅👍😅👍
Love your videos Kristin! ❤️ I would love it if you had a video all about INTJ female dating an ENFP male! That would be so funny!
If you don’t have the uk captions on, please, I implore you, *turn it on*
Highlights-
Enfj: “but... living!”
Entj: “Yeah so that notion of ‘living’ is a concept that cheesy motivational quotes and social media has tried to sell you. *True* living happens organically when you risk your life in the face of booby traps.”
Also
Entj: “when I tracked the DNA it led me to a dog, so I wasted hours on a false lead. That was a stupid mistake, I’ll admit”
Enfj: “you- you tracked the dog-?”
Entj: “Yeah I ended up enrolling it in my school and it’s undergoing undercover-soy training as we speak”
Enfj: *offended gasp*
"I certainly haven't been picturing a hundred different futures with you..." Just leaving to grab some lotion for the burn.
9:10 Se Trickster, not that it's the most relevant right now.
Finally an ENFP with developped Te that is not an idiot!!
Got me thinking we were looking at one of the T types. Shame to waste ENFP on an advert, I thought.
I look forward to your videos each time as I am genuinely interested in Myers-Briggs. I can't help but see the business side too, supply and demand. There is a general demand for this type of content among your niche market, however (I should change the word "however" to "at the same time" per your Fi video from last Friday), you seem to have a unique style even within the MBTI world of interest. It's cool as well that there are advertisers knocking on your door. You have found something you really love doing and making a bit of gravy at the same time. The video production is interesting to me as well. It would be cool to know how you learned this; was it through osmosis?
interesting side note of Fe trivia... (not really sure this is Fe trivia anymore. It's pretty detailed musically)the second part of "I want to hold your hand" that you were singing, is Paul's part of the harmony... John sang a lower part there... for example, when you get to the harmony split right after the C# note John, singing the melody line would drop a Major 2nd to a B, where Paul would raise a Major 3rd to an F for the harmony depending on the key. As far as I'm aware, they mostly sang the song in the key of B Maj with 5 sharps, which is "only a half-step" lower than the key you were singing it in which was the key of G Maj with only one sharp. Paul did such a good job with harmony that many of us want to raise the note and sing Paul's part. Why that matters is that John's part, was the melody, not Paul's. At the same time, it speaks volumes to the great harmony of the Beatles... Love them. (Ok I admit, this paragraph probably belongs in a music book rather than on here).
Yeah gosh their harmonies are 👌
Thanks for all the kind words, Michael!