What It Takes To Make A Relationship Work | Marriage Summit 2022 | Kingsley Okonkwo
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- Join Kingsley Okonkwo as he shares 'What It Takes To Make A Relationship Work'.
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The issue is, everyone wants the right person but they don't ask themselves if they are right for the right person. Unless we start teaching people to examine themselves and stop directing them to look at others,we will have a selfish society like now. Marry the right person, the question is, are you right for the right person because a lot of wrong people desire the right persons also and will never look at their bad characters.
That was me... Realised I am proud and had narcissistic traits...I went for therapy... now am trusting God for a good man 😊
Very correct
He had taught that multiple times before. He is a balanced, well seasoned, anointed teacher in this area of life, relationship, & marriage.
Very correct
Going through a breakup, for a reason that I don't know. I asked him to stop having flatousous comments on fb on a girls post, and he called me illusional and insecure. Then breaks up with me. It's quite hard, but I put my trust in God, and I know he will soon bless me with the wonderful man I've been and still praying for.
Amennnn...
A break up is better than a failed marriage.
Amen
Amen
Love, God knows you only deserves the best. A man who will respect you and your peace of mind! Your ex did you an amazing favor by removing himself from a position he wasn’t fit to be in. Maintain your standards, boundaries & Protect your precious heart❤️
Hello dear, just know everything works for good. Just stay calm and pick notice of his behavior. Be carefully careful words from him
Guys, say me a prayer 🤲 next weekend is my wedding 🎉❤
Congratulations ma,i tap into your testimony
Congratulations 🎊
I pray you don't just get married but you marry, have a home and enjoy the blessings of marriage in Jesus name!
Amen!
Your marriage is blessed
I'm just seeing this but I know it's not too late to pray for a brethren in Christ🙂.. May your home be blessed with all that the Lord has planned for you both🎉❤️
Dec 2022 I'm marrying my best friend thankyou Jesus 😍😍😍😍😍
As a Christian youth living in a crooked world, it's necessary to get such content instilled in us all the time🙏Thank you for this knowledge Pastor Kingsley.
Going through a heartbreak 💔 now I know I was never the problem.
God will bring the right one this time 🙏 because God my heart is always open to find that husband of my youth
Don’t worry love ! You will be alright
I’m actually going through same !
But it so disheartening but you will be fny..
I’m still not to cry , though I’m still crying..but I believe Love still wins ,God is still able .
It is well my dear. God will bring the right person to you okay
I'm sorry dear. You would be okay.
@@favourazukaego3803 you single
In-box me your number
My helper, your teaching have helped me, l wrote my marital messages earlier and why l am here to day because your teaching has changed my life. My husband left me 10 years ago gust what? He voluntarily returned yesterday! Jesus Christ my Lord!
My master my conference. I applied your teaching in practice and he called me yesterday we have not spoken for 10 years.
He moved to Maryland but he flew into Minnesota yesterday just because of me.
He will be in my house this morning at 11:00 AM just to round up our reconciliation and work on our children businesses.
I am glad l watched and puts your advice in to practice and today l will no longer file for my divorce. I am more happier and praising God for allowing yours sacrifice. Remain blessed.
Wow! Congratulations. I pray the Lord will keep your home
What the Lord has done in your family, will forever remain permanent. Ijn Amen 🙏
Congratulations 🤗 Your testimony is permanent in Jesus name.
Congratulations
glory to the God of restoration.
My father left us for 16 years now. It was no pressure but greed. It affected me and its still affecting me. I am always scared of being alone. I never got the expected love I deserved when growing up till now. It affected my mum badly at the early years of him leaving us. So mommy benched her anger and depression on me, which made my relationship with her poor.
Growing up, especially as a first born and daughter, without a father badly have an effect. It hurts more knowing he's alive somewhere having a life with another woman.
May God help us.
Thank you sir for this powerful message. God bless you and more Grace 🙌🏾🙌🏾
Your story is exactly like mine 🥺
The lord will take care of us dear ❤️🤗
I proclaim God's healing on you
hi @deborahharrison9872 i pray you receive healings sooner. moreover, you must learn to let God take his will, forgive your past no matter how painful it is. Be determined to make the best corrections with your present and focus on a better future. You sure will have it by God's grace...
I pray that God may heal your heart. Pray that God heals your heart. Let it be your prayer. His able. I know how you feel. Man tend to take advantage of pple like you but may God give you a husband that will love and cherish you.
Amen dear
Don't marry who you love but love who you marry. Thus your love belongs to the category of #love the commitment#
God grant me grace to have a right father for my unborn children
Going through a heartbreak because of prophecies that we are not meant to be life partner... we love each other so much but coz of prophecies words we are going through tough time please pray for me us to restore again our relationship🙏 8years relationship is not easy to overcome..🥹😢
You wear my shoe
Who is the prophet. Is he following God. Did he tell you what God said or what he feels. Has he introduced your 'man' to his own family or member. Did you both pray. What did God tell both of you.
A king pronounced death on Moses but obedience by his mother positioned him for life.
I once counselled a man who every other prophet told, leave your wife but I interpreted same message differently. Today they have a set of twins and are doing great together.
Pray and let God lead you.
Dis you week god and Ask him what hé IS saying ?
Love must be mutual, and Real Love is committed!❤
There is love"the feeling" and there is love"the commitment".
Thank you so much Pastor Kingsley 🙏🙏🙏
too much knowledge,thank you for allowing God through you to give us this needful teachings
Oh lord. This man is telling the absolute truth. I was married for 11years and from this I could point out why our marriage failed.
I pray that God restores you.
I will marry my best friend in Jesus name, Amen! 🙏🏻
AMEN
Amen
...I DID THAT IT DIDN'T WORK OUT ...!!!...p.s. THE TRAILER PARK TRASH WAS MUCH BETTER ...!!!
@@PedalToTheMetal61888 ???
Amen! 🙏❤️💋💯🌹🕊️
I'm so scared of marriage but i think I need to give it a trial after all these lessons
God please help me out
He definitely will, love
One step at a time☺
What's the fear about? You don't want to make mistakes? There aren't angels down here
Ameeeennnnn
Fear the fear as well dear , dont let the fear fear you.
Looking for a father in every man. This is exactly what is affecting me. I grew up not having a fatherly love, and have never called anyone daddy.
Hi got my relationship was fixed back again with the help of a great man my ex is back to me we loving and happily together again after many years of separation, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it's works within 48 hours.
He was the one who helped me restoring back my ex 3 days ago without delay🌹🌹
Whatsaap him"**
Alright thanks
Well said pastor K. I almost made the greatest mistake in marrying the wrong person.
Man of God l am glad to be online and listen to this wonderful eyes opener.
My husband left me with our 4 children without consideration.
In 2012 till date he’s still on exit.
I am in United States of America the situations are not easy for us.
Loved the illustration using the 3 volunteers, it was 3mendous
Fr it was really good😂😂
It’s two years and am watching this again
Powerful
Love is the foundation of relationship, don't marry who u love,marry who love you .u can't love two people,but u can be attached to two people,love is a commitment, marriage is a long journey
How do u marry who you don't love or have feelings at all??..
Don't marry who who u love. Love who u marry🔥
You're a blessing to our generation. Your words are tested and trusted ❤️🤗
This can only be God! Thank you Pastor K for this enlightenment on what love really entails
May God connect me to the right man,,I’m really tired of being cheated on,,so help me God
Love is not a feeling but a commitment u make
😮too much knowledge,thank you for allowing God through you to give us this needful teachings
U are really good at what you do. U and your wife are such a blessing to our generation. More grace sir
Going through a break I don’t know what I did , he started seeing another girl and was covering it up, but God opened my eyes and I was able to see the real him , believing God for my own man 🙏
Be comforted Nne. Your husband man will come 🥰
Thank you so much Pst. Kingsley. Even a layman can understand your teachings. The Simplicity in your illustration drives it home. More grace be multiplied unto you.❤❤️
Can't believe m watching this again... Now I know how to behave in a relationship, when a brother comes to me I can be able to identify eros from filomina n agape. I no longer make mistakes now. Lemme use this to help the rest also Thank you pastor K
Much love from Uganda 🇺🇬
Me too dearest ❤️ pastor M&K have taught me much about relationships tips I knew not in life but thank God we are going to teach people at home🇺🇬
Then you know much better than the man of God, the word of God is ever ever sweet nobody can be full of it instead we continue listening to it day and night and the more you listen to it new things are been added to your life.
You can not say you have mastered it at all it’s so deep so we should be greateful to have found a sincere man of God to teach us the truth.
Have you now found your mate?
@@richardisabirye6944
Not really...
This is the best of Pastor K's teaching. Wow 🎉❤
“You can’t be motivating someone to go with you, they just want to themselves. There will come a time where everyone will need to motivate themselves to keep going”
True for all relationships I think
This is so profound! If you are single and you prayerfully apply this teaching, you're marriage can work 👌🏾 God bless and keep your home P.K!
Yes
Amen
I was hurt broken bt hearing this it healed my hurt....I will choose wisely thenks man of God
This is truly the best, most eye-opening lecture I have ever heard (and watched) about the topic of true, committed love. I finally understand the difference between true love and fake love (temporary sexual attraction). I never understood the true importance of friendship (philios) in a romantic relationship before. The order of importance is: 1. agape, 2. philios, and 3. eros. Thank you Pastor. I greatly appreciate your teaching us the truth to living a happy life in a happy marriage. You are making a positive difference in peoples lives. Thank you for teaching us the difference and doing God’s work. May God bless you over abundantly Pastor. I will watch and listen to this lecture multiple times and share it with everyone I know. Your message needs to be understood by everyone.
Hi l got my relationship was fixed back again with the help of a great man my ex is back to me we loving and happily together again after many years of separation, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it's works within 48 hours.
He was the one who helped me restoring back my ex 3 days ago without delay 🌹🌹
Whatsaap him"**
@@uwaomaonunze7670 Hmmm
These people Sha..
Relationship remedy in 48 hours
Marrying your bestie is everything
Love is so broad that sometimes it is only God that can see us through love is a beautiful thing when we are not self center.
Marriage is built on love “the commitment “
Agape ❤
I have been alot of break ups in my love story...till am giving up in matters dealing with love...God please just bless me with the right partner just make me happy again surely God
Me too dear😢
Pst K is a blessing to this generation... I'm blessed Sir 🙂
Liked the video before watching, you and your wife have been a blessing in my life and marriage. I appreciate you sir, may God continue to bless the work of your hands🙏🏿
Thank God for the word.
This is the third message I am listening to today from Pastor King and I must say God is speaking with me through you. Understanding these things makes you less stressful.
God bless you, Papa
Blessing on you and your family.
Hello Sir, I am Dominic Henry O. Believed me I really repect your teaching nd loved it ❤.
I been watching your classes, pls if I may use the word! Long before now. But I have not yeah seen you or attended your church one! live. Only on air..
All the same i believed in your teaching alot, more grace always.. nd pls keep it up Sir, kindly remember me in your prayers please.. thanks once again. Christ loved you nd ur family..
Never heard the different types of love taught this way. Thanks PK!
All very true and gives us such insight about love. With these three aspects of love - agape Philia and Eros - we have a love that never fails , God's love...which never fails
When the pressures of life comes....they will succumb to their father 🔥🔥🔥
Love is Committed...One's person's love cannot sustain a marriage. Love must be mutual.
Thank you pastor K for always sharing profound truths and illustrating it in such a simple way for our understanding
Almost all the ladies sat at the same area. When they ought to mingle. At least build friendship.
Ride on pastor.
God bless you.
Your teachings is life.
This message is timely
God help me to choose my spouse wisely 🙏
Lord help me achieve my dreams and direct my path to put in practice the teaching of pst K.O . I pray to marry my friend ,Lord help us to build our marriage more stronger as we grow and bond together .
I’m literally in tears seeing this message’ cos I’m 23yrs now and I haven’t had a father since 23yrs of my life’ honestly the part you said doing live alone got so emotional cos you literally talked me 😩😩.
God bless Sir for opening your eyes
Amazing messsge with wonderful and apt illustrations.
More Grace PK. ❤
Wow,this is so powerful, thank God I've received the message before getting married,Dear Lord,help me get married to my best friend in Jesus name.🙏
Amen 🙏
Wow. Adorable wish. Where are you from?
@@collinssouth3761 😁am humbled dear.am from Uganda 🇺🇬
@@provia9436 nice to meet you from Uganda. I am from Texas. Hope we can be friends. You look cute
l am so blessed 👌charm is deceitful, beauty fades but the woman that fears the LORD is to be praise...
Thank you pastor k, for this teaching, It has practically rewired /deprogrammed and recalibrated my priorities about life, dating, marraige and Destiny. Thank You so much sir. by the way, i am an ardent follower.
Words of wisdom ❤
Heart 😢😢breaken
Love is a commitment.
Lord i nee your grace
I will marry a best dad for my children, my best friend in Jesus name 🙏
Watching live from Zambia
I will get it right in marriage! Amen!!!
Amen!!!
Amen and Amen
Me too!! Amen!!!
Amen. I will get it right in marriage too🙏
Amen 🙏
I will get it right in my marriage in Jesus name. Amen.......
Thank you Lord for this message and thank you pastor for saving many people In relationships. More Grace Sir
Agape's nickname should be AG Baby.
😂😂😂😂
😂
Thankyou for these messages. I wish i had heard them earlier. its too late for me as i chose wrong & the marriage didn't even last 2 years, but I will teach my daughter how to get it right.
God bless you Pst Okonkwo
So profound!!💎🔥🔥 May the Lord continue to bless and enrich you MOG with His divine knowledge as you bless your world In Jesus name sir🙏🏼.
Prayer, patience and honesty
This Message is Sooooooooooooooooo Goooooood!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Sir, you are a master communicator and counsellor. We thank God for you.
Wow lord help me to make right choice Amen🙏.
Ok
amen blessed from Kenya
Facts
Watching from Nigeria
Thank God for this knowledge Pastor K God bless you......I pray I marry my friend and the right person.
You are a blessing to God's nation. You really know your story. Impressive.... More wisdom sir!
Love you, God bless you
God bless you sir 🙌🙌 more anointing 🙇🙇am blessed,I will marry right,I will marry my best friend and my marriage will be heaven on earth 🙏🙏🙏
He's a this and that.. but I love him! That's very typical of many ladies. But it's ok. Thanks very much Pst K, God is really working mightily through you.
Hi got my relationship was fixed back again with the help of a great man my ex is back to me we loving and happily together again after many years of separation, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it's works within 48 hours.
He was the one who helped me restoring back my ex 3 days ago without delay🌹🌹
Whatsaap him"**
What's his number?
True marriage is lifetime commitment, other than other commitment and assignments
One ☝️ of the best relationships illustration. It’s sooo spot on 👌👌👌👌👌👌
Is always a blessing listening to you Dad/mum K.
Listing to you has be a blessing to me this all what young people are going through this in the of love
God bless you pastor!!!!
Thanks so much for your teaching you just give me strength and more hope 🙏
God keep give you strength and wisdom to keep reaching more people 🙏
Thank Pst.Kingsley....God bless you Sir
when you marry, your husband or wife should be your best friend. marriage is just life long friendship
hi sir i have a question … what if uu already have a bestfriend although none of u are married yet , but you seem very connected to eachother and you are so similar to eachother. Sometimes the feeling of u guys getting married comes up. how do you know if its based on feelings or if it’s a conviction? Also, what does this situation mean?
@@michelleadebiyi2341 if you are born again, then ask the holy spirit to show you in the dreams or by other means wether you should marry each other. God bless you and note if you are asking God to show you things you be patients until he show you...
@@ericking3459 thank you so much for your answer🙏🏾. I’ll hear out for an answer from God
I just wish to be in this church 😕❤️
Wow extremely powerful sermon 🔥🔥🔥 this is enlightenment at its best ....I'm blessed to have come across this sermon
Thank u very much Sir, I luv ur grace and have learned so much I really appreciate
God bless you
Thank you so much Pastor 🙇♀️
Am really blessed from Uganda 🙏
Wowooooo this explanation is so clear and understandable ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thanks Daddy Kinsley for this deep secret of marriage and relationship and above all thanks for helping this generation 🙏🙏🙏
pastor Kingsley okonkwo you are so good 👍
I learned a lot from this teaching,two types of love, love in feeling and love in commitment. thanks you pastor k for the teaching, God bless you sir
Hmmm...am really learn... thanks so much sir 🙏🙏🙏🙏