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If husband is doing everything he needs to do for her but if she is not doing what she has to do as a house wife then what should he do because here in America all divorce laws go in the favor of women and the society automatically thinks that women are innocent while men are wilon.
56 here, zero percent 80% are trashy women. I've given up on women.
Buddy, this tiktok or whatever it is with the guy playing piano is staged.
a long time ago the girl i married woulda been living a life of luxury, thankfully women showed their true side, no woman will get the "good" side of me again.
credit video please
Rejection is as alien to them as accountability.
Some, not all. I think most of us are okay.
what were those females thinking. you gotta honestly hate them realising you gotta do something exceptional for them to 'approach'
@MichelleJinman
females approaching a rich kid that learned the piano growing up isn't really anything meaningful amongst their interests. the female just wants something he provides. you're literally all the same
@@MichelleJinman "I'm not like other girls"
lol, lmao
i used to reject most of the women that approached me and the look on their faces was always so annoyed, upset and downright angry at times
Behind a heartless guy are multiple women who wronged a good guy and took his kindness as weakness.
I'm a heartless guy now.
@@allynflinchbaugh4570hurts less now doesn't it?
It is called becoming a man
@@allynflinchbaugh4570 same
Not always, but too often you're right
Don't treat them badly, just treat them indifferently, no matter what they look like. Indifference makes the difference.
I like that, ''indifference is the difference'' .. that sir, is gold!! ; ]
indifference is pretty much impossible considering you're trying to get into them u dummy
all you are saying is "guys get tons of money status looks and pray she will like you enough to not mind being treated as equal" this strategy only works for men with all aspects of leverage
Of all the pieces that I have seen that have discussed his point your summary Nails it
@@temposetter1091 You have a lot of work to do on your mindset, and probably elsewhere in your life. Women don't like it when you pedestalize them.
Notice how all those women felt entitled to approach a guy who is a complete stranger without any fear of being thought of as creepy or being rejected; and also without any fear of him being the dangerous and scary man they always like to portray us as.
notice how all of them ignored the camera directly in front of them?
C'mon man, he's playing a piano on a public area and looks fairly effeminate. Let's get Andrew Tate practicing with nunchucks while standing on a pile of cash covered in blood. Betcha he gets approached plenty.
The pianist is the good guy. The bad boy is the lead singer, or the guitarist.
its a skit.
@@Dextrome
Notice how the camera is stationary, and the closeups were edited in later?
The reason why I am no longer in relationships. I am a "nice guy", my ex said I was "too nice". I tired of the abuse and left. I completely broke all contact, communications and never replied to her expect through a lawyer. Amazing how her attitude and feelings toward me changed. We are divorced and years later she still wants to work it out.
Good man!! ; ]
Soooooo, are you guys working on it???
what’s the point though. congrats on standing up for yourself but you both still lose in the end. Im not saying go back to her, just lamenting on the fact that it all seems so pointless if the outcome doesn’t result in creating a happy family
@@MaccabTheDivine if they don't have a family there's no point and it's better they never had one. if they did things can potentially get very dicey. a divorce lawyer told me once that having a child with someone is one of the riskiest things you can do in your life and there are so many ways they can hurt you over it.
Dude, you SERIOUSLY need to read Dr Glover’s book “No More Mr Nice Guy”. It is about “Nice Guy Syndrome”.
They are like "excuse me, how dare you?" Feeling like a noble being rejected by a commoner
That’s literally how the view the “field” and analyze it… I’ve seen it ! And it’s mostly in the clubs and bars or anywhere where there is a lot of people
ive rejected women and they often try to focus on your flaws or forget it happened. they don't even know how to function when their efforts don't work
all the women who have approached me in my life quite literally all just stared at me intensely and after i ignored most of them, they either had a look of being upset, confused and angry sometimes. i found it hilarious
@@temposetter1091 Good. They better up their lame a$$ game, even if you can even call it that
as if they were anywhere near "noble"
According to my ex, since I only paid for 70% of our dates, "She felt that she was being taken advantage of." 🤣. Girl math is top shelf....🤣🤣
That’s called manipulation my friend 🤣 society will come up with an entirely different language to describe when women act abusive to avoid holding them accountable
If the lady is traditional a traditional man tends to provide your treating her like you see her as a friend
women going to college & uni can seriously tank US economy. it is that gigantic having that debt and when it defaults.
What's a traditional woman even supposed to mean?
If she's working, and I'm quite certain that Troy's ex was, the brunt of provision shouldn't be on him alone. @@bunnyboo6295
You found a woman who paid 30%.what is this sorcery
Yeah, treating them like sh1t makes them attracted to you, that part is easy. What’s hard is being attracted to something that requires all these games and likes to be treated like sh1t.
omg thank you!
Healthy relationships are when both partners are investing in the relationship.
The problem these days is that most women expect the man to do everything in the relationship, thanks to princess mindset
I don't want to lie or treat somebody like they're worthless to me. I just can't do it. If I had to pretend I'm someone I'm not and that for years I'd break at some point.
It doesn't even alleviate your loneliness because the other person is just being manipulated by you and does what you want. In that sense you're just talking to yourself through somebody else...
@@entropicprinciple9276 💯
@@goodnice2049 I don't know if this a good thing or a bad thing, but I can share another option: I've watched enough of these types of videos (exposing modern single women in their OWN words) that I feel I now have a much greater understanding of female nature, and it ain't pretty. So, not taking them too seriously, and not bending over backwards to please them feels pretty natural now. No gamesmanship required.
Agreed.
I did this and ignored women and they got so upset that I was not giving them attention and validation that they started saying I must be gay! Since I didn't care what they thought or anyone else for that matter it just pissed them off even more to where they were actually trying to look into my personal life to see what was going on. So it is true that rejection drives them crazy and actually makes them more interested in you as a man.
Plot twist: Months later you’re in a gay marriage and never been more satisfied.
Funny I took the same approach but the result was different, now I'm invisible 🤣
Once you get the 'gay' accusation you know you're doing things right.
Yeah, I've been called that by women, too. They go to insults to save face. Potty mouths, Potty minds.
Meanwhile, when I ignore women they just ignore me in return lol
My ex wife told her family and friends that I was abusive. They never questioned it, of course, and so for our entire marriage they all hated me. What heinous act did I commit that led 20+ people to despise me? I occasionally said the word "no" to her... and when she would argue with me about it, I used logic to defend my decision. She considered this "verbal and emotional abuse."
Have an ex just like that. No=abuse with the modern feminist woman-child.
You failed to train her prior to marriage. That's what you get for lack of masculinity
Playing the victim is their main tactic
Not alone brother. That's their get out of responsibility free card
Everybody knows using logic on women is abusive. Do better! 🤣
What a chad. Not 1 woman said " you got it all worng ", they were all perplexed. LMFAO. Hahahah. Priceless.
Good chance it was faked. The camera position is too obvious when the girls bend in.
idk if being rude to people for video content is a ''chad'' move.
Video looks pretty staged anyway, but if not it's sad that they took the social risk to compliment him or to try and sing with him and instead were publicly humiliated.
We should encourage people to be bold in life, not mock them the moment they are.
@@Waywind420
First day as a man?
its fake god damnit
It looks like their brain went into sleep mode after loading the wrong UI.. hahahahahaa..
The more I understand women the less capable I am of having anything genuine with one
I try my best to not let what I now know p me off, but I don’t take them seriously at all anymore. Doesn’t mean I’m not nice, or won’t hold a door for a woman or help her with her trash if we meet out there at the same time cause I was raised to be a gentleman. I just on the inside know them and I’m not very fond of what I know
It's like they say, you can either love women, or you can understand women, but you can't do both! Same with me. At this point, it would be impossible for me to ever fall in love with a woman because I know too much about women and their true nature!
@francisdashwood1760 not their true nature, more like programmed behavior from shitty parents. Same happens to dogs who aren't trained.
I tell my mother that it's like trying to love a porcupine... the ending is always painful
@@AS-ok8hi I read an interesting take on being a gentlemen by a dominatrix. She's into the dominance/submissive sexual kink lifestyle. She wrote that a gentleman is nothing more than a submissive. This realization hit me like a bell when I read this because I'd never thought of it that way before. This really makes sense and explains why women are so attracted to bad boys, who are NOT gentlemen, because they are being dominant, not submissive. Women are, of course, attracted to dominant men, not to submissive men (gentlemen).
It's inferiority complex in full swing. "He rejected me? I'm not pretty and cute enough? Im gonna prove him, that he is wrong" Low level tier reverse psychology.
spot on. why can't AG ever make a video about how 100% of the female western population are narcissists? like all these traits are of narcissistic world views. i find it bizarre men just sit there accepting how they process using men all the for the sake of 'play'
💯% . ..... Maybe Freud was correct
So True!
99 % this is how women's brain work 🤣
She will prove him wrong by having X with someone else
I once said excuse me to a woman who started leaving the cash register area with one of her bags left behind, and she did the "I have a boyfriend" snark to me without even listening to what I was going to say. The cashier and I shrugged at each other, and then the cashier called again after her and she came back for the bag, looking embarrassed. Tried to 'sorry' me and I told her 'whatever' without looking.
Basic manners, ladies! Just use basic manners.
Manners are right down there with empathy and accountability -- they avoid at all costs.
I make it a point to say “no” when random women ask me to take their photo out at bars. It’s hilarious how they react. I’m not loud, I don’t call them names, I simply decline, and they freak out.
The other day at the grocer a woman in her 30s asked me to reach for an item on the top shelf because she was too short. I told her "Sorry... I don't work here" and walked away. She scoffed at me and called me a nasty name.
Same visit I saw a young man having trouble getting a case of diapers off the shelf and in to his cart whilst carrying a newborn child. I stepped up with an "I got you, Dad" and took care of it for him. No other words exchanged... just a nod and some knuckles.
Men appreciate the assist. Women expect it.
@@OldSaltyBear women "demand" it feel entitled to man's help and sacrifices
@OldSaltyBearOmg me too 😂😂😂 It really irks me, just bc I'm almost 6 feet tall, for a woman. Yes, that's a good height, but my life purpose is not to be someone's step ladder. I also use that phrase as I used to work in a supermarket as a teen, but that's not my job anymore 😅
Because they are entitled, thinking every man is required to do anythey ask.
Funny how women always say they’re afraid of men, yet they constantly approach men feeling entitled to engage us and ask for things.
9:26 Ask me how I've learn it being true... My marriage collapsed as I distanced myself (emotionally and geographically) from a woman that never appreciated the fact that I was working my ass off to pay the bills while she was sitting at home, reading books, painting and spending time with her family. It never occured to her that a massive resentment grew in my mind over this and every time I tried to talk about it, she used the best manipulation technique known to women - tears. After 18 years of marriage we are now divorced, I still will pay child support for a few years, but it's worth it. Her face blurs more and more in my head, she's nothing else but a faint memory. I finally feel like I'm alive again.
that's nuts. 9l
Sheeeeeeeei
I'm too old and I have two decades invested in my marriage. If I left her, I'd be living in a van cooking hot dogs over a campfire. I envy you.
@@jayviktor6130 That sounds amazing, the peace and quiet would be awesome. I did it after 27 years and it was the best decision I ever made. It is better to be alone than wishing you were. Prayers to you brother, the first step is the hardest. 3 years out and my life is now mine.
@@RR-bh8vd what I say - it's better to be alone than feel lonely. I only felt lonely when I was married.
Let's not forget that being attractive in the first place is an essential part of the equation.
The guy in the video was a geeky nerd.😮
Skills to draw the attention of a crowd offsets some attractiveness. They want what others want.
@@stevec3526 Did the guy in the video sex any of these women because they wanted him so bad after he "rejected" them?
Not Entirely true u see some very unattractive dudes I'm talking over weight teath missing and mullets. And they still got some total babe hanging off them
@@EditioCastigata posses both
Once upon a time, there was a Princess with a huge friend zone who studied with us. Of course, I liked her, but I knew that I would get lost in this crowd of fans. So I just started ignoring her, if she asked me something, I answered rudely. As a result, after 1 year of this, she herself admitted to me that she fell in love with me. With my first girlfriend, everything was the opposite, I was nice and helpful, in the end, she went to a criminal.
So, you were NEVER in the presence of a woman, but rather an immature girl who had NEVER learned emotional control to become a woman. No man wants a child. You dodged a couple of bullets. An actual woman will be REPELLED by you being rude to her as she has emotional self control and will never talk to you again, an immature brat on the other hand... So, if you want a REAL woman, do not be a rude jacka$$. Learn the difference between an immature piece of garbage, and a woman.
I picked up my first girlfriend like an animal, like an asshole (which she liked). When we were dating I was a nice guy (unattractive), she broke up with me. She wanted to stay "friends", but I ignored her (I was attractive to her again).
After some time I met her at a pub/bar, I still ignored her but I talked to a good looking girl who was her friend/associate. My ex's friend was attracted to me because she knew I dated my ex before (preselection), and my ex got jealous because I ignored her and was talking to my ex's friend (demonstrating higher value to my ex).
At the time I wasn't conscious of what I was doing. I read a little on the topic and later I undersood why girls were attracted to me. This emotional roller coaster ride, this manipulation works on women and they want it most of the time, it's called having game. I wish women weren't like this, but I accept it, and I act accordingly.
If you are not marrying your first love at a very young age who is still innocent mentally, I don't think you can get a partner without having game, because their personalities degrade and they crave self destructive fun which is not condusive to living in a long term, stable, happy partnership, having kids, grandkids etc.
The problem is, she doesn't actually like YOU. She only likes that she can't have you. If a woman like that ever actually spent a few days with you, she'd lose interest.
@@judge831 Brutal.
judge831 We dated for about six months, then I got tired of it and left the relationship. For another 10 years she periodically sent me emails asking if I had changed my mind, I could come back at any time.
I've never told a woman I was dating 'I Love You'. I explain early on that I'm only going to use that word on someone who will be around for a lifetime. It never fails, within seven months, they tell me they love me, and I don't say it back. They still stick around because they crave that value. It's truly sad.
Dude same I didn’t say ily to my current gf till a year later.
"He's going to live in their heads for weeks, rent free." 💀
Lol he's not super attractive, they forgot about this interaction fast. They were just insulted because some nerdy dude rejected them instantly. It didn't create attraction.
@@Krelian4400
I don't think anyone's arguing that this man was going to get laid.
The point is that females (particularly in the west) are entitled and aren't used to being told no. Men need to set boundaries and be more assertive.
@@Krelian4400None of these women are used to rejection. Just because he didn't create attraction doesn't mean they easily brush that aside.
@@Krelian4400 glad someone said it
This line was awesome 😎
Many women have never faced rejection at all, let alone spontaneous rejection when you're just interested in what's going on, not in asking someone out. Or even just in a woman's presence. It's hilarious to see how absolutely foreign the concept is to them. I really hope that experience stuck with them the next time they did that to a guy.
this. i almost do this automatically now with women, unless they have earned my time and attention. they get the same amount of my energy as a bottle cap that might be on a table i want to sit at. i see it baffles them. they are so used to men staring at them, starting conversations, acting flirtatious with them, being 'nice' to them just for existing etc. i can see the 'does not compute' reaction register on their face.
@@nathand4500 if you can see the face you're being too nice 😊
Unfortunately their attention span and lack of empathy makes it unlikely that they will learn from such an experience and apply it when dealing with a guy.
@@gabem6863
Exactly, they’ll just create some reason to blame the random guy instead of looking within.
@@LuckyCharms777 Not like there's much left to look inside at for many of these women...could go look at a dumpster and get the same experience.
This is why I have zero respect for them. They should never be president of anything bigger than a HOA.
You are demonic bro...😂😂😂😂you want them to ruin our sanctuaries? Our beloved neighbourhoods and homes?
They should only be presidents of charity organisations.
"I hate them because they don't have seggs with me 😭😭😭" ahh energy
Holly moly yeas brother same I believe, they invidious and infected every thing , gyms , jobs , politics etc now I m tired of seeing them in my fb feed looking for attention.
And that will be a shitty HOA that frustrates the members
they're modern day vampires. 100% of them in the west at least
Saying no. Not giving validation. Rejection. Short term, it causes women to be attracted. Long term it’s a more difficult balance.
Cool cuz i live for the soul crush😎
The balance is simple: give as much as you receive till you decide to be in a relationship, then the moment comes when one starts doing what the other person needs, even if it's 3x as much as she does. Because this strenghtens the connection, because sometimes one person can give more to later be in a need for partner to do 4x more.
Alexander is saying: first get to be in the relationship, because honestly - 3 days of sex is a really nice start to putting in an effort.
Uh, sorry, on this one, you have it wrong here: females who "crave" the bad boys, are not emotionally mature and you DO NOT want them so do NOT become a bad boy as any actual WOMAN will not talk to you. Boys have to learn physical control(includes our d!ck) to become a man, but girls have to learn emotional control, which means NOT craving drama(bad boys etc) to become a woman.
It is a bless of God that long term doesn’t work today. Avoid courtroom long term
@@MarcinWojtczukThat is _suuuch_ bad advice. OmL...
Anybody thinking about following what this guy here said needs to read Robert Briffault. Briffault's Law and its corollaries exist for a reason.
If you are above average in looks, or high in socio-economic status, the tactic of refusing or not being interested is absolutely a game. If you are an average man, the game of disinterest and untouchability leads you to absolutely zero women.
Agree ai bullied girls in highschool and ignored them, they did NOT care about it much.
Ik fact some started despisinf me more rather then loving?
Why? Because I am a neutrodivergent Low Tier Normie guy. Nothing else.
very true
@@-schattenpflanze-3755 or maybe it was because you were an unattractive nobody who behaved in the manner of a bully.
Might have been different if you were not a bully... But we will never know now.
not true
I love the videos where guys are winning or staying on top. Makes me proud that guys are growing and bettering themselves.
For real 💯
Step 1 - be handsome
Mom says I'm.
@@totallynotalazyguy737 like every mom, and grandma too 😆
I am and my wife monkeybranched to a 5'2' down syndrome looking dude. So that will never make sense.
@@MarioSantoro-ig5qhfr?
Be your best (handsome) self.
So in other words, play their game by outsmarting them, so that you win them, which means you lose. Yeah, nah.
Thats what Iam saying.. I dont wanta play games or not be my self just to woo some broken women
yeah, es said, the NO has to be said and meant and folliowed through, stone-coldly.
Or how about we just walk away from the games. FORCING them to change their bad behavior instead of normalizing it. Hold them accountable and force them to change. And if they refuse, well they can enjoy being alone.
@@PrinceoftheVioletFlame this would work but they don’t mind sharing 5-10% of men bc they always believe that they’re going to be the chosen one. by the time they realize they won’t, their wombs are dried up and they lose that happy optimistic feminine spark that we love so much
@@PrinceoftheVioletFlame they're not going to change, I'm convinced it's just biological.
Actions speak louder than words.
28yo engaged man here. I vouch for everything Alexander says. The moment you stop playing the nice guy is when you see women reciprocating. One of the reasons why I am successful in my relationship. I remember spoiling my ex with validation, love and gifts, only for her to chase that one dude who barely remembers her existence. This is why I always tell guys to be the 'bad boy'.
Honestly, that seems weird to me. You are getting married to a woman from whom you withhold affection on purpose, because you yourself claim that's what keeping her keen... And then people wonder why the divorce rate is what it is...
Bro, if you give good things to a girl and she chases after some other guy instead, then she's clearly not a keeper. That was your ex. Now, your strategy is to play games with this new girl, your fiance, marry her and then maybe find out a couple years later that she's the same as your ex, except that now you lose half your sht.
Play stpd games, win stpd prices. Instead of playing silly games, find out who she really is before marrying her. If you give her good things and, again, this one loses interest, then be happy that you dodged another bullet.
Of course it works. But I can never respect or love a women that I have to pretend to be something I am not just for her to want me. I would rather be alone.
@mjrawesome3430 I understand the confusion because I have not given full context. I don't withhold affection from my woman, otherwise the relationship would not have progressed this far after 5.5 years. I simply don't act like your typical nice guy who gives at the expense of himself. I give affection no more and no less than she is. I keep her accountable and call her out whenever necessary. She knows that if she does not act right, another woman will gladly take her place. That's how you deal with women nowadays. She is a good girl and nothing like my ex, but I won't take my chances of slipping back into your typical overly giving guy trying to win the affection of a woman.
@@PrinceoftheVioletFlamethis. I drop so many girls already when they sh test too much. Doesnt matter if she loves me so much. But if i have to do these manipulation for that attraction. Ik she’s already not marriage material in the first place
all that for a hole. yeah no thanks buddy im not 12. it takes immaturity, feminine thinking, and roleplay to get a girl and you're encouraging this
Being past the point of caring is when you are free.
nah only the dead are free
Nice theory, but of course this only works when you are extremely rich, talented or handsome. As a regular guy, it really doesn't matter if you are going 10% or 90%.
Be attractive and go 40%. Sweet spot.
Deff, how many times have you heard a girl talking about some ugly guy acting like a Chad, and how many times they've said the line 'you're not that guy'
Just ignore the whole thing altogether and move on
yeah, and most of the guys they refer to as bad boys arent bad boys at all - they are just guys that are out,of their league who dont treat them well because theyve got other / and better options
Women are so completely out of control that everyone is an eskimo brother to someone else. Enjoy the ever increasing likelihood of ruining your health for a few moments of fun.
Depends on situation and age group. Then even an average guy can pull it of.
being an unattractive man and ignoring and negging women is a sure way to be invisible because women don't even know you exist.
What's really whack is that beta males submit to women to get into relationships with them and basically get emotionally abused...
lol the look on their faces. they are plotting how to destroy that man
Female toxicity on instant display
W really don't like it when people do the same to them. When I was a child and my behaviour irritated my mother, she would reproach me with "You're behaving like a W!" That is, deep down they understand that they are behaving in a problematic way.
This is what they mean when they say sassy/sus as insults for men. "Youre giving the same shitty energy that we give YOU and we dont like it!" Youve never heard a man say "You're being too logical, I hate it!"
About the furniture, when it comes in a box, unassembled, it's much easier to transport home in an automobile or to receive by mail. If it were already put together, customers would need to hire a truck to get it home! That's the main reason customers ''want'' to put it together themselves. I've put together enough furniture for people, so believe me when I tell you that most people absolutely do NOT want to put furniture together!
Yeah, I hate the ikea crap
true. this concept only works on people who don’t normally do things for themselves that require mental and physical labor. they get that feeling of accomplishment for once and it feels good. for the rest of us its annoying
you are right , most women dont have the arm strength to run a cordless screwdriver, they cant push hard enough and the screw strips out before setting properly, leaving loose joints. and then when they try to move the item into place it just self destructs
Wonder how many women calculate who they'll rope in to assemble before buying.
Age old saying, " Treat em mean, to keep em keen "
I still remember that from when I was 16 which was 32 years ago, and yet it still applies today.
Effort Justification Effect is just a variation on Sunk Cost Fallacy.
You meet in a grocery store. The relationship takes off. Years later she is still dragging you to the grocery store. You follow her around for an hour of misery every week. After all, that’s where you met!
No!
Couples were not meant to shop together. This is part of the 50% you have to take back!
Yeah, I look at these guys with scorn, like why does it take two people to shopl🤮
Real men do NOT go grocery shopping with their woman.
Well, don't put in 10% but it does get you trashy women. To a guy in his 20's, that works. Beats no women. The issue is most men need to go through that phase to realize a lot of women don't deserve 50%. Very few I would argue are worth it. It is sad. The whole dynamic of human relationships in dating and marriage is the dance between reacting to rampant lack of logic in the female mind
>Beats no women.
Debatable
"As a rule, we women don't know what we want; but we reserve the right to resent you for not providing it for us" -- Eileen Dowel..
I recently saw a video where Scott Galloway was saying that in a survey that women were saying they wanted a Kind and Nice Guy. He also agrees with this and was saying men should act this way.
THIS TELLS ME THAT SCOTT GALLOWAY IS CLUELESS ABOUT WOMEN.
He's a female apologist. That's his core motivation.
They want a kind and nice guy - who also happens to be 10/10 in looks and rich.
@Karelian, No they see a guy like that is boring and weak.
@@Krelian4400 They want John Wick.
it's not about getting a reaction from them, its about living our lives content without them for some of us, i work retail, i know i don't exist to them, men reading this you're not alone, if you know you're on your own once you make peace with it you'll be ok, but i want to avoid women now because i missed out on life and don't need to be reminded of it, simple end of, no pep talks please i'll be ok
Ladies. You're the cause of my depression. Lol.
Indeed you aren't alone my friend
Save as many as possible. The trick is to remember and remind others the hard truth. They don't care about us. They're not obligated to either. @@yettiluch1
I want to thank you. I have been feeling angry these past years and I thought I was angry at them but now I know I was angry of the life I missed out on. NOT THEM. It was me who I could have been. Thank you for your comment from the bottom of me heart
I try. @@alphasierrabravo5905
So when women say "I am the table" what they really mean is "I am the unassembled table"
No, that THEY are the relationship. Which is backwards.
The unassembled table with missing parts
lol....'i am the table' is a throw-away-line for women who know they have next to nothing to offer....so they try and say 'im the complete package" in the most vauge way possible; that they can make sound cool
When a woman says they are the table then say 'ok'... then treat her like a piece of furniture - used once in a while... just an accessory with no real importance.
@@leagreenall5972 Bent over on all fours, doesn't talk....
Don't forget the most important point. In order to be able to reject and say no you have to be attractive and have multiple options.
You normally need to be Normie, so the +2 bonus kicks you into Chad Lite territory.
I disagree with that. Everyone had options on the dating space. Most men are too blind to know this fact and only dangle after the ones that multiple dicks like.
Go take a look, you'll be surprised at how many women actually consider you attractive based on your BODY LANGUAGE, ENERGY and then LOOKS.
Looks aren't the first thing we notice. Subconsciously it's our body language, the vibe we give off, then the looks.
This ain't some red/blue pill bullshit. It's basic fact of human interactions.
3:45 This is the problem with family law and why men aren’t getting married anymore. If you have no-fault divorce and one spouse can simply end the marriage just because their feelings change regardless of anything the other spouse did, you can’t ALSO have generous alimony laws that benefit that person. You can only have one or the other, not both
2:25 Fathers should pick men for their daughters, not the daughters.
I agree 👍
U are right 👍🏼
These girls will never learn accountability and living with choices then.
They will always complain.
I have a middle ground view on that. I think women should get to pick the men they marry or date but fathers have to approve them.
stop pretending female nature may be fixed at some point
it can't
it wasn't developing for the past 200000 years in any way, it is UNFIXABLE
Instead of being cynical like the rest of the comments, I think women's attraction rests on the simple psychological principle that you crave what you don't/can't have.
Men rarely received love, care or emotional support, so they give all of it to their crushes, thinking that's what they want as well.
Women are so smothered by being treated like infallible gifts from God, that it's actually refreshing to see someone say no to them for once
You make it seem innocent, like they don't get run tru by, let's just say, the least virtuous men and then get broken in the process. Good people enjoy/crave/appreciate good things, bad people enjoy/crave bad things.
@mjrawesome3430yeah I use to think they were innocent until about 25 then I find these spaces and all my thoughts were confirmed. They’re not naive or innocent in any of it.
Then explain why women SAY they want the nice guy and be treated like a princess. While you're at it, also explain why they go chase men who treat them badly or with absolutely no care. Doesn't sound refreshing to me, but rather poor judgment of character.
...tells guys not to be cynical...
...proceeds to give the EXACT reason why guys are cynical..
Cynical is not inaccurate.
All young men need to watch and understand this one! Amazing job Alex (wish I saw this 20 years ago)
0:12 come on. You don’t think that’s all staged?
It is staged. I follow him, and he tags the girls in the videos and often does separate performance collabs with them lol
Doesn't matter, it should be real
@ that’s why people make stages content. Lots of like/views from people who think it’s real or want it to be
Almost everything on UA-cam is stage... especially if so many events in the news are staged
Definitely stagged. None of them said anything back. Highly unlikely.
That video is fake by the way. That first blonde girl is featured in many other videos of his. And some girls make reappearances, as well. I’m still unsure if ALL are staged but many of them are.
Yeah,.dating coaches portraying skits as real is a problem,
"People value what they have to work for."
This video in a nutshell
And women have spent all their lives spoiled like a princess and never having to work for anything to the point that they find the man they cant have appealing. For that very reason. It is exotic to them, foreign.
Its like the disney movie Aladdin. It all makes sense if you watch that movie
But women won't work for average, so there's no help in the video for guys who rank below a 7 or 8.
@@hawleygriffin1800Because no work is necessary for women to attract average dudes.
I just had an amazing week talking to nice lady, we connected with sparks - over text and phone. I made an effort and prepared a special salad for her for Christmas and guess what? Alexander is right - no date. Not even a coffee date.
My effort, availability and openness went to trash because she already took me for granted and started joking how she could use my skills.
She is a good woman, catholic, honest and delicate. It's me who haven't listened to the truth in this channel. I'm watching this for over a year and I'm still dumb as teenager. In a way I failed her - because she will fall for next guy that ignores her. She already did once, told me about it. Guy gave no fsck, had only sex with her. I put an effort before first date and didn't even had a chance to hold her hand. It's totally on me, need to get better at actually sealing deals before I'm opening and giving.
Well, it's never too late to learn something, adapt strategies, change behaviors. Good luck to you!
Sorry about that man, but don't feel too bad about yourself it's not all your fault. The game is just bullshlt, rigged from the start.
@@muraki3714 I am the leader, so its on me. She needed me to do it right, protect her, know stuff. In return she is suppsed to offer her dedication, beauty and risk pregnancy. She needs to feel the guy is competent, not just mushy feely. That's rigged but remember, she owes me nothing.
From what you said, she does not seem so special. She may act catholic but fell for a man that used her for sex. Not a smart and well raised woman, don't pedestalize her.
As a man you have to work hard, solve problems and make yourself the prize (and make your results seem effortless).
Then you can and have to be selective about the people you let into your live.
It isn't your fault brother, it's hers. It's your MISTAKE but not your FAULT - know the difference
The opposite of love isn’t hate, it’s indifference.
Men, just put yourselves first, in all things.
The first blonde looked like an angel.
"Sing us a song you're the Piano Man" ... "No, I have a gf"
This is why cold approach is stupid and for losers. Women are a byproduct of your success, not the centerpiece of your life
it's not stupid. you're bad at it.
@@OminousIllustrationsit's very stupid to do if you're average, because it just becomes a humiliation ritual. I've watched my friends in the field attempt and it simply doesn't work unless you meet a certain looks threshold.
All women are like this, it really is a hivemind
AWALT is the rule. No Exceptions
Question: Let's say we (men) accept the 50/50 premise. Setting aside the fact that most modern single women reject that concept, hypothetically you find one that is willing to match that energy. Now what? My question is what exactly is her 50%? If I'm still the protector and provider, then what exactly is she suppose to be doing for me? I'm wise enough to avoid marriage and cohabitation and I'm not interested in having kids in a legal system that can take them away from me. So, what is the 50% that she is suppose to bring? Occasionally a woman will say she treats her man "like a king", but I have never once heard of a single specific example of what that actually means. As far as I can tell it's just an empty promise that doesn't really mean anything.
Amen brother
"treats her man like a king" means she claims to give him a BJ every week, but in reality it's just once a year on his birthday.
i love doing this to them. every time a girl talks to me or asks me for something i will first give them a flat NO with the most serious look on my face. eventually i chuckle and oblige them, but the look of absolute shock of being told no is something that does not cease to amaze me.
I was kind of confused there for a second. I didn’t know how you were gonna tie the theory with the main issue, but you did bring it back to the subject of the video. Bravo!👏🏻
"no I have a girlfriend" is not something I think they'd ever thought they'd hear
This captivating video triggers a flood of painful memories from the end of my 6-year relationship just three months ago. The woman I loved with all my heart chose to walk away, leaving me grappling with an insurmountable sense of loss. Despite my relentless efforts to salvage what we had , I'm left feeling disillusioned and unable to imagine a future without her. Despite my attempts to move on , I'm drawn to express my deep-seated longing for her here.
The struggle to release someone dear to your heart is undeniably arduous. I empathize, having experienced a similar circumstance when my 8 year relationship concluded. Refusing to accept defeat, I pursued every conceivable avenue to reclaim his affection. Eventually, I sought the assistance of a spiritual counselor, whose wisdom and intervention played a pivotal role in reuniting us.
Where did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with her?
Suzanne Ann Walters is the name of an exceptional spiritual counselor renowned for her ability to reunite you with your former partner.
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when i was in college i'd often tell women i'd meet that i was gay & when they found out i wasn't they would lose their minds. some of them literally showed up at my door 😬
This works for guys who are attractive.
and on low quality women.
Sorry you feel that way, best of luck
no it works for all men true indifference gets them all i am a 68 year old sailor i have seen it all over the world but it must be true indifference i have six sister i watched them all act that way you are dismissed gets them every time i just never wanted to be the kind of man they wanted to reach that state of mind just pay for some i was not tall or hot just smart
First it got proved that already married guys with wedding rings have an easier time attracting wmn, and now you actually get punished for being nice and putting in effort? It's the upside-down world with them. I swear all the bs we put up with them because we find them pretty and wanna have kids...
Don’t be the bestie, be the BESTÅ
lol 😂 that’s gold!
Lol
In a way Alexander is instructing us men to bend to the feelings and emotions of a woman. To take part in these mental gymnastics, that women play. When will the majority of men finally say… enough is enough. No longer will we play in these mind games. Unfortunately dating in general either has always been or is now a game. And in this game each of us is given a “deck of cards” to play with. If you are born with the Attractive card, you have won the dating lottery. But if not, you must work towards getting this card. For we now live in a world where outward appearance trumps everything else.
come on guy, it's not that grim. we are playing the same game but with different approaches. it's never gonna change, it's how we're all built. a good compromise comes from both parties making a sacrifice. that's why he says 50/50. you've been burned from doing too much, so have i but you learn and progress. you put too much sugar in your coffee, it tastes bad. not the coffee's fault.
@roguepilot14
what he's saying is absolutely right. it's unethical that females prioritise their feelings to decide how men should pursue them yet you sit here coping about it all
i agree entirely with the first parts but looks don't do everything. ive seen female standards surround themselves with loads of average white guys bc they have high status (inherited money from their parents) and are attending the same school as them. women use men as commodities
I don't know what you expect man. If you want to have a relationship with anyone, man or woman, you need to bend to their feelings and emotions to some degree.
Your only other option is to entirely give up on women, which is a perfectly valid option, but it probably means you are not in Alexander's target audience.
Dude, what the hell are you talking about? Alexander is NOT instructing men to bend to women's tactics, but to do the OPPOSITE of what they expect and ignore or be indifferent to them rather🙄 Unless you didn't really watch the clips and get the gist of what is being communicated. Watch it again and also to what he actually says. 🤷♂️🙄🙄🙄
It's not a theory, I've heard this abridged advice from countless Men...
My Brain thanks you for feeding it.
The piano guy shows this is a normal human reaction to a baffling answer like that, for both men and women.
13 minutes of GOLD. My guy, it just kept getting better
Another classic story of effort justification effect is when Betty Crocker released their cake mix. Originally it was just the cake mix with water, but they discovered through their marketing team, if they took out the powdered egg and required women put the eggs in themselves it was far more popular, because the women felt like they were actually doing something.
Wrong.
This only works if you're the top 10%, a chad. It works because they want the guy regardless of any effort he puts in, so most chads don't bother to put in any effort. An average dude that acts like he doesn't care at all won't even get a date. Just ask the comment section, ask if average dudes got the girl they wanted acting like this.
Another issue is whether you'd want this type of woman. If she's attracted to jrks then she's already broken. Many a women are broken these days, it seems, which is most depressing.
Merry Christmas
Stop coping, get off of UA-cam and get out there. You can't just not care and then expect women to flock to you regardless of your looks, donut. Grow up
Pretty true. I’m average looking, I do these things, and remain invisible to women
there in is the problem its a act be the nice guy be polite be charming and keep in mind that`s its just your turn she is not yours
Blackpill truth
more like the top 1-2% tbh
'It's like a rite of passage'
Damn. 😄
1:30 It's interesting how so many women say it isn't true, but the women on their own podcast said it like it's the most obvious thing. And many other women on podcasts have said it. The only time they refute it is when it doesn't benefit them. And then they are surprised guys notice that they only say what they think they're supposed to say, which leads to not believing them immediately.
My man always comes in clutch with early videos
Perfect for my first cup of coffee in the morning
He's Australian, dude. Do you know how timezones work?
4:20 I like how you mentioned guys think women will appreciate you for going out of your way to way, then you don’t mention appreciate again, but do say they’ll be attracted to you if … very big difference in understanding. Women don’t appreciate period
Treat her like a queen, she will treat you like a peasant.
Treat her like a "beach", she will follow you like a loyal dog. 🤷♂️🤷♂️
@@German.....Zzzzzzz7777 deny treatment and she'll see therapy, maybe.
Nonsense,if you don't meet her looks threshold she won't even notice what you're doing
@@thechosenone93 Yes. But I I think that is obvious that I'm talking about the moment when she already is whith you. 🤷♂️🤷♂️
@@German.....Zzzzzzz7777 It's your point you made,you should have specified this
@@thechosenone93 Well... like I said. It's obvious to me. 🤷♂️
Poor little first blondie. So adorable and so hurt.
Man you have changed so much, took you long enough to finally see it.
For all the nice guys out there. I suggest you read the book "The giving tree." It's a kids book, but it has valuable lessons.
for all the lovers of comics and webtoons out there. I suggest you read the webtoon "The price is your everything" For a true understanding of female nature. It is based asf.
@PrinceoftheVioletFlame thank you for the recommendation
Went through this a lot. I even had a girl tell me I was a great guy and she hoped that some day she would meet someone just like me after our first date. I said I'm here. Right now. She dismissed me. WTF? I told my mom the next day and she explained to me that I was the kind of guy a girl wanted to marry but not date, so I had to be careful because any girl who showed a real interest in me was ready to settle down and get married. My mom was a good mom. She helped me navigate a lot in life. And to be fair, guys have a similar thing going on, too. There are girls we want to bring home to meet dad and then there are the girls we want to bring home to meet mom. 😂 When you find one for both, THAT is the one you want to invest in.
Dont end up dating some woman who’s been ran through for a decade and then she shows you all the love in the world since you yourself mentioned women want you for marriage not for dating that means they may try and use you not to mention again no man deserves a ran through woman as a long term partner. I even have an ex I wouldn’t ever get back with despite still thinking of her time to time cause I know she’s racked up bodies over the last five years. Men and women aren’t the same, them sleeping around severely negatively affects them forever.
I found that one i wanted to build a life with but she decided drama and being single was a better option for her.
I hoe you've stopped talking to that girl -I don't think you've realised but she very badly disrespected you. Oh so when she's ready to settle NOW you're an option? Brother she sees you as the equivalent of a clearance product in a supermarket.😂
"I told my mom the next day and she explained to me that I was the kind of guy a girl wanted to marry but not date"
She just didn't wanna hurt your feelings. What she actually meant was you're the kind of guy she'd marry if you weren't so broke and ugly
What if your parents are dead? 😂😂
The other upsetting level. Is the unsubstantiated implication/ accusation, beyond the rejection. It’s perplexing and defeating
One of your best videos and a great reminder. Thank you, sir!
Thank you and Merry Christmas Alexander. I have enjoyed your passion for reality.
Not just the ladies. The piano skit will be in my head for weeks as well.
"I've got a girlfriend" will be my standard response from now on.
The sneeze skit was funny too.
The hero we needed, and the hero the girls deserve
Gonna become very hard now fur women to find any man let alone crazy expectations due to this entitlement
Valuing something more because of all the work you had to put into it is adaptive under many circumstances where the outcome is positive. I think this is an important factor in how meaning in life is generated. Yet the maladaptive flip-side occurs when we retrospectively justify a bad decision and over-value something because of the work that went into it - a sunk cost fallacy - which perpetuates the poor outcome and increases the chances of making similar bad decisions in the future. I do think women are much more inclined than men to do this, on average, and especially in the context of social connections and relationships.
In the context of my happy relationship experience, I found that this tendency being absent goes strongly with maturity, empathy, loyalty and kindness.
Pure Gold. Thank you Alexander Grace
Old Guy here - We worked it out in the 70's - "Treat 'em mean and keep 'em keen" - lol
What does that mean 😂
@@130000toocoolHow can you not understand what it means? Treat em mean, keep em keen
yeah, AG claims men need to always be in their masculine but all this he describes is a female task. rejecting women for the sake of what they want to please her, is basically roleplay and hyper feminine
When i auto friend zone myself on purpose cuz of the exact stuff my latest ex did for examp by cheatin on me dumpin me for a crimin type loser.
And if u cheat & dump a person who is totally against serial cheatin blame shifting players & women that compete in this pathetic narcismic fomo. If not participating is bein far stronger. Cuz if u are rather a sheep to compete in these toxic unworthy dynamic u risk ending up in a very dark depressing place.
I rather be my own authentic self aka i am the deathmetal undertaker in my city i cant just let people take away or weaken me & my integrity if im against mysognism & abusive.
Fk the hypocrisy of the abusiveness & toxicity
Dont blame me for their heinous acts or words or choices blame the ones who did abused u not the ones who are healthy strong minded. End of story
Bad bois who traumatize & hurt women on purposely shouldnt be a compliment it should be an insult to be called a bad boi
Same with women who purposely try to traumatize good men & try make them responsible for what bad bois did to her.
And a man who not participates in the whole bs of these ideologies is a far better true dude by not becommin a doormat.
I rather stay ultimate single i dont play hard to get cuz playin this whole bs is weakminded pathetic pathological envy bs.
I never understood the whole 'just be unavailable bro' game. How does a guy get any if he's actually unavailable? If you were unavailable, you'd be working and getting nothing cos nobody knows you exist... unavailable is unavailable 🤷♂
Attractive first. Unavailable second.
You are clueless.
A woman goes to a shop and sees every item. She does not care.
She wants to buy some Apple and asks help from a person who works in the store. The worker tells her everything about the apples, and points at the yellow apples and tells her she cannot get those. She can get everything, but not the yellow ones.
Now she only cares about the yellow ones.
Unavaible does not mean what you wrote.
They need to know who you are, and they need to know that they are not good enough to get you.
However, you also need to be desired by other women. This is how you can get and keep the best ones.
It means be unavailable to the women you are in communication with or in contact with.
Dont disappear from the world..😂😂😂
Sounds counterintuitive but the more I say no to women the more they flock. In business, in relationships, in life. Become high value and then learn to say no. Watch the results.
Being unavailable means not going into the relationship trying to meet her every need/want. Don't be a "yes" guy all the time. If you are always available for what she wants, she will see you as her personal Santa Claus and lose respect for you as an man. She will see you more as a vending machine, pulling the levers to get what she wants out of it. She also loses respect for you because she is leading the ship. You need to have a life and know how to lead. It's easy to learn how to say "no" to women, it's a lot more difficult to know how to be a man and lead with responsibility and strength. Both must be done, and it is a lifelong endeavor.
Women do not feel the same way as us guys. Go for their respect, not their feelings. If she respects you, it will last far longer than if she had "feelings" for you.
They all now and never will ever forget the word no! We don’t use words that we don’t understand and don’t use lightly! We choose our words very carefully and wisely! When our words don’t speak enough then we begin to use our actions!
It is about regain my self respect, not about playing hard to get witches.......
Step 1 - be handsome
Step 2 - be wealthy
Then What Alex says works in the long run
So when are you going to follow step 2?
How am i supposed to divorce you if you're poor?
It's not about being handsome or wealthy, it's about how they feel when they interact with you. That you can have some control over, if you pay attention to how you connect with them right from the beginning. Think of how women always talk about "vibe".@@youtubestudiosucks978
If you have no game, you still won't succeed. The question is whether it's worth succeeding, cuz it's a questionable success
Interesting. This might work for men already dating or in relationships, but to "get" a woman, you still have to meet the looks threshold. You can be the bad boy all you want and say "no" more often, but all of this is probably meaningless if she doesn't find you physically attractive or if you have high status to begin with. Remember, many women still have quite some options.
Bullshit, are you sub 19 years old or something?
And the ones that aren't after the top 5% attractive or wealthy men, won't be impressed by your "bad boy" attitude 😂
Those womens faces are a picture.
"What! that's not supposed to happen!!!!" "I dont, cant comprehend, what?! ARRRRGGGGHHH!"
Yeah that guy was KING! he definitely broke their brain (two brain cells)
😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
“For the record. I’m not saying this is a good thing. I’m just explaining how it works.” This statement explains every male, female relationship video ever made.
0:20 **emotional damage**
Why do I hear Steven He's voice 😂