Adrian, make comment trolling, please! I miss for it.... I have a good idea. go to a girl, and say her you look Like a famous character, and when she replies " wich character " say : the donkey from shrek (sorry for not well English if I had a mistake )
@@bushmaster101 Well, in relationships, ladies expect a man to take the initiative. If a guy wants something to happen, it's in his best interest to make a move quickly. As for only using the phrase when they want something, I don't agree, some people are just nice. If they are nice for ulterior motives, that's their buisness
The moral of the story : Shy guys think much before doing something , they always have a fear to lose what they have. But the interesting fact is shy guys are the most talkative to people whom they think their own.
She couldn't make it more obvious she is one of the stupidest girls I've ever seen, even if it's just on video 🤦🏻♂️ She's the perfect example of that saying: Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak and remove all doubt. Ps. I don't know why but I kind of expected similar response even before she started to speak
@@Chris-zi4mo Somehow she understood the question enough to answer it. I'm also not a native English speaker and I've learned it myself. As far as I know it was in Sweden and everyone in her age can speak English there. The quote I've cited in my previous comment remains valid. Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak and remove all the doubt. Maybe I am the one who is stupid and maybe you are just a thirsty SIMP trying to present yourself as a white knight in a hope she will read your comment, notice you and fall I love with you?
Advice from an old guy, I'm a boomer. The biggest mistake that many girls make when dating is not giving a shy guy the benefit of the doubt. Many shy guys, when they're in confidence, with their friends or classmates, are not shy at all. They can be very funny, smart, engaging, etc. But around an attractive girl, they get nervous and shy. Give them the benefit of the doubt, let them get into confidence with you, and you may be pleasantly surprized. By the way, many of those women that say they don't like shy men, because they lack confidence, are not "alphas", or because they're "stupid", with the pass of time are complaining that there are no "good men", or that they are "jerk magnets", or that they simply have had "bad luck" with men. Bottom line, they have BAD TASTE in men. Stop interviewing them!
@Mr. D. Yeah right, "young man". And all those young ladies that set those high expectations for the guys they "want" to date, end up dating the most incredible losers that you can imagine. I know, because I attend young teenagers and twenty-some year olds in my profession (I'm an orthodontist) and I see the things girls go out with. The "hottest" girls date very "average" men, and the best looking guys are with very "average" girls. But that's for reasons that you wouldn't understand.
Good to see there are guys that understand it. Some might wish more, usually young women, would get it too, but I don't really care. Let them ride the carousel when they're young and beautiful and enjoy watching them later on, when they hit the wall and end up with a bunch of cats trying to hit those introverts they rejected years before. Others are single mothers or wives to a cave men who cheat them on every occasion
If parents be very strict and dont allow you to build up self confidence and others outside bully you and you never feel alright, then you can end up growing as a shy guy and women take their distance. Shy guys are often shy for some reasons.
@@ericfreeman5795 can you please explain the last statement about hottest guys date average girls and vice versa, i'm kind of intrigued and would like to learn a little more.
This reminds me of the time I was still in college. There was this girl I was in the same class with who always glanced my way when I wasn't looking. She was pretty. One day, she sat at my table in the library and I could see that she wanted to talk. The problem was that I didn't know what to talk about because I didn't know what she wanted to talk about. The result was us sitting side by side, looking at each other while my head raced, desperately searching for something to say and the surrounding noise grew into a cacophony of voices, slamming books, moving chairs, and the ominous creaking of the library door, and growing progressively louder with every heartbeat until reaching decibels of a freight train derailing and slamming into an underpass. Then, all of a sudden, everything went quiet as a question floated in a veritable thought vacuum in my mind. "What do you think about the theory of evolution?". That turned out to be a dealbreaker.
Im from sweden and she said in swedish ”i dont even know how to talk english” i think she just wanted to be funny in front of her friends and she didnt really understand him.
Personally I think being shy is attractive ..they are the best observer and a deep thinker .. extrovert isn't my type . And by the way , being shy doesn't mean that they can't hold the conversation , you just need to be patient with them and to enjoy the silence what they prefer .
Well, my problem is that I’m not shy to talk to girls but sometimes I just don’t know what to talk about with them. I’m an introvert but I wouldn’t say I lack confidence to talk to girls. I’m just not talkative. It feels like guys are always the ones who have to try to entertain the girls and win their hearts while the girls are just sitting there and waiting to be entertained.
@DogSayingWoosh same lmao i can be hilarious around ppl who are pretty close to me, but once you include someone I'm meeting for the first time that's an automatic silent mode for me
I LOVE SHY GUYS! They are cute, mostly sensitive, interesting & not easily misguided. They tend to be more truthful & deep than outgoing guys. I am outgoing myself so, i guess opposites attract. Shy doesn’t mean insecure nor introvert per say. They are just perhaps more selective, analytical & neutral. Thumbs up to shy guys 👍🏽👍🏽🙌🏽
I think I'm some of those, but can't really decide if it's more shy or introverted behavior. To me seems like a grey area for me 🤔 I often question whether someone introverted or extroverted would be right fit, I find myself drawn to both, since they both have characteristics I admire. However, one could feel more contagious in their uplifting and energetic ways, but the thought of always being pulled out of hiding can feel exhausting mentally. Idk why but when im in groups a lot, i often suffer mental fatigue. It's like I need to recharge often before I can do it again, often even making up excuses. "Oh sorry, something came up i cant make it, maybe next time" when in actuality there was just plans with myself and a movie that I felt more comfortable doing. I think my brain just works over time, trying to process everyones feelings and attempting to give everyone equal amounts of attention while also mentally asking myself questions in my head and answering them about topics while finding my opinion on the topic to contribute. Then you have the thought of feeling guilty of not being able to give the extrovert, extrovert attention every time they need it and instead feeling selective with when you do. And whether the extrovert can provide those one on one conversations without the need for more and without feeling fatigue, because i bet just as I get mental fatigue in groups, they probably have some sort of negative experience with always being cooped up. 🤔
These women have no idea on what they are talking about. Shy guys mostly are very empathetic, independent, good listeners, have emotional stability and intuitive that most extroverts do not have. I can say that because i am an introvert.
@@sgtpepper1456 You are an absolute introvert.. That's why you are feeling that way. I'm a girl and I'm very introverted, too. I always feel drained around big groups of people.. And I really prefer being at home. That's typical of us. Plus, I'm super shy and unconfident, so I get really nervous around people.. And especially around boys. So.. I just don't feel right around people. I overthink most of the time.. And ask myself a lot of questions until I find my opinion on every topic. I'm sensitive and get easily hurt. I love my home and my solitude. Do you know what it is like? 😬🙃
@@jerome6833 I'm a girl and I can say you're absolutely right. Shy people are deep, intelligent, innocent and interesting. I would always prefer a silent shy guy over a confident and talkative one. To be honest, I haven't watched the video because I'm scared to hear what these girls are saying.. But if it's something offensive, don't listen to them. You don't have to change. Someone will appreciate you for who you truly are. ♥️♥️♥️
You are absolutely 100 % right , a people who talks more who is thinking little but who is talking less who thinks more and very knowledgeable from inside .
Shyness cure: Fake it until you make it. I used to be extremely shy then one day I decided to walk around my city asking people directions every 50 metres. After 8 hours and hundreds of interactions it becomes so easy. I did the same in shops asking staff questions etc. Now I can approach any girl in a bar and chat away naturally. It’s difficult but put the hours in making random chat and you’ll get over it.
"I never really met a shy guy. I think they are rare". That ladies and gentleman is a prime example for a paradox or maybe even confirmation bias. Of course you don't meet shy guys, since shy people are shy
Nothing bad about being alone, many people can actually be happy without a girlfriend, the ones that should actually worry about themself and seek some help are those who have serious problems being alone, those who have kind of an obsession to have a girl/boy friend.
@@gamerforever2126 Someday you will find the one. No rush. Once you find the adequate (without that obsession feeling to catch any random girl you find) you will feel much more better.
But I like shy guys. They're cute. Especially when they stare at you, you look at them and then they look away in like 0.2 seconds😂 Just be a little more understanding, patient towards them and don't give up on them either. Chances are you're both overthinking
Ok here's the thing... I am an extroverted girl + social butterfly, and I am more attracted towards shy guys...maybe it's because they are complete opposite to me that I am so attracted to them, I would happily make the first move and try to spend more time with them...oh god give me one in the future 💙💙
I’m a shy guy, and my experience with women has been what you describe. Extroverted and talkative women have always pursued me and that’s mostly who I have been in relationships with. But the guy can’t be weak, he still needs to be like a man in other areas.
I'm not shy, I'm just introverted. Most of my conversations are free flowing but with an awful lot of silence because I simply dont like to talk much, it's a waste of energy to actually try to make conversation happen instead of just letting it happen naturally. If a girl automatically thinks I'm shy because I just dont talk that much, that says a lot more about her than it does about me. My eye contact is strong, I stand tall when I walk, my voice isn't shaky, fast or nervous. So putting someone in the shy category simply just off the fact that they dont talk that much, is mad stupid.
Being shy doesn't mean that we don't talk to anybody it's just that we are not comfortable with everyone..once you get to know us and you will experience a completely different version of us...
To whoever who needs to hear this, The girls who don't like shy guys probably don't deserve us. They are not the girl for you. Trust me :) Be proud of who you are. There is always a unique girl out there somewhere waiting for you :) #Introvers_rock_the_world❤️
Shy people are normal people too 🤷♀️ they come with a variety of different personalities and talents. They oftentimes are some of most interesting people. Shy people aren’t always cowardly or weak. They can turn out to be the bravest, coolest and strongest humans . It’s just that the wall of shyness is stopping them from discovering or showing their true selves. People being so judgemental about shyness only makes shy people more insecure 😒 and of course it exists in a spectrum. Shy doesn’t automatically mean you are not good with people or are anti-social. That would be more of social anxiety.
Good point. I was shy from an early age, and people constantly bugging you about being quiet just makes you think there’s something wrong with you which makes your shyness worse. People think they’re helping, but it causes a downward spiral. Criticism doesn’t lift a shy person up. It doesn’t lift anybody up really.
I'm a shy guy and idc about what others think about me because I've got into a lot of shit from girls judging me, ignoring me and talking me behind my back with mean comments. Just because we dont open up doesn't mean that we are introverted or we are afraid of rejection...... It only means that we are not comfortable around everyone. Once you get to know us, you cannot resist us. But the truth is that people dont have patience to make us comfortable and know us. You will also never see anyone loyal and honest like us in this whole f world.
ikr. it takes a lot of courage for shy guys to approach you. if a shy guy came up to me, i would def feel special and would appreciate his effort a lot xoxo
In your mind you would, but your heart, biology and chemistry would say otherwise. In the end you'd want him as a friend. Biology always pervails. Especially in girls. Sorry for speaking facts.
To all the people reading this a shy person will be the most nicest person to have as a friend. That's because they speak less and listen more. Well it's my personal experience.
I love how none of them actually think about the person itself but only their superficial traits. I have a shy cousin and she's just AMAZING, she's like the sweetest girl I've ever met and yes, it was kinda hard to interact with her at the beginning but eventually she got more comfortable with me and now we can have pretty normal conversations. It's kinda hard to become friends with a shy person but man, it's absolutely worth it since they tend to be pretty nice people.
as a shy guy i find this very helpful but at the same i kinda choose being shy or introvert i found so many bland and bad friends its ok to be shy keep working on yourself and holding conversation is very important cause there will be time when you will find a amazing girl worth chasing after and putting time and effort and social skills talents will definately help
Actually shy guys are only shy to people they do not know or they just met but when you actually get to know them you will not imagine him being shy anymore.
I probably dated 30 women at least before finding my fiancee. Of those 25 were just first dates. Had 4 other girlfriends (besides my fiancee of course), and of those, only one stuck around longer than 3 months. So it can be trial and error. If you aren't like Independence Day era Will Smith, odds are if you get out there, the majority of the women will be just one date. But at least one (or more) would want to see you again
When girls say a 'tall guy', they mean tall AND good looking. Most tall men like average and short men .....are average to under average looking. So their pool of dating is even smaller.
Shy doesn’t mean not confident. I usually run from the spot lights, especially when there’s a lot of show off and compliments. But definitely have my moments where I raise my voice. I never was a doormat and always voice my opinions, which are usually against the crowd.
Dear person reading this,Don't worry. You will find love soon. You will find success. You will find happiness. And you will find peace. Be patient , whatever you do Don't run back to what broke you. Love from a unknown UA-camr.
Extrovert people speaks more, while introvert people think more. I guess many woman prefer talkative person than a thinker person. Little do they know, once an introvert start sharing things to someone, that someone must be good to be with or that someone must be special.
Even if you're tall, handsome, smart, and well educated with a good job, being shy will kill your dating prospects. But that's okay, a lot of the women you might otherwise meet aren't people you'd want to get stuck with anyway. Enjoy the freedom of being single!
I am in office and I had to really press hard on my mouth to stop the LOL from falling out....hahaha she in deed has 10 IQ written over her face... lmao
I don't know whether i'm introvert or not. I don't talk to strangers until needed. But when people talk to me first i can still talk to them like they're my best friends
Funny thing is, I'm naturally shy. However, I played the role of an arrogant extrovert so well people are finding it incredibly hard to believe that I was once shy lol
Shy guy are interesting: we know when to be shy and not talk even when people are talking non-stop. Edit: Everybody can't. Researchers are taking sample to study us 😁😂
@@user-bh9wk5yg6l She's speaking swedish at a native level, therefor she is stupid for not knowing english. If you're her age and have grown up in sweden and don't understand such basic english you're not a very bright one
Ikr? But it takes courage for you to talk to them, like me. And somehow instead of I should make a first move to talk to my crush she just instead sat near me and she said "Hi🥰" with that face and idk what to say lmao but good thing she do that first lmao.
@@debanikgoswami4834 That's way even better, crazy it's been 2 years since I replied here. I confessed to my crush and she friend zoned me lmfao 💀 she understood what I felt about her and she instead appreciated my feelings about her. It's a long story, but in the end we still remained friends and finally got over with her. You should be glad that both of you were flirty to one another, I envy you but I guess there's more things I have to discover sooner in life. So good luck to both of you.
Those girls got me pissed for saying they didn’t like shy guys in my opinion I like shy guys cause it makes them adorable and dorky but in a good way but most importantly there loyal and yes I have feel head over heels for a shy guy but I never told him 💀✋🏻
m 25 never approach a girl in my entire life still single the reason is m shy now i believe i'll die single note : 100%straight and not ugly looking guy 🤣🤣
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What is that with your hair in the intro😂
Well im glad i don't need that anymore because im tall and i eat alot
Adrian, make comment trolling, please! I miss for it.... I have a good idea. go to a girl, and say her you look Like a famous character, and when she replies " wich character " say : the donkey from shrek (sorry for not well English if I had a mistake )
What Country are the ladies from?
@@Idieallot75 sweden
"I've never met shy guys before, I feel like they're rare"
Yeah because all of us are at home watching this video.
nop
May be!!
Yup
No cap
yeah,right.
Translation:
"I don't like shy guys bcs then I have to make the first move and I'm too shy for that"
You are the real thing. I hope you ain't shy. You earned every like
@@obiarnold9498 y gyes always have to be first as they say ladies first lmao.
only using the phrase ladies first when they want something.
@@bushmaster101 Well, in relationships, ladies expect a man to take the initiative. If a guy wants something to happen, it's in his best interest to make a move quickly. As for only using the phrase when they want something, I don't agree, some people are just nice. If they are nice for ulterior motives, that's their buisness
@@obiarnold9498 just give girl money they will do anything 😂 simple
@@bushmaster101 Wow..
The moral of the story : Shy guys think much before doing something , they always have a fear to lose what they have. But the interesting fact is shy guys are the most talkative to people whom they think their own.
😇😇😇😇
Facts
True
This is true
Trueeee
I don’t talk much, people call me introvert, but I feel like I don’t have social anxiety. I can talk to stranger if I want to lmao
that's what an introvert stands for
Nah that's selectively social
I’m introvert but I got tons of friends you know! I talk to them at the start then most of them just come to me idk
Just be yourself that is the most important ^^ you are what you are ... that's what make special than others ✌✌
Same bro
"shy guys are stupid"
also the same girl :
-do you like shy guys or extrovert?
-yes
She just doesn't speaks english
@@fernandolovato3979 I think u too😁
She couldn't make it more obvious she is one of the stupidest girls I've ever seen, even if it's just on video 🤦🏻♂️
She's the perfect example of that saying:
Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak and remove all doubt.
Ps. I don't know why but I kind of expected similar response even before she started to speak
@@farral Did you not even notice it was because there was a language barrier? Maybe you're the dumb one haha!
@@Chris-zi4mo Somehow she understood the question enough to answer it.
I'm also not a native English speaker and I've learned it myself. As far as I know it was in Sweden and everyone in her age can speak English there.
The quote I've cited in my previous comment remains valid.
Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak and remove all the doubt.
Maybe I am the one who is stupid and maybe you are just a thirsty SIMP trying to present yourself as a white knight in a hope she will read your comment, notice you and fall I love with you?
-"Shy guys are stupid"
- Would you prefer a confident guy or a shy guy?
- "Yes"
the joke tells itself
Lmao
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
"Thank you for coming to my ted talk"🤣
she is being rude . But imagine if a guy says shy girls are stupid ! The comment section would be bunch of trigger women
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Advice from an old guy, I'm a boomer. The biggest mistake that many girls make when dating is not giving a shy guy the benefit of the doubt. Many shy guys, when they're in confidence, with their friends or classmates, are not shy at all. They can be very funny, smart, engaging, etc. But around an attractive girl, they get nervous and shy. Give them the benefit of the doubt, let them get into confidence with you, and you may be pleasantly surprized.
By the way, many of those women that say they don't like shy men, because they lack confidence, are not "alphas", or because they're "stupid", with the pass of time are complaining that there are no "good men", or that they are "jerk magnets", or that they simply have had "bad luck" with men. Bottom line, they have BAD TASTE in men.
Stop interviewing them!
@Mr. D. Yeah right, "young man". And all those young ladies that set those high expectations for the guys they "want" to date, end up dating the most incredible losers that you can imagine. I know, because I attend young teenagers and twenty-some year olds in my profession (I'm an orthodontist) and I see the things girls go out with. The "hottest" girls date very "average" men, and the best looking guys are with very "average" girls. But that's for reasons that you wouldn't understand.
Bro u said it!!👍❤️
Good to see there are guys that understand it.
Some might wish more, usually young women, would get it too, but I don't really care.
Let them ride the carousel when they're young and beautiful and enjoy watching them later on, when they hit the wall and end up with a bunch of cats trying to hit those introverts they rejected years before.
Others are single mothers or wives to a cave men who cheat them on every occasion
If parents be very strict and dont allow you to build up self confidence and others outside bully you and you never feel alright, then you can end up growing as a shy guy and women take their distance.
Shy guys are often shy for some reasons.
@@ericfreeman5795 can you please explain the last statement about hottest guys date average girls and vice versa, i'm kind of intrigued and would like to learn a little more.
2:44 "Stupid" seems to be the only word she understands. Probably because she hears it all the time.
Yes
Yeah make sense
Lol true
Good one 😂
Confident guys or shy guys- YES
This reminds me of the time I was still in college. There was this girl I was in the same class with who always glanced my way when I wasn't looking. She was pretty. One day, she sat at my table in the library and I could see that she wanted to talk. The problem was that I didn't know what to talk about because I didn't know what she wanted to talk about. The result was us sitting side by side, looking at each other while my head raced, desperately searching for something to say and the surrounding noise grew into a cacophony of voices, slamming books, moving chairs, and the ominous creaking of the library door, and growing progressively louder with every heartbeat until reaching decibels of a freight train derailing and slamming into an underpass. Then, all of a sudden, everything went quiet as a question floated in a veritable thought vacuum in my mind. "What do you think about the theory of evolution?". That turned out to be a dealbreaker.
😂😂😂tf evolution.
you seem like a writer??
@@borgir6368 I do write a bit. I'm trying to become better, though.
I want to know what happened next?
@@toufiquemunshi7804 We became good friends. Nothing romantic happened between us.
“Shy guys are stupid?”, I think that woman is stupid
That old aunt is stupid
Lol that what I thought too... 😂😂😂 But I hope she is not...
That woman doesn't even understand proper english.
Im from sweden and she said in swedish ”i dont even know how to talk english” i think she just wanted to be funny in front of her friends and she didnt really understand him.
@@thegnome9529 lmao
Do you like a shy guy?
Girls: No!
Do you like a shy guy that he has money?
Girls: Yeeeeeeeeees!
Text me
Gold diggers sucks
Gold digger are so cool
@@greenmarble8110 I hope you're being sarcastic.
@@YipJason no. i'm serious, i like to dump them actually.
me a shy guy watching these: “I see this as an absolute winning”
Let's be honest, we all watched this vid to know what they think about us XD
True and sad lol
what only shy people would do
@@criseng2978 don't be sad my friend
@@rainerjoshuamarasigan6753 sanaol
@@blackpinkistherevolution4998 nani
Personally I think being shy is attractive ..they are the best observer and a deep thinker .. extrovert isn't my type . And by the way , being shy doesn't mean that they can't hold the conversation , you just need to be patient with them and to enjoy the silence what they prefer .
Thanks 🖤🖤 girls don't understand that extroverts are the ones thet just want to fck and dump them later..
Extroverted guys are high maintenance not everybody can keep up with constant partying and hanging out with friends.
@@Sentinel_Daniel you got a valid point 👍😊
wow I need your types in my area..
Exactly
"i never met a shy guy, i feel like they are rare"
Yeah bcuz we chillin here in our corner in our room whatching this vid
That girl of alpha is atracted to a dinossaur, a T-REX, maybe. Tall and eats a lot.
Hannibal Lecter ;)
😄
My thought likes you
too bad she doesn’t realise that a true alpha wouldn’t even lay an eye on her
she likes bigass wolf 🤡
Well, my problem is that I’m not shy to talk to girls but sometimes I just don’t know what to talk about with them. I’m an introvert but I wouldn’t say I lack confidence to talk to girls. I’m just not talkative. It feels like guys are always the ones who have to try to entertain the girls and win their hearts while the girls are just sitting there and waiting to be entertained.
Man this is exactly my struggle
@@ilyass6898 same :/
Same man
Interesting
@DogSayingWoosh same lmao i can be hilarious around ppl who are pretty close to me, but once you include someone I'm meeting for the first time that's an automatic silent mode for me
Dudes, theres nothing wrong with being yourself. Dont change yourself for these females smh. They dont even know what they want
Trueee xD
@@federalboobieinspector ya
Yessss,be myself
Thanks bro
Yep
U click this because ur shy
How did u know? ,Yeah ur right I'm shy
Johnmiller Jimenez lol
You are psychic!
Nope I am aspergers
I clicked this to share to my friend that is always shy😂
I LOVE SHY GUYS! They are cute, mostly sensitive, interesting & not easily misguided. They tend to be more truthful & deep than outgoing guys. I am outgoing myself so, i guess opposites attract. Shy doesn’t mean insecure nor introvert per say. They are just perhaps more selective, analytical & neutral. Thumbs up to shy guys 👍🏽👍🏽🙌🏽
I think I'm some of those, but can't really decide if it's more shy or introverted behavior. To me seems like a grey area for me 🤔 I often question whether someone introverted or extroverted would be right fit, I find myself drawn to both, since they both have characteristics I admire. However, one could feel more contagious in their uplifting and energetic ways, but the thought of always being pulled out of hiding can feel exhausting mentally. Idk why but when im in groups a lot, i often suffer mental fatigue. It's like I need to recharge often before I can do it again, often even making up excuses. "Oh sorry, something came up i cant make it, maybe next time" when in actuality there was just plans with myself and a movie that I felt more comfortable doing. I think my brain just works over time, trying to process everyones feelings and attempting to give everyone equal amounts of attention while also mentally asking myself questions in my head and answering them about topics while finding my opinion on the topic to contribute. Then you have the thought of feeling guilty of not being able to give the extrovert, extrovert attention every time they need it and instead feeling selective with when you do. And whether the extrovert can provide those one on one conversations without the need for more and without feeling fatigue, because i bet just as I get mental fatigue in groups, they probably have some sort of negative experience with always being cooped up. 🤔
Shy means fearful. You mean reserved.
These women have no idea on what they are talking about. Shy guys mostly are very empathetic, independent, good listeners, have emotional stability and intuitive that most extroverts do not have. I can say that because i am an introvert.
@@sgtpepper1456
You are an absolute introvert.. That's why you are feeling that way. I'm a girl and I'm very introverted, too. I always feel drained around big groups of people.. And I really prefer being at home. That's typical of us. Plus, I'm super shy and unconfident, so I get really nervous around people.. And especially around boys. So.. I just don't feel right around people. I overthink most of the time.. And ask myself a lot of questions until I find my opinion on every topic. I'm sensitive and get easily hurt. I love my home and my solitude. Do you know what it is like? 😬🙃
@@jerome6833
I'm a girl and I can say you're absolutely right. Shy people are deep, intelligent, innocent and interesting. I would always prefer a silent shy guy over a confident and talkative one. To be honest, I haven't watched the video because I'm scared to hear what these girls are saying.. But if it's something offensive, don't listen to them. You don't have to change. Someone will appreciate you for who you truly are. ♥️♥️♥️
I feel awkward to start a conversation with a girl unless she talks first. 😂
Join the club...me too😂
@@user-H4rsh let me join
@live for Jesus same😌 always feel like they gonna say sum or be rude to me if I talk to them first or sum
I am also 😂😂
You're relatable can we be friends??
Shy guys are attractive . They are tend to be more loyal and trusted person. They are matured . Thats it
Aku pemalu nih :v
I feel the same way lol, like as a girl they're cute af
Periodt pooh
As an introvert I refuse to be loved, get nae naed
I feel like I've found my home haha
When some people don't talk much that doesn't makes them shy, old Arab says that who talks a lot thinks a little، who thinks a lot talks little
مين الي قالها يعم
You are absolutely 100 % right , a people who talks more who is thinking little but who is talking less who thinks more and very knowledgeable from inside .
@@medalymaa787 يعمي ماتبوزشي الحكمة 😅
Sometimes I wish I think little, overthinking sucks 😔
Fahad Moha now imagine if one of the girls interviewed said that.
Interviewer: “Do you like shy guys?”
Girl: “Yes”
Interviewer: “You like shy guys?”
Girl: “No I don’t think so.”
Gotta love women.
They don't know what they want. Thats why they shouldn't be taken seriously lol
@@kalashnikovz65 Timothy 2:12
You should know that English is not her mother tongue...
@@alejandromoran4590 you don't need native level English to give yes or no answers
@@aymanemach but you need it to understand the question, she clearly did not
I feel like I got rejected indirectly while watching this video😐😐😐
Same here it’s feels like I got rejected from the inside
Its all good bro, its all mentality
you are not the only one
Noooooo we love shy guys..its so cute when they are a softie i personally love em and many other girls can agree :)♡
@@mal5241 I feel good knowing that haha 🥲
Shyness cure:
Fake it until you make it. I used to be extremely shy then one day I decided to walk around my city asking people directions every 50 metres. After 8 hours and hundreds of interactions it becomes so easy. I did the same in shops asking staff questions etc.
Now I can approach any girl in a bar and chat away naturally. It’s difficult but put the hours in making random chat and you’ll get over it.
Real cure :-
Drink a little alcohol
so true! awesome!
Shy doesn't mean He is not confident 😂
Why does that seem like an ad?
@@vizx8574 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
We're not shy. We are just dark and pressed by society. The things we have been through does not compare to yours.
😞
@@southsideboyz9463 E?
@@darkocean666 That’s a sad reaction.
@@southsideboyz9463 Hmm maybe
If u wanna talk about it, my insta is unavailable.__.username
"I never really met a shy guy. I think they are rare". That ladies and gentleman is a prime example for a paradox or maybe even confirmation bias. Of course you don't meet shy guys, since shy people are shy
We are masters of disguise if no one is looking for us.
Nobody likes shy guy....so i am going to be single almost my entire life... that's fine😁😁
You're shy you're not a men
@@gamerforever2126 LOL
Nothing bad about being alone, many people can actually be happy without a girlfriend, the ones that should actually worry about themself and seek some help are those who have serious problems being alone, those who have kind of an obsession to have a girl/boy friend.
@@MaxJusth yes I have an obsession of having a girl friend but i'am fucking lonely
@@gamerforever2126 Someday you will find the one. No rush. Once you find the adequate (without that obsession feeling to catch any random girl you find) you will feel much more better.
There is a huge difference between being shy and being quit
you will see the difference all at once if u ever make the quit person angry
Not sure what you are suggesting. I'm fairly quiet, and when I'm angry, I'm still pretty quiet.
But I like shy guys. They're cute. Especially when they stare at you, you look at them and then they look away in like 0.2 seconds😂
Just be a little more understanding, patient towards them and don't give up on them either. Chances are you're both overthinking
My crush once looked at me for 4 seconds and now he's my crush so yeah
I appreciate it.
This is what most people should know instead of judging a book by its cover. But we live in a material world
*Girls like guys who barks like a dog without any reason* 😋😋
Just don’t bite them bruh!😎
Depends on mood and time ,people do compromises alot
@@joshjosh2842 still depends
ye
But I m a wolf who don't turn when dogs bark
Ok here's the thing...
I am an extroverted girl + social butterfly, and I am more attracted towards shy guys...maybe it's because they are complete opposite to me that I am so attracted to them, I would happily make the first move and try to spend more time with them...oh god give me one in the future 💙💙
lol
I’m a shy guy, and my experience with women has been what you describe. Extroverted and talkative women have always pursued me and that’s mostly who I have been in relationships with. But the guy can’t be weak, he still needs to be like a man in other areas.
@@stevenmcgrew869 ofc ofc i get it! Relationship where the girl is the "man" of the relationship isn't really my cup of tea
this is just trolling lol
shy guys are EVERYWHERE
you don't notice them because they are shy and silent
@@stevenmcgrew869 describe weak.
I'm not shy, I'm just introverted. Most of my conversations are free flowing but with an awful lot of silence because I simply dont like to talk much, it's a waste of energy to actually try to make conversation happen instead of just letting it happen naturally.
If a girl automatically thinks I'm shy because I just dont talk that much, that says a lot more about her than it does about me.
My eye contact is strong, I stand tall when I walk, my voice isn't shaky, fast or nervous. So putting someone in the shy category simply just off the fact that they dont talk that much, is mad stupid.
Finally! Someone gets it!
Yup!!
Concurred!
100% agree, some people are just mentally limited
True 🙌
Some people r attractive until they open their mouth
I think shy guys are genuinely adorable since they had a kind heart but are too shy to show it😚😚
Being shy doesn't mean that we don't talk to anybody it's just that we are not comfortable with everyone..once you get to know us and you will experience a completely different version of us...
Yes sir
Big facts
No as even though I am shy 😳 and I am comfortable it will be yet hard for me
Omg true
Yessirr that's me alright
"aN aLpHa iS tAlL aNd eAtS a loT" wtf did I just hear lmao
The girl is only looking for appearance not what she thinks about shy guys.
She was most likely talking about bodybuilders.
To whoever who needs to hear this, The girls who don't like shy guys probably don't deserve us. They are not the girl for you. Trust me :) Be proud of who you are. There is always a unique girl out there somewhere waiting for you :) #Introvers_rock_the_world❤️
Yeah, I'm not changing myself for a girl who doesn't like me for me. No thanks!
I dont like outgoing guys
They are very annoying and stupid 🤷🏻♀️
I prefer shy guys.
Somehow true😂
I love you 👍🏾😂
Rebeca Cipres but you are commenting an outgoing guy’s video lol
really? this kind of girls exists? ❤️
Don't do it, don't give me hope
Shy guys are actually cute! Human form of solace.
Yeah hehe
Finally one girl who is being nice. I'm a shy guy and when I saw this video, i was devastated. Thank you sister, you made me come back to normal.🙏
🥺
Thanks varsha. U frm which place
@@ravindra2327 Karnataka:)
Shy people are normal people too 🤷♀️ they come with a variety of different personalities and talents. They oftentimes are some of most interesting people. Shy people aren’t always cowardly or weak. They can turn out to be the bravest, coolest and strongest humans . It’s just that the wall of shyness is stopping them from discovering or showing their true selves. People being so judgemental about shyness only makes shy people more insecure 😒 and of course it exists in a spectrum. Shy doesn’t automatically mean you are not good with people or are anti-social. That would be more of social anxiety.
Good point. I was shy from an early age, and people constantly bugging you about being quiet just makes you think there’s something wrong with you which makes your shyness worse. People think they’re helping, but it causes a downward spiral. Criticism doesn’t lift a shy person up. It doesn’t lift anybody up really.
Thank you for being honest about the topic of people whom are shy. I am truly grateful for your wisdom and advice.
2:42 shy guys aren't stupid, majority of them are geniuses
True actually
I would not say majority
@@nickixiusdangelolunala7779 ohh really!
Ok than i am a quite kid
And i am reloading my akm for you.
Periodt
Shy is different from introvert
I prefer shy guys than extroverts. I find them really cute when they're quiet and blushing wbjshdjjsdhshjs
C A P
Thanx. U frm which place
You won my heart 💓
I wish i had met you during my college life
I don't know why the world thinks silence is shyness and if you're loud you're confident
I know right
somewhat that talks even if is bullshit is still getting his point across unlike shy man.
"An alpha who is tall and eat a lot"
God ! She is so duumbbb!!
Tall + eat a lot = Big D confirmed 👍 🤣
If you're tall and muscular while eating like bodybuilders cheat day on a date😂 have some garlic you're alpha 😅
7:25
The problem is that alphas want attractive women and she doesn't fall into that category. She is in the pump and dump category.
She is right
These girls prefer extrovert in initial days, later they complain...or get irritated with the same guys😅
@N 2 That's not his point lol it's about girls complainin about them when they finally wit them n its facts fr
That's because women desire a 100% perfect, flawless man whom they can worship. Pretty much.
@@MrAnsatsuken But there's only a limited number of boys in the world like that. Nobody is perfect, everyone has flaws.
I’m a SAD guy meaning I have Social Anxiety Disorder, it ain’t fun 😔
There are two types of girls
7:51 idiotic naive girl
9:15 deep likable girl
Found the girl at 7:51 attractive...
Untill she opened her mouth and said dumb shit
Yeah, the last girl is someone I wanna be friends with.
The girl at 7:51 was possibly attracted to him and she was just testing him about his height and weight to see how confident he feels with himself
@@yurii6080 shes still attractive lmao, tbh i click this vid coz she is in thumbnail
@@pussyyyy difference between attractive and pretty
'I don't like shy guys' translation: I think I'm too good to make the first move and I don't want to have to do any of the work.
I'm a shy guy and idc about what others think about me because I've got into a lot of shit from girls judging me, ignoring me and talking me behind my back with mean comments.
Just because we dont open up doesn't mean that we are introverted or we are afraid of rejection...... It only means that we are not comfortable around everyone. Once you get to know us, you cannot resist us. But the truth is that people dont have patience to make us comfortable and know us. You will also never see anyone loyal and honest like us in this whole f world.
Make a true friend really will forget female
Amen Brother ! Speaking for us shy guys
You explained it very well.
@@ViditGaur. Thank you for the support.
@@JoshuaGames4076 Thank you for your support💪
I have a strong belief that looks play a far more important role than many girls are willing to admit.
Most girls I know will be very honest about it and yes it is important but not overly important.
@@conscious_competence3703 Yeah, after they get played by those abusive guys with looks.
As a girl, if a shy guy came up to me and was nervous to talk to me I would fall immediately
ikr. it takes a lot of courage for shy guys to approach you. if a shy guy came up to me, i would def feel special and would appreciate his effort a lot xoxo
In your mind you would, but your heart, biology and chemistry would say otherwise.
In the end you'd want him as a friend.
Biology always pervails. Especially in girls.
Sorry for speaking facts.
Well sad for u
I wish I had classmate like you 🙂
@@MrAnsatsuken She would fall for him if he was 6ft tall.
Being a shy guy, I can't hear enough of this......may I RIP 🥲
Same😂😂
To all the people reading this a shy person will be the most nicest person to have as a friend. That's because they speak less and listen more. Well it's my personal experience.
a friend 🙃
Yeah shy guys are a good listeners
"do you like shy guys ?
no
why?
because they're stupid "
are you serious ?!😮😮 2:43
doesn’t speak english well lmao, probably meant something else
@@bloodshed3523 yeah she said that she doesn't know english
She should be deteled from the Earth 😡
“Adrian Gee is a stupid name to begin with”
- his real name is Adrian Gruszka, something like that. He is Australian from Polish heritage.
She was stupid so i can life with it XD
Remember kings, it doesn't matter if you're extrovert ,introvert, alpha or beta. just be it be yourselves.
After all they all the same. They all after your money and D.
No. I dont like beta
Right
Plot twist: they are all talking about the nintendo character shy guy
😂😂😂 thought exactly that while watching the video. ..but never thought to comment it 😂😂😂
Good one! 😂😂😂
I love how none of them actually think about the person itself but only their superficial traits. I have a shy cousin and she's just AMAZING, she's like the sweetest girl I've ever met and yes, it was kinda hard to interact with her at the beginning but eventually she got more comfortable with me and now we can have pretty normal conversations.
It's kinda hard to become friends with a shy person but man, it's absolutely worth it since they tend to be pretty nice people.
ur cousin is agirl.they are talking about men .
as a shy guy i find this very helpful but at the same i kinda choose being shy or introvert i found so many bland and bad friends its ok to be shy keep working on yourself and holding conversation is very important cause there will be time when you will find a amazing girl worth chasing after and putting time and effort and social skills talents will definately help
Actually shy guys are only shy to people they do not know or they just met but when you actually get to know them you will not imagine him being shy anymore.
They are really confusing the term introvert with shyness. You can be extrovert and still be shy.
Absolutely! Shyness and introvertion are two separate things. You can be both or just one of them. Finally someone said it. 🙏😊
How could girls know if they like shy guys, if shy guys are too shy to talk to them?
That's like asking a blind person what color they like.
4:28 "maybe if he's awkward he shouldn't be dating...he should get more experience like going on dates" okay very clear advice!
We can't give you the job because you need experience.
Instructions unclear: dating myself so I can get more advice
I probably dated 30 women at least before finding my fiancee. Of those 25 were just first dates. Had 4 other girlfriends (besides my fiancee of course), and of those, only one stuck around longer than 3 months. So it can be trial and error. If you aren't like Independence Day era Will Smith, odds are if you get out there, the majority of the women will be just one date. But at least one (or more) would want to see you again
Being tall doesn't make you "alpha"😂 I'm 6'4 and can't even talk to girls.
you probably don't eat a lot.
@@rishabhdowarah663 i dont eat lot.. because im poor.. i only buy cheap food
@@Me-tp6ll meh..i gues we're both not alphas...
I'm 6'2 and I can't talk to girls too😂
When girls say a 'tall guy', they mean tall AND good looking. Most tall men like average and short men .....are average to under average looking. So their pool of dating is even smaller.
Girl:"If he is shy he should not be dating"
Same girl: "get more experience ,go on more dates"
Wha??
Probably she reffered to talk more with people not particulary going on a "romantic" date. Probably go out more go clubbing etc
Stupid lady. Someone cannot date for training. lol. that's not a game. it is an emotion. she should be check whether she's a human or not.
I’m just going to put this out there that all my crushes have been shy guys; I personally find them very likable and attractive and cute!
Shy guys are the Best! Like an Amazing book that get interesting after page 33.
Shy doesn’t mean not confident. I usually run from the spot lights, especially when there’s a lot of show off and compliments.
But definitely have my moments where I raise my voice. I never was a doormat and always voice my opinions, which are usually against the crowd.
i dont know but after watching this i automatically found my amazon filled with combos of a chair,ceiling fan , 5 ft long rope
Don't think negatively... Don't commit such things every thing will be all right.
Dear person reading this,Don't worry. You will find love soon. You will find success. You will find happiness. And you will find peace. Be patient , whatever you do Don't run back to what broke you. Love from a unknown UA-camr.
Wow thank you man
Oh, well thanks
Thank you bro
Extrovert people speaks more, while introvert people think more.
I guess many woman prefer talkative person than a thinker person. Little do they know, once an introvert start sharing things to someone, that someone must be good to be with or that someone must be special.
Even if you're tall, handsome, smart, and well educated with a good job, being shy will kill your dating prospects. But that's okay, a lot of the women you might otherwise meet aren't people you'd want to get stuck with anyway. Enjoy the freedom of being single!
2:42 WTF XD 10 iq is written on her face
yeah 🤢🤮
I am in office and I had to really press hard on my mouth to stop the LOL from falling out....hahaha she in deed has 10 IQ written over her face... lmao
She litteraly said, 'Jag kan inte engelska' which means I dont know english.
She is right
Basically she doesn't know English, it seems
Shy guy is my Type of guy. Idk but i find them cute when they don't talk much and look away when i look at them lol
I'm boy! and someone look at me I look away, I don't know why 😂 I'm shy, and I haven't talked to any girl yet 😔
xD
@@senaro5018 🥺
@@YT-Account_21344 any tip? 😂
@@senaro5018 idk 🤷♀️
I don't know whether i'm introvert or not. I don't talk to strangers until needed. But when people talk to me first i can still talk to them like they're my best friends
Same
Adrian: Whats your impression about shy guys
Girl: that he's shy
Shy bashing never ends. An Introvert is someone who recharges their spirit alone, its a preference not a disability
4:45, LOL! So shy guys shouldn't be dating, but should go out on more dates to get experience?!?! What is wrong with these girls??
They talk too much!
Pure and fucking simple!
So the conclusion is doesnt matter if you are shy or not if u are hot and good looking bruh😪
And have a lot of money
I like shy, not so good looking guys but with good job .. i dont like goodlooking guys they intimidate me
@@rebecafeaster Lol They intimidate you WTF
@@rumoaesa6320 It's normal, some people feel like that towards very good looking people.
@@TylerSolvestri Gotcha
Funny thing is, I'm naturally shy. However, I played the role of an arrogant extrovert so well people are finding it incredibly hard to believe that I was once shy lol
Shy guy are interesting: we know when to be shy and not talk even when people are talking non-stop.
Edit: Everybody can't. Researchers are taking sample to study us 😁😂
"What is your impression about shy guys?
"They are shy"
Thanks captain
Proud to be an Introvert, shy, quiet and sharp minded person.
2:55
Adrian:a confident guy or a shy guy
Girl: YES
Me:huh?
🤣🤣 She told her friends that she's bad at English
@@Muumin-H
But also saying shy guys are stupid When she is The one being stupid 😂😂😂
@@robin_lundahl lol, that's correct
It's like that meme of a character wearing orange clothing who answers with yes after a question.
2:45, She probably doesn't know what "stupid" means, lol.
She crazy
Maybe she is from country that don't speak English
@@user-bh9wk5yg6l This was filmed in Sweden.
@@user-bh9wk5yg6l She's speaking swedish at a native level, therefor she is stupid for not knowing english. If you're her age and have grown up in sweden and don't understand such basic english you're not a very bright one
@鄭善澤 yeah, how did you guess?
If that shy guy is rich, most of those girls try to have a piece of him.
Absolutely 👍
Girls want us to be confident and be more forward but when we approach them they are always in a relationship!
What to do now?
This is why this video sucks, take it from me just be yourself and never try to prove yourself to others.
Kidnap. Kidding
@@myfriendscallmek2745 lol
@@dodgedemonsrtx Ok, seriously now, you need to change that avatar. You can do so much better!
@@myfriendscallmek2745 TRUMP2020
I hate being shy around girls it’s weird
Ikr? But it takes courage for you to talk to them, like me. And somehow instead of I should make a first move to talk to my crush she just instead sat near me and she said "Hi🥰" with that face and idk what to say lmao but good thing she do that first lmao.
@@cjmartinez8318 I flirt with my crush 😁.
@@debanikgoswami4834 That's way even better, crazy it's been 2 years since I replied here. I confessed to my crush and she friend zoned me lmfao 💀 she understood what I felt about her and she instead appreciated my feelings about her. It's a long story, but in the end we still remained friends and finally got over with her. You should be glad that both of you were flirty to one another, I envy you but I guess there's more things I have to discover sooner in life. So good luck to both of you.
Im one of those that are shy until I feel confident around the person
Those girls got me pissed for saying they didn’t like shy guys in my opinion I like shy guys cause it makes them adorable and dorky but in a good way but most importantly there loyal and yes I have feel head over heels for a shy guy but I never told him 💀✋🏻
Absolutely 👍
I'm a girl and I love shy guys. They are cute, interesting and innocent. And really smart. It's sad so many girls don't understand it.
why are you not my classmate
😂 I wish I had classmate like you
sounds like u cappin
Oh my gosh hot guys that are kind of shy and timid are the CUTEST
Can we just appreciate how fluent their English is even though they are Swedish?
I don't talk much , but it doesn't mean I am a introvert or shy .
I just don't want to waste my time on stupid people who can't understand me .
I hear you...pearls before swine bro!
Do u like shy guys?
yeaaah
and do u like shy guys?
mm noo..
😀😂wtf
English Bruh
@@PANTHERA369 🌚
Lmfao
The girl: I feel like there *rare*
*Introverts: no don't give me hope*
m 25 never approach a girl in my entire life still single the reason is m shy now i believe i'll die single
note : 100%straight and not ugly looking guy 🤣🤣
Nah man believe in yourself you can do it
U can do it if u want
Uhhhh can i ask a question?
Why do girls keep smiling when i blush(i am shy)
@@yousefkhoury5732 They probably think it's cute or funny or both. I wanna say both is the most likely answer.
i'm 19. Same, but i'm extremely ugly.
Shy meets shy is the best thing that has happened to me.
Shy guy's dream
But you have to be very lucky to meet one, especially a shy girl (since normally is full of extroverts attentions)
This is why I'm barely going to get a girlfriend -_-