Therapies from a parent’s perspective

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  • @sanjanapatil321
    @sanjanapatil321 9 місяців тому +4

    Absolutely right! These therapies are really draining... physically, emotionally and FINANCIALLY..

  • @abdullahsdiary3591
    @abdullahsdiary3591 9 місяців тому +7

    Parents especially mothers are best therapist in the world for their child, how a mother knows his child any therapist couldn't know and understand. Plus how your child is comfortable with you he won't be comfortable with any of the therapist. You only need to involve your child with you in each and every task that you do plus pour love and care. Make friendship with him/her. You'll see changes ❤

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  9 місяців тому +3

      Beautifully explained 🌸

    • @nanditac9225
      @nanditac9225 9 місяців тому +2

      I agree. But we have to make ourselves aware how to train the child , what are the issues he is facing, why the issues are there , how to handle,what diet is best for child, how is the gut health, what are th deficiencies & how they are affecting the child etc. Only love can't make the child independent,socially acceptable & manage himself on his own. We have to learn thousands of tricks and the science behind the issues to permanently treat .

    • @abdullahsdiary3591
      @abdullahsdiary3591 9 місяців тому

      @@nanditac9225 that's true. We must assessment for our child regularly and educate ourselves. Mn just ye keh rhi k agr koi therapy nhe lay rha to b hmen judge nhe krna chahya .. r therapy leny k bd m 30% efforts therapist ki hain 70% parent's ki

    • @nanditac9225
      @nanditac9225 9 місяців тому

      @@abdullahsdiary3591 yes... currently Maine bahar se therapy Lena band kar dia hai ek saal ho gaya . Therapist parents ko educate karne me madat nhi karte sirf paise k piche bhagte hai ye Mera experience hai. Ab hum dono hi bacche ka full time therapist hai.

  • @RiyaBanerjeeBiswas
    @RiyaBanerjeeBiswas 9 місяців тому +8

    I really appreciate your efforts to make people understand that therapies are just guidance. I too am a mother of a autistic child and he still can't speak.

  • @shakeenida
    @shakeenida 9 місяців тому +1

    how to engage my kid who plays at therapies but not at home

  • @Halima360withhs
    @Halima360withhs 9 місяців тому

    Aap ne viraj ko camomile tea kaisy start krai thi age and quantity plz guide

  • @RiyaBanerjeeBiswas
    @RiyaBanerjeeBiswas 9 місяців тому +1

    Can you please share how to start with command following as my son still don't give me eye contact.

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  9 місяців тому +2

      When children dont give eye contact not always it means that they are not listening. Command following will come with show and tell do what you are saying when you say sit down u need to show how to sit down and ask someone to prompt the child from behind to do the same

    • @RiyaBanerjeeBiswas
      @RiyaBanerjeeBiswas 9 місяців тому

      @@aforautism6808 thank you so much 💓

  • @Raavya145
    @Raavya145 9 місяців тому +1

    Ma'am my child is showing stubborn behaviour when i make him to sit for study. Wo padha nahi chahta jabki uska catching power achha hai.or fir mai kafi aggressive ho jati hu ma'am i can't understand how to develop his interest in study ma'am . Wo Viraj ke barabar hi hai or he also have sister who is 1.5year . now i m facing difficulty to teach him .

    • @nanditac9225
      @nanditac9225 9 місяців тому +1

      Due to season change bacche me issue s aati hai....aap jo padana chahte ho uska teaching tariqa change karke dekho ya jo subject me abhi interest nhi le rha hai wo filhal bandh karke ya bacche ka sitting area change karke try karke dekh sakte hai.

    • @Raavya145
      @Raavya145 9 місяців тому

      @@nanditac9225 Sure ma'am
      Will try

  • @UshaRath586
    @UshaRath586 9 місяців тому +1

    Very true.i totally agree to this.u r an inspiration.

  • @cherylmathias-dh2tz
    @cherylmathias-dh2tz 9 місяців тому +1

    Hi dear how do u treat abstract things to ur child like pain or hunger etc things

    • @harpreetrait3260
      @harpreetrait3260 9 місяців тому +1

      I have same question. Not sure how to understand if he is hungry or in pain

  • @mandalagricultureofficer7311
    @mandalagricultureofficer7311 2 місяці тому

    Waiting for your reply about viraj diagnosis and his improvement with home plan

  • @joy88122
    @joy88122 9 місяців тому

    Hi..How are you managing therapies with PDA child.

  • @ishadas850
    @ishadas850 9 місяців тому

    Hello mam....can you please give guidelines ki ghar therapy session kaise krein....kindly make videos to guide.

  • @harmmeetk777
    @harmmeetk777 9 місяців тому

    Hello mam screen time kaise band kare...bina screen time ko kha utilize kare...bachhe ghar me involved hi nhi hote

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  9 місяців тому +1

      Ap skates cycling painting clay dough shape making, cutting shapes by try to use scissors, book reading, flash card use for story building drawing with your child on canvas board , involving in cooking , making bed and there are i dont know how many things which can be done. Dekhiye bache agar easily involve hote focus hota cheeze aram se karlete fir ye autism nai hota . Autism hai isiliye ye sab level pe laane ke liye roz cheeze try karni padti hai mujhe char sal laggaye hain roz sab cheeze try karte hue but ye samjh mein araha hai ke daily practise se ek level pe reach kia jasakta hai

    • @amandafernandajulia
      @amandafernandajulia 9 місяців тому

      There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo UA-cam channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions

  • @bushrarashid4670
    @bushrarashid4670 8 місяців тому

    Mein in sub cheezon say tung a gai thi normal life mein normal cheezen hug cuddling apny emotions say us ko samjhaya mein ye nai kehti k wo independent ho gia but start Kur diya hai

  • @poonamgaikwad1900
    @poonamgaikwad1900 3 місяці тому

    Thank you ❤ Aaj isi thought me uljhi Hui thi

  • @chaitrikasground9676
    @chaitrikasground9676 4 місяці тому

    Aapne Kitna time tak therapies di h viraj ko mam

  • @Abhisworld153
    @Abhisworld153 9 місяців тому +1

    Recently my son assessment mei moderate autism bola hi
    I'm so worried
    He is 4.7 years now
    Minimum speech hi
    Ek kit diya, all activities hi for his age
    He is 4.7 years but 1 and half year back hai
    Pediatrician bola

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  9 місяців тому +2

      Thats alright dont panick usually with efforts and work kids learn and come to a stage where autism can be managed.

    • @Asmatahirkhan-sb1tt
      @Asmatahirkhan-sb1tt 9 місяців тому

      Thank u❤

  • @Ashaprabha-p8l
    @Ashaprabha-p8l 9 місяців тому

    Its really draining process, physically emotionally and finincially pls pls treat this children and parents properly this is humble request from my side. As a parents we need to go through so much from outside. Dont judge parents or child by seeing certain things if u cant help just just stay away mothers know wat to do!!! Dont put anykind of pressure on them wat to do and wat not to do, specially mothers as to suffer so much with families also. This kind of children shows improvement only when around them there should be good environment and when child parents are happy!!!

    • @amandafernandajulia
      @amandafernandajulia 9 місяців тому

      There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo UA-cam channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions

  • @sarikaroy7342
    @sarikaroy7342 9 місяців тому

    Thanks you so much for your correct guidance.

  • @nandhinipalani9259
    @nandhinipalani9259 8 місяців тому

    Mam put English subtitles mami don't know Hindi

  • @bushrarashid4670
    @bushrarashid4670 8 місяців тому

    Hats off u is level p Bolna esa laga k AP Meray sath kharhi ho same situation same things mein love from Pakistan bcz my child have autism ghur p hi kurti hn jub jub session k liye gai yahi bola mujhy o ho itna time waste Kur diya

  • @swatisingh2548
    @swatisingh2548 9 місяців тому

    Really appreciate thanku so much

  • @mahimasharma610
    @mahimasharma610 9 місяців тому

    You are right at least someone pick this topic. People look at person in very weird way who is not taking therepies from outside it seems like mother's effort n her pation to work for her child independently is worthless. It's very sad

  • @ShahEumi
    @ShahEumi 8 місяців тому

    Yup therapies are so draining. Us k bajaye parental training pe focus hona chaieye.

  • @nasheenzeba2788
    @nasheenzeba2788 9 місяців тому

    Hello, I watch your every video and it’s truly inspiring.
    I would like to know how did you manage to work wit your kid without taking him for therapy ?
    Especially when your working mom ? Did you kept any care taker to help you in doing therapies at home ?
    Please please 🙏 reply

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  9 місяців тому

      I cant keep a homebased therapist or a help for a very simple reason my son has stranger anxiety he cant accept people whom he dont like or know even for a second, my husband and i both work together for this i take of academics, and husband works on sports and other parts of development, its difficult very draining but now its becoming a habit of doing all the work

  • @sugandhapriya4536
    @sugandhapriya4536 8 місяців тому

    Thank you mam thank you for this video

  • @Jsethi2603
    @Jsethi2603 9 місяців тому +1

    Ina you really helped. Me a lot ,,I want to ask about bio medicine,,but your prebiotics and only fish oil supplement sounds good,,ina apne bilkul thik kaha. We are financially and mentally drained bcoz of these tharapies me and my husband is suffering a lot ,,my boy is same like viraj he looks like him ,,tx for this vedio me bahut guilt me rehti hu ,,I just quit therapies and doing my own work with my child ,,plz tell ABT bio medicine

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  9 місяців тому

      ❤ sorry dear i dont have a fair idea on bio meds as i never gave it to viraj

    • @Jsethi2603
      @Jsethi2603 9 місяців тому

      Tx ina ,,even I'm not in that condition to follow that coz that is so expensive ​@@aforautism6808

    • @USK1307
      @USK1307 9 місяців тому +1

      Dear there are many approaches being spoken about like biomed, functional medicine, allopathy, homeopathic for ASD … what works on the child not really sure… i attended one such session of functional medicine where they assured a parent of 12 yr old that after following their protocol their child will start speaking… I didn’t attend the session further… see there is no definite treatment for ASD as its not a disease but a condition which is there…i have seen homeopathy work on my child for a certain period in terms of trying to calm him … but now not any more… we have to work on our child knowing what is best for him

  • @poojagusain9313
    @poojagusain9313 9 місяців тому

    My daughter is fully independent.. Verbal bhi hai but social skills bhut poor hai.... School mai bhi teachers k sath cooperative nhi karti.,..

    • @nanditac9225
      @nanditac9225 9 місяців тому

      How old is she? Fully independent matlab kya kya kar leti hai ?

    • @amandafernandajulia
      @amandafernandajulia 9 місяців тому

      There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo UA-cam channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions

    • @poojagusain9313
      @poojagusain9313 9 місяців тому

      @@nanditac9225 she is 6 years old..... Mtlb apne daily k kam.... Subh brush, bathing... Kpde phn na... Sab kuch.... Bs study ni psnd.... Dur bhagti h padhai se

  • @preetitomar4933
    @preetitomar4933 9 місяців тому

    Thank you dear....main apni bacchi par bht kam kar ri hu....7 month me non verbal se verbal par agai h....command following sab kuch agaya....bs 2 way conversation ni aya h.....or meltdown v bht h av... agression v......plz guide

    • @chandnijha6790
      @chandnijha6790 9 місяців тому

      Kitne year ki hai apki bachchi??

    • @RiyaBanerjeeBiswas
      @RiyaBanerjeeBiswas 9 місяців тому

      Same here 2 way communication is still a milestone for me

    • @preetitomar4933
      @preetitomar4933 9 місяців тому

      @@chandnijha6790 3.8 year ki......maine research krke khud therapy di ...par man me guilt sa rahta h ki kahi therapy centre na jakar kuch chhut to ni raha......

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  9 місяців тому +1

      @@preetitomar4933aap jo karrahe ho na koi nahi kar sakta ❤❤

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  9 місяців тому +2

      Meltdown is part of autism thoda sa rahega but dheere dheere bache adapt karte krte meltdowns kam honge

  • @SanayaAhmad-t9x
    @SanayaAhmad-t9x 9 місяців тому

    Mamm g thranpi k bare me bataye

  • @mandalagricultureofficer7311
    @mandalagricultureofficer7311 2 місяці тому

    Early intervention is the key....... some people waste their time with out concentrating on child......
    Therapy will definitely help child to be better...
    Don't mislead people Ina

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  2 місяці тому

      I am not misleading some people dont have money to do therapies all they need is a good guidance a homeplan and proper intervention with the child. If you are priviliged enough to drian out money and time on therapies then it doesnt mean all parents have the same condition.. if you ever get time go to an NGO or govt institue where Intellectually disabled children’s parents are there and just talk to them yoy will get a full clarity.. this world is more than this dear ..

    • @mandalagricultureofficer7311
      @mandalagricultureofficer7311 2 місяці тому

      @@aforautism6808 have you successfully done with your child without therapies....is he normal now?????
      At what age you started and at what age did he became normal
      Is it virtual autism or classic autism
      Please give proper information

    • @mandalagricultureofficer7311
      @mandalagricultureofficer7311 2 місяці тому

      @@aforautism6808 people are making too much worried that age is key factor
      If therapies not done he will be in same situation for ever

    • @mandalagricultureofficer7311
      @mandalagricultureofficer7311 2 місяці тому

      @@aforautism6808 what to do with this threat

    • @mandalagricultureofficer7311
      @mandalagricultureofficer7311 2 місяці тому

      @@aforautism6808 how about viraj now
      Is he normal

  • @Sakshamdubeycollection1501
    @Sakshamdubeycollection1501 9 місяців тому

    AAP viraj ko koi medisan bhi deti h kya

  • @ferozbinriyaz445
    @ferozbinriyaz445 9 місяців тому

    Yes I agree

  • @ferozbinriyaz445
    @ferozbinriyaz445 9 місяців тому

    👍

  • @parvathybhavya
    @parvathybhavya 9 місяців тому +1

    If u dont know the importance of therapy dont misguide other parents

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  9 місяців тому +4

      I know dear did you even listen to understand what I was saying ! You may have a lot of money a lot of time or maybe are capable enough but autism doesnt know any boundary it happens to kids in remote areas to parents who can’t afford who dont have govt centeres nearby are not even capable to afford shadow teachers! It is important but not all can find good therapist most of them as mint out money ! Also if you are a therapist and commenting this or an autism parents not all parents live the same life as u may be living !

    • @ConfusedBowling-fi9kx
      @ConfusedBowling-fi9kx 9 місяців тому +2

      I agree to you Ina, 100%

    • @ramindians
      @ramindians 9 місяців тому +1

      She is right..Therapies are just like extra tuitions...

  • @nishakiran9350
    @nishakiran9350 9 місяців тому

    Yes very true, i also sent my kid only 15 days and for the last one yr I am doing at home and he has improved a lot.. every time the pathologist changes the diagnosis earlier it was Borderline autism, than ADHD and now OCD and sensory overload..just remove all the screen and give exposure to social and environmental activities. Thanks..also pls guide for sensory integration..he puts his hands on ears only on the cooker whistle and makes noises although it has reduced overtime but now he does it intentionally..

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  9 місяців тому +1

      Pls run through autism therapies at home playlist

    • @nishakiran9350
      @nishakiran9350 9 місяців тому

      @@aforautism6808 thanks dear❤️

    • @amandafernandajulia
      @amandafernandajulia 9 місяців тому

      There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo UA-cam channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions

  • @USK1307
    @USK1307 9 місяців тому +1

    Problem is the nowadays there are so many therapies being told it’s impossible to cover each and every thing…
    Plus there is no financial support from government side … no insurance cover … at all if declared as ASD… totally unfair

  • @mandalagricultureofficer7311
    @mandalagricultureofficer7311 2 місяці тому

    Then don't send your child to school also....ghar mae padhalo Viraj ko.....
    See don't mislead the people to waste their time
    Age of child is key factor

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  2 місяці тому

      Jao jaake homeschooling ka video dekho jahan i shared an update that i am homeschooling my child. Aut agar mujhe mislead karna hi hota na toh ab tak khud k therapy cwnter chala rahi hoti jaise aur logo ne dhanda bana rakha hai youtube se parents ko attract karke apni consultations banane ka. Go get a reality check darling ! World doesnt revolve around you my dear friend there are under privlidged parents, kids who get kicked out of schools due to spectrum, kids who never even got a single chance to attend the school .. sad but people like you will only judge and judge and not be open to understand..

  • @flyjosh73
    @flyjosh73 9 місяців тому

    What you are saying is absolutely correct and hats off to your commendable work with Viraj. Its a personal opinion though the significance of a therapist cannot be denied. Atleast one can take a home program or two sessions a week. Or follow some thera pist on the net. Because doing things with a professional guidance the gains are miraculous.So please find some genuine therapist around.

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  9 місяців тому

      Absolutely but many parents cant take home plans also as travelling to a place 100km away from their place just to go to the right therapist and take their child to get a correct plan can be hectic, and some cant even afford even one session a week because they range from 400rs to 1600 a day . ♥️