This only works out when you marry your best friend. Ladies/gentlemen marry your best friend. Otherwise life abroad will be hell. Some men think they’re smarter but end up making wrong choices with money which affects us ladies.
Lovely couple and insightful video.❤ Tochi, I so much love your husband's perspective and attitudes towards these issues....he also has a balanced view and opinions over different situations... not overlooking other possibilities outside of his own standpoint. That shows how open-minded, accommodating and considerate he is. You guys are a great team together ❤
I think it is a question of understanding which is lacking in many relationships. Some people actually argue about that who paid for relaxer today and who will pay for shampoo tomorrow. I appreciate your honesty in this video, well done you two👍🏻
When couple understand each other genuinely without hypocritical love, life would become meaningful. I encourage you guys to keep working like a team while facing future challenges.. wishing all the best..
This is an honest video and lots of value too. I feel dragged in the joint account part because my husband is angry I don't pay money in our joint account. Lesson learnt: don't eat your tomorrow.
So many women are reckless with spending money, especially when she doesn’t sweat for it; so I don’t blame men that keep their earnings from their wives. I feel it boils down to peculiarity of individuals. I want to marry a woman I can trust and be totally transparent with.
I like the way you reiterate the need to make sure you start from the beginning.!! Make sure to marry the right person for you!! Prevention is better than cure!! Always! I tell unmarried people this! Don’t shoot before you ask, ask before your shoot!.
Which tracker are you using to track how you have spent.? . My husband and i we do things openly and plan our budget, mybe that tracker will help us in saving
😃😃😃😀 that supprise got me, that me and my Husband i can't supprise him because we anything he do i know, anything i do he know so were is the supprise wanna come from 😀😃 which I think is the best oo, it has been working well for me, home were there is secret that's not home
I'm loving this topic, why it just shows you're best friends, you're transparent to each other...which to be honest I have seen in this abroad a lot of people are fighting, one tries to be smart the other, My goodness it's just crazy!...Keep encouraging us guys, love your channel 🙏🏽🙌🏾
Oooh, I'm sorry to say...being a giver is good. But just giving friends and relatives, not thinking about his own family....I'm seeing a problem there. As husband and wife, you should talk about it.
All these is smooth because both of you money. It couldn't have worked if 1 person has money. I cant preach this enough pls ensure your sister's have money before they marry!!!!
Nice video👍...ve seen situations where the wife earned more, supported the husband and the man felt inferior and changed his behavior and got used to the wife spending more like it's her responsibility and when the man started earning little he secretly gave to his relatives.....so guess depends on the individual
This only works out when you marry your best friend. Ladies/gentlemen marry your best friend. Otherwise life abroad will be hell. Some men think they’re smarter but end up making wrong choices with money which affects us ladies.
True, very important
I learnt a lot from this. Thank you for sharing.
Lovely couple and insightful video.❤
Tochi, I so much love your husband's perspective and attitudes towards these issues....he also has a balanced view and opinions over different situations... not overlooking other possibilities outside of his own standpoint. That shows how open-minded, accommodating and considerate he is.
You guys are a great team together ❤
Thank you so much!!
Tochi and hubby, thanks for sharing...
God bless you more...
God knows I needed this. God bless you Tochi.
Thank you dear
I think it is a question of understanding which is lacking in many relationships. Some people actually argue about that who paid for relaxer today and who will pay for shampoo tomorrow. I appreciate your honesty in this video, well done you two👍🏻
Thanks Mama 😊
I like the teamwork between the two of you
When couple understand each other genuinely without hypocritical love, life would become meaningful. I encourage you guys to keep working like a team while facing future challenges.. wishing all the best..
Thank you so much
Very important topic, thank you for taking the time to film this. You guys are too perfect oh, not a single arguement on finance?!👍
Transparency is such an important aspect in any marriage directly linked to finances most times. Very educative
Very important
First to watch
Thanx for the good job
😁
This is an honest video and lots of value too. I feel dragged in the joint account part because my husband is angry I don't pay money in our joint account. Lesson learnt: don't eat your tomorrow.
Hehe The joint account thing eh
The most important thing I see is that you are both financially disciplined. Well-done guys
Thank you tochi..
Will like you to make a video on how you set up your lightening and camera for good video quality
Sure. That will be in my vlog channel. Tochi and company
God bless you tochi I and hubby are planning finances even before coming
Tochi you are really a Darling
Thanks for always being you
May your love continue to wax strong Amen
Amen. Thanks darling
I like that point mrs Tochi, is good to act broke sometimes honestly, thanks for sharing
this is wisdom and rich people mindset
Thanks for watching
This working for us in my home, every money that come into the home is everybody money. Intentional towards financial spending is nice and team work 😅
Great job!
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 ati she's in it with me. Funny but truthful
Thank you for this video Tochi👍👍
You're welcome Olayinka
@@TochiEsther💚💚
Fair and Considerate is the word...
Great, your husband is a focused man
This is how many successful couple live especially in abroad
Very nice one guys....❤
Thank you 😀
😂😂😂 the surprise part is same with you guys and I and my husband.
Haha it's not easy for someone you love with to pull something out of the blue without them knowing
Weldone guys. God bless you
Very interesting video..thanks for sharing this❤
Glad you enjoyed it
God bless you two finances are not an easy topic in most marriages
Yeah quite a sensitive topic.
So many women are reckless with spending money, especially when she doesn’t sweat for it; so I don’t blame men that keep their earnings from their wives.
I feel it boils down to peculiarity of individuals. I want to marry a woman I can trust and be totally transparent with.
Aww good morning guys
Good morning/afternoon/evening.... Madame Tochi & Hubby
I like the way you reiterate the need to make sure you start from the beginning.!! Make sure to marry the right person for you!! Prevention is better than cure!! Always! I tell unmarried people this! Don’t shoot before you ask, ask before your shoot!.
Hahaha, he said you don’t know how to plan the surprise😅! We need to learn how to finally achieve this surprise.😀
Thank you for the video! Please which app or platform do you use to budget and track your spendings. Thanks xxx
Which tracker are you using to track how you have spent.? . My husband and i we do things openly and plan our budget, mybe that tracker will help us in saving
Try money dashboard
Thanks toochi
😃😃😃😀 that supprise got me, that me and my Husband i can't supprise him because we anything he do i know, anything i do he know so were is the supprise wanna come from 😀😃 which I think is the best oo, it has been working well for me, home were there is secret that's not home
True but it’s good to surprise them once in a while
I'm loving this topic, why it just shows you're best friends, you're transparent to each other...which to be honest I have seen in this abroad a lot of people are fighting, one tries to be smart the other, My goodness it's just crazy!...Keep encouraging us guys, love your channel 🙏🏽🙌🏾
What if your Husband is a giver that gives all he has to friends & relatives now depending on you because he knows that you are earning money....
Oooh, I'm sorry to say...being a giver is good. But just giving friends and relatives, not thinking about his own family....I'm seeing a problem there. As husband and wife, you should talk about it.
All these is smooth because both of you money. It couldn't have worked if 1 person has money. I cant preach this enough pls ensure your sister's have money before they marry!!!!
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Dozie, I enjoy your personality. I thank God Almighty you share the same vision with your spouse. I 💕 the way you interact. Keep it up!
Thanks so much
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Which app do you use to track
Try money dashboard
@@TochiEsther Thank You T
Nice video
Awesome couples
Is Good to have Dozie as a husband it get why.
14:58
My situation RN
Tochi you are so sweet.
Pls how much will I pay to partner with you to advertise my company
Send me an email please
You gotta be more creative! Listen, ask for a cash back at the grocery. Repeat if necessary and the. Spend the cash for a surprise!
🎉🎉🎉🎉
How come you and your hubby have my middle name and maiden name at the same time. Tochi Dozie 😂❤️
No way!
😂😂😂 for real
Nice video👍...ve seen situations where the wife earned more, supported the husband and the man felt inferior and changed his behavior and got used to the wife spending more like it's her responsibility and when the man started earning little he secretly gave to his relatives.....so guess depends on the individual
Can you imagine. People need to have these conversations and ensure they're on the same page
@@TochiEsther Yea true
Hmmm my fear right now
Healthy finance= healthy s**
What do you guys do? Work I mean
Don’t eat your seed!!
Don't eat your tomorrow today 🤔