Good for you!!! I was in my 60’s. I am 72 now. I have been fully awakened for 7 or more years. I find it wonderful for me….& sad (for them) That they waste their lives the way they do. Angry, selfish, jealous, deceptive,hateful etc. It must be hell on earth to go around the way they do! Yes, rotten to the core pretty much describes them. The worst part…… they want to “make you” just like they are. Their goal is to DESTROY. SO!!! Avoid at all costs these demons of doom. Their master is Satan, make no mistake. Never allow their darkness dim your “LIGHT”> Many, many tried their hardest to ruin my life….Because of a fantastic husband & God, I am alive & well today. BELIEVE ME, that was NOT theplan of the “haters (fake people”)for me. It took a lot for me to see what these creatures were up to, because I was WAY TOO TRUSTING…. NOT ANYMORE> Keep your circle small. Trust & obey God. Enjoy life, TOXIC FREE❤ Blesings😊
@@WisconsinWandererSorry about that Wisconsin. My ex deliberately and intentionally set out to cancel me largely succeeded. Many people we both know and whom I thought were my friends were not. A painful lesson!
I’ve had to walk away from many people who deliberately gaslight me to watch the pain of betrayal wash over my face, this betrayal and hurt is only given by a true psychopath
You have to know that they have done more harm to themselves than to you. To know that you are deliberately evil while pretending to be decent costs them a lot of energy and self-contempt.
Wow, so absolutely spot on! I was married to a narcissist and encountered another one along the way.... I've said it before, this is what children should be learning in school.... It would save a lot of wasted time and heartache!
@@privateuno8897 I was so totally unprepared for life... It took a lot of heartache along the way to understand that so many people have agenda's and that their words did not match their actions. I was naive and although I now have wisdom, it was all very hard earned... I wish I would have heard this level of advice...
@@craftlover9702 Same here. I was a devoted husband and father for 13 years. I got stabbed in the back, insulted, betrayed, and degraded many times over the years. One day I woke up and walked away. She cried, begged, promised, and pleaded with me for years. I never went back. I have had a great life since that time and am now married to a wonderful and devoted wife. Never settle, guys. Find your inner strength and the world will fall before your feet.
I had the same dreadful experience. For sure it's easier to learn through bitter experience, I just wonder how you could teach this to a young person in such a way that wouldn't make them too distrusting so they missed out on something good. I also suspect that hormones and evolved behaviour would take over. Young people are pre programmed to breed so would they listen? If you haven't met a narcissist and were brought up in a loving family you can't imagine what abusive people will take from you.
Forgiveness for a toxic person is useless, since they will take it that you are willing to continue to put up with their selfish betrayals. Forgiveness is best applied as a bank would to a deadbeat loan. The person has proven who they are, best to write them off and not give them a chance to do the same thing again.
@@allenvayner4987no incorrect actually. True Forgiveness by the bible is where the person seeking forgiveness is truly contrite and provides penance for their wrong doing in genuine way. In this way - they truly regret and change their behaviour - then they qualify for forgiveness from the person that was on the receiving end of the wrong.
I needed to hear this. I've been far too trusting because i struggle to believe that people get pleasure from deliberatey hurting others. I've given people too much of my kindness, time, and energy and believed that they would see the error of their ways and not continuously hurt me. I just needed boundaries all this time. Schools need to teach about boundaries, especially when parents were never taught them.
Yes gill,here is my experiences, i wish i knew those boundaries i so wished i was taught from my peers , i too thought as you did only to be used and taken advantage of,i have been like this all my life,i thought being kind was the most generous gift i could give,thinking i am doing good to folk,i have paid so very dearly much to my cost not only in monetary terms but far more than that value,my time and effort to people i should not have,for far to long and many,many times run around folk who i thought are my friends even sacrificing my own family needs,not all but many,the feeling of damage to oneself is incalculable, it is mixed up with the realisation of guilt and punishment of letting yourself be used with ones own kindness exploited to the max ,i am in perpetual torture to myself because it seems impossible to let go and forget my time love and kindness used and abused to my own health, body and mind,so much that vengeance i know is wrong to have yet feels so rewarding only in thought, it never leaves me,but that alone eats away at my soul,anyones soul like a cancer,in writing this the feeling of revenge is haunting me,i want those using basterds to feel what i felt after realising the quantity of being hurt,hurts an understatement,the only comparison i can only guess at is how it must feel after being raped,captured used and ravaged, the very essence of ones being desecrated, tossed away and disgarded,no longer any use to be had once one has served your purpose and then deserted as fast as possible, distancing widely, not a thought of remorse from them,only the pleasure of the benifit extracted,sucked out like a vacuum packed item,damn their souls,it matters one jott,no conscience at all,pehaps glee,satisfaction that they are the beneficiary of their deceit and cunning ,no boundaries at play there its kept hidden right next to the box marked how to exploit good people.
I am right there with you! Keep strong and have courage. It's a daily fight to keep boundaries but it's survival, you have too protect yourself. 2025 will be a better year for us :)
Problem is, sick toxic people don't SEE boundaries and don't really care. Some get paid in favors to do what they do. They're control freaks who want to make all the decisions. They have money power and people power.
I was shut down for fifteen years, yielded a wall around me so high that no person could get through. I let go and I am much happier. Let others get through. I am still guarded but am getting there.
Psychopathic, narcassistic, madness and badness. *I am now at peace with only those special people in my life. Mr Hopkins is a very wise man. This is one of the most helpful posts I have ever heard.
I had the unfortunate experience of dating two narcissists back to back following the death of my husband. The second one was devastating. If this is your pattern, my advice is to get yourself into therapy as soon as possible and figure out why you accept this behavior to begin with. For me, it was years of unresolved childhood trauma and never receiving grief counseling after the accidental death of my husband. I thought I was doing fine, obviously I was not.
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beautiful believers also are in this housebof worship. after years of Jezebel spirit abuse, I exited to safety in loving churches
What if was a long time employer…. That intentionally bullied and betrayed. I lost a career and home and confidence in my mid fifties, with my life turned upside down by the shock, loss, and trauma. Have had chronic anxiety and mental health issues since. There is no “allowing them back in my life”. There is just ongoing grief and anxiety
Life can often “FAIR WEATHER FRIENDS “ , it often comes at the expense of self worth. Happiness , Joy and Love ❤️ in this New Year. Life is an endless journey of Growth.
Thank you. I foolishly gave him a second chance which he swiftly defiled. Eyes fully open now, I no longer shall permit anyone to bring to me harm. I forgive him, he has a long journey to walk upon. I leave him, as I turn away and take my journey far away from the toxicity he gives with intent and cruelly
It’s also a Godsend from wonderful people like you, who make channels like this to aid in that strength. Your message affirms that we can all take solace in the belief of good choices when we deny them access to negative influences and intentional behavior. Thank you, ❤
I only recently came across this channel and it's helped me reinforce the way I was brought up as the right way. The struggle I deal with is loving a amazing person with Bipolar
There is so much information and help nowadays on this disorder. In 1968/9 there was nothing and nobody spoke about it or explained what happened to my dear beautiful fragile sister. Best wishes to you.
I want to extend my deepest gratitude and appreciation to "Old Soul" for the incredible videos they produce. Their content consistently resonates with viewers, offering insightful and thought-provoking perspectives. Each video is a testament to their dedication, creativity, and passion for storytelling. As a viewer, I have been profoundly impacted by the quality and depth of their work. From the bottom of my heart, thank you, "Old Soul," for sharing your unique voice and enriching our lives with your remarkable videos. Best regards, Gavin Dallas
This talk is based on the presumption that the person who caused the intentional harm is wanting to be back in your life, and that you have the choice to say no. Many betrayals and intentional harm do not have this element. Instead the person/organisation has harmed and walked away forever. The trauma of this is deeply painful and damaging
So. Forgiveness is a blessing for me, not for them. I've never thought of it like that before. What a liberating idea. Forgiveness is a cleansing of my own mind, body, and spirit from hatred, anger, revenge, and feelings of negatively that that such abuse brings. It's me that benefits most, not my enemy's. They benefit from repentance and a change of Hart, which cleanses them by the power of the Holy Spirit. 🙏
Try that on someone who continuously does you harm… then see how you go with that….. even an animal that is continuously mistreated would not put up with that.
@damianmousley2098 Walk away from such people. Have nothing to do with them. Find new friends who are good people. Even if that means moving somewhere new.
Be clear about your boundaries as soon as there’s an infraction that is the moment to assert yourself about your needs, such the need for respect, to be heard, the need for autonomy etc. If they become reactive and don’t hear you that is the time to avoid them.
I wish i had read Gods word on this subject and listened to his words.... Allthe Glory to God also for leading me to this video,,, I had 64 years of hurt and betrayals which took its damage as you can imagine,,,,I thought I was doing the right thing tp stay... but the results are here.....Thank you too,Mr Hopkins for that enlightening video,,,, Surely it will help somone who needs it now,,,, It helped me in ways i cant express here... .. much Love ....
People who are mosley close like family, hurt, abuse and insult, because they already knowing you're always there and going nowhere.( family is family)And If you object their behavior, they simply say :" there is no doubt that I LOVE YOU."
Our love would entitle them to exploit us further. Cruel people would not accept their wrongs and play victim sometimes. Keeping a safe distance is the only way
Yes, and... sometimes bad people aren't easily removed from your community, or letting them go means letting go of an entire community. Then, you need to find a way dealing with such people. Then, sometimes the best is to find THEIR weaknesses and play them preemptively. It works like a charm.
"You can't move forward while holding on to the weight of the past." (Anthony Hopkins ❤) A fundamental truth most of us won't meet in the early stages of their lives! Never mix up/confound pernicious attacks on your person/soul with thoughtless mistakes/remarks unintentionally made in a bad mood/moment! "A friend might hurt, an enemy will kill you." Yet finding out the difference ain't always that easy, for lying /deception is common coin in a godless world we are living in- devoid of honesty and dependability. Therefore: "Be on the watch, pray to the Most High God for the wisdom you need to find out the difference!"
Take time to heal and move on with the wisdom from it all. I am taking responsibility for my own actions in it all. This message reaffirms what I went through for years. Thank You Anthony
I made the mistake of letting a neighbor back into my life a second time who intentionally tried to put me in jail. This was a huge mistake on my part as I was opening the door for her to violate me a second time. I thought the lesson was about forgiving her, but I was dead wrong. Now I have learned to shut her out of my life completely and honor my own protection and boundaries. This is an important message.
Hvala za to pojasnilo! Res je,če jasno postaviš meje,posebno tistim,ki so te prizadeli,s to odločnostjo zavaruješ sebe in več ne pustiš da ti še kdaj škodujejo!
A wonderful message of clarity delivered so eloquently. Just because you have an open heart that loves unconditionally it does not mean that that you don't show those who wish to diminish your love and light the strength and force and power of the unconditional love you hold for yourself. Hold zero tolerance for anyone who wishes to diminiish you in any way.💗💗💗.
Last week I was playing with a cat and got scratched in the process so I left. Today I seen the same cat attempting to play with me again, thought of this video and said "Never again!" and kept walking with my integrity intact.
Boy did I need to hear this today. Wow. I knew all these things but have felt like Im MEANT to teach my covert narcissistic husband(who TRICKED ME 28 yrs ago) how to LOVE. Im done dealing with the consequences it causes only ME. Thank you for this message🙏. Sending 💕🙏😘🤗2all😇
Yeah, choosing one's own self is the best way to do.. It strongly opens the door to go forward. Strength over a cheap illusion. Walking away is always caused by the rubbish you needn't grow up or cultivate. Simply,let them behind, not allowing them to become a part of your past. They do not need memories or experience. As they do not deserve anything, literally anything.
I know they did, and I would never. I can forgive without forgetting. And I would never ever allow someone who has such evil intent in their hearts and souls back into my life. Never.
Happy New Year to all my brothers and sisters on this world! Let’s all pray that January the 20th never take place, that for God nothing Is impossible!!
Thanks to make me aware... When I know it was intentionally... But due to emotional attachment we always go back to that person n gave power that person to damage u again... That's the time when u need stop urself... Thanks for the exact time what my energy is going through right now...
Thank you Sir Old Soul - so confirming, and I have realised trough 70 years, even against my parent - with releaving results in relation to them. But in relation to children it is more complex and has to be communicated more diplomatic, if possibel.
My comfort comes from the Lord Jesus Christ who saw, and heard it all!! God’s justice will rain down of them! Their actions of hate hurt more people than just their intended target and God sees this too!! Thank you for your channel!! Thank you God!! 🙏❤️🕊🌟🎶🌹🎚️⚖️💝
I've been dealing with a web of people who were never introduced to me. They just jumped into my life despite my moving away. I have few resources to deal with the situation. One guy handed me over to a young stud actor as if we had a relationship. I don't even know who he was. He also showed up at a restaurant grinning at me. Then walked away. He and other men would show up and expect me to know what to say. I say it was like dogs pissing in me to mark their territory. Several big dogs.
It’s not about revenge it’s about speaking your truth as peoples lives get ruined from defamation of character and why should they get away with it? These people have badges and jobs in high places where they making billions of dollars out of hurting people. I think humans should have the rights and they should be spoken about publicly says people are wearing the future.
I will not give up on hope for them or for me. These things remain. Faith, Hope, and Love. We must strengthen the things that remain. The greatest of these? And Who is Love?
GOD bless and 🙏 thank you. That WAS my PAST and NEVER to be forgotten. I have found ME and my spunk again and it’s wonderful. So hard to believe that some people could be so cruel. Happy New Year 🥳 and may lasting peace come asap to OUR BEAUTIFUL WORLD. 🙏💝🙏💝🙏💝🙏
Bless New Year everyone 💫💫 Well said I felt like you were speaking to me directly , I intend to make changes for the New Year and I will not be looking back going forward with a positive mind set all the way. I will keep in mind what you said thanks for sharing wonderful knowledge 😘
You can never be safe against this until you will completely close yourself inward. And if you will do, you are dead. Please don't. Better to be harmed again and again and again and again, than to close yourself. All the pain is making your stronger and you keep yourself open either to harm and love.
I was harmed by someone in the NHS who didn’t give me her name, but who’s name I now know. Then an NHS psychologist whose only intention was to force me to detransition, then by, the infectious diseases doctor calling me a liar as I poured my heart and soul out, then by the psychiatrist. I would gladly walk away though it means my certain death.
There is also a Mindset of taking things the opposite way , it hurts but then when mind is clear stable it changes completely. So in making decisions I must also be clear of myself . I am only sure of my own actions are Never to Hurt anybody else . Of that I am sure only. I’m far too busy in my mind dealing with my own shit to even think of that!!
Never Ever Has A Second Choice To Let Some Buddy Insult Your Self With Any Respect , Stay Away And Tell Some One You Trust So They Would Not Fall Same Like You Any More , Free Your Self About Carring A Foolish Maners , Take Care Of You And Love You Like Not Buddy Does My Friends♥️♥️♥️😎
I’m sorry but the way you think is kind and yet helpful to not intentionally hurt someone. So much personal intelligence is just that sexy in a man, fabulous. Anthony Hopkins dam❣️
It took me YEARS to accept that certain people are rotten to the core & they are NOT sorry for hurting you.
They took a lot from themselves and don't care either.
Stay away these people aer EVIL feels so good to not be around them
what you say is the truth unfortunately, my ex wife who i dearly loved just gutted me to my soul.
Good for you!!! I was in my 60’s. I am 72 now. I have been fully awakened for 7 or more years. I find it wonderful for me….& sad (for them) That they waste their lives the way they do. Angry, selfish, jealous, deceptive,hateful etc. It must be hell on earth to go around the way they do! Yes, rotten to the core pretty much describes them. The worst part…… they want to “make you” just like they are. Their goal is to DESTROY. SO!!! Avoid at all costs these demons of doom. Their master is Satan, make no mistake. Never allow their darkness dim your “LIGHT”> Many, many tried their hardest to ruin my life….Because of a fantastic husband & God, I am alive & well today. BELIEVE ME, that was NOT theplan of the “haters (fake people”)for me. It took a lot for me to see what these creatures were up to, because I was WAY TOO TRUSTING…. NOT ANYMORE> Keep your circle small. Trust & obey God. Enjoy life, TOXIC FREE❤ Blesings😊
@@WisconsinWandererSorry about that Wisconsin. My ex deliberately and intentionally set out to cancel me largely succeeded. Many people we both know and whom I thought were my friends were not. A painful lesson!
It's exceptionally painful when it's family intentionally harming you... Thank you for the wise words. These videos help. ❤
Wow you just wrote my story
I waited for the change, the apologies and reconciliation. It won't come. EVER. If they can burn you emotionally with no remorse,......RUN.
They play victim too. Only way is to distance them
Narcissist 😢
Great advice .👌🏻🙏🕊
@@glorianieves3433yes!!!
I’ve had to walk away from many people who deliberately gaslight me to watch the pain of betrayal wash over my face, this betrayal and hurt is only given by a true psychopath
@ boy can i relate my friend 😊
Many people? Maybe it's you.
Are you blind? Most people are psychopaths. Love creating dramas @@orangewarm1
@orangewarm1. No, it’s thoughtless, insensitive, aholes that crash around without a care for anyone but themselves. There are just so many…..
You have to know that they have done more harm to themselves than to you. To know that you are deliberately evil while pretending to be decent costs them a lot of energy and self-contempt.
Wow, so absolutely spot on! I was married to a narcissist and encountered another one along the way.... I've said it before, this is what children should be learning in school.... It would save a lot of wasted time and heartache!
I said the same thing. This should be taught by good parents and also in a good learning center for children.
@@privateuno8897 I was so totally unprepared for life... It took a lot of heartache along the way to understand that so many people have agenda's and that their words did not match their actions. I was naive and although I now have wisdom, it was all very hard earned... I wish I would have heard this level of advice...
@@craftlover9702 Same here. I was a devoted husband and father for 13 years. I got stabbed in the back, insulted, betrayed, and degraded many times over the years. One day I woke up and walked away. She cried, begged, promised, and pleaded with me for years. I never went back. I have had a great life since that time and am now married to a wonderful and devoted wife. Never settle, guys. Find your inner strength and the world will fall before your feet.
I had the same dreadful experience. For sure it's easier to learn through bitter experience, I just wonder how you could teach this to a young person in such a way that wouldn't make them too distrusting so they missed out on something good. I also suspect that hormones and evolved behaviour would take over. Young people are pre programmed to breed so would they listen? If you haven't met a narcissist and were brought up in a loving family you can't imagine what abusive people will take from you.
Amen. School could teach assertiveness training, setting boundaries, positive parenting skills. Many students have expressed the desire for this.
I gave a second chance and it was the worst thing I ever did, things got so much worse, I finally walked away, no more I’m done.
Happy new year to all .move on to joy ,peace ,and love ,❤
Thank you. Hard time of the year to be betrayed isolated and abandoned by the one I’ve invested blindly so much of my life into.
@@brisknclear all the best to you, hope that great that this powerful podcast helped you go through the hard time you have been through. Much love ❤
Such a stupid remark. "Move on" as if people are choosing not to heal? Idiot.
Forgiveness for a toxic person is useless, since they will take it that you are willing to continue to put up with their selfish betrayals. Forgiveness is best applied as a bank would to a deadbeat loan. The person has proven who they are, best to write them off and not give them a chance to do the same thing again.
BINGO!!
But Jesus taught to forgive, leave the rest in God's hands
@@allenvayner4987no incorrect actually. True Forgiveness by the bible is where the person seeking forgiveness is truly contrite and provides penance for their wrong doing in genuine way. In this way - they truly regret and change their behaviour - then they qualify for forgiveness from the person that was on the receiving end of the wrong.
As it has been said, when someone tells you who they are, believe them. Telling can be by behavior too, not only by their words.
I needed to hear this. I've been far too trusting because i struggle to believe that people get pleasure from deliberatey hurting others. I've given people too much of my kindness, time, and energy and believed that they would see the error of their ways and not continuously hurt me. I just needed boundaries all this time. Schools need to teach about boundaries, especially when parents were never taught them.
It feels so good to just walk away. It's freeing!
Yes gill,here is my experiences, i wish i knew those boundaries i so wished i was taught from my peers , i too thought as you did only to be used and taken advantage of,i have been like this all my life,i thought being kind was the most generous gift i could give,thinking i am doing good to folk,i have paid so very dearly much to my cost not only in monetary terms but far more than that value,my time and effort to people i should not have,for far to long and many,many times run around folk who i thought are my friends even sacrificing my own family needs,not all but many,the feeling of damage to oneself is incalculable, it is mixed up with the realisation of guilt and punishment of letting yourself be used with ones own kindness exploited to the max ,i am in perpetual torture to myself because it seems impossible to let go and forget my time love and kindness used and abused to my own health, body and mind,so much that vengeance i know is wrong to have yet feels so rewarding only in thought, it never leaves me,but that alone eats away at my soul,anyones soul like a cancer,in writing this the feeling of revenge is haunting me,i want those using basterds to feel what i felt after realising the quantity of being hurt,hurts an understatement,the only comparison i can only guess at is how it must feel after being raped,captured used and ravaged, the very essence of ones being desecrated, tossed away and disgarded,no longer any use to be had once one has served your purpose and then deserted as fast as possible, distancing widely, not a thought of remorse from them,only the pleasure of the benifit extracted,sucked out like a vacuum packed item,damn their souls,it matters one jott,no conscience at all,pehaps glee,satisfaction that they are the beneficiary of their deceit and cunning ,no boundaries at play there its kept hidden right next to the box marked how to exploit good people.
I am your twin... couldn't believe that my siblings want to hurt me. They jeot it up for years. Now I have closed the door. Happy at last.
I am right there with you! Keep strong and have courage. It's a daily fight to keep boundaries but it's survival, you have too protect yourself. 2025 will be a better year for us :)
Problem is, sick toxic people don't SEE boundaries and don't really care. Some get paid in favors to do what they do. They're control freaks who want to make all the decisions. They have money power and people power.
I’ve been hurt so much… I’m been traumatised
I don’t think I can trust anyone
Yes. You're not alone. Unfortunately this is also my story in this shit life
Same here.
I was shut down for fifteen years, yielded a wall around me so high that no person could get through. I let go and I am much happier. Let others get through. I am still guarded but am getting there.
And here
Feed yourself great messages, it's ok to make mistakes, we learn move on.
Psychopathic, narcassistic, madness and badness. *I am now at peace with only those special people in my life. Mr Hopkins is a very wise man. This is one of the most helpful posts I have ever heard.
This is AI generated and most likely unlicensed by Hopkins
Absolutely. 👌🏻🙏🕊
I dont think he's actually narrating but it does sound like him.
Great advice. Thank you.😊🌟👍
When you’re ready to be on your own and come to relish the peace it gives you lose interest in these people.
Yes, this is so right. My sister hurt me, badly, and she said, "I'm sorry you feel that way."
My sister just said: you are over sensitive. She has anger issues towards me only, not on her husband and beloved son
Yep my sister has harmed me to using her husband. A envious, petty, spiteful woman. That only cares about herself
Unacceptable that she did that
@@irenet3204dear person,thats a term,reply,excuse of a narcissist that ive heard many times used,be kind to yourself,all the best❤
I hate when people say that because it's like they are trying to invalidate your feelings about what they did.
His harm was indeed intentional. Two years later, I am still putting myself together and further understanding what was really done.
Thank you
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As I've seen others do this, take what you like, and leave the rest. It works! It helps you recuperate much more quickly. 🎉🎉
Happy new year to you all❤❤🎉🎉
I love Anthony Hopkins. I wish I had a parent like this great man.
🕊My Self-worth
🕊Integrity 👸🏾
🕊Is Priceless
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I can’t stand watching this but I know it’s 100%
I had the unfortunate experience of dating two narcissists back to back following the death of my husband. The second one was devastating. If this is your pattern, my advice is to get yourself into therapy as soon as possible and figure out why you accept this behavior to begin with. For me, it was years of unresolved childhood trauma and never receiving grief counseling after the accidental death of my husband. I thought I was doing fine, obviously I was not.
beautiful believers also are in this housebof worship. after years of Jezebel spirit abuse, I exited to safety in loving churches
What if was a long time employer…. That intentionally bullied and betrayed. I lost a career and home and confidence in my mid fifties, with my life turned upside down by the shock, loss, and trauma. Have had chronic anxiety and mental health issues since.
There is no “allowing them back in my life”. There is just ongoing grief and anxiety
Life can often “FAIR WEATHER FRIENDS “ , it often comes at the expense of self worth.
Happiness , Joy and Love ❤️ in this New Year.
Life is an endless journey of Growth.
Thank you. I foolishly gave him a second chance which he swiftly defiled. Eyes fully open now, I no longer shall permit anyone to bring to me harm. I forgive him, he has a long journey to walk upon. I leave him, as I turn away and take my journey far away from the toxicity he gives with intent and cruelly
Thank you for every single word is very important. 👍👍👍🙏❤️
It’s also a Godsend from wonderful people like you, who make channels like this to aid in that strength. Your message affirms that we can all take solace in the belief of good choices when we deny them access to negative influences and intentional behavior.
Thank you, ❤
I only recently came across this channel and it's helped me reinforce the way I was brought up as the right way. The struggle I deal with is loving a amazing person with Bipolar
There is so much information and help nowadays on this disorder. In 1968/9 there was nothing and nobody spoke about it or explained what happened to my dear beautiful fragile sister. Best wishes to you.
I really needed to hear this today, thank you so much.
I’ll listen to this daily 😊to try and keep them at bay. ❤
This find me in the best posibble time in need. Thank you
I want to extend my deepest gratitude and appreciation to "Old Soul" for the incredible videos they produce. Their content consistently resonates with viewers, offering insightful and thought-provoking perspectives. Each video is a testament to their dedication, creativity, and passion for storytelling. As a viewer, I have been profoundly impacted by the quality and depth of their work. From the bottom of my heart, thank you, "Old Soul," for sharing your unique voice and enriching our lives with your remarkable videos.
Best regards, Gavin Dallas
By the way, how deep IS your gratitude?
Well said!
This talk is based on the presumption that the person who caused the intentional harm is wanting to be back in your life, and that you have the choice to say no. Many betrayals and intentional harm do not have this element. Instead the person/organisation has harmed and walked away forever. The trauma of this is deeply painful and damaging
So. Forgiveness is a blessing for me, not for them. I've never thought of it like that before. What a liberating idea. Forgiveness is a cleansing of my own mind, body, and spirit from hatred, anger, revenge, and feelings of negatively that that such abuse brings. It's me that benefits most, not my enemy's.
They benefit from repentance and a change of Hart, which cleanses them by the power of the Holy Spirit. 🙏
Try that on someone who continuously does you harm… then see how you go with that….. even an animal that is continuously mistreated would not put up with that.
@damianmousley2098
Walk away from such people. Have nothing to do with them. Find new friends who are good people. Even if that means moving somewhere new.
Be clear about your boundaries as soon as there’s an infraction that is the moment to assert yourself about your needs, such the need for respect, to be heard, the need for autonomy etc. If they become reactive and don’t hear you that is the time to avoid them.
I wish i had read Gods word on this subject and listened to his words.... Allthe Glory to God also for leading me to this video,,, I had 64 years of hurt and betrayals which took its damage as you can imagine,,,,I thought I was doing the right thing tp stay... but the results are here.....Thank you too,Mr Hopkins for that enlightening video,,,, Surely it will help somone who needs it now,,,, It helped me in ways i cant express here... .. much Love ....
People who are mosley close like family, hurt, abuse and insult, because they already knowing you're always there and going nowhere.( family is family)And If you object their behavior, they simply say :" there is no doubt that
I LOVE YOU."
Our love would entitle them to exploit us further. Cruel people would not accept their wrongs and play victim sometimes. Keeping a safe distance is the only way
Yes, and... sometimes bad people aren't easily removed from your community, or letting them go means letting go of an entire community. Then, you need to find a way dealing with such people. Then, sometimes the best is to find THEIR weaknesses and play them preemptively. It works like a charm.
This video was the right one for me today! Thank you from mycket heart!❤
Thank you Sir Anthony Hopkins. I needed to hear that.
Happy New Year. 🙂
☀️💛God has given me The Bright Morning Star
"You can't move forward while holding on to the weight of the past." (Anthony Hopkins ❤)
A fundamental truth most of us won't meet in the early stages of their lives! Never mix up/confound pernicious attacks on your person/soul with thoughtless mistakes/remarks unintentionally made in a bad mood/moment!
"A friend might hurt, an enemy will kill you." Yet finding out the difference ain't always that easy, for lying /deception is common coin in a godless world we are living in- devoid of honesty and dependability.
Therefore: "Be on the watch, pray to the Most High God for the wisdom you need to find out the difference!"
No One Gets A Second Chance With Me!
I understand entirely
Take time to heal and move on with the wisdom from it all. I am taking responsibility for my own actions in it all. This message reaffirms what I went through for years.
Thank You
Anthony
I made the mistake of letting a neighbor back into my life a second time who intentionally tried to put me in jail. This was a huge mistake on my part as I was opening the door for her to violate me a second time. I thought the lesson was about forgiving her, but I was dead wrong. Now I have learned to shut her out of my life completely and honor my own protection and boundaries. This is an important message.
Hvala za to pojasnilo! Res je,če jasno postaviš meje,posebno tistim,ki so te prizadeli,s to odločnostjo zavaruješ sebe in več ne pustiš da ti še kdaj škodujejo!
Thank you very much Sir Hopkins
PRECIOUS ADVICE AND VERY IMPORTANT🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹❤❤❤
A wonderful message of clarity delivered so eloquently. Just because you have an open heart that loves unconditionally it does not mean that that you don't show those who wish to diminish your love and light the strength and force and power of the unconditional love you hold for yourself. Hold zero tolerance for anyone who wishes to diminiish you in any way.💗💗💗.
EXACTLY RUN
Last week I was playing with a cat and got scratched in the process so I left. Today I seen the same cat attempting to play with me again, thought of this video and said "Never again!" and kept walking with my integrity intact.
Boy did I need to hear this today. Wow. I knew all these things but have felt like Im MEANT to teach my covert narcissistic husband(who TRICKED ME 28 yrs ago) how to LOVE. Im done dealing with the consequences it causes only ME. Thank you for this message🙏. Sending 💕🙏😘🤗2all😇
This is the out so I could breath and live again. ❤
Yeah, choosing one's own self is the best way to do.. It strongly opens the door to go forward. Strength over a cheap illusion. Walking away is always caused by the rubbish you needn't grow up or cultivate. Simply,let them behind, not allowing them to become a part of your past. They do not need memories or experience. As they do not deserve anything, literally anything.
I know they did, and I would never. I can forgive without forgetting. And I would never ever allow someone who has such evil intent in their hearts and souls back into my life. Never.
I stand in God’s Word, and trust Him for His miraculous provision. Thank you Father. Where there’s no way, financially, you make a way 🙌🏻🙏🙏 Amen
♥️Thank you Mr. Anthony♥️Wonderful video♥️ and have a wonderful happy new year♥️
This is everything I have 'learned' over the years and more. Everything.
Perfectly said sir 💗💚
Amen and for the words spoken to protect the truth❤😊
Thankyou for your message teachings hallelujah Shalom Baruch HaShem prayer and meditation
Thankyou. Yes so many times and never even mentioned again…never mind a spoken apology…you can’t keep taking that. Choose You. ❤️☘️
Every woman needs to see this ❤
Happy New Year to all my brothers and sisters on this world! Let’s all pray that January the 20th never take place, that for God nothing Is impossible!!
?????? What planet are you from?
Not planet. ..but the world of ignorance & stupidity
Amen Jesus Amen 🔥🙏💝 Thank you Jesus 💕🙏 💝
This made me cry 😢 thank you much i needed that reassurance. 🎉
Me too
YES 🙌 THAT IS THE ABSOLUTE TRUTH 🎉❤
Hannibal Lector giving relationship advice 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Depending who they target, it will be their last, there are variety of others, they think everyone is the same
Oh well. I guess they felt they needed to hurt someone. 🎉
Thanks to make me aware... When I know it was intentionally... But due to emotional attachment we always go back to that person n gave power that person to damage u again... That's the time when u need stop urself... Thanks for the exact time what my energy is going through right now...
Oh would love to have tea with you! Thanks for sharing this🌺🐾
This is about justice! They will never reenter my life.
Thank you Sir Old Soul - so confirming, and I have realised trough 70 years, even against my parent - with releaving results in relation to them.
But in relation to children it is more complex and has to be communicated more diplomatic, if possibel.
Yes I open my heart to chose my on my self to change this New Year's that I respect this person is coming deep in my heart Tq
Thank You Anthony
My comfort comes from the Lord Jesus Christ who saw, and heard it all!!
God’s justice will rain down of them!
Their actions of hate hurt more people than just their intended target and God sees this too!!
Thank you for your channel!!
Thank you God!!
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Love it! Awesome!
Powerfullest force ❤..
Thank you for❤
the truth
i love your clear words... thank you....
Its AI lol
@@shawnc318 It does state inspired by - it is very close to Anthony Hopkins and the words are sage.
Thanks. I need this insight
Yes!, Thank You For This Reminder...
Inspirational thank you
I love you ❤ Happy New Year!
Very true. I love this message ❤
Mr. Anthony. It's such a nice words going to my soul . Thank you very much for shearing wisdom . Happy New year.
I've been dealing with a web of people who were never introduced to me. They just jumped into my life despite my moving away. I have few resources to deal with the situation. One guy handed me over to a young stud actor as if we had a relationship. I don't even know who he was. He also showed up at a restaurant grinning at me. Then walked away. He and other men would show up and expect me to know what to say. I say it was like dogs pissing in me to mark their territory. Several big dogs.
It’s not about revenge it’s about speaking your truth as peoples lives get ruined from defamation of character and why should they get away with it? These people have badges and jobs in high places where they making billions of dollars out of hurting people. I think humans should have the rights and they should be spoken about publicly says people are wearing the future.
I will not give up on hope for them or for me. These things remain. Faith, Hope, and Love. We must strengthen the things that remain. The greatest of these? And Who is Love?
GOD bless and 🙏 thank you.
That WAS my PAST and NEVER to be forgotten.
I have found ME and my spunk again and it’s wonderful.
So hard to believe that some people could be so cruel.
Happy New Year 🥳 and may lasting peace come asap to OUR BEAUTIFUL WORLD.
🙏💝🙏💝🙏💝🙏
Bless New Year everyone 💫💫
Well said I felt like you were speaking to me directly , I intend to make changes for the New Year and I will not be looking back going forward with a positive mind set all the way. I will keep in mind what you said thanks for sharing wonderful knowledge 😘
Thanks for this helpful advice.
You can never be safe against this until you will completely close yourself inward. And if you will do, you are dead.
Please don't. Better to be harmed again and again and again and again, than to close yourself.
All the pain is making your stronger and you keep yourself open either to harm and love.
I've told myself this for years, but the pain is getting unbearable this time - the problem - it's my children.
@ im sorry. Stay strong!
Very true I'm agreed 100% ❤
Thank you Lord I trust believe hope the powerful message this morning Yes I respect the plant of angel unity peace
I was harmed by someone in the NHS who didn’t give me her name, but who’s name I now know. Then an NHS psychologist whose only intention was to force me to detransition, then by, the infectious diseases doctor calling me a liar as I poured my heart and soul out, then by the psychiatrist. I would gladly walk away though it means my certain death.
There is also a Mindset of taking things the opposite way , it hurts but then when mind is clear stable it changes completely. So in making decisions I must also be clear of myself . I am only sure of my own actions are Never to Hurt anybody else . Of that I am sure only. I’m far too busy in my mind dealing with my own shit to even think of that!!
But yes strikes & they are Defo out. Simple.
Thank you!!
Never Ever Has A Second Choice To Let Some Buddy Insult Your Self With Any Respect , Stay Away And Tell Some One You Trust So They Would Not Fall Same Like You Any More , Free Your Self About Carring A Foolish Maners , Take Care Of You And Love You Like Not Buddy Does My Friends♥️♥️♥️😎
I’m sorry but the way you think is kind and yet helpful to not intentionally hurt someone. So much personal intelligence is just that sexy in a man, fabulous. Anthony Hopkins dam❣️
Wise indeed.
False hope of reconciliation. I kept trying to stop bad behavior. They showed up in disguise.
❤❤❤❤❤thank you