Facts. I learned this from my mother and grandmother as a child and as a result, never played the fool. Specifically, "never love a man more than you love yourself and never put anything past a man."
@@wendybesse90 Lol! Believe it or not I always had great relationships with boys/men, but here you go: Boys only want one thing. Never go with someone who spends more time in the mirror than you do (or thinks he’s more attractive than you). Don’t tell the next man what you allowed the last man to do to you…you’re just giving a blueprint for how bad he can treat you. You can’t be too nice to them (boys only want love if it’s torture). The prettier you are, the more likely he is to cheat - if he got you, he starts to believe that others want him too. Never split the check or pay the primary household bills, that’s his responsibility. Cheating, mental, verbal, or physical abuse is not to be tolerated. If his pattern in the past has been to date a certain type but wants to date you because you’re “different” from others like you, he's still more attracted to the original preference and will eventually return.
@@skeryl7426 I’m with you. God first and then yourself - “selfish” has been stigmatized as negative. I’ve witnessed many lives lost too soon and dreams unfulfilled by those who have loved others too much and out of order.
1. Don't compromise on core values 2. Don't allow disrespect 3. Don't look for validation in others but yourself 4. Don't neglect personal growth besides the relationship 5. Don't over sacrifice 6. Don't allow emotional manipulation 7. Don't ignore warning signs 8. Don't allow someone to control your destiny 9. Don't rush into commitment and moving too fast
I use to let men run all over me. But I now have standards and boundaries and I don’t expect any disrespect from anyone. I’m so glad that I have learned to grow and I know my worth!
Wow I love this - Stay true to who you were created to be, stay true to yourself and always put yourself first never change yourself to make a man happy. Loosing your identity in a relationship will lead you to be disconnected to your own life you've lost your connection to yourself stay true to the person you were created to be. Don't shrink yourself for the relationship because your identity is what makes you unique 💗
😢I was about to reinstall my WhatsApp after uninstalling it because of my covert narcissist husband. This video just popped up 😢. I'm on a vacation all alone and i feel so healthy again not being around him. A part of me is trying to adjust to his manipulations and gaslighting. Thanks 🙏 i will come back to watch this video over and over again ❤❤
@@Lifewithketlyd_ I'm so sorry, but now that you know on time please try as possible best to not let him manipulate your child with fake love. They are so afraid of losing anyone that has bond with them
May GOD bless, protect, enlighten, lead you, fill you, keep and comfort you! Don't allow anyone to devalue you! You are GOD'S child, and that's Glorious! Disconnect from all unhealthy relationships. You will heal! ❤🙏🏾
This was the most amazing lesson I've heard to date. So much of this session resonated with me. So much so that I've decided to save it to my favorites so I can listen to it again and again. This message truly blessed my soul.
I left about a month ago. He tried some emotional manipulation to pretend he wanted to try again, but then immediately when back to his old tactics. I told him that we couldn't be friends and that I needed to get back to my life without him in it. The healing and moving on have begun.
Miles Munroe never yelled or screamed. I have listened to stax of his preaching and teaching, ne held your attention and what he said was good wholesome stuff. He had a very pleasant voice. This, then, is not him.
Your comment is interesting. I have been listening to these messages and thinking that this is not really sounding like Myles Munroe. Then I read your comment.
This is exactly my marriage. I started accepting thing I wouldn’t have normally accepted. And then he put me through hell and I continued to accept, hoping for a peace, love and respect I never had until today. I feel lost, I don’t know who I am anymore. He try to change everything on me including the way I’m walking, the way I’m laughing. I’m lost, I feel like the person I used to be is died an I’m just a lost soul existing on the earth.
I'm so sorry to hear this, coz I relate. Check out videos by Mina Irfan, she really empowered me to get my sense of self back by teaching how to set healthy boundaries. Her channel is the universe guru. Hope it helps ❤
Am in the same place but learning and improving each day that passes. But truly, I feel trapped. I allowed alot of things that I shouldn't have. May God help us.
I also agree. The point is the content of the message, not the listener's personal preferences of content delivery. The message is valuable, and that's what I'm interested in.
I didn't love and value myself so I allowed myself to get hurt because I stayed. Now thay I love and value myself, I gained a lot of peace because I now have boundaries and I respect myself. I came a long way and I apologize to myself for not loving and valuing me sooner but I am getting closer ro God each day.
Know the essence of who you are. These are principles that would Your values are the core of who you are They are the Principles that guide the decisions and the paths you walk in life.
THANK YOU LORD FOR YOUR DIVINE GUIDANCE AND BLESSINGS 🙏🏾 I DEFINITELY need to replay this multiple times. I definitely feel this is what I NEED to implement in my self development. I NO LONGER HAVE TO ACCEPT DISREGARD AND DISRESPECT FOR MY CORE VALUES! DON'T UNDERMINE ME FOR CONTROL OVER ME! MY GOD THIS IS MEANT FOR ME!
This doesn't only address issues women needs to comsider, it is for both genders. There is a lot i picked from here that i didn't put into consideration before committing and the marriage has collapsed. We learn with experiences in life.
Some people are in relationships but prefer talking to other girls...vice versa .quick to introduce their new friends of few months to their girlfriend's but never introduce their person...invest in your personal growth ❤
Thanks, Myles. I think I need divine redemption after 35 years of making sacrifices in the Name of Jesus that may actually have been from a place of dishonesty with God, myself and others. This explains my marriage and my sincere but misguided attempts to avoid repeating my parent's mistakes. I need to work out His redemption, but authentically in the Holy Spirit.
Ok, is he talking about self validation as a person , as you knowing who you are, right? But validation of the relationship is something else. The validation in the relationship is important, showing that you matter, that he cares.
this one! too much avoidance leads to disconnect.. of course it's natural to seek closeness from your partner and it's normal to compromise in the relationship where you both feel valued, give and take. if you don't put value in the relationship, just be single lol i can feel avoidant people are rejoicing with this video.. why be in relationship when there's too much independence? of course when we love someone and care for them, we crave that intimacy so we can build a solid foundation.. i'm not saying be anxious and be toxic but if you really love someone, you'll show them that they're the only one for you.. seriously just talk about it and don't play mind games while in a relationship
I turned off the volume and just read the transcript. You have so much potential with good information. I'm a psychologist with many years of public speaking on sensitive subjects. Please take this in the manner of caring enough to offer kind criticism.
I think it was a sermon or lecture. Should he have whispered? Dr. Munroe died in 2014, so he can't change his delivery of messages. However, this seems like AI in many ways. Before 2014, would someone have used the words gaslight, toxic, and red flags? He would have a bit more variation in his voice and would have likely referenced the Bible. Hmmm?? Still a good message!!!
Agree so many video channels seem to yell angrily! Even though I like their Contant I find myself not listening because my inner voice says I don’t feel like listening to that hostile voice yelling at me even though they may be seem kind and encouraging words it’s crazy !
This video is perfect. He's right on. I don't understand what the psychologist is talking about. The psychologist is wrong. Years of experience doesn't make you automatically right. I reject Your assessment.
Its a strong message but yes thats not the Late Myles Munroe. This message had no biblical references and that's something that was a baseline to all his messages
Eve was made for Adam, not Adam for Eve... Women have this feminitity that a man will fully die for that woman. I think there should be boundaries and man n women should be 100% committed regardless how the relationship is going but never give yp or throw away the relationship just because one peraon doeant likw how the relationship is going... Communication n trust is key
Dear God I pray every day that you will protect my family members Queency Jenny Wilson Stevenson from a toxic evil disastrous friends love and marriage Bless them Oh Lord Jesus Christ with spiritual humble holy gentle kind fruitful obedient son's in law and daughters in law that as a newly wed family they will serve and worship you till their last breath Amen
@@blumckenzie don’t tell me what to focus on. I know he is deceased. If the voice didn’t matter why use a man with a Bahamian accent? Because this channel is trying to profit off of Dr. Myles Munroe’s intellectual property. The voice matters and you know it. #Thieves
@@canditate740Get out of here with that bad energy. I’ve worked in IP for over 20 years and you nor myself are not privy to any contracts or agreements that may have been made in regard to his estate and IP. If you don’t like it, stop listening and leave.
I would have found this video easier to listen better if you didn't yell through the whole thing.. sounds shaming and preaching. Just a suggestion for delivering very sensitive information. Consider the audience you are trying to relate and appeal to. Good information. People who don't feel worthy don't need to feel shamed. We would love to hear this sensitive information with a little sensitivity and don't sound so in your face. Please listen to your delivery..very important.
I addressed the dismissal of emotional behavior, it made my partner run and completely shut me out.Im glad I found out early on this was a one sided relationship.
That’s why I have not got married yet cause I was allowing things to happen that I should not have allowed now I left and he talking about he wants to marry me. I have not been back but I am showing him how I want to be treated long distance and he is doing those things but I am taking my sweet time cause I want to believe that it’s for me but time will tell🙏🏽🫶🏽👏😎☮️👑
Facts. I learned this from my mother and grandmother as a child and as a result, never played the fool. Specifically, "never love a man more than you love yourself and never put anything past a man."
I need the rest of the list, please!
@@wendybesse90 Lol! Believe it or not I always had great relationships with boys/men, but here you go: Boys only want one thing. Never go with someone who spends more time in the mirror than you do (or thinks he’s more attractive than you). Don’t tell the next man what you allowed the last man to do to you…you’re just giving a blueprint for how bad he can treat you. You can’t be too nice to them (boys only want love if it’s torture). The prettier you are, the more likely he is to cheat - if he got you, he starts to believe that others want him too. Never split the check or pay the primary household bills, that’s his responsibility. Cheating, mental, verbal, or physical abuse is not to be tolerated. If his pattern in the past has been to date a certain type but wants to date you because you’re “different” from others like you, he's still more attracted to the original preference and will eventually return.
Same here ! Never ever loose your God appointed self for someone else! You have a purpose in this life! Also u can’t pour from an empty cup !
@@skeryl7426 I’m with you. God first and then yourself - “selfish” has been stigmatized as negative. I’ve witnessed many lives lost too soon and dreams unfulfilled by those who have loved others too much and out of order.
These are the things i wish my mother taught me...but i am teaching them to my girls
1. Don't compromise on core values
2. Don't allow disrespect
3. Don't look for validation in others but yourself
4. Don't neglect personal growth besides the relationship
5. Don't over sacrifice
6. Don't allow emotional manipulation
7. Don't ignore warning signs
8. Don't allow someone to control your destiny
9. Don't rush into commitment and moving too fast
I use to let men run all over me. But I now have standards and boundaries and I don’t expect any disrespect from anyone. I’m so glad that I have learned to grow and I know my worth!
@@cynthiareynolds1941 👏
😊
DON'T LET NOTHING GO BY UNNOTICED 😮
👀
I should have got this message many years ago, thanks so much 🙏
Yes
Wow I love this - Stay true to who you were created to be, stay true to yourself and always put yourself first never change yourself to make a man happy. Loosing your identity in a relationship will lead you to be disconnected to your own life you've lost your connection to yourself stay true to the person you were created to be. Don't shrink yourself for the relationship because your identity is what makes you unique 💗
😢I was about to reinstall my WhatsApp after uninstalling it because of my covert narcissist husband. This video just popped up 😢. I'm on a vacation all alone and i feel so healthy again not being around him. A part of me is trying to adjust to his manipulations and gaslighting. Thanks 🙏 i will come back to watch this video over and over again ❤❤
@@GodFirst7479 stay away from coverts
Unfortunately, there is no adjusting just escaping! It’s a demonic stronghold. They never change.
Whew the covert ones , just had a kid with one ugh
@@Lifewithketlyd_ I'm so sorry, but now that you know on time please try as possible best to not let him manipulate your child with fake love. They are so afraid of losing anyone that has bond with them
May GOD bless, protect, enlighten, lead you, fill you, keep and comfort you! Don't allow anyone to devalue you! You are GOD'S child, and that's Glorious! Disconnect from all unhealthy relationships. You will heal! ❤🙏🏾
This message is cutting me so very deep!
You are not alone. He's stepping on every toe! I'm grateful for hearing it.
Here here😔👋🏾👋🏾
I promise you😅
It's powerful. Personal growth doesn't always feel good 😊
@annettescroggins3905 it sure doesn't however, I am ready to do the work!
This man is a blessing!
This was the most amazing lesson I've heard to date. So much of this session resonated with me. So much so that I've decided to save it to my favorites so I can listen to it again and again. This message truly blessed my soul.
Thank youu keep watching !
Thank you, God, for this confirmation. I know im on the right path towards my healing. Heal and love thyself❤❤❤
In a relationship for a year. This completely hit home 😢 so grateful and thankful I found this.
I left about a month ago. He tried some emotional manipulation to pretend he wanted to try again, but then immediately when back to his old tactics. I told him that we couldn't be friends and that I needed to get back to my life without him in it. The healing and moving on have begun.
If he's not in Christ and won't marry you, you should leave. It won't be easy but your God's daughter.
Does that make him Satan's son?@danilaroche1156
Thank you 🙏 I needed to hear this and be reminded not to settle for less and compromise my values.
The truth will not always make you feel warm and fuzzy inside
Yes
I experienced all of this in past relationships, never again. Great insight & wisdom here.
Doctor Miles Monroe passed away in a car crash with his family many years ago. But his message still live on and because it’s the truth.
Plain crash not car crash
@@faithesechie8840Plane*
@@faithesechie8840 Plane*
@@faithesechie8840 Plane
His family is still alive except for his wife. They passed on together as he prophesied
Compromise is Dangerous
Listening, learning, and growing.
well said specially in a narcissistic controlling relationships
Never tolerate narc behavior even if it's yo momma!
Such a powerful message, I am glad I came across this.
Truly a wakeup call.... VERY WISE words..A MUST LISTEN 💘..
Absolutely. I needed to hear it 😅
Miles Munroe never yelled or screamed. I have listened to stax of his preaching and teaching, ne held your attention and what he said was good wholesome stuff. He had a very pleasant voice. This, then, is not him.
I noticed there was something off about speech pattern. They used AI to sound like him. There was no quoting of scriptures at the start of the video.
I AGREE!!!
@@diyonnfahlmanCORRECT! No scriptures!!! That’s not him
@@diyonnfahlman he was a brilliant pastor and nteacher
Your comment is interesting. I have been listening to these messages and thinking that this is not really sounding like Myles Munroe. Then I read your comment.
Thank you, sir. Your wisdom lives on.
Valuable information. Thank you 🙏
Just got confirmation. Thank you
He was a gift to the world. Continue to rest in peace
I will share ths to my 3 daughters..
I needed this reminder today.
The man speaks wisdom if this makes you angry its because you know he's right.
This is so good
This is exactly my marriage. I started accepting thing I wouldn’t have normally accepted. And then he put me through hell and I continued to accept, hoping for a peace, love and respect I never had until today. I feel lost, I don’t know who I am anymore. He try to change everything on me including the way I’m walking, the way I’m laughing. I’m lost, I feel like the person I used to be is died an I’m just a lost soul existing on the earth.
I'm so sorry to hear this, coz I relate. Check out videos by Mina Irfan, she really empowered me to get my sense of self back by teaching how to set healthy boundaries. Her channel is the universe guru. Hope it helps ❤
You should separate for a while. God doesn't want you mistreated.
You should start having time with jesus and see yourself as jesus sees you
Am in the same place but learning and improving each day that passes. But truly, I feel trapped. I allowed alot of things that I shouldn't have. May God help us.
I agree 100% been there done that😊
Yes.
Great video as always
@@natashamoon6124 thankyou keep watching ❣️
🙏🏾 Thank you. I needed this video & these lessons
Yes
The way he's talking is fine. It's the way you perceived it. Just listen 👂.
@@shalondaglover5262 I have to agree. He's not yelling at all! Perhaps it's the noise from their consciousness that's too loud!
I also agree. The point is the content of the message, not the listener's personal preferences of content delivery. The message is valuable, and that's what I'm interested in.
@enjolialamo610 I am married and wish I knew all of this before. I didn't have the tools, courage, or knowledge to do different. Pure emotions.
It’s not him talking it’s not even his message. It’s a iMessage.
This is a wise message if listen. It doesn't matter who the speaker is..the point is the content .❤
I didn't love and value myself so I allowed myself to get hurt because I stayed. Now thay I love and value myself, I gained a lot of peace because I now have boundaries and I respect myself. I came a long way and I apologize to myself for not loving and valuing me sooner but I am getting closer ro God each day.
Your worth is not defined by how another person treats you
Masterpiece 👌
I wish i know this before it prevented ne a lotz of heartaches.Im so grateful to know this.Thank you.!!!
Grateful I found this video
This is truly everything ❤
Great presentation and such a wealth of insight.
Now I am angry because I stuck around longer than I should
I miss him.may he rest in peace
He was a good teacher, thank GOD we have his recorded sermons!!
Thank you so much !! True ....😊😊
🎉G.O.A.T ❤missing him😢!!!
Know the essence of who you are.
These are principles that would
Your values are the core of who you are
They are the Principles that guide the decisions and the paths you walk in life.
I know my worth, and then I add tax. 😊 Stay true, ladies!
Great thanx a thousand times
Oh Dr.Myles, if only I knew this 23years ago...😢 Positive projecting, my biggest mistake
THANK YOU LORD FOR YOUR DIVINE GUIDANCE AND BLESSINGS 🙏🏾 I DEFINITELY need to replay this multiple times. I definitely feel this is what I NEED to implement in my self development. I NO LONGER HAVE TO ACCEPT DISREGARD AND DISRESPECT FOR MY CORE VALUES! DON'T UNDERMINE ME FOR CONTROL OVER ME! MY GOD THIS IS MEANT FOR ME!
Look in the description... "Altered or synthetic content"
Not Dr. Munroe's presentation.
What matters is the content I guess
You are hitting home
This doesn't only address issues women needs to comsider, it is for both genders. There is a lot i picked from here that i didn't put into consideration before committing and the marriage has collapsed. We learn with experiences in life.
Some people are in relationships but prefer talking to other girls...vice versa .quick to introduce their new friends of few months to their girlfriend's but never introduce their person...invest in your personal growth ❤
Both ends. Great information
Got it 👍 🤪 ☺️ 😊😊Well I am number 1 🎉🎉😊😊Amen Thank you
🎉
Thank you
Thanks, Myles. I think I need divine redemption after 35 years of making sacrifices in the Name of Jesus that may actually have been from a place of dishonesty with God, myself and others. This explains my marriage and my sincere but misguided attempts to avoid repeating my parent's mistakes. I need to work out His redemption, but authentically in the Holy Spirit.
❤
Ok, is he talking about self validation as a person , as you knowing who you are, right? But validation of the relationship is something else. The validation in the relationship is important, showing that you matter, that he cares.
this one! too much avoidance leads to disconnect.. of course it's natural to seek closeness from your partner and it's normal to compromise in the relationship where you both feel valued, give and take.
if you don't put value in the relationship, just be single lol
i can feel avoidant people are rejoicing with this video.. why be in relationship when there's too much independence?
of course when we love someone and care for them, we crave that intimacy so we can build a solid foundation.. i'm not saying be anxious and be toxic but if you really love someone, you'll show them that they're the only one for you.. seriously just talk about it and don't play mind games while in a relationship
This applies to both genders.
2:20 👏🏾
Wow.
I turned off the volume and just read the transcript. You have so much potential with good information. I'm a psychologist with many years of public speaking on sensitive subjects. Please take this in the manner of caring enough to offer kind criticism.
@@Sheekgreek1111 ty keep watching ❣️
I think it was a sermon or lecture. Should he have whispered? Dr. Munroe died in 2014, so he can't change his delivery of messages. However, this seems like AI in many ways. Before 2014, would someone have used the words gaslight, toxic, and red flags? He would have a bit more variation in his voice and would have likely referenced the Bible. Hmmm?? Still a good message!!!
Agree so many video channels seem to yell angrily! Even though I like their Contant I find myself not listening because my inner voice says I don’t feel like listening to that hostile voice yelling at me even though they may be seem kind and encouraging words it’s crazy !
My thoughts on this are different, I see nothing wrong with this, with the tone of the man’s voice, he’s an excellent teacher.
This video is perfect. He's right on. I don't understand what the psychologist is talking about. The psychologist is wrong. Years of experience doesn't make you automatically right. I reject Your assessment.
So... what are the 9 boundaries?
Yes. It went by pretty quick 😅
He’s passionate
Your goals passions,purpose dreams and uniqueness is your identity.
What are your hobbies
Your dreams
Uniqueness
yes
List the 9 thing
Loved the message; however, the 54:52 minutes and seconds, felt like one, nonstop long sentence. Again good information.
Amen
Confirmation
❤Sweetly ❤
Great message! Is this Dr. Monroe! Doesn't sound like him.
What of if you have gone a long way and something happened you wouldn't call or talk to know what's going on? Someone you love ?.
Too late!
It's never too late.
Glory to Jesus !
Did once, NEVER again
♥️♥️♥️
Its a strong message but yes thats not the Late Myles Munroe. This message had no biblical references and that's something that was a baseline to all his messages
🙏👌💐💯
Eve was made for Adam, not Adam for Eve...
Women have this feminitity that a man will fully die for that woman.
I think there should be boundaries and man n women should be 100% committed regardless how the relationship is going but never give yp or throw away the relationship just because one peraon doeant likw how the relationship is going...
Communication n trust is key
No. Disagree. Disrespect is a big red flag and will only get worse.
@FeminineVibez yes I totally agree..
You'd better rely on God to give you value. Or you'll never give yourself enough.
The facts are true, but why we should have man in our lives if we can't express our feelings without limitation
😊😊
Dear God I pray every day that you will protect my family members Queency Jenny Wilson Stevenson from a toxic evil disastrous friends love and marriage Bless them Oh Lord Jesus Christ with spiritual humble holy gentle kind fruitful obedient son's in law and daughters in law that as a newly wed family they will serve and worship you till their last breath Amen
😢
This is AI generated audio.
Pastor Miles Munroe and his wife died in plane crash not in a car accident and only they died their kids is still alive
He and some family members died in a plane crash.
Sad. What a loss😢
This is not Dr. Myles Munroe’s voice.
Focus more on the message, he is deceased and yeah, can’t be his voice
@@blumckenzie don’t tell me what to focus on. I know he is deceased. If the voice didn’t matter why use a man with a Bahamian accent? Because this channel is trying to profit off of Dr. Myles Munroe’s intellectual property. The voice matters and you know it. #Thieves
Maybe it is A.I generated voice of Dr. Monroe. His family can always ask these videos to be pulled down.
@@canditate740Get out of here with that bad energy. I’ve worked in IP for over 20 years and you nor myself are not privy to any contracts or agreements that may have been made in regard to his estate and IP. If you don’t like it, stop listening and leave.
Umm i hope ppl realize Miles Munroe is deceased now
His words remain powerful to those who choose to hear.
Yep he has left behind a legacy
Not sure the essence of people knowing if he is deceased or not.
🎉Z
BS. Every human being is different! Honor who you are the likewise.
I would have found this video easier to listen better if you didn't yell through the whole thing.. sounds shaming and preaching. Just a suggestion for delivering very sensitive information. Consider the audience you are trying to relate and appeal to. Good information. People who don't feel worthy don't need to feel shamed. We would love to hear this sensitive information with a little sensitivity and don't sound so in your face. Please listen to your delivery..very important.
Turn your volume down 👇. Then you will not feel that way 😊
I addressed the dismissal of emotional behavior, it made my partner run and completely shut me out.Im glad I found out early on this was a one sided relationship.
the speaker is Dr Myles Monroe. He was a preacher and is deceased.
@@shalondaglover5262exactly 😊
Convicting message? Yes. Shaming? No.
That’s why I have not got married yet cause I was allowing things to happen that I should not have allowed now I left and he talking about he wants to marry me. I have not been back but I am showing him how I want to be treated long distance and he is doing those things but I am taking my sweet time cause I want to believe that it’s for me but time will tell🙏🏽🫶🏽👏😎☮️👑
If he's not a genuine follower of Christ, it won't work.
❤❤❤