just watch how they disagree/argue/fight with other people. How they treat and/or handle the situation is how they will treat/handle you. Also, it's sad that charming and charismatic trait can likely equate to being a narcissist. I'd like to think I am charming and charismatic and I am an empath.
Good discussion. In general most narcs have a neat and attractive look with an exhibition of good behavior. It's with time the true colours pop up. My narc husband would ask me if i require any help, when I'm doing the domestic chores. He would smile and stay nice if there are friends and family around. He will gain an appreciation from them for the concern he showed to me. He would also make a remark that i don't take his help even if I'm sick..( how much I've been fooled...omg ).. So I dare to ask for any help. All this is...😄 just a lip service. If i request him to help, he would either say, You will not like the way i do or move out picking his phone. Will be back only when I've completed the tasks....😴 This is how they behave...
7:13 The first time I rode with my last girlfriend, she was riding peoples bumpers and cussing at them. I told her I wonder how much of that aggression is going to carry over into our relationship. It was our relationship that did not carry over. I analyze all aggressive drivers as narcissists now. How can you not care about endagering the lives of childeren and babies?
Singer Niia has a cool song about being courted by someone who seems way to smooth. almost too good to be true. It's called "Hurt You First". Alanis Morissette has a great song about what she really thinks of her "Narcissus" boy. Makes me feel I'm not alone. I think of my ex now as a smarmy, Machiavellian, entitled, arrogant, self serving, obnoxious, know it all. One day he was picking at me, as usual, trying to bait, trick me into an emotional response, get defensive etc. I must said, "Look, what do you want from me?" His reply: "Oh, now you're me look like the bad one."
Omg I thought I must be a narcissist I think people think I’m nice and charming and then he said “but you’re from Michigan “ and I’m from Michigan and nice is just how we are 😂
That part is so toxic. Who consents to that? About the preplanned break up 😞😟wth? 10:35 the timeline is uncanny though cause I left a relationship in that almost same timeframe and I knew it wasnt gonna workout but it wasnt easy to leave at all. But these people do it with a smile?!? 🤦🏾♀️
hi everyone , a good intervieuw. sorry, but in 1 thing i have not same point of view. as a (my job; hostess) since at my very young age, I'm a very charming person and not at all sick in my head or a manipulating individual. during childhood I was the scapegoat, and got in different kinds troubles. my mother didn't learn me how to survive....didn't teach me as a normal mother should, what + how to do things when I'm adult. a man learned me how to cope with my life. but in ca. 2years, he did slowely turn his page of his hidden Agenda + showed his true color as a Malignant NPD. so mean, so cold, selfish, full of insults, rage, projections, smear campaign, violence etc... now I'll do everything that I can escape with my 2 kids and move in a good an secure to have our peace we deserved since 6years.
I never claimed to be a doctor. Also my credibility has nothing to do with being able to spot outlandish advice. You'd have to be ignorant to not see the the blatant bullshit. Being a Dr. doesn't mean you have all the answers.
Its a superficial relationship. Both parties don't want a commitment and are up front about it. Would you rather one person lie about their intentions during the short affair? How would that be better. She wasn't giving advice in general. She was citing a case in her personal career.
I think maybe you should go to UA-cam and watch a lot of her videos before you call her advise BS. She is phenomenal. Perhaps you don't like her because what she is saying hits too close to home.??
@@connie5768 Can't handle a different opinion? Sounds like it. Maybe you need to just relax. Just because someone has a Phd hanging on their wall, doesn't make them the source of all information in the universe. You clearly think it does.
I love Dr. Ramani
This video needs more views. That lady is amazing.
she is!!!
Dr. Durvasula should be mandatory viewing for anyone who wants to find romance.
I love how the girl on the right is having her whole world view crumble in front of our eyes lol!
I want to be her best friend too :(
I am a follower of Dr. Ramani....I learn so much...
Almost every time I watch you I have an break thru!
just watch how they disagree/argue/fight with other people. How they treat and/or handle the situation is how they will treat/handle you. Also, it's sad that charming and charismatic trait can likely equate to being a narcissist. I'd like to think I am charming and charismatic and I am an empath.
I love Dr. Ramani!
Good discussion.
In general most narcs have a neat and attractive look with an exhibition of good behavior.
It's with time the true colours pop up.
My narc husband would ask me if i require any help, when I'm doing the domestic chores.
He would smile and stay nice if there are friends and family around. He will gain an appreciation from them for the concern he showed to me.
He would also make a remark that i don't take his help even if I'm sick..( how much I've been fooled...omg ).. So I dare to ask for any help.
All this is...😄
just a lip service.
If i request him to help, he would either say, You will not like the way i do or move out picking his phone. Will be back only when I've completed the tasks....😴
This is how they behave...
7:13
The first time I rode with my last girlfriend, she was riding peoples bumpers and cussing at them. I told her I wonder how much of that aggression is going to carry over into our relationship.
It was our relationship that did not carry over.
I analyze all aggressive drivers as narcissists now. How can you not care about endagering the lives of childeren and babies?
Singer Niia has a cool song about being courted by someone who seems way to smooth. almost too good to be true. It's called "Hurt You First".
Alanis Morissette has a great song about what she really thinks of her "Narcissus" boy. Makes me feel I'm not alone. I think of my ex now as a smarmy, Machiavellian, entitled, arrogant, self serving, obnoxious, know it all.
One day he was picking at me, as usual, trying to bait, trick me into an emotional response, get defensive etc. I must said, "Look, what do you want from me?" His reply: "Oh, now you're me look like the bad one."
She handled the skinny girl's hate vibes on the right like a champ...😊
Dr. Ramani is amazing...
Omg I thought I must be a narcissist I think people think I’m nice and charming and then he said “but you’re from Michigan “ and I’m from Michigan and nice is just how we are 😂
Love the doctor and the Two people on the left. Women with coffee cup should leave the book on the stand so the book is view the whole time.
Put the win down indeed. Love you Dr. Ramani😊
this video needs a better title!
She is the lady that interviewed Kendo11
I love the video!
and I love her!
In the midst of a den of wolves.
That part is so toxic. Who consents to that? About the preplanned break up 😞😟wth? 10:35 the timeline is uncanny though cause I left a relationship in that almost same timeframe and I knew it wasnt gonna workout but it wasnt easy to leave at all. But these people do it with a smile?!? 🤦🏾♀️
Amazing video
well i would describe dr ramani as very charismatic.. would i be correct or have use the word mistakenly this whole time. lol
I love ramen noodles.
Where can I buy this book ???
Breakup dates sounds very LA.
hi everyone , a good intervieuw. sorry, but in 1 thing i have not same point of view. as a (my job; hostess) since at my very young age, I'm a very charming person and not at all sick in my head or a manipulating individual. during childhood I was the scapegoat, and got in different kinds troubles. my mother didn't learn me how to survive....didn't teach me as a normal mother should, what + how to do things when I'm adult. a man learned me how to cope with my life. but in ca. 2years, he did slowely turn his page of his hidden Agenda + showed his true color as a Malignant NPD. so mean, so cold, selfish, full of insults, rage, projections, smear campaign, violence etc... now I'll do everything that I can escape with my 2 kids and move in a good an secure to have our peace we deserved since 6years.
what is the name of the fellow? thx
Ahh,The Bodhi Tree,have not been there in a long time,think it's still around though.
May 15th- Bikini season!
10:35 - 11:17
Weird. Seems superficial to me. Being a Dr. doesn't automatically make you good at handing out advice.
La La land. Definitely.
I never claimed to be a doctor.
Also my credibility has nothing to do with being able to spot outlandish advice. You'd have to be ignorant to not see the the blatant bullshit. Being a Dr. doesn't mean you have all the answers.
Its a superficial relationship. Both parties don't want a commitment and are up front about it. Would you rather one person lie about their intentions during the short affair? How would that be better. She wasn't giving advice in general. She was citing a case in her personal career.
I think maybe you should go to UA-cam and watch a lot of her videos before you call her advise BS. She is phenomenal. Perhaps you don't like her because what she is saying hits too close to home.??
@@connie5768
Can't handle a different opinion?
Sounds like it. Maybe you need to just relax. Just because someone has a Phd hanging on their wall, doesn't make them the source of all information in the universe. You clearly think it does.
Hmmm, I'm wondering what your credentials are. @@mrtwister9002