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Jubilee hey! could you do smth like unpopular opinions. where people write anonymiously their opinions abt certain topics which they think are unpopular and you let random people react to them just like here. would be interesting i guess
@@hellobree9938 Even the sme hppnd wid me...a year ago...she was my junior...so she asked me do u love me..I said wht..u r already in relationship wid my bestfriend....she said she will convince and leave ...but I didn't accept her..cuz she was way toooooo beautiful..literally she was in the top 5 hot grls of our high skul...I was tooo ugly...even her love dat is my bestie was tooo gud lukin..so i knew cuz i was the captain of one of the sports team and had vry gud reputation in the school so she wanted me..after sum months I said yes..evrythng was gud...i even heard sum tyms dat she was texting her ex dat is my bestie..met him sum tyms...but even den I loved her unconditionally...v spent days together...evrythng was gud..and suddenly we had a fyt...she left me for no reason...and went back to her ex(MY BESTFRND)...and den again she was in 10th grade again she fell in love wid her junior...she was dating her junior...and now again she is dating her ex and junior both..my lyf literally bcme hel
@@hellobree9938 but after that I nvr loved anyone...I feel like love is ntg to me now...but even now it hurts alot man...cuz of her I lost all my reputation in school...my 10th grade result was affected soooooo badly...I lost my bestfriend too...no one could break our frndshp.. cuz of this grl I lost my 5 yrs frndshp
Loosing your friend is okay, loosing your lover is okay, but loosing yourself in the process of getting them back is not okay. Value yourself, you are important.
@@gurindersomal1786 that's okay too. we all know it's not going to last forever. but that's why it's such a treasure. all we can do is be thankful while we still have them and remember them when they're gone. remember, but move on.
My sister told me: *"From the day you were born, there's an invisible red line that links you to your soulmate."* But I think many peoples already know that thing.😊
I still can't rationalize how he willingly (if not hesitantly) agreed to burn the journal and FILM it. I bet he'll feel regret about the incident for the rest of his life.
My mom's story: She met a law student when she was about 19 years old at a cruise, while she was dating my dad. She was in love with my dad but she just had that connection with the law student who was about her age. A few years later when I was born, around 5 years old, my mom found a note in her old jacket that she used on the cruise and it had the law students name on it, his name was Alfonso. But she brushed it off, knowing that they aren't gonna meet again. The letter said, "I see you as a wonderful woman, I would like to see you as the woman I get to take care of and protect. But I know someone has already owned your heart, farewell Kristina". Then, another few years later, my grandma died then my dad cheated on my mom. When my dad left, we went to visit my grandma's grave. Beside my grandmother's grave was Alfonso's grave. My mom cried seeing the picture of him in front of his grave, because that picture was taken on the cruise they were on together.
It feels like a part of you has been cut out, and you know that you will never get it back, and it feels like the thought of them is always gonna make you cry, because every time, it does.
I read a quote once, it said "The one who nourishes you, also destroys you" And i think this is the best way to sum up what people we love can do to us.
I was dating this guy. He was my first boyfriend, my first kiss, my first everything. I loved him. One day he told me we should take a break. That was about two weeks before my best friend's birthday. A couple of my friends and the guy I was with came to her house to celebrate her birthday. I walked into her house finding him holding her the same way he used to hold me. I went home sobbing. She told me she loves him and doesn't care if I'm not over him. I lost both of them that day. Thank you for teaching me nothing lasts forever
Same girl! But it was 2 weeks after our breakup and my "bestie" of 5 years who supported and "loved" us together (her words) started texting him and then they strated dating. .they've been together for 10 months now..I lost both of them and it has been soo hard going back to where I was but I'm working on me for me (for once in my life) and I hope that whomever is going through something similar knows that everything heals with time even the most broken of hearts..❤⭐
If you really need a someone to talk about, I'm here. Its easier to vent out stuffs with a stranger. Your story hit me hard. I'm in other part of the world. It would be very easy and you can share anything. I hope you get over this. Lots of love dear girl ❤
_"It's gonna take years for this person... to discover what is at the root of their own pain that's causing them to want to hurt other people this way."_ The best lesson I've come across on the internet today.
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JBS #7 2 years & I’m still crying myself to sleep. Everytime I see him my heart melts in a puddle. There are so many obsticals we probably can’t be together. I don’t even know if he feels the same way, we’ve never confessed our feelings to eachother but the thought of having a chance at holding him in my arms seems so surreal If it ever became a reality I imagine that’s what heaven would feel like on this earth. He means everything to me and I’m scared I will spend the rest of my life missing someone I can’t have.
Laurette148 tell him. I told him. He rejected me. At first I was broken, but with time, I thought it will fade. Here I am. One year later still waiting for him. I am with another guy, and I love him, I really do, but not as half as much as I love my crush, that is with another girl. I want to talk to him, so bad, but I need to move on. But I can’t, everytime I try to he is there. And I hate it
my girl accused me of cheating on her when i never had and later accused me of harassing her and threatening her, which i also never did, and got the police involved, and for weeks i couldn’t get my mind off it because of police showing up at my house and i still don’t understand why it happened
Mine: I was dating a man for over 4 years. Everything was great and we even got pregnant. When I told him, he left with no explanation. Come to find out, he had two other women pregnant at the same time as me. None of us found out about each other until all the babies were born. Locked in heartbreak for life. The things the other women told me, shattered me. I wish healing to everyone who reads this.
This is heartbreaking. I met this guy when i was in college because someone introduced us, I liked him since then and that was 7 years ago. I prayed for him because he deserves to live a life filled with happiness, even if that's not me. He recently got married.. Hi Ronald, I'm sorry for not having the courage to speak with you when you tried to befriend me, I was so nervous. If only i could turn back the time we met, i would have skipped the stairs (where we got introduced) and rode the elevator instead lol. Anyway, I pray you'll get nothing but the best in life. God bless you. Ps: Finally got the courage to share this since i know you won't be able to read my message. 😂
I had a girlfriend who I really cared for deeply, And I loved her so much. I went to her house everyday and we had fun, But in reality I was just being used. She already had a boyfriend behind my back and he found out and I was jumped by his friends. The girl came to my house 2 days after, She smacked me and blamed me for everything. I pushed her and I hurt her, I feel bad to this day because I was with her not knowing she was so horrible like that. I didn't want to hurt her but I had so many injuries from her boyfriends friends jumping me I had to stay in the hospital for 2 months because they ruptured my lung and broke my collar bone. The pain was unimaginable and I hope this never happens to anyone else.
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I had to get my dog euthanized because she apparently had some kind of cancer in her lungs for years.don't be like me, bring your pets to a vet occasionally.
My worst heartbreak was when I was about 10/11 and my parents had recently gotten divorced. I was sitting in the car listening to my parents argue about how they both didn't want me living with them. Even though I was so young it really felt like someone had ripped out my heart out. I didn't express my feelings to anyone because I didn't want people to worry about me. I know now that they only said those things because they were just mad in general but it still hits me pretty hard to this day.
Realising he never actually loved me and he just kept me around until someone better showed up. It isn’t the breakup that’s the most heartbreaking, it’s the realisation that I was just for fun.
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My first love was back in high school in 2015 I still remember the day I asked her to be my girlfriend it was October 27, I made the mistake of not spending every chance I had with her. I thought I was better off without her and broke up with her 5 days before our 1 year anniversary. I fucked up so bad. She came back to me,gave me another chance and I blew that one too. I havent seen her since 2017 and now shes engaged and happy. I didnt realize how much she meant to me. I now cant go a day without thinking of her. How happy she must be. And what couldve been of us had I not been so foolish. Its 2021 and I STILL love her. I dont think I can ever love someone the same. But shes happy now despite my stupidity and it does make me feel a bit more at peace. I just hate how I cant forget her and my mistakes. If only we can go back id fix it all..
I feel like often times when people hear the world “heartbreak” they associate it with a significant other. I thought I’d felt heartbreak when I was in an abusive relationship. I’m 20 years old. My mom passed away in my arms March 7th of this year due to a six year battle with cancer. That was the moment I realized what heartbreak actually felt like.
Maggie May I'm sorry that you had to go through this. sending love & prayers. I'm always here if you need someone to talk to :'( this is so heartbreaking. Loveyou.
I had a very similar thing happen to my family. My grandma was diagnosed with stage 4 pancreatic cancer 3 years ago and passed away this April 12, 2018. At first doctors told her she only had months to live but she always pushed through and never wanted to give up. Even in the last few weeks she was still alive and doctors were telling her her condition was getting worser and that there wasn't much else they could do, she still wanted to go through with the chemos no matter how much she hated them cuz of how sick they made her feel. We all knew she didn't have much time left but we still didn't expect we'd have to say goodbye so soon. I'm a religious person but on her last day we were praying for God to end her suffering already and take her with him but she was telling us pray that God cures her illness instead of praying for her death. I wasn't there the moment she passed on, my grandpa and my aunt were with her and they say she suffered very much in those last moments. She was throwing up blood and stuff. I'm very angry and upset that she had to live through so much pain... She didn't deserve it. Thinking about it fills me with anger but there's nothing that can be done and it's no one's fault. I still can't believe she's not here anymore a lot of the time and dream about her often. Sorry for the long post I just needed to talk about it I guess. So yeah I know how you feel and I hope you and you're family are doing better.
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A tip for all the people out there who haven't faced any heart break yet nd are happy......... *Never get too attached to someone unless they feel the same for you ; the depth of your love today is the depth of your wound tomorrow*
@@suja605 you can clearly see that in their actions... The efforts they are making for u... All these small things matter.... If u think that they really care for u... Don't afraid to be wt them...
I was with this guy for 9 months. He chased me, made me fell in love with him and finally dumped me over misunderstandings. Not that we never had fights, and that I was always right in the relationship. But yeah, I was willing to work hard to keep our love together. I was owning to all my mistakes and willing to rectify them. But he let me go over a phone call. And didn't took my calls later. 5 months of waiting for him and crying for him everyday in corona, expecting just to have a decent talk to him ,to sort things out. And when we finally met, I got to know he's already dating someone else, the same girl I had doubts about during this pandemic, and also he told me he was over of me in 2 weeks and started flirting with people since then, while I was trying to talk to him for 5 months,only to be disrespected by him everytime and was being abused verbally. It's been almost 2 weeks since I found out everything. Still the crying and the pain hasn't subsided.😭
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@The Sociopath hey!! Thanks for reading my story and not calling me out on my stupidity 😂 Hope you are doing well. And if going through any loss, just trust that eventually everything falls into place it's meant to. Well, i did thought about it too. But I think the best kind of revenge is when the person knows your value and cannot have you. That's when the loss matters the most.
Mine happened 8 days ago, and is going to happen again in 2. I lost the love of my life on October 10th. Before he got into the accident, he messaged me but I was too busy at work to reply. So I decided to wait until after work. At the end of my shift, my mom told me he was hospitalized, he was in a coma. When I called his brother in hopes to talk to him through the phone, I was told he already passed. Just a few minutes. He’s getting buried in the 20th, and his birthday is on the 24th. I can’t stop crying. I regret putting him off. I miss him so much
I wonder why people cheat like honestly if you like someone else instead of liking the person you share a relationship with, just break up with them- but first tell them how you feel and ease their pain and don’t be harsh (this goes for the other person in a relationship too) breaking up will break your heart but it’s better than being cheated on.
its hard though because I love my ex-boyfriend so much, but he never gave me the attention I needed and ignoring me was an almost daily thing for him. I then had to find this elsewhere -> different people. I still loved him with all my heart and he was all I ever wanted, I couldn't bring myself to break up with him.
My worst heartbreak? Watching my grandmother slowly die for weeks while my relationship was falling apart AND i getting an email that I wasn’t accepted into the school I wanted to go to. I’m so grateful I got to say goodbye to her, but my heart will forever break when I drive by her house.
seeking secrets has always been one of my favorite things here on jubilee but just listening to these stories breaks my heart ): sending all my love to each and everyone of them 💛
After years of being abused by my stepmother, she finally left to another country for a year and a half. During that time, I met a girl who provided the calming female love that I had yearned for my entire life. Despite both of us being barely adolescents at the time, it still felt much more painful than any other breakup that I had as an adult. We broke up for meaningless reasons around the same time that my father reunited with my stepmother. I’ll never forget the torment & desperation of seeking emotional balance again.
My worst hearbreak is when i tried to share with my family my depression and get some help. They just told me I am an attention seaker and that annoyed them. I struggle till today [Edit] Thank you so much for your support, I'm doing much better now. For those who share similar experiences , I really hope you guys are ok now. We can do this! Again, thank you.
I feel like the same thing could happen to me. So I keep all my happiness, sadness, achievements and fears to myself. Nobody is genuinely happy for me.
Vishweshshwesh Manerkar Im genuinely happy for you bro, stay strong. you all matter even if this cruel world doesnt show it but that doesnt mean its not true. If ur happy then im fkin happy, yall deserve happiness yall aint alone
@@mana.a Thanks for your kind words. People like you make this world a better place. I Don't actually feel bad though. I'm an introvert and things have been like this since I was born.and I'm cool with it. I'm just wondering if I'll find the right life partner in my future. Parents won't change, so I'll have to find happiness in friends, girlfriend (if possible) and pets of course. Doesn't really matter though. I can adapt to anything. And how's your life going? I'll pray for you every night before going to sleep(even though I don't believe in God). Thanks again. Cya 😙
With depression or any mental health isn't attention seeking. I had to find that out by myself so then my mom noticed my behaviour with everyone changed to point i don't want their help. To this day they're still trying to help me when I don't need it as I've had to move away from them . By moving away It's helped me massively. I'm hoping you'll get stronger and not let depression get a strong hold on u like it did with me.
I think our worst heartbreaks are the ones we don't know how to handle. Our first loves, the ones where you could feel them losing feelings for you and you not being able to anything about it, or the ones where they suddenly leave you wondering why or how you went wrong. I believe our worst heartbreaks stem from the ones where we dont know how to handle them that we go so far as to blaming ourselves for tha damage they caused. I truly believe our worst heartbreaks are the ones we convince ourselves we did.
I lost my cat a few months ago. We had an extremely close bond. NOTHING you can ever imagine. I can’t explain it either. For eleven years she was by my side every night, all the time when i was home. She were so afraid of everyone else except me. Barely anyone could Pet her or walk towards her without her running away. Except me. She was afraid of every little small sound.. but i could run towards her, scream.. whatever and she didn’t get scared. She wondered what the heck i was doing but not get scared. The worst part is that Ive been fighting a though depression for about 10 months now, plus a small depression for two years before it escalated. She passed away in may, when I was deep down in a depression which I’m still struggling with. I’ve been home from school for 10 months now... she meant the world to me. Already struggling with social anxiety and phobia, panic attacks and this major depression for years, that single thing was the WORST thing that has ever happened to me. I loved her more than life itself. She has saved my life probably around 5 times.. if I wouldn’t have started getting medication two weeks before her death I would not be here today. I miss her so much. I’m sorry fir this really long comment that no one will see anyways.
My cat is the exact same.. let alone our situations are very similar .. im struggling with Depression, and severe social anxiety, I have been to school in a week and they want to file for truancy.. I have to much pride to drop out and take online schooling..
I know that maybe my suggestion sounds difficult but... I also had a cat for a long time(since age 10 to 27) and she was my best friend, I had to sleep her because she was old and really ill , my then boyfriend went with me that day to the vet and I felt relieved he was there but some months later he dumped me...it was not a good year for me and above all I missed my cat so much but I began to think that some other cat out there probably needed a home and a friend like me so I adopted one stray male cat and later a female one and it worked, they make my days better even if it’s not just the same as before and I’m happy that they are not strays anymore , I’m sure that my old beloved best friend is happy to share her home too!! So... I know it’s hard but you can do it , maybe with a little (new🐱) help!! Hugs.
My worst heart break was when my car "hit black ice" and I got into a wreck and when I called my mother the first thing she asked is if the car was okay. Little did she know the wreck was a failed suicide attempt. This was several years ago and still hurys me to this day but I'm glad to say I am in a much better place now so I just want people to know things get better❤
@Svea Pearson I've been close to doing the same thing but in the end she's still my mom and I couldn't imagine doing the things she does to me to her ya know?
Yep. One sided love does hit different. I never thought i would fall in love with someone. But I did. Someone who hurt me so much to the point that I got very bad anxiety and started to have anxiety attacks. I literally have cut of everything and started to distract myself. Its been more than two years now and still cant seem to move on. Thats how pathetic I am 🙂
First hand advice: never date someone who cheated on their S.O to be with you. If they managed to chat on the other person, then they can cheat on you. A cheat stays a cheater. If they really wanted to be with you, and they were a good person, they would’ve first broken up with the other person, then come to you.
My boyfriend and I were together for 6yrs and on our 6th yr anniversary in April 2016 he proposed. The upcoming year we were supposed to get married. Unfortunately in January 2017 he lost his life to gang violence. It's been a year and a half without him, I think about him everyday.
Annesley Williams my ex and i were together for 6 years too. We are supposed to get married this year, but we broke up due to ldr. A month later he found someone, after 6 months together they are engaged now. And im still in love with him. ):
I had just gotten in a fight with my boyfriend when I watched this video, he didn't want to finish the argument with me about it so he left to work on his car. He came in and told me he was taking it for a test drive and left. When I watched that last reading, I started sobbing and called him and asked him to come home. We worked things out. My mother always told me to never let people leave the house angry at each other, I believe that to be true.
Athena Veatch I know exactly what you mean. Nothing hurts more than to see someone for the last time, angry, to then never see them again. Its gut wrenching
I had four friends. We were like the popular girls at school. One of them fought with the other three. I didn't take anyone's side but I stayed with her. I didn't want her to be alone. The next day, she was with them and they were all against me. She turned them against me. I still don't know why. We are okay now but the feeling of being ostrazised, left alone and unwanted remained. It's still messing with my selfconfidence. I prefer being alone now.
Yes I can feel you, I too went through this when I was in 10th grade. This hurts alot when you don't get any true friends in your entire life, and when you get someone they too hurt you. (But now we're best friends and I love her alot❤️)
This is the reason I am scared of relationships. I want to love someone but I don't want to get hurt because I know I wouldn't be able to love someone else again.
Me falling in love for the first time with a guy, to him confessing that he loves my best friend, and me helping them get together because his smile is all that matters to me.
I don't mean to sound insensitive, but I don't think that's love. I think that's having a lack of respect for yourself and being emotionally weak. It's okay to need help sometimes. I hope you heal from that and realize that he's manipulative.
@@lonelymind6334 I don't know what you're on, but that's love. Sacrificing your happiness for them, that's love, that's beautiful. That's true, true love .
My girlfriend cheated on me. I wasnt over her for 3+ years. Just this past week she came back into my life and told me she loved me and she was sorry and that she had made a mistake and to give her another chance. Being dumb I did. This was just a ploy for her to make her ex jealous. She basically said I will always be a 2nd choice, that im not good enough. Ive never had words make me throw up before. This time it did.
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That’s just her opinion (and not really a worthy one since she’s just a mean and cruel girl) , but there are a lot of people out there and you bet there are better girls than her!! And I can tell you that you are enough, it’s just that she has a hole instead of a heart and that’s really hard to fill. Hugs.
She's a bitch, her personality sounds so fucking ugly and you probably know this but you're better off without such a cruel person in your life, you'll eventually find someone who loves you for all that you are, stay away from toxic people 💕
Mine would be the nights when I hear my mom cry over the fact that my dad cheated on her. And when my brothers would ask and wonder why I hate my dad. They say Im rude and disrespectful. They wouldn't understand bcos they never hear her cry herself to bed. (BTW, my dad lives faraway bcos of work. He hasnt come home since 2006)
I showed him my escape, he took her to the places. I put art on his skin, he painted her a picture. I wrote him a love song and he wrote her a love letter. We listened to music which he dedicated to her. I only see him, his blue eyes was all over her. I danced with him but he took her home. We talked about love, but she was on his mind. Gave him a space to grow, but he filled it with her. How foolish I am to think, that he is falling in love. Well he is but not with me. I was just a distraction, summer was great but every season ends and a cold winter awaits.
He broke up with me on our wedding day because of his mom. I did everything for him and his family, yet his mother never loved me because she thinks I was taking her son...... i did everything, she was so toxic.... on our wedding day she said was in the hospital that she might die, she manipulated him with the fear of losing her and he broke up... its kills, theres no Word to explain... When the weeding was canceled, she went to the reception and was doing the party with all his family.
My father’s mother is like that and she has been ruining my parents’ lives since day one. And my dad is somehow always on her side which makes my mom’s life unbelievably difficult. So imo, you dodged a bullet there
I agree with @ako. Even after we were born my mom found a letter from my grandma (my dad's mom) telling him he should take a 2nd wife. Consider yourself free.
I don’t understand why people think it’s okay to cheat. Like, fully consciously making the decision to ignore the fact that you have committed yourself to someone else, and just...going with someone else? To make someone feel worthless, not good enough, because you’re too scared to pull the trigger and end the relationship?
You can cheat on someone but still be in MAD love for this person. Trust me. To cheat on someone doesn't mean at all this person isn't important for you. That's just two differents things.
My worst heartbreak was when I helped someone get out of the sadness he got from his ex and when he was over it he cheated on me and got back with his ex.his last words to me was I don't need you anymore
@@chilichi3257 I feel you, I'm dealing with it now. What I do it just cry when I feel like it and smile when I feel like. Don't be too hard on yourself. Your feeling is valid. Issokay to be not okay, take rest as much as u need, take care and u can get through it
Unrequited love- Worst heartbreak. Loving someone who doesn't love you back is very painful, unbearable, it tears you apart. I hope in another life I'll be his :)
No dear. Find someone that loves and respects you enough. Some people can't love because they have a lot of pain to a point they cannot be empathic to what you had to go through in their midst. Some people are sadly deficient. You deserve to be loved.
My dog died a while ago.I had him my whole life and he died two years ago and i still cry to this day. He was my favourite thing in the whole world,he made me happy when sad and let me use him as a pillow.
Loving someone is such an act of vulnerability, you are giving them the power to give you the greatest of joys or the worst of pains. Be mindful of that, some people play so easily with the love others offer to them and then it takes a LOT of time to get over the pain.
i used to be madly in love with this one guy. he was the sweetest person i’ve met. i haven’t heard from him in a long time & he was going through really hard stuff in his life. i wish that he’s alive
We were high school sweethearts. I was always there for him when he needed me, even being the person who believed in his dreams and pushed him to accomplish them. We were engaged for 3yrs when he texted me right before deployment and broke off our relationship without any reason. I saw him post days later of him with another girl. It wasn't the first time he had cheated, and it broke my heart. Not even a month later I met the person who is now my husband. We're coming up on our 4th anniversary. Heartbreak hurts, but it doesn't have to stay that way.
I just turned seven, it was a week after my birthday, I waited for my uncle to come by so we can celebrate together, he was like the big brother I never had, he raised me when parents were always working, and he said “I’ll come by tomorrow to celebrate with you, I promise, tomorrow, wait for me.” an hour or two later he died in a car crash I’m still waiting for him every year
I'm a boy and I fell in love with a boy in my class. I tried multiple times to express my love for him but failed misserably because I was an awkward, skinny, low self-esteemed kid. I managed to give him a letter before highschool was over, and I told him to reject me if there will never be a chance that I can get to be with him, and he did. Until now there will still be a special space in my heart left for him in case he realizes that he wants to be with me too. But it's futile to wait for something uncertain so I am trying to move on now and yeah, it has been 2 years of trying but here i am still leaving a space for him. I guess that part of me will never go away, I just love him that much.
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The biggest heartbreak of my life was seeing my brother break his neck while playing rugby and then ending up a paraplegic for the rest of his life. He tried committing suicide on many occasions and is still on antidepressants. I can't even remember his smile anymore.
damn, that sucks so bad! hopefully time will pass, the pain will heal some + his smile will return. at least he has a loving sibling like you with a big heart. best wishes to you (singular + plural).
If he's really depressive and don't have any hope in life... Let him just go ... Be free ... I know it's a hard decision, but there are states where you can be delivered without any pain :(
that is what i fear the most... i have a MASSIVE crush on my friend that i've known since birth...but i fear that i'm just not good enough for him and he'll think other girls are way more attractive than me. and if i do tell him how i feel he won't feel the same way and we won't even be friends anymore. i'm scared for him, he's going to a new school and my friend who used to go there said it was a horrible school with toxic people... i don't want him to change and find new (toxic) friends who will change him and his beliefs. i don't want him to forget about me but i also don't want to be in the friendzone forever.
During the last month before we broke up, all we did was have sex. I did it out of love. He... He did it as a stress reliever. And don't get me wrong, yes it helps relieve stress. But during that month, it was a crucial time in our relationship. And keep in mind that the times we "hung out" together, I had to make up an excuse to just get it of my house to be with him. So, our time together was limited. Just knowing that those intimate moments that I had with him, were only for him to relieve his stress, has taken a toll on me. Idk why but just ever since the break up, I felt disgusted with my body. Disgusted with how I was being used. Disgusted that I thought it was love in those intimate moments... I've never felt this uncomfortable with my body my whole life...
I may never know how it feels to be in this situation, but I do know that it wasn’t your fault. Your self-sacrifice was the ultimate form of love and it is he who didn’t appreciate such love. You deserve to be loved, my friend, and your body is a gift, too, not garbage even after the breakup. You don’t have to forgive him, but please forgive yourself because you deserve self-acceptance and love! God bless you!
@@artistrg3487 thank you😌 I've been healing with myself the past month and a half, and this is just something that I need to be reminded of, instead of "tricking" myself into thinking it's my own fault, if that makes sense.
I wish my ex could hear about that n know that my distant friend(a leopard in sheep wool) is just flirting with her in order to use her. I pitty her much but she's taught me a lot about caring about myself first n not her feelings A priority. She's (A narcissist)
I find it interesting how many people here are connecting and supporting one another in the comment section. How beautifully blind everyone is. It’s fascinating how stories of others trigger emotions/feelings that one has not yet felt. No one here knows one another. Yet it’s the stories that brings people together. Supporting each other. What it means to be human.
I fell in love with this girl from my class, and we became good friends. The following year we got into different classes and over the years we lost contact. I never forgot to message her on her birthday though, except this year. I had important exams in June, close to her birthday and I remembered a week too late. I didn't think much of it. She died in August. I haven't spoken to her in a year and I can't believe that I will never have the opportunity to see her smile again.
When I was 16 my bestfriend told me that he loved me, I had a crush on him too so we ended up dating each other for 5 years Then I found out that he was cheating on me with my childhood BFF. She was my friend since 1st grade When I asked him why, he said that he loved me just for my body and my preety face. And said he love her for her heart and inner beauty. It broke my heart Now I hate it when someone complement's me for how preety I am I hate my beauty
If your BFF truly had a good heart and inner beauty then she would have respected you enough to have put a stop to his advances or tell you about everything before getting into a relationship with him. It seems like your ex was shallow /and/ a bad judge of character. I hope you find someone who loves and respects you for who you truly are.
The nerve of this guy. Hes the ass and duchbag for saying something like that. Yeah you can have diffrent appearance than others but at the end of the day you are the one and only who can determine your self worth. Don't take in his words and self love yourself. You dont need to lower yourself for others live your life. At the end of the day just because someone doesn't like you doesn't mean you have to lower yourself because of it. Dont depend on others for your own self worth.
My worst heartbreak was when I was dumped a week before our wedding. He called me and his only words were ," I can't do this Chris." After knowing him since childhood and a 6 yr relationship that's all he could say. Ive gone thru some serious traumatic stuff but I had never felt that type of pain in my life. I tried to walk while my family looked at me in confusion and my legs gave out. I literally heard my heart break. I started to cry like I've never done in my life. I could hear myself cry in a way that was disturbing. My closest family members cried with me. It was embarrassing to not be able to control yourself in front of a crowd. I was numb but my emotions were spilling in front of everyone. That moment in my life humbled me so much. A month passed without contact from him. Then one day he called to "explain himself" . He said he had found out he had cancer the day prior to "the call" . He didn't wanna put me thru the pain. He asked me for another chance. Everyday I would cry for him. For his life not to end. We would have talks about my future , how he wanted me to move on etc. I had calls every other week saying he was going to kill himself , go on his terms. It was constant torture. My panic attacks started getting more severe. I was suffering but pushing him to be optimistic and not lose faith. Meanwhile I was not okay at all. One day he slipped in one of his lies. I found out he had lied about having cancer and that he had cheated on me. A slap in the face falls short to what I felt he did to me. That was the worst heartbreak I've ever had. 💔💔💔
Les Lavy Thank you 🤗. I'm single atm. I've have had alot of suitors but I'm severely traumatized. I work on myself everyday. It's a slow progress but I'm getting there. People don't realize the kind of damage they can do and that is so fkd up.
chris viera Omg that is so severely messed up. I feel horrible for you but hope you'll still continue to take things a day at a time and keep strong. He's screwed up and thank god you didn't marry him.
Maricel Morales Montefalco . I lost my dad when I was just 1 year old but my mom was always been playing the role of a dad and a mom . It's ok to be not ok sometimes
The worst heartbreak for me was losing feelings for someone. Feeling yourself lose feelings for someone you once loved so much, and having no control over it, that kills you slowly. But just remember, feelings can come back...
The same goes for me, I lost my feelings for my ex-bf and I won’t say it is the worst heartbreak for me cause I know he is going through much more pain than I am in. The only thing that makes me feel really sad is seeing him still loving me when I can’t even love him back. It hurts me seeing him in misery caused by me. I hope he heals someday.
@@SR-xh8uj please do him and yourself a favor and communicate with him about it. Yeah, it'll probably break his heart but it's not your fault, nor his (I presume). Offer suggestions to help fix the relationship, or go to couples counseling. The worst thing you can do is do nothing and keep him in the dark. Trust and communication is the most important things in a relationship. If you feel as though you can't fix the relationship, then leave him or take a break
My first heart break, was a relationship I was in for two years. He moved interstate while we did try to work distance got in the way, so we eventually went separate ways. It wasn’t a toxic relationship, so having to leave someone you really love and let it fade was hard. Two years later he moved back & my friends kept it secret from me. I found out he had come for me but had found out that I was pregnant with my first child, and over the years he kept in touch with me, nothing over the top just a simple hello how are you kinda thing. Ten years later I found the courage to ask why he kept in touch with me for so many years. He told me that I was the first girl he had ever loved, first girl he had ever cried over & has never loved the same. I came back for you but you had moved on started a family of you’re own. It really tore me apart & I cried for a whole week straight. I can’t imagine what it would of been for him or anyone to love someone that much for many years.
currently going through the same thing me and my ex were in long distance relationship and she broke things off 2 weeks before our 2 year anniversary .. it’s been 5 months now and there not a day where i’m not thinking of her so I decided to reach out to her and tell her exactly how i feel and that’s when i found out she has been seeing someone new and is actually pregnant.. PAIN IS ALL I FEEL .. for the last 5 months all I could tell myself is that it’s okay because we would somehow be together again like one of those movies. But I think that’s far from happening now which just hurts so much..
My father has to go to work in this pandemic . I cried for an hour this morning. He took his uniform today and I pretended that I don't know that he has to leave. I asked him "why are you talking these out". He said "I cannot live here forever". Gosh that broke my heart. I tried hard not to cry in front of him while he was looking at me, expecting something that could make him feel warm and better. But I'm so coward that I cannot confront that. I tried to stay so normal today, indulging myself in my phone. I seriously don't want him to go. Please god, save my father from this cruel pandemic and make sure he comes home back safely. I want to hug him like that day he came home back during the quarantine. I want to cry holding him so that he won't go. I don't want this day to pass. I don't want to see tomorrow.
Mine when i broke up with her because i have an illness i don't want her to know that. I broke up with her because i know that i'm gonna die.. I don't want her to feel more pain and now i am cured i feel well and better, i saw her now with another man with their first born baby.. I feel so much pain everytime i see her with him. that guy with her supposed to be me. It's my fault the pain hunts me everyday. T_T
May be telling her the truth now will make you and her both feel better. Sometimes all we need are answers and maybe finding out the reason will make you both feel a lot better. I think she deserves to know the truth ❤
I'm rlly sorry that you have this illness, I hope whatever it is you are going through will go away in anyway possible... if anything just please please do try and get over her, it's not worth it, your wasting your time bro, she is not going to come back to you and if she is, she might go away...you can do it I know it!! Stay strong💕
I got out of a relationship 8 months ago, the break up was really hard on me. I'm still not completely over it and I use to hate myself for not being able to move on but this video makes me realize that heartbreak takes time. It may never go away entirely but at least I know I'm not alone. Sending love to anyone going through heartbreak, you guys are worth the world ❤
One of my worst hear breaks: I had a crush on one boy for 8 years, he was my classmate, few years my best friend, than he stopped talking to me, and never told me why. I wrote him a poem for valentines day. I was asking if he would give me a chance... He let all the other boys in class read it and laugh into my face. The worst think is. He didn't even have the guts to tell it to me by him self, he let his best friend yell at me from the other side of the class that my crush don't want to even give me the chance... That day I lost not just a faith in love, but in friendship and man too... And for the rest of the lessons I had to smile and act like nothing happend. I couldn't even cry when I got home. I was too broken...
I am Matt Trust me he is not a good guy.. if he is a good guy he will respect you and your feelings even though he does'nt have feeling at u.. good guy will not do something that will embarrass you.. So now, make the boy regret by laughing at you and downgrading u.. make him realize you are an amazing girl.. Then, if he is crazy about u.. ignore him.. find better guy for yourself.. not him...
Man this is some messed up imaature sh** right there but rejoice sweetheart you dodged a bullet dating an a**hole like that ..hope you find much better :)
Simple Dimplesss If That happened to me i would cut all connections with My family. Imagine having christmas dinner with them and having drinks, laughing and singing at the same table.
I don't like how families support the wrong doers and blame the victims, it really pisses me off. She probably have a few family members that back her up, but still, it's so wrong. I hope she will find someone soon, and that family will treat her with the love and respect she truly needs.
Biggest heartbreak so far; I was so in love with him. He was my first love, bf, everything. A month into dating I found out he was cheating on me through a dating app...but it was with men. I asked him if he was gay/bi and he denied it multiple times and said he did it out of “boredom” or as a “joke.” I always knew deep inside he was confused about his sexuality but too scared to come out of the closet. I forgave him and he maintained the same level of denial throughout the whole relationship and even had me convinced he was straight. We argued a lot about this topic. After almost 10 months together he broke up with me over the fact that I wouldn’t marry him... (which is insane!) I wanted us to go to therapy. I wanted him to figure out and accept who he is but he never wanted to. I feel bad for him and angry at the same time because the pain of the breakup has left me feeling pretty empty. I still miss him a lot on most days but I do know I dodged a bullet. You can love someone and still know they aren’t good for you. And sometimes the best thing you can do is let them go and choose yourself. As for him; my only wish is that he comes to accept himself fully someday and stops leading people on, using them and manipulating them as a means to an end. Like the saying goes: “hurt people, hurt people.”
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My worst heartbreak was when I had to walk away from my best friend because she was constantly criticising me and abusing me emotionally. It was platonic heartbreak, but I think that sometimes that can be even worse. Luckily, she realised that she was treating me badly and after not talking for about eight months we reconciled. By now we‘ve been best friends for twelve years ☺️ But those eight months were brutal, it felt like I had lost a limb.
Mareeen14 how do you just stop talking? I think I need to do the same with my best friend who’s emotionally abusive. How do I just stop talking with him
linksey well in my case I told her about the things that bothered me, which she had no understanding for at first and then that was that. She was the one who then approached me again and apologised...
I am an introverted person that hardly trusts people. Yet, I’ve been in a group of 3 people just that people won’t call me lonely or weird. It was our first day of school (I’m 17 btw). We had a new classmate. When she joined the class’ Whatsapp group, I started a convo with her ( although I wasn’t intending too). I felt so sucked up to the conversation. I saw a little bit of myself in her, yet in a more friendly and positive way. We kept chatting for about 2 months almost everyday, and feelings started to grow. There was that guy who talks to her as well, and apparently, he had feelings for her too. She asked me one day “would you feel bad if you rejected someone?”. I immediately knew she rejected the guy, I didn’t bothor asking for a reason. 3 days later, she told me that her parents would kill her if she ever dated someone, which kind of left me in a shock. We kept talking and talking, and we got closer and closer, and she started changing me to become more extroverted. I started making friends with more people. To your surprise, it apparently seemed like she got closer and closer to the guy that she rejected. They started walking together at school and talk a lot. I would be lying if I told you I didn’t feel jealous at that time. I decided to confess my feelings that day (I’ve told her i had a crush on someone else so she wouldn’t feel bothored because of her parents u know), she responded that she would date me if it wasnt for her parents and she always saw me as the better person. I accepted it and kept in touch with her. Weeks passed, and I noticed her ignoring me at school more than often. The truth is, i’ve come to realise that she was doing it all the time. She always avoided me in real life as if she preferred the “virtual” me. In addition, she would always tell me that I was the better person ( than the other guy) and she would always state that she gets in a problem with him everyday. However, she says so and the next day i see them walking as if nothing happened or as if she was lying to me. That’s my second heartbreak for you guys. Finally, shit happened and she suddenly stopped talking to the other guy admitting she had feelings for him, and she cut him off cause it was growing serious. This made her talk to me more often and guess what? After 3 months, turns out she had feelings for me too. And we started secretly dating. Well, not really secretely. We were much like best friends with feelings. And guess what? She continued avoiding me more often at school. I kept asking her everyday if she was feeling forced into a relationship, although it wasn’t completely a relationship, i was mentally prepared for a split and for us to regain our selves, she kelt denying and denying, until one day, i went with the flow and stopped asking. Two weeks later, guess what? Lol she started avoiding me on whatsapp as well... i sent her a huge text about it asking her why and telling her how much i care... she replied stating that she doesnt trust me anymore.... that i was a mistake.... she didnt leave one word that wasnt hurtful. In the end, it was my fault, maybe i didnt realise the strictness of her parents, yet all i wanted to do was to love and to care. Here am I, back to my old self.
One of my biggest heartbreaks was when I was a kid I got removed from my parents with my two siblings and relocated in a foster family and then couple months later the foster family decided they wanted to only keep my younger two siblings so they separated me into another foster home by myself. I was 5 at the time so I remember most of it. Less than a year I lost a whole family and life and never could understand why. It took 20 years later before I ever saw either of them again. I swear I was the happiest kid when I was little, but was diagnosed with depression that same year at 5 years old and it never really has gone away 25 years later.
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Wow, that means so much for us to hear you say
Jubilee hey! could you do smth like unpopular opinions. where people write anonymiously their opinions abt certain topics which they think are unpopular and you let random people react to them just like here. would be interesting i guess
is there a way people can submit things online? im not sure if that's what you already do but if not it would be a cool reach
cool suggestion! thank you!
Stuck in between “wanting to feel that kind of love again” and “don’t want to feel that kind of heartbreak again”
SAME. I'm leaning more towards not wanting the heartbreak tho...
Me too man, me too 😓
God! I understand
I have days where I want it again, but it still hurts sometimes and its been almost 3 years
@@427skies lol samee
"I'm astounded by the cruelty, exhibited by people sometimes," Bro, same. Same.
It's demonic...how can you be so mean. Agree with your comments bro
@B B shut the fuck up
Right 😥
Wait- I was on that moment!!
Hi Jo banana ,am heart broken love to know more about you and dm on Instagram Robert stone
My worst hearbreak was when my sister passed away 2 weeks before i gave birth to my son. She was beyond excited to meet him but never got to.
Vanessa Valenciano I’m so sorry that that happened to you 💕💕
I'm sure she's watching you , wish you the best
I'm so sorry :(
You should have given birth earlier then 😡
Camel TowTrucker i-
My first love died in a car accident. His last text read, "You have my back forever no matter what"
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People don't die when they meet in an accident or a bullet pierce through their heart.
people die when u forget about them
im sorry.
So beautiful and so sad at the same time.
The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too
Norfahana Nordin 😬😟🤭😢😢😢
That was 1 of the hardest things I had to overcome.
Exactly what happened to me not so long ago. Now he’s happy with someone else
@@hellobree9938 Even the sme hppnd wid me...a year ago...she was my junior...so she asked me do u love me..I said wht..u r already in relationship wid my bestfriend....she said she will convince and leave ...but I didn't accept her..cuz she was way toooooo beautiful..literally she was in the top 5 hot grls of our high skul...I was tooo ugly...even her love dat is my bestie was tooo gud lukin..so i knew cuz i was the captain of one of the sports team and had vry gud reputation in the school so she wanted me..after sum months I said yes..evrythng was gud...i even heard sum tyms dat she was texting her ex dat is my bestie..met him sum tyms...but even den I loved her unconditionally...v spent days together...evrythng was gud..and suddenly we had a fyt...she left me for no reason...and went back to her ex(MY BESTFRND)...and den again she was in 10th grade again she fell in love wid her junior...she was dating her junior...and now again she is dating her ex and junior both..my lyf literally bcme hel
@@hellobree9938 but after that I nvr loved anyone...I feel like love is ntg to me now...but even now it hurts alot man...cuz of her I lost all my reputation in school...my 10th grade result was affected soooooo badly...I lost my bestfriend too...no one could break our frndshp.. cuz of this grl I lost my 5 yrs frndshp
To the lady whose boyfriend cheated with cousin: sweetie, you dodged a bullet. Be glad you got rid of the cheater before marriage and children.
Right. And her cousin should be careful too. If he did once it could happen again.
Like honestly, if he will cheat on you will people in your own family, he will cheat with anyone.
Natalia Miranda honestly if the cousin got hurt good riddance. Because she probably knows about he did
My ex cheated and got her pregnant while we were trying 😔 blah
I just don't understand how a family member can do that to you
"Im astounded by the cruelty exhibited by people sometimes"
Everytime. Each and everytime.
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Yes.
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Me too
Loosing your friend is okay, loosing your lover is okay, but loosing yourself in the process of getting them back is not okay. Value yourself, you are important.
What if the friend u lost is lost forever 😢
@@gurindersomal1786 that's okay too. we all know it's not going to last forever.
but that's why it's such a treasure.
all we can do is be thankful while we still have them and remember them when they're gone. remember, but move on.
@@gurindersomal1786 u ok?
So trueeee but so hard to do.
So true
He loved me i didn’t , i felt bad , tried to fall for him , fell for him , and realised he never loved me.
Same I feel ya
I'm so sorry 😢
Thank you guys i appreciate it😓💕
My sister told me: *"From the day you were born, there's an invisible red line that links you to your soulmate."*
But I think many peoples already know that thing.😊
Relatable AF
The one about the journal was so messed up. His friends were likely jealous of his relationship.
Lya Job you cant do it
I still can't rationalize how he willingly (if not hesitantly) agreed to burn the journal and FILM it. I bet he'll feel regret about the incident for the rest of his life.
I believe they were too! I was horrified after hearing that
I think that must've been a young couple still in high school. I can't imagine a grown adult doing this. Very "Mean Girls".
This was so sad.... I hope he regrets it
My worst heartbreak was when my family told me to die in the streets and when I walked out nobody came looking for me.
Wtf??
If I was your sister, I would
You’re loved!
Hey, youre my inspiration, youre brave , you know that. Message me, if you wanna, know my story
Please be strong , you deserve to live ❤
"And so we are strangers again, but this time with memories."
Would have been better i knew it only for myself, and not having these memories together.
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Damn this quote is brutal.
That cousin would get beat tf up
Every family function they show up to together he would be catching hands
More like the bf
But really if someone cheated then he/she is the real asshole
@@ToBucks as soon as I heard that first thing popped up in my head every family function hands will be thrown
Lmaooooooo
My mom's story:
She met a law student when she was about 19 years old at a cruise, while she was dating my dad. She was in love with my dad but she just had that connection with the law student who was about her age. A few years later when I was born, around 5 years old, my mom found a note in her old jacket that she used on the cruise and it had the law students name on it, his name was Alfonso. But she brushed it off, knowing that they aren't gonna meet again. The letter said, "I see you as a wonderful woman, I would like to see you as the woman I get to take care of and protect. But I know someone has already owned your heart, farewell Kristina". Then, another few years later, my grandma died then my dad cheated on my mom. When my dad left, we went to visit my grandma's grave. Beside my grandmother's grave was Alfonso's grave. My mom cried seeing the picture of him in front of his grave, because that picture was taken on the cruise they were on together.
omg...this so sad😢😢😭
He must have really been connected with her to come back to her in that way.
@@moses7336 I know right🥺
This is so sad the words om the note alfosnso wrote really was heartwarming and sad at the same time
Lol
Worst Heartbreak:
When The the person who gave you the best memories becomes a memory.
Seeing someone you treasure turn into a stranger.
It feels like a part of you has been cut out, and you know that you will never get it back, and it feels like the thought of them is always gonna make you cry, because every time, it does.
I read a quote once, it said "The one who nourishes you, also destroys you" And i think this is the best way to sum up what people we love can do to us.
I can relate to this..
😢🤕 💯
ouch
" The more you try to please someone. the more they won't like you"
Anonymous
Wow that’s deep
It hurts to read this but it soooo trueee
You're not Anonymous, you're Wanjohi Ryan.
@@IronChinFatih please😭
can confirm
I was dating this guy. He was my first boyfriend, my first kiss, my first everything. I loved him. One day he told me we should take a break. That was about two weeks before my best friend's birthday. A couple of my friends and the guy I was with came to her house to celebrate her birthday. I walked into her house finding him holding her the same way he used to hold me. I went home sobbing. She told me she loves him and doesn't care if I'm not over him.
I lost both of them that day.
Thank you for teaching me nothing lasts forever
Same girl! But it was 2 weeks after our breakup and my "bestie" of 5 years who supported and "loved" us together (her words) started texting him and then they strated dating. .they've been together for 10 months now..I lost both of them and it has been soo hard going back to where I was but I'm working on me for me (for once in my life) and I hope that whomever is going through something similar knows that everything heals with time even the most broken of hearts..❤⭐
If you really need a someone to talk about, I'm here. Its easier to vent out stuffs with a stranger. Your story hit me hard. I'm in other part of the world. It would be very easy and you can share anything. I hope you get over this. Lots of love dear girl ❤
yo that girl is about to catch some hands
I’m so sorry girl. No one should go through that
That was a ever a friend to begin with!!!!!!
The one about the journal burning... that was so messed up and cruel I hope that person is living a happier life now away from him
What an asshole friend
@@sadpowie unbelievable at how evil and hurtful that is!
*My one rule in life:*
Forgive, but don’t forget.
I agree completely!
OMYGOD SAME
Because if u forget, u'll forget the lesson
mine too.
don’t always forgive, people could always take advantage of that
_"It's gonna take years for this person... to discover what is at the root of their own pain that's causing them to want to hurt other people this way."_
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Seriously!!
When you feel heartbroken about someone that had never been yours :'(
Uhgggg worst thing ever :( I feel you
Ouch
It changed my life.....and beacuse of him, I've not been able to fall in love with anyone else....
@@induuuxoxo you will one day!!!
@@paulinaluciaacostasantilla6962 thanks... But I really think I that I will have a hard time....
My mum and I did that thing where you put your dog In the middle and see who he runs to and he ran to my mum.
HAHAJZH
Oh come on im sure that dog loves u😂😂🤦🏾♂️
Lol aww..😂😭
Oh bby nooo
Feels.
Anyone else ever been heartbroken from someone that was never theirs?
JBS #7 2 years & I’m still crying myself to sleep. Everytime I see him my heart melts in a puddle. There are so many obsticals we probably can’t be together. I don’t even know if he feels the same way, we’ve never confessed our feelings to eachother but the thought of having a chance at holding him in my arms seems so surreal If it ever became a reality I imagine that’s what heaven would feel like on this earth. He means everything to me and I’m scared I will spend the rest of my life missing someone I can’t have.
Laurette148 tell him. I told him. He rejected me. At first I was broken, but with time, I thought it will fade. Here I am. One year later still waiting for him. I am with another guy, and I love him, I really do, but not as half as much as I love my crush, that is with another girl. I want to talk to him, so bad, but I need to move on. But I can’t, everytime I try to he is there. And I hate it
Elisa Gomez mine is also with someone else. It’s very painful to live through. ☹️
Me right now, today :) Or more like yesterday tbh, January 3, 2019.
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my girl accused me of cheating on her when i never had and later accused me of harassing her and threatening her, which i also never did, and got the police involved, and for weeks i couldn’t get my mind off it because of police showing up at my house and i still don’t understand why it happened
She doesnt deserve you
mirixox thanks for the support brother
@@charlesgravelle538 no problem ,stay strong
@Satanist naah they're aren't im a girl and i would never be able to cheat
Awww buddy i hope you're okay you will find a better gf don't worry
Mine: I was dating a man for over 4 years. Everything was great and we even got pregnant. When I told him, he left with no explanation. Come to find out, he had two other women pregnant at the same time as me. None of us found out about each other until all the babies were born. Locked in heartbreak for life. The things the other women told me, shattered me.
I wish healing to everyone who reads this.
Stay strong ! He's a jerk and YOU DESERVE BETTER i hope you and your baby are doing fine ❤
So sorry girl. Just know soooooo many people relate to this. :(
You are such a strong woman!keep going!
What a spineless monster.
I wish you happiness, Anabelle!
I'm sorry for that if you don't mind answering do you stay in touch with the other girls
"Loving someone I could never have is the worst heartbreak I've ever felt."
-Anynomous
Nightmare_Targaryen I felt this
100%
Felt it to my bones
Luthor_Targaryen yes
This is heartbreaking. I met this guy when i was in college because someone introduced us, I liked him since then and that was 7 years ago. I prayed for him because he deserves to live a life filled with happiness, even if that's not me.
He recently got married..
Hi Ronald, I'm sorry for not having the courage to speak with you when you tried to befriend me, I was so nervous. If only i could turn back the time we met, i would have skipped the stairs (where we got introduced) and rode the elevator instead lol. Anyway, I pray you'll get nothing but the best in life. God bless you.
Ps: Finally got the courage to share this since i know you won't be able to read my message. 😂
I had a girlfriend who I really cared for deeply, And I loved her so much. I went to her house everyday and we had fun, But in reality I was just being used. She already had a boyfriend behind my back and he found out and I was jumped by his friends. The girl came to my house 2 days after, She smacked me and blamed me for everything. I pushed her and I hurt her, I feel bad to this day because I was with her not knowing she was so horrible like that. I didn't want to hurt her but I had so many injuries from her boyfriends friends jumping me I had to stay in the hospital for 2 months because they ruptured my lung and broke my collar bone. The pain was unimaginable and I hope this never happens to anyone else.
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@@michellereeves9316 thank you Michelle, I owe ya one.
I'm so sorry that happened to you, you truly deserved better
I'm sorry that you got mixed up with a person willing to do that.
I'm so sorry...
"Don't cry, dry your eyes never let up. Forgive but don't forget girl, you gotta keep your head up."
~Tupac
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My worst heartbreak was my dog dying in my arms, stuck in traffic on the way to the vet. Still hurts to this day how I wasn't able to do much for her.
Magic Mek Im positive your dog had the best life with you. Never forget how you made her/him happy. You did the best you could. ♥️
I'm so sorry
omg wow.. I'm so sorry
I had to get my dog euthanized because she apparently had some kind of cancer in her lungs for years.don't be like me, bring your pets to a vet occasionally.
That hit me hard since I just got a dog, I’m sorry for your loss.
My worst heartbreak was when I was about 10/11 and my parents had recently gotten divorced. I was sitting in the car listening to my parents argue about how they both didn't want me living with them. Even though I was so young it really felt like someone had ripped out my heart out. I didn't express my feelings to anyone because I didn't want people to worry about me. I know now that they only said those things because they were just mad in general but it still hits me pretty hard to this day.
I hope someone realises both of your worths even if the people who brought you into the world don't. You guys deserve everything and more!
I just want to say... Adults never realize the beauty of kids... Gentle fragile hearts. Love to you.
OMG I'm so sorry. Wish I could give you a hug.
Cheer up and pls be strong
Oh no, you didn't need to hear that... that just cruel
Realising he never actually loved me and he just kept me around until someone better showed up. It isn’t the breakup that’s the most heartbreaking, it’s the realisation that I was just for fun.
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Same
For real. so painful
Same
I had a "friend" who did the same thing
the most scary thing honestly is loving someone but the "someone" doesn't feel the same way and you still haven't moved on.
oi mate 😭😭 it’s been 2 years n I’m still not over him 😅🤦🏽♀️😭
@@brandyprado9441 Memories are like water, The more you disturb the more unstable they become.
but i’m glad she feels the same about me now
Ohh mate it's been 1 year😩😩😩😭
My first love was back in high school in 2015 I still remember the day I asked her to be my girlfriend it was October 27, I made the mistake of not spending every chance I had with her. I thought I was better off without her and broke up with her 5 days before our 1 year anniversary. I fucked up so bad. She came back to me,gave me another chance and I blew that one too. I havent seen her since 2017 and now shes engaged and happy. I didnt realize how much she meant to me. I now cant go a day without thinking of her. How happy she must be. And what couldve been of us had I not been so foolish. Its 2021 and I STILL love her. I dont think I can ever love someone the same. But shes happy now despite my stupidity and it does make me feel a bit more at peace. I just hate how I cant forget her and my mistakes. If only we can go back id fix it all..
I feel like often times when people hear the world “heartbreak” they associate it with a significant other. I thought I’d felt heartbreak when I was in an abusive relationship. I’m 20 years old. My mom passed away in my arms March 7th of this year due to a six year battle with cancer. That was the moment I realized what heartbreak actually felt like.
Maggie May I'm sorry that you had to go through this. sending love & prayers. I'm always here if you need someone to talk to :'( this is so heartbreaking. Loveyou.
Maggie May my condolences to you and your family. It is deep touching in my heart my prayers is with you and your family too stay strong
I’m so sorry you had to go through that. I am praying and sending love. My mom is in a battle with cancer as well.
Sending love your way. I hope you get through this. Sorry for your loss
I had a very similar thing happen to my family. My grandma was diagnosed with stage 4 pancreatic cancer 3 years ago and passed away this April 12, 2018. At first doctors told her she only had months to live but she always pushed through and never wanted to give up. Even in the last few weeks she was still alive and doctors were telling her her condition was getting worser and that there wasn't much else they could do, she still wanted to go through with the chemos no matter how much she hated them cuz of how sick they made her feel. We all knew she didn't have much time left but we still didn't expect we'd have to say goodbye so soon. I'm a religious person but on her last day we were praying for God to end her suffering already and take her with him but she was telling us pray that God cures her illness instead of praying for her death. I wasn't there the moment she passed on, my grandpa and my aunt were with her and they say she suffered very much in those last moments. She was throwing up blood and stuff. I'm very angry and upset that she had to live through so much pain... She didn't deserve it. Thinking about it fills me with anger but there's nothing that can be done and it's no one's fault. I still can't believe she's not here anymore a lot of the time and dream about her often. Sorry for the long post I just needed to talk about it I guess. So yeah I know how you feel and I hope you and you're family are doing better.
Have you ever been through so much heartbreak that you feel...numb?
Yes
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Memes are too relatable yes
Daniel o my heartbreak wasn’t by a lover but thank you for that ☺️
Memes are too relatable everyday man
A tip for all the people out there who haven't faced any heart break yet nd are happy.........
*Never get too attached to someone unless they feel the same for you ; the depth of your love today is the depth of your wound tomorrow*
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@@suja605 you can clearly see that in their actions... The efforts they are making for u... All these small things matter....
If u think that they really care for u... Don't afraid to be wt them...
Damn. The father one and best friend one made my cry so hard.
Zu Zu omg Same
me too
Crane?
It happened to me.
Crispy as fuck gladly!! i love having emotions actually😬
wanting someone you can’t have is one of the worst feelings
For whatever reason. *Thee fucken worse*
If a person a capable of making you feel this way another one is too. Go and find him or her
It makes other relationships feel dull and bleak.
moranalex99 l
as a lesbian who has a crush on a straight girl, i can definitely relate
Luckily for me I have no social life, so i'll never even be in a relationship to start with.
Same
Lame
same
same ):
Same
I was with this guy for 9 months. He chased me, made me fell in love with him and finally dumped me over misunderstandings. Not that we never had fights, and that I was always right in the relationship. But yeah, I was willing to work hard to keep our love together. I was owning to all my mistakes and willing to rectify them. But he let me go over a phone call. And didn't took my calls later. 5 months of waiting for him and crying for him everyday in corona, expecting just to have a decent talk to him ,to sort things out. And when we finally met, I got to know he's already dating someone else, the same girl I had doubts about during this pandemic, and also he told me he was over of me in 2 weeks and started flirting with people since then, while I was trying to talk to him for 5 months,only to be disrespected by him everytime and was being abused verbally.
It's been almost 2 weeks since I found out everything. Still the crying and the pain hasn't subsided.😭
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oh honey, you'll find a better man, don't worry or stress yourself
@@jinharemm7194 m sure I'll. And thanks for the positivity 😁
@The Sociopath hey!! Thanks for reading my story and not calling me out on my stupidity 😂
Hope you are doing well. And if going through any loss, just trust that eventually everything falls into place it's meant to.
Well, i did thought about it too. But I think the best kind of revenge is when the person knows your value and cannot have you. That's when the loss matters the most.
@@shrishtijha4924 Yes I totally agree!!!!
Mine happened 8 days ago, and is going to happen again in 2. I lost the love of my life on October 10th. Before he got into the accident, he messaged me but I was too busy at work to reply. So I decided to wait until after work. At the end of my shift, my mom told me he was hospitalized, he was in a coma. When I called his brother in hopes to talk to him through the phone, I was told he already passed. Just a few minutes. He’s getting buried in the 20th, and his birthday is on the 24th. I can’t stop crying. I regret putting him off. I miss him so much
Pearl Nabong 😩☹️💔
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Pearl Nabong oh my god i’m so sorry... that’s terrible :( hang in there, everything’s gonna be okay
So sorry to hear that...may God give u patience to heal.
So sorry💔
the journal one was so heartbreaking oh my gosh :(
hwall berry that hurt me. I am so sorry for the person who had to see that truly
really random but SKSHJDKDJSJ BE ALL IS SO CUTE
I know wtf I wanted to know the ending like did he ever apologize or what
wtf was that, that's some traumatizing shit that makes you bitter
I know right. Such a cruel thing. 😭
I wonder why people cheat like honestly if you like someone else instead of liking the person you share a relationship with, just break up with them- but first tell them how you feel and ease their pain and don’t be harsh (this goes for the other person in a relationship too) breaking up will break your heart but it’s better than being cheated on.
its hard though because I love my ex-boyfriend so much, but he never gave me the attention I needed and ignoring me was an almost daily thing for him. I then had to find this elsewhere -> different people. I still loved him with all my heart and he was all I ever wanted, I couldn't bring myself to break up with him.
Being cheated on, or even thinking you may be is traumatic....
2 pussies is better than 1
tokyolights if you truly loved the first person, you wouldn’t have fallen for the second person
@tokyolights,
You don't get it at all, do you? People who cheat don't care about their partner, why do you think they cheat in the first place?
My worst heartbreak? Watching my grandmother slowly die for weeks while my relationship was falling apart AND i getting an email that I wasn’t accepted into the school I wanted to go to. I’m so grateful I got to say goodbye to her, but my heart will forever break when I drive by her house.
Sorry.Take heart
seeking secrets has always been one of my favorite things here on jubilee but just listening to these stories breaks my heart ): sending all my love to each and everyone of them 💛
simmi k Yes, I agree:)
Exactly
Signal was so bad it couldn't reach them
After years of being abused by my stepmother, she finally left to another country for a year and a half.
During that time, I met a girl who provided the calming female love that I had yearned for my entire life. Despite both of us being barely adolescents at the time, it still felt much more painful than any other breakup that I had as an adult.
We broke up for meaningless reasons around the same time that my father reunited with my stepmother.
I’ll never forget the torment & desperation of seeking emotional balance again.
J.G Wells Are you okay now?💛
J.G Wells i hope youre doing better
J.G Wells I hope your okay💛
I really hope your doing better, and if your not, it really will. even if it might not seem like it. 🖤
_I hope you're alright.
My worst hearbreak is when i tried to share with my family my depression and get some help. They just told me I am an attention seaker and that annoyed them. I struggle till today
[Edit] Thank you so much for your support, I'm doing much better now. For those who share similar experiences , I really hope you guys are ok now. We can do this! Again, thank you.
I feel like the same thing could happen to me. So I keep all my happiness, sadness, achievements and fears to myself.
Nobody is genuinely happy for me.
Vishweshshwesh Manerkar Im genuinely happy for you bro, stay strong. you all matter even if this cruel world doesnt show it but that doesnt mean its not true. If ur happy then im fkin happy, yall deserve happiness yall aint alone
@@mana.a Thanks for your kind words. People like you make this world a better place.
I Don't actually feel bad though. I'm an introvert and things have been like this since I was born.and I'm cool with it.
I'm just wondering if I'll find the right life partner in my future. Parents won't change, so I'll have to find happiness in friends, girlfriend (if possible) and pets of course.
Doesn't really matter though. I can adapt to anything.
And how's your life going? I'll pray for you every night before going to sleep(even though I don't believe in God).
Thanks again. Cya 😙
With depression or any mental health isn't attention seeking. I had to find that out by myself so then my mom noticed my behaviour with everyone changed to point i don't want their help. To this day they're still trying to help me when I don't need it as I've had to move away from them . By moving away It's helped me massively. I'm hoping you'll get stronger and not let depression get a strong hold on u like it did with me.
@@leannehutchinson8185 I don't know you but thanks for saying these kind words to her. I really hope you get all you want in life
I think our worst heartbreaks are the ones we don't know how to handle. Our first loves, the ones where you could feel them losing feelings for you and you not being able to anything about it, or the ones where they suddenly leave you wondering why or how you went wrong. I believe our worst heartbreaks stem from the ones where we dont know how to handle them that we go so far as to blaming ourselves for tha damage they caused. I truly believe our worst heartbreaks are the ones we convince ourselves we did.
I lost my cat a few months ago. We had an extremely close bond. NOTHING you can ever imagine. I can’t explain it either. For eleven years she was by my side every night, all the time when i was home. She were so afraid of everyone else except me. Barely anyone could Pet her or walk towards her without her running away. Except me. She was afraid of every little small sound.. but i could run towards her, scream.. whatever and she didn’t get scared. She wondered what the heck i was doing but not get scared.
The worst part is that Ive been fighting a though depression for about 10 months now, plus a small depression for two years before it escalated. She passed away in may, when I was deep down in a depression which I’m still struggling with. I’ve been home from school for 10 months now... she meant the world to me. Already struggling with social anxiety and phobia, panic attacks and this major depression for years, that single thing was the WORST thing that has ever happened to me. I loved her more than life itself. She has saved my life probably around 5 times.. if I wouldn’t have started getting medication two weeks before her death I would not be here today. I miss her so much.
I’m sorry fir this really long comment that no one will see anyways.
Bullshit detector x2000 lol I feel like crying because I can relate. just know your not alone and that your brave stay strong. 😕🖤
I know exactly how strong that bond is.
My cat is the exact same.. let alone our situations are very similar .. im struggling with Depression, and severe social anxiety, I have been to school in a week and they want to file for truancy.. I have to much pride to drop out and take online schooling..
I know that maybe my suggestion sounds difficult but... I also had a cat for a long time(since age 10 to 27) and she was my best friend, I had to sleep her because she was old and really ill , my then boyfriend went with me that day to the vet and I felt relieved he was there but some months later he dumped me...it was not a good year for me and above all I missed my cat so much but I began to think that some other cat out there probably needed a home and a friend like me so I adopted one stray male cat and later a female one and it worked, they make my days better even if it’s not just the same as before and I’m happy that they are not strays anymore , I’m sure that my old beloved best friend is happy to share her home too!!
So... I know it’s hard but you can do it , maybe with a little (new🐱) help!!
Hugs.
Man I hope you will find another cat to at least help you because no other cat can replace your bond my prayers go out to u
My worst heart break was when my car "hit black ice" and I got into a wreck and when I called my mother the first thing she asked is if the car was okay. Little did she know the wreck was a failed suicide attempt.
This was several years ago and still hurys me to this day but I'm glad to say I am in a much better place now so I just want people to know things get better❤
Abigail Drzewiecki Hope your in a better place now! :)
@@JohnDoe-or3cl I really am so thank you very much it means more than you could ever know❤
Abigail Drzewiecki Great to hear that you’re doing better, stay strong and keep your head up!!🌻
@Svea Pearson I've been close to doing the same thing but in the end she's still my mom and I couldn't imagine doing the things she does to me to her ya know?
I really hope you are doing well 💕 if you need someone to talk to I'm here
the worst heartbreaking thing is waiting for someone who will never be yours
Fyruj Faruk I couldn’t care less because I move on fast 😗✌🏼
@@suckmyprettytoes well wish i did too lmao
Gill you just gotta learn how to be detached. So I believe in you 😤👏🏼
Yep. One sided love does hit different. I never thought i would fall in love with someone. But I did. Someone who hurt me so much to the point that I got very bad anxiety and started to have anxiety attacks. I literally have cut of everything and started to distract myself. Its been more than two years now and still cant seem to move on. Thats how pathetic I am 🙂
@@suckmyprettytoes Teach me your ways lol
First hand advice: never date someone who cheated on their S.O to be with you. If they managed to chat on the other person, then they can cheat on you. A cheat stays a cheater. If they really wanted to be with you, and they were a good person, they would’ve first broken up with the other person, then come to you.
My boyfriend and I were together for 6yrs and on our 6th yr anniversary in April 2016 he proposed. The upcoming year we were supposed to get married. Unfortunately in January 2017 he lost his life to gang violence. It's been a year and a half without him, I think about him everyday.
Annesley Williams I hope you're ok and stay strong❤💛
Annesley Williams that gave me chills, I hope you're doing better ❤
After reading that, I froze and I felt sadness course throughout my whole body. I’m so terribly sorry.
Annesley Williams my ex and i were together for 6 years too. We are supposed to get married this year, but we broke up due to ldr. A month later he found someone, after 6 months together they are engaged now. And im still in love with him. ):
Ohhhh I am so, so sorry you have had to live with that... :(
I had just gotten in a fight with my boyfriend when I watched this video, he didn't want to finish the argument with me about it so he left to work on his car. He came in and told me he was taking it for a test drive and left. When I watched that last reading, I started sobbing and called him and asked him to come home. We worked things out. My mother always told me to never let people leave the house angry at each other, I believe that to be true.
Athena Veatch I know exactly what you mean. Nothing hurts more than to see someone for the last time, angry, to then never see them again. Its gut wrenching
I had four friends. We were like the popular girls at school. One of them fought with the other three. I didn't take anyone's side but I stayed with her. I didn't want her to be alone. The next day, she was with them and they were all against me. She turned them against me. I still don't know why. We are okay now but the feeling of being ostrazised, left alone and unwanted remained. It's still messing with my selfconfidence. I prefer being alone now.
Yes I can feel you, I too went through this when I was in 10th grade. This hurts alot when you don't get any true friends in your entire life, and when you get someone they too hurt you. (But now we're best friends and I love her alot❤️)
Same thing happened to me 😶
bruh get better friends
I understand I’m sorry
@@riichan2895 u don’t even need people in your life but yourself
This is the reason I am scared of relationships. I want to love someone but I don't want to get hurt because I know I wouldn't be able to love someone else again.
worst heartbreak : i dated a guy for four years, only to figure out he used me to get closer to my sister.
lolipoppin sis i’m so sorry you had to go through that
Wow wtf! Thats messed up. I’m so sorry to hear that.
thank you guys.
lolipoppin sending you a hug
lolipoppin aww sorry. this guy doesn't deserve you at all, he's an asshole. i hope that you're okay tho. :/
Me falling in love for the first time with a guy, to him confessing that he loves my best friend, and me helping them get together because his smile is all that matters to me.
That is just pure love😿
I don't mean to sound insensitive, but I don't think that's love. I think that's having a lack of respect for yourself and being emotionally weak.
It's okay to need help sometimes.
I hope you heal from that and realize that he's manipulative.
Smh 🤦🏻♀️
@@lonelymind6334 I don't know what you're on, but that's love. Sacrificing your happiness for them, that's love, that's beautiful. That's true, true love .
@@lonelymind6334 How is he manipulative...? You can't make that assumption while you still don't know the full story.
My girlfriend cheated on me. I wasnt over her for 3+ years. Just this past week she came back into my life and told me she loved me and she was sorry and that she had made a mistake and to give her another chance. Being dumb I did. This was just a ploy for her to make her ex jealous. She basically said I will always be a 2nd choice, that im not good enough. Ive never had words make me throw up before. This time it did.
AyeAyeCaptin once a cheater, always a cheater
I am so sorry. That is so heart breaking. You don’t deserve someone like that. How are you feeling now? If you need someone to talk to add me on snap: hernajen.peps
AyeAyeCaptin I am so sorry you deserve better hun
That’s just her opinion (and not really a worthy one since she’s just a mean and cruel girl) , but there are a lot of people out there and you bet there are better girls than her!!
And I can tell you that you are enough, it’s just that she has a hole instead of a heart and that’s really hard to fill.
Hugs.
She's a bitch, her personality sounds so fucking ugly and you probably know this but you're better off without such a cruel person in your life, you'll eventually find someone who loves you for all that you are, stay away from toxic people 💕
Mine would be the nights when I hear my mom cry over the fact that my dad cheated on her. And when my brothers would ask and wonder why I hate my dad. They say Im rude and disrespectful. They wouldn't understand bcos they never hear her cry herself to bed. (BTW, my dad lives faraway bcos of work. He hasnt come home since 2006)
Bé strong you are wonderfull person for leting them hâte your father
I hope ur mom gets justice for this
Sorry
He hasn't come since 2006???
Some people aren't meant to stay, but that won't stop us from loving them in silence eh? Hugs to all of us! 🙏
A. Olaivart nobody is meant to stay
A. Olaivart all of us aren’t meant to stay.
Yeah, this feeling of love always leaves us in denial 😂
This comment got me feeling some type of way, fuck.
Yeah this scares me so much i love my girlfriend more than anything in this world I hope and pray that she wouldn't leave me
My worst heartbreak was when I was finally going to meet the dad who had left us when I was a baby and he didn’t show.
Wow, I’m so sorry you got te experience that.
Live your best life ♥️
Thats F.Up but im really sorry
😢
I'm soo sorry..u deserve better sweetheart.
@T M same im always gonna take care of my mom
I showed him my escape, he took her to the places.
I put art on his skin, he painted her a picture.
I wrote him a love song and he wrote her a love letter.
We listened to music which he dedicated to her.
I only see him, his blue eyes was all over her.
I danced with him but he took her home.
We talked about love, but she was on his mind.
Gave him a space to grow, but he filled it with her.
How foolish I am to think, that he is falling in love.
Well he is but not with me.
I was just a distraction, summer was great but every season ends and a cold winter awaits.
Did you write that?
Wow....that’s deep
a j yes I did write after watching this video
This is beautiful
Wow that so pretty, you should probably post that somewhere else lol so no one will steal it
He broke up with me on our wedding day because of his mom. I did everything for him and his family, yet his mother never loved me because she thinks I was taking her son...... i did everything, she was so toxic.... on our wedding day she said was in the hospital that she might die, she manipulated him with the fear of losing her and he broke up... its kills, theres no Word to explain...
When the weeding was canceled, she went to the reception and was doing the party with all his family.
Pain is inevitable but suffering is optional
My father’s mother is like that and she has been ruining my parents’ lives since day one. And my dad is somehow always on her side which makes my mom’s life unbelievably difficult. So imo, you dodged a bullet there
I agree with @ako. Even after we were born my mom found a letter from my grandma (my dad's mom) telling him he should take a 2nd wife. Consider yourself free.
That would have been a horrible marriage.
Something similar happened with me as well
seeking secrets makes my depression depressed
Fatima AlJanahi lmao, i dont have depression
Tommy Mack i hope you never have it or go through it cuz it’s soul draining
Fatima AlJanahi ah honey, wish you the best in life!
Fatima AlJanahi
For real tho i think my tears have tears
God is with you :))
I don’t understand why people think it’s okay to cheat. Like, fully consciously making the decision to ignore the fact that you have committed yourself to someone else, and just...going with someone else? To make someone feel worthless, not good enough, because you’re too scared to pull the trigger and end the relationship?
OxygenNeedle I agree. Cheaters are the worst.
OxygenNeedle Also I see that killua pfp
Cheaters have low iq. It's a fact
You can cheat on someone but still be in MAD love for this person. Trust me. To cheat on someone doesn't mean at all this person isn't important for you. That's just two differents things.
@@marieruana4301 something a cheater would say
My worst heartbreak was when I helped someone get out of the sadness he got from his ex and when he was over it he cheated on me and got back with his ex.his last words to me was I don't need you anymore
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How you overcome your heartbreak😞 i am experiencing this right now 😞
Oh my God.. No way... To rude to be true.. I'm sorry.. How are you Krisha?
@@chilichi3257 I feel you, I'm dealing with it now. What I do it just cry when I feel like it and smile when I feel like. Don't be too hard on yourself. Your feeling is valid. Issokay to be not okay, take rest as much as u need, take care and u can get through it
holy that’s so fucked you deserve better:(
my grandpa was diagnosed with a mental disorder i sit here everyday watching him get worse my heart hurts a little more everyday
Unrequited love- Worst heartbreak. Loving someone who doesn't love you back is very painful, unbearable, it tears you apart.
I hope in another life I'll be his :)
Oh my... I really felt this
I hope in another life you will find someone better who loves you back
shanaya shen I can relate to this so much right now 💔 But everything happens for a reason and we will find someone else who loves us unconditionally!
No dear. Find someone that loves and respects you enough.
Some people can't love because they have a lot of pain to a point they cannot be empathic to what you had to go through in their midst.
Some people are sadly deficient. You deserve to be loved.
Love yours self first
Cuz that how you know
What you deserve
My dog died a while ago.I had him my whole life and he died two years ago and i still cry to this day. He was my favourite thing in the whole world,he made me happy when sad and let me use him as a pillow.
I am so sorry , if you don't mind me asking what happened to him ?
He git old and lost a leg so he couldn't really do much. But it was of old age
Paul Wilson so sorry for your loss
Loving someone is such an act of vulnerability, you are giving them the power to give you the greatest of joys or the worst of pains. Be mindful of that, some people play so easily with the love others offer to them and then it takes a LOT of time to get over the pain.
i used to be madly in love with this one guy. he was the sweetest person i’ve met. i haven’t heard from him in a long time & he was going through really hard stuff in his life. i wish that he’s alive
We were high school sweethearts. I was always there for him when he needed me, even being the person who believed in his dreams and pushed him to accomplish them. We were engaged for 3yrs when he texted me right before deployment and broke off our relationship without any reason. I saw him post days later of him with another girl. It wasn't the first time he had cheated, and it broke my heart. Not even a month later I met the person who is now my husband. We're coming up on our 4th anniversary. Heartbreak hurts, but it doesn't have to stay that way.
I stan you
I’m so glad, you’re much happier now
Lots of love to you❤❤❤
This gives me so much hope.
This made me so happy. 🥰
I just turned seven, it was a week after my birthday, I waited for my uncle to come by so we can celebrate together, he was like the big brother I never had, he raised me when parents were always working, and he said “I’ll come by tomorrow to celebrate with you, I promise, tomorrow, wait for me.” an hour or two later he died in a car crash
I’m still waiting for him every year
May his soul rest in peace ❤
I’m so sorry for your loss 😢
I'm a boy and I fell in love with a boy in my class. I tried multiple times to express my love for him but failed misserably because I was an awkward, skinny, low self-esteemed kid. I managed to give him a letter before highschool was over, and I told him to reject me if there will never be a chance that I can get to be with him, and he did. Until now there will still be a special space in my heart left for him in case he realizes that he wants to be with me too. But it's futile to wait for something uncertain so I am trying to move on now and yeah, it has been 2 years of trying but here i am still leaving a space for him. I guess that part of me will never go away, I just love him that much.
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Hey you should prioritize yourself and stop thinking about someone you didn't have a relationship with that didn't waste your time or owe you loyalty.
The biggest heartbreak of my life was seeing my brother break his neck while playing rugby and then ending up a paraplegic for the rest of his life. He tried committing suicide on many occasions and is still on antidepressants. I can't even remember his smile anymore.
Paper balls I’m sorry man ♥️☹️
damn, that sucks so bad! hopefully time will pass, the pain will heal some + his smile will return. at least he has a loving sibling like you with a big heart. best wishes to you (singular + plural).
praying for your brother
If he's really depressive and don't have any hope in life... Let him just go ... Be free ... I know it's a hard decision, but there are states where you can be delivered without any pain :(
aww thats so sad... i feel so bad for you.
You know why it is called crush, cause your heart gets crushed when they reject u
True so true
that is what i fear the most... i have a MASSIVE crush on my friend that i've known since birth...but i fear that i'm just not good enough for him and he'll think other girls are way more attractive than me. and if i do tell him how i feel he won't feel the same way and we won't even be friends anymore. i'm scared for him, he's going to a new school and my friend who used to go there said it was a horrible school with toxic people... i don't want him to change and find new (toxic) friends who will change him and his beliefs. i don't want him to forget about me but i also don't want to be in the friendzone forever.
Truth
@Preetham Dcnzha thanks. but yea, it's rough.
Cringe
During the last month before we broke up, all we did was have sex. I did it out of love. He... He did it as a stress reliever. And don't get me wrong, yes it helps relieve stress. But during that month, it was a crucial time in our relationship. And keep in mind that the times we "hung out" together, I had to make up an excuse to just get it of my house to be with him. So, our time together was limited.
Just knowing that those intimate moments that I had with him, were only for him to relieve his stress, has taken a toll on me. Idk why but just ever since the break up, I felt disgusted with my body. Disgusted with how I was being used. Disgusted that I thought it was love in those intimate moments...
I've never felt this uncomfortable with my body my whole life...
Lulu I feel sorry for you
I may never know how it feels to be in this situation, but I do know that it wasn’t your fault. Your self-sacrifice was the ultimate form of love and it is he who didn’t appreciate such love. You deserve to be loved, my friend, and your body is a gift, too, not garbage even after the breakup. You don’t have to forgive him, but please forgive yourself because you deserve self-acceptance and love! God bless you!
@@artistrg3487 thank you😌 I've been healing with myself the past month and a half, and this is just something that I need to be reminded of, instead of "tricking" myself into thinking it's my own fault, if that makes sense.
Lulu No, you make sense! No need to feel guilty 😇
I wish my ex could hear about that n know that my distant friend(a leopard in sheep wool) is just flirting with her in order to use her. I pitty her much but she's taught me a lot about caring about myself first n not her feelings A priority. She's (A narcissist)
I find it interesting how many people here are connecting and supporting one another in the comment section. How beautifully blind everyone is. It’s fascinating how stories of others trigger emotions/feelings that one has not yet felt. No one here knows one another. Yet it’s the stories that brings people together. Supporting each other. What it means to be human.
Beautifully said!! I applaud you 😌 Things brings me inner peace, thank u!!💜💜
Parents rejecting their children breaks my heart
@@playingcasual2024 and wheres the hypocrisy?
@@Хочюоливье Parents rejecting their children? u mustve misunderstood him
I fell in love with this girl from my class, and we became good friends. The following year we got into different classes and over the years we lost contact. I never forgot to message her on her birthday though, except this year. I had important exams in June, close to her birthday and I remembered a week too late. I didn't think much of it. She died in August. I haven't spoken to her in a year and I can't believe that I will never have the opportunity to see her smile again.
So heartbreaking..I'm sorry🙏God bless you😇
Broski your making my heartache, much respects and prayers to you.
how’d she die if you don’t mind me asking??
Im so sorry😭💔
My condolences. I am so deeply sorry, may she rest in peace.
When u watch this, you realize that your not the only one going through things in life. It’s sad but it helps with the healing process
When I was 16 my bestfriend told me that he loved me, I had a crush on him too so we ended up dating each other for 5 years
Then I found out that he was cheating on me with my childhood BFF. She was my friend since 1st grade
When I asked him why, he said that he loved me just for my body and my preety face. And said he love her for her heart and inner beauty.
It broke my heart
Now I hate it when someone complement's me for how preety I am
I hate my beauty
@@michellereeves9316 Thank you so much for trying to help, but I have a councillor who is helping me get over my past relationship 🥰❤️❤️
If your BFF truly had a good heart and inner beauty then she would have respected you enough to have put a stop to his advances or tell you about everything before getting into a relationship with him. It seems like your ex was shallow /and/ a bad judge of character. I hope you find someone who loves and respects you for who you truly are.
The nerve of this guy. Hes the ass and duchbag for saying something like that. Yeah you can have diffrent appearance than others but at the end of the day you are the one and only who can determine your self worth. Don't take in his words and self love yourself. You dont need to lower yourself for others live your life. At the end of the day just because someone doesn't like you doesn't mean you have to lower yourself because of it. Dont depend on others for your own self worth.
Lmao that pfp tho. Umm..nvm.
ur ex was wrong for that but u kind of sound selfish
My worst heartbreak was when I was dumped a week before our wedding. He called me and his only words were ," I can't do this Chris." After knowing him since childhood and a 6 yr relationship that's all he could say. Ive gone thru some serious traumatic stuff but I had never felt that type of pain in my life. I tried to walk while my family looked at me in confusion and my legs gave out. I literally heard my heart break. I started to cry like I've never done in my life. I could hear myself cry in a way that was disturbing. My closest family members cried with me. It was embarrassing to not be able to control yourself in front of a crowd. I was numb but my emotions were spilling in front of everyone. That moment in my life humbled me so much. A month passed without contact from him. Then one day he called to "explain himself" . He said he had found out he had cancer the day prior to "the call" . He didn't wanna put me thru the pain. He asked me for another chance. Everyday I would cry for him. For his life not to end. We would have talks about my future , how he wanted me to move on etc. I had calls every other week saying he was going to kill himself , go on his terms. It was constant torture. My panic attacks started getting more severe. I was suffering but pushing him to be optimistic and not lose faith. Meanwhile I was not okay at all. One day he slipped in one of his lies. I found out he had lied about having cancer and that he had cheated on me. A slap in the face falls short to what I felt he did to me. That was the worst heartbreak I've ever had. 💔💔💔
chris viera Omg. That is distributing. God bless you and I hope you are okay.
Les Lavy Thank you 🤗. I'm single atm. I've have had alot of suitors but I'm severely traumatized. I work on myself everyday. It's a slow progress but I'm getting there. People don't realize the kind of damage they can do and that is so fkd up.
chris viera there is always light at the end of the tunnel.
Angel Medrano yes sometimes you think there isn't but God always has other plans for you.
chris viera Omg that is so severely messed up. I feel horrible for you but hope you'll still continue to take things a day at a time and keep strong. He's screwed up and thank god you didn't marry him.
My worst heartbreak is seeing other people with their mom. I feel so insecure and incomplete. My mom died when I was 3.
Your mom always be with you, in your heart 😊
I'm so sorry to hear about it Maricel
Stay strong girl 🌸 More power to u
I can bet you would be a great mother to your child someday.
Maricel Morales Montefalco . I lost my dad when I was just 1 year old but my mom was always been playing the role of a dad and a mom . It's ok to be not ok sometimes
The worst heartbreak for me was losing feelings for someone. Feeling yourself lose feelings for someone you once loved so much, and having no control over it, that kills you slowly. But just remember, feelings can come back...
Dark times
the girl i love is losing feelings for me i guess it hurts a bit more
The same goes for me, I lost my feelings for my ex-bf and I won’t say it is the worst heartbreak for me cause I know he is going through much more pain than I am in. The only thing that makes me feel really sad is seeing him still loving me when I can’t even love him back. It hurts me seeing him in misery caused by me. I hope he heals someday.
Can relate 💯
@@SR-xh8uj please do him and yourself a favor and communicate with him about it. Yeah, it'll probably break his heart but it's not your fault, nor his (I presume). Offer suggestions to help fix the relationship, or go to couples counseling. The worst thing you can do is do nothing and keep him in the dark. Trust and communication is the most important things in a relationship. If you feel as though you can't fix the relationship, then leave him or take a break
My first heart break, was a relationship I was in for two years. He moved interstate while we did try to work distance got in the way, so we eventually went separate ways. It wasn’t a toxic relationship, so having to leave someone you really love and let it fade was hard. Two years later he moved back & my friends kept it secret from me. I found out he had come for me but had found out that I was pregnant with my first child, and over the years he kept in touch with me, nothing over the top just a simple hello how are you kinda thing. Ten years later I found the courage to ask why he kept in touch with me for so many years. He told me that I was the first girl he had ever loved, first girl he had ever cried over & has never loved the same. I came back for you but you had moved on started a family of you’re own.
It really tore me apart & I cried for a whole week straight. I can’t imagine what it would of been for him or anyone to love someone that much for many years.
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This is tragic.
currently going through the same thing me and my ex were in long distance relationship and she broke things off 2 weeks before our 2 year anniversary .. it’s been 5 months now and there not a day where i’m not thinking of her so I decided to reach out to her and tell her exactly how i feel and that’s when i found out she has been seeing someone new and is actually pregnant.. PAIN IS ALL I FEEL .. for the last 5 months all I could tell myself is that it’s okay because we would somehow be together again like one of those movies. But I think that’s far from happening now which just hurts so much..
My father has to go to work in this pandemic . I cried for an hour this morning. He took his uniform today and I pretended that I don't know that he has to leave. I asked him "why are you talking these out". He said "I cannot live here forever". Gosh that broke my heart. I tried hard not to cry in front of him while he was looking at me, expecting something that could make him feel warm and better. But I'm so coward that I cannot confront that. I tried to stay so normal today, indulging myself in my phone. I seriously don't want him to go. Please god, save my father from this cruel pandemic and make sure he comes home back safely. I want to hug him like that day he came home back during the quarantine. I want to cry holding him so that he won't go. I don't want this day to pass. I don't want to see tomorrow.
Honey. Don't be afraid. Your daddy will always come home to you. God will continue to protect him. I will pray for him
@@sarahsampson9013 thank you so much
Don't worry. He will be safe! Just have some faith! 💕
he will be safe, you will be safe. Gods always there 💞
@@suhanisriyaparija8382 Do you live in the US? Then you gotta pray hard
Hey guys im so sorry that each and every single one of us has to go through trauma. I really hope you guys are okay.
Mine when i broke up with her because i have an illness i don't want her to know that. I broke up with her because i know that i'm gonna die.. I don't want her to feel more pain and now i am cured i feel well and better, i saw her now with another man with their first born baby.. I feel so much pain everytime i see her with him. that guy with her supposed to be me. It's my fault the pain hunts me everyday. T_T
May be telling her the truth now will make you and her both feel better. Sometimes all we need are answers and maybe finding out the reason will make you both feel a lot better. I think she deserves to know the truth ❤
Whatever
Ur funNY bro
I'm rlly sorry that you have this illness, I hope whatever it is you are going through will go away in anyway possible... if anything just please please do try and get over her, it's not worth it, your wasting your time bro, she is not going to come back to you and if she is, she might go away...you can do it I know it!! Stay strong💕
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Its not your fault, it will never be your fault. But I do think that I think both of you should talk to have a sense of closure
I got out of a relationship 8 months ago, the break up was really hard on me. I'm still not completely over it and I use to hate myself for not being able to move on but this video makes me realize that heartbreak takes time. It may never go away entirely but at least I know I'm not alone.
Sending love to anyone going through heartbreak, you guys are worth the world ❤
One of my worst hear breaks: I had a crush on one boy for 8 years, he was my classmate, few years my best friend, than he stopped talking to me, and never told me why. I wrote him a poem for valentines day. I was asking if he would give me a chance... He let all the other boys in class read it and laugh into my face. The worst think is. He didn't even have the guts to tell it to me by him self, he let his best friend yell at me from the other side of the class that my crush don't want to even give me the chance... That day I lost not just a faith in love, but in friendship and man too... And for the rest of the lessons I had to smile and act like nothing happend. I couldn't even cry when I got home. I was too broken...
I am sorry.
I am Matt Trust me he is not a good guy.. if he is a good guy he will respect you and your feelings even though he does'nt have feeling at u.. good guy will not do something that will embarrass you.. So now, make the boy regret by laughing at you and downgrading u.. make him realize you are an amazing girl.. Then, if he is crazy about u.. ignore him.. find better guy for yourself.. not him...
I m so sorry love, ❤ I hope you find happiness and faith in love again..
Ps: remember karma never leaves anyone, he'd get what he deserves..
F*ck them be strong you deserved better
Man this is some messed up imaature sh** right there but rejoice sweetheart you dodged a bullet dating an a**hole like that ..hope you find much better :)
the first one is so messed up wtf
FLOriYANA Ikr, how can family do that? Thay cousin was so selfish in my opinion. I just wish the cousin talked it out with the girl.
Simple Dimplesss If That happened to me i would cut all connections with My family. Imagine having christmas dinner with them and having drinks, laughing and singing at the same table.
Lumi That must really hurt:( I hope the girl finds someone better tho. I wish lots of luck to her:)
How is the rest of the family okay with the cousin and the cheater? I hope the cheaters don't come to every single family event, that sounds terrible
I don't like how families support the wrong doers and blame the victims, it really pisses me off.
She probably have a few family members that back her up, but still, it's so wrong.
I hope she will find someone soon, and that family will treat her with the love and respect she truly needs.
my ex boyfriend left me after 7 years together. he said he was bored with me. I finally let him go, and I'm much happier right now without him.
Syifa Ramadhani if I may ask, how long did it take to get over him
Roxy 01 surprisingly... 5 months after being ghosted. it was easier after I got rid of all about him (gifts, photos, and mute his social media).
It's been 2.5 years for me. Drawn out break up. I'm sorry to say, for me, it's not something I can recover from.
Omg. How did you get over it?
dev0n james how rude! -_-
Biggest heartbreak so far;
I was so in love with him. He was my first love, bf, everything. A month into dating I found out he was cheating on me through a dating app...but it was with men. I asked him if he was gay/bi and he denied it multiple times and said he did it out of “boredom” or as a “joke.” I always knew deep inside he was confused about his sexuality but too scared to come out of the closet. I forgave him and he maintained the same level of denial throughout the whole relationship and even had me convinced he was straight. We argued a lot about this topic. After almost 10 months together he broke up with me over the fact that I wouldn’t marry him... (which is insane!) I wanted us to go to therapy. I wanted him to figure out and accept who he is but he never wanted to. I feel bad for him and angry at the same time because the pain of the breakup has left me feeling pretty empty. I still miss him a lot on most days but I do know I dodged a bullet. You can love someone and still know they aren’t good for you. And sometimes the best thing you can do is let them go and choose yourself. As for him; my only wish is that he comes to accept himself fully someday and stops leading people on, using them and manipulating them as a means to an end. Like the saying goes: “hurt people, hurt people.”
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How funny would it be if he was always straight 😂
that last one almost made me cry. I cannot fathom that person's pain. tell people you love them.
My worst heartbreak was when I had to walk away from my best friend because she was constantly criticising me and abusing me emotionally. It was platonic heartbreak, but I think that sometimes that can be even worse. Luckily, she realised that she was treating me badly and after not talking for about eight months we reconciled. By now we‘ve been best friends for twelve years ☺️ But those eight months were brutal, it felt like I had lost a limb.
Mareeen14 how do you just stop talking? I think I need to do the same with my best friend who’s emotionally abusive. How do I just stop talking with him
I’ve been in the same situation as u
linksey you can either slowly stop being as close to her or just tel her that you need a time off. at the end its always better to be honest
linksey well in my case I told her about the things that bothered me, which she had no understanding for at first and then that was that. She was the one who then approached me again and apologised...
My platonic heartbreak from a friend was worse than any break up I've ever had, I really feel for you.
This was painful to watch, so sad :(
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I am an introverted person that hardly trusts people. Yet, I’ve been in a group of 3 people just that people won’t call me lonely or weird. It was our first day of school (I’m 17 btw). We had a new classmate. When she joined the class’ Whatsapp group, I started a convo with her ( although I wasn’t intending too). I felt so sucked up to the conversation. I saw a little bit of myself in her, yet in a more friendly and positive way. We kept chatting for about 2 months almost everyday, and feelings started to grow. There was that guy who talks to her as well, and apparently, he had feelings for her too. She asked me one day “would you feel bad if you rejected someone?”. I immediately knew she rejected the guy, I didn’t bothor asking for a reason. 3 days later, she told me that her parents would kill her if she ever dated someone, which kind of left me in a shock. We kept talking and talking, and we got closer and closer, and she started changing me to become more extroverted. I started making friends with more people. To your surprise, it apparently seemed like she got closer and closer to the guy that she rejected. They started walking together at school and talk a lot. I would be lying if I told you I didn’t feel jealous at that time. I decided to confess my feelings that day (I’ve told her i had a crush on someone else so she wouldn’t feel bothored because of her parents u know), she responded that she would date me if it wasnt for her parents and she always saw me as the better person. I accepted it and kept in touch with her. Weeks passed, and I noticed her ignoring me at school more than often. The truth is, i’ve come to realise that she was doing it all the time. She always avoided me in real life as if she preferred the “virtual” me. In addition, she would always tell me that I was the better person ( than the other guy) and she would always state that she gets in a problem with him everyday. However, she says so and the next day i see them walking as if nothing happened or as if she was lying to me. That’s my second heartbreak for you guys.
Finally, shit happened and she suddenly stopped talking to the other guy admitting she had feelings for him, and she cut him off cause it was growing serious. This made her talk to me more often and guess what? After 3 months, turns out she had feelings for me too. And we started secretly dating. Well, not really secretely. We were much like best friends with feelings. And guess what? She continued avoiding me more often at school. I kept asking her everyday if she was feeling forced into a relationship, although it wasn’t completely a relationship, i was mentally prepared for a split and for us to regain our selves, she kelt denying and denying, until one day, i went with the flow and stopped asking. Two weeks later, guess what? Lol she started avoiding me on whatsapp as well... i sent her a huge text about it asking her why and telling her how much i care... she replied stating that she doesnt trust me anymore.... that i was a mistake.... she didnt leave one word that wasnt hurtful.
In the end, it was my fault, maybe i didnt realise the strictness of her parents, yet all i wanted to do was to love and to care.
Here am I, back to my old self.
:’(
One of my biggest heartbreaks was when I was a kid I got removed from my parents with my two siblings and relocated in a foster family and then couple months later the foster family decided they wanted to only keep my younger two siblings so they separated me into another foster home by myself. I was 5 at the time so I remember most of it. Less than a year I lost a whole family and life and never could understand why. It took 20 years later before I ever saw either of them again. I swear I was the happiest kid when I was little, but was diagnosed with depression that same year at 5 years old and it never really has gone away 25 years later.
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