WASH AND GO KING Spills All! Exclusive Anthony Dickey Interview

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  • @dynomitenash8970
    @dynomitenash8970 10 місяців тому +295

    I've been team virgin hair since 1989. I've NEVER had anyone respond to my afro negatively and its fully gray now. First, because no one is allowed to speak to me in a disrespectful manner, especially if it has anything to do with who I am. Secondly, I'm quick to tell folks to mind their own business when it comes to me. I also have never lost a job because of my 'fro, twists, or even my wash 'n go fail.

    • @peacebalance8067
      @peacebalance8067 10 місяців тому +14

      Gonna be honest here. Team natural since 1981(birth year). My hair is so distinctive that when I walk into work, other black women make a whole entire loud show, telling me my hair is beautiful. And while thank you is an appropriate response while keeping it moving because I got a clock to punch, every. single. day. you see me doesn't warrant a loud, practically screaming aloud, 'look at your hair'. Like, I know. I washed and styled it myself. I groomed myself this morning. I knew what I looked like when I stepped out this morning. It's not new to me. Been established since 1981.
      It has gotten so bad, that I've had to pull people aside to tell them to stop. And explain that it's borderline sexual harassment. Men and women alike. I've been followed just cuz folks want to get a closer look. I've been stalked. Singled out. Ive been put in danger because others want to look, feel and see the personality attached to the hair. I've received insulting comments from black women and not knowing how to be taken by white women. Fights instigated. Lies told on me. Sabotage. You name it. It's just out right rudeness and rudeness over HAIR!! BLACK HAIR! MY HAIR!
      So, I'm not the sit down and take type. But I do analyze it and then have a conversation about it. When I teach people how to treat me, which gets exhausting, but is a never-ending activity, I let them know how their behavior is rude and I explain, while thanking you for the compliment, all honor, glory and praise belongs to God. Not me. I didn't work to acquire it. It's how I was born.
      Those types of conversations usually stops the weirdly positive, sometimes back-handed compliments. It directly holds a mirror up to the persons face and forces them to eat their own insecurities. Tasty!? No? I didn't think so. But that's what these people hurl out at me to chew on and expect me to be gracious that they gave me something.

    • @11kwright
      @11kwright 10 місяців тому +26

      When a black woman compliments your hair she is not doing it cos she don’t know that’s natural to you or you’ve been blessed enough to have knowledge to sport it. Get your damn attitude out of your ass and say thank you or empathise and let them know they to could have the same if they just knowledge up on their hair. Society is built to not educate black women what’s good for them they have to always fight a battle for it from having no products for a lifetime to having too many expensive empty claim product ripping them off. Now what, they have to deal with attitudes from black women that are lucky enough to have great parents that perhaps kept their hair growing in good condition and long from birth or just good hair in general!! I had great hair when was young but my mum didn’t have a clue and there was nothing on adverts let alone products for our hair. Only now have I got my hair back to long and natural after braids, weave, relaxers, texturise to now natural when we hit Covid period and I won’t be going back from natural and have learned to fall in love with it. Just empathise that they don’t possess the good knowledge and just say thank you. I can understand not wanting people to touch your hair especially if white cos it is insulting and they are coming from a negative ignorant place that they don’t see. And some will touch your hair without even asking. Guarantee if they had a nice hair do or in general they wouldn’t want everyone and anyone touching their hair as if they are an alien, I understand that. As for Ms Stupid saying she’s never lost a job because of her twist like it’s there fault if they did is only because she’s been lucky enough to be around human people and also how times have changed. Back in the days of 80s, 90s people were still monsters and if your hair was not acceptable to their company whether braids or not she would have been let go nicely or used as an excuse any little humanly error would have been blown out of proportion. So you and your attitude “I don’t mess” like you are some top Harvard lawyer or something, well “good for you!” A little more understanding and nicer attitude wouldn’t go a miss as cost nothing cos black people need to support each other especially as women and not look down on those struggling to still climb. As long as we get there is what matters and more black women are seeing the light.😊❤

    • @missrespectful
      @missrespectful 10 місяців тому

      @@11kwright100%! Only online is it ever a bad thing to compliment somebody’s hair 🙄 god forbid you ask for advice. They might write a think piece about you on UA-cam claiming it’s sexuaI harassment.
      Every other bIack woman I have spoken to irl has taken my compliments very well and has given me good advice without me even having to ask. We all had amazing, memorable conversations, and they always tell me about how they love learning new things about natural hair.
      Here these people are on the internet making us look like some self-centered, short-fused, crabs-in-a-bucket, mean girl individuals that can’t bare to receive a compliment even on a good day, all because they refuse to look inward and consider the idea that, maybe, their inability to receive compliments is *not* everyone else’s problem; that maybe they *shouldn’t* go online and start a campaign to deprive other women of compliments just because *they* feel a way about it. Whatever they were trying to do, I hope these dismissive anecdotes help them in their future.

    • @_AmikaC_
      @_AmikaC_ 10 місяців тому

      ​@@11kwrightYAAAAASSSSSSS!!!!!!! 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
      In so many cases black women are black women's worse enemy!! EVERYONE ELSE looks out for each other but black women will gatekeep the $hit outta any and everything just to have a one-up!
      It hurts my heart to read such callousness from the above commenter. We need to do better!!!

    • @_AmikaC_
      @_AmikaC_ 10 місяців тому +14

      Love. Compassion. And empathy. Costs you nothing. Each one, teach one. Pay it forward. 💜💜💜💜💜

  • @fitmom09
    @fitmom09 10 місяців тому +81

    He is the VERY reason I have been able to successfully do wash'n go's. I did them all winter long and my hair THRIVED!

    • @fitmom09
      @fitmom09 9 місяців тому +12

      In the winter I would use a diffuser to dry it

  • @denine685
    @denine685 10 місяців тому +147

    He is awesome! He gave me my first cut after I did my big chop back in 2013. He not only cuts to precision he educates you about your hair as he is doing it. He taught me everything I know about my wash and gos! ❤❤❤

    • @nicolegodspower17
      @nicolegodspower17 10 місяців тому +2

      Where is he located?

    • @denine685
      @denine685 10 місяців тому +4

      @@nicolegodspower17 It was back in 2013 but he was in NYC in Hells Kitchen neighborhood. I think the salon may still be there but look it first because I have since left New York and don't know for sure where he is now.

    • @CharitySL
      @CharitySL 10 місяців тому +3

      I had the same experience around the same time. His knowledge & the educating is a game changer.

    • @lisaharris2533
      @lisaharris2533 9 місяців тому +2

      He’s on 9th ave not too far from the Lincoln tunnel.

    • @originallykeena4039
      @originallykeena4039 20 годин тому

      So is he saying you have to do your washing go every single day?

  • @lesliewit
    @lesliewit 10 місяців тому +31

    He is not wrong about the leave-in. If you focus on moisture, your hair will do whatever you want it to. Prep your hair with moisture and then live your life, within reason.

  • @Zeeeeeeeex
    @Zeeeeeeeex 10 місяців тому +57

    12:20 that’s why I love me some Aussie moist ❤ he’s not lying consistent wash n gosh changed my hair texture to the point that I get into arguments when ppl say my hair is long because it’s looser. I have to show them pictures when my hair was clearly 4b-4c and they become speechless. I don’t use heat at all. It’s like my ringlets were jumping for joy at all the moisture.

    • @realmaureenoyakhilome
      @realmaureenoyakhilome 7 місяців тому +3

      I experienced this too. I thought I had damaged hair when I saw curls behind my head until I realised I had two patterns. I am now back on locs tho because I went natural on locs and tried loose hair , I find that locs are my thing but I love Anthony Dickey and recommend him all day and after 10 years , even on locs, I wash my hair often max 7 days.

  • @denisew.5490
    @denisew.5490 10 місяців тому +30

    This discussion was so informative and eye opening. We as Black women have been taughy not to wash our hair daily. I'll be making some changes.

  • @LaToyaEbonyHair
    @LaToyaEbonyHair  10 місяців тому +59

    Part two: ua-cam.com/video/WAw1iANuh_8/v-deo.html
    I hope you enjoyed this!! Everything is timestamped for your convenience ☺️ Who should I interview next?

    • @glencora6340
      @glencora6340 10 місяців тому +1

      You should do a collaboration with "Manes by Mel"!

    • @shelleyrice1
      @shelleyrice1 10 місяців тому +9

      Afrikan HairGod

    • @vvspoon2792
      @vvspoon2792 10 місяців тому +1

      Can’t wait for part 2! I’ve recently started my natural journey.

    • @jaemaur814
      @jaemaur814 10 місяців тому +7

      Black girl curls 😅.We need them to respond to all the allegations that curly cuts ruin hair. Although I doubt they will engage.

    • @sharonnaturally
      @sharonnaturally 10 місяців тому

      This was an excellent and informative video. Would love to see an interview with hair expert Diane DaCosta on cutting 4C hair.

  • @Nyahkimmy
    @Nyahkimmy 10 місяців тому +38

    When he said he would send you what you need for the wash and go and set you up, why did I get excited like he was talking to me personally?!?

  • @divingchicago
    @divingchicago 10 місяців тому +11

    Great timing. I am two yrs in and i am challenged.😅 It was time to go natural because i have been I HAVE BEEN RELAXING FOR 40 YEARS. I am training for a triathlon which is requiring me to swim 5 days a week. After 2 yrs my hair is finally growing and extremely thick just like when I was a kid.😊
    The more I swim daily and apply conditioner, my hair began to grow really well.

  • @JG_SmileSOBright
    @JG_SmileSOBright 10 місяців тому +121

    I've been natural all my 42yrs. I've been doing a daily wash & go over 20yrs. My hair is healthy, shiny, and beautiful! Women have been stopping me in the streets about my hair for years. The daily wash n go is my key to manageable natural hair. I don't use heavy products either, just a leave in conditioner. Drenching my hair in the shower everyday is literally part of my hygiene routine. I can't get into the shower and leave my hair dry. Even when my hair was down my back I did this. I completely agree w Mr Dickey.

    • @Neesha242
      @Neesha242 10 місяців тому +9

      Do you let it air dry or blow dry hair? Do you wash at night or morning? How often do you shampoo your hair? I just started wetting my hair every night and I put leave in conditioner and grease in my hair. That works for me and saves time. Sorry for all the questions

    • @JG_SmileSOBright
      @JG_SmileSOBright 10 місяців тому +56

      @@Neesha242 I'm happy to help! I do my wash n go in the AM & I ALWAYS air dry. I have med porosity, baby fine hair & use a leave in to style, so it dries pretty fast. If I used gels and heavy stylers, it would take all day. In the summer, I shampoo 2-3x per week bc I sweat in my head. When it's cold, 1x per week. My favorite leave ins are Pattern Beauty Palo Santo, Curls Blueberry Bliss, and Cantu Kids when it's cold out. Blueberry Bliss Hair Milk is nice too, but it can weigh my hair down. I use styling products on special occasions when I need hold, but my hair is so moisturized & trained, I get the definition of a gel w a leave in. I also prefer volume. Gel makes my hair flat and look like a Jherri curl. I like it to stand up & have an airy look. I will put grease or oil on top of my leave in when it's cold out, but I don't have to w Cantu Kids.
      I use V05 Extra Body Shampoo and Garnier Pure Clean to clarify. Sometimes I use V05 conditioners as leave ins. The Strawberry Moisture Milk is a fave!
      This natural hair thing is really simple, but we make it hard. As a kid/teen, I was a model for Luster products, so I understand how marketing works. I was in kiddie perm ads w natural hair! It's a scheme. There's all these products out here making sistas chase a goal, when it's really not the products you use, but the hair you have. All we need is water, conditioner, and an occasional oil.
      When ppl stop to ask me what I do to my hair and I tell them, they always say it's bc of my texture. But I don't think so. All our hair needs is moisture.
      I'm sorry to be long-winded but I'm passionate about this ❤️

    • @Neesha242
      @Neesha242 10 місяців тому +9

      @@JG_SmileSOBright Thank you. I’m going to try some of those products. I don’t think it’s because of your hair texture either. It’s cool how my hair texture is starting to change just from wetting it and putting leave in conditioner in my hair everyday. I use Cantù repair leave in conditioner and sometimes I’ll use a hair cream. I did use gels, but it creates a barrier on my hair when I want to refresh hair everyday and it causes build up and makes my hair look flat. My hair is to the point where it’s starting to curl with just leave in. I had no idea my hair could change textures or maybe I bought my texture out. I was told we shouldn’t wash or wet our hair everyday, but maybe we should. This is new to me and I’m so happy because my hair is black and shiny now. My hair still has some improving to do, but I’m happy with my progress.

    • @lisajackson3743
      @lisajackson3743 9 місяців тому +2

      @@JG_SmileSOBrightI agree. Do you find that it’s best not to touch your hair until it dries, or is that no longer an issue for you?

    • @JG_SmileSOBright
      @JG_SmileSOBright 9 місяців тому +5

      @@lisajackson3743 yes, don't touch it while it's wet. I use my hand to fluff it out after it dries.

  • @deefine1465
    @deefine1465 9 місяців тому +8

    My grandmother told me in the early 70s "The shrinkage is the truth" it shows the health of your hair and she would focus on our hair health based on wash&gos❤🙏

  • @chanelmm6116
    @chanelmm6116 10 місяців тому +12

    So needed this as I just did my second big chop and want my hair to be hydrated. I was stretching out the wash and gos and never thought about it being more frequent. I have to re-watch this!!!!

  • @doloreshicks8030
    @doloreshicks8030 8 місяців тому +2

    Baby girl I am soooo late to all of this. I have been natural for 3.5 years now and Nevahhh knew about this technique. I just got in from work @8am jumped in the shower performed this wash and go. Sat under the dryer and am now ready for a nap by 9:30!!!!! Whatttttt?!? When I tell you never will I ever go back to anything else!! No ma’am!!! Thank you ever so much for this jewel!!!

  • @alimc5382
    @alimc5382 10 місяців тому +10

    Speaking of cheap but good conditioners……i went straight back to Hollywood beauty and Queen Helena 3.99 20 oz jar the carrot or tea tree Deep conditioner…..my hair is thriving

  • @jillianboone-gonzales3859
    @jillianboone-gonzales3859 10 місяців тому +17

    YESSS DICKEY: “…400 years of reconditioning…” 👏👏👏👏. The minds and the hair for some🤨. I hate the word nappy. If someone refers to their own hair as nappy she just dry and needs a routine ….OKAY!

  • @LK-mg8pn
    @LK-mg8pn 10 місяців тому +21

    I'd love to see a part 2. When I began my natural hair journey Anthony was the first person that popped up on my internet feed, for some reason... and I thank God he did❣Water always "fixed" my hair, but when I told ppl who looked like me, they thought I was crazy and told me that water was going to take my hair out! Clearly, they were wrong, lol!!! Thanks so much for sharing❣

  • @deborahwolfe155
    @deborahwolfe155 9 місяців тому +2

    Mr Dickey, what an inspirational and excellent Educator. If he has not written a book he could certainly write a best seller.He is easy to understand and down to earth .Thank You Latoya 🎉😊

  • @tamikajennings4062
    @tamikajennings4062 8 місяців тому +2

    Your original video eh him doing a wash and go propelled me to where I am now, healthy hair!! Although I do a wash and go once a week, my hair has really grown. My goal is to at least do a wash and go twice a week! Thank you for your platform

  • @beautyofgrace3915
    @beautyofgrace3915 7 місяців тому +4

    Black women are bringing their old hair ideas to their natural hair journey, wow this is so true.

  • @idawilcox5275
    @idawilcox5275 9 місяців тому +3

    Love him - his personality was everything

  • @quinmcmullen9437
    @quinmcmullen9437 10 місяців тому +10

    Love this man and his methods! They all work ❤

  • @joyroane1212
    @joyroane1212 8 місяців тому +2

    Oh my goodness it is soooo good to see him❤️ Iyou know he is right… since I decided to go natural in 2017-after my beautician moved away- I found the more often I wet my hair & applied my conditioner then detangled … the prettier my curl pattern became - my curls are very different now since I have grey hair-but I am ready for this regime!!!!!

  • @TrinityWithTheRemedy
    @TrinityWithTheRemedy 5 місяців тому +2

    This information is changing my life ...SERIOUSLY. Thank you for this!!!!

  • @soloist72
    @soloist72 10 місяців тому +2

    I reverted back to team natural in 2012 and never looked back! I love my wash-n-go’s!! I use organic and water-soluble quality products and my hair loves it ❤. I can get 5-days out of my wash-n-go’s. I don’t use cheap products with the plastic and junk fillets that build up on my hair.

  • @hereforit2347
    @hereforit2347 10 місяців тому +16

    I was forced to embrace my natural hair in 1970 when I was in first grade. My mother chased my sister and me around the house with scissors and shears and forcibly cut off our ponytails and made us wear short Afros. Mind you, we lived in an all- white neighborhood and went to an all-white school.
    That trauma aside, besides occasional trims, my haircare was left entirely up to me. By 3rd grade, a family friend would sometimes give me cornrows. In 4th grade, I begged a friend’s mother to press my hair. I wore that press for about a month. 😂By 5th grade, I’d set aside a few dollars and bought a hot comb that, as I recall, cost about $5. I got some hair grease and taught myself to press my own hair and sometimes I pressed my sister’s too.
    I said all that to say I’ve been doing my own hair my whole life. When I grew up and was making my own money I started going to salons because I could, and, as a Black woman in the 80s, that’s what we did. By 25, I was really fed up with what I was getting at the salon and I was tired of adhering to a European, white beauty standard. I cut my hair off and wore it short *and natural* for the better part of a decade. It was great because I was a young single mother who worked full time. On top of that, I’d never felt sexier and more beautiful.
    Since starting my hair journey in 2016, I realize now how much I *didn’t* know about hair.
    But on the subject of wash-n-goes, technically, I was doing that decades ago. Now, because my hair is SO long, they’re impractical for me because the tangling is insane. I really never wear my hair down unless it’s straightened. 🥰

    • @stephanie2049
      @stephanie2049 10 місяців тому +3

      White girls and Latin girls (wash & go daily): none of them have bronchitis or phenomena 😂😂😂😂....can't stop laughing

    • @hereforit2347
      @hereforit2347 10 місяців тому +1

      @@stephanie2049: It’s true.

  • @ImCeeCeeHarris603
    @ImCeeCeeHarris603 10 місяців тому +8

    Girl where is part 2?!?! Imma need to see this! 😂😂

    • @LaToyaEbonyHair
      @LaToyaEbonyHair  10 місяців тому +3

      I got you!
      ua-cam.com/video/WAw1iANuh_8/v-deo.html

  • @curlycreolechick
    @curlycreolechick 10 місяців тому +9

    This was totally awesome! 👏 great advice and super dope!!

  • @gretchenbray2268
    @gretchenbray2268 10 місяців тому +11

    My water must be hard because my hair gets so dry when I wet it. Even adding conditioner.

    • @cfoster6804
      @cfoster6804 10 місяців тому +6

      Yeah no one ever addresses hard water.

  • @jasmineimanii1111
    @jasmineimanii1111 10 місяців тому +22

    Trying to get more than one day out of a wash and go felt like a personal attack 🤣🤣

  • @missfabidia
    @missfabidia 4 місяці тому +2

    Thank you, thank you, thank you ❤❤❤

  • @tmcurly
    @tmcurly 10 місяців тому +29

    We need you to talk to him about curly cuts…

    • @ossier2796
      @ossier2796 10 місяців тому +2

      He has a recent video on UA-cam about curly cuts

    • @Miss-zr1rv
      @Miss-zr1rv 10 місяців тому +1

      ​@@ossier2796thats why she said that. She knows but wants attention....

    • @nichie3897
      @nichie3897 10 місяців тому +5

      He did... he said it was a gimmick, half a haircut or like getting half your teeth cleaned 😂😂😂

  • @angies1391
    @angies1391 2 місяці тому +1

    Im so happy you got to him. I just watched your video from covid. And I was gonna dm you his notes..😅😅😅😅

  • @curlcompanyofgso4505
    @curlcompanyofgso4505 9 місяців тому +3

    I think this interview was vey informative and he seems very knowledgeable of textured hair. I have to disagree with a wash and go being a one day style. I have been wearing wash and gos for over 12 years and I have been educated my clients with all textures to wear and maintain a wash and go up to a week with great success. My team also teach professionals in all things curly hair. It does not have to be hard once you learn The Concept and techniques. I love hearing different prospectives and really enjoyed this interview.

    • @Lili-p1b5t
      @Lili-p1b5t 9 місяців тому

      How do you maintain it? Mind explaining ?

    • @realmaureenoyakhilome
      @realmaureenoyakhilome 7 місяців тому +1

      What he’s saying is the more you wet your hair, the easier it is to manage and relaxed it gets. I used to wear mine 5 days cos after 5 days it’s shrunken up but if I were in Africa with the sun, absolutely daily. I don’t think you should take anybody’s word as Bible but it’s very logical especially for first timers. Daily wash and gos will definitely go a long way.

  • @2B-Rochele
    @2B-Rochele 10 місяців тому +3

    Thank you for this oldie but goodie.

  • @adrienneroyster4483
    @adrienneroyster4483 10 місяців тому +19

    I love a wash and go. But because of my thick, coarse texture I can only do it once a week. After that, I spray it with water each morning and use a leave-in conditioner to soften it and define my coily strands. It’s a true 1960’s Afro but with mixed textures. So what I missed from this interview are four important facts. 1. Not all conditioners are created equally. Some are more drying than others. 2. There was no discussion of porosity. My low porosity hair does not absorb moisture. Heavy products sit on my hair or bead up. Water even beads up. 3. What about detangling daily? How can you comb through 4c hair after soaking it everyday and not go bald. With the shrinking and coiling and knotting, I would be bald detangling my hair every day. I have to be careful to choose products that are light, absorb easily, and hopefully soften my hair. Some mousses given me a sheen but only on wash day. After that, it’s dull the rest of the week. 4. What styling products is he referring to? I would love to follow this regime, but I need more information for my type hair. I definitely can’t spend an hour detangling everyday. So please follow up with more details. I already waste a ton of money on products that don’t work.

    • @dominiquedevereux7205
      @dominiquedevereux7205 9 місяців тому +6

      YES! You had the SAME questions ❓ I do! Even just washing my hair with conditioner alone & putting gel or whatever styling cream or mousse I decide to use --- WHO GOT TIME FOR THAT EVERYDAY?! As you mentioned, the DETANGLING ALONE would set me back an hour every night. Now if daily wash 'n' goes didn't require DAILY DETANGLING, I'd be more amenable to it. But once you add the detangling step up in there, it's NO BETTER than doing it once-a-week or every 2 weeks.
      Honestly, what I do throughout the 2 weeks between wash day is just re-wet --- with a hairspray I make myself by steeping an herbal 🌿 tea, adding a lil glycerine & essential oils (and preservatives, of course) --- my hair every other day & maybe every 3 days, after I rewet my hair, I adding a couple squirts of mousse, or cream, or gel while it's still wet, & either rub the product in with my fingers if I want a messy look thst doesn't look deliberate --- OR I take my silicone twisting sponge 🧽 & run that over my hair to refresh my curls. Sometimes before I use the sponge 🧽, I'll use a pick to detangle it so it's an Afro again if my hair has become too flat from shrinkage, then go over it with the sponge 🧽 so the curls are brand new & so I don't create knots on to of knots for my next wash day.
      And the thing he said about using any ol' conditioner. Even though that's cheaper in one regard, you cannot tell me ALL conditioners are created equal. Now, I agree they all are designed mainly just to give you slip & close the hair cuticle back up after the shampoo 🧴 suds have opened & lifted them, BUT we all SHOULD know that this country HAS BEEN POISONING ☠️ 👩🏾‍🦱👨🏿‍🦱 through the chemicals they put in our hair & skin products, out food 🥑🍎 --- EVERYTHING! So I am not putting some $2 32oz bottle of Pert Plus Conditioner 🧴 from the Dollar 💵 Tree 🌲 on my head when it's got silicones, parabens, phathalates & hormone disrupters from the artificial fragrances up in it! I'll take my ass over to TJ Maxx or Ross & see if they have some bottles of high-end salon brands on sale that don't have all that crap in it. "You gonna pay on the front end or the back end" as THEY say. So if you buy the cheap shit, you're hair & the rest of your body is gonna pay in the long run. The products with cleaner ingredients may cost more, buty health is worth it.
      But yeah, Chile 😑 . . . I respect his opinion given he's a professional stylist, but I can't agree with this regimen for my 4Z (that was not a typo) hair! I don't have the time ⌛, the energy, 💵, or hair to lose detangling my hair everyday from wetting it everyday. I'm really just trying to grow my hair back long enough so I'll have built in "hang time" so I can get locs again & don't have to deal with all of this. Loose natural is NOT for me ✋🏾🚫!!
      But doing the whole shower part everyday 😐?? N🚫 M'AM ✋🏾😤!!

    • @loloqueenbee6052
      @loloqueenbee6052 8 місяців тому +1

      HALLELUYAH...SAME 👑 's! 👏🏾 👏🏾

  • @majodie
    @majodie 9 місяців тому +2

    His product worked well for me when my hair was closer to my scalp. When it grew past 4 inches, it did not provide moisture at all.

  • @2HootHoot
    @2HootHoot 10 місяців тому +5

    I still wouldn't dare attempt another wash'n'go. My hair texture immediately locs up.

  • @barbarablackman3742
    @barbarablackman3742 10 місяців тому

    Now, I have watched you for years. You are the expert. Your hair looks fabulous.

  • @ArianaYelena
    @ArianaYelena 9 днів тому

    See from a young age I've always told my mom " I like to wash my hair everyday I think it's what my hair needs",but coming from a traditional southern black background you know she wasn't going for that especially in winter 😂. Now that I'm older I've grown locs for 10 years because I felt that was the only way I could see my length but have my texture 'sorta'. It's time do what my heart has been telling me all my life and comb these out and just do wash and go everyday it's what it's craving. Time for a diffuser 😅❤

  • @Tina-gt6tz
    @Tina-gt6tz 10 місяців тому +4

    Until this video, I have rarely thought about doing a wash n go. I have just believed that it is not for my hair. Now, I am very curious. I am interested in trying it for the experience and to see how this will work for me. I just need to wrap my mind around the daily washing, lol. I also am thinking of a time I don't need to leave my house for 3 -4 days, lol - because I really can't see myself doing this more than 3 days at a time. Thanks for sharing this interview with us and for the other videos where you give your honest opinions and thoughts of you wash and go experience using the A.D. method.

  • @candrathomas106
    @candrathomas106 10 місяців тому +3

    I think hear damage comes from the flat iron. We used stove irons for yearrrrrrzzzzz and always had a tight curly fro when my hair was washed.

  • @deerose0410
    @deerose0410 10 місяців тому +1

    Very informative. Idk why, but he is giving me Al Reynolds.

  • @faziletdrake8126
    @faziletdrake8126 10 місяців тому +3

    I'm new to your channel. And this interview was awesome n informative!!!
    Thank you 😊

  • @hybridinfodesk409
    @hybridinfodesk409 10 місяців тому

    I'm in Egypt, and I've learned a lot about my hair. There are a lot of women here with my type of hair. Their products are much better. No protein overload, and they don't use leave in conditioners. Keratin is what you will find if your hair needs protein and Hyalonic acid. Which balances your PH. It comes in shampoo and wash out conditioner as a set. Leave in conditioner they say coats the hair and dries it out. I tried no leaving, and my hair stays moist. Great video, though.

  • @FitBabe
    @FitBabe 10 місяців тому +3

    “Cleanse, condition, style, finish.” What products are considered to be for the finishing step since he said gels and custards are for styling?

  • @TanyaScorpio
    @TanyaScorpio 10 місяців тому +2

    21:45 I've always believed that . I do one pass with my flat iron on 365...and my hair is good.
    I had a hair dresser used to do multiple and I had to tell her stop your burning my hair out...

  • @coralrose6506
    @coralrose6506 9 місяців тому +2

    This was so good and informative

  • @sweetlyketoffee
    @sweetlyketoffee 10 місяців тому +3

    Interesting that he said to add oil before blow drying 🤔

  • @Whippersnapper57
    @Whippersnapper57 10 місяців тому +2

    Wow I stopped using rinse out conditioners and go straight to deep conditioners but lately I have been telling myself I think I need to start back using the rinse out conditioners before the deep conditioner and leave in

  • @joybanks4974
    @joybanks4974 10 місяців тому +4

    Love this!❤

  • @anettedesire8824
    @anettedesire8824 9 місяців тому +1

    Now this is content ❤

  • @Passion84GodAlways
    @Passion84GodAlways 10 місяців тому +3

    From the looks of this comment section I'M FINNA LEARN TUH-DAY!!! 😮😀😃💎💎👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @samanthamonroe3826
    @samanthamonroe3826 7 місяців тому +2

    i have a question- the AD wash and Go method requires you to wet your hair everyday in the shower. I have been doing research and they said doing this can cause hygral fatigue. Is this true ? How do we avoid this if we are wetting our hair everyday ?

    • @yishiy999
      @yishiy999 7 місяців тому

      I have the same question. That's what makes me unsure......

  • @mzsbrown2844
    @mzsbrown2844 10 місяців тому +3

    Where is the tutorial with Anthony Dickey. The one that is linked show only you without Anthony Dickey.

    • @LaToyaEbonyHair
      @LaToyaEbonyHair  10 місяців тому

      Whoops! Here you go! Get The PERFECT WASH N GO on TYPE 4 HAIR Every Time | Anthony Dickey Taught Me Himself
      ua-cam.com/video/WAw1iANuh_8/v-deo.html

  • @smart22cute
    @smart22cute 10 місяців тому +2

    Thank u so much, I'm going to just wash n go

  • @maryelena299
    @maryelena299 10 місяців тому +1

    awesome and very informative video... thank you so much!!! ❤

  • @vlaruth3442
    @vlaruth3442 9 місяців тому +2

    🖐🏾 Greetings to All.. Please remember the products were not meant for Coarser hair types in mind. Using a dime or quarter size were for people who didn't need as much for their hair types. Also "Wash-n-Go's didn't apply to "Black" Women either, in earlier times. At least not from the Commercials I saw! "Black women were forced to try and assimilate their hair to straightened, which was the "Accepted norm" specifically when it came to the work force. The discussion needs a little more honesty here. It wasn't 400 years of reconditioning, rather of being "Conditioned!".
    There is soft and hard water, alone with chemicals that affects the hair also. Don't forget Dark and Lovely for those who can go back to the audience the 70's, 80'' and then curly kit in 80's and maybe early 90's. Chemicals alone can change hair texture if used on a regular. So again, do some search and research on these chemicals. Much love to All.
    My intent is Not to disrespect anyone here, but to add a little more context. 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿😊💜🧘🏽

  • @rbenitez6140
    @rbenitez6140 10 місяців тому +1

    I like water for my hair!! It’s what am I supposed to do now? I don’t have a routine. I have been using clay and aloe Vera plus getting into oil, a lot of natural stuff because all those products costs a lot of money. What we used to do when I was young and not spending a lot of money was grease.

  • @tmcurly
    @tmcurly 10 місяців тому +3

    Wonderful !!! 😍😍😍

  • @adaokeke573
    @adaokeke573 7 місяців тому +1

    This sounds really great. Im just wondering about my hair wet in Alberta winter tho...

  • @marthaingram4621
    @marthaingram4621 Місяць тому +1

    Family 👑🙌🖤💙🤎💜 our hair is puffy big

  • @oleskoolislandgirl9335
    @oleskoolislandgirl9335 9 місяців тому +2

    IN THE 80'S WE WOULDNT WASH ALL THE CONDITIONER OUT TO HAVE THAT SOFTNESS AND A HEAD FULL OF IT EVERYDAY DURING SUMMER FOR SWIMMING BECUZ OF THE CLORINE

  • @kizziekente2468
    @kizziekente2468 9 місяців тому +2

    I snuck and got a perm at 15/16 and got my a$$ TOE OUT THE FRAME 🤣 my daddy believed if grease and water didn’t work you were NOT gonna have it lol

  • @leehackett8606
    @leehackett8606 Місяць тому

    How to treat a wash and go for frizzy soft hair.

  • @mariejames3670
    @mariejames3670 9 місяців тому +2

    Black hair is flexible

  • @alainetate9448
    @alainetate9448 3 місяці тому

    When i was washing my hair once a week, it loved it. i haven’t ever considered everyday tho! 🤔🤔 may do that once i take these braids out

  • @sabrinacambridge3327
    @sabrinacambridge3327 10 місяців тому +5

    Meanwhile braiders say no product and blowdry straight 😮

  • @ntombimadu8437
    @ntombimadu8437 8 місяців тому

    Can we have a video where his doing a wash n go so we can see

  • @oceanbreeze1897
    @oceanbreeze1897 10 місяців тому +2

    I'm not convinced.

  • @leejones815
    @leejones815 4 місяці тому

    My wash n go does find unto I get to the crown of my head. Nice bunching curls both sides and back ,the top is curl on the ends but, straight from root until the end. Help !!!!😢

  • @mightymouse151
    @mightymouse151 23 дні тому

    What is Anthonys you tube channel???

  • @yumyumkitty2104
    @yumyumkitty2104 10 місяців тому +1

    DAILY W&G's ????!!!! 😮😮😮😮

  • @lncreations742
    @lncreations742 10 місяців тому +1

    An OG

  • @Ms_Introvert_4_Life
    @Ms_Introvert_4_Life 10 місяців тому +1

    Has anyone ever just used a mousse only instead of the curling creams or gel?

    • @LaToyaEbonyHair
      @LaToyaEbonyHair  10 місяців тому

      Yes! It works!! My hair doesn’t feel as “hydrated” but it defines just fine.

    • @prettybrwneyez7757
      @prettybrwneyez7757 Місяць тому

      Yes I do and my hair is soft

  • @TracyKing-x2l
    @TracyKing-x2l 5 місяців тому

    Did he say wrt the hair everyday when you shower

  • @kamiking822
    @kamiking822 9 місяців тому

    My shit is good!!! I'm still good!!! So me!!!! Love it!!!

  • @AB2008.
    @AB2008. 9 місяців тому

    Latoya, have you removed the vid where Anthony did your hair? Please share that again...pls.

  • @rockinrobin4681
    @rockinrobin4681 10 місяців тому +2

    Good info. I will be trying this. Can you have him back on to speak about maintenance for relaxed hair?
    BM demean and degrade BW’s 4C hair more than anyone. It starts in school with the black boys calling black girls nappy headed. BW internalized this and began to imitate straighter hair texture to appease these males. Then BW started relaxing their hair which resulted in dryness and breakage from a lack of maintenance. BM then started calling BW bald headed. Now BW are wearing lace fronts which are resulting in thin and or bald edges. BM are now ridiculing BW for that. BW style and wear you hair in a way that appeases you not others.

  • @AugustaWilliamsJr
    @AugustaWilliamsJr 10 місяців тому

    So true

  • @sdw86
    @sdw86 10 місяців тому

    Truth Ruth 😂

  • @memim6621
    @memim6621 2 місяці тому

    It's not practical for most people to redo a WnG every day! Who's got the time for that?

  • @cpagewinchester
    @cpagewinchester 10 місяців тому

    Part 2 ??

  • @ladyjones09
    @ladyjones09 Місяць тому

    I love my natural hair now 🤍 I did a big chop and chopped the negative perspective. This information is so helpful!!!
    I do it because I want to, not because I have to… switch it up girl. I love that! 🤍

  • @killahkurlz7157
    @killahkurlz7157 9 місяців тому

    …..I’ve been doing wash and goes wrong

    • @LaToyaEbonyHair
      @LaToyaEbonyHair  9 місяців тому +1

      You’ve been doing wash and go’s differently. There are many techniques! You just have to find the one the gives you the results you want. ❤️

  • @marybraswell1553
    @marybraswell1553 10 місяців тому +8

    No matter how eccentric someone is, it’s important to have common sense. You need to thoroughly cleanse your hair. Co washes do not thoroughly cleanse your hair. Sometimes the softness you think you’re feeling is buildup of product. It will backfire on you eventually.

    • @patrecem.9523
      @patrecem.9523 10 місяців тому +4

      Maybe you missed it but he recommends cleansing conditioners every day. They have same cleaning properties as shampoo without the suds, so you would be cleansing your hair every day or when ever you wash.

    • @lynnellscott9079
      @lynnellscott9079 10 місяців тому +2

      He does say to shampoo; not in this video, but, his line has shampoo. It's mentioned in is earlier videos.

    • @sable7114
      @sable7114 10 місяців тому +5

      @@lynnellscott9079 he also said in this video that you could shampoo once a week. The daily wetting it is just that and not intended to cleanse but I'm certain it probably does somewhat without stripping the hair

    • @lynnellscott9079
      @lynnellscott9079 10 місяців тому +1

      @@sable7114 Agreed; his products are water soluble, but the ‘cheap’ conditioners he mentioned I think have ‘cones’ in them though soluble. Still very useful video.

    • @cfoster6804
      @cfoster6804 10 місяців тому

      Say it again! Been there done that. He's just talking about cowashing. We were doing that back in the day on the hair forums. A lot of women stopped and don't do it today because of the build up. And yes you still get it with silicone free ones. He's talking about using castor oil and heavy cheap silicone laiden conditioners daily then once a week go in with a no suds shampoo to remove ALL of that heavy product. No sir! I speak from experience. There's a reason cowashing isn't as hype as it used to be.

  • @YOUR-WORD-IS-YOUR-BOND
    @YOUR-WORD-IS-YOUR-BOND 9 місяців тому

    I don't converse with them about my hair... All of our hair isn't type 4C...

  • @youtubepadre
    @youtubepadre 9 місяців тому +65

    Anthony is even more affable and honest in person and going to see him twice completely changed my relationship with my hair.

    • @aja1108
      @aja1108 9 місяців тому +2

      Same!

  • @michelleelegance1601
    @michelleelegance1601 10 місяців тому +62

    He is so awesome. He doesn’t know me but I learned how to do my hair by hearing an old interview he did. I then bought products from him. His information he gives is such a gem!

  • @natasha2877
    @natasha2877 10 місяців тому +39

    My 4a hair loves a wash & go. Been a big fan of Anthony for years his method is life changing. I use Aussie moisturiser conditioner leaves curls popping for days. Great video.

  • @Enchanting_rican
    @Enchanting_rican 8 місяців тому +39

    I notice that as a Latina with curly hair when it was a special occasion we had it straightened… but I feel it subconsciously provided the message that natural hair is not special. I think it’s important to embrace it …. Type 3b repping the Ricans

    • @c4tac133
      @c4tac133 4 місяці тому +2

      @@solovantravelWhy the hostility? This is a really good message

    • @Wealthy_Iam
      @Wealthy_Iam 4 місяці тому +6

      ​@@c4tac133his delivery is a bit snarky and rude but truth is the message has nothing to do with her community's hair. The content is directed to black women of 4 type hair.

    • @VlogginTherapy
      @VlogginTherapy 3 місяці тому +3

      @@Wealthy_Iam black women have hair ranging from 3a to 4c stop this nonsense, my hair is literally a combination of 4a-4c my sister is 3c -4a, We can all learn.

    • @Wealthy_Iam
      @Wealthy_Iam 3 місяці тому

      @@VlogginTherapy the description box says type 4 hair not 3 or combination. There is 100% chance your precious sister with combination hair does not relate to the struggles of fully type 4 hair people that is being discussed here. Don't come for me and gnaw on my comment like I said anything wrong. The topic at hand is 4 type hair not combination hair. If anyone needs to stop the nonsense is YOU! Now GO AWAY you irritant.

    • @cheriagata6408
      @cheriagata6408 2 місяці тому +3

      @@solovantravelembarrassing comment!

  • @raregem8886
    @raregem8886 9 місяців тому +25

    When I went natural the first time, after relaxing for years. It was before the natural community was so huge. I didn't know what to do with my hair. I did W&G styles all day everyday! My hair would always be reset daily! My hair was not fragile and it did not fall out. In fact, it grew super fast! Maybe it was because I was still in my 20's at the time, but in about two years, I went from about 1 to 2 inches of hair to hair that was butt length when stretched. My hair was in such good condition, I didn't really need a trim! Unfortunately, I relaxed it and lost some of my length retention. But, I went natural again a few years later and stayed natural. I most admit that this time around, I haven't been doing my W&G style as much. I do not wash my hair everyday. My hair is still long, but I noticed that it did not grow half as fast as it did when I did wash it everyday! So, Anthony Dickey may be truly on to something! I might consider rethinking the way I do my hair!

  • @luvinlife225
    @luvinlife225 10 місяців тому +35

    I can listen to him talk about hair all day. Great video.

  • @brittneer8940
    @brittneer8940 10 місяців тому +45

    I did his method for a summer and my hair was soooo hydrated and moisturized. I’ve now gone over to locs. Lol but I still use his blow out method for my daughter before I do her protective styles. Her hair is sooo long because of it.

    • @pamelaforts5210
      @pamelaforts5210 10 місяців тому

      I don't put heat in my hair, but I kinda want to try the blow out method.

    • @taylormoyer1548
      @taylormoyer1548 10 місяців тому +2

      what’s the blowout method?

    • @pamelaforts5210
      @pamelaforts5210 10 місяців тому +7

      @taylormoyer1548 He said to put a lot of conditioner on hair, before blowing drying it.

    • @brittneer8940
      @brittneer8940 10 місяців тому

      yes! what pamela said. He mentions it in this video as well. out your favorite conditioner/cream and oil (hefty amount) in your hair then blow it out. This preps the hair for a protective style. I love the As I am double butter and light oil. been doing this for years, hope this helps @@taylormoyer1548

  • @ossier2796
    @ossier2796 10 місяців тому +30

    I’m ‘73 so I was in that movement of wearing an Afro in the 60’s.

  • @bettiboo2
    @bettiboo2 10 місяців тому +32

    Thank You so much for this! Anthony is so knowledgeable & gets right to the point! Your twists are so cute, too! I love how neat they look! If you decide to do a mini tutorial on that style, I won’t be mad! 😊

    • @LaToyaEbonyHair
      @LaToyaEbonyHair  10 місяців тому +5

      Thank you!! He’s a gem. And yes, there’s a tutorial coming ❤️

  • @gabrieladu352
    @gabrieladu352 10 місяців тому +15

    Your conditioner is your relaxer 💡

  • @Gairuntee
    @Gairuntee 9 місяців тому +13

    I love my shrunk hair. It's the only time it looks thick and full since my hair has always been naturally thin.

  • @acasey1612
    @acasey1612 10 місяців тому +18

    "Those are the laws of Newton, I didn't say that". Dead.. I just came here to report, that I'd used Hair Rules products back in 2016, gone through many many hair styles, cuts, chops, and braids for several years since then and in Sept 2023 I started with Hair rules again as I remembered the love of my curls with Dicky's method before. Years later and it's all still the same glory glory glorious curls. And he is so right how it changes your hair. It's giving that Tina Turner blonde layered "simply the best" album cover look for me! Me and my curls we WERK! Thanks for posting this video LaToya, now I know I can also just go buy the cheap conditioner as well....

  • @mingtoiisaac4623
    @mingtoiisaac4623 10 місяців тому +16

    Enjoyed this video. Learned how to proper use conditioners and products to use for protective styles. . I remember his comment that your hair should be in better condition at the end your protective style than before the protective style ( 🤯).

  • @scorpiocara6798
    @scorpiocara6798 10 місяців тому +23

    Your tresses are absolutely gorgeous!!!!!