Melanie you are such a great friend and mediator. Codi I wish I could articulate myself like you when my feelings get hurt. I would have started crying and I actually did while you had to keep reiterating yourself
I understand both parties. I used to be like Codi, smiling while trying to communicate my dissatisfaction in something someone said. It took a long time for me to get there, I think because I didn't want to hurt that person's feelings even though they were hurting mine. I'm 57 years old now and I'm just, maybe in the last 5 years ok with telling people what I need to say without smiling
Love you ALL!! But Ashley, please work on not cutting people off just to make your point…while someone is attempting to make theirs. No matter what you said, once she mentioned that it hurt her feelings…it was not your job to consistently persist to justify how you made Codi feel. This is being stated with love💕
Loved the realness of this conversation. Allowing yourselves to talk through the uncomfortable feelings and hearing one another out. Conversations like this are needed, I def cried too!
Love Codi. AND she isn’t taking responsibility. She’s projecting. Make your yeses a hard yes and your no’s a resounding NO. Marriage, friendships, work and everything in between.
I agree. I also notice she didn’t fully forgive Ashley. She made side eye comments the rest of the show. She’s a Scorpio and they hold it all in. There’s power in being vulnerable! Melanie is a powerful friend and rightfully placed! I give thanks for sharing her truth and offering that bit on runners do have powerful minds and they are escapist
I know one thing. Codie better be prepping for her half marathon right now 😂 I am a serial joker and I too need friends to tell me when their feelings are hurt because what I’m laughing at is irony. Someone who barely has time for themselves isn’t going to have time to run so I assume something with this much inconsistency must be a joke. But I hear how she can feel limited by that. But, if someone said that to me I’d probably just start running. No one knows me like I know me and when I decide to be serious and change my ways I don’t need support or permission from anyone but myself. But I’m also a fire sign 😂 much love to you both.
I love this and the podcast cause I just discovered it ❤ !! I know what Ashley means cause I can be sarcastic at times it maybe a bit much but it’s like that’s my sense of humor that some of friends understand .l , but maybe not for all!
I have to agree with Ashley on this one, especially if you guys have a joking relationship. She couldnt have known you were hurt by it if you kept laughing along.
This was so beautiful! A lot of friends don't work through their issues and don't have the skills to communicate their feelings. Kudos to you all
Melanie you are such a great friend and mediator. Codi I wish I could articulate myself like you when my feelings get hurt. I would have started crying and I actually did while you had to keep reiterating yourself
😅 same. Girl, I said... and I'd be crying and just no. Lmao
I understand both parties. I used to be like Codi, smiling while trying to communicate my dissatisfaction in something someone said. It took a long time for me to get there, I think because I didn't want to hurt that person's feelings even though they were hurting mine. I'm 57 years old now and I'm just, maybe in the last 5 years ok with telling people what I need to say without smiling
Love you ALL!! But Ashley, please work on not cutting people off just to make your point…while someone is attempting to make theirs. No matter what you said, once she mentioned that it hurt her feelings…it was not your job to consistently persist to justify how you made Codi feel. This is being stated with love💕
Well said
Loved the realness of this conversation. Allowing yourselves to talk through the uncomfortable feelings and hearing one another out. Conversations like this are needed, I def cried too!
What an amazing episode! Definitely one of my favorites. Thank you for sharing your vulnerability 🤍 so inspiring ✨
Great convo; very necessary and honest. I cry too
Love Codi. AND she isn’t taking responsibility. She’s projecting. Make your yeses a hard yes and your no’s a resounding NO. Marriage, friendships, work and everything in between.
I agree. I also notice she didn’t fully forgive Ashley. She made side eye comments the rest of the show. She’s a Scorpio and they hold it all in. There’s power in being vulnerable! Melanie is a powerful friend and rightfully placed! I give thanks for sharing her truth and offering that bit on runners do have powerful minds and they are escapist
I know one thing. Codie better be prepping for her half marathon right now 😂 I am a serial joker and I too need friends to tell me when their feelings are hurt because what I’m laughing at is irony. Someone who barely has time for themselves isn’t going to have time to run so I assume something with this much inconsistency must be a joke. But I hear how she can feel limited by that. But, if someone said that to me I’d probably just start running. No one knows me like I know me and when I decide to be serious and change my ways I don’t need support or permission from anyone but myself. But I’m also a fire sign 😂 much love to you both.
I would love for Blair to come on! I love this discussion.
I love this and the podcast cause I just discovered it ❤ !! I know what Ashley means cause I can be sarcastic at times it maybe a bit much but it’s like that’s my sense of humor that some of friends understand .l , but maybe not for all!
I have to agree with Ashley on this one, especially if you guys have a joking relationship. She couldnt have known you were hurt by it if you kept laughing along.
Love your show ❤ good episode I learned so much because I understand both on certain things. I was also listening to 4am earlier