You're not NICE, you're ENTITLED.

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 35

  • @kristina4894
    @kristina4894 9 місяців тому +2

    Here bc of buzz feed. Saving for sharing later. Thank you for being open about your experiences and sharing your journey

  • @noriking1467
    @noriking1467 Рік тому +31

    This is awesome, great to see sg youtubers like you sharing all vulnerable things that guys go thru, i feel that no one talked abt it

    • @Dargoyaki
      @Dargoyaki  Рік тому +5

      Tbh I don't think it does too well in the local space, means no one's really found a format that works. Men, Explain seems like the most likely series that covers these topics

    • @noriking1467
      @noriking1467 11 місяців тому +1

      @@Dargoyaki yeah, but this is awesome to see like male starting the conversation first ! :) great start uh

  • @veergala9751
    @veergala9751 11 місяців тому +4

    Thank you so much for this video , can't express how much I appreciate this

  • @MebiManga
    @MebiManga Рік тому +3

    Churning out banger videos about personal stuff, and love your B rolls too.

  • @ExtraLivesMusic
    @ExtraLivesMusic 9 місяців тому +2

    Loved this video, loved the video game music you used to score it even more!

  • @x22578
    @x22578 11 місяців тому +3

    so refreshing to see such a self-aware take from a guy! keep it up man

  • @sidatl152
    @sidatl152 9 місяців тому +1

    Yup. Nice guys finish last. Common courtesy and being respectful is a good start. I used to laugh at the phrase GTL from the show Jersey Shore, but it made sense (gym, tan, laundry). Also, be knowledgeable and supportive of other people's interest.

  • @shyviking
    @shyviking 9 місяців тому +1

    That has to be some of the best and most honest content, I have seen on the net for a long time.
    Most guys probably have a least a little sliver of "nice guy" in them. And yes; I agree with Dargoyaki - get rid of that.

  • @cy3970
    @cy3970 11 місяців тому +2

    dude i fking love your channel. you’re so real, pls keep the channel up 🫶

    • @cy3970
      @cy3970 11 місяців тому

      the one abt guy friends too also hit deep, dk how u do it but u don’t miss

  • @BANGWJ
    @BANGWJ Рік тому +1

    2023 IS DA YEAR

  • @reviewfreak66
    @reviewfreak66 Рік тому +10

    This just proves that in the scene of dating physical looks still trumps personality.☹️
    Also I feel just because u didn’t dated at all in middle/high school u should think lowly of yourself or brand yourself as a loser. You are more than just that date/Exgf count. You can suck at getting dates but be exceptional at sth else. I think it is more important for teens to realise different people excel at different things and getting dates is just one of the many things. And from there work on their strong points to built that confidence.

  • @silverchairsg
    @silverchairsg 11 місяців тому +2

    Make a guide for guys on how to talk about feelings (with guys and girls). Like what you mentioned in your previous video.

  • @ZandraKim
    @ZandraKim 9 місяців тому +3

    I’m cis-gender female and 65… I’m here because BuzzFeed posted this today. I can say with certainty that I behaved the same way from lack of confidence almost all my life - it’s not just males that suffer in this way.
    I do believe they may suffer more in some ways than women do, though. Cliché maybe, but the struggle is REAL. Great work, Dargoyaki! 👩🏻‍🦳

    • @Dargoyaki
      @Dargoyaki  9 місяців тому +1

      thank you Zandra :)

  • @goghana92
    @goghana92 Рік тому +1

    Nice Zelda BGM

    • @Dargoyaki
      @Dargoyaki  Рік тому +1

      Nice catch

    • @larad9180
      @larad9180 11 місяців тому

      @@DargoyakiAll the Persona 5 bgm was what I noticed

  • @psychiatry-is-eugenics
    @psychiatry-is-eugenics 9 місяців тому

    Only thing that really matters

  • @lifesnonintendo
    @lifesnonintendo Рік тому +2

    didnt know you're a nanhuarian as well

  • @AbbieChwann
    @AbbieChwann Рік тому +1

    💛

  • @ysngngys7753
    @ysngngys7753 11 місяців тому

    ask urself when is the last time u squatted down to talk to kids (when called for)...

  • @astronightsprincess
    @astronightsprincess Рік тому +1

    are u going to find a corporate SWE job or pursue content creation full time?

  • @jaredlowky
    @jaredlowky 11 місяців тому

    so i guess the only way is the to hit the gym get those gains

    • @larad9180
      @larad9180 11 місяців тому +2

      Not really. Some women like athletic guys, but there are a lot that couldn’t care less about “gains”.

  • @danielleong7067
    @danielleong7067 Рік тому +1

    Eh I nice guy to my pioneers y no reciprocation

    • @Dargoyaki
      @Dargoyaki  Рік тому +1

      you weren't nice when we bought XDNYJF :(

    • @MebiManga
      @MebiManga Рік тому

      @@Dargoyaki need to write down the trauma sia. Painful memory.

  • @xena2shoes
    @xena2shoes 9 місяців тому

    I mean, two things can be true at the same time. You can be genuinely nice with no ulterior motives while being disadvantaged by societal norms. And the solution is not to just be happy with self improvement and be content without a relationship. Sure those things are great and highly recommended but that doesn’t solve the problem which is objectively that men are taught by society that being the unattractive good guy gets you little to no romantic attention while being the attractive asshole gets you plenty of it. That’s why you see all of these pick up artist books giving people advice to “neg” the girl of their interest and not compliment them.

  • @ignatiusparadenceremony9242
    @ignatiusparadenceremony9242 11 місяців тому +1

    Nice guys are like narcissistic like this

  • @laughandbelly
    @laughandbelly Рік тому