It's British tradition. I used to have a sippy cup of milky coffee or sugary tee when I was a little one. I used to love it. However mine just want boob.
Bad enough kicking your daughter out, but knowing she has a toddler of her own ( your grand daughter no less ) and still locking them out of their home with all their belongings is absolutely sickening🤮 what a toxic woman.
*Must be hurtful to the other kids when the mum keeps saying "Charlotte was my favourite child" ....like wtf!!? You don't say things like that. Especially to your other kids*
Exactly, I was about to write something similar and then I seen your comment, that actually made me quite sad and the other daughter just seemed to accept it like it was normal for your mother to have a favourite child. The mother was also very immature not attending the baby 1st bday party. I was very, very close to my mum, but never did we talk about positions etc. Some mothers probably do have a favourite child, but keep it to yourself.
I’m a mother to 6 amazing wonderful children and I couldn’t have a favourite there all my favourite that’s so disgusting how must the other children feel I don’t understand how a mother can do that at all
I actually think she’s quite incredible as a woman and a mother. Her motivation and drive to be what she wants and look after her baby is tremendous. No mother or father is perfect, there’s always someone criticising something you’re doing but I think she’s great, genuinely
She's incredible as a mother? She refuses to get up and take care of her, she expects other people to be helping her do everything, how in the world is that an incredible mother? I have three children and I sure didn't expect anyone other than their father and I to raise them.
@@smpal6626she didn’t expect anyone to raise her child she asked for help i’m sure you had the father around and i’m sure you were grown when you had a kid
When my son was a few weeks old I started my law degree. I asked my mum to babysit for a 2 hours per week so I could study law in the evening. She lived close to me. She refused to help. So I had to study at university during the day which put tremendous financial pressure on me for the childcare. Some mothers don’t give a shit. I graduated in law without help in 2015. I had to study throughout the night. I was a 29 year old pregnant mum studying so whatever age you are if you have a goal if you’re determined you can educate yourself further, it’s not easy being pregnant, having two babies whilst doing a degree but it can be done so don’t give up on your dreams.
@ Joy Spence Thank you dear sister. You really encouraged me. I thought it's only me who is married, and didn't complete my Law school. Now me 28 years old and is married...I intended to resume my Law study, next year 2022 and I will be 29 years old. I know by Faith that God made you share your comment to give me hope and refreshment and to believe in myself that what God started He will finish. I hope to accomplish my Law study successfully... Never give up! You are right. Never give up... it's never too late 💓💓💓💓
"I dont know what happened in such a short period of time" Depression, living with an abusive mom, and being told you are a failure will do that to anyone, let alone a young person who has just given birth on their own. No wonder moving out helped, she didn't have to put up with such a horrifically immature and abusive mom anymore.
It was when charlotte said well it’s there own fault Melanie will never be 1 again. I hope they see that and I really hope she never speaks to any of them again I hated her sisters and mum for how they spoke about her while she was in the room as well, mum is sabotaging her by removing the help from her. I loved her aunt who took her in with no questions but the mum and sisters are vile
Found her on Facebook , she has 3 girls now. Melanie is like 10-12 something like that - she looks really good and really happy!! Hope she ditched that toxic family of hers though.
This just broke my heart! She had a baby young but she was doing her absolute best and her family was jealous and just so mean. I have three daughters and I can’t imagine this.
I cant stand Charlotte's mom, it's like she wants to see her daughter fail. If she isnt working what is so hard about dropping her granddaughter off at daycare, so Charlotte can go to college and make something of herself to give her and her daughter a good life!? Another prob with Charlotte's mom is her seeing her daughter as her bff instead of her child. Now there is nothing wrong with being friends with ur daughter but I still have to hold that mother position more then a friend cause it's just setting ur kid up for failure. Me and my children get along great and have a lot of fun together but first and foremost i am their mom not their bff. Also if Charlotte's mom knew she was sexual active and had no prob talking to her about sex and even different sex positions, then why the hell didnt she take her to the ob/gyn and get her on bc, or even just pick up condoms for her!?. My bff came home pregnant at 14 and my mom was extremely supportive of her and helped her out since she didn't have a family to support her. But my mom looked at me and was like no way is this happening to you, and she took me and got me on bc. I wasnt even really having sex I had a few times but realized I wasnt ready and waited another year or so, but still I'm so happy my mom got me on bc and educated me just how easy it is to get pregnant, and all the safety precautions to take. I didnt end up having my first daughter till I was 22 and had graduated from nursing school. But in think Charlotte is doing a great job, and wish nothing but the best for her and her daughter.
Yes I agree. Her perfect golden child "failed" in her eyes and embarrassed her. So therefore now she's withdrawn everything from her in order to punish her for embarrassing her.
@@smpal6626 I'm an adult and I think her mum is slightly bitchy, she has some good points but her mum just sits there and complains yet she did nothing to change it.. the mum did alot for her in the beginning and then continued it and then complains when she does too much for her, yet it was her own doing.. and not turning up to your own grandchilds 1st birthday because you have a problem with the mum, immature AF for an adult
@@justme-qj1mq She shouldn't be doing anything at all! She steps in because Charlotte is obviosly not as attentive as she should be and is frustrated at what she does. Charlotte's poor decisions are weighing on the whole family and they have a right to be frustrated with her. The reason Charlotte is able to "sort her life out" is because she is exhausting her support system. The VERY LEAST she can do is sort herself out so she can move out of her mother's house so they can live the normal course of their lives that got knocked off course because CHARLOTTE made the decision for them.
@@HeyitsBri_ she's in college to better herself for her and her daughter, her mum takes her grandchild to playschool or nursery when Charlotte goes to college and also this was filmed back in 2011 or 2012 and poor decisions? is going to college a poor decision?
Her sister wants to be favorite and mom doesn't want her to succeed. If she does she will have a better life then her. That cant happen and narascistic parents work hard to achieve it.
The mother is awful, she doesn't work but refuses to help out in order for her daughter to remain in school. She obviously turned the family against her for convenience because she is lazy. Why doesn't she work? Well because she has so many kids.... she is in no position to judge her daughter who at least has ambitions. Plus she said her original future was out of the window, ermm no it isn't.
The mother is not awful, and she has tried to help her but she should not feel obliged to have to look after the baby. Its not her baby and Melanie should take responsibility for her child.
The mother is NOT awful. She wouldn't do her daughter a favour by taking care of the grandkid, if she did, her daughter would NEVER grow up and learn what responsibilities is.
@@NickanM the mother is horrible, telling all her other kids that the eldest daughter was her best friend and favourite child, making the other daughter jealous because of it
@@NickanM The mother is not trying to teach responsibility here, she even said herself that after her daughter had a baby she had no chance of becoming a police officer... which was far from the truth as she was TRYING to go to college. The mum is just lazy and setting up her daughter to be jobless too
“Being a mom is not going to stop me” words to live by. Women shouldn’t give up her career while male counterparts have their own in home office and work cloths. Women should have that too
Charlotte is pretty impressive, she knows what she wants to do and tries her hardest despite having no help from her immediate family. I really hope she does achieve her dream job
idk having unprotected sex and getting pregnant while you live with your mother and several other children while you DON'T have the means of financially supporting yourself let alone another life while also causing problems in the place you're staying for free is preeettty immature.
Well, Charlotte’s mum Kelly got pregnant in her teens, considered her daughter her best friend (snapping the adult-child relationship in two) and talked about sex positions. All the while wondering what went wrong, while she fixes the baby a bottle of tea. Who could have foreseen this outcome? Hmmm?
The mum is a nasty piece of work! Deliberately sabotaging her hard working daughters future by throwing her out is unforgivable...Charlotte must be very mature to have been able to forgive her.
@@Uhuss-qq6cq Her daughter was in college aiming for a career but what was her mother doing? Oh right on her ass doing nothing leeching of benefits with 5 kids.
I like Charlotte. And she’s doing a lot better than some other teens would in her situation. She’s actually in school and doing well, is focused on getting a job, and loves Melanie, although she does need to work on her patience. Her family, particularly her mom, are being unreasonably harsh on her, especially considering that she is making an effort to better her and Melanie’s life. Throwing one’s child out when they need them the most makes no sense. I can understand wanting to teach her responsibility, but she’s doing pretty well on her own, and she was never an extremely reckless, irresponsible person to deal with in the first place. Since her mother doesn’t work, I don’t understand the problem with her watching Melanie temporarily until Charlotte finishes college and finds a job. It’s not like she’s missing important appointments because she has to watch her grandchild.
I'm sorry but her mom is awful! How could you throw your child out of the house?! If you really care about her you'd make sure things work out because it's not all Charlotte! Same for her sister ...
@Lilly Mi the thing is she's home so her mom took care of her while Charlotte was at school and I thought that was amazing but then suddenly she stopped? That's something where I don't agree with if you plan to stop you should never to it in the beginning
@fallen_one I don't think you were paying attention during the episode the mom clearly stated she got tired of getting up early to take care of everything and her daughter wouldn't do the same she even stated i did the same when i had 6 kids to take care of you can with one and she was like take 2 buses and get up early just to go to college no.. so its not that the mom didn't try or wasn't offering help she had been but her daughter was lazy and the mom got tired of it , so i don't blame her for being like this is what its like without my help hey i still have these other kids to take care of its not all about you type of mentality..
It's so hard to see a mother and other siblings treat her like that as her mother I'm ashamed for her as a mother. Charlotte stay strong you are going to do great things for you and your child
Totally agree you can see the hurt in her eyes i would never treat any one of my kids like that or allowed them to do the same thats so wrong a mother does not do it sooo sad hope she is doing good now
You withdraw support then asked what changed and why she's acting like that? Wow ok. The nursery is two bus rides away and to get a toddler ready and out the door at the crack of dawn is hard 2 for adult parents. I think her moms disappointment about the baby overrode her need to still mother.
I agree completely. Being a parent is difficult, but a parent in education is difficult and being a single parent is difficult, but to have all that thrown in to one, without any support, no wonder she wanted to drop out for the year. If she was my daughter I'd help her. I wouldn't baby her and she'd still have to be a parent to her child, but I wouldn't sit back and watch her drown and then have the audacity to ask why she's not handling crap!
@Lilly Mi I never implied that the mother should take care of the baby but she shouldn't have thrown her out that's just disgusting. I mean she was trying to go to school and what not yes she could have picked up a little more of the house chores. Talking about the mother taking care of their children and it's not anyone else's responsibility well look now the aunty has to financially support her sister or sister in laws child & grandchild. There's no excuse the daughter decided to keep the baby it's not the babies fault do not kick your grandchild out if you have the means to support her even if it was just for the safe environment. The problem with a lot of these young girls mothers is they just throw their children and grandchildren out for the government and tax payers to deal with.
@@emilymoat8042 someone posted their details on one of the other videos. mollie's was on her facebook and charlotte's and alannah's was instagrams which are private now. i can't remember their last names though. i think the younger sister from the show also mentioned it, and how she hadn't got pregnant herself (she was just starting uni at the time) (also by mollie i meant the redhead one, not the blonde one)
Why the hell did the mom stop? Your daughter is trying to do better and you pull her legs out from under her? And where are the fathers in the situation? How the hell Do You have five kids and sit at home with no job?
All these comments about the tea in the bottle and being British that has nothing to do with it!! am British and I never gave my daughter tea when she was little and people putting sugar in it is even worse!! It’s just not right! Can I just say well done Charlotte for wanting more and going back to college. I wonder how she’s doing??
Something seems so off about the mums behaviour and the favouritism/ then completely ignoring? Helping and then taking away the help? I get that the mum doesn't HAVE to help raise Melanie, but what a great thing that would have been to support your daughter while you yourself arn't working, and then Charlotte would have graduated. It's not like it would have been forever. I get not wanting to have an ungrateful/ spoilt kid but damn! Surely there could have been some better communication about this. Out of all these origin videos I was so happy to see a family and young mum succeeding together... It does take a village to raise a child after all.
sara Allison aka Miss true Freeman I agree with you; personally I’d never but the mum must try and support her child in going to college and everything. She’s not expecting her mum to look after her but my question is why doesn’t the nana want to
Some people don't understand the meaning of family. She has no sense of loyalty. People are supposed to love their children. The goal is always for your child to be better than you. This mom is toxic and spews narcissism. Some people shouldn't have had a family. The mom is a prime example of this.
@Sara Allison her job as a mother (every parent's job) is to do your best for your child to be better than you. Your job is always to make your child more successful than you are. This mom doesn't care about her child or what it means to be a mother. She's lazy.
Poor Charlotte. Her mom is awful. Charlotte needs the support of her mother, but her mother is too selfish. Charlotte is a wonderful young woman, that needs to keep her head up for her sweet baby girl.
Charlotte is doing great with Melanie. I don't have a baby but I can understand how difficult it can be but the fact she's doing college while being a full time single parent, she's doing so well 😊
She doesn't want her daughter to have a better life then her. This is very normal for a narascist parent. Should she wash her own clothes yes,but quit school to live her mothers life no.
My god!! Ur expecting ur daughter to wake up earlier than 6 to get ready and then catch 2 buses to get her daughter to nursery!! So stupid atleast she wants to get a job
@Lilly Mi that's true, but as a community can or should we be expecting a great outcome for her and her child? In her case yes we should, shes privileged enough to have access to benefits and housing as well as great family support. However, shes very immature, unappreciative and selfish. I just wish her the best.
Okay all these comments bashing the mom are harsh. The mom is also a single mom of five and she might be going through a burn out as well. The 16 year old had a kid and it is HER responsibility. As harsh as this sounds, she has to face the consequences of her actions. She seems like a good mom and I hope she does become a police officer but she cannot expect her mom to make life easier for her when Mel is her child.
Charlottes mother is horrible. She just seems so petty , her and the younger sister bitching about her just because she hasn’t picked up the washing. She didn’t offer Charlotte any support when she needed it. As a mother if she believed she was truly doing wrong she should of guided her and given her advice not kicked her out!. As a young mum Charlotte did really well .
Does anyone else think her mum is jealous of Charlotte? I think watching her daughter go after her dreams, have an education and be a good mum, well I don't think her mum liked that. She is clearly a better mum to Melanie than her mum is to Charlotte. I think her mum wanted Charlotte home all day and someone to keep her company. How awful that the mother has turned her siblings against Charlotte. What is so bad about her? She is so toxic and abusive. Not turning up to her 1st Birthday party or taking the siblings to their neices party. I hope Charlotte did well in life.
The mum has no job, but the house is still an absolute tip. What did she do with her days when she refused to help Charlotte with Melanie??? Literally so petty refusing to do anything, my family love helping look after my daughter because that’s their blood, and don’t mind helping with washing / cooking ect because I’m constantly exhausted. It isn’t like Charlotte was sat on her ass, she was going to college pretty much from day 1, so she didn’t end up a lazy troll like her mum.. this has made me so mad phaha
@sammybaa samm and that’s where, as a mother, it’s your job to help and support your daughter. Regardless of age, all parents need support & if a mother can watch her child struggle, they shouldn’t have kids...
Grandma has 5 kids, no job then wonders why her daughter ended up having a kid so young 🤦 You only reap what you sow so don't act all high and mighty smh.....
@@laurencoradeath3755 it works over 99% of the time. I used protection for 20 years and never got pregnant. When my husband and I were ready we got pregnant with no problems. I have plenty of friends and family members who have lived the same way. It's the 21st century. Birth control works, the reason why families are so small now has nothing to do with abstinence. The mom in this story obviously didn't know much about birth control hence she had all those kids but wasn't working and didn't hear about a husband or even a baby daddy. And she didn't bother to put her daughter on birth control when she knew she was sexually active.
@@MsFlamingFlamer Not all birth control is 99% effective some are 60% or 80% and just because you and your family and friends didn't get pregnant on birth control doesn't mean others won't. Nothing is 100% effective and there is a chance you can still get pregnant and how do you know the mum doesn't know about birth control? Do you know her personally or live with them?.
@@laurencoradeath3755 there are several forms of birth control that have over 99% efficacy. Check your science. The mom talked about talking about positions with her daughter but never birth control. The mom wouldn't have had all those kids if she used birth control like most civilized people over the past half century. Families have fallen to be 2 kids or less and it's not from abstinence.
sara Allison aka Miss true Freeman fair enough but all new mums need help, it doesn’t hurt to help with a bit of cleaning or something especially since her daughters at college
@sara Allison aka Miss true Freeman True, but it's not like the mother works a job. At least her daughter is trying to be a successful adult by getting a college degree and a job.
Sara Allison it isn’t a chore to go to your granddaughters first birthday. She’ll always look back knowing her nan didn’t care enough to make the effort & suck up her strop for one day...
Charlotte's mom and sisters remind me so much of my in-laws. Talking behind each others back, jealous of Charlotte and just being down right nasty. Her mother and sisters even took out their jealousy and nastiness on the baby. I was absolutely disgusted. If I were Charlotte I would be done with all of them and never allow them back into my life.
I don't know what her mums problem is. Charlotte is being spoken about as if she is a criminal. I actually think shes been doing really well, she's raising her daughter, going to college and has ambition. Her sister is a total cow, and her mum is sabotaging her. I'm glad she could go to her aunt and continue with her education, she seems really supportive and I hope her future was bright despite her horrid mother.
Omg my heart for this girl 😢😢😢😢 i understand all the tuff love parts but wow ...i have an 11 year old grandson who i still bring up my daughter was 14 when she had him and it was hard still is but never could i have been that tough ..awk who knows maybe im wrong but honestly love both my daughter and my grandson with every fibre of me i just can't understand the bullying style encouragement from the siblings feel sad for them all if im honest xxxxx
Honestly I feel like I can kinda see things from both the perspective of the mum and the perspective of Charlotte. I can see why her mum would be frustrated because she’s got the other kids to raise and things that she has to do herself, and I understand there’s probably times where things get overwhelming if Charlotte doesn’t pull her weight with the cleaning and things, but I can also understand that Charlotte is a 16 year old girl with a baby who is trying to get a good education for her sake and her child’s sake and she was just getting overwhelmed by everything that was going on. I definitely don’t agree with her mum kicking her out though. There’s clearly things that have happened on both sides and they’re both hurting. I hope they were able to get help and sort things out. ❤️
I think it’s better for her to be away from her mom. Her mother was toxic. I’m proud of the Aunt for trying to help. I hope Charlotte doesn’t turn out like her mom.
You can see she really loves her baby girl and works so hard for her and yet her own mother and sisters treated her so badly. She is the most mature one 9f the bunch and that's sad. The mother doesn't work and yet refuses to help with the baby and it honestly looks like she eggs on the feuds between the sisters. That mom has how many kids and doesn't even look like she takes care of them. But Charlotte is in school and really trying hard. Good for her and shame on that pathetic excuse for a so be called mother.
The mother's attitude is horrendous and the way she gets the sisters to have a go too, ignoring the baby is disgusting. Complains Charlotte has given up, isn't going to college yet doesn't make life easier. Mother is jealous of Charlotte. The aunty is a god send and better role model
I can’t believe that’s she kicked her daughter out with a baby wen she’s a baby her self she was doing nothing wrong at all that I could see her aunt showed her more love in them at 20 second clip then her mother did in the whole show and why couldn’t she help and take her grandchild to day care wen she lives on benefits sits on the sofa all day does nothing and then you have her daughter with a baby saying I want a job my mums never had one she doesn’t deserve a grandchild at all I hope that her and baby have a lovely life and she gets the Joan she needs to take care of her and her daughter much love
Idk why everyone is coming for her mom. At the end of the day its not her responsibility to take care of her daughter's mistakes... I think ppl get choosing to help and obligations mixed up🤷🏾♀️
The problem here is Charlotte's mum wants to be a mate to Charlotte instead of a mum... when Charlotte is busy being an actual mum to her daughter, Charlotte mum got jealous. I hope that she achieves absolutely everything she wants and I hope one day Charlotte's mum turns up with a problem and needing help and I hope Charlotte shuts the door in her face, just like she shut the door in not just Charlotte's face, but a toddlers face too. Disgusting behaviour from a grown woman toward her own daughter
Bottle of tea anyone?
Exactly what I thought, caffeine for a 10 month old? Every morning?!
🙈🙈🙈 cringe
Don’t forget the dog hair toast as well
Better than dogfood
It's British tradition. I used to have a sippy cup of milky coffee or sugary tee when I was a little one. I used to love it. However mine just want boob.
They should do a "where are they now" episode.
Nicole Rigney: Ive been thinking the same!! Probably onto baby daddy number 3 by now!
MTV are doing a new series of teen mums so don’t think there’s much interest for following up on the girls
I think this constantly about most of these girls that they have shown, I'd love to see it too!!
@RazorbladeRomance: Nope you are absolutely normal. Got two to two myself.
RazorbladeRomance well i think ur amazing
Bad enough kicking your daughter out, but knowing she has a toddler of her own ( your grand daughter no less ) and still locking them out of their home with all their belongings is absolutely sickening🤮 what a toxic woman.
*Must be hurtful to the other kids when the mum keeps saying "Charlotte was my favourite child" ....like wtf!!? You don't say things like that. Especially to your other kids*
Righttt!
Exactly, I was about to write something similar and then I seen your comment, that actually made me quite sad and the other daughter just seemed to accept it like it was normal for your mother to have a favourite child. The mother was also very immature not attending the baby 1st bday party.
I was very, very close to my mum, but never did we talk about positions etc.
Some mothers probably do have a favourite child, but keep it to yourself.
Yeah the mum's a b*tch
I know ! Like huge red flag and gives us insight into what sort of mother she is .
I’m a mother to 6 amazing wonderful children and I couldn’t have a favourite there all my favourite that’s so disgusting how must the other children feel I don’t understand how a mother can do that at all
I actually think she’s quite incredible as a woman and a mother. Her motivation and drive to be what she wants and look after her baby is tremendous. No mother or father is perfect, there’s always someone criticising something you’re doing but I think she’s great, genuinely
She's incredible as a mother? She refuses to get up and take care of her, she expects other people to be helping her do everything, how in the world is that an incredible mother? I have three children and I sure didn't expect anyone other than their father and I to raise them.
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@@smpal6626she didn’t expect anyone to raise her child she asked for help i’m sure you had the father around and i’m sure you were grown when you had a kid
When my son was a few weeks old I started my law degree. I asked my mum to babysit for a 2 hours per week so I could study law in the evening. She lived close to me. She refused to help. So I had to study at university during the day which put tremendous financial pressure on me for the childcare. Some mothers don’t give a shit. I graduated in law without help in 2015. I had to study throughout the night.
I was a 29 year old pregnant mum studying so whatever age you are if you have a goal if you’re determined you can educate yourself further, it’s not easy being pregnant, having two babies whilst doing a degree but it can be done so don’t give up on your dreams.
💕admirable
Well done to you hope you are in a good place in life im gona be a first time nan in 2 weeks ill always will be there for my daughter and grandchild
@ Joy Spence
Thank you dear sister.
You really encouraged me. I thought it's only me who is married, and didn't complete my Law school. Now me 28 years old and is married...I intended to resume my Law study, next year 2022 and I will be 29 years old. I know by Faith that God made you share your comment to give me hope and refreshment and to believe in myself that what God started He will finish. I hope to accomplish my Law study successfully...
Never give up!
You are right.
Never give up... it's never too late 💓💓💓💓
@@goldengoal5678 that is great news praise God, May God bless you in your studies and in your entire life. 🙏
@@nurtenkocaman1699 congratulations that's awesome
"I dont know what happened in such a short period of time" Depression, living with an abusive mom, and being told you are a failure will do that to anyone, let alone a young person who has just given birth on their own. No wonder moving out helped, she didn't have to put up with such a horrifically immature and abusive mom anymore.
Not showing up to her granddaughters first birthday party is disgraceful
It was when charlotte said well it’s there own fault Melanie will never be 1 again. I hope they see that and I really hope she never speaks to any of them again I hated her sisters and mum for how they spoke about her while she was in the room as well, mum is sabotaging her by removing the help from her. I loved her aunt who took her in with no questions but the mum and sisters are vile
Absolutely toxic mother - horrible person.
I do think a 1st party is pointless though.
Save it till they know what's going on.
Toxic, horrible mother in my opinion.
@@fordrscosworthIt’s more for the parents. It’s memories they will remember, not necessarily the child.
Found her on Facebook , she has 3 girls now. Melanie is like 10-12 something like that - she looks really good and really happy!! Hope she ditched that toxic family of hers though.
I'm glad she's doing well and hope she managed to build a good career x
What's her last name
This just broke my heart! She had a baby young but she was doing her absolute best and her family was jealous and just so mean. I have three daughters and I can’t imagine this.
I cant stand Charlotte's mom, it's like she wants to see her daughter fail. If she isnt working what is so hard about dropping her granddaughter off at daycare, so Charlotte can go to college and make something of herself to give her and her daughter a good life!? Another prob with Charlotte's mom is her seeing her daughter as her bff instead of her child. Now there is nothing wrong with being friends with ur daughter but I still have to hold that mother position more then a friend cause it's just setting ur kid up for failure. Me and my children get along great and have a lot of fun together but first and foremost i am their mom not their bff. Also if Charlotte's mom knew she was sexual active and had no prob talking to her about sex and even different sex positions, then why the hell didnt she take her to the ob/gyn and get her on bc, or even just pick up condoms for her!?. My bff came home pregnant at 14 and my mom was extremely supportive of her and helped her out since she didn't have a family to support her. But my mom looked at me and was like no way is this happening to you, and she took me and got me on bc. I wasnt even really having sex I had a few times but realized I wasnt ready and waited another year or so, but still I'm so happy my mom got me on bc and educated me just how easy it is to get pregnant, and all the safety precautions to take. I didnt end up having my first daughter till I was 22 and had graduated from nursing school. But in think Charlotte is doing a great job, and wish nothing but the best for her and her daughter.
Couldn’t agree more!!!
Yea I think the same way to.
Yes I agree. Her perfect golden child "failed" in her eyes and embarrassed her. So therefore now she's withdrawn everything from her in order to punish her for embarrassing her.
I think the sister is just bitter from Charlotte always being the mothers favourite. No comments for that spiteful mother.
She said that she was jealous of her being the favorite
Everyone’s so fkn horrible to her she was trying so hard to sort her life out too
How old are you? 15? Clearly not an adult if you think she is being mistreated!
@@smpal6626 I'm an adult and I think her mum is slightly bitchy, she has some good points but her mum just sits there and complains yet she did nothing to change it.. the mum did alot for her in the beginning and then continued it and then complains when she does too much for her, yet it was her own doing.. and not turning up to your own grandchilds 1st birthday because you have a problem with the mum, immature AF for an adult
@@justme-qj1mq She shouldn't be doing anything at all! She steps in because Charlotte is obviosly not as attentive as she should be and is frustrated at what she does. Charlotte's poor decisions are weighing on the whole family and they have a right to be frustrated with her. The reason Charlotte is able to "sort her life out" is because she is exhausting her support system. The VERY LEAST she can do is sort herself out so she can move out of her mother's house so they can live the normal course of their lives that got knocked off course because CHARLOTTE made the decision for them.
@@justme-qj1mq Exactly i agree Charlotte's mum is immature.
@@HeyitsBri_ she's in college to better herself for her and her daughter, her mum takes her grandchild to playschool or nursery when Charlotte goes to college and also this was filmed back in 2011 or 2012 and poor decisions? is going to college a poor decision?
The mum and the sister!! REALLY? No words!!
Her sister wants to be favorite and mom doesn't want her to succeed. If she does she will have a better life then her. That cant happen and narascistic parents work hard to achieve it.
@@3monsters014 Exactly!!!
Ikr! I hope this girl did become a cop and moved out. She is so above these two.
Laura Shipp mum is toxic
Vile mothers bone idol and badminded
The mother is awful, she doesn't work but refuses to help out in order for her daughter to remain in school. She obviously turned the family against her for convenience because she is lazy. Why doesn't she work? Well because she has so many kids.... she is in no position to judge her daughter who at least has ambitions. Plus she said her original future was out of the window, ermm no it isn't.
How does she not work?? I hate to say benefits but...
The mother is not awful, and she has tried to help her but she should not feel obliged to have to look after the baby. Its not her baby and Melanie should take responsibility for her child.
The mother is NOT awful. She wouldn't do her daughter a favour by taking care of the grandkid, if she did, her daughter would NEVER grow up and learn what responsibilities is.
@@NickanM the mother is horrible, telling all her other kids that the eldest daughter was her best friend and favourite child, making the other daughter jealous because of it
@@NickanM The mother is not trying to teach responsibility here, she even said herself that after her daughter had a baby she had no chance of becoming a police officer... which was far from the truth as she was TRYING to go to college. The mum is just lazy and setting up her daughter to be jobless too
“Being a mom is not going to stop me” words to live by. Women shouldn’t give up her career while male counterparts have their own in home office and work cloths. Women should have that too
Charlotte is pretty impressive, she knows what she wants to do and tries her hardest despite having no help from her immediate family. I really hope she does achieve her dream job
Good on you charlote turning around your life props to her aunty for taking her in
The mum is more immature than Charlotte 😩😩
idk having unprotected sex and getting pregnant while you live with your mother and several other children while you DON'T have the means of financially supporting yourself let alone another life while also causing problems in the place you're staying for free is preeettty immature.
I feel like the mom was toxic and Charlotte will be better off without her.
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Alex Tait agree
I agree
Well, Charlotte’s mum Kelly got pregnant in her teens, considered her daughter her best friend (snapping the adult-child relationship in two) and talked about sex positions. All the while wondering what went wrong, while she fixes the baby a bottle of tea. Who could have foreseen this outcome? Hmmm?
The mom pitted siblings against each other. Charlotte was the golden child turned scape goat
Yes, the mom seems to have a lot of narcissistic traits indeed.
Charlotte is an absolute star! Best of luck hun!
The mum is a nasty piece of work! Deliberately sabotaging her hard working daughters future by throwing her out is unforgivable...Charlotte must be very mature to have been able to forgive her.
How is she nasty? The daughter shouldn’t be having children if she can’t look after the child.
@@Uhuss-qq6cq Her daughter was in college aiming for a career but what was her mother doing? Oh right on her ass doing nothing leeching of benefits with 5 kids.
I like Charlotte. And she’s doing a lot better than some other teens would in her situation. She’s actually in school and doing well, is focused on getting a job, and loves Melanie, although she does need to work on her patience. Her family, particularly her mom, are being unreasonably harsh on her, especially considering that she is making an effort to better her and Melanie’s life. Throwing one’s child out when they need them the most makes no sense. I can understand wanting to teach her responsibility, but she’s doing pretty well on her own, and she was never an extremely reckless, irresponsible person to deal with in the first place. Since her mother doesn’t work, I don’t understand the problem with her watching Melanie temporarily until Charlotte finishes college and finds a job. It’s not like she’s missing important appointments because she has to watch her grandchild.
TheSapphireEmpress96 Didn’t even go her grandchild first party
Mother: I want to be part of Charlotte and Melanie's life
Also mother: **kicks out both of them**
I have never seen a baby been given tea at 11 months
Louise Beck welcome to Britain
My babies alllll drank tea they loved it we were all brought up on bottles of tea
My 3 did. Dad from England.
I’m really hoping it was decaf tea if anything. Was shocked to see them giving her tea
It's just tea!!! Calm the fuck down. It's not a bottle of vodka
Mum is a horror. Jealous of her daughters ambition and looks. Charlotte, girl you got this! 💖💖✨✨🧿🧿
I'm sorry but her mom is awful! How could you throw your child out of the house?! If you really care about her you'd make sure things work out because it's not all Charlotte! Same for her sister ...
@Lilly Mi the thing is she's home so her mom took care of her while Charlotte was at school and I thought that was amazing but then suddenly she stopped? That's something where I don't agree with if you plan to stop you should never to it in the beginning
@fallen_one I don't think you were paying attention during the episode the mom clearly stated she got tired of getting up early to take care of everything and her daughter wouldn't do the same she even stated i did the same when i had 6 kids to take care of you can with one and she was like take 2 buses and get up early just to go to college no.. so its not that the mom didn't try or wasn't offering help she had been but her daughter was lazy and the mom got tired of it , so i don't blame her for being like this is what its like without my help hey i still have these other kids to take care of its not all about you type of mentality..
It's so hard to see a mother and other siblings treat her like that as her mother I'm ashamed for her as a mother. Charlotte stay strong you are going to do great things for you and your child
Totally agree you can see the hurt in her eyes i would never treat any one of my kids like that or allowed them to do the same thats so wrong a mother does not do it sooo sad hope she is doing good now
Treat her like what? 😂 it’s not their job to look after Charlottes kid
Her mom is just so wrong... the girl is only 16, she is still her daughter!
You withdraw support then asked what changed and why she's acting like that? Wow ok. The nursery is two bus rides away and to get a toddler ready and out the door at the crack of dawn is hard 2 for adult parents. I think her moms disappointment about the baby overrode her need to still mother.
I know the mum was a bit harsh
Have to agree, I'd say if anything offer support and help but don't just do everything, take off a bit of the pressure
I agree completely.
Being a parent is difficult, but a parent in education is difficult and being a single parent is difficult, but to have all that thrown in to one, without any support, no wonder she wanted to drop out for the year.
If she was my daughter I'd help her. I wouldn't baby her and she'd still have to be a parent to her child, but I wouldn't sit back and watch her drown and then have the audacity to ask why she's not handling crap!
@Lilly Mi I never implied that the mother should take care of the baby but she shouldn't have thrown her out that's just disgusting. I mean she was trying to go to school and what not yes she could have picked up a little more of the house chores. Talking about the mother taking care of their children and it's not anyone else's responsibility well look now the aunty has to financially support her sister or sister in laws child & grandchild. There's no excuse the daughter decided to keep the baby it's not the babies fault do not kick your grandchild out if you have the means to support her even if it was just for the safe environment. The problem with a lot of these young girls mothers is they just throw their children and grandchildren out for the government and tax payers to deal with.
@Lilly Mi that's true not healthy for any of them
The aunt is amazing telling her shes proud the mum was jealous of hwr daughter and fed the siblings her bad energy...sad
Why is their house so vile. 🤮 why doesn’t the mother work?
I wonder where all of these Underage and pregnant people are these days 🤔hope all are doing very well these days
Lovely Storm Me too some have more kids now and married
@sara Allison aka Miss true Freeman not true. mollie and ross got married and the twins charlotte and alannah both got degrees and good jobs.
@@lunalove9395 how do you know this?
@@emilymoat8042 someone posted their details on one of the other videos. mollie's was on her facebook and charlotte's and alannah's was instagrams which are private now. i can't remember their last names though. i think the younger sister from the show also mentioned it, and how she hadn't got pregnant herself (she was just starting uni at the time) (also by mollie i meant the redhead one, not the blonde one)
Omg the baby is the cutest ❤️hope it all worked out for them
Her aunt is so supportive
Why the hell did the mom stop? Your daughter is trying to do better and you pull her legs out from under her? And where are the fathers in the situation? How the hell
Do
You have five kids and sit at home with no job?
All these comments about the tea in the bottle and being British that has nothing to do with it!! am British and I never gave my daughter tea when she was little and people putting sugar in it is even worse!! It’s just not right!
Can I just say well done Charlotte for wanting more and going back to college. I wonder how she’s doing??
I know right I'm British too deffo wasnt given a bottle of tea that's just crazy
Her grandmother is crazy for giving tea
Why is her mother having a conversation with her younger daughter putting the girl down how vile
Sad to watch. I hope people pay attention to why a lot of young mums struggle to get an education. Because they have no support system.
Something seems so off about the mums behaviour and the favouritism/ then completely ignoring? Helping and then taking away the help? I get that the mum doesn't HAVE to help raise Melanie, but what a great thing that would have been to support your daughter while you yourself arn't working, and then Charlotte would have graduated. It's not like it would have been forever. I get not wanting to have an ungrateful/ spoilt kid but damn! Surely there could have been some better communication about this. Out of all these origin videos I was so happy to see a family and young mum succeeding together... It does take a village to raise a child after all.
That mother is a piece of work
Mom...you're her PARENT...She has enough friends. She needs a mother!
If the mum doesn’t work and has the facilities to look after her Grandchild then why tf wouldn’t she
sara Allison aka Miss true Freeman what else is she doing all day? Family comes first
sara Allison aka Miss true Freeman I agree with you; personally I’d never but the mum must try and support her child in going to college and everything. She’s not expecting her mum to look after her but my question is why doesn’t the nana want to
@sara Allison aka Miss true Freeman
It was her responsibility to make sure her daughter doesn't get pregnant at 16, she failed.
Some people don't understand the meaning of family. She has no sense of loyalty. People are supposed to love their children. The goal is always for your child to be better than you. This mom is toxic and spews narcissism. Some people shouldn't have had a family. The mom is a prime example of this.
@Sara Allison her job as a mother (every parent's job) is to do your best for your child to be better than you. Your job is always to make your child more successful than you are. This mom doesn't care about her child or what it means to be a mother. She's lazy.
Poor Charlotte. Her mom is awful. Charlotte needs the support of her mother, but her mother is too selfish. Charlotte is a wonderful young woman, that needs to keep her head up for her sweet baby girl.
Good, I hope Charlotte made it and achieved the career she wanted. Would love to see where they are now.
Is Charlotte's mom a bit jealous
I was 18 & had my son two weeks later I went back to work.. fortunately my grandmother was there to help. Its never easy being a single mom
This is a narascist parent. I hope she doesn't give up on college and leaves her mother's.
3monsters014 Yeah. Charlotte isn’t perfect, but she’s doing her best. Mum Kelly is a nightmare.
Charlotte is an absolute star! Best of luck hun!
Not every unpleasant person is a narcissist. Words having meanings.
@@goingunder2548Wow,I made a comment 5 years ago. Grow up and pay attention.
I think it’s ridiculous that her mum wouldn’t even take the time to drop Melanie off to nursery so Charlotte could get ready for college.
I swear it's not like she had a job to go to or anything
It is not her responsibility. Don’t f@ck at a kidˋs age and then expect others to bail you out.
Charlotte is doing great with Melanie. I don't have a baby but I can understand how difficult it can be but the fact she's doing college while being a full time single parent, she's doing so well 😊
Britain's late 2000s early 2010s fashion sense is something else.
It's so sad how Kelly chose the feud with her daughter over going to her granddaughter's first birthday
Charlotte... You are absolutely amazing and a fantastic mum! So sad to see how she's being treated. I hope she achieves all her goals!
I can’t get over how terrible the grandmother is. Who acts like this?
How awful to throw your own child out
I think she wanted to make her realise that she needs to be responsible
I agree and even worse her very young grandchild that made me so sad.
She doesn't want her daughter to have a better life then her. This is very normal for a narascist parent. Should she wash her own clothes yes,but quit school to live her mothers life no.
@@3monsters014 exactly right
The mom talked about different sex positions with her daughter, what was she expecting to happen...🤦♀️
The aunt was so cute. She really believed in her niece ❤️
My god!! Ur expecting ur daughter to wake up earlier than 6 to get ready and then catch 2 buses to get her daughter to nursery!! So stupid atleast she wants to get a job
Umm yes, leaving the house at 4:30-5am is not unusual when you need to use public transport for work, school, daycare lol. 😄
Its a bit much for a spoilt teen with zero responsibilities to go straight into that routine with a new baby. Caregiver burn out anyone??
@sara Allison aka Miss true Freeman very true, but obviously it's a bit late for that.
@Lilly Mi that's true, but as a community can or should we be expecting a great outcome for her and her child? In her case yes we should, shes privileged enough to have access to benefits and housing as well as great family support. However, shes very immature, unappreciative and selfish. I just wish her the best.
scarlet lewis it’s not her kid it’s her daughters she doesn’t have to do anything for that baby
So where's Charlotte's Dad?
Where's Melanie's Dad?
For her mom to not show up for her own grand babies first bday is wrong
Okay all these comments bashing the mom are harsh. The mom is also a single mom of five and she might be going through a burn out as well. The 16 year old had a kid and it is HER responsibility. As harsh as this sounds, she has to face the consequences of her actions. She seems like a good mom and I hope she does become a police officer but she cannot expect her mom to make life easier for her when Mel is her child.
Absolutely right. I wonder why few people are able to realise this ❤
Charlottes mother is horrible. She just seems so petty , her and the younger sister bitching about her just because she hasn’t picked up the washing. She didn’t offer Charlotte any support when she needed it. As a mother if she believed she was truly doing wrong she should of guided her and given her advice not kicked her out!. As a young mum Charlotte did really well .
Does anyone else think her mum is jealous of Charlotte?
I think watching her daughter go after her dreams, have an education and be a good mum, well I don't think her mum liked that. She is clearly a better mum to Melanie than her mum is to Charlotte.
I think her mum wanted Charlotte home all day and someone to keep her company.
How awful that the mother has turned her siblings against Charlotte. What is so bad about her? She is so toxic and abusive. Not turning up to her 1st Birthday party or taking the siblings to their neices party.
I hope Charlotte did well in life.
Charlotte is trying her best to raise her daughter and get an education at the same time. I wish her mum would help her a little bit with the odd job.
The baby is so cute I can’t
Sweet Charlotte, you're doing an amazing job breaking the cycle ❤
The mum has no job, but the house is still an absolute tip. What did she do with her days when she refused to help Charlotte with Melanie??? Literally so petty refusing to do anything, my family love helping look after my daughter because that’s their blood, and don’t mind helping with washing / cooking ect because I’m constantly exhausted. It isn’t like Charlotte was sat on her ass, she was going to college pretty much from day 1, so she didn’t end up a lazy troll like her mum.. this has made me so mad phaha
@sammybaa samm and that’s where, as a mother, it’s your job to help and support your daughter. Regardless of age, all parents need support & if a mother can watch her child struggle, they shouldn’t have kids...
Grandma has 5 kids, no job then wonders why her daughter ended up having a kid so young 🤦 You only reap what you sow so don't act all high and mighty smh.....
CEDL4072 she told her to use protection but she didn’t listen
@@sweetpotato7778 Even on protection you can get pregnant.
@@laurencoradeath3755 it works over 99% of the time. I used protection for 20 years and never got pregnant. When my husband and I were ready we got pregnant with no problems. I have plenty of friends and family members who have lived the same way. It's the 21st century. Birth control works, the reason why families are so small now has nothing to do with abstinence. The mom in this story obviously didn't know much about birth control hence she had all those kids but wasn't working and didn't hear about a husband or even a baby daddy. And she didn't bother to put her daughter on birth control when she knew she was sexually active.
@@MsFlamingFlamer Not all birth control is 99% effective some are 60% or 80% and just because you and your family and friends didn't get pregnant on birth control doesn't mean others won't.
Nothing is 100% effective and there is a chance you can still get pregnant and how do you know the mum doesn't know about birth control? Do you know her personally or live with them?.
@@laurencoradeath3755 there are several forms of birth control that have over 99% efficacy. Check your science. The mom talked about talking about positions with her daughter but never birth control. The mom wouldn't have had all those kids if she used birth control like most civilized people over the past half century. Families have fallen to be 2 kids or less and it's not from abstinence.
I feel so bad for this poor girl..
The Mum doesn’t make work and won’t even help her daughter with the baby? Or turn up to her party? Very harsh
sara Allison aka Miss true Freeman fair enough but all new mums need help, it doesn’t hurt to help with a bit of cleaning or something especially since her daughters at college
@sara Allison aka Miss true Freeman True, but it's not like the mother works a job. At least her daughter is trying to be a successful adult by getting a college degree and a job.
The funny thing is, if she wasn't a teen mom, her mom would probably help her.
Sara Allison it isn’t a chore to go to your granddaughters first birthday. She’ll always look back knowing her nan didn’t care enough to make the effort & suck up her strop for one day...
Grandmothers is a STATE
I wonder if she became a police woman ❤️
The mother( Kelly) is ...let’s say not the way she should be !!! Well done Charlotte for trying your best and being a good mum for your daughter!❤️
Charlotte needs the support to get back to college so she doesn't end up like her mother.
What a sad siutation for the child the mother needs to wake up and take responsibility of her daughter
Charlotte's mom and sisters remind me so much of my in-laws. Talking behind each others back, jealous of Charlotte and just being down right nasty. Her mother and sisters even took out their jealousy and nastiness on the baby. I was absolutely disgusted. If I were Charlotte I would be done with all of them and never allow them back into my life.
Yup, her Mom is so lazy and disgusting and so jealous of how great Charlotte is doing.
I don't know what her mums problem is. Charlotte is being spoken about as if she is a criminal. I actually think shes been doing really well, she's raising her daughter, going to college and has ambition. Her sister is a total cow, and her mum is sabotaging her. I'm glad she could go to her aunt and continue with her education, she seems really supportive and I hope her future was bright despite her horrid mother.
Omg my heart for this girl 😢😢😢😢 i understand all the tuff love parts but wow ...i have an 11 year old grandson who i still bring up my daughter was 14 when she had him and it was hard still is but never could i have been that tough ..awk who knows maybe im wrong but honestly love both my daughter and my grandson with every fibre of me i just can't understand the bullying style encouragement from the siblings feel sad for them all if im honest xxxxx
I hope Charlotte and Melanie are doing well
I love Charlotte. Keep going girl!!! You can do it.
when you mature you realise whats important in life ISNT CAREERS or being wordly sucessful. itsbeing happy and loved and having your basic needs met.
1:05 I HAD THAT BATH TOY, THAT WAS LITERALLY MY FAVORITE ONE
Why is it that everyone on here says that you drink and party at 16? My parents would kill me and I’m 19
I love u
I like u am alone
❤❤😍😍
Honestly I feel like I can kinda see things from both the perspective of the mum and the perspective of Charlotte. I can see why her mum would be frustrated because she’s got the other kids to raise and things that she has to do herself, and I understand there’s probably times where things get overwhelming if Charlotte doesn’t pull her weight with the cleaning and things, but I can also understand that Charlotte is a 16 year old girl with a baby who is trying to get a good education for her sake and her child’s sake and she was just getting overwhelmed by everything that was going on. I definitely don’t agree with her mum kicking her out though. There’s clearly things that have happened on both sides and they’re both hurting. I hope they were able to get help and sort things out. ❤️
Nothing would have stopped me going to my granddaughters first birthday
The fact that her mum and sister are talking badly about her behind her back is actually disgusting
I think it’s better for her to be away from her mom. Her mother was toxic. I’m proud of the Aunt for trying to help. I hope Charlotte doesn’t turn out like her mom.
You can see she really loves her baby girl and works so hard for her and yet her own mother and sisters treated her so badly. She is the most mature one 9f the bunch and that's sad. The mother doesn't work and yet refuses to help with the baby and it honestly looks like she eggs on the feuds between the sisters. That mom has how many kids and doesn't even look like she takes care of them. But Charlotte is in school and really trying hard. Good for her and shame on that pathetic excuse for a so be called mother.
The mother's attitude is horrendous and the way she gets the sisters to have a go too, ignoring the baby is disgusting. Complains Charlotte has given up, isn't going to college yet doesn't make life easier. Mother is jealous of Charlotte. The aunty is a god send and better role model
I think she's done amazing sometimes parents think they have changed so dramatically but she had a baby she's grown up! What a shame!
She's so beautiful and young with her 10 months old baby girl👣👶🏻
Ok mom but she's young and raising a kid and pursuing an education. Maybe she DOES need support. Her mom seems hella toxic
I can’t believe that’s she kicked her daughter out with a baby wen she’s a baby her self she was doing nothing wrong at all that I could see her aunt showed her more love in them at 20 second clip then her mother did in the whole show and why couldn’t she help and take her grandchild to day care wen she lives on benefits sits on the sofa all day does nothing and then you have her daughter with a baby saying I want a job my mums never had one she doesn’t deserve a grandchild at all I hope that her and baby have a lovely life and she gets the Joan she needs to take care of her and her daughter much love
Any updates on this amazing young mom
The baby is not the grandmother's responsibility.
True but the grandmother was a terrible role model from the jump
I wonder what they are doing these days, is there any way to find out? Thank you
Congrats! You still got this! You’re doing great
Idk why everyone is coming for her mom. At the end of the day its not her responsibility to take care of her daughter's mistakes... I think ppl get choosing to help and obligations mixed up🤷🏾♀️
Girl bye her mother is a witch. Wouldn’t even call that a mother.
But it's her responsibility to get her ass off that couch and do something and look after her kids instead of being a lay so so.
Any updates?
The problem here is Charlotte's mum wants to be a mate to Charlotte instead of a mum... when Charlotte is busy being an actual mum to her daughter, Charlotte mum got jealous. I hope that she achieves absolutely everything she wants and I hope one day Charlotte's mum turns up with a problem and needing help and I hope Charlotte shuts the door in her face, just like she shut the door in not just Charlotte's face, but a toddlers face too. Disgusting behaviour from a grown woman toward her own daughter