Allowing her to sit in her pause was brilliant…that is an indicator of a great interviewer/journalist. More of us need to recognize the power of silence. Great interview. Thank you for sharing.
Yes God! I was just thinking that. I wish more journalists would allow ppl to answer fully but give the guest time to process their thoughts. Cuz lord knows they be just rushin through every question.
When my wife passed on June 29th, 2024, I became a man undone. I am now on a journey to discover who I am now. For 34 years I fought to love my wife as Christ loved the church. So for 34 years I knew who I was. Now for the first time ever in my life, I'm a Single Christian Man, and I don't know how to move in that lane. So my trust in God is coming from a new place...."I am a Man undone"
After loosing someone you love dearly, it's a process. Try 16 years counting.... It was extremely hard in the very beginning but got through it thankfully with his family. I couldn't do this without them. Heal through this process....Give it ALL to God. He is Good. Amen. God Bless You.
I was married like that once. My aunt told me I married a provider but not a husband. Some men have no capacity or desire for the relational part of the marriage. It’s a challenge to say the least.
Very true! I am married to a provider but feel as if I do not have a husband. Thankfully, I have developed a relationship with God after getting married. If I did NOT have this relationship than I would be a divorced single mother b/c emotionally the situation would've been too difficult for me to navigate. However, by depending on God his grace is sufficient. I will continue to pray for my marriage and let God lead the way.
Monique was able to share her journey in a transparent way. My prayer is that she continues to heal, grow, and be the best version of herself. God bless you and your family ❤
Her ex not writing the family plan was the red flag.He didn't have the mission ,so she had to overcompensate,then wouldn't submit to him,and took authority, that's what a lot of us go thru 🤔
@@OhhYouu..MICHELLEshe did like to be in control and she was the structured one!! Then she met a man that let her do everything cause he is laid back but she later on wanted to also be taken cared of.
I felt that silence in my soul. I have never experienced marriage and/or divorce, but I felt this for her. She seems to be healing and pray she can get the love she truly deserves.
I didn’t know anything about her prior to this interview. I really enjoyed this interview and how open and vulnerable she was with us. That moment she shared and paused resonated with me. I will never forget after being separated 3 years, fasting and interceding and doing everything I could and he still wouldn’t change. I filed for my divorce. I remember balling in my car before going into the court room as well, telling God how my marriage meant absolutely everything to me. I remember saying to the Lord, all I have done and nothing changed. He let me know I had changed. I allowed God to do the work in me and that was where I made peace with my decision. I know my labor was not in vain, when we become better and not bitter.
Monique is so raw and amazing! She deserves the world! Her intentions were pure from the beginning to the end!! I pray for healing, happiness & peace!❤
@suziesmith9076 I didn't take it as blame. She said they grew apart. She said she went into the relationship unrealistically. Even the marriage counselors hinted they shouldn't be together, but she was consumed with the wedding happening. There were many red flags on communication, but she thought they were fixable... She also gave the example of how she initially talked to him with attitude but then tried it nicely, then stopped talking at all... she gave examples of how she did ALL the work versus paying attention to the fact that he wasn't participating. All of what she should have considered a red flag... She said she took on leadership roles and then resented him in the end for doing it... pretty accountable to me.
She has spoken for a lot of people today....my goodness. Really explains my relationship with my ex-husband...so sad that so many marriages have and are experiencing this.
True! Many of us totally get what she's talking abt. Sometimes the men just don't want or aren't willing to work, grow, and develop in the relationship in order for it to thrive and become better and better.
My ex-husband was just as she described, but he, with fire in his soul, started doing all the work when it was over. Some spouses get comfortable with just having the place filled, the box checked off. It's the silent killer of a marriage.
Monique has always been a breathe of fresh air. She’s always been so transparent and open with her audience. Very expressive and funny! I MISS her and her LAUGH on the radio in the mornings but now I completely understand. They was she has pivoted during a tough time is simply amazing. Kudos to Monique on giving her her flowers!!!! 💐
She on point……and speaking for all of us that kept our families together‼️Thank you for your candor, your spirit, your transparency , your story……I bet she’s a great mom🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Monique was always my favorite on RHOP. I always knew she was doing the best she could to keep it together. Chris was kind but never supported her. He never transitioned from having the mindset of an athlete constantly being served. She did a great job managing the business of their marriage, but she didn’t get a chance to enjoy her marriage as a wife. I pray she gets the love she deserves.
You nailed it. They had just grew in different directions and he never seemed to have been on her growth level. Now I believe he did grow cuz I saw a change in him from RHOP to LMDC, but it just wasn't enough iand at her pace.
The REALEST moment I've seen was when Giselle sat her down and had this candid convo. That was the REAL Giselle speaking from a place of experience with the best intentions. She saw it, we saw it too. It was such a great interview and I'm still team Monique lol....thanks for being vulnerable enough to help others, praying for you as you continue to heal.
This was a raw, real and needed conversation! Thank you both making the space for this dialogue to be had. It made me think of so many things on so many different levels. I definitely have a much greater respect and admiration for Monique! Blessings Queen🙏🏽❤️
The silence be so loud, I can relate Bigtime, The feeling of Failure due to having to divorce at 27, 7 yrs later Here we are Giving it another Try. Keep us in Prayer Lit Family ❤ God Bless
I know exactly what she is speaking of when it comes to marriage, lack of connection, vulnerability, and authenticity, then moving through the divorce. Painful that someone you think you have a connection just doesn't want.to put in the work for the relationship work. So glad I'm on the other side of healing from that relationship.
Lol, from the first day!!! "We have four homes!" to the last, when she came in with the folder to read all of them chronologically with receipts in hand! Left Gezelle gaged! She was always so real and I loved her for it.
Dear Sis, We felt that moment!!! It was loaded with labour pains. I know because I can relate. But let me assure you that the you that stood up from that yellow couch is not the same You that sat there. A stronger and better you has been birthed 🎉🎉 Stay winning. And thank you LT❤
@Laterras many MEN need to see this episode…. Black women get such a bad wrap for divorcing… Ms. Monique Samuels, so eloquently shared the major issues in today’s unions. Thank you for allowing this transparency & healthy conversation for the masses. My prayer is that More MEN would open their hearts & minds to hear 🙏🏽
She is a breath of fresh air! So down to earth and real/raw. Love her realism and self awareness and growth. She’s a truly beautiful soul. And she has described what myself and so many women live through before making decision to separate from partners/husbands. Keep growing Monique!
❤Good morning young lady ,Laterras thank you for having Monique on the podcast.Im beautiful, a senior and I was married in 1992 and my husband was a great guy.Steve was a great Dad ,friend, uncle,brother .We were in love but I was so broken 💔 and so was he.Im listening to her sharing her story about the emotions and not being covered . In all my years I have never heard someone explain it so well.Ikept my feelings in and got so hard .It's so many things I could share ,but God!!!! 🎉🎉🎉Thank you Jesus for the blood...
Monique ....YOU ARE MY HERO! This interview was so authentic. I really connected to your words and feel that I found healing in them as well. I can't thank you enough. If you ever have seminars in the DMV....please post.
When she was talking about expressing yourself but, just expressing yourself is a problem so you hold it in not wanting to cause problems. Then, when something else happens you end up blowing up and looking like this "crazy, black woman". That's not a positive relationship to be in. If I can't comfortably express myself to you, then you are not the man for me.
Latteras does it again!!!! You are the best interviewer hands down. Such a variety and depth of the human experience!! Essential Oils are Mandatory! Using for 25 years
This man is such a great listener and an excellent communicator. Great interviewer. Asked all the right questions, at the right time and in the right way! First time watching.
What a brilliant host! Giving Monique all the time she needed in the beginning was everything. ❤😊 This is the kind of pause i want people to give me as i deal with grieving our mum. Just to allow me sit and feel whatever emotions will come in the pause.
Wow, I remember he didn't show up in court. I walked out of the court, and just kept walking and walking, with tears streaming down my face. It was one of the loneliest feeling I had ever felt in my life.
Monique, I had no idea who you were before this moment but babayyyy this testimony has connected us as one! Thank you for your authenticity and transparency…. And girl You look dayum flawless while doing it with shea butter coco cream skin!! This is that holistic healing journey of finding YOU embraced and empowered by God! We are here for this type of healing ❤️🩹 Thank you so much 🙏🏽🙏🏽
I have never watched a show Monique was on but I love and appreciate this interview. This was therapeutic and I love how she still spoke highly of her ex and took ownership of her mistakes. I pray and hope she finds her complete happiness within herself and find love again.
This episode blessed my entire soul. At this moment, my heart is full and my mind is filled with thoughts of what my future will be beyond a marriage that's ending. Monique's sharing of her journey has helped fuel the courage that has been buried beneath years of hurt and disappointments. Thank you both for this interview. Laterras, may God bless you with every resource necessary to fund the vision that HE has given. Manifestation is nigh!
Thank you so much, Monique, for your full transparency. I'm actually divorced based on the same things you experienced in your marriage as well as the feelings behind it. I felt every word and your authenticity. Amazing interview 👏🏾
"This message is so needed because so many women find themselves in this space. I was recently listening to Dr. Jay, and he spoke about the ambitious woman-how we can be ambitious in so many areas, yet it's often the little girl within us who ends up leading when we're feeling unfulfilled or lacking control. When we're younger, we might think everything will be perfect if we can just control the narrative-if our husband says 'yes' to everything, for example. But as the years go by in marriage, you start to realize that you're the one carrying the burden. You're taking on everything, and at some point, you stop and think, 'When do we get to the place where we’re truly working together, in agreement, as a team?' It’s a hard realization, but such an important conversation to have. Thank you for bringing this up."
I actually like this interview . She very humble which is rare in celebrities. I love the ways she articulate her feelings. Our views on a relationship is extremely similarly.
Cool-videos! My five-year relationship came to an end a month ago. The love of my life chose to leave, and I can't stop thinking about him; I love him so deeply. I've done everything I can to win him back, but nothing seems to work. I'm feeling frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. Despite my efforts to move on, I just can't shake the thoughts of him. I don’t know why I’m sharing this, (but I really miss him)
Saying goodbye to someone you love is difficult; I know this from my 12-year relationship ending. But I was unable to simply let him go, so I made every effort to get him back. I eventually sought aid from a spiritual counselor, who was able to help me regain his affection.
I just sought him up online thanks to your helpful information. remarkable I just checked Father Obah Eze online, and he's really genuine. Thank you again ❤
Great interview, I told myself I wasn’t going to listen bc I felt like we’ve heard her story before but I’m glad I did. This was beyond the headlines and a real vulnerable conversation that didn’t feel guarded.
Thank you Monique ❤ Everything you said is my 8 years on and off relationship with my son’s father 😢 Every single word are my words and feelings. God has confirmed for me that my blessings are still ahead of me and I need to let go and move on at 40. I love you for your transparency and vulnerability ❤❤ #youhelpedthissista
I’ve always loved Monique from she first came on Potomac and told Giselle “actually I have two homes”. Love her transparency and clear communication and she’s so naturally pretty. Can’t wait to see her journey.
I SO appreciate this interview and her transparency. Your caring heart to honor her silent emotion was everything! “Self-led” decisions, especially as young adults, will lead to a life path that might lead to darkness.
This has got to be one of my favorite episodes because she is telling my story minus the money lol😂🤷🏾♀️ But omg I identify with majority of what she said!!! I didn't know who she was until now. Thank you for sharing her story and Monique for telling your vulnerability ❤🎉 This gave me so much hope🙏🏽
Women: Pay attention. When a Man doesn't have a Plan for You from the Beginning, Don't Go! There's no going with the flow or let's see what happens...All the Red Flags were there, he was a lazy dater and never wanted to marry it played out in the marriage, he lacked enthusiasm for life it seemed because Monique did everything. Hopefully Monique learned her lesson tho, stop trying to run everything and fall back
Think about it 🤔 Monique and her Man were BOTH Sexually irresponsible because she admitted they POPPED OUT a baby 👶🏼 even before their FIRST wedding Anniversary 🤦🏽♀️ If you know like I know, Husbands can sometimes be Jealous for their Wife’s Attention 😂 Giving Birth to a whole baby and becoming a Mother even BEFORE having an Opportunity to BE a Wife can be problematic. Babies Require a LOT of Care and Attention, and many Women suffer from Postpartum blues which can Negatively Impact Marital relations. I know from experience because I Suffered from what is known as **The Madonna-whore Complex** wherein I was UNABLE to maintain Sexual arousal because I thought of myself as now being Somebody’s Mother and I was REPULSED by my Husband’s romantic advances. It was a Whole Mess!! 😂
Realistically speaking a lot of women ignore red flags if the guy has deep pockets. They actually see it as an achievement to get the man no matter what.
Monique is beautiful from the inside out! She is a good representative of marriage minded women who have battled with our ambition within a marriage; women who lead and don’t see they’re a part of the reason why the man is not leading… I hope she continues her post divorce healing journey, continue healing the inner feminine and that she’ll always have enough (& more) to sustain herself and her children whether she’s married or single. If she desires I pray the right man finds her… Sis is just too refreshing, great interview
Wow!!!! Is all I can say. This Queens story I identify with completely.and resonated within my soul Slight difference. I was the bread winner never looking for money looking for growing together. In divorce he came for my finances Even though he chose not to grow. I can't regret because one time there was happiness for what I thought a marriage should be. I have beautiful blessings (kids) from that relationship. However at one time there were regrets until I truly started to heal. Now despite the tears or how hard the journey I made it. Most importantly my kids see a healthy me and it carries on into their lives and helps them be better to be healthy in relationship and respect themselves. They aren't forced to see toxic parents. Now I look fwd for God to send my future husband. My peace has been everything.💜 Thank you for sharing Monique
I absolutely loved this interview and I must say that I resonate with alot of what Monique experienced in her former marriage. Thanks for growth and fir always being so transparent.
What an amazing interview! What a blessing Monique was to me and I’m happy in my marriage but for her to be open and vulnerable to share her journey is an absolute blessing! May GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS HER EVERY ENDEAVOR ❤️❤️❤️❤️Thank you to you both!
Fantastic video My five-year relationship ended a month ago. The decision to part ways with the love of my life is something that truly consumes me. Though it's all in vain, I've tried everything to get him back, and I can't fathom my life with anyone else. Even though I've made every effort to quit thinking about him, I can't help but miss him and can't stop thinking about him. Why I am stating this here is beyond me.
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
Monique’s articulation of what caused her marriage to crumple was so well put and relatable as an ex-wife myself. I watched her marriage beginning to crumble and was praying that it wouldn’t happen. Of all the housewives she’s always been the most real, down to earth and relatable. She makes you feel like she’s your friend in your head. I relived the demise of my own marriage listening to the podcast. I’m so proud of her and though the future didn’t turn out to be what she’d hoped and labored for God’s plan will be greater than she ever imagined. Dissolving a marriage from someone you genuinely love, care for and want the best for is tantamount to a true death. However, there’s no growth without pain, no testimony without a test and she will and is coming out stronger on the other side of this.
This episode was refreshing and as usual bravo to the interviewer. I’ve always liked her, confident, driven, intelligent. It’s takes a lot to end a ,artiste of that public stature,I still wish there was a way to salvage what they had. You never know. It’s hard to see friends to lovers to spouses lose it all. I also really like how fair she was in her dialogue, no need to bash him at all.
I feel the same way as Monique felt. I just can't afford to leave. As soon as I can increase my income I am filling for divorce. The misery, all that she stated as to how she felt for years is exactly the same that I'm going through. I can 't state how I feel without turmoil so I just have to be miserable and quiet. I am so happy for Monique and I will keep her in my prayers. This was a great topic and it has helped me to know that I am not alone in how I have been feeling for the past 6 years.
As a laid back married man, father of three same women it’s one thing to get pressure from the outside world, but then to come home and get pressured 10 times more from your wife is mind blowing. I can’t imagine this guy was probably overwhelmed through the roof.. based off the information that was disclosed here. Two power dynamics very rarely if ever works. Not to discredit one’s experience, but in most cases, both sides of the story always brings great clarity.
@@JP-hy2ix Hmm 🤔- please enlighten- What should be the wifes demeanor & Solution to what Ms. Samuels shared in her story?? From listening to her speak, She didn’t share that she ‘overwhelmed’ her husband when he came home, nor did she share that she was unwilling to compromise with his needs. From what you heard her say, in this video, How do you understand the Husbands responses & his demeanor?
@@ReeceLongTime Often times people process information through Rose colored glasses and run with it especially when they hear testimonies that have some similarities to the pain and trauma, they went through. If you let a person speak, they’ll tell you everything you need to know. You might be the exception, but for most people they understand that the husband does not have to be present for a wife to be a clear representation and reflection of her household by what she does or says.
(29:15)-(30:00) in the video is a telltale sign amongst many other things that she stated she did not allow that brother to move at his own comfortable pace. If you listen closely, you’ll see that this has been a common approach in most situation. For anyone to have a relationship testimony on public platforms about their spouse who is still living it will bring great clarity to get both sides of the store if it wasn’t a life threatening situation.. Hints Derrick Jaxn and his wife
I loved her on RHOP but this made me love her so much more! Her view on people is so refreshing and the self-awareness is beautiful!! I know that she will win in the end.
She was always my favorite on the RHOP. She seems so genuine and is absolutely stunning. Hate to hear their marriage didnt work but glad she is healing and working on being at peace.
Monique is super strong and poised. I believe even in that pregnant pause she was covering him. So much she could have said that was left unsaid. Emotional abuse is hidden from the eye but felt with every punch in the soul. If anyone was in the live chat today you got a chance to see what gaslighting looks like in real-time. Tears you down, makes you question your dignity and your worth. It comes from an evil spirit. Our battle is not against flesh and blood. I can relate too well to her story. Everyone thinks he’s nice because they don’t see him disrespect you and talk down to you. Make you feel that you’re worth nothing. Thank You, Holy Spirit, for revelation. I wonder how many missing wives, wives hurt/killed by emotionally abusive husbands were told that they should hang in there. Only the persons inside the relationship can truly judge. This podcast has helped me to heal so much and see that I’m not alone. I remember Judge Toler saying, “Never let a man tell you twice that he doesn’t want to be with you.” What do you do when he says that and you believe in covenant and you have 2 children together?… You suffer in silence. Bishop Fernandez freed me from a prison that I’d placed myself in. Never wanted to be a statistic or stereotype. Was willing to suffer so my kids could have both parents, but at what cost?… After almost 4 years of separation and prayer and fasting and asking for change, I’m finally ready to be the change and file. Please pray peace for my children and that they be surrounded as with a shield… S/o to all the single Moms who are ready to be healthy and well for themselves and their kids! ua-cam.com/video/ZLdd0uRz3Kc/v-deo.htmlsi=Ihym-15NOLlOAQEP
The transparency that this woman has given proves that she is truly comfortable in her skin, a divorce is basically planning a funeral for a person that is still very much alive and that's not a good space to be in, FAILURE sets in so fast because no one gets married to plan the exit from the marriage. Bravo Monique and know that you have permission to choose YOU
Great interview! I kept trying to go do chores but had to listen to the entire thing.......🤣🤣🤣 I see Monique in a totally different light and I can relate to so many things she said and felt.
So glad i ran across this interview, i loved Monique since RHOP. ❤ ❤❤So happy she has made it thru the storm. You just gained a subscriber today. Love your style😂
Beautiful interview, I don’t know much about her or husband. I love her transparency, accountability and honesty. We can’t make a husband of a man, or a wife of a woman he/ she has to become a husband/ wife on his/ her own, through growth and wisdom. Be coming a full circle wife/ husband both parties have to be dedicated in doing the work. May god blessings be with her and her children.
Monique, thank you for speaking so much of what most women have gone through or going through. Personally the best gift that I have are my children. God provides to us what a broken man can't or won't provide.
It was great to see Mo outside of reality TV & in a better space. I can tell she has been doing some work on herself. Kudos to her & I hope Chris is also doing the same & they are possibly able to reunite as better people if they determine to do so. Sometimes both parties need a hard pause to see themselves & what life is like outside of marriage. Prayers for them both.
100 💯 I pray they grow apart realize their part in it and rejoin their union strong an better than before. If God willing 🙏🏾 and keep SM and reality TV out their marriage ( lord bc any time you have someone else besides God in your marriage, I am sorry to say it, but it is doomed)
Haven’t even started, but the sneak peak was triggering so I am planing to watch this in totality a bit later this month. ❤ you bro. I know this is going to be a fabulous interview. 🙌🏾
I'm so happy Monique did this interview! She was one of my favorite housewives! I think the thought that most people have is that every woman that divorces a wealthy man leaves with a ton of money. But it's clear that this is not the case. I'm happy that she made that clear! When you really love someone, the last thing you care about is money. I pray that she continues to heal and finds the love she desires after she heals. You did a great thing in letting her have that moment to sit in the pain she was reliving. This was an awesome interview!
I learned my lesson in fornicating before marriage even though we knew we were getting married. We both overlooked so much and needed so much healing before getting married. The sex clouded alot. I was successfully married (by the Grace of God) and we were just getting it together and starting to hear and see one another again and learn one another again (because people change lol especially after major life events) heading into year 7 but he passed that December. Also got together when i was 20 and he 21. He passed at aged 30. I will do alot different if i am graced with a second marriage. God bless her. Im sure the decision was difficult. Praying for their healing as a family.
I've been a fan of the Samuels since I found out that Monique was a rapper 😂 I used to rap too and thought it was so awesome to see her as a housewife. I was so sad about their divorce. Many Blessings ❤
Excellent episode, beautiful young lady. I’ve watched her on the RHOP, she reminds me of myself on so many levels. Loved her vulnerability and transparency during this interview. Her silence spoke volumes, definitely resonated with me. DFW keep the fire burning. 🔥❤. I love this podcast!
Allowing her to sit in her pause was brilliant…that is an indicator of a great interviewer/journalist. More of us need to recognize the power of silence.
Great interview. Thank you for sharing.
Very true, he's great. He doesn't over talk over the guest either like some interviewers do which is annoying and unprofessional.
Yes God! I was just thinking that. I wish more journalists would allow ppl to answer fully but give the guest time to process their thoughts. Cuz lord knows they be just rushin through every question.
Facts
Agreed
I felt every bit of that🙏🏽❤ I quash her the very best
When my wife passed on June 29th, 2024, I became a man undone. I am now on a journey to discover who I am now. For 34 years I fought to love my wife as Christ loved the church. So for 34 years I knew who I was. Now for the first time ever in my life, I'm a Single Christian Man, and I don't know how to move in that lane. So my trust in God is coming from a new place...."I am a Man undone"
Lean upon Ggod for understanding. He will not lead you astray. Pray for peace. I wish you many blessings.
After loosing someone you love dearly, it's a process. Try 16 years counting.... It was extremely hard in the very beginning but got through it thankfully with his family. I couldn't do this without them. Heal through this process....Give it ALL to God. He is Good. Amen. God Bless You.
Lifting prayers for you.
Praying for and with you
Thanks for sharing
I was married like that once. My aunt told me I married a provider but not a husband. Some men have no capacity or desire for the relational part of the marriage. It’s a challenge to say the least.
OMG THAT'S GOOD! I never thought about it like this .... He's A Provider Not A Husband! 😮😮😮
Sooooo trueee...hmmmmmmm!!@
Very true! I am married to a provider but feel as if I do not have a husband. Thankfully, I have developed a relationship with God after getting married. If I did NOT have this relationship than I would be a divorced single mother b/c emotionally the situation would've been too difficult for me to navigate. However, by depending on God his grace is sufficient. I will continue to pray for my marriage and let God lead the way.
This!!!
@@mrsc1742God wants you to be happy.
Monique was able to share her journey in a transparent way. My prayer is that she continues to heal, grow, and be the best version of herself.
God bless you and your family ❤
As a single woman who loves to be in control, I've learned so much from her story. Thank you Monique for your vulnerability.
Monique didn’t love to be in control. She had no other choice.
@@OhhYouu..MICHELLEof course she had a choice
@@OhhYouu..MICHELLE she said she loved being in control when they were dating
Her ex not writing the family plan was the red flag.He didn't have the mission ,so she had to overcompensate,then wouldn't submit to him,and took authority, that's what a lot of us go thru 🤔
@@OhhYouu..MICHELLEshe did like to be in control and she was the structured one!! Then she met a man that let her do everything cause he is laid back but she later on wanted to also be taken cared of.
Her extended pause of silence spoke volumes! Thank you for allowing her to sit in that moment and give a very vivid answer. ☝🏽❤️
That silence before answering, spoke volumes. Relatable!
That silence was so loud.
Didn’t it??!
And I love how he let it happen
I felt her pain and felt the same way. I know her pain all too well
I felt that silence in my soul. I have never experienced marriage and/or divorce, but I felt this for her. She seems to be healing and pray she can get the love she truly deserves.
I didn’t know anything about her prior to this interview. I really enjoyed this interview and how open and vulnerable she was with us. That moment she shared and paused resonated with me. I will never forget after being separated 3 years, fasting and interceding and doing everything I could and he still wouldn’t change.
I filed for my divorce. I remember balling in my car before going into the court room as well, telling God how my marriage meant absolutely everything to me. I remember saying to the Lord, all I have done
and nothing changed. He let me know I had changed. I allowed God to do the work in me and that was where I made peace with my decision. I know my labor was not in vain, when we become better and not bitter.
Amen 🙏🏾
Monique is so raw and amazing! She deserves the world! Her intentions were pure from the beginning to the end!! I pray for healing, happiness & peace!❤
I love her accountability and self awareness.
Yes sounds like she has done a lot of her own internal work. Kudos to her!
@@allmynz02 where was her accountability she blamed him!
@suziesmith9076 I didn't take it as blame. She said they grew apart. She said she went into the relationship unrealistically. Even the marriage counselors hinted they shouldn't be together, but she was consumed with the wedding happening. There were many red flags on communication, but she thought they were fixable... She also gave the example of how she initially talked to him with attitude but then tried it nicely, then stopped talking at all... she gave examples of how she did ALL the work versus paying attention to the fact that he wasn't participating. All of what she should have considered a red flag... She said she took on leadership roles and then resented him in the end for doing it... pretty accountable to me.
@@allmynz02I agree with you
What accountability
She has spoken for a lot of people today....my goodness. Really explains my relationship with my ex-husband...so sad that so many marriages have and are experiencing this.
True! Many of us totally get what she's talking abt. Sometimes the men just don't want or aren't willing to work, grow, and develop in the relationship in order for it to thrive and become better and better.
My ex-husband was just as she described, but he, with fire in his soul, started doing all the work when it was over. Some spouses get comfortable with just having the place filled, the box checked off. It's the silent killer of a marriage.
Monique has always been a breathe of fresh air. She’s always been so transparent and open with her audience. Very expressive and funny! I MISS her and her LAUGH on the radio in the mornings but now I completely understand. They was she has pivoted during a tough time is simply amazing. Kudos to Monique on giving her her flowers!!!! 💐
She on point……and speaking for all of us that kept our families together‼️Thank you for your candor, your spirit, your transparency , your story……I bet she’s a great mom🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Monique was always my favorite on RHOP. I always knew she was doing the best she could to keep it together. Chris was kind but never supported her. He never transitioned from having the mindset of an athlete constantly being served. She did a great job managing the business of their marriage, but she didn’t get a chance to enjoy her marriage as a wife. I pray she gets the love she deserves.
And that new man will have his own issues as well. I hope Monique gets back together with Chris.
You nailed it. They had just grew in different directions and he never seemed to have been on her growth level. Now I believe he did grow cuz I saw a change in him from RHOP to LMDC, but it just wasn't enough iand at her pace.
Completely agree with you!!!
Well said. If he changes and they still have love and can reconcile, great, and if not, okay. I stopped watching the show when she left.
I agree. I hate how she left the show but she was a good person. Just misunderstood.
The REALEST moment I've seen was when Giselle sat her down and had this candid convo. That was the REAL Giselle speaking from a place of experience with the best intentions. She saw it, we saw it too. It was such a great interview and I'm still team Monique lol....thanks for being vulnerable enough to help others, praying for you as you continue to heal.
What episode was that?
@@missgraciousI want to rewatch this too
I remember that convo
Whewww….She is Me & I am her!!! Sounds soo much like my previous marriage! This is so GOoD & Necessary!!
Me too.
My present marriage 😢
@@katrinafreeman3270 She was/is me
This was a raw, real and needed conversation! Thank you both making the space for this dialogue to be had. It made me think of so many things on so many different levels. I definitely have a much greater respect and admiration for Monique! Blessings Queen🙏🏽❤️
The silence be so loud, I can relate Bigtime, The feeling of Failure due to having to divorce at 27, 7 yrs later Here we are Giving it another Try. Keep us in Prayer Lit Family ❤ God Bless
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I know exactly what she is speaking of when it comes to marriage, lack of connection, vulnerability, and authenticity, then moving through the divorce. Painful that someone you think you have a connection just doesn't want.to put in the work for the relationship work. So glad I'm on the other side of healing from that relationship.
I absolutely love her, she is too real for reality TV for sure. Blessings on blessings to her and her children 🙏🏽❤
The moment of silence was felt. Laterras, you have a true skill at interviewing. It’s almost like therapy for some. Great interview!
My favorite housewife from RHOP❤... Patiently waiting in 🇿🇦
Lol, from the first day!!! "We have four homes!" to the last, when she came in with the folder to read all of them chronologically with receipts in hand! Left Gezelle gaged! She was always so real and I loved her for it.
They need to bring her back!
Dear Sis,
We felt that moment!!! It was loaded with labour pains. I know because I can relate.
But let me assure you that the you that stood up from that yellow couch is not the same You that sat there. A stronger and better you has been birthed 🎉🎉 Stay winning.
And thank you LT❤
her laugh is such a hearty laugh! Love it! she definitely seems down to earth and very much relatable!
@Laterras many MEN need to see this episode….
Black women get such a bad wrap for divorcing…
Ms. Monique Samuels, so eloquently shared the major issues in today’s unions.
Thank you for allowing this transparency & healthy conversation for the masses.
My prayer is that More MEN would open their hearts & minds to hear 🙏🏽
She is a breath of fresh air! So down to earth and real/raw.
Love her realism and self awareness and growth. She’s a truly beautiful soul.
And she has described what myself and so many women live through before making decision to separate from partners/husbands.
Keep growing Monique!
❤Good morning young lady ,Laterras thank you for having Monique on the podcast.Im beautiful, a senior and I was married in 1992 and my husband was a great guy.Steve was a great Dad ,friend, uncle,brother .We were in love but I was so broken 💔 and so was he.Im listening to her sharing her story about the emotions and not being covered . In all my years I have never heard someone explain it so well.Ikept my feelings in and got so hard .It's so many things I could share ,but God!!!! 🎉🎉🎉Thank you Jesus for the blood...
Thank you Monique for your transparency. You are on your way to your much better self. As Laterras said you are truly a pleasant surprise ❤
I like how graceful she was with all of this. She is an amazing young lady. I pray that they both received what God has for them.
She is so stunning!!! Thank you Monique for the transparency ❤
I'm only 20 minutes in and I love this interview. I could listen to Monique talk for hours. Great content. Thank you. 👏🏽
Exactly!!!!
Monique ....YOU ARE MY HERO! This interview was so authentic. I really connected to your words and feel that I found healing in them as well. I can't thank you enough. If you ever have seminars in the DMV....please post.
Omg! That is where I am now. I had to walk away. You just described our relationship.
She just described my marriage too.
They turn into the victim
When she was talking about expressing yourself but, just expressing yourself is a problem so you hold it in not wanting to cause problems. Then, when something else happens you end up blowing up and looking like this "crazy, black woman". That's not a positive relationship to be in. If I can't comfortably express myself to you, then you are not the man for me.
0:13 do you know how important that PAUSE was? You DISPLAYED love in that moment. 🙌🏾💛😭 Okay I’m tuned in…thank you for doing that. ❤️
For real! That pause made me cry.
Latteras does it again!!!! You are the best interviewer hands down. Such a variety and depth of the human experience!! Essential Oils are Mandatory! Using for 25 years
🎉💯I love the way he listens intently. And Yesss to essential oils--they are #Essential So much power 💥 in them for healing and also soothing. 😊
😢omg she's telling my current story
Thank you so much for sharing I feel not alone anymore
Same
I 3rd this message…Living this situation in real time.😢 Praying for all.
Me too. 😢
Me too
This man is such a great listener and an excellent communicator. Great interviewer. Asked all the right questions, at the right time and in the right way! First time watching.
He is, research his back story about him being a cheater. He's an open book
What a brilliant host! Giving Monique all the time she needed in the beginning was everything.
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This is the kind of pause i want people to give me as i deal with grieving our mum. Just to allow me sit and feel whatever emotions will come in the pause.
Wow, I remember he didn't show up in court. I walked out of the court, and just kept walking and walking, with tears streaming down my face. It was one of the loneliest feeling I had ever felt in my life.
Monique, I had no idea who you were before this moment but babayyyy this testimony has connected us as one! Thank you for your authenticity and transparency…. And girl
You look dayum flawless while doing it with shea butter coco cream skin!! This is that holistic healing journey of finding YOU embraced and empowered by God! We are here for this type of healing ❤️🩹 Thank you so much 🙏🏽🙏🏽
I absolutely enjoyed this interview. Monique Is an amazing person. Thank you for sharing your journey with us Monique.❤️🙏🏽
I have never watched a show Monique was on but I love and appreciate this interview. This was therapeutic and I love how she still spoke highly of her ex and took ownership of her mistakes. I pray and hope she finds her complete happiness within herself and find love again.
This episode blessed my entire soul. At this moment, my heart is full and my mind is filled with thoughts of what my future will be beyond a marriage that's ending. Monique's sharing of her journey has helped fuel the courage that has been buried beneath years of hurt and disappointments. Thank you both for this interview. Laterras, may God bless you with every resource necessary to fund the vision that HE has given. Manifestation is nigh!
Thank you so much, Monique, for your full transparency. I'm actually divorced based on the same things you experienced in your marriage as well as the feelings behind it. I felt every word and your authenticity. Amazing interview 👏🏾
"This message is so needed because so many women find themselves in this space. I was recently listening to Dr. Jay, and he spoke about the ambitious woman-how we can be ambitious in so many areas, yet it's often the little girl within us who ends up leading when we're feeling unfulfilled or lacking control.
When we're younger, we might think everything will be perfect if we can just control the narrative-if our husband says 'yes' to everything, for example. But as the years go by in marriage, you start to realize that you're the one carrying the burden. You're taking on everything, and at some point, you stop and think, 'When do we get to the place where we’re truly working together, in agreement, as a team?'
It’s a hard realization, but such an important conversation to have. Thank you for bringing this up."
I actually like this interview . She very humble which is rare in celebrities. I love the ways she articulate her feelings. Our views on a relationship is extremely similarly.
Monique has always been my Favorite on RHOP. Always open , honest and raw. Thank you for being so transparent!
Cool-videos! My five-year relationship came to an end a month ago. The love of my life chose to leave, and I can't stop thinking about him; I love him so deeply. I've done everything I can to win him back, but nothing seems to work. I'm feeling frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. Despite my efforts to move on, I just can't shake the thoughts of him. I don’t know why I’m sharing this, (but I really miss him)
Saying goodbye to someone you love is difficult; I know this from my 12-year relationship ending. But I was unable to simply let him go, so I made every effort to get him back. I eventually sought aid from a spiritual counselor, who was able to help me regain his affection.
It's interesting! How can I contact a spiritual counselor most efficiently, and how did you find one?
Father Obah Eze is a wonderful spiritual counselor who has the ability to bring back your ex.
He can assist you; he is Father Obah Eze, and he possesses immense powers.
I just sought him up online thanks to your helpful information. remarkable
I just checked Father Obah Eze online, and he's really genuine. Thank you again ❤
Great interview, I told myself I wasn’t going to listen bc I felt like we’ve heard her story before but I’m glad I did. This was beyond the headlines and a real vulnerable conversation that didn’t feel guarded.
Omg! She is saying everything in my mind!
Thank you Monique ❤
Everything you said is my 8 years on and off relationship with my son’s father 😢
Every single word are my words and feelings. God has confirmed for me that my blessings are still ahead of me and I need to let go and move on at 40. I love you for your transparency and vulnerability ❤❤ #youhelpedthissista
I had to turn this off..
Many of us can relate. May God lead you as you move fwd. It will get better!
She has a good heart! May God open new doors for her and her children!
I’ve always loved Monique from she first came on Potomac and told Giselle “actually I have two homes”. Love her transparency and clear communication and she’s so naturally pretty. Can’t wait to see her journey.
Four homes***
Yesss 4 homes ❤️
Monique is just beautiful and real. I’ve always liked her.
I SO appreciate this interview and her transparency. Your caring heart to honor her silent emotion was everything! “Self-led” decisions, especially as young adults, will lead to a life path that might lead to darkness.
This has got to be one of my favorite episodes because she is telling my story minus the money lol😂🤷🏾♀️ But omg I identify with majority of what she said!!! I didn't know who she was until now. Thank you for sharing her story and Monique for telling your vulnerability ❤🎉 This gave me so much hope🙏🏽
This conversation was so beautiful. ♥ The host and Monique have a nice vibe between them. It's nice to see them talk deeply and also laugh 🙂
Women: Pay attention. When a Man doesn't have a Plan for You from the Beginning, Don't Go! There's no going with the flow or let's see what happens...All the Red Flags were there, he was a lazy dater and never wanted to marry it played out in the marriage, he lacked enthusiasm for life it seemed because Monique did everything. Hopefully Monique learned her lesson tho, stop trying to run everything and fall back
Think about it 🤔 Monique and her Man were BOTH Sexually irresponsible because she admitted they POPPED OUT a baby 👶🏼 even before their FIRST wedding Anniversary 🤦🏽♀️ If you know like I know, Husbands can sometimes be Jealous for their Wife’s Attention 😂 Giving Birth to a whole baby and becoming a Mother even BEFORE having an Opportunity to BE a Wife can be problematic. Babies Require a LOT of Care and Attention, and many Women suffer from Postpartum blues which can Negatively Impact Marital relations. I know from experience because I Suffered from what is known as **The Madonna-whore Complex** wherein I was UNABLE to maintain Sexual arousal because I thought of myself as now being Somebody’s Mother and I was REPULSED by my Husband’s romantic advances. It was a Whole Mess!! 😂
Realistically speaking a lot of women ignore red flags if the guy has deep pockets. They actually see it as an achievement to get the man no matter what.
So true
I needed this comment right here TY 💜
I loved her on housewives. She was no nonsense and didn't take anymess off of those ladies. I'm wishing the best for Monique. She's so real❤
Monique is beautiful from the inside out! She is a good representative of marriage minded women who have battled with our ambition within a marriage; women who lead and don’t see they’re a part of the reason why the man is not leading… I hope she continues her post divorce healing journey, continue healing the inner feminine and that she’ll always have enough (& more) to sustain herself and her children whether she’s married or single. If she desires I pray the right man finds her…
Sis is just too refreshing, great interview
That moment was definitely felt across the world. 🙌🏾
I'm so blessed to have listened to this interview. May God bless Monique and her children. Thank you for being open with us.
Wow!!!! Is all I can say. This Queens story I identify with completely.and resonated within my soul Slight difference. I was the bread winner never looking for money looking for growing together. In divorce he came for my finances Even though he chose not to grow. I can't regret because one time there was happiness for what I thought a marriage should be. I have beautiful blessings (kids) from that relationship. However at one time there were regrets until I truly started to heal. Now despite the tears or how hard the journey I made it. Most importantly my kids see a healthy me and it carries on into their lives and helps them be better to be healthy in relationship and respect themselves. They aren't forced to see toxic parents. Now I look fwd for God to send my future husband. My peace has been everything.💜 Thank you for sharing Monique
I absolutely loved this interview and I must say that I resonate with alot of what Monique experienced in her former marriage. Thanks for growth and fir always being so transparent.
I was giving you props, brother for that diffuser that I was drawn to for the past hour. That’s Monique’s! Props taken back and given to her! 😊
What an amazing interview! What a blessing Monique was to me and I’m happy in my marriage but for her to be open and vulnerable to share her journey is an absolute blessing! May GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS HER EVERY ENDEAVOR ❤️❤️❤️❤️Thank you to you both!
Fantastic video My five-year relationship ended a month ago. The decision to part ways with the love of my life is something that truly consumes me. Though it's all in vain, I've tried everything to get him back, and I can't fathom my life with anyone else. Even though I've made every effort to quit thinking about him, I can't help but miss him and can't stop thinking about him. Why I am stating this here is beyond me.
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive
Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
Amazing interview! Thank you Monique for being so authentically you!
Monique’s articulation of what caused her marriage to crumple was so well put and relatable as an ex-wife myself. I watched her marriage beginning to crumble and was praying that it wouldn’t happen. Of all the housewives she’s always been the most real, down to earth and relatable. She makes you feel like she’s your friend in your head. I relived the demise of my own marriage listening to the podcast. I’m so proud of her and though the future didn’t turn out to be what she’d hoped and labored for God’s plan will be greater than she ever imagined. Dissolving a marriage from someone you genuinely love, care for and want the best for is tantamount to a true death. However, there’s no growth without pain, no testimony without a test and she will and is coming out stronger on the other side of this.
Well said.
Thank you Monique for your candor. ❤
This episode was refreshing and as usual bravo to the interviewer. I’ve always liked her, confident, driven, intelligent. It’s takes a lot to end a ,artiste of that public stature,I still wish there was a way to salvage what they had. You never know. It’s hard to see friends to lovers to spouses lose it all. I also really like how fair she was in her dialogue, no need to bash him at all.
I feel the same way as Monique felt. I just can't afford to leave. As soon as I can increase my income I am filling for divorce. The misery, all that she stated as to how she felt for years is exactly the same that I'm going through. I can 't state how I feel without turmoil so I just have to be miserable and quiet. I am so happy for Monique and I will keep her in my prayers. This was a great topic and it has helped me to know that I am not alone in how I have been feeling for the past 6 years.
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As a laid back married man, father of three same women it’s one thing to get pressure from the outside world, but then to come home and get pressured 10 times more from your wife is mind blowing. I can’t imagine this guy was probably overwhelmed through the roof.. based off the information that was disclosed here. Two power dynamics very rarely if ever works. Not to discredit one’s experience, but in most cases, both sides of the story always brings great clarity.
@@JP-hy2ix Hmm 🤔- please enlighten-
What should be the wifes demeanor & Solution to what Ms. Samuels shared in her story??
From listening to her speak, She didn’t share that she ‘overwhelmed’ her husband when he came home, nor did she share that she was unwilling to compromise with his needs.
From what you heard her say, in this video, How do you understand the Husbands responses & his demeanor?
@@ReeceLongTime
Often times people process information through Rose colored glasses and run with it especially when they hear testimonies that have some similarities to the pain and trauma, they went through.
If you let a person speak, they’ll tell you everything you need to know.
You might be the exception, but for most people they understand that the husband does not have to be present for a wife to be a clear representation and reflection of her household by what she does or says.
(29:15)-(30:00) in the video is a telltale sign amongst many other things that she stated she did not allow that brother to move at his own comfortable pace. If you listen closely, you’ll see that this has been a common approach in most situation.
For anyone to have a relationship testimony on public platforms about their spouse who is still living it will bring great clarity to get both sides of the store if it wasn’t a life threatening situation..
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Wow! This sister lived exactly how I am living with my husband. This is my present reality.
I loved her on RHOP but this made me love her so much more! Her view on people is so refreshing and the self-awareness is beautiful!! I know that she will win in the end.
She was always my favorite on the RHOP. She seems so genuine and is absolutely stunning. Hate to hear their marriage didnt work but glad she is healing and working on being at peace.
Monique is super strong and poised. I believe even in that pregnant pause she was covering him. So much she could have said that was left unsaid. Emotional abuse is hidden from the eye but felt with every punch in the soul. If anyone was in the live chat today you got a chance to see what gaslighting looks like in real-time. Tears you down, makes you question your dignity and your worth. It comes from an evil spirit. Our battle is not against flesh and blood.
I can relate too well to her story. Everyone thinks he’s nice because they don’t see him disrespect you and talk down to you. Make you feel that you’re worth nothing. Thank You, Holy Spirit, for revelation. I wonder how many missing wives, wives hurt/killed by emotionally abusive husbands were told that they should hang in there. Only the persons inside the relationship can truly judge.
This podcast has helped me to heal so much and see that I’m not alone. I remember Judge Toler saying, “Never let a man tell you twice that he doesn’t want to be with you.” What do you do when he says that and you believe in covenant and you have 2 children together?… You suffer in silence. Bishop Fernandez freed me from a prison that I’d placed myself in.
Never wanted to be a statistic or stereotype. Was willing to suffer so my kids could have both parents, but at what cost?… After almost 4 years of separation and prayer and fasting and asking for change, I’m finally ready to be the change and file. Please pray peace for my children and that they be surrounded as with a shield…
S/o to all the single Moms who are ready to be healthy and well for themselves and their kids!
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The transparency that this woman has given proves that she is truly comfortable in her skin, a divorce is basically planning a funeral for a person that is still very much alive and that's not a good space to be in, FAILURE sets in so fast because no one gets married to plan the exit from the marriage. Bravo Monique and know that you have permission to choose YOU
Such a great, impactful and humbly graceful interview thanks Laterras and Monique well done 👍🏾
@51:00 I FELT MONIQUE'S pain in my soul😢😢😢. Tk you for giving her grace to take a pause and recover.
Great interview! I kept trying to go do chores but had to listen to the entire thing.......🤣🤣🤣 I see Monique in a totally different light and I can relate to so many things she said and felt.
So glad i ran across this interview, i loved Monique since RHOP. ❤ ❤❤So happy she has made it thru the storm. You just gained a subscriber today. Love your style😂
Beautiful interview, I don’t know much about her or husband. I love her transparency, accountability and honesty. We can’t make a husband of a man, or a wife of a woman he/ she has to become a husband/ wife on his/ her own, through growth and wisdom. Be coming a full circle wife/ husband both parties have to be dedicated in doing the work. May god blessings be with her and her children.
This was so good! It resonated with me so much. Thank you for sharing your story Monique ❤
I’m happy for you Monique. May God bless you beyond measure with everything you ever desired and more. Blessings 🙏🏽👑
Monique, thank you for speaking so much of what most women have gone through or going through. Personally the best gift that I have are my children. God provides to us what a broken man can't or won't provide.
It was great to see Mo outside of reality TV & in a better space. I can tell she has been doing some work on herself. Kudos to her & I hope Chris is also doing the same & they are possibly able to reunite as better people if they determine to do so. Sometimes both parties need a hard pause to see themselves & what life is like outside of marriage. Prayers for them both.
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Agreed
100 💯 I pray they grow apart realize their part in it and rejoin their union strong an better than before. If God willing 🙏🏾 and keep SM and reality TV out their marriage ( lord bc any time you have someone else besides God in your marriage, I am sorry to say it, but it is doomed)
I love it for her ❤
Divorce doesn’t mean failure.
It doesn't but I know that's the way you feel & it's been since 2015 but we separated in 2007 that hurts 😭💔
Divorce is a failed marriage, anyhow you spin it
In some family cultures, it does 😢❤
Marriage is supposed to be forever though💔
It does by definition u failed at marriage
Haven’t even started, but the sneak peak was triggering so I am planing to watch this in totality a bit later this month. ❤ you bro. I know this is going to be a fabulous interview. 🙌🏾
I'm so happy Monique did this interview! She was one of my favorite housewives! I think the thought that most people have is that every woman that divorces a wealthy man leaves with a ton of money. But it's clear that this is not the case. I'm happy that she made that clear! When you really love someone, the last thing you care about is money. I pray that she continues to heal and finds the love she desires after she heals. You did a great thing in letting her have that moment to sit in the pain she was reliving. This was an awesome interview!
Great interview!! I’ve always loved Monique. So articulate. ❤
This is good, lots of transparency, I pray for both of you that God's will for your lives be accomplished.
I learned my lesson in fornicating before marriage even though we knew we were getting married. We both overlooked so much and needed so much healing before getting married. The sex clouded alot. I was successfully married (by the Grace of God) and we were just getting it together and starting to hear and see one another again and learn one another again (because people change lol especially after major life events) heading into year 7 but he passed that December. Also got together when i was 20 and he 21. He passed at aged 30. I will do alot different if i am graced with a second marriage. God bless her. Im sure the decision was difficult. Praying for their healing as a family.
Absolutely on point Monique! This was the same issue in my 27 year marriage that ended this year.
Bless your heart Queen!!!! You didn't settle...Love you for Moving Foward!!! You have helped me.
I've been a fan of the Samuels since I found out that Monique was a rapper 😂 I used to rap too and thought it was so awesome to see her as a housewife. I was so sad about their divorce. Many Blessings ❤
Excellent episode, beautiful young lady. I’ve watched her on the RHOP, she reminds me of myself on so many levels. Loved her vulnerability and transparency during this interview. Her silence spoke volumes, definitely resonated with me. DFW keep the fire burning. 🔥❤. I love this podcast!
“Okay, if that’s what you want” speaks volumes😳
I can so relate to everything she is saying. Thank you so much for sharing