Talking about my life as queer Yoruba teenager.

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  • @itstegsworld3028
    @itstegsworld3028 4 роки тому +77

    This your gf yinka is so fyn if you think so too gather here♥️

  • @mkmanu4253
    @mkmanu4253 4 роки тому +42

    I can see why Yinka is a Ph.d candidate. She’s brilliant. She’s strictly speaking facts! I love her energy.

  • @deborahallanah
    @deborahallanah 4 роки тому +60

    Love this video! As a bi woman I completely understand!. LGBTQ+ in Nigeria is seen as such a taboo. We would now have to start hiding our emotions and feelings because of society and sometimes end up marrying who we have zero feelings for because of pressure. They judge us when they themselves are fornicating, commuting adultery and all manners of sin. I applaud you and Yinka for being unapologetically you. Not caring what anyone thinks. ❤️

    • @igweamarachukwu8552
      @igweamarachukwu8552 4 роки тому +3

      Exactly my dear, being a bi you have to try keep your life low... I can relate here too

    • @johnfeit3331
      @johnfeit3331 4 роки тому +1

      Swears, being a bi is like being a criminal in Nigeria, no matter how we try to hide or run from it we still find ourselves going back

    • @gorgeousgorgeousf6689
      @gorgeousgorgeousf6689 4 роки тому +2

      True

    • @valwalker2027
      @valwalker2027 5 місяців тому

      There are a lot of bi- woman on here. Go for it🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

  • @AdeboyeOmotolani-q7e
    @AdeboyeOmotolani-q7e 3 місяці тому +2

    I just find out about amara and kabiyesi this year 2024, after a lot of dhit have pass in my life. But by listening to them both i now understand who i am and what is expected of me. God will continue to strengthen you amara and kabiyesi, i want you to knw that you are both a strong pole we need in our country and my relationship aspect, thank you so much for putting everything out here for us to learn from. Much love from Nigeria 🇳🇬💋💋

    • @Amarathelesbian
      @Amarathelesbian  3 місяці тому

      This comment means so much! Target audience reached ❤️

  • @OneManWentToMow
    @OneManWentToMow 4 роки тому +37

    this goes beyond homosexuality ...... what this girl is saying is real life hack ..... u can apply it to whatever your situation is ...... i agree a 100% ...... 99.9% of your struggles are very much internal .... if u give others that power over u they will never let it go, they will just keep shifting the goal post

  •  4 роки тому +30

    She has this innocent and cute vibe to her.

  • @OneManWentToMow
    @OneManWentToMow 4 роки тому +12

    OUTSTANDING! ...... this is the thing with introverts, they are always deep

  • @blessingjoseph4487
    @blessingjoseph4487 4 роки тому +7

    The best is just live ur own life to satisfy urself nt anybody yinka believe me u have just added more impact to my life .am one of ur biggest fan luv u guys❤️❤️❤️

  • @MO-ou5rr
    @MO-ou5rr 4 роки тому +15

    This video was EPIC! Something that everyone should take on board irregardless of your sexuality.

  • @theelizabeth5387
    @theelizabeth5387 4 роки тому +22

    You can't love me the way I love myself - Olayinka 2020.

  • @BelekOfficial_1
    @BelekOfficial_1 4 роки тому +6

    Yinka for best motivation public speaking.... 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 it seems u have been waiting for this moment for life. Breaking free . Thank you for speaking from true life story

  • @hiimurmama123
    @hiimurmama123 4 роки тому +6

    Every. Single. Word. Of. This. I needed. Thank you so much

  • @daphnehenshaw4883
    @daphnehenshaw4883 4 роки тому +7

    Deep stuff here.. big ups Yinka and thanks Amara for always giving us real life rich content.

  • @p44chipo
    @p44chipo 10 місяців тому +1

    Yinka you are a Legend, a beautiful Soul ❤. I loved every word that came out of your mouth in this video. Message is on the point and inclusive. You are amazing. I hope Amara knows how lucky she is to have you and she treats you right. Amara thanks for sharing your real life stories and journeys with us. Love and blessings to you both ❤❤🙏.

  • @lolathegodfactorr8279
    @lolathegodfactorr8279 4 роки тому +7

    THIS IS MY FAVOURITE EPISODE, AMARA!!

  • @janeosayamwen1535
    @janeosayamwen1535 4 роки тому +5

    the turn to self love was absolutely beautiful! you both are awesome

  • @alublack7242
    @alublack7242 4 роки тому +5

    "when you come out... you have to keep coming out" .... wisdom 🙏

  • @minaleathercraft8276
    @minaleathercraft8276 4 роки тому +6

    Now am stuck to this channel, I love the energy .

  • @anne-audrey1721
    @anne-audrey1721 4 роки тому +3

    i cried and laughed, this was so POWERFUL, BEAUTIFUL & INSPIRING!! i do wake up with myself everyday 😂but for real self-love is CONSTANT work and its refreshing to hear someone not describing it as this glamorous easy thing. *just subscribed*

  • @classybree2241
    @classybree2241 4 роки тому +5

    🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 yinka is on fire, am feeling vibes..... Happy Sunday my favourite UA-cam couple. and I love the background music

    • @Amarathelesbian
      @Amarathelesbian  4 роки тому +2

      😁😁😁 thank you so much my love!!❤️

    • @classybree2241
      @classybree2241 4 роки тому

      🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 I want more videos Please

  • @ginikaoluchi9994
    @ginikaoluchi9994 4 місяці тому

    Damn... Olayinkus is so eloquent and sabi drop bars😍.. I watched this 3 times just to listen to the grammar and syntax...

  • @nwaowav
    @nwaowav 4 роки тому +4

    This is so important! The music was a bit loud but this meant a lot!!

  • @valwalker2027
    @valwalker2027 4 місяці тому

    Interesting. Because she is so shy. But I like that she emphasize Love yourself. That's number one. Kudo's.
    Love to both of you... ❤❤❤❤

  • @millzblack5466
    @millzblack5466 4 роки тому +2

    Loving your self is very important. speak girl. Thank you yinka

  • @alltalkswithjoan7486
    @alltalkswithjoan7486 4 роки тому +16

    Hello Amara....... I'm Joan and I'm a christian lesbian and i'm proud and happy to see you and girlfriend and I'm also happy that someone has the same mindset like mine in Nigeria......
    Keep it up and I also wanna get to talk more if it is okay with you

  • @Muslimah_xo
    @Muslimah_xo 4 роки тому +4

    I love this. She spoke factsss❤️

  • @goodnewsmummy6985
    @goodnewsmummy6985 Рік тому +1

    Wow I listen to your story it's so good e give me much stronger to be who I am🥰

  • @naynayjkin
    @naynayjkin 3 роки тому +6

    Wowwww... I felt this video.. So deep nearly in tears.. everything you spoken was the honest truth.. Have self love thats what matters be who you are!!.. I am an American woman I don't know what you guys go through in Nigeria.. But here in America I deal with alot of ppl questioning my sexuality and I have friends who fear to be themselves and here its legal so imagine being free being yourself but still get talked about or questioned or hated on for being yourself so this video hit so deep

  • @likkledaisies
    @likkledaisies 4 роки тому +22

    Everytime someone asks me about my sexuality and I have to lie or evade the question, a little part of me dies but it's Nigeria I guess lmao.

    • @HONEY-lb3zm
      @HONEY-lb3zm 4 роки тому +6

      Samee ..Everytime I fill an application and I put heterosexual actually shatters my heart.

  • @beansprout4431
    @beansprout4431 4 роки тому +5

    omg i started blushing IMMEDIATELY as soon as the video started....Yinka is too beautiful/handsome, I don't know if I can finish watching this...haha
    Update: I'm so glad I watched the whole video. Where do I sign up to join the Self-Love Church of Yinka?

  • @jaybluejan6157
    @jaybluejan6157 4 роки тому +2

    Yinka is so beautiful, I like the way she do things, & talked....Amara is more beautiful with hair

  • @awaesther8157
    @awaesther8157 2 роки тому

    This is one of the most beautiful talk I have had in ages.thank u guys.much love

  • @uwaschannel5068
    @uwaschannel5068 4 роки тому +8

    Amara with the editing 😫 teach me ohhhh 🗣 I love your content always

    • @Amarathelesbian
      @Amarathelesbian  4 роки тому +2

      Oh my darling!!!😍
      thank you always🙌🏾💋

  • @gimbs7951
    @gimbs7951 4 роки тому +6

    Amara has finally got Yinka to face the camera. Well-done! Na jaddada miki 😂

    • @BelekOfficial_1
      @BelekOfficial_1 4 роки тому

      Sis didn’t even blink. 🔥 it was amazing

  • @Eye-Am
    @Eye-Am 4 роки тому +4

    This was dope and deep. ❤

  • @symone3113
    @symone3113 4 роки тому

    I just found your videos (Amara The Lesbian) and they’re given me life.... you guys are super cute..❤️

  • @Abenatheproducer
    @Abenatheproducer 4 роки тому

    Watched all your videos in one day. Omg!! I love Yinka for Thisssssssssss
    Her nails😍😍

  • @ayishacisse2370
    @ayishacisse2370 4 роки тому

    First time I've really got motivated and inspired by someone's words.I see myself in all what you are saying.

  • @deborah8857
    @deborah8857 4 роки тому +1

    I really loved enjoying your date. Thank you Amara and Olayinka.

  • @angeliyre518
    @angeliyre518 4 роки тому +6

    This was deep😭

  • @blackspittle
    @blackspittle 4 роки тому +1

    Yinka, you're a Goddess, nothing more, nothing less!!

  • @graciousbaby9759
    @graciousbaby9759 3 роки тому

    Wow🙄, this girl is very intelligent n beautiful 😍, perfectly said the truth dear ✊, to love urself is very, very important 🤦, love u girl💋

  • @Tori_4
    @Tori_4 4 роки тому +1

    I love this! Yinka is soooo cool!

  • @theelizabeth5387
    @theelizabeth5387 4 роки тому +2

    Hahahaha, the date... Okay plot twist you got your comment section full and alot wondering, good stuff 👏👏

  • @s.a3985
    @s.a3985 4 роки тому +1

    Love Yinka’s vibe sm🥺😍

  • @moradeyoa
    @moradeyoa 4 роки тому +1

    PREACHHHHH!! I loved this so much

  • @Ephel-Onana
    @Ephel-Onana 4 роки тому +9

    Wine 🍷 motivation 😩😩

  • @chyfear94
    @chyfear94 7 місяців тому

    Dr Yinks is such a beaut ❤️❤️❤️💯

  • @Ephel-Onana
    @Ephel-Onana 4 роки тому +2

    😍😍😍😍😍😍😍 finally am seeing u guys again

  • @lizzyayodele7147
    @lizzyayodele7147 4 роки тому +1

    On point 💯👏🏽
    New subscriber here 🙌🏽❣️

  • @Ephel-Onana
    @Ephel-Onana 4 роки тому +2

    🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 so happy the notification alone

  • @awolesikehinde
    @awolesikehinde 4 роки тому +3

    Yinka is so pretty 🥺🥺❤️

  • @mokasylvia1893
    @mokasylvia1893 4 роки тому +1

    Very nice speech I really appreciate u guys

  • @alexandracharles636
    @alexandracharles636 4 роки тому

    One word.......... Awesome. Absolutely beautiful and well related

  • @lightandspace7938
    @lightandspace7938 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you for all the gems! I really took notes! It's key to love yourself first before worrying about pleasing others or delivering a palatable version of yourself for others to swallow.

  • @myfrenchvoyage9118
    @myfrenchvoyage9118 4 роки тому

    My new mantra....Love Yourself. So little words but so much. At the end of the day you came into this world alone and you will be leaving alone. You are who you say you are and not what people say you are. The only stake is YOU. Don't lose yourself.
    Bon courage, Amara and Yinka❤

  • @lekkyjayz6294
    @lekkyjayz6294 4 роки тому

    The intelligence is real! Cool Yinka!

  • @Elainebabey
    @Elainebabey 4 роки тому +1

    I love your vibe ❤️

  • @hellen-may
    @hellen-may 4 роки тому +1

    Yinka spitting out facts.

  • @qwinrosylyt1488
    @qwinrosylyt1488 4 роки тому +4

    Mind blowing.. Inside life.. Love you two ❤️

  • @DeGoretti
    @DeGoretti 10 місяців тому

    Watching this was very educative . Thank you ❤

  • @newbeginnings6061
    @newbeginnings6061 4 роки тому +2

    You are so pretty God😍😍😍😍

  • @sixbias719
    @sixbias719 4 роки тому +2

    I love you. All of you.

  • @valwalker2027
    @valwalker2027 5 місяців тому

    Knowledge. Self love❤

  • @s.a3985
    @s.a3985 4 роки тому +9

    The background music was so loud😭😭

  • @victoryogbebor9619
    @victoryogbebor9619 4 роки тому +5

    She was in jss1 before I was born 😩🕳️

  • @famz6958
    @famz6958 4 роки тому

    Yinka is amazing. Well said guys.

  • @IronLadyTima
    @IronLadyTima 4 роки тому +2

    I don’t know why but this is my best friend for these three months 😫

  • @bblahbulah
    @bblahbulah 3 роки тому +2

    Preach it!!!!!!!! 🥰❤️

  • @iamalpha5576
    @iamalpha5576 4 роки тому

    We cry and we pray. Oshe i know its not funny but its history ama laugh over this. 👍

  • @namelessshegoat6664
    @namelessshegoat6664 4 роки тому +1

    Hi yinka and amara I understand what your saying and I went through the same thing, I even had my mom call me an abomination and make me break up with my girlfriend after reading my chats, everywhere I go evn when im in church and praying in a skirt I hear whispers and all whatnot it's really hard I don't know what to do

    • @Amarathelesbian
      @Amarathelesbian  4 роки тому +3

      Listen to me my love. you’re not an abomination. it doesn’t matter what anybody says.
      be kind to yourself. be your own friend and family. believe yourself. be on your own team. you are already doing so great. you will do so many more great things. you will grow and own yourself.

    • @makachia9860
      @makachia9860 4 роки тому

      Went through the same thing. My mom even said If i'm "a gay", that she's no longer my mom.

  • @panddaapo
    @panddaapo 4 роки тому +10

    Valid points were made!! Also, Simi's homophobic, so, maybe don't quote her? Sending yous love and light.
    Stay safe, Another Nigerian gay 🙂🤙🏽

  • @AfriScents
    @AfriScents 4 роки тому +1

    Everyone needs to UNDERSTAND what you said in this video... WORD! Its also very nice seeing how comfortable you have become on this space...

  • @maameafodaniels7785
    @maameafodaniels7785 3 роки тому +1

    Yinka I love u sooo much

  • @amajuoritseiluwa1873
    @amajuoritseiluwa1873 3 роки тому +1

    You deserve love, if they give you love. Collect

  • @chillynwa2210
    @chillynwa2210 4 роки тому

    Gat mad love for you yinka❤❤❤❤

  • @zee_bella9438
    @zee_bella9438 4 місяці тому

    Thank God I see this msg at 2024 on pride month 😢❤

  • @asiriuwafaith6223
    @asiriuwafaith6223 4 роки тому +4

    Everything she's saying is 💯
    Nigerians can't talk about been gay without refering to Sodom and Gomorrah. Everyone is so homophobic in this country and it's really scary.

    • @Amarathelesbian
      @Amarathelesbian  4 роки тому +1

      We can’t be washed away or prayed away.
      things will change! I promise you

    • @asiriuwafaith6223
      @asiriuwafaith6223 4 роки тому

      @@Amarathelesbian thank you for always saying your truth❤️

    • @chidianyanwu8731
      @chidianyanwu8731 4 роки тому

      @@asiriuwafaith6223 why are gay
      Come and change it
      Let's see
      Everyone must not like you
      Facts

  • @ladiesboss9364
    @ladiesboss9364 3 роки тому +2

    The one question I've been asking my self even before watching this is... How do I go about this, is it that those that are young probably under 21 shouldn't go public about their sexuality in this country called Nigeria for the fear of being jailed.... Or what, this stupid country is killing people emotionally, psychologically.... It's crazy 🥺🥺

  • @NixDaQreator
    @NixDaQreator 4 роки тому +8

    When are you guys gonna do a no hands kissing challenge

  • @amakaamechi4417
    @amakaamechi4417 4 роки тому +1

    Ayye, Olayinka PREACHHHHH!!!! 🗣🗣🗣🗣

    • @Oyxter12
      @Oyxter12 4 роки тому +1

      Erm... Are you single? 😂

    • @jadestorm5550
      @jadestorm5550 4 роки тому

      Shebi una want to start to dry network here

  • @GeorginaEfya-wv2pq
    @GeorginaEfya-wv2pq Рік тому

    I'm Soo glad to be here👌🏳️‍🌈

  • @NekieGee
    @NekieGee Рік тому

    Damnn..she just told my story... 🏳️‍🌈

  • @DonaldEkong
    @DonaldEkong 4 роки тому +5

    Our girlfriend? We have a girlfriend?
    Dis one na entanglement ooo 😜😂

  • @houseofellatv7115
    @houseofellatv7115 4 роки тому +1

    Oh my goodness
    Yinka....you are Too Intelligent
    I love your courage and strength
    Kudos GIRLEEEEE 💃🏻
    Amara....You are good😘😘😘

  • @thempitis9217
    @thempitis9217 3 роки тому

    I’m from South Africa and I watched this video but still didn’t understand what are the struggles I hear that you saying that people around you are homosexuals.
    But what are the struggles the laws, the culture etc

  • @silvasavage1047
    @silvasavage1047 3 роки тому

    Love u bby 💋thanks 4 advised

  • @maameafodaniels7785
    @maameafodaniels7785 3 роки тому

    Do a part 2 of this again

  • @alublack7242
    @alublack7242 4 роки тому

    👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤👏🏾👏🏾wow!

  • @jacquelinebailey2261
    @jacquelinebailey2261 4 роки тому

    Love you both 💓 💗

  • @gloriaazubuike294
    @gloriaazubuike294 4 роки тому +1

    Professor yinka

  • @aishayusuf5084
    @aishayusuf5084 4 роки тому +1

    Yinka I so love u XOXO 🌹

  • @akaomodolapo540
    @akaomodolapo540 Рік тому +1

    Olayinka is so intelligent ❤ am not a queer person but I don’t judge people and I watch queer people UA-cam videos a lot ❤ I love you guys regardless of anything ❤ Love u Amara and Olayinka ❤

  • @myrilunalee9999
    @myrilunalee9999 4 роки тому

    #SelfLoveIsKey YESSS!!!!

  • @maameafodaniels7785
    @maameafodaniels7785 3 роки тому

    Self love my dear

  • @olatundebanjoko7225
    @olatundebanjoko7225 4 роки тому

    I LUUUV YINKA!

  • @Akin1974
    @Akin1974 4 роки тому +1

    Yinka you are so on point||

  • @chiddy1291
    @chiddy1291 4 роки тому +2

    Do bisexuals also have this struggle???

    • @Ofstudiofae
      @Ofstudiofae 4 роки тому +2

      Yes but it’s easier to be in denial or tag it a kink for threesome. It took me a long time to come to terms with my sexuality and I still don’t say it to everyone.

    • @adejokevictoria3081
      @adejokevictoria3081 4 роки тому +1

      @@Ofstudiofae you are right,even when they came out people won't take them serious they would be like u just trying to be notice or playing around you are straight,but I think they have much struggle to because in some causes you aren't attracted to both in same way like u might be attracted to women 70% and to men 30% or vice versa,

    • @sixbias719
      @sixbias719 4 роки тому +1

      I'm bisexual, the struggle is worse.

    • @iamalpha5576
      @iamalpha5576 4 роки тому

      @@sixbias719 loud it

  • @gloryeze2983
    @gloryeze2983 4 роки тому

    YINKAAAAAA🔈🔈🔈🔈🔈💃💃💃💃💃💃

  • @1961TRINA
    @1961TRINA 4 роки тому

    Speak‼️