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  • @nickmerchant4588
    @nickmerchant4588 Рік тому +670

    The wordless 10 seconds of the INFP’s experience had more rewatch value than most movies.

    • @jashepoon
      @jashepoon Рік тому +27

      I feel absolutely called out by Kristin and I love it

    • @luminyam6145
      @luminyam6145 Рік тому +3

      Hear, hear!!

  • @gouki4u
    @gouki4u Рік тому +462

    I'm an INTP, and I just realized by watching this sketch how many times I was bribed into a social outing with the promise of food. I draw the line at speed dating though.

    • @JackyVSO
      @JackyVSO Рік тому +38

      Being liberated from the chore of preparing food really is a legit boon though.
      It also shows that those people know you well enough not to try and entice you with "fun" 😁

    • @yoby4984
      @yoby4984 Рік тому +25

      Free food is the bomb tho

    • @greenlimabean
      @greenlimabean Рік тому +13

      I've had an Estp, Esfj, estj, and entp (ok, the entp was fun) do that to me (intp). I wish I had the confidence of the istp and could simply say no

    • @timl2346
      @timl2346 Рік тому +18

      Fellow INTP here. Free food is a bonus for me as well and as aggravating as this is to my friends, going somewhere and participating are two different things.

    • @tywco
      @tywco Рік тому +10

      I don’t know… I’ve paid some pretty high prices for free food.

  • @trinaq
    @trinaq Рік тому +397

    I love how INTP and ISTP bonded over how out of place they felt at the event, they're definitely each other's ride or dies!

    • @mudman619
      @mudman619 Рік тому +25

      absolutely - in every one of Kristin's skits, I'm always attracted to the INTPs lol (ISTP).

    • @finnkuudere3516
      @finnkuudere3516 Рік тому +44

      INTPs and ISTPs are natural allies. Interesting IRL story: I am an INTP and my wife is an ESFJ. She is quite assertive and loving, obsessively so. She wanted to marry immediately. The problem was that we had only been dating 6 months and we were in college, young, she's an immigrant from Spain, the family is in Spain and we're in Colorado USA, she's traditional Spanish Catholic. So how do you convince her parents? ESFJs just know how to read people and she knew if I could get some time with her Dad that we'd hit it off. So Mami and Papi flew in and she sent Papi and I off to tour the area and she gave me a list of things to mention but none of them were relationship oriented. After about 2 hours roaming we came back to my apartment where the girls were. She asked her Dad what he thought of the tour and he actually instructed her that she needs to stop wasting time and we need to plan this wedding because I was a good man to marry. He and I were already putting together a project to work on. I don't know what I said but we are the best of bros. Her dad is an ISTP and her mom is an ESFP.

    • @timl2346
      @timl2346 Рік тому +10

      @@finnkuudere3516 I had to screenshot this as it's so good. As an INTP, I can definitely relate to the bond that exists between myself and my ISTP brothers and sisters on this planet.

    • @oldkitten8598
      @oldkitten8598 Рік тому +4

      ​@@ehehv13 It's funny that you think we're cool; I feel so awkward. Must be the introverted side of myself that I'm feeling.

    • @Audentia89
      @Audentia89 Рік тому +11

      Indeed... I'm INTP and have been with my ISTP for 16 years. He likes to describe our relationship as him being the gas and me being the breaks... 😂
      It's a great balance honestly

  • @dankindcom
    @dankindcom Рік тому +96

    🙏❤
    0:00 ESTP INFJ
    1:02 ENTP ENFP
    1:48 INTP ISTP
    2:40 ISFJ INTJ
    3:52 ESFP ENTJ
    4:48 ENFJ ISFP
    5:55 ESTJ INFP
    6:23 ESFJ ISTJ
    7:18 Credits

  • @AO-jd9cp
    @AO-jd9cp Рік тому +154

    My wife is an INFJ and I'm an ESTP. The Brad and Becky relationship is top notch. I can certainly identify with Brad's interest in divulging the details of his gun fight with his brother. Although, my wife has taught me the benefit of being a deeper and understanding person. I'm really glad she's in my life.

    • @thirstwithoutborders995
      @thirstwithoutborders995 Рік тому +7

      Where did you guys even meet? And how did you start dating?
      Everytime I come across an ESTP I feel this "I really don't know what to do with you" deep inside, and hope feeding them will be enough to keep them happy. (It kind of does, my cousin is ESTP and he is perfectly happy if he is fed and other people listen to his wild stories.)

    • @AO-jd9cp
      @AO-jd9cp Рік тому +30

      We met in college. :) She often doesn't know how to deal with me. 😀 She hid from me for a while until I made it abundantly clear that I liked her. My wife would say, "She succumbed to my charm." [Her words not mine]
      She would say that she recognized that I was committed to her and that I wasn't messing around with her heart. It's not easy. We often struggle with communication. I hurt her feelings with my bluntness and I have to pull out of her what is going on in her heart. All in all, I think it has made us better and more rounded people. I have to say that none of this would be possible if we weren't for Christ. He has made us better people, able to forgive, and more open to learning each other.
      I couldn't ask for a better wife and life!

    • @grababundoberni
      @grababundoberni Рік тому +5

      @@AO-jd9cp Cool! Blessed be your relationship! Those first people were easy to type for me as I am INFJ, my brother is an ESTP and Kristin is awesome at skits!

    • @annabohatka8597
      @annabohatka8597 Рік тому +8

      That is beautiful! Opposite types have the most wholesome and interesting relationships. The harmony of opposites is such a fascinating relationship dynamic, and it is amazing how God can change a relationship for the better. I hope to one day meet an ESTJ that will encourage me to change and improve my understanding of others.

    • @mfernanda_trindade
      @mfernanda_trindade Рік тому +3

      ​@@AO-jd9cp that's so beautiful ❤️

  • @PeterJohnson-rh5hi
    @PeterJohnson-rh5hi Рік тому +334

    ISTP: Abandons speed dating at the first available opportunity.
    ESTJ: Leaves speed dating once something more important arises.
    ISTJ: Makes it through the entire speed dating session, but complains the whole time.
    ESTP: Scares everyone else away, ending the speed dating by proxy.

    • @zzzcocopepe
      @zzzcocopepe Рік тому +8

      Ironically I scare ESTP with my authenticity

    • @saucepan2342
      @saucepan2342 Рік тому +15

      INFJ: People pleaser mode off as soon as Time is up. 😄➡😐

    • @lidijakrneta3137
      @lidijakrneta3137 Рік тому

      @@zzzcocopepe you are probably some annoying infp, isfj or infj

  • @aprilw2287
    @aprilw2287 Рік тому +55

    I experienced the INFP's emotions in real time. I've been there. 😭😅

  • @trinaq
    @trinaq Рік тому +185

    Yay, the beginning of the Brad and Becky Chronicles! I'd really love an entire spinoff video detailing their entire relationship, until their inevitable breakup. As a fellow INFJ, Becky is certainly on my level!

    • @jashepoon
      @jashepoon Рік тому +8

      While I can't create actual Kristin skits about their relationship, I've decided that if Kristin makes "16P at a Wedding " I'll create a Brad & Becky timeline video! You may be interested in my Nessay I wrote in another comment if you haven't read it yet :)

    • @sharonkiraly6191
      @sharonkiraly6191 Рік тому +1

      I felt the portrayal was kinda weak...

    • @tanvithakur3181
      @tanvithakur3181 8 місяців тому

      @@jashepoon Wow! She did just make a video on "16P in a wedding"

  • @rengingurel3744
    @rengingurel3744 Рік тому +87

    The way ENFP relates to and tries to look at the "supposedly" positive perspective of the ENTP is VERY accurate. Top notch as always :)

    • @alyssapeterson2004
      @alyssapeterson2004 7 місяців тому +3

      I'm an ENTP and one of my friends is an ENFP... we've reached the point in our friendship where she just tells me to "knock it off" and then throws something at me XD

  • @crayon8749
    @crayon8749 Рік тому +37

    That was the nicest I've ever seen the ESTJ

    • @jashepoon
      @jashepoon Рік тому +4

      Kristin's hair works magic.

  • @Azdaja13
    @Azdaja13 Рік тому +181

    The INTJ - ISFJ one is basically every pretty much all the irl conversations I've had, especially with my mother. Me just dying inside after talking passionately about some topic I've put a lot of thought into and am excited about just to get a complete non-answer or obvious "I'm not really listening to you" comment. Or interruptions about some complete tangent (like the toothpaste thing). These sorts of conversations just drain me. The death stare was very on point.
    When I find someone who can actually speak on my level, it's like such an overwhelming sense of mental stimulation after all the suffocating drivel I have to endure. -.- I really do adore such people when I find them.

    • @saucepan2342
      @saucepan2342 Рік тому +17

      Infj here! & same with my isfj mom ( i was talking about death so deeply) but love her tho. I bond with her by participating in her sensory hobbies & it helps develop my Se too so win-win!

    • @CineShinya
      @CineShinya Рік тому +25

      I can totally relate to the experience you describe in my conversations with my mother. She can't bare deep conversations on history, facts, morals or my questioning on everything, so she brushes them off as if she didn't listen to a single thing said. She just randomly says something trivia and surface or if I insist, she just says she has no answers and remains unrelated.
      Only that I am an ISFJ and she is an ESFJ.
      In my circle of family and friends I have been the closest to the INTJs because they are the ones I can have actually interesting conversations with. Even if the Ni may tend to lead strictly to one direction the train of their thoughts and miss details and different perspectives. But I love the way we can analyze deeply to the core of a subject together.

    • @JS-wz3km
      @JS-wz3km Рік тому +4

      Yup, it isn't worth trying to talk at people.

    • @EresirThe1st
      @EresirThe1st Рік тому +6

      Few things are more disheartening. Even if I didn't get it I'd at least show interest in my children's passion

    • @staseraleggiamo
      @staseraleggiamo Рік тому +3

      Same here (INTJ) with my dad, who is an ENTJ...a lifelong struggle to be listened!

  • @Meg_intheclouds
    @Meg_intheclouds Рік тому +85

    OMG BRAD AND BECKY- love it! Also omg the ENFP-ENTP skit- I love the distinction between Fi and Ti. It’s so much fun the ENTP defo came to troll people. As an ENFP I’ve always wanted to do speed dating not for the dating but like friendship- the only issue is I’d want to stay and talk when the buzzer goes because I get swept too into the convo!

    • @edwright4892
      @edwright4892 Рік тому +6

      So Brad and Becky got off to a rocky start! However did they end up dating? 😀

    • @nickmerchant4588
      @nickmerchant4588 Рік тому +4

      I’ve actually done musician speed dating, designed to start bands and spark jam sessions.
      It’s still awkward…

    • @jessicathespy
      @jessicathespy Рік тому +3

      @@edwright4892 because Brad goes after her and she doesnt know how to say no "is this truly meant to be" sometimes takes months to shake Brad off and by that point your sad and confused and crying ina book shop for an hour because you ran into him months later and after breaking up and he was so happy to see you and cheerful despite breaking your heart in a thousand ways. **so glad I'm not in university anymore and married to a very kindly entp**

    • @edwright4892
      @edwright4892 Рік тому

      @@jessicathespy Oh dear, that obviously brought back some sad memories.😟 I'm so pleased though you've found your Mr Wright! 🫂

    • @edwright4892
      @edwright4892 Рік тому

      @@nickmerchant4588 Wow! Respect for doing that. You must really love your music! 👏

  • @sam_uel726
    @sam_uel726 Рік тому +103

    As an INTP, now that I think about it, every awkward situation i've ever put myself in just happened because my friends promised me food

    • @GermanTaffer
      @GermanTaffer Рік тому +12

      I have to admit, that I am easily bribable by tasty food. INTP 😶

    • @davelyon852
      @davelyon852 Рік тому +6

      My entire graduate school week was planned by mapping the shortest route between talks with free snacks, where I would sit next to other snacking INTPs.

    • @DerMichael
      @DerMichael Рік тому +2

      We're going to have a class reunion this year and I'm thinking about the food more than about the people. 😅

  • @InJeffable
    @InJeffable Рік тому +77

    ISFP here. Given how many times my mom has suggested online dating to me, she probably wonders why I'm so resistant to it. It's because of how high-pressure it is (just like speed-dating). I want romance to develop naturally with a woman I meet in the real world. I don't want to rush into it or try to force it. I just want to go with the flow and let feelings develop where they may.

    • @5idi
      @5idi Рік тому +15

      ISFP too.
      I think that romance is a very bad motive to getting to know a person. So forced and artificial, leading to so many problems. Now if you get to know a person and then things develop,.yes.

    • @chawker67
      @chawker67 Рік тому +2

      That's me but sometimes I'm trying to force myself to go and start this fricking tinder profile but I always end up thinking to myself 'nah this is not for me etc' haha

    • @walkingwith_dinosaurs
      @walkingwith_dinosaurs 11 місяців тому

      Yeah that's my ISFP friend's exact words. And there she is - with not a single serious relationship in her late 20s.
      Same as me (INTP) actually, but I at least know that I won't meet anyone naturally. I just don't go to these dating events or dating sites anyway lol

  • @whitneyd6827
    @whitneyd6827 Рік тому +9

    This is eerily accurate for ENFJ.... I'm dead inside just thinking about cycling through small talk

  • @dennmart5147
    @dennmart5147 Рік тому +41

    Teenage INFP male here, I agree again with the ISFP/ENFJ. It ALWAYS takes me several months to almost a year MINIMUM before I begin to think about being in a relationship with someone I know well. Also, this pretty much sums up exactly why I'd never speed date or blind date, being pretty deep and all...

    • @sarahberkner
      @sarahberkner Рік тому +3

      Speed dating and blind dating seem like horrible ideas to me too(I'm an ESTJ) but I've heard of a few people who met their spouse over online dating or a blind date. I would never do it though.

    • @dennmart5147
      @dennmart5147 Рік тому +1

      @@sarahberkner Oh, well, good to see both of us on the same page. :)

    • @badkarma4790
      @badkarma4790 Рік тому +4

      Thank you for this insight! I'm an ENFJ and very patient with introverts opening up, and it's very helpful to understand your view on getting into relationships after getting to know each other really well.

    • @dennmart5147
      @dennmart5147 Рік тому

      @@badkarma4790 Thank you for your valuable reply! I agree with you completely.

    • @olivenprinzessin7220
      @olivenprinzessin7220 Рік тому +2

      @@badkarma4790 Enfj here too, somehow I find myself adopting introverted people as friends wherever I go. Then I do social gatherings where they all meet each other. Comfiest way to party for sure. Anybody else making this experience?

  • @onajideshou3345
    @onajideshou3345 Рік тому +18

    As an ISFP, my facial expressions listening to the ENFJ matched Kristin's portrayal of the ISFP. It was amazing.

  • @AWESOME100percent
    @AWESOME100percent Рік тому +34

    You know, the ESTJ doubling back for the conditioner is actually quite the complement from her.
    Estj's value efficiency and to take time to do that is really something

    • @kevinlulu6683
      @kevinlulu6683 Рік тому +1

      Oh yeahh, that's my ESTJ pleasing an INFP 😘

  • @calypsodragonheart
    @calypsodragonheart Рік тому +59

    I completely relate to your ENTJ portrayal. Poised, unrelenting confident go-getter. Gosh I love being an ENTJ !! And a female one to top it all !! ☀️

    • @chriswalker2562
      @chriswalker2562 Рік тому +6

      Male ENTJ here. Completely agree.

    • @daniellecward5400
      @daniellecward5400 Рік тому +4

      I like having Te as my dominant function, but wish I had the confidence of an ENTJ - ESTJ

  • @sashalarious5990
    @sashalarious5990 Рік тому +33

    Somehow I knew that the inevitable use of wigs would be Kristin's next evolution

  • @imjustjoshen
    @imjustjoshen Рік тому +9

    I see the wig budget continues to increase as well as your ability to probe into my deepest nightmares and psyche. - Sincerely, an ENFJ

  • @theartsyfarmer3748
    @theartsyfarmer3748 Рік тому +15

    Aww I would love to hear INTJ talk about their books! Just don’t expect me to have too many pre-formed opinions😅
    -ESFJ

  • @reubenfrench6288
    @reubenfrench6288 Рік тому +17

    As an INTP, I would probably at least try to make the most of the situation by seeing how many participants I can weird out.

    • @adrasthea17
      @adrasthea17 Рік тому +1

      😂 I would probably forget my partner/s and just observe other couples and periodically cringe at everything- also INTP

  • @benlechner6352
    @benlechner6352 Рік тому +17

    00:00 so this is how Becky and Brad met each other. One could argue that these are not the famous Brad and Becky from the 16 personalities interacting at a party video from last year but they have the exact same mbti personalities as that video, this can't be a coincidence. That can only mean that kristin's videos are not necessarily in a chronological order. Interesting

    • @jashepoon
      @jashepoon Рік тому

      yes! you can look for my essay on Brad & Becky in a different comment under this video, if you're interested in a possible timeline :)

  • @emiliya7
    @emiliya7 Рік тому +26

    Can we appreciate all the magnificent wigs for a minute?

  • @jashepoon
    @jashepoon Рік тому +35

    Kristin the third time you sing Favorite Things can it be a full cover pleeeeease? 🥺
    You're such a good singer and we need to hear more of you. I'd pay extra for them covers. Especially with a certain someone on the guitar. I'd even donate my left kidney to Sanitarium 🥺

    • @dearkristin
      @dearkristin  Рік тому +7

      Hahaha thanks Jashe 😆

    • @user-mc5vy2vk5n
      @user-mc5vy2vk5n Рік тому +3

      But the kitty version someone posted in the comments, please. 😻 I can find it and write it here, if the need be. 🐾

    • @jashepoon
      @jashepoon Рік тому

      @@user-mc5vy2vk5n oh I wanna see the kitty version!

    • @user-mc5vy2vk5n
      @user-mc5vy2vk5n Рік тому +2

      @@jashepoon there you go:
      "Toe beans and teefies and whiskers on kittens
      Blep tongues and fingies on sharp murder mittens
      Soft noses, floof tails, and chasing a string
      These are a few of my favorite things"
      It was posted by user OtakuUnitedStudio, idk if it's theirs or not.

    • @jashepoon
      @jashepoon Рік тому

      @@user-mc5vy2vk5n thank you!

  • @jashepoon
    @jashepoon Рік тому +132

    Ok time for a wild Dear Kristin's Cinematic Universe Nessay deep dive that will hopefully make Meg (and Kristin) proud.
    *Brad and Becky*
    So we know Becky is not the only INFJ in the DKCU. There's one Samantha who tried to date a Tim ESFP in "Interacting on Valentine's Day". An Olivia in "Two types in the workplace". There's also a male Fred INFJ in "Valentine's Day" who asks out the Not-Dog-Park-Girl ISFP.
    Brad is also not the only ESTP. I'm pretty sure Becky lives with a roommate ESTP Jerry (+ all other 14 types lol); the ESTP is called Larry in "16P Getting Arrested", furthermore there's an ESTP Amy in "16P Interacting as Newscasters". It's hard to tell them apart though because no matter their identity or gender, for some inexplicable reason they all look quite identical 😏
    So, given how many dating skits there are, I think it's possible to assume that anytime Becky or Brad are not mentioned by name, it's not them. The alternative would be to assume that Kristin hasn't really thought this through with her inferior Ni. Buuut, both would be lazy alternatives. Let's try to piece this together somehow. I do find the INTJ's idea of transcendental realities quite realistic but won't acknowledge it for now.
    In any case, the first dates of Brad and Becky go terribly wrong. Brad is just... too bold and brash for Becky. In fact, "How to make INFJs feel loved" may be directly made for him. 😉
    Without further ado: Assuming that Kristin's videos are not chronological, one timeline from Becky's perspective might be:
    Brad and Becky first meet in this video. She has previously been set up by the ISFJ and ENFP in "Valentine's Day", who both ultimately decided against Boo and tricked... um no, "persuaded" her to go not on a blind date, but on a speed date. This is due to her Fe wanting to please her friends, and because her relationship with the ENFP in "Dating Each Other" and the INFJ in "Dating Their Own Type (part 2)" didn't work out. Plus, the INTJ in "Around their Crush" never even got around to confessing his feelings and was instead busy slipping, on rainy days (jk). Becky's way of asking people out (16P asking someone out) evidently could be... improved. Maybe she could ask her cacti for advice. 😆
    Thus, being desperate for true love~, she accepts. Here she meets Brad whom she immediately dislikes and rejects. Buuut she still remembers him, while Brad immediately forgets about her. Unsurprisingly, she doesn't find her dream partner whilst speed dating.
    Some time later, he coincidentally joins her in her marketing job (16p at a Winery where Jenna is the INFJ) or maybe she joins him, and they don't really talk to each other, but Becky keeps an eye on him while he doesn't notice her. Her initial dislike diminishes and turns into interest and admiration.
    Incidentally we also know she doesn't like her job, as she says in "Psyching Themselves Up in the Mirror". I'm not sure if her job is in marketing, but in any case it's connected to what Brad does officially. Unofficially, he's a criminal 😧
    Then at the winery, they start talking probably after Brad "purchased" the grapes in the supermarket (scene with INTP). Becky doesn't remind him of their speed date where she so brutally rejected him and doesn't mention they work in the same large corporation (INFJs like being mysterious 😶‍🌫). Brad promptly asks her out on a date, which actually is more like attending a party with his mates.
    She gleefully and obliviously accepts the "first" date, which is actually their second one considering the speed date. So they go to the party on the same day where they play lots of beer pong (16p as friends, the convo between ESTP and INFP). Becky hoped for a traditional 1 on 1 romantic date so she is not happy of course, but Brad is. "At the End of a Bad Date", Brad says "So that was great, we should do it again sometime." and Becky lies "Absolutely." She tries to retract her words and reject him, but doesn't catch him down the street in time. So she decides to give him another chance.
    _I would like to state at this point that Brad is very casual with dates, and also not considerate or sensitive towards other people's feelings, if it wasn't obvious yet 😛. It's very much possible he's dating .... maybe not 16, but still multiple people at the same time as the subtitles say during the previous scene. After the end of this bad date, he doesn't even remember if her name is Becky or Becca (again 16p as friends, the convo between ESTP and INFP). Also on the next date that is coming up, he literally has "mates coming over in half an hour"._
    So they end up on a second date where they play badminton with each other (16p dating their opposite type), which is her "literal nightmare". Despite all this, they become a couple. Being the idealist that Becky is, she can't help falling in love with what he _could_ be as a person. Also remember that by now, she's desperate to make a relationship work. But of course, like with her previous partners, it doesn't work out. 🥲
    Becky's "way too slow to be her true self around him" (Through the Eyes of the ESTP). She also learns that Brad is one of the most wanted criminals in Australia (16P Getting Arrested). Since he's also the friend who is most likely to get arrested (16P as Friends), he breaks up with her to 1. keep her safe (let's just ignore the part where he has supposedly framed Becky in "Getting Arrested" 👀🤐) and 2. because he was never as much into her as she is into the ideal image of him she's created. My guess is, he likes her about as much as all his other dates. 😆
    Now, this hurts Becky a lot and she is lamenting the breakup during the scene in which a different ESTP (Jerry?) tries to troll her in her room and sees her crying 😢 (16P on a Sick Day). I also suspect this is around the time she answers the questions in "16P Answer Questions about their Dating Lives", saying "He's with someone else now, but she'll never love him as much as I did..... do." and "[I will be dating again when my ex comes back to me]". So she's clearly in denial aaand also doesn't know about his polyamory.
    _It's also entirely possible this interview happens much much later during a time when she's single. I don't think it matters a whole lot where we place it in the timeline._
    You can see in "16P Interacting at a Party" - which happens right after the breakup - that she has not moved on, that "her soul is crumpled in sadness", and that she is very much still in love with _her_ Brad. Since she created a dating profile on UrMyType (16p Writing Online Dating Profiles) even before they played badminton with each other, she tries to use the app to make him jealous. We know that at the end, Brad apologizes for not having been sensitive before and he (kinda) makes peace with her. He explains he's only on UrMyType to make friends and that he's not dating at the moment, which um... honestly I find pretty hard to believe sorry. But sure.
    _But hey, I hope you find someone you're compatible with, Brad (maybe the ISTP in "16P Dating Their Similar Type"?)._
    After the party, the next scene is probably 16P Trying to Get a +1 for a Wedding. Becky rejects Brad's offer to be his +1, but still wants to go to Jared and Bethany's wedding and try to impress him and win him back. We don't know what happens during the Wedding, that's a video Kristin would still have to make, but I'm keen to watch Becky, an extremely reluctant Jill, and an ESFP (Kristin) acting as an ENTJ acting as an INTJ and an ISTP. 🤯
    So yeah that is the puzzle piece that is still missing, hopefully I've covered just about everything else 😄
    After the wedding, Becky seeks out more people and meets a Sean through UrMyType, whom she dates right after the "16P Getting Ready for a Date" scene where she tries to talk herself into being more realistic with her expectations, but that relationship also fails. (16P Texting Their Ex, a video that is only accessible through patreon or through a certain clue). But now she's started dating an ENFJ (16P Dating Their Similar Type) and it looks like that relationship might finally work out, since the ENFJ also reciprocates the psychoanalyses of Becky (16P Flirting)! Yay! *fingers crossed* 🤞
    So that was fun! I probably misinterpreted some scripts, missed some relevant scenes... and I took more and more artistic liberty with each edit haha. I have no idea how dates or romantic relationships actually work, having never been on or in one. But I hope my timeline makes sense 😎
    I wonder now how Brad's perspective could look like. Dating multiple people at the same time (one plot point I leaned quite far into) while being a high-profile criminal sounds like an exciting story with lots of potential, not that Kristin condones either 😅 I know that before dating Becky, he dated an ISTJ (16P Dating Each Other) but breaks up with them shortly after (16P Interacting on Valentine's Day). I do still hope the xSTP couple works out, they could be literally partners in crime. 😈
    (How much time did I spend on this? Yes. Do I consider myself a hardcore fan of something for the first time ever? Yep. Do I have a life at the moment? Nope.)

    • @dearkristin
      @dearkristin  Рік тому +75

      This is amazing. I should start throwing in curve-balls just to watch you try and fit 'em in. 😆

    • @jashepoon
      @jashepoon Рік тому +22

      @@dearkristin hehe. Hope you were able to follow along 😉
      I counted 25 references to other videos. It's amazing how much work you've put into your channel in the last 2 years!
      Can't wait for what intricate plot you come up with in "16P at a Wedding" 😄
      (Oh also can I just say, this is the most Se analogy ever LOL)

    • @meddem1925
      @meddem1925 Рік тому +11

      As entertained as I was reading all of that, I kept thinking, this person is an INTJ fo' sho!
      I guessed INFJ too since you're following Becky, an INFJ but then I used myself as reference... I do this exact thing you've done here but it is all internalised, swirling in my head. I'd never structure and externalise it so well... unless I wanna do well on a test lol. So, INTJ.

    • @jashepoon
      @jashepoon Рік тому +6

      @@meddem1925 I'm an INTP but I thought I was an INTJ for many years!

    • @Meg_intheclouds
      @Meg_intheclouds Рік тому +5

      Ok so I LOVE THIS SM!
      Would just like to add- the whole part about the party- I feel like Ashley and The ISFJ end up setting up Becky first by sending her to the speed dating. They see Brad and Becky interact and while they don’t exactly hit it off decide to invite her to the party full of single people! There she meets Brad again and they play beer pong (as in that video Brad says “I just met her”) and I feel like even as ESTP would remember the girl he was dating’s name lol.
      So anyways- loved this analysis though and yes I am proud!
      Also side note I 100% ship Ashley and Danielle- or at least think they are amazing as best friends and hope we see more of the ENFP-INFP dynamic

  • @BrodieBr0
    @BrodieBr0 Рік тому +29

    LMAO!!! OMG That's how we often act, even if on a date. haha 0:59 Ni had gathered enough at the point.. Watch that Fe switch turn off to let the TI talk... BRILLIANT facial reactions! I've been told I scare others when something causes the Fe to yeet out.😂 Brad practically disgusted Becky at this point having Zero care for how others felt she was SO DONE. aha And Brad the poor ESTP oblivious to it... was like....I WAS SHARING though. 🤣You understand INFJ much better than you think....or than you care to reveal Krispy....I'm onto you... hehehe Oh and the conditioner reference... 😂Hope you had a wonderful vaction! Welcome back and thanks for the laughs!

  • @ghost-in_ablank3t499
    @ghost-in_ablank3t499 Рік тому +12

    1:49 As an ISTP with an INTP sibling I can confirm that this is how our interactions go. (When we aren't being siblings and trying to kill the other, that is) as for the food part. Yes. If I had nickle for every time I tricked them into doing something for me in exchange for food I'd be rich.

    • @ihopeyouhaveaniceday2520
      @ihopeyouhaveaniceday2520 Рік тому

      If only you kept those nickles instead of spending them on food bribes.

    • @ghost-in_ablank3t499
      @ghost-in_ablank3t499 Рік тому

      @@ihopeyouhaveaniceday2520 I do save them, only a little bit goes into them. Plus I make more everytime I bribe him

  • @thefrozenone417
    @thefrozenone417 Рік тому +4

    Love the fresh new looks! You nailed the ENFJ, that really is nightmare fuel.

  • @chinmayeerajaram8826
    @chinmayeerajaram8826 Рік тому +7

    One day i would love to see infp being badass in your video 😂
    Your acting is really really awesome especially the infp one caught my eye! brilliant acting.

  • @masso7701
    @masso7701 Рік тому +12

    The "if i had a dollar" hits very hard as an enfp

  • @thevegetablequeen
    @thevegetablequeen Рік тому +9

    Wow, you really nailed the INFJ. That is basically exactly how I would be in that same situation (INFJ). You also nailed the ISFJ, and the ENTP trolling everyone was a nice touch.

  • @justanordinarydemigay5243
    @justanordinarydemigay5243 Рік тому +78

    Kristin just really wants to give The Sound of Music a go, doesn't she?

  • @user-js4mt1nr2y
    @user-js4mt1nr2y Рік тому +11

    Wow scary accurate. My enfp friend forced me to go with on a speed date night. He liked every girl and was extremely enthousiastic about the night. I was just trying to let people down softly and was exhausted from the small talk and people pleasing. I can't just be myself in such a short time or I guess talk about myself I am full blown presenting and focussing on someone elses feelings. And it's so short I can't even talk about interesting things either. It was defenatly a nightmare. Especially with all these guys who struggled to even keep a conversation going.. It felt like I was their pep talk coach inbetween the next person and I wasn't there at all for myself. I figuered the high pace was just not for me. - enfj.

  • @jiyad674
    @jiyad674 Рік тому +17

    for some reason I just feel like the intp's friend has a crush on them and just asks them favors so that they can have a valid excuse treat them to dinner

  • @susanmicko33
    @susanmicko33 Рік тому +3

    As an ESTP, this one was definitely relatable. XD I would much rather start out talking about something fun than something deep right off the bat, because that's how I can see if they're a fun person with a good sense of humor. If not, then it probably won't work out anyways so why waste time getting all vulnerable and everything lol

  • @zzzcocopepe
    @zzzcocopepe Рік тому +4

    I love that ESFJ referenced ENTP. Some guy let me talk on for a whole minute about my kale salad recipe before turning on me and calling me a peon for the government
    Because it kind of shows that entp is just being an asshole as usual and ESFJ was just talkin about their fave dish

  • @Tinyy-Bubbles
    @Tinyy-Bubbles Рік тому +8

    I loved INTP & ISTP together

  • @edbutowsky9814
    @edbutowsky9814 Рік тому +7

    The ISTJ couldn’t bring her goggles because the person she just broke up with borrowed them without asking and broke them!

  • @ConnyMomusu
    @ConnyMomusu Рік тому +4

    ¡Hello! Im an ISFJ. While i actually like philosophy and enjoy reading philosophy books, it is true that i tend to consider it as just the abstract and way too far from real perceptible consequences. Even if they influence reality, we still get used and comfortable with reality as it is and get on with what we live in our particular lives. That is what has happened in history i believe. Plus, the arrogance of the INTJ would turn me off. However, listening carefully while smiling and responding "oh, wow!" its pretty much me at...any "conversation". :'D
    I must say i love how Kristin have mastered the ISFJ smile with the head moving and everything. Just loved it!

  • @lena424
    @lena424 Рік тому +6

    As an INTJ I had almost the same conversation once, not being able to understand then how one can be not curious about the implications of transcendental reality. Now I know how different people can be ^^"

  • @Spectacular-Spider-Dan
    @Spectacular-Spider-Dan Рік тому +3

    The call-back of the ENFP singing "my favorite things" was fantastic! I'd love it if you did more of that in the future!

  • @JackyVSO
    @JackyVSO Рік тому +8

    Well this is just brilliant!
    ... Ahem, sorry... What I mean to say is: To the extent that it's reasonable to evaluate videographic content in terms of objective quality, I would argue that this video performs quite well on most of the parameters that one might normally employ in order to determine brilliance. - INTP

  • @annabohatka8597
    @annabohatka8597 Рік тому +7

    I love that the INFP and ESTJ are in a skit together.

  • @jashepoon
    @jashepoon Рік тому +17

    OK THE ESTJ INFP INTERACTION, DID YOU HAVE TO CALL US OUT LIKE THAT 🤣☠
    "being of its own" hahahaha
    I'll take 6:18 as the actual reaction you had on Discord. It's canon to me

    • @yoby4984
      @yoby4984 Рік тому

      There's a discord server? May i join?

    • @jashepoon
      @jashepoon Рік тому +1

      @@yoby4984 if you're a Patron, yes! You just have to ask for an invite link under Kristin's newest posts :)

  • @heathertoomey7068
    @heathertoomey7068 Рік тому +6

    I'm an ENFP/J, and I have not had nightmares about small talk. And I totally would have been like the ENFP, finding something good in what they said despite not agreeing with them.
    And I thought the ESTP's interest in fun experiences and strategy were endearing. I wouldn't play paint ball with him without setting yp some ground rules first, so I don't have to go to the hospital, though.

  • @seth-leong-scott3474
    @seth-leong-scott3474 Рік тому +6

    I actually enjoyed ESFP and ENTJ’s interaction in this 😆

  • @hanantiayu5176
    @hanantiayu5176 Рік тому +6

    Thanks Kristin (?), Am i the only one whos always can guess my mbti type before the promp shows up?
    And i always right lol
    -ISTP

  • @darkpitt1
    @darkpitt1 Рік тому +4

    That interaction between the ENTJ and the ESFP. I can't even, how many times I've met a girl at a bar and that conversation plays out.

  • @catohung1020
    @catohung1020 Рік тому +7

    A prequel! Now we have to start putting kristin’s videos in chronological order

  • @xanttis604
    @xanttis604 Рік тому +8

    It's so great to participate in this journey with Kristin's films. So much fun, so good acting, so great insight, curiosity and understanding of interpersonal relations, MBTI, and so much playfulness in all of this. So much passion. It's so enjoyable to watch. Cheers, Kristin, and thank you!

  • @CineShinya
    @CineShinya Рік тому +8

    That was fun! To see the origins of B&B, the IXTP duo, ISTJ's mum and the ESFP look was very cool actually, Kristen could pull this hair-colour off really well! ...but to be fair being an ISFJ with a lot of INTJs as my closest people analysing various matters and concepts for hours and having perfect connection, the only part I sympathised in this part was the pointing out of the toothpaste stain...sorry...
    And being a published author myself, I had a déjà vu because I had many conversations similar to their with my ESFJ mum trying to get any thoughts of her after reading my books and try to see if she caught any of the details, symbolism or philosophy in there.... but all I get is a very vague positive reactions without any actual deep thought in it...😢 For an author just a compliment without elaborated thoughts on the work isn't enough...

  • @AkiraSasaki-cv1vd
    @AkiraSasaki-cv1vd Рік тому +2

    As an ISFJ
    I don't really think too deeply about anything, but I love hearing people talk about how deep things can affect one lives =v=
    there are times when I can understand.
    there are times when I just can't get on with what they're saying.
    TvT

  • @lidijakrneta3137
    @lidijakrneta3137 Рік тому +2

    THE MOST ACCURATE REPRESENTATION OF MYSELF! - ESTP

  • @leftunsupervised
    @leftunsupervised Рік тому +1

    The blue wig tho. Girl, you are WORKING it 😂

  • @edwright4892
    @edwright4892 Рік тому +5

    Another comedy 💎. Just the thought of speed dating drains my social 🔋 Slow messaging? 👍

  • @annetteellis2788
    @annetteellis2788 Рік тому +2

    Love the INTJ narrowing of the eyes. That is my "run, bitch" expression.

  • @xandera3940
    @xandera3940 Рік тому +4

    As an INFJ, I always listen to what the other person is saying, especially if its important to them. I definitely prefer deeper conversations but I understand how that makes a large amount of people uncomfortable 😂I might try to redirect but if they don't follow I just intently and genuinely listen. However, I always get people to open up 😈❤here's some warmth and empathy! ya sucker!

  • @applepatronum4934
    @applepatronum4934 Рік тому +3

    The ISFJ one was so well done because i did not understand a word that came out of INTJ's mouth hahaha!

  • @fakesilver746
    @fakesilver746 Рік тому +6

    00:00 ESTP - INFJ
    01:05 ENTP - ENFP
    01:53 INTP - ISTP
    02:40 INTJ - ISFJ
    03:53 ESFP - ENTJ
    04:50 ENFJ - ISFP
    05:55 ESTJ - INFP
    06:24 ESFJ - ISTJ

  • @ybnrml8
    @ybnrml8 Рік тому +2

    She nails the types with such accuracy so regularly, but increasingly she does me (ENFP) dirty! What was that nonsense? LOL

    • @sarahberkner
      @sarahberkner Рік тому

      She has a sister who is an ENFP, but I do think she's a little hard on them. I have met a couple ENFPs that fit her description I think, but I know they're not all as flaky.

  • @johannalenker1734
    @johannalenker1734 Рік тому +2

    Who else was like "Maaan I want to join the conversation with the INTJ soooo badly!!" I LOVE theological exchange. Kristin, is there any Chance you tell us what your PhD Theses you earlier mentioned was about, how the title is?
    But honestly, what a great video, you really made me laugh again, thank you so much!

  • @Jmoth792
    @Jmoth792 Рік тому +4

    The INTJ one was too accurate. From leaving our stoic shell to rant about some deep, philosophical concept to the look of impatient concern when our words are met with half assed smiles and glazed over eyes to the multitude of expressions of crushing frustration in our arsenal that we deploy almost always on accident when we realize we’re talking to what essentially is a sentient block of wood with little to no introspective or abstract thought.

  • @nityasa
    @nityasa Рік тому +3

    the isfj bit is sooo accurate, my isfj friends have no thoughts about what i sayy😭😭

    • @ilmanmufiydhaagustadia_1346
      @ilmanmufiydhaagustadia_1346 Рік тому +6

      As an isfj, i am sooo sorry, it's just that it doesn't mean that we don't care about what you're saying, it just means i don't really think too much about those kind of stuff

  • @daniellecward5400
    @daniellecward5400 Рік тому +1

    Another great one! Can we please see 16 personalities hanging out with their best friend (most compatible type)

  • @malakashraf2801
    @malakashraf2801 Рік тому +4

    Make a series of each type dating the 16 types

  • @amysiebert4752
    @amysiebert4752 Рік тому +3

    The INTJ is def relatable. Whenever I try to befriend anyone, I think "Great! Now I'll be able to have a deep meaningful connection with someone." But then they end up having literally no interet in any of the philosophical questions of life and my conversation topics go down to "Oh look how nice the weather is today."

  • @tanfrederika2123
    @tanfrederika2123 Рік тому

    Omg!!!! White wig hair and the comiccc shirt is too die for!!!!!!!! KRISTIN IS SLAYING ESFP!!
    ISFP shirt also great!

  • @catvalentine4317
    @catvalentine4317 Рік тому +3

    Yep, that ENFP was 100% me, even the slight annoyance 😂 well done 😊
    I actually never went speed dating and never will (as I met my soouulmate) but it seems fun if I'm in my social mood (like in the vid). If I'm not, I'd just sit there quietly, waiting desperately to find someone to actually comnect with, I'd guess..

    • @Meg_intheclouds
      @Meg_intheclouds Рік тому

      “If I’m in social mode”- ABSOLUTELY FEEL as a fellow ENFP

  • @TNRPISIQ
    @TNRPISIQ Рік тому +4

    The INFP one was absolutely hilarious

  • @bakachocorobo-kun4728
    @bakachocorobo-kun4728 Рік тому +3

    Honestly, I’d like to see an interaction between the shadow types where they kinda switch places. Like the ISTJ showing more impulsive side while the ESTP becomes paranoid while chasing after the ISTJ. The chaos that could come from the shadow types interacting like this would be amazing.

  • @stevenkinscherf6642
    @stevenkinscherf6642 Рік тому +1

    I liked the type combinations Kristin came up with. At first I thought it was gonna be opposite types b/c the first was INFJ-ESTP, but she had all different ones which was hysterical. My favorite was ENTP-ENFP! 😂

  • @simonetozzi7912
    @simonetozzi7912 5 місяців тому

    That happy piano music for the INFP was a surprise for me! 😂

  • @mudman619
    @mudman619 Рік тому +4

    lol. again, I feel like we ISTPs are given a raw deal here . . . we can converse with strangers one on one without being rude, it's usually not a problem - it's just a matter of remembering we're in a social construct & follow the rules. True, a speed dating scenario would be off-putting & uncomfortable, but if we were forced into it, we'd probably fire off quick, single words & make a game out of it to see how the other side would respond. And yeah, we'd probably want to leave ASAP lol. but once again, you nailed the INFJ, my ex-wife, whom I recognized immediately, lol.

    • @Cinderella-mc8kf
      @Cinderella-mc8kf Рік тому

      Hi tom, can you tell about your experience with your wife? Im trying to understand their relationship and interactions between them

  • @Spectacular-Spider-Dan
    @Spectacular-Spider-Dan Рік тому +1

    I'm still new at all things MBTI, but I felt like you really nailed the INFJ's conversation. I've had many similar ones.

  • @danielfranklin9784
    @danielfranklin9784 Рік тому +4

    After the virtual reality rollar coaster line, I thought "Ah, my intellectual brother, I feel your pain." Comments like that just suck the life and the joy out of you. It was still hilarious though. Great work Kristin.

  • @superstellarhere
    @superstellarhere Рік тому +2

    INFP’S lowkey accurate tho. if someone said that itd be head over heels too

  • @cloroxiclean7306
    @cloroxiclean7306 4 місяці тому

    My boyfriend is an ENFJ and im an ISFP and i honestly felt this in my soul. It took me a LOOOONG time to decide that i truly wanted to in a relationship with him (bless him he was very patient) and he also has mentioned that he had to wait a long time too and feel me out, and he asked a LOT of personal questions while getting to know me (which was....very strange at first but i eventually learned to love it.)

  • @lauracampbell4498
    @lauracampbell4498 Рік тому

    ENFP is very accurate, I find there's always a way to incorporate the sound of music soundtrack in most conversations

  • @lakonikos8791
    @lakonikos8791 Рік тому +1

    Kristin developed a way of acting for each personality in her videos that you can tell who’s who before it’s announced

  • @JohnHenrysaysHi
    @JohnHenrysaysHi Рік тому +2

    Round 1: ESTP vs INFJ- Hey Brad's back! Glad that he checked in with great spirits. But, he's 28 going on a date- INFJ wins. Sounds like he'd be fun to hang with though. Just maybe not father/head of household material yet.
    Round 2: ENTP-ENFP Not a big fan of a lot of psychology cuz skeptical in how the psychologist benefits from the patients' continual suffering where it's like endless Confession without absolution, and I'm not saying Confession is a replacement for therapy, but, for an analogy, from an outsider cynical perspective, the mutual benefit can be observed where the person and priest is spiritually benefited, and there's the hope that the healed person may financially and physically support the church.
    Point is, upon first impression of the ENFP, makes me think there might be an exception if this is a continuation of the people pleasing you previously touched on, but maybe she just needs a friend, and if this conversation went on, I mean, great call back to the thinker vs feeler short, but uh, kind of a repeat of the previous round is she mother of children worthy? Going to have the strength to raise children spiritually, morally, mentally, and physically?
    Or is she just reading the ENTP really well, where he's the one really need in help because he kicked things off as coming across as so pompous argumentative for no reason so was being really, but then rain drops on roses so maybe he was reading her... uh oh gotta go ... ties are worse than losing, so there has to be a winner, and ENFP wins!
    Can't wait to finish! Hope you have a great Valentines' Day, Kristin! Still think of your last skit!

  • @HannahNicollet
    @HannahNicollet Рік тому

    Wowwwwwwww Kristin that white wig with the comic tank - stunning you look like an artist 😍😍😍

  • @brandiek82
    @brandiek82 Рік тому +3

    Can all the INFJs please stand up and cheer with me?!? From the search for a shallow way to answer the question, "What's happening?" to the hardness at the end, this was brilliant and priceless! 😂 💕

  • @sarahberkner
    @sarahberkner Рік тому

    I like that you shipped the esfp and entj in this and now you're engaged to an entj.

  • @christopher4287
    @christopher4287 Рік тому

    Hey Kristin. You have probably already thought of this idea, but I wanted to suggest: 16 personalities and movies. In the same spirit as the 16 personalities as songs.
    Another cool video here. Love it!

  • @kindauncool
    @kindauncool Рік тому

    kristin. KRISTIN. I literally started shaking my fist at the screen at the ISFJ INTJ interaction.

  • @ashleyroesler4762
    @ashleyroesler4762 Рік тому +1

    great hat choice! - ISFP :)

  • @evelynthompson755
    @evelynthompson755 Рік тому +1

    I’m an INTJ and my moms an ISFJ. We speak a different language, but I love my mom.🤗

  • @silviagutierrez4375
    @silviagutierrez4375 10 місяців тому

    As an infj, I was kinda invested in the ESTP's story 😂 that's the way to make me like you. Kinda upset that she cut him off

  • @this_is_my_username200
    @this_is_my_username200 Місяць тому

    As an ISFP, I loved seeing the bit between ISFP and ENFJ. ENFJ's are by far my most favorite MBTI type and I hope to date one someday.

  • @ENFP7w8capranica
    @ENFP7w8capranica Рік тому +1

    The ENFP and ENTP were goldennnnnn!!!!!! AAaaaAAaaaa. XD also, poor little INFP * wants to hug her * -ENFP

  • @elaineeverdeen7337
    @elaineeverdeen7337 Рік тому

    I always thought of being a small-talk hater but this lady made me recalculate some things 3:53 ... Maybe I am a small-talker when someone wants to talk about "vulnerabilities", thanks ESFP you made me realize something

  • @CharlieAnderson-o7e
    @CharlieAnderson-o7e 7 місяців тому +1

    ENTP "What are your core values?"
    ENFP 'Sings Mama Mia'

  • @choonblaze
    @choonblaze Рік тому +2

    I loved the ISTJ - ESFJ part lol

  • @DreamerJoy
    @DreamerJoy Рік тому +2

    I take it the only ones that started dating each other are.
    ESFP and ENTJ
    ISFP and ENFJ (I know it ended before it got good, but you can pick which ones you liked most at the end of it.)

  • @ellier2018
    @ellier2018 Рік тому

    Brad and Becky!!! This is how they met!!! (Flowed by their break up in another dear Kristin video)

  • @SamAsm367
    @SamAsm367 Рік тому

    That was a super-fascinating philosophical rant from the INTJ, and it's uncomfortably familiar. I get that way when I'm working on a project. My brother gave me a whole , very, very pragmatic lecture on the value of small talk. Personally, it's not for me but I understand its place in the arsenal - and I would rather not - but I can.

  • @denisesiddon7241
    @denisesiddon7241 Рік тому +1

    Infp. Just like the younger me having crushes at a drop of a hat. How accurate

  • @correoordinario2010
    @correoordinario2010 Рік тому +2

    As an INFJ I am so lucky my father is an ESTP.
    Because I know I will never date one. I know their bast and their worse.
    But I must admit my father is super interested in classical literature and cinema even though being and ESTP, and we have very substantial conversations 😁 (because we are father and daughter)
    P.s. with an ENFP mother, she looks very alike Kristen depiction xD