What We Earn & How We Manage Our Money As Immigrant Couples In The Uk, Real Talk!

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  • What We Earn & How We Manage Our Money As Immigrant Couples In The Uk, Real Talk!
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  • @lydiasemakula2951
    @lydiasemakula2951 Рік тому +17

    This only works out when you marry your best friend. Ladies/gentlemen marry your best friend. Otherwise life abroad will be hell. Some men think they’re smarter but end up making wrong choices with money which affects us ladies.

  • @AfricanFhairlady
    @AfricanFhairlady Рік тому +2

    Very important topic, thank you for taking the time to film this. You guys are too perfect oh, not a single arguement on finance?!👍

  • @walterbanda
    @walterbanda Рік тому +2

    I like the teamwork between the two of you

  • @preciousese5146
    @preciousese5146 Рік тому +2

    Tochi and hubby, thanks for sharing...
    God bless you more...

  • @collinsekeneonyekachi9270
    @collinsekeneonyekachi9270 Рік тому +2

    Lovely couple and insightful video.❤
    Tochi, I so much love your husband's perspective and attitudes towards these issues....he also has a balanced view and opinions over different situations... not overlooking other possibilities outside of his own standpoint. That shows how open-minded, accommodating and considerate he is.
    You guys are a great team together ❤

  • @osemekamercymary8525
    @osemekamercymary8525 Рік тому +2

    Thank you tochi..
    Will like you to make a video on how you set up your lightening and camera for good video quality

    • @TochiEsther
      @TochiEsther  Рік тому

      Sure. That will be in my vlog channel. Tochi and company

  • @anngbenedio7770
    @anngbenedio7770 Рік тому +5

    God knows I needed this. God bless you Tochi.

  • @lualih
    @lualih Рік тому +2

    Transparency is such an important aspect in any marriage directly linked to finances most times. Very educative

  • @mindbuilders6147
    @mindbuilders6147 Рік тому +1

    The most important thing I see is that you are both financially disciplined. Well-done guys

  • @glorymonye4745
    @glorymonye4745 Рік тому +1

    God bless you tochi I and hubby are planning finances even before coming

  • @yourtastelifestyle1827
    @yourtastelifestyle1827 Рік тому +3

    I think it is a question of understanding which is lacking in many relationships. Some people actually argue about that who paid for relaxer today and who will pay for shampoo tomorrow. I appreciate your honesty in this video, well done you two👍🏻

  • @pelumipelumi904
    @pelumipelumi904 Рік тому

    Weldone guys. God bless you

  • @gideonayodele2914
    @gideonayodele2914 Рік тому +2

    When couple understand each other genuinely without hypocritical love, life would become meaningful. I encourage you guys to keep working like a team while facing future challenges.. wishing all the best..

  • @dianamawuse3844
    @dianamawuse3844 Рік тому +3

    First to watch
    Thanx for the good job

  • @ogomsseries
    @ogomsseries Рік тому +2

    This is an honest video and lots of value too. I feel dragged in the joint account part because my husband is angry I don't pay money in our joint account. Lesson learnt: don't eat your tomorrow.

  • @ChatWithPriscy
    @ChatWithPriscy Рік тому +2

    Tochi you are really a Darling
    Thanks for always being you
    May your love continue to wax strong Amen

  • @cherishtv4691
    @cherishtv4691 Рік тому +1

    I like that point mrs Tochi, is good to act broke sometimes honestly, thanks for sharing

  • @VlogsbyOvo
    @VlogsbyOvo Рік тому +1

    Very interesting video..thanks for sharing this❤

  • @INSPIREDMEALS
    @INSPIREDMEALS Рік тому +1

    Aww good morning guys

  • @christabelajaero7983
    @christabelajaero7983 Рік тому

    Thank you for the video! Please which app or platform do you use to budget and track your spendings. Thanks xxx

  • @walterbanda
    @walterbanda Рік тому +1

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 ati she's in it with me. Funny but truthful

  • @bmsolayinkaafolabi
    @bmsolayinkaafolabi Рік тому +2

    Thank you for this video Tochi👍👍

  • @druniqueseries
    @druniqueseries Рік тому

    Fair and Considerate is the word...

  • @yourtastelifestyle1827
    @yourtastelifestyle1827 Рік тому

    Hahaha, he said you don’t know how to plan the surprise😅! We need to learn how to finally achieve this surprise.😀

  • @opara.S
    @opara.S Рік тому

    Thanks toochi

  • @glorymonye4745
    @glorymonye4745 Рік тому +3

    😂😂😂 the surprise part is same with you guys and I and my husband.

    • @TochiEsther
      @TochiEsther  Рік тому +1

      Haha it's not easy for someone you love with to pull something out of the blue without them knowing

  • @oliviatochi1626
    @oliviatochi1626 Рік тому +1

    Very nice one guys....❤

  • @nickzzelectrical
    @nickzzelectrical Рік тому +1

    Great, your husband is a focused man

  • @walterbanda
    @walterbanda Рік тому +1

    Good morning/afternoon/evening.... Madame Tochi & Hubby

  • @melissamoyo4855
    @melissamoyo4855 Рік тому +1

    God bless you two finances are not an easy topic in most marriages

  • @julietobeleagu6211
    @julietobeleagu6211 Рік тому +1

    This working for us in my home, every money that come into the home is everybody money. Intentional towards financial spending is nice and team work 😅

  • @oliviatochi1626
    @oliviatochi1626 Рік тому +1

    This is how many successful couple live especially in abroad

  • @oluebubemuoneme
    @oluebubemuoneme Рік тому

    Nice video

  • @ijeomai3746
    @ijeomai3746 Рік тому

    I like the way you reiterate the need to make sure you start from the beginning.!! Make sure to marry the right person for you!! Prevention is better than cure!! Always! I tell unmarried people this! Don’t shoot before you ask, ask before your shoot!.

  • @joemeka
    @joemeka Рік тому +1

    So many women are reckless with spending money, especially when she doesn’t sweat for it; so I don’t blame men that keep their earnings from their wives.
    I feel it boils down to peculiarity of individuals. I want to marry a woman I can trust and be totally transparent with.

  • @onemediatv2170
    @onemediatv2170 Рік тому

    Awesome couples

  • @Shamz215
    @Shamz215 Рік тому +1

    Which tracker are you using to track how you have spent.? . My husband and i we do things openly and plan our budget, mybe that tracker will help us in saving

  • @patiencemtetwa
    @patiencemtetwa Рік тому +1

    I'm loving this topic, why it just shows you're best friends, you're transparent to each other...which to be honest I have seen in this abroad a lot of people are fighting, one tries to be smart the other, My goodness it's just crazy!...Keep encouraging us guys, love your channel 🙏🏽🙌🏾

  • @godsfavourchannel7888
    @godsfavourchannel7888 Рік тому +2

    🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @andreananamataylor3948
    @andreananamataylor3948 Рік тому

    Tochi you are so sweet.

  • @Jaay2022
    @Jaay2022 Рік тому +1

    14:58
    My situation RN

  • @mercyabbah6475
    @mercyabbah6475 Рік тому +2

    First comment

    • @marshaladiole6133
      @marshaladiole6133 Рік тому +2

      Dozie, I enjoy your personality. I thank God Almighty you share the same vision with your spouse. I 💕 the way you interact. Keep it up!

    • @TochiEsther
      @TochiEsther  Рік тому

      Thanks so much

  • @bennyomoedo3169
    @bennyomoedo3169 Рік тому +1

    😃😃😃😀 that supprise got me, that me and my Husband i can't supprise him because we anything he do i know, anything i do he know so were is the supprise wanna come from 😀😃 which I think is the best oo, it has been working well for me, home were there is secret that's not home

    • @TochiEsther
      @TochiEsther  Рік тому +1

      True but it’s good to surprise them once in a while

  • @dozieogbudimkpa1460
    @dozieogbudimkpa1460 Рік тому

    Is Good to have Dozie as a husband it get why.

  • @Jaay2022
    @Jaay2022 Рік тому +2

    26:27
    Which app do you use to track

  • @kingelting3295
    @kingelting3295 Рік тому +1

    Pls how much will I pay to partner with you to advertise my company

  • @oluwatosinmichael1527
    @oluwatosinmichael1527 Рік тому +2

    All these is smooth because both of you money. It couldn't have worked if 1 person has money. I cant preach this enough pls ensure your sister's have money before they marry!!!!

  • @Crybaby-cz8et
    @Crybaby-cz8et Рік тому

    Healthy finance= healthy s**

  • @ijeomai3746
    @ijeomai3746 Рік тому

    You gotta be more creative! Listen, ask for a cash back at the grocery. Repeat if necessary and the. Spend the cash for a surprise!

  • @oliviatochi1626
    @oliviatochi1626 Рік тому +1

    How come you and your hubby have my middle name and maiden name at the same time. Tochi Dozie 😂❤️

  • @user-pf4ij7vr5b
    @user-pf4ij7vr5b Рік тому +2

    Nice video👍...ve seen situations where the wife earned more, supported the husband and the man felt inferior and changed his behavior and got used to the wife spending more like it's her responsibility and when the man started earning little he secretly gave to his relatives.....so guess depends on the individual

    • @TochiEsther
      @TochiEsther  Рік тому +1

      Can you imagine. People need to have these conversations and ensure they're on the same page

    • @user-pf4ij7vr5b
      @user-pf4ij7vr5b Рік тому

      @@TochiEsther Yea true

    • @rosemensah8980
      @rosemensah8980 Рік тому

      Hmmm my fear right now

  • @olumbaesther5624
    @olumbaesther5624 Рік тому +3

    What if your Husband is a giver that gives all he has to friends & relatives now depending on you because he knows that you are earning money....

    • @patiencemtetwa
      @patiencemtetwa Рік тому +4

      Oooh, I'm sorry to say...being a giver is good. But just giving friends and relatives, not thinking about his own family....I'm seeing a problem there. As husband and wife, you should talk about it.

  • @ijeomai3746
    @ijeomai3746 Рік тому

    Don’t eat your seed!!

  • @akambenancy4917
    @akambenancy4917 Рік тому

    Don't eat your tomorrow today 🤔

  • @ggold4825
    @ggold4825 Рік тому +1

    What do you guys do? Work I mean