Evangelizing a Post-Abortive Catholic Who Denies Her Sin

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  • @randymarsh3582
    @randymarsh3582 Рік тому +1023

    My sperm donor “father” was abusive to my mom. 36 years later I have never met the man. Thanks mom! Thank you for not killing me!

  • @michaelanderson9914
    @michaelanderson9914 Рік тому +722

    She did everything in her power to not get pregnant...except to literally not do the act that will get you pregnant.

    • @twinklingeyes58
      @twinklingeyes58 Рік тому +38

      Bingo!

    • @adriana12995
      @adriana12995 Рік тому

      People with that kind of rhetoric see se X as a right, a necessity that can’t be avoided. They are slaves to their lust and can’t fathom the concept of abstinence. They are very lost.

    • @And1one757
      @And1one757 Рік тому +23

      Plus she lied talking about she used a condom, and birth control and still gets pregnant

    • @AntagonistVisionII
      @AntagonistVisionII Рік тому +1

      ​@@And1one757The guy perforated the condom.

    • @Alex.grismore
      @Alex.grismore Рік тому +67

      Abstinence is the best form of birth control

  • @whiteheat916
    @whiteheat916 Рік тому +1022

    As soon as she said “my truth”, it was obvious that she is not a Christian. Praying for her.

    • @technopirate304
      @technopirate304 Рік тому +52

      For some reason they think we all have a right to our own truth. That is such an utter crock.
      Supporting such a mindset means that there is no objective truth.

    • @bettergetdave
      @bettergetdave Рік тому +28

      For me it was when she shared she was Catholic.

    • @bradicas5359
      @bradicas5359 Рік тому +58

      @@bettergetdave you wouldn’t even have a Bible without Catholics. Your lack of history is showing let me guess. True Christianity started 500 years ago with Luther.

    • @bettergetdave
      @bettergetdave Рік тому +29

      @@bradicas5359 I don't wish to attack you personally. Arguments about history and the church can go on and on. I left the Catholic church after 16 yrs for one reason: It's teaching is seperate and in many cases in opposition to the Word of God. You don't need a protestant Bible to see this. Merely reading your Catholic Bible like i did will reveal the truth.

    • @bradicas5359
      @bradicas5359 Рік тому +30

      @@bettergetdave it’s literally the same book. Except protesters removed books. Where in the catechism or magisterium is there anti-Christian rhetoric being taught? Please be specific.

  • @S.Waters.
    @S.Waters. Рік тому +560

    I aborted my first baby for the exact same reason this young woman gave, in addition to being pressured by my mother and older sisters. I knew what I was doing was wrong, and I’ve regretted it ever since. I’ve repented and asked Christ for forgiveness. I’ve been forgiven and blessed with 5 more children. I pray this woman comes to truly know Christ and the Salvation He offers through repentance.

    • @dantheman909
      @dantheman909 Рік тому +33

      God can and does forgive everyone who repents. So glad you found his forgiveness and moved into a life of righteousness.

    • @ash.leeann8166
      @ash.leeann8166 Рік тому +13

      Praise God! What a beautiful testimony ❤️❤️❤️

    • @SuitAndTieGuy88
      @SuitAndTieGuy88 Рік тому +13

      I’m so sorry for your loss god bless you and your children, all 6 of them.

    • @branzfactor81
      @branzfactor81 Рік тому +9

      When you’ve been forgiven, it’s it bad that you can’t forgive yourself? I know I’ve been forgiven, I just can’t forgive myself for certain things.

    • @anichols5845
      @anichols5845 Рік тому +8

      @@branzfactor81 it’s not who you are, it’s who you are in Christ. That is where your worth comes from. we are all sinners saved by grace.

  • @stevesalazar7857
    @stevesalazar7857 Рік тому +258

    "I did everything in my power to prevent getting pregnant "
    actually you had sex willingly with an abusive man so you didn't do everything in your power to prevent getting pregnant.
    0 accountability here.

    • @leadfootlee4332
      @leadfootlee4332 Рік тому +19

      I came here to make this same comment...this is why it's important for young women the know a man and be married before you have a kid

    • @brianongod899
      @brianongod899 Рік тому +20

      Women's kryptonite is accountability. She murdered her baby clear and cut. No excuses just evil.

    • @KingStr0ng
      @KingStr0ng Рік тому +12

      Exactly. It's It's frustrating to see women fail to take accountability for their own decisions. No-one made you take his seed.

    • @ajb.822
      @ajb.822 11 місяців тому

      ​@@brianongod899I think there is slight - bear with me - reason, justification in a sense, for that, in a way. In that, women are more easily deceived, God himself says From the different way our brains are wired ( spaghetti vrs. waffle) to our femininity, vulnerability. We're not dumb, and plenty of us are very logical and very practical. But DO get more easily, readily, confused by too many details, variety of incl. conflicting thoughts, emotions, and more easily overwhelmed by stress, and pushed or manipulated by an assertive man. I'm NOT, NOT excusing choosing to sin. Like Eve, if you had any knowledge of something being wrong/a sin, &/or ought to, if you haven't been hardening your heart or conscience against conviction your whole life, feel the natural inhibition against commiting extreme, overt sins against even our natural, creaturely instincts ( which, for women and girls, for most of our personalities, would include getting naked and letting a man ( well, anyone !) touch us, when we're still virgins and, esp., under 17.. . In other words, on that latter point, we do set ourselves up for further blindness and sin when we go down a path of overcoming inhibitions that are there for a reason and ought to be kept up until such a time and situation as it's truly the time to let them go, ie the wedding night for ex . And society and parents do take a lot of the blame here, and men as a group to, for all of whom ever encourage - even by teasing, joking and etc. - women to ever be more like men ( we can't safely do that, we need instead to be wiser, more godly, more ladylike, more mature WOMEN), to be sexy, to be cool, to tolerate all kinds of jokes and so on, and anything else that should be on this list. Again, womenkind is not off the hook, we are as a group and as individuals 100% responsible for what WE do, with what knowledge and ability, or nudges from God, relationship with Him, WE have. But so are parents. So are men. And usually, we ALL and EACH could be doing better, and helping each other, better.

    • @matthewstanger1423
      @matthewstanger1423 8 місяців тому +2

      Only if we held marriage in a higher relationship than we do.

  • @swornereborne2756
    @swornereborne2756 Рік тому +244

    “I’m protecting an innocent like.. yes I did kill that kid” 11:30 freaking terrifying the degree of blindness to commit pure evil and so openly call it virtue

    • @static-tf2ji
      @static-tf2ji Рік тому +22

      You left out the best part. Immediately after saying what you quoted, she says that she didn't do anything wrong. I'm stunned. It actually is what sent me to the comments, looking for a post like yours. It's unbelievable that her statements could be in the same paragraph, let alone consecutive like that.

    • @grey.7828
      @grey.7828 Рік тому

      Women are evil. It goes all they way back to the garden

    • @brianongod899
      @brianongod899 Рік тому +1

      She's vile.

    • @thomasperry9147
      @thomasperry9147 9 місяців тому +1

      @@static-tf2ji sounds like something someone in prison for murder would say

    • @GhostScout42
      @GhostScout42 4 місяці тому

      brainwashed and propagandized, she needs to go to re education camp

  • @kabooomshark
    @kabooomshark Рік тому +671

    She's not being honest. She wasn't trying to "save" the baby from the ex, she simply didn't want the ex in her life anymore, and that included the baby he helped create.

    • @gigiis526
      @gigiis526 Рік тому +31

      Only God can judge the intent of the heart. It may be inconceivable her explanation but that doesnt mean she is lying. That only means satan lied to her and she believed him just as Eve believed the serpent in the garden. People do weird awful things especially in these days with the moral relativism. Dont put yourself in a place where you are bearing false witness and sinning yourself.

    • @briendoyle4680
      @briendoyle4680 Рік тому +9

      @@gigiis526 hahahaha...

    • @stephm5877
      @stephm5877 Рік тому

      You're one of the reasons abortion exists. Maybe listen to abuse victims and help them rather than call them liars? Casting women aside is what got us here in the first place.

    • @umahlekisa
      @umahlekisa Рік тому

      The American culture of punishing men.

    • @michaelanderson9914
      @michaelanderson9914 Рік тому +19

      Who is worse, the man that abuses his woman or the woman who murders her child.

  • @LauraBeeDannon
    @LauraBeeDannon Рік тому +487

    If she is truly Catholic and doesn't think she needs forgiveness then I question how she identifies as Catholic.
    I am a catechist through our Catholic church. It appears she was taught nothing by her own parents.

    • @mattt5006
      @mattt5006 Рік тому

      Telll the pope who endorses Biden and the democrats. Through plantation parenthood they kill 800 babies a day.

    • @mikesarno7973
      @mikesarno7973 Рік тому +76

      She claims to not be a sinner and to be able to forgive herself. I'm not sure where she learned all of this but it wasn't through the magisterium.

    • @SWNelson7
      @SWNelson7 Рік тому +20

      100%

    • @jonathanlowery8761
      @jonathanlowery8761 Рік тому +24

      she seems like the type that was probably taught, just chose not to listen.

    • @Jackjohnjay
      @Jackjohnjay Рік тому +38

      She uses a lot of common pop psychology ideas you see on social media. The church’s influence has lessened and culture’s has grown in her mind and heart. It is hard to counter the secular onslaught.

  • @davidmyhra4931
    @davidmyhra4931 Рік тому +51

    If she had an abortion and is unapologetic, she’s not catholic, she’s excommunicated herself.

    • @GhostScout42
      @GhostScout42 4 місяці тому

      all of us are unredeemable. paul hunted jews.

    • @JefferyBogue
      @JefferyBogue 18 днів тому

      No she can't just go to confession .father I killed another baby
      That's fine my daughter just say your hail marys .
      That's why the catholic church is fake

  • @rhvibes2459
    @rhvibes2459 Рік тому +122

    She’s in a pretty advanced level of denial. Calling her baby innocent and talking about how she killed him in pretty much the same sentence (and finding nothing wrong with that) is crazy. Her story of abuse and her excuse of having to do it to get away from a man also was inconsistent and made no logic. Overall she’s just trying very hard to justify what she did, which she knows deep down was extremely selfish and terrible. And those feelings will never disappear until she accepts it.

    • @leirawhitehart1236
      @leirawhitehart1236 Рік тому +9

      I've noticed something in people with severe trauma, is that oftentimes, when talking about the subject of their trauma, they'll stop making sense in order to justify themselves and whatever they were thinking in that situation, or alternatively, it's like they have an exposed nerve relating to that subject, which causes people to lash out in pain, even if it's only gently brushed upon, which is why some people tend to have vitriolic reactions towards this man about this topic.
      I'm glad at least she wasn't like one of those people, but I do think her trauma is preventing herself from truly realizing what she's done in order to protect her mind, because if she truly did understand the gravity of what she did, it could shatter her mind.
      I'm not going to make excuses for her, as everyone who's been through trauma needs to learn how to process it properly, lest it take them over, but I think when you look at it in that context, it makes sense why she's so confusing in her language and contradicts herself throughout the conversation.
      She truly is someone who needs prayer, and I pray to God that he helps her through this trauma and makes her realize what she's done while letting her know that she can be forgiven. 🙏

    • @anulkaaw
      @anulkaaw Рік тому +3

      Either denial or maybe she has a personality disorder.

    • @slyzwkowzkiklobarlov1867
      @slyzwkowzkiklobarlov1867 Рік тому

      An early fetus is as innocent as a rock is innocent

    • @PeaceIsYeshua
      @PeaceIsYeshua Рік тому +1

      @@rhvibes,
      No logic? I actually see a lot of logic in not wanting a child with an evil man, as yes, that can definitely keep you tied to that person. I disagree with what she did, but I understand her reason-again, I still don’t agree with choosing an abortion though.

    • @smokyquartz5817
      @smokyquartz5817 Рік тому

      Lmao thank you for the psychology Ted talk. Get back to the fry machine.

  • @ChickadeePlays
    @ChickadeePlays Рік тому +375

    This is heartbreaking, she is so blinded and pushing blame everywhere but where it belongs.

    • @mike971000
      @mike971000 Рік тому +12

      No she's not blinded she's lying about literally everything. For example she said she has to walk in the room that her baby was aborted onto the floor in every day but then she said she had to go out of state to get an abortion. And she accidentally admitted that she killed the kid just to antagonize her ex that she didn't like because he said that child is one thing she can't take away from him. And if she can admit that her ex said things like "one thing you can't take from me" she is probably taking a lot of things from him.

    • @alexandraonai8187
      @alexandraonai8187 Рік тому +2

      ​@mike971000 it's really sad to look at the slice of her self she presents and to think. Wow, you might not have been the nicest or easiest person to be in a relationship with...

    • @infotechsailor
      @infotechsailor Рік тому +4

      She's full of shhhh. Her baby daddy wasn't abusive. He wanted the child protected and she killed it

    • @bunny_0288
      @bunny_0288 Рік тому +1

      @@mike971000 She had to go out of state to get the pill. She took the pill and her baby then died once she got home. The pill caused her body to expel the baby from her womb.

    • @anacorreia8058
      @anacorreia8058 Рік тому

      @@mike971000yeah she seems evil and satanic tbh, she’ll be burning where she belongs and I know that sounds bad but simply put some people are evil and don’t deserve heaven

  • @amalu8838
    @amalu8838 Рік тому +193

    I was in her exact situation. I gave my baby girl up for adoption and went to a domestic violence shelter with my other 4 children. He was my boyfriend while my husband and I were separated. I made horrible choices. I sinned against everyone in my life. But that would have been the ultimate sin to kill innocent child. She is 16 now. I can't wait to meet her. Hopefully she will forgive me .

    • @SWNelson7
      @SWNelson7 Рік тому +26

      That was beautiful. Thank you for sharing. And for giving your baby the chance at life! Way to go, Mama❤❤❤

    • @jrose3394
      @jrose3394 Рік тому +22

      My mom was adopted in 1966. A month ago I found her mother. We are meeting her 2 sisters via video chat today. Her birth mother is still alive but dealing with some health issues so she doesn't know yet but hopefully soon! My mom is so blessed her mother chose life for her and has never held that against her. Praying for you and your daughter!

    • @galatians-2.20
      @galatians-2.20 Рік тому +9

      ​@@jrose3394 nice!! Hope the family reunion is a blessing for you all! God can mend all things including broken hearts and relationships

    • @amalu8838
      @amalu8838 Рік тому +4

      @@jrose3394 thank you. God Bless you and your family

    • @octaviovazquez5397
      @octaviovazquez5397 Рік тому +7

      I hope all goes well for you ma’am, I hope your family prospers

  • @acd8232
    @acd8232 Рік тому +92

    I have been in her shoes. At 19 I became pregnant. I gave birth to a beautiful girl. I did not "choose life" for her as I don't have the right to choose who lives and who dies. I stayed with the father. He did not work or help. I was basically a single mom. As the years progressed he became very mentally abusive and controlling. Even came at me in the shower with a butcher knife threatening to kill me. My daughter gave me the strength to get away from him. He is not in my life or hers. Today I have a wonderful husband and she is 19. I am tired of woman believing they are so week that they feel they cannot protect their life and their child's life. You are stronger than what society tells you. I have always shared with her the value of human life and that if she became pregnant in a less desirable situation, I would always be there for her and her child in anyway needed. It hurts me to see young woman who feel they are all alone in these situations. You are not alone. There is help. If not in your own family, there are numerous crises pregnancy centers that will help you.

    • @JanieBee
      @JanieBee Рік тому +11

      Have a wonderful story. Praise the LORD

    • @sheeniebeanie2597
      @sheeniebeanie2597 Рік тому +4

      What a phenomenal testimony. God bless.

  • @elizabethseoigestevens7900
    @elizabethseoigestevens7900 Рік тому +45

    I'm Catholic and all I can say is that I am praying for her.

    • @JohnjOcampo
      @JohnjOcampo Рік тому +2

      Catholicism is not the path to Christ.

    • @whaterfoo
      @whaterfoo Рік тому

      ​@@JohnjOcamposaying this is a spit in God's face as the Catholic church is the church Christ setup.

    • @den8863
      @den8863 10 місяців тому +7

      @@JohnjOcampoIt is the fullness of the truth and the best path to Christ.

    • @JohnjOcampo
      @JohnjOcampo 10 місяців тому +1

      @@den8863 you have been decieved.

    • @den8863
      @den8863 10 місяців тому +6

      @@JohnjOcampo Perhaps it is you who is deceived.

  • @ashtonsquires3102
    @ashtonsquires3102 5 місяців тому +5

    "The child was innocent and I killed it, I acknowledge that, but I don't think it was wrong". Wow. That's so incredibly hard to digest.

  • @GatorGuy1776
    @GatorGuy1776 Рік тому +100

    This guy is great at navigating such a delicate and consequential issue while not conceding his beliefs. He speaks in good faith and out of love. I need to practice from his playbook more.

    • @static-tf2ji
      @static-tf2ji Рік тому +7

      You're totally right. He is the perfect balance of being very blunt while staying respectful and articulate.

    • @michaelbrunsdon8938
      @michaelbrunsdon8938 Рік тому +5

      Yes he knows how to talk to people. They can be angry or hysterical but he remains super calm.

    • @laurit9510
      @laurit9510 Рік тому +6

      Because he was able to talk to her in this way, I believe he has planted a seed in her heart that she will come to realize her sin and confess it. Prayers for her and for this Gentleman in his work to save the innocent

  • @Nikolai393
    @Nikolai393 Рік тому +81

    Outside of my church, I have ran into more people who are more culturally Christian than spiritually Christian. It's not surprising that she doesn't see what she did as sinful because most "Christians" today don't see anything they do as sinful.
    I pray for her and all those like her that God gives them revelation and they truly give all of their body and soul to Christ.

    • @technopirate304
      @technopirate304 Рік тому +4

      So very true. It saddens me that many Christian’s don’t understand that there is a right and wrong. But even more so we are supposed to clearly call out evil.

    • @sarahs.9678
      @sarahs.9678 Рік тому +4

      Very true. Faith is so watered down in affluent society. Jesus said it is virtually impossible for a rich person to enter the kingdom of heaven and our society is so rich we invent new faiths, new doctrines, new habits of sin and new identities to live by just for thrills. And it is all a facade over the spiritual reality that undergirds everything.

    • @JohnjOcampo
      @JohnjOcampo Рік тому +1

      Facts!

  • @diegovcuenca
    @diegovcuenca Рік тому +179

    I’ve never been able to understand how abortion is considered both “healthcare” and “the toughest decision they’ve made”. If it’s a simple medical procedure, like clipping your nails, it cannot also be the toughest decision they’ve made.

    • @RS54321
      @RS54321 Рік тому +20

      I agree. I also hate how they use the terminology 'safe abortion' - it certainly wasn't safe for the unborn child.

    • @jtremaine23
      @jtremaine23 Рік тому +19

      Exactly...people will say "it" is a clump of cells and turn around and say they are having a "baby" shower. Which one is it? If it's just a clump of cells (which, the truth is, we all are), why is it such a tough decision? It doesn't make sense.

    • @RS54321
      @RS54321 Рік тому +14

      @@jtremaine23 It all seems to depend on feelings, not reality. I've heard so many insane justifications, and none of them warrant killing the unborn.

    • @jvalencia6876
      @jvalencia6876 Рік тому +3

      so true, I had my left ovary surgically removed a year ago. It made me sad, but it was a very easy decision.

    • @KingStr0ng
      @KingStr0ng Рік тому +3

      The answer is that God's law is written on our hearts. (Romans 2:15)
      That is why it is such a tough decision.

  • @brownie5480
    @brownie5480 Рік тому +23

    "I don't need to be forgiven, but that doesn't question my faith, that doesn't question my religion." We all need to pray for her.

    • @anulkaaw
      @anulkaaw Рік тому +2

      How ironic that it comes from a Catholic who should be practicing regular otic confession...

    • @cwstewartjr1973
      @cwstewartjr1973 4 місяці тому

      Her boyfriend doesn't need to be forgiven as well I guess

  • @YoKinah
    @YoKinah Рік тому +13

    She was so respectful and honest. That was really refreshing to watch. Obviously inconsistent in her line of logic because she’s probably really influenced by society who affirm her sinful deed. I pray that she sees her sin, sees how holy and good God is and that she sees her need for a savior, a forgiver, a redeemer in Jesus Christ ❤

  • @banemaler
    @banemaler Рік тому +110

    It's amazing the hurdles we go through to justify our sin and we have a redeemer who can wash us clean, never leave us or forsake us, and will provide all we need. Trusting in ourselves is hell and leads to death. I hope this woman gets the mercy she is retreating from. It's horrifying to think what she has already done and that she did that.

  • @booklover1510
    @booklover1510 Рік тому +144

    I would die for my children. I can’t believe she doesn’t feel wrong for murdering her own baby.

    • @JanieBee
      @JanieBee Рік тому +28

      She does, but cognitive dissonance won’t allow her to admit it. She will one day, hopefully before her judgement. But oftentimes we as humans are inherently going to try and see the positive in everything we do. It takes much wisdom, self awareness and humility to call yourself out on terrible behavior

    • @Mane_37
      @Mane_37 Рік тому +5

      You can tell she knows that it is wrong and feels that it is wrong... she just hasn't accepted it yet. I assume she justifies herself due to manipulation from society, and pain from realizing she is the reason for her lost child. We are only saved by the grace of God. I feel terrible for this woman and her baby. Hopefully she turns her life to Jesus.

    • @mikehager4897
      @mikehager4897 Рік тому

      How dare you call it murder? All ignorant, arrogant anti-choice filth say this. How goddamn stupid can these worthless gibbering animals be? I just can't fathom the level of bone deep stupidity and hatred it takes to be anti-choice filth.
      A woman is a human being. A non-viable fetus isn't. Full stop. Every dirty anti-choice piece of shit that has said abortion is murder is a filthy fucking liar and every time they say it they need to be outed, publicly shamed, fired, and never again hired for anything. Most importantly, since they are so willing to deny others basic human rights, they deserve to be denied theirs. We simply can't allow the idiocy and evil of the few to deny the rights of the many.
      Anti-choice scum do not deserve rights since They are so willing to deny others. How dare they try to deny the basic humanity of your betters.

    • @slyzwkowzkiklobarlov1867
      @slyzwkowzkiklobarlov1867 Рік тому

      An early fetus is living human tissue, very similar to what sperm is. Therefore, it should have the same rights as sperm

    • @slyzwkowzkiklobarlov1867
      @slyzwkowzkiklobarlov1867 Рік тому

      @@exiled1gaming "Life" itself isn't a sufficient condition to ban abortions. Any living human tissue could be considered life

  • @heatheralbano5768
    @heatheralbano5768 Рік тому +83

    If she did nothing wrong/didn't sin, why does she need to "forgive herself"?

    • @AbolitionistsRising
      @AbolitionistsRising  Рік тому +44

      Good point. Deep down, she knows it was wrong.

    • @shawnmclean7932
      @shawnmclean7932 Рік тому +11

      I bet she would be against killing a puppy inside a dog. She knows innately that it is wrong.

    • @discoveringthegardenofeden7882
      @discoveringthegardenofeden7882 Рік тому +7

      It is the fashion in new age and professional therapy.

    • @jtremaine23
      @jtremaine23 Рік тому

      I thought the same thing. It didn't make sense.

    • @Sakattack2023
      @Sakattack2023 Рік тому +1

      @@AbolitionistsRisingit’s not even deep down. She clearly knows it was, just wanted you think it wasn’t and to stop making her think about it.

  • @JoyMofasa-ii3zr
    @JoyMofasa-ii3zr Рік тому +14

    As someone who was raped by their significant other, I can say that yea, it’s hard to get away. But honestly it’s not really that hard at all. I went and got a new apartment. Didn’t tell him where. I changed my phone number. And that was that. 10+ years later I am raising my rapist child. He is a beautiful vibrant loving kind generous caring thoughtful and crazy empathetic.
    Best decision I ever made was to raise my son. He’s the light of my life. I have never received a penny in child support. It’s hard. But that’s the only hard part of getting away from an abuser. Doing it broke. Makes you think you got to go back to the abuse for the financial stability…makes you think, what would it be like if I received money each month.
    And then you look your innocent precious child in their eyes and say “oh that’s right it’s cause I love you more than I love my status!”

    • @JoyMofasa-ii3zr
      @JoyMofasa-ii3zr Рік тому

      My rapist called (before I changed my number) me and said “now that my seed is in you that p**** belongs to me, it’s my seed, so your body is now mine. I’m coming to get what’s mine, whenever I want.” Hence why I changed my number and moved.

    • @NaturalAegyo
      @NaturalAegyo Рік тому +1

      Lean on God and your community! I can feel the love in your post.

    • @demolitionFM
      @demolitionFM 8 місяців тому +1

      ❤❤❤

    • @lookingforwhiteprivilege9330
      @lookingforwhiteprivilege9330 7 місяців тому +1

      You are a hero to that child. A real woman. Thank God for you and your decision. Doing the right thing is not always easy but you did it anyway. Please give him strong male role models! God bless!

  • @paulahaller
    @paulahaller Рік тому +7

    This woman is speaking about me when I was 20.
    Exact scenario. Everyone around me wanted me to abort, especially my abusive partner. He swore he would fight for custody of our child if i placed her for adoption.
    My back was up a figurative wall especially in the early 80's (Much more to the story, obviously).
    But I had the child after having an unfortunate civil marriage. And it was right to bring the child forth. She made me grow up when I needed to grow up. I have much more to her story, it is filled with so many aspects of Life. But this is already too long.
    I understand that this young woman is undergoing such an intense struggle inside. I get it.
    Because having to face the reality of what I (otherwise would've) done, even if only out of pressure and/or coercian, the deepest of all spiritual and emotional chasms would have opened up in front of me, and I'd either fall in with only despair and self-hatred, or somehow, in someway, I'd have to find a way to navigate going right through the despair and self-hatred until I got to the other side of it.
    The only way to do this, is through Christ. He makes it bearable by sharing the walk towards health and forgiveness.
    Actually, He is the only answer to anything and everything all woman in 'crisis' pregnancies need.
    Oh, so much work to do to touch the hearts of our culture. 😢
    Christ's Peace to you.

  • @ohalloranpeter
    @ohalloranpeter Рік тому +85

    Thank you, brother, for teaching my fellow Catholics how to be better Catholics. I wish (and pray) that more of us Catholics were doing what you do so beautifully.

    • @mikehager4897
      @mikehager4897 Рік тому

      Yes! Teach us about better catholics! Maybe a new way to brutally rape and sodomize children while hiding it from the authorities! Maybe a new lie that can cause hundreds of thousands of deaths in Africa? Maybe just a tax shelter for the immense wealth hoarded by the church as they watch millions starve while claiming to help.
      Nah. I don't need any help from sick, perverted liars. I am an atheist. There is much catholics can learn from me about reason and ethics. Theists have nothing of value to teach, so do us all a favor and shut the hell up.

    • @ricksonora6656
      @ricksonora6656 Рік тому +3

      Learning to be a better Catholic is not good. Learning the gospel delivered by the actual apostles and knowing Christ is everything.

    • @nicetryb0z0
      @nicetryb0z0 Рік тому

      ​@@ricksonora6656cope and seethe prottie, we compiled those gospels for you. And for hundreds of years the one true church existed without the bible bozo and that doesnt make everyone that believed in Christ for those 300 years wrong, imagine believing this lmao.

  • @No-304s
    @No-304s Рік тому +81

    There is a clear difference between knowing what she did and realizing what she did. One day she will come to realization that she took another human's life.
    In that moment
    I truly hope she can find forgiveness and love in god.

    • @Tobi_237
      @Tobi_237 Рік тому +1

      In my observation, some only fully come to this realisation you speak of when they actually have the child and watch it grow into a young man or woman, and eventually then recall the life that could’ve been that was wilfully murdered in the womb. Thank God our sins were put away at the Cross, and all glory to our Saviour.

    • @CEO-Baruch-City
      @CEO-Baruch-City 12 днів тому

      Hope it won't be too late by then. Her feelings won't help her then

  • @kimberlyhannah17
    @kimberlyhannah17 Рік тому +56

    I have been in her exact situation and was in an abusive marriage when I became pregnant. I left him and decided to have an abortion. I initially tried to justify it as well despite my deep remorse, regret and later Godly sorrow. If she truly knew God and there was a true conversion - she would love what God loves and hate what God hates. She does not want to see her disgusting filthy sin - so she justifies it. She is young and it is my hope that she comes to the Lord while there is still time.

    • @astrofistus9516
      @astrofistus9516 Рік тому +3

      Jesus has already forgiven you.

    • @kimberlyhannah17
      @kimberlyhannah17 Рік тому +4

      @@astrofistus9516 Thank you for your kind and loving comment. I really appreciate it. :)

    • @astrofistus9516
      @astrofistus9516 Рік тому +2

      It’s His words, not mine. ^^

    • @CEO-Baruch-City
      @CEO-Baruch-City 12 днів тому

      "... while there is still time." Keywords.

  • @nattamused9074
    @nattamused9074 Рік тому +4

    My eleven year old daughter happened to sit next to me and watch this video while I was watching it, and heard the women say “I watched my dead child fall out on my bedroom floor.” like it was completely normal, and my daughter’s reaction was something this post-abortive woman should have to see.
    Murdering your baby is SHOCKING. It is bizarre that so many people are so desensitized to murdering babies.

  • @jenniferwalsh1731
    @jenniferwalsh1731 Рік тому +7

    I chose death over abuse for my child. And she really thinks she's making sense. It's so sad. We're so blind, open our eyes Lord! We need you Jesus!

  • @JuanMartinez-xl2oj
    @JuanMartinez-xl2oj Рік тому +76

    As a Catholic, I must say, he is SO close... Keep up on doing His works brother, you are saintly material, please pray for me - I am praying for you!

    • @Statues_S
      @Statues_S Рік тому +2

      😊BIY crew, God bless you. I am praying for you please keep praying for me

    • @ciarat7282
      @ciarat7282 Рік тому +8

      According to the Bible, if you are saved, you are a saint.

    • @FaithfulComforter
      @FaithfulComforter Рік тому +13

      He’s not “SO close”, he actually is speaking Biblical doctrinal facts.

    • @ricksonora6656
      @ricksonora6656 Рік тому +4

      As a sinner saved by God’s grace, God’s way, I must say, working for grace is anathema to Christianity as defined by the actual apostles in the scriptures.
      One synonym for grace is “gift.” “Earned gift” is an oxymoron. Earning God’s favor was the doctrine of the Pharisees. They went about establishing their own righteousness instead of depending on God’s gift. That insults God’s sufficiency and generosity.
      Bad works-doctrines are sins just like any other sin, and even more deadly. Until you stop insulting the Giver, you will never, ever receive the Gift.

    • @nicetryb0z0
      @nicetryb0z0 Рік тому +3

      Technically you cant pray for him. Because that makes you a mediator between God and Jesus and protties believe that's evil. So if a protestant was true to their deception they would correct you and deny your requests for their prayers, and if they were logically congruent they would tell you to pray for yourself. Because praying to anyyyyyyone but Jesus according to them is heretical. Which kind of makes the prayer that Jesus himself gave us, The Our Father, very confusing. Among the many things they believe that dont make any sense.

  • @VictorHarrys
    @VictorHarrys Рік тому +48

    “I’ve forgiven myself.” Then why does she “regret it”, and feels sad everyone she goes in that bedroom. I can hear the anger in her voice.

    • @ajb.822
      @ajb.822 11 місяців тому

      Yeah. On top of all the basic spiritual realities and needs here, and anything else that could be psychoanalyzed about her or her life, influences etc., she may also have very mixed up, fluctuating ideas of what forgiveness is, as it seems am awful lot of people do. They equate it with condoning &/or excusing frequently. There are times it means that ( or, we shouldn't be using the word forgive at those times ??) such as " Please forgive me, I hit back ice out on the road an accidentally took out your mailbox" . It was an excusable, unintentional offense. Then there's provocation " Excuse me, I just got super traumatic news over the phone and ran out the door in a state of shock and distress and accidentally ran right over you and your small child." - ie: I should have watched where I was going, but please forgive - condone m/l, excuse - what I did, because of how provoked and reasonably upset I was. That is what so many people want for themselves, in basically every instance of sin or offense. Men too, plenty, in their own ways.
      And why people get so upset at the idea of forgiveness, much less reconciliation (to an under-parole/watched degree, I hope) in the case of heinous sins, crimes. They (often, .. it's not always the issue !) don't understand that we, Christians esp., do NOT mean forgiveness in the sense of " Well, that's ok, after all you were provoked" or " ... couldn't help being born into sin and darkness and not having really known, understood or helped to receive the gospel before you did that" , as true, and a factor, those things may even be ! And, however much they are, we still are NOT condoning ANY sin, much less ones that are also crimes against another. We can do more than one thing at a time, and definitely, God can and does ! He "knows we are but flesh, like grass, weak and vulnerable" to paraphrase, yet also hates sin and must condemn it, and the willing sinner who does it. BUT, that's all of us, and WE are, none of us, on a higher plane or the Judge. Also, BUT God. God Himself paid the penalty, that we may go free from death and condemnation. And gives us in it's place, holiness to our account, and eternal life, and freedom from bondage to our sinful flesh ( not only senses temptations and provocations but finds giving into them, even tho it's sinful, attractive).

    • @MarshallllllllWalk3r
      @MarshallllllllWalk3r 5 місяців тому

      You great what your ego needs to hear.

  • @shadygunshow
    @shadygunshow Рік тому +48

    This abortion “context” note they post on your page is a disgusting scummy low blow. Keep doing what you do guys! Fight these evil kid killers!

    • @PinkLadie007
      @PinkLadie007 Рік тому

      UA-cam is part of the propaganda machine.

    • @AmberLance
      @AmberLance Рік тому +2

      Yep. Believe our context, not your lying eyes!

    • @ricksonora6656
      @ricksonora6656 Рік тому +2

      I tap the three dots and submit negative feedback every time I see it.

    • @AmberLance
      @AmberLance Рік тому

      @@ricksonora6656 I just did, too. I didn't even know that was an option until now, so I'll be doing the same from now on.

  • @summerd7668
    @summerd7668 Рік тому +11

    She started the conversation by saying she regretted the act and thought about it every day. A few minutes later, she says she doesn't dwell on it. I pray that when she does think about it, she will come to realize that forgiveness will only come when she asks God for it.

  • @GrandAbbot
    @GrandAbbot 9 місяців тому +4

    This is the kind of woman who would deprive a good father of their child, and then leave the relationship and call him abusive. Then she would move on to a new relationship and find a new victim to gaslight. Dark.

  • @zantas-handle
    @zantas-handle Рік тому +21

    "I didn't want to bring a kid into an abusive environment".
    So you just killed it instead?
    Yeah, if I'm ever in trouble, I won't be calling her!

  • @adriana12995
    @adriana12995 Рік тому +33

    She is full of guilt and she is in deep denial. The denial is helping her avoid the reality of what she did. The fact that she calls herself Catholic but thinks wearing a cross and going to church makes her good shows how spiritually damaged she is. She admits that she killed her child, she says that she regrets it and feels awful about it but that it was the right choice. She doesn’t want to accept what she did and that’s why she contradicts herself. I hope she wakes up and accepts God.

    • @ajb.822
      @ajb.822 11 місяців тому +1

      But that is Catholic doctrine, ultimately. That we can do things to make up for sin, or otherwise earn something, by our works/efforts/actions/submission. Whereas Biblically, we ONLY receive, then continue in that. Abide in that/Him. Walk in the Holy Spirit. Show up - to letting His word renew our minds, and in walking with Him, bear fruit. "Open the door and let Him come in" . Believe Him. "Abraham believed God and it was credited to him for righteousness." .
      In every single denomination, local church body/fellowship, family, cult, etc. that legalism or works based salvation OR sanctification breeds, it corrupts. Leads to more misunderstanding, more missing the points, more missing the truth, more missing the relationship with God. " Beware the leaven of the Pharisees, for a little leaven leaventh the whole batch/bunch." " Oh foolish, Galatians, who has bewitched you ? Having begun in the Spirit, will you be perfected in the flesh ?!"
      Read Galatians - VERY prayerfully - at least 5 times 1st of all, and every year at least once. In my opinion, everyone needs to do this.

  • @Naomi_OB
    @Naomi_OB Рік тому +33

    May the truth of the Gospel she heard pierce her heart. She is in so much denial, and she has tried to justify it so many ways. But Russell did such an incredible job telling her the hard truth with love. Great witness.

  • @andyherod653
    @andyherod653 Рік тому +2

    Your patience is admirable. I would have been palming my face after talking to this girl for two minutes.

  • @mcthunderstick2374
    @mcthunderstick2374 6 місяців тому +1

    These are the must have conversations. So incredibly respectful and logical. No name calling, no yelling, no anger.

  • @djo-dji6018
    @djo-dji6018 Рік тому +59

    She's clearly ignorant about Catholicism but she also seems delusional. She's fighting back her sense of guilt, and instead of confessing her sins she denies having done anything wrong. Everything that young woman said goes against the teaching of the Catholic Church.

    • @nicetryb0z0
      @nicetryb0z0 Рік тому +5

      True but protties will never waste an opportunity to try and make it seem like they dunked on the catholic church. Because just like people who've had abortions, they dont wanna face the guilt of all the shit they've said about mary and the saints, about peter, about the one true church. This chick even said she grew up catholic then that she went to church like they were two different things, so she probably left the church to spite her family and goes to protty or non denominational church. Such a misleading headline. As if they dont dunk on fake protty Christian's all day but you dont see them advertising how idiotic and evil protestants can be.

    • @litzyr3920
      @litzyr3920 Рік тому +1

      @nicetryb0z0 I’m assuming you’re Catholic, I am Catholic too and while I understand your frustration with our Protestant brethren I don’t think we should go about it in this way. “They will know we are Christian by our Love”. That being said, yes it’s a shame that they put “Catholic” in there … not sure their reasoning with that /:

    • @michaelbrunsdon8938
      @michaelbrunsdon8938 Рік тому +2

      Yeh for sure. Those of us who are Catholics get a lot of heat from other types of Christian for various quite unfair reasons (and some fair) but the one thing no one can say is that the Church is unclear or quiet about it's abortion stance.

    • @Alexander07865
      @Alexander07865 Рік тому +1

      ⁠@@nicetryb0z0Catholicism has a false Gospel. A work based salvation. Ephesians 2:8-9 says we are saved by grace through faith, that not of works, lest any man should boast. Paul said in Galatians 1:6-9, if you preach another Gospel, you are to be accursed. Catholicism accuses anyone who is not Catholic. I’m not a Catholic nor am I a Protestant. I just go by the word of God, not the word of men. Catholicism is very inclusive when it comes to abortion. Thus, people attribute themselves with Catholicism to defend abortions and other sins. If Catholicism when by the Bible alone then it would not use tradition and have people use the name of Catholicism to defend their sins because tradition changes. God’s word does not change. Catholicism 10 years from now can support the craziness ideas and I would not be surprised because if they used God’s word as their ultimate authority and not just for fueling their argument then they would not change every now and then. God’s word is not extra, it is essential. Catholicism unfortunately disagree. Catholicism promotes idolatry, a false Gospel, and other unbiblical teachings like Transubstantiation which is disgusting and blasphemous. Jesus did not endorse cannibalism. Jesus’s blood was not shed yet at the last supper. Jesus turned water into wine John 2:9 not wine into his literal blood. Jesus said these things I say to you are Spirit and life. John 6:63. Transubstantiation is a heretical doctrine. Catholics take John 6:53 literally and that is why the Catholic Church came up with this doctrine that every Sunday u sacrifice Jesus again and take him down from Heaven and take his flesh and blood and eat and drink it. But there is no flesh or blood in Heaven. 1 Corinthians 15:50. Jesus was sacrificed once and for all. Hebrews 10:10,12,14. The priests keep doing sacrifices every week like but it is not sufficient nor necessary Hebrews 10:11. To think that for 1250 years only 12 people had life in them is preposterous. It is symbolic. Jesus said he is the bread of life. John 6:35. Jesus said he is the door. John 10:9. Jesus said man shall not live by bread alone. Matthew 4:4. Jesus said give us this day our daily bread. Matthew 6:11. Jesus is not saying we have to eat bread everyday or only bread. Jesus is saying it as Spiritual food, not physical food. Jesus gave it as physical food to the Israelites back then but not now. Now it is and it has always been Spiritual. Jesus died for all sins, once, not every Sunday. Look at what this Priest said, “When the priest announces the words of consecration, he reaches up into the heavens, brings Christ down from His throne, and places Him upon Our altar to be offered up again as the Victim for the sins of man It is a power greater than that of saints and angels. The priest speaks and lo! Christ, the eternal and omnipotent God, bows his head in humble obedience to the priest's cornmand”-Priest John O’Brien. Jesus is not a victim. Jesus willingly died for our sins. Galatians 1:4. Jesus does not bow to us. We bow to Jesus. Philippians 2:10-11. Religion

    • @Alexander07865
      @Alexander07865 Рік тому

      ⁠@@nicetryb0z0u need to repent. It makes sense u r Catholic because u r still cussing. Go and sin no more. John 8:11. Mary is dead and she was a sinner like us all. Romans 3:23 is clear. All have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God. Not some, not most. ALL. There is salvation in Jesus alone. Acts 4:12. John 14:6. So much Idolatry in the Catholic Church it is insane. Also the Orthodox Church. Catholics water down the amount and justify it based off their own interpretation. God hates idolatry. God is a jealous God. Exodus 20:4-5. It is so clear in scripture. Peter is not the rock nor is he the first Pope. 1 Corinthians 10:4. 1 Peter 2:7. Hebrews 4:15 says we have no high priest. Jesus is the high priest. No one goes to Heaven or Hell right when they die. We need to be judged first. And that comes after Jesus comes back to raise the dead in Christ first then those who are alive and left will be caught up to meet them in the air and we will be with the Lord forever. 1 Thessalonians 4:16-18. The Church is not a building but a body of people in Christ. Romans 12:4-5. That’s what Catholics fail to understand. Repent and trust in Jesus

  • @davidhowell1415
    @davidhowell1415 Рік тому +23

    I was wondering when UA-cam would put their misinformation tag on your channel. That’s a sign you are doing gods work. God bless you and all the unborn babies that didn’t have the same opportunity as us

  • @Nfrealmusicfans
    @Nfrealmusicfans Рік тому +61

    We need more conversations like this in every aspect of life. This was refreshing

    • @IJPhiloponus
      @IJPhiloponus Рік тому +5

      Indeed! Please join the Abolitionist Movement and add to the conversation.

    • @SWNelson7
      @SWNelson7 Рік тому +1

      oddly refreshing lol

  • @DankKrank
    @DankKrank Рік тому +4

    My mother and father were abusive meth addicts that sincerely neglected and abused me, and killing at least one of my siblings and I still love them and forgive them and thankful to them and God I exist and able to do a better job in Gods light and his beautiful world. I feel so bad for this young lady, there’s got to be soo much guilt and denial within her and I pray for her well-being too…

  • @evea9811
    @evea9811 Рік тому +4

    She telling him what she wants to hear. There’s still a lot of denial as she describes the delivery on the bedroom floor. She came up to him & wanted to hear confirmation but he still spoke truth to her. Blessed Mary, pray for us!!

  • @nathanweisser
    @nathanweisser Рік тому +38

    She says she doesn't feel guilty about it, but I don't think that's true. People with clean consciences wouldn't be hurt by the signs. May God grant her repentance, and may she truly be able to find forgiveness in his grace, so that she truly can be free of guilt and shame.

    • @Michael-yl2iq
      @Michael-yl2iq Рік тому

      I don't agree with the God angle but think women are designed to create babies and killing them is against their own nature. They will never forget what they have done.

    • @SWNelson7
      @SWNelson7 Рік тому +2

      That was SO loving. You give me hope haha

  • @SWNelson7
    @SWNelson7 Рік тому +32

    Thank you for being there for her. She needed you.

  • @JanieBee
    @JanieBee Рік тому +25

    Young lady is going through some serious cognitive dissonance. You can see it more toward the end, like her soul is trying to run from the situation. I’m happy she was open, I think she will think about this and repent

  • @merissaball1652
    @merissaball1652 Рік тому +3

    I think her willingness to have this conversation in a civil manner gives me hope that this conversation will walk with her to repentance. It didn’t happen in the moment, but it sowed seeds of truth.

  • @FaithfulComforter
    @FaithfulComforter Рік тому +5

    Let’s pray for her 🙏🏽✝️🕊❤️‍🔥

  • @ransompendragon623
    @ransompendragon623 Рік тому +25

    16:03
    The single most powerful thing that I have ever heard said to a post abortive mother. The call to repent is often not an easy task.
    Brother you did a great job in this encounter. In my experience many women come to talk because they’ve been convicted by the Holy Spirit. Sometimes they want justification, but sometimes they need someone to just say, “repent” turn away from this sin and put it on the cross.
    This moment in the video was so so powerful. Paraphrasing, “ you didn’t want him to hurt your baby so you hurt your baby”. I think that it also convicted me of my sin in my life. It’s got more than one application for sure. God bless you brother

    • @Naomi_OB
      @Naomi_OB Рік тому +3

      Agreed! It was powerful, and his delivery was masterful. The fact that she stayed so long gives me hope the Lord was actively softening her heart thru Russell's words. May she come to repentance and salvation in Christ

    • @IJPhiloponus
      @IJPhiloponus Рік тому +1

      I get into these conversations quite regularly just as a result of going out and waiting on the Lord to bring a conversant soul along to reach.

  • @Ragemonster69420
    @Ragemonster69420 Рік тому +60

    the reason she stopped is because she is battling with her demons. she wanted that kid but felt she had to. I feel so bad for her

    • @SWNelson7
      @SWNelson7 Рік тому +5

      Yeah, I usually get pretty upset at these women, but she is different. She makes my heart hurt.

    • @kylefishmoore
      @kylefishmoore Рік тому +5

      Don't feel bad for baby killer. She literally supports the death of baby's and you feel bad for her?????????????????? You need to stop that.

    • @SWNelson7
      @SWNelson7 Рік тому +11

      @@kylefishmoore Some people don't understand the gravity of abortion until after they have one. And that's really sad. Try to have a heart...

    • @lilyh317
      @lilyh317 Рік тому +5

      @braeden stallings It doesn't sound like she wanted her kid. She's talking now only to justify her actions. If she says it out loud she'll feel relief from the weight of it. She doesn't regret it, that's why she needs to justify it, she's looking for validation. It will always be all about herself in the end.

    • @sheeniebeanie2597
      @sheeniebeanie2597 Рік тому +4

      @@SWNelson7 My broken heart and heartache is for the dead baby. She robbed that baby of the joy of having a relationship with Christ, let alone his/her right to life. She thinks that killing her baby is OK. She's not repentant. I weep for her soul and pray she finds Christ, but the baby is the victim.

  • @jeffcooper9363
    @jeffcooper9363 Рік тому +33

    I've had a similar conversation with a young woman who was raped at age 14 or 15. Her grandfather, who was/is some kind of clergy, counseled her to murder her child. I told her that her grandfather was no man of God and that there are people who are willing to adopt the unwanted. I said basically what you said - that she did murder her child but there was forgiveness and redemption in Christ. I pray for her regularly. P.S. I am aggressive on the street, but only to the men who go by - either because they are half the problem and/or because they don't care enough about their neighbor to lift a finger (unless it's to me)

    • @AbolitionistsRising
      @AbolitionistsRising  Рік тому +28

      Men who do nothing in the face of a holocaust are derelict of their duty to be men. They're cowards.

  • @JesusisHere777
    @JesusisHere777 Рік тому +4

    In the beginning she said she regrets it. Then in the end she said she doesn't. She is very confused and just needs to hear it like it is. Keep doing what you're doing and ask God for even more wisdom to get through to these people. Love your work

  • @carsonianthegreat4672
    @carsonianthegreat4672 Рік тому +19

    Thank God that the Catholic Church is adamant about being pro-life regardless of what this misguided woman says

    • @radenadiapati2062
      @radenadiapati2062 Рік тому

      Search in the history of the Catholic Church and you know they are not pro-life. They killed more babies than many other institutions. There are mass graves full of babies next to many Catholic institutes and every now and then one is discovered.

    • @Amarylis185
      @Amarylis185 9 місяців тому

      Pro life so they can abuse innocent children.

  • @tinbus149
    @tinbus149 Рік тому +18

    11:27 "I did kill an innocent kid, but I do not think that is wrong." IS THIS WOMAN KIDDING ME?!?!?!?! How do you deal with these freaking people?

    • @rileeb848
      @rileeb848 Рік тому +1

      I feel it's cognitive dissonance...or denial.

    • @Xenix-xb4gw
      @Xenix-xb4gw Рік тому

      ​@@rileeb848definitely, and when the bible explicit states "thou shall not kill"

    • @Amarylis185
      @Amarylis185 9 місяців тому

      But men are always killing each other. It's a fact!

  • @Lerian_V
    @Lerian_V Рік тому +10

    God please soften her heart. Shower her with your grace for perfect contrition and repentance. Please be her guiding light and heal her soul. In Jesus name.

  • @craigmunday3707
    @craigmunday3707 Рік тому +46

    She doesn't seem to realise that out of her and her ex, she was the only person who killed someone

    • @ScottyBeen1000
      @ScottyBeen1000 Рік тому +1

      The Bible explains the wicked nature of a woman. I guarantee 10000000000% she's the abuser in their relationship and claims victim to hide her shame and guilt. The devil is a lie! PRAISE GOD! 🙏

    • @Amarylis185
      @Amarylis185 9 місяців тому

      Women can't even walk the streets without being aware of all the creepy men out there.Also men are most likely to be killed by other men. We don't need the Bible to warn us about. that! Where in the Bible is it written warning you about women? Bearing in mind it was written by men anyway😂Also the abolishonist claiming he is poor. Is that a joke!! How can he say that when there are people really suffering and starving in the world!! 😮

    • @demolitionFM
      @demolitionFM 8 місяців тому

      @@ScottyBeen1000🤡🤡🤡

    • @freedomishavingachoice3020
      @freedomishavingachoice3020 8 місяців тому

      If refusal of your body to the not viable qualifies as a crime, you're guilty of it. Daily. How do you suggest you serve your time?

    • @lxht2486
      @lxht2486 7 місяців тому

      @@freedomishavingachoice3020yeah I don’t think that’s what he’s saying 🤡

  • @taiadawn701
    @taiadawn701 Рік тому +2

    I so appreciate your courage, Brother. Your tenderness is what true leadership looks like.

  • @RS54321
    @RS54321 Рік тому +6

    She's very quick to agree that he's a sinner 8:33 and 'everyone has sins' but then makes the audacious claim that _she's_ not a sinner 9:31. Unbelievable. It's amazing how as humans we will do anything to push the blame away from ourselves.

  • @pwnzindaface
    @pwnzindaface Рік тому +8

    I just got out of a relationship with a woman who had a child, that was from an abusive ex of hers, who decided to KEEP that child and RAISE them despite all odds. She had it terribly hard, and I pray for her, and that her child receives a healthy life and is able to find God. Fortunately she was looking for God, and I hope I helped her find Him. I pray more people decide to, like her, take the harder route and raise their children

  • @udmgraduate
    @udmgraduate Рік тому +109

    I'm a devout Catholic. We are 100% against abortion and it is seen as one of the gravest sins in the Church. I'll pray for this girl, as she seems quite confused and dealing with a lot. I dated a girl once who had an abortion before she met me. The problems were deep because of what she had done. She did know it was wrong and eventually sought forgiveness from Christ through the bishop.

    • @dabooser1048
      @dabooser1048 Рік тому +14

      I'm a Christian, (not catholic) it's sad to see this so much today. People claim to be Christian or Catholic, but openly and aggressively advocate for worldly positions that are clearly in contradiction with the Bible.
      I just have to say you don't have to worry. You would be hard pressed to find a Bible believing Christian who believes that Catholics are pro abortion.

    • @bornagainbasics
      @bornagainbasics Рік тому +8

      Michael, please consider leaving your church and becoming reborn in Christ. Catholics are not Christian. If that were not so, you wouldn't have to say "100% Catholic".
      The way you would see a Mormon, is how followers of Christ see Catholics.
      God bless you and good luck

    • @howamg
      @howamg Рік тому +27

      @@bornagainbasics “Where there is Christ Jesus, there is the Catholic Church.” St. Ignatius of Antioch around A.D. 107

    • @bornagainbasics
      @bornagainbasics Рік тому +9

      @@howamg so is the Catholic church the same as it was in 107 AD?
      Do you think that "the true church of God" would look like that Catholic church with its countless evils and heretical teachings?
      Remember, Jesus changed the game. He indwells believers with the Holy Spirit and gives them the gift of eternal life by BEING that life within them.

    • @howamg
      @howamg Рік тому +20

      @@bornagainbasics For the sake of His sorrowful Passion, have mercy on us and on the whole world.

  • @mikevallone8619
    @mikevallone8619 Рік тому +27

    This is the saddest video I've seen like this. Poor girl is lying to herself. She's not completely lost though. I wish her well.

    • @IJPhiloponus
      @IJPhiloponus Рік тому +1

      Keep her and others like her in your prayers. Have you watched the other conversation on this channel called “A Redemptive conversation with a post abortive mother”? It is similar to this one but you can see the young woman’s face and the pain and spiritual destruction of her choice to sacrifice a child. And you can see that she heard the message and clear statement of the truth about sin and Christ’s mercy and grace to forgive.

    • @ricksonora6656
      @ricksonora6656 Рік тому

      You’re lost or saved. There’s no such condition as partly lost or partly saved. And she’s Catholic, so she’s not going to find real forgiveness unless God sends someone with the biblical gospel.

    • @mikevallone8619
      @mikevallone8619 Рік тому +3

      @@ricksonora6656 I'm more saying she's not a lost cause. She can still be saved.

    • @ricksonora6656
      @ricksonora6656 Рік тому

      @@mikevallone8619 Agreed. Let’s pray she does.

  • @3YearsApart1613
    @3YearsApart1613 Рік тому +10

    A very loving conversation. Well done.

  • @Thestrappedgrunt
    @Thestrappedgrunt Рік тому +5

    I think they use “ abusive partner “ as a scapegoat for abortions, bad decisions, and all other short comings.
    People need to take accountability for their own actions, she just makes excuses for why she killed a baby, she decided to date a man who she says is abusive.

  • @jasonaldrich7836
    @jasonaldrich7836 Рік тому +33

    I have a feeling she'll realize that It was a murderous sin, and she will ask Christ to forgive her. Because you can see it does way on her. It does bring her conflict. Nothing but prayers for her and May she have the guidance of God's word. Great Job out there this was more then Most could deal with, but you stood there speaking God's word and spoke clear and soft to her...I truly know she heard you❤

  • @Susan-rx1yf
    @Susan-rx1yf Рік тому +56

    "The difference was it was legal" pro-lifers, listen up.
    Criminalize this. She wouldn't have done it if she was goi
    ng to face connsequences.

    • @nathanweisser
      @nathanweisser Рік тому +7

      Yep. Perfect case study for the tutorial effect of the law

    • @TheRealTrucido
      @TheRealTrucido Рік тому +4

      I wish more people in America especially would realize there are eternal consequences. God is real. Doing evil is going to get you eternal suffering.

    • @Shockguey
      @Shockguey Рік тому

      Culture is downstream from law, not the other way around.

    • @SuperUnemployable
      @SuperUnemployable Рік тому

      ​@@ShockgueyI completely disagree. Law is downstream from culture. We are living this scenario as we speak. It is illegal to protest or threaten Supreme Court justices, it is illegal to riot and fire bomb property, it is illegal for the federal government to tell property owners that they cannot collect rent from those that live on their property.....do any of these sound familiar?

    • @S.Waters.
      @S.Waters. Рік тому

      She’ll still face the consequences when she faces God.

  • @peacelove6632
    @peacelove6632 Рік тому +17

    pretty disturbing she couldn't admit her sin, definitely not saved 😢

    • @AbolitionistsRising
      @AbolitionistsRising  Рік тому +18

      Most likely not, but God may have used this encounter to work on her heart!

    • @rollmops3113
      @rollmops3113 Рік тому +3

      ​@@AbolitionistsRisingyes, I pray this is so!
      Thankyou, you did really good here, I think the fact that she came up and had this conversation with you means there's hope for her! We must pray for the Lord to open her eyes and soften her heart so she can see what she did and seek Christ's forgiveness. 💙

  • @robertlavrakas7442
    @robertlavrakas7442 Рік тому +2

    The way you spoke to this woman came from a very loving heart,God bless you

  • @nl3280
    @nl3280 Рік тому +3

    My children’s father was abusive to me. I had two children with him. I had gotten a restraining order against there father that also qualified for him and his children. He had supervised visits that cost 100 dollars per visit that he never showed up for. You most def can keep them from their abusive father. And protect them. There are ways..

  • @kingdomkid7225
    @kingdomkid7225 Рік тому +7

    Lord I am not worthy that Thou shouldest come under my roof
    But say the word only
    And my soul shall be healed

  • @bellethilrancthalion1109
    @bellethilrancthalion1109 Рік тому +13

    She doesn’t keep the precepts of the Church. If she hasn’t been to confession then she’s in a state of mortal sin and estranged from the Church. I hope no one takes her “example” as Catholic standard.

    • @richardbarry04553
      @richardbarry04553 Рік тому +1

      Some scripture to think about:
      “For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus; Who gave himself a ransom for all, to be testified in due time.”
      1 Timothy 2:5-6

  • @charlesprice5.0
    @charlesprice5.0 Рік тому +6

    17:20 “I’m not blaming myself or anyone I’m blaming it on the situation”. Like
    Girlllll whaaaat???? Someone caused the situation young lady!!

  • @chosenchad1155
    @chosenchad1155 Рік тому +3

    You are really good at flipping the board to make the other person view their own sin from a third perspective bravo.

  • @coledouglas2931
    @coledouglas2931 Рік тому +4

    This is what it’s all about Russell. Well done man. Well done. ❤️

  • @audioelitist3677
    @audioelitist3677 Рік тому +25

    Anybody that denies the one and true faith, in any capacity, is not a Catholic.

    • @LauraBeeDannon
      @LauraBeeDannon Рік тому +14

      Right? She wouldn't have been living with a boyfriend either. She was on birth control, which is also against church teaching. Much wrong here.

  • @The-Azure-Knight
    @The-Azure-Knight Рік тому +15

    This conversation went no where. She's not a true follower of God and Jesus.

    • @IJPhiloponus
      @IJPhiloponus Рік тому +1

      Pray she was moved along and someone else continues the conversation and she submits to the Holy Spirit who is pursuing Her.

    • @lovewins2766
      @lovewins2766 Рік тому

      I don’t believe that is true, regarding your comment about the conversation going nowhere. It is maybe true that not much was accomplished based upon what we can see in this conversation. But this conversation will hopefully lead to a true conversion for this woman down the road. To us it seems like nothing was really accomplished but to God there is a plan we can not comprehend in place.

    • @The-Azure-Knight
      @The-Azure-Knight Рік тому +1

      @@lovewins2766 Idk. I hope you're right.

    • @MikeJones69696
      @MikeJones69696 Рік тому +1

      I agree alot of people claim to be Christian or Catholic but they do not act like it. Watch out for wolf in sheep clothing...

  • @1voiceCriesOut
    @1voiceCriesOut Рік тому +26

    6:20 says her family doesnt agree with her decision...10 seconds later says her family agrees with her decision.
    Is she just one of those people who makes up a scenario they belive you CANNOT argue against? I question her entire story.

    • @BlanketTruth22
      @BlanketTruth22 Рік тому +1

      She was talking about having abortion in her room where she goes every day but also traveled out of state?

    • @JoyMofasa-ii3zr
      @JoyMofasa-ii3zr Рік тому +2

      I wondered the same she flip flopped a lot. Originally she said that the abusive boyfriend threatened to kill her and the child if she got an abortion. Which on its face doesn’t make sense. And then later it was he would kill her. And then the third time it was full of details she didn’t mention the first or second times. Lol

  • @dnzswithwombats
    @dnzswithwombats Рік тому +3

    Imagine a guard in a concentration camp saying at their war crimes trial that no one can understand their feelings which made murder okay. That's not a defense that will fly.

  • @belle8i
    @belle8i 10 місяців тому +1

    I dated a Catholic a few years back and he sounded a lot like this girl. He was very cynical about life and even said Catholics aren't Christian. He was deeply wounded emotionally, I could tell, but he tried to hide it with a stoic facade. He lost empathy for others. I couldn't heal him. Only God can.

  • @randymarsh3582
    @randymarsh3582 Рік тому +8

    So…since a man was mean to her, she decided to kill the only person in the world that would love her unconditionally…wow

  • @dontfollowyourheart
    @dontfollowyourheart Рік тому +16

    She is not a victim.

  • @abbytabby08
    @abbytabby08 Рік тому +10

    That woman won’t be quiet long enough to listen to him speak truth to her

    • @IJPhiloponus
      @IJPhiloponus Рік тому +6

      Pray she finds out about this video and gets to watch it and listen again.

    • @frankbuck99
      @frankbuck99 Рік тому +2

      she is afraid to hear something that will change her mind.

  • @Kendramac
    @Kendramac 7 місяців тому +1

    It’s really sad how normalized child sacrifice is, that she can’t recognize she committed it.

  • @Cyberdyneskynet
    @Cyberdyneskynet 6 місяців тому +2

    Well I was in the same exact position as this woman and I didn't choose to abort my babies. Turned out I had twins and the guy disappeared shortly after I gave birth. One of my twin baby boys didn't make it through birth, but one of them did and he's 6 years old and he's the sweetest little boy in our family of 5. I chose life regardless of how terrible his actual father was and regardless of the doctors telling me my pregnancy was dangerous and high risk.
    Sometimes life hands you cards you didn't intend to deal with, but thank God I had my son. My life turned out better because I had him.
    She doesn't understand and obviously doesn't read the Bible. Fake candy coated Christians are shamed with guilt and lies.

  • @aaronskrenes6396
    @aaronskrenes6396 Рік тому +8

    Let's pray for her. God, help her see her sin and forgive her. God, please forgive me for everything wrong I've done.

  • @roninkraut6873
    @roninkraut6873 Рік тому +9

    She tried everything not to get pregnant except the one thing that is 100% effective. This is so sad. She is obviously caring this around and it has to be very painful.

  • @mikealext
    @mikealext Рік тому +4

    The uptick at the end of all her sentences like its a question is obnoxious. You are so kind.

  • @muficchannel
    @muficchannel 5 місяців тому +1

    She doesn’t think murdering her baby was a sin. She is self-righteous, speaking “her truth.” She actually feels like she did her baby a favor by killing him or her. She justifies murder! “Yes, I killed it, but I don’t think it was wrong.”

  • @OdintheGermanShepherd
    @OdintheGermanShepherd Рік тому +1

    Almost every woman claims her ex was “abusive” …

  • @jacobrodriguez7771
    @jacobrodriguez7771 Рік тому +11

    The Catechism of the Catholic Church says the following: "2270 Human life must be respected and protected absolutely from the moment of conception. From the first moment of his existence, a human being must be recognized as having the rights of a person - among which is the inviolable right of every innocent being to life. 72"
    The Catholic Church is the One True Church founded by Christ.

  • @jrose3394
    @jrose3394 Рік тому +13

    God is within her. She was willing and so respectful through the whole convo even when hard truths were being spoken. She is almost there and hopefully this convo will resonate soon. Praying for her❤

    • @jenden9008
      @jenden9008 Рік тому +10

      If God was within her she wouldn't try to justify this abominable sin. She needs to be saved

    • @greymangaming1877
      @greymangaming1877 Рік тому +3

      I think this is a case of Jonah running from God. I hope God will not stop and give her up to her sin.

    • @inedanap6253
      @inedanap6253 Рік тому +2

      Yeah He's definitely knocking on her heart but she's still in a very, very dark place

    • @jenden9008
      @jenden9008 Рік тому

      @@greymangaming1877 Well scripture says that the Holy Spirit will not always strive with man. There are only so many chances a person has to be saved.

    • @Josh_elitesandcastles
      @Josh_elitesandcastles 11 місяців тому

      @@jenden9008Well understood, just understand that her point was that, God is drawing her close to himself! Jesus said no one comes to the father except God draws them, meaning God gives them grace to be convicted by the spirit of his word so that they can repent of their sins! We can’t love God if we go by our understanding and human standard, but the message of forgiveness of sin through Jesus Is the message of life that God speak through to us to get us reconciled back to himself! God speaks as soon soon as that brother opens his mouth to preach the goodnews!

  • @joeJoe-pb3su
    @joeJoe-pb3su Рік тому +7

    Sad. If she doesn't give this to God. God will never forgive her. We need to pray for this lady. 😢

  • @andrewhayden1995
    @andrewhayden1995 10 місяців тому +1

    Isn't it interesting that the vehicle is honking at 8:51 right when Russel is explaining the Gospel? Things like this happen all the time when my team and I are sharing the Gospel. The friend says, "c'mon we gotta go," or the mother calls, the dog barks or a baby starts crying. The enemy loves to distract to keep those who are in unbelief veiled to the truth. But, thankfully, our Lord is able to cut through the noise and bring the truth.

  • @PeaceIsYeshua
    @PeaceIsYeshua Рік тому +3

    She’s in denial, but I love how calm she is and her willingness to listen and not act crazy. I pray she repents and truly turns to Jesus. She seems to have a kind heart. ❤

  • @idaho5k736
    @idaho5k736 Рік тому +26

    She chose to have a kid with a person like that. Accountability. This woman’s kryptonite.

    • @Sakattack2023
      @Sakattack2023 Рік тому +2

      It’s all cope, I don’t believe a thing she said.

    • @pablogats4627
      @pablogats4627 Рік тому

      ​@@Sakattack2023yep, my whole life I've never believed anything that comes out of a woman's mouth, might sound harsh but it is what it is

    • @Sakattack2023
      @Sakattack2023 Рік тому

      @@pablogats4627 must be a tough way to live buddy.

  • @lilyh317
    @lilyh317 Рік тому +8

    This is heartbreaking for the innocent child. She gets no sympathy from me. She's a killer. A disgusting self righteous baby terminator. Hopefully she repents. But I won't hold my breath.

    • @anng.4542
      @anng.4542 Рік тому

      May Jesus give her the grace to fully repent!

  • @grandperspective1167
    @grandperspective1167 Рік тому +10

    My father abused my mother and she left him… didn’t get abused again…. Magic

  • @lajarhead8308
    @lajarhead8308 7 місяців тому +1

    14:58 imagine that?! She got a restraining order to protect herself, but wouldn’t seek one to protect herself AND the unborn child she killed (her words). Her whole “I did it because I need to be able to get out of an abusive relationship” argument just went right down the tubes. She knows there were other legal mechanisms she could’ve used in order to get the man out of her life.

  • @JustReadTheBible
    @JustReadTheBible Рік тому

    Your patient leading is inspiring. I pray she reflects on this and her mind is renewed. Lord, please change her heart of stone to flesh.