Hey Gabor, thank you for making a difference. My daughter Rebekah aka / Becksbt worked as a mental Health worker in Vancouver and I went to visit her last year and we walked down Hastings and I still have these images printed in my heart and in my mind. She left on leave because of the overwhelmed and PTSd. She is such a beautiful soul and finally wrote a book #behind sky’s eye which is a fiction with truth. As here mom living in Montreal, I would love for her to connect with you. She is better today but th support system is lacking for these workers. Sending you love and light. 🙏
We can imagine how impactful that work was.Please tell Rebekah she can tune in to our classes for free on Zoom any time too. We would gladly welcome her. ❤
I so enjoyed this book. I found it after ending a 24 yr marriage to a man that has now come out as gay. His yrs of addiction relapse/recovery I came to understand would probably be my downfall in my own health. Most thankful for this profound info & it is spot on. I’m grateful for my self care mentally,spiritually @ emotionally. My anger did save my life. Ongoing education is my salvation. Blessed 💪🏻👍🏻
We can imagine how difficult that must have been. Thank you for sharing. If you're ever in Miami please join us and if you're not- reach out to us and we can give you access to our classes via Zoom. :)
So grateful Gabor mentioned that typically traumatic events don't have to result in traumatic wounding. People can and do face outrageous disasters and still come out whole due to their spiritual foundation and quality of relationships. Folks having gone off to war can go home with or without PTSD and addiction. Some can drop addiction right away, which to me means they weren't trapped but in a holding pattern of protection until they could get to safety and familiarity. Perhaps their foundation wasn't quite set. Point is, relationships are what direct our orientations and attention. Help whomever is on your right and on your left without picking and choosing. No one will be left behind including you.
Thank you, Dr. Mate & Hope4Life. And to kitty Mate for volunteering your assistance to Daddy Mate to remind everyone that non-human animal companionship is also a well-proven, successful treatment for our woes & illnesses, and that seeing a “shark-fin” cat tail floating across the screen once in awhile is one of the best dopamine hits.😄😊🥰 May all beings, human & non-human animals, and our dear planet be free from suffering & given all the rights & care necessary to aid in this. ✊🐾💚
By the time physical symptoms of trauma show up in ways that others can discern; can see for themselves plain as day, that is the indication that those suffering need help from their communities. Symptoms are a red flag outside of ourselves as a failsafe for assistance! I no one does intervene, not only will the initial individual suffer but so will those who turn a blind eye whether through ignorance or willfulness.
Yes we do. We have Support Groups every Thursday from 7pm - 9:30pm and Life Classes every Saturday from 9am - 12:30pm. You can learn more at www.hope4lifemiami.org Are you in Miami?
Can someone please explain to me why a psychiatrist would tell me they dont believe in ptsd when in relationship with a young man potentially with psycosis canabis induced
Hogy tetszik lenni! Én már írtam neked előbb! My Hungarian is not that good. My parents went to Venezuela when I was a 10 month old baby.! so when I came to this country in 1963! I did not speak English! And I could not learn it it took me almost 5 years to learn some English! I stayed with my aunt and uncle! Because we had the! And I have been bullied and abused by them and my cousins! My cousins used to tell me if I was playing with my private parts! But he said in a very rude nasty way! I was always very naïve and innocent! Because I'm sure I have! ADHD! And I also think that I have autism! Because I cannot stand Noise! Noise for me is torture. I have to wear something in my ears.! I had a friend who told me they made earplugs according to her ear shape! I was looking for so desperately! Almost 14 years of torture my apartment! And I think I also have mini strokes because I feel it in my left side of my head! Is very sensitive I cannot lay on the left side! Because it hurts horribly! And I also have Pain on my side when I lay down on the left side! I feel my heart beating so hard! So I don't know what this is! But also my two daughters are abusing me. Bullying me harassing me.! and this makes my anxiety even worse! And many times I said I wish I was never born! My life is a living hell! And now more than ever because! Everything started with the Covid! And! Because my daughter told all my friends that I was an evil mother! No one speaks to me! I am so lonely and alone! I have nobody to support me my anxiety and my need for love! Please answer me! I would appreciate it. You are so incredibly great about this situation.! and I never know how to say no! can you help me? My daughter asked me to watch the kids.! but before that she belittled me, she treated me like a piece of garbage! So the next day she needed me to watch the kids! she was going to a place where her friends could babysit! what happened? I didn't want to do it because she cursed the hell out of her mother who gave her life and then she wrote me.: other grandmas are so happy to babysit their grandkids! She didn't realize that she hurt me so much that I really didn't want to go anymore! And her children are very disrespectful with me! Treat me with disrespect and anger! And like I'm an invisible person! I gave everything to my kids my time my love my money I always said when you're not about me anymore! So I took care of them! And I also took care of my grandkids! And I'm full of injuries! Because I was watching the kids so they wouldn't get hurt! But I didn't take care of me! so now on anxiety, I have a lot of broken fractured bones in my body! Please help me! Please I beg you! I love you szeretlek sokat😢❤😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Gabor is helping me understand my childhood. I am 64 and still trying to recover
Truly grateful, indeed.
💜
He is very amazing.
I love Gabor mate ❤pls give him a Nobel price award 🎉 he has helped so many of us
YES!!! We agree! He deserves a Nobel peace price indeed!
Hey Gabor, thank you for making a difference. My daughter Rebekah aka / Becksbt worked as a mental Health worker in Vancouver and I went to visit her last year and we walked down Hastings and I still have these images printed in my heart and in my mind.
She left on leave because of the overwhelmed and PTSd.
She is such a beautiful soul and finally wrote a book
#behind sky’s eye which is a fiction with truth.
As here mom living in Montreal, I would love for her to connect with you.
She is better today but th support system is lacking for these workers.
Sending you love and light. 🙏
We can imagine how impactful that work was.Please tell Rebekah she can tune in to our classes for free on Zoom any time too. We would gladly welcome her. ❤
I so enjoyed this book. I found it after ending a 24 yr marriage to a man that has now come out as gay.
His yrs of addiction relapse/recovery I came to understand would probably be my downfall in my own health.
Most thankful for this profound info & it is spot on. I’m grateful for my self care mentally,spiritually @ emotionally.
My anger did save my life.
Ongoing education is my salvation.
Blessed 💪🏻👍🏻
We can imagine how difficult that must have been. Thank you for sharing. If you're ever in Miami please join us and if you're not- reach out to us and we can give you access to our classes via Zoom. :)
Gabor Maté is the best ❤
Yes!!!
I was an awesome experience
having Dr. Gabor Mate at Hope4lifemiami .
Thanks , thanks, thanks .I love you and I bless you.paty8a
Yes it was! thank you for coming!
So grateful Gabor mentioned that typically traumatic events don't have to result in traumatic wounding.
People can and do face outrageous disasters and still come out whole due to their spiritual foundation and quality of relationships.
Folks having gone off to war can go home with or without PTSD and addiction. Some can drop addiction right away, which to me means they weren't trapped but in a holding pattern of protection until they could get to safety and familiarity. Perhaps their foundation wasn't quite set.
Point is, relationships are what direct our orientations and attention.
Help whomever is on your right and on your left without picking and choosing. No one will be left behind including you.
Thank you, Dr. Mate & Hope4Life. And to kitty Mate for volunteering your assistance to Daddy Mate to remind everyone that non-human animal companionship is also a well-proven, successful treatment for our woes & illnesses, and that seeing a “shark-fin” cat tail floating across the screen once in awhile is one of the best dopamine hits.😄😊🥰 May all beings, human & non-human animals, and our dear planet be free from suffering & given all the rights & care necessary to aid in this. ✊🐾💚
Thank you! And yes - animals are so wonderful!
I am pleased to know the change is coming
It's happening every week at Hope4Life in the lives of all the people that attend. It's a privilege to witness!
@@Hope4LifeMiamiI hope to have the opportunity someday
By the time physical symptoms of trauma show up in ways that others can discern; can see for themselves plain as day, that is the indication that those suffering need help from their communities. Symptoms are a red flag outside of ourselves as a failsafe for assistance! I no one does intervene, not only will the initial individual suffer but so will those who turn a blind eye whether through ignorance or willfulness.
No I’m in central Ma. I’m thinking about finding a trauma specialist
❤Gabor Mate MD PhD CM ❤
♡
Do you have on line meetings as Hope4lifeMiami?
Yes we do. We have Support Groups every Thursday from 7pm - 9:30pm and Life Classes every Saturday from 9am - 12:30pm. You can learn more at www.hope4lifemiami.org Are you in Miami?
How do-treat trauma
In many ways - but definitely with counseling alongside being in a healing community. Are you in Miami?
Can someone please explain to me why a psychiatrist would tell me they dont believe in ptsd when in relationship with a young man potentially with psycosis canabis induced
We are sorry you were told that. It doesn't sound like very wise counsel.
Hogy tetszik lenni! Én már írtam neked előbb! My Hungarian is not that good. My parents went to Venezuela when I was a 10 month old baby.! so when I came to this country in 1963! I did not speak English! And I could not learn it it took me almost 5 years to learn some English! I stayed with my aunt and uncle! Because we had the! And I have been bullied and abused by them and my cousins! My cousins used to tell me if I was playing with my private parts! But he said in a very rude nasty way! I was always very naïve and innocent! Because I'm sure I have! ADHD! And I also think that I have autism! Because I cannot stand Noise! Noise for me is torture. I have to wear something in my ears.! I had a friend who told me they made earplugs according to her ear shape! I was looking for so desperately! Almost 14 years of torture my apartment! And I think I also have mini strokes because I feel it in my left side of my head! Is very sensitive I cannot lay on the left side! Because it hurts horribly! And I also have Pain on my side when I lay down on the left side! I feel my heart beating so hard! So I don't know what this is! But also my two daughters are abusing me. Bullying me harassing me.! and this makes my anxiety even worse! And many times I said I wish I was never born! My life is a living hell! And now more than ever because! Everything started with the Covid! And! Because my daughter told all my friends that I was an evil mother! No one speaks to me! I am so lonely and alone! I have nobody to support me my anxiety and my need for love! Please answer me! I would appreciate it. You are so incredibly great about this situation.! and I never know how to say no! can you help me? My daughter asked me to watch the kids.! but before that she belittled me, she treated me like a piece of garbage! So the next day she needed me to watch the kids! she was going to a place where her friends could babysit! what happened? I didn't want to do it because she cursed the hell out of her mother who gave her life and then she wrote me.: other grandmas are so happy to babysit their grandkids! She didn't realize that she hurt me so much that I really didn't want to go anymore! And her children are very disrespectful with me! Treat me with disrespect and anger! And like I'm an invisible person! I gave everything to my kids my time my love my money I always said when you're not about me anymore! So I took care of them! And I also took care of my grandkids! And I'm full of injuries! Because I was watching the kids so they wouldn't get hurt! But I didn't take care of me! so now on anxiety, I have a lot of broken fractured bones in my body! Please help me! Please I beg you! I love you szeretlek sokat😢❤😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢