When my kid was diagnosed, It made me realize I am autistic aswell. This realization helped me a lot to put myself in his shoes. What ever I am proud of him. He might lag behind in certain areas, But he is better is many others. We as a parent should embrace it. Theres nothing shame in being different. And Mothers don’t make it just your job. They may not be able to express themselves, but they need all the support from all your family members.
More power to you Ina… you are such a big inspiration to me.. whenever I see your video I just get relaxed.. thank you so much for sharing ur thoughts.. and more love to Viraj..❤
Thank you so much Mam aap k video se mujhe himat milti hai Mera beta 4year ka hai aur doctor ne autism bola hai Mai bhut tension thi but ab Mai us per work kr rahi hu
I so so agree with you ina and I feel you. I have been there and processing since September and feel much better. But yes we do waste a lot of time grief which needs to be given to the child.
Hi Ina, I am extremely emotional and sensitive person, from d day of diagnosis, I have cried rivers, breakdown ho jata hai, feel like hugging somebody and telling them why God has choosen me for this. Nobody in my family is supporting even after diagnosis, and my son got ill 10 times in 6 months after Diagnosis. No improvement, I feel lost. Plss pray for me.
I have been there and cried a lot. Just focus on your child and you will get the strength. Improvement is slow so be patient but they can do everything
Hello Ina, My son is 2.9 years old. He speaks two languages. He speaks like please mumma tv on and all. He does not flap or stims. I met many doctors and they say it is not autism. My only concern is that he does not get interested so much in studies. He knows 1 to 10 and a bc , he likes to colour. He eats well and conveys his feelings also. But something is different, like he sometimes wants to do what he feels like doing, and hitting is also there. He plays well with other kids, he knows the concept of turn taking, pointing and all other milestones are also there.
You son is only 2.9 years old. He is so little. its good to know that he has achieve all the mile stone on time. Let him enjoy his childhood time. Do'nt take so much pressure
Hello, can you please suggest a special and inclusive school in delhi/ india and also therapy centre. My daughter is 4 yrs old and i want to come to india
Hi Ina thanks for your informative videos. I take help from your video when i got stuck and its really helpful I want to know which book/ materials do you refer to research on autism
There are plenty of researches uploaded with sample trials on kids on different methods . I draw a common conclusion after reading and applying them ☺️
Thank you so much apne blkul sahi kaha If we try now definitely we will see good progress in 1 month I Have started doing many thing to make my child response to her name and make more eye contact I'm entering into her world and even it been just a week I Have seen progress ❤🎉 Plz pray for me and my daughter that we will get through this very soon
Hiii mam,mera beta 3 sal ka h , use nam se bulane pr response nahi deta kbi kabar deta h,o kisike sath nahi khetala,gol ghumnevali chije use bahot pasand h,har ak toy o gol ghumakar hi khelata h ,bolata b nahi o ,khud gungun karta h ,usne kbi b mammy papa nahi bola ,khud k hi khayalo me rahata h .kya a autism h .pls help mi mam😢😢😢mai bahot stree me hu😢
Stress Mt lijiye...bs ek bar doctor ko jrur dikhaye...mene bhi 4 years ke bad dikhaya ...or mild autism btaya h..bt mene iske liye khud ko pahle se hi prepare bkr rakha ta.. 4 saal tk m bhi you tube m search kr krk apna mental state bigad diya ta... Aap bs ek bar kisi pediatric neurologist ke pas leke jake assessment kta lijiye.wo or ache se guide krege apko
Mam my son 3 years 3 month he can understand few works he can watch tv nearly 1 year he can speak. Some words like amma daddy anna dog say abc 123 tv of. Of so much of change i can see he saw dog mamma dog say mam it will be cure we go to hospital they said brain not development she can say scanning. For brain and medicine sccaning kk mam any problem mam please tell me please reply mam
Sahi acceptance Autism diagnosis is big thing.. Post diagnosis anxiety, denial, negative thoughts come bt after acceptance when parents realise - thy hv wrk hard wid child for improvemnt.. Some dez r gud, some r really bad bcz of challenge bt Waqt badalta - ek sa nhi rehta☺ Primary caregiver mother ko - yoga/ exercise / walk etc apni mental health ki care karni chaiye as most of time mother has to luk after kid - therapy, daily routine etc Gud u did mediation, Reiki for ur health.. Kp spreadin positive words🙌☺🥰
Ina can you suggest my child is 3.10 years old.she has very minimum sensory issue except she has no speech .no meaningful speech .can u suggest as per your learning with Viraj
Mam meri beti thoda recover ho rahi hai words bol rahi hai lekin Bina screen key sirf ek time khana khati aur bf raatko woh rice nai khati dhosa khati hai uska pet nai bhartha aur soti nai theek se afternoon ek ghanta soti hai
Mera beta aggressive bahut ho raha is time one month se.,... Wo ghar se sara saman gusse me fekne lgta.... Smjh nahi aata aise me handle kaise keru.... I so worried
My baby now 3 year old.but i dnt knw he is autism r nt..he was not talking and flapping hands.i dnt knw what to do.i gave two month therapy before one year.and he was not listing.only he hera tv voice.
Normal docters kahate hai ki bachhe ke sath chodho...isliye mai 3 sal thak chup rahi.ab tho vo flapping karte gumte rahate hai.kuch bhi sunatha nahi hai.mujhe kis tara ka therapy Dena hai vo bhi patha nahi.pls mam batavo mujhe
@@AmoghSm-kg8fdap kaha se ho dear, apka beta jo kr rha h we autism ke symptoms hi h, ap ek bar proper assesment krwao, proper assesment ke bad hi dr diagnose kr paynge ki confirm autism hai ya nhi....Ot therapy lagegi, speech therapy bhi lgegi or baki baki Dr ke diagnose pr depend krta hai
Vo rice ke sath kafi cheeze khaleta hai jaise kadi rajma cholay chane aur sabzi mein its shahi panner (only gravy ) and aloo ki sabzi. Rest i make pao bhai often which he likes so he eats the veggies mashed in it . He has a picky eating habit of not eating anything in other utensils which are not familiar to him. So if we are in a restaurant there has to be a similar looking plate.
@@aforautism6808 okk actually mera beta sab khata tha but woh bimar huya uske bad usne khana chod kafi cheze khata but indian food kum khata hai ek tarah se try ve nahi karta toh koi tipis hai apke
Hlo ma,am mera bacha 4 saal ka hai pata ni autism hai ya Nahi do teen. Jagha dekhaya koi adhd batat hai koi mild autism so I know to proper way what is it
Hi m also a mother of a child of 11yrs old child of autism. I followed your vedioes very recently....you are younger than me but still you have lot more knowledge than me...m now 38 yrs trying to get another child ,our genetic was Ok but still m afraid of having another one like the 1st one😢
Hi Inna thanks for realizing us our own emotions always. Pls make a video on academics. Like reading kaise सिखाए. My son is going to be in sr. Kg this year and I want to prepare him so that ही can feel comfirtable and confidant in the class
Hi ye bahut zyada depend karta hai bache ke traits pe agar unhe medical support ki zaroorat hai aur adulthood tak unke challenges bat ko samjhne mein aur basic life skills ko poora karne mein rehjate hain toh unhe support chaiye hota hai . As per studies mild autism par jo bache hote hain vo kuch hadd tak independently life lead kar sakte hain but unke bhi kuch challenges hote hain jismein on time and again mental support chaiye hota hai
Exactly...don't waste too much time in the diagnosis label or being in a state of why? You will have 3-4 major areas where you need to work with your kid and that is it.
He was diagnosed at 3.10 and if you are not self learned on any therapies then its always better to understand and gain knowledge how things are done and then start doing those at home. If your child is not comfortable at any center then its better to do things at home . It is scientifically proved that if a child doesnt have the rapport with the person who is helping in activities then they dont prove to be beneficial rather they can create anxiety issues
Every video of your makes me cry. Lay on the floor and howl like crying. You are so so hardworking and explain things so nicely. I have a 12 month old and some delays. I wish someone can tell me today if he is on spectrum or not
Ek baar jao insallaha sahi hojate bacche jaise mere hova hai me ne umeed chod di the mager Allah ka karm hai ki mushy d.r A.M Reddy mele ye Both fikr hote the meku kya karu kaisa hunga mere bacche ka r bas ye wu Maa baap samjh sakte hai jis k bacche ku autism hai
When my kid was diagnosed, It made me realize I am autistic aswell. This realization helped me a lot to put myself in his shoes. What ever I am proud of him. He might lag behind in certain areas, But he is better is many others. We as a parent should embrace it. Theres nothing shame in being different. And Mothers don’t make it just your job. They may not be able to express themselves, but they need all the support from all your family members.
Well said
U r a inspiration mother.. thank you so much
hi Ina …you always gave me such a positive vibes.. thank you
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When I feel low I used to see your videos it’s really inspiring and motivate me a lot ❤️thank you so much lots of love from Nepal
Thanks ina.. I became more patient and became a better person processing this
Hope, I could meet you in person. A parent to parent hug is what we all as a autistic parent need!
Thank you so much. You are doing great job.
More power to you Ina… you are such a big inspiration to me.. whenever I see your video I just get relaxed.. thank you so much for sharing ur thoughts.. and more love to Viraj..❤
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wow ❤❤ great explanation.. very true.. 👏👏👏
yess it's true dear & thanks so much.....lvu u❤
Thank you for this video💖
Thank you so much Mam aap k video se mujhe himat milti hai Mera beta 4year ka hai aur doctor ne autism bola hai Mai bhut tension thi but ab Mai us per work kr rahi hu
I so so agree with you ina and I feel you. I have been there and processing since September and feel much better. But yes we do waste a lot of time grief which needs to be given to the child.
Very good information ina ji thank you 😊
hello mam, my daughter found mild autism, there is a speech delay she is 6 yr old, if you can guide me plz share what to do
Hi Ina, I am extremely emotional and sensitive person, from d day of diagnosis, I have cried rivers, breakdown ho jata hai, feel like hugging somebody and telling them why God has choosen me for this. Nobody in my family is supporting even after diagnosis, and my son got ill 10 times in 6 months after Diagnosis. No improvement, I feel lost. Plss pray for me.
Thanks for ur videos
You do whatever it takes for ur son, sometimes a mom is enough
I have been there and cried a lot. Just focus on your child and you will get the strength. Improvement is slow so be patient but they can do everything
Thank u so much for the subtitles ❤
Hello Ina,
My son is 2.9 years old. He speaks two languages. He speaks like please mumma tv on and all. He does not flap or stims. I met many doctors and they say it is not autism. My only concern is that he does not get interested so much in studies. He knows 1 to 10 and a bc , he likes to colour. He eats well and conveys his feelings also. But something is different, like he sometimes wants to do what he feels like doing, and hitting is also there. He plays well with other kids, he knows the concept of turn taking, pointing and all other milestones are also there.
You son is only 2.9 years old. He is so little. its good to know that he has achieve all the mile stone on time. Let him enjoy his childhood time. Do'nt take so much pressure
Zinc is important or not and tell me about probiotics with 2 strain L ruteri and L rhamnosus
Hello, can you please suggest a special and inclusive school in delhi/ india and also therapy centre. My daughter is 4 yrs old and i want to come to india
In country now you live?
Hi Ina thanks for your informative videos. I take help from your video when i got stuck and its really helpful
I want to know which book/ materials do you refer to research on autism
There are plenty of researches uploaded with sample trials on kids on different methods . I draw a common conclusion after reading and applying them ☺️
Thank you so much apne blkul sahi kaha If we try now definitely we will see good progress in 1 month I Have started doing many thing to make my child response to her name and make more eye contact I'm entering into her world and even it been just a week I Have seen progress ❤🎉 Plz pray for me and my daughter that we will get through this very soon
Thanks for this message
Hiii mam,mera beta 3 sal ka h , use nam se bulane pr response nahi deta kbi kabar deta h,o kisike sath nahi khetala,gol ghumnevali chije use bahot pasand h,har ak toy o gol ghumakar hi khelata h ,bolata b nahi o ,khud gungun karta h ,usne kbi b mammy papa nahi bola ,khud k hi khayalo me rahata h .kya a autism h .pls help mi mam😢😢😢mai bahot stree me hu😢
Stress Mt lijiye...bs ek bar doctor ko jrur dikhaye...mene bhi 4 years ke bad dikhaya ...or mild autism btaya h..bt mene iske liye khud ko pahle se hi prepare bkr rakha ta.. 4 saal tk m bhi you tube m search kr krk apna mental state bigad diya ta... Aap bs ek bar kisi pediatric neurologist ke pas leke jake assessment kta lijiye.wo or ache se guide krege apko
Ab kaisa h baby apka
do u give milk to viraj . how do u compensate nutrients
Viraj has a milk resistance now he wont pick up the glass to drink , i use multivitamins to suffice the needs
Mam my son 3 years 3 month he can understand few works he can watch tv nearly 1 year he can speak. Some words like amma daddy anna dog say abc 123 tv of. Of so much of change i can see he saw dog mamma dog say mam it will be cure we go to hospital they said brain not development she can say scanning. For brain and medicine sccaning kk mam any problem mam please tell me please reply mam
Reduce screen time as much as possible.
Sahi acceptance Autism diagnosis is big thing.. Post diagnosis anxiety, denial, negative thoughts come bt after acceptance when parents realise - thy hv wrk hard wid child for improvemnt..
Some dez r gud, some r really bad bcz of challenge bt Waqt badalta - ek sa nhi rehta☺
Primary caregiver mother ko - yoga/ exercise / walk etc apni mental health ki care karni chaiye as most of time mother has to luk after kid - therapy, daily routine etc
Gud u did mediation, Reiki for ur health..
Kp spreadin positive words🙌☺🥰
Ina can you suggest my child is 3.10 years old.she has very minimum sensory issue except she has no speech .no meaningful speech .can u suggest as per your learning with Viraj
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Yes pls there is a speech therapy complete 25 step video where in one hour i have tried to share almost everything i know. Its under popular uploads
Mam meri beti thoda recover ho rahi hai words bol rahi hai lekin Bina screen key sirf ek time khana khati aur bf raatko woh rice nai khati dhosa khati hai uska pet nai bhartha aur soti nai theek se afternoon ek ghanta soti hai
Hi aap night me daily ball compression dijiye soothing music daalkar aur poorey lights off karke it will very helpful
Thank you inna im going through the same….love you dear❤
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Apke beta ki memory kaisi h
Mera beta aggressive bahut ho raha is time one month se.,... Wo ghar se sara saman gusse me fekne lgta.... Smjh nahi aata aise me handle kaise keru.... I so worried
Ur my inspiration ❤ thank u so much ma'am
My pleasure 😊
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What u think about stem cell
Viraj kb Sy Bolna start Kya tha
Hiiii Ina ....u r such an inspiration. I n still in this state. Mentally and socially drained. Aap kya meditation krte the ..plz bataiye.
Just close your eyes play any chant or music of your choice think of the things you want to have them happen and thats it
My baby now 3 year old.but i dnt knw he is autism r nt..he was not talking and flapping hands.i dnt knw what to do.i gave two month therapy before one year.and he was not listing.only he hera tv voice.
You need to get the diagnosis done because as per what I can read from your message to me these are red flags
Which type of diagnosis mam....
Normal docters kahate hai ki bachhe ke sath chodho...isliye mai 3 sal thak chup rahi.ab tho vo flapping karte gumte rahate hai.kuch bhi sunatha nahi hai.mujhe kis tara ka therapy Dena hai vo bhi patha nahi.pls mam batavo mujhe
@@AmoghSm-kg8fdap kaha se ho dear, apka beta jo kr rha h we autism ke symptoms hi h, ap ek bar proper assesment krwao, proper assesment ke bad hi dr diagnose kr paynge ki confirm autism hai ya nhi....Ot therapy lagegi, speech therapy bhi lgegi or baki baki Dr ke diagnose pr depend krta hai
@@AmoghSm-kg8fdmeet any developmental pediatrician or a clinical psychologist..and ask them to assess your child
Thanks for helping
Ina i just need your urgent help
Ina app please bata sakte ho ke viraj picky eater hai ja nahi
Vo rice ke sath kafi cheeze khaleta hai jaise kadi rajma cholay chane aur sabzi mein its shahi panner (only gravy ) and aloo ki sabzi. Rest i make pao bhai often which he likes so he eats the veggies mashed in it . He has a picky eating habit of not eating anything in other utensils which are not familiar to him. So if we are in a restaurant there has to be a similar looking plate.
@@aforautism6808 okk actually mera beta sab khata tha but woh bimar huya uske bad usne khana chod kafi cheze khata but indian food kum khata hai ek tarah se try ve nahi karta toh koi tipis hai apke
Hlo ma,am mera bacha 4 saal ka hai pata ni autism hai ya Nahi do teen. Jagha dekhaya koi adhd batat hai koi mild autism so I know to proper way what is it
Ab kaisa h baby
Hi m also a mother of a child of 11yrs old child of autism. I followed your vedioes very recently....you are younger than me but still you have lot more knowledge than me...m now 38 yrs trying to get another child ,our genetic was Ok but still m afraid of having another one like the 1st one😢
I feel u😢😢😢😢😢😢
Kya aap apne bete ko autism ki koi medicine dete ho ya diye the plz batana
Nahi dear
@@aforautism6808 mujhe doctor ne medicine Diya hai but dar lag raha hai ki isko chhodne par side effects na ho. Aap kuchh janti hai iss bare me?
@@rashmi4990hi if you have started any medicines dont stop suddenly doctors follow certain paths consult your doctor before taking any step
Hi Inna thanks for realizing us our own emotions always.
Pls make a video on academics.
Like reading kaise सिखाए.
My son is going to be in sr. Kg this year and I want to prepare him so that ही can feel comfirtable and confidant in the class
Hi sushma i have uploaded a reading vlog you will find it in the shorts section as I did it recently
@@aforautism6808
I know that.
I have put a कमेन्ट in that video also for a explanaitory video
I watch all your videos and they are very helpful and emotional
Mam autistic child normal life ge sakta ha pls reply.
Hi ye bahut zyada depend karta hai bache ke traits pe agar unhe medical support ki zaroorat hai aur adulthood tak unke challenges bat ko samjhne mein aur basic life skills ko poora karne mein rehjate hain toh unhe support chaiye hota hai . As per studies mild autism par jo bache hote hain vo kuch hadd tak independently life lead kar sakte hain but unke bhi kuch challenges hote hain jismein on time and again mental support chaiye hota hai
Mam we are in ap i can't understand u r language
There are subtitles in the video
D.r A.m reddy plz bato insallah aap ka baccha bhi sahi sahi hojata hemo pati treatment hai
Exactly...don't waste too much time in the diagnosis label or being in a state of why? You will have 3-4 major areas where you need to work with your kid and that is it.
🌸🙏
Thankyou 😊
Have u done any brain scan
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Hllo mam at what age viraj got diagnosis of aurism
Hlo mam please reply, and is it necessary to give your child occupational therapy at any therapy centre
He was diagnosed at 3.10 and if you are not self learned on any therapies then its always better to understand and gain knowledge how things are done and then start doing those at home. If your child is not comfortable at any center then its better to do things at home . It is scientifically proved that if a child doesnt have the rapport with the person who is helping in activities then they dont prove to be beneficial rather they can create anxiety issues
Every video of your makes me cry. Lay on the floor and howl like crying.
You are so so hardworking and explain things so nicely.
I have a 12 month old and some delays. I wish someone can tell me today if he is on spectrum or not
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Aapka baccha normal school jata h ya special school??
Normal with me as his shadow
@@aforautism6808 aapke waha aapko allow krte h school me .. baithne dete h??
Ek baar jao insallaha sahi hojate bacche jaise mere hova hai me ne umeed chod di the mager Allah ka karm hai ki mushy d.r A.M Reddy mele ye
Both fikr hote the meku kya karu kaisa hunga mere bacche ka r bas ye wu Maa baap samjh sakte hai jis k bacche ku autism hai
Kahan Hain yeh dr ?
O god mene bi aisa kiya
I love you Ina... you have inspired me a lot since inception
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