I feel Mentally Burned Out
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- Опубліковано 11 кві 2020
- I feel Mentally Burned Out
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This lady needs a reality check. 1.5 million in the bank, husband has stable 100k/year job, she makes 50k/year PART TIME, house is paid off, etc.
Talk to someone who is actually burnt out working 60+ hours/week and can’t take time off just to keep food on the table and a roof above their heads.
She's got a million and a half saved up her hubby makes $100,000 a year She can retire and not worry about unemployment.. strange call
C Huston, the soul ties issue is a problem
C Houston, that's not their mindset, that's not how they think that's why they have money
C Huston a semi brag call
It's just a brag call. She's a showoff. She knows she doesn't have financial issues.
Not everything is about money. I’m a nurse and financially secure but I can’t express to you the type of stress I feel this period. I’m on my feet all day in the icu. I know I need time off to recoup but inside I feel like if I took that time off, I’ll be like a soldier deserting his men on the battlefield. It’s hard. I understand her call but if all you’re focus is on the money she has, then you have no idea what she’s talking about
Helping others is incredible, but at times you absolutely must remind yourself to put yourself first. Your mental health matters, your well being matters, your satisfaction and fulfillment. Do what’s needed for You because you are the only one that truly knows that
100%. And often times when people don't recharge, they cause more harm to the ones they serve and themselves.
All jobs, by their nature, help others.
@@teaproject4388 I've learned this lesson too well as a mental health counselor. Very well said and important
@@anitaknight3915 I hope all is well with you. Absolutely. It's sad fact, but it seems that she understood that from Dave and the other gentleman, so hopefully she takes a small break.
@@teaproject4388 it's always nice to see thoughtful, caring, and compassionate comments like yours. I notice so many wise, helpful financially sound comments but even more judgmental & arrogant comments under these videos. Yours was refreshing to come around. We need kindness right now ; )
I wouldn't mind feeling completely burned out while sitting over 1.5 million dollars
Chess Blitzer Good point, to be honest. I wouldn’t trade 1.5 million to be 60. I’ll take it at my current age though. Lol.
The irony is, they have it because they've told themselves they can do without it. Being a saver is being poor so you'll never HAVE to be poor.
She doesn't need financial help. She just needs to reevaluate her life right now.
@@mac1bc I agree. She needs a break. Sometimes you need to step back and smell the roses. That's why I take vacations so i can escape everything and when I come back I'm set. Everyone needs an outlet in someway.
Burned out while you have $1.5M, a paid for house, no debt, and $100,000 coming in every year. I wish I was that burned out.
Tell me, how this people get payed that money and are that stupid?
Ranu Hunting just because you have money doesn’t exempt you from burn out, and stress. It’s like needing a vacation you can’t take.
@@Gigpreneur I don't disagree, but I wish I have this kind of burned out.
Mole This society highly rewards those with a go along to get along mindsets.
@@danielb3863 I know, I really know. I experienced it.
I work as an OT at a nursing home and we are gonna be working straight through this, nobody is getting furloughed.
stay safe out there
I work in an assisted living thank god! I’m an aide I dodged a bullet. The bullet being furloughed, laid off, cut hours, & unemployment
Same PTA at nursing home.
If she says "compassion fatigue" ONE more time...
If she had compassion fatigue and really loves helping others, look at how she shrugged off volunteering at the hospital.
anyviolet she’s annoying
😅
@@Michael-ke8on She's like 60. That's pretty dangerous with COVID around. If you are so sick of your job you want to quit, you probably don't want to volunteer to hand out masks.
She needs to be slapped back out her fantasy land
Remember when people who needed financial help called Dave?
😆😆😂
His show has definitely changed format. Seems like a co host every day and much more career and medical talk. I wonder if he’s prepping to step down.
Yeah what is this Dr. Phil now?
Remember when we had pagers and typewriters? Well now we have cell phones and computers. ITS CALLED SHIFTING WITH THE TIMES. STOP BEING A CUTIE PIE, JOEL
LOL
Tired of hearing these callers with millions asking for advice or complaining. Free the phone lines for those that really need the help!!
David Schupner stupid thing to say. The majority of callers are people with no self discipline, there’s nothing wrong with a caller who actually has their life together still needing some advice
Thank u I feel as if they just call to brag!
C Mac the likes for my comment says otherwise.
@Ken C Are you new to the show?
Another Seeking validation type of call.
Humblebrag.
She does not have a financial question; why is she calling a financial expert for mental health advice?
David B. Because the other guy is a mental health clinician.
Because she's concerned about money. People who have taken care of money for a long time take it pretty seriously.
Dave gives advise on a lot of things, most of the time it's an attitude issue more than a math issue.
The guy on the left is Dr. D. He's a new Ramsey personality and is a certified psychologist with 2 PhD's and is also a crisis councilor. Hope this helps!
Exactly go get a therapist with all your $$
Imagine how nurses feel with or without COVID-19
Along with the possibility of catching it !!!!!!
They really got it bad!!
I'm sorry. I don't feel sorry for her.
... i don’t even know if i have a tiny violin for this one
Burned out working part-time at only 59 years old? I don't get what her question is. Sounds like she is just experiencing anxiety as EVERYONE is right now but she basically wants to bail and retire early while her husband supports her. I've heard this story a thousand times. She's lucky to have a husband to support her and a million dollars in the bank.
Yup.
Thousand times? 🤔
Yes, and she is not even on the front lines with the virus. Boo hoo, I do physical therapy.
Its people living paycheck-to-paycheck no saving waiting on a stimulus check this woman has a million dollars and she's acting like the sky is falling wow she's in a great place financially 🙈
She just wants to brag
Agree with you...sky is falling routine is tired when you got a million bucs...she's a little over the top!
She’s nuts!
Maybe people shouldn’t live paycheck to paycheck and save a little money like responsible humans beings.
Delusional
Compassion fatigue?! Call the waaamublance as they say. A lot of people are "burnt out" because they can't feed their families nor do they have 1.5 million saved or a $2500/month pension coming soon. Give me a break.
Compassion fatigue? You mean this lady is calling up whining because she cares too much? Or is she upset because she has 1.5 million in the bank or is it because of her $2500 a month wonderful pension? Please this call is ridiculous.
Maggie H some people are genuinely overly selfless. It sounds like she doesn’t have much experience with managing wealth. She wants to help others too much, because like the guy said, she placed too much of her identity and self worth in helping others. If you ask me, she should get into investing and nonprofit entrepreneurship, she’ll go way farther to help people that way and capitalize on a strength she has that others typically don’t: money.
You had me laughing out loud with "waambulance" hhaaaa 😆😆😂
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Hey guys, maybe you guys should be more considerate. It was obviously hard for her to come out and voice her concerns, and maybe she didn’t want to come out because guys like you would make comments that make her feel small. I thought Dave Ramsey’s culture is supposed to build people up, not knock them down.
Bruh you have 1.5M, the whole point you saved that up is so you can do exactly what you're talking about.
And she has no mortgage. She lost her mind with worries. Imagine being the majority of america with no emergency fund and paying rent/ mortgage.
No kidding. You have enough money in the bank to retire...you’re experiencing fatigue...so quit! Quit and retire! And then when all this passes and if you still miss work, go work part time somewhere again. I don’t see what her question even is here.
Is her question “are we too greedy?” That’s what I got.
@@martinez9643 when people don't have money saved that was on them
1.5M in the stock market before the crash. Not in the bank.
New York is paying for nurses to fly in and help them for a 2 month period. $40k for 2 months for these nurses.
@Sir We Are About to Die are you having a laugh, 40k is huge amount of money for two months(im not saying saying they dont deserve it but 250k is obv crazy), meanwhile grocery store workers are getting coughed on for min wage, thats the real injustice in this crisis
@Sir We Are About to Die i wish! I make $17 an hr
We have nurses from our hospital working in NYC; 21 days in a row, 14 hour days, 10K per week.
It's easy to get mentally burned out especially now, but as Dave said we must take a break and reset.
Sending love to all the people on the front line doing the work we appreciate you.
Who DOESN’T serve people by what they do? Jobs, by their nature, are providing something that someone else values whether that is a product or a service.
It's not the same when you genuinely change people's lives with a passion or art and you either have them as clients or you save their lives
are we supposed to feel bad for this person? get real lady.
She's dwelling in f.e.a.r (FALSE EVIDENCE APPEARING REAL). By the way, its not only about losing income, she's in fear because she's losing her sence of identity. Did you not listen to THAT part. Money isn't everything. Your peace of mind is far more valuable than your bank account balance. Grow up.
Is anyone else sensing a humble brag? I haven’t ever heard someone so proud of themself only working part time.
She should come back in a month and see how whiny she sounds about nothing. She has over a million dollars in the bank and she's still complaining that she's burnt out. We're all burnt out. That's life.
Amen
JohnnyGification How much is enough??
I have $400 to my name and am ok lol 😂
Let her be
@@cristobalvalero6345 it's TRUE buddy. It's hard to feel bad for her.
Amen!
I'm too mentally burnt out. too broke and depressed 😢😢😢😢😢😢
🙏🏻🧘🏼♀️🐋👊🏻🤙🏼🌺🧜🏻♀️
I'll give you $50 a day to binge watch Seinfeld with me. Money and mental problems solved.
Wahhh... 😴😴😥😥😣😣😥😥😴😴 Quit WHIIIIINING. JOIN THE CLUB CALLED ADULTHOOD.
Keep your head up! And push forward. You'll be ok.
Hang in there Faizah!!!! 🙋♀️
i'm also mentally burned from not getting any sunlight ☀️
amen
Think Money You need to call the show right away because apparently Dave is taking calls from people with all sorts of imaginary problems. 🙄
In the social services work, she is what we call "suzy social worker". Before taking care of others, you have to take care of yourself first.
I think she just wanted permission from Dave to quit her job and is trying to sound like a saint.
Nailed it.
Stop it trolls. People don't spill their overwhelm unless they need help. Overwhelm makes it hard to make decisions on their own.
"Compassion fatigue", that's rich.
An old General in the military once told us, you cannot help others if you don't take care of yourself first...
Delivery driver here. Feeling totally burnt out right now. Working 60 hours a week, 6 days a week, and go home exhausted. Making good money, but it doesn’t mean much when your quality of life suffers and you have no life outside of work.
Just want to say 'thank you' for all that you do. Many people (my family included) depend heavily on delivery drivers providing groceries, essentials, etc. at this very moment. Here in Miami-Dade County, we will be going on our 5th week of 'stay at home' with our kids. So, thank you! I hope you and your family are well!
Just want to say 'thank you' for all that you do. Many people (my family included) depend heavily on delivery drivers providing groceries, essentials, etc. at this very moment. Here in Miami-Dade County, we will be going on our 5th week of 'stay at home' with our kids. So, thank you! I hope you and your family are well!
I swear half these calls make no sense and they enjoying bragging.
People have problems, I tell you. If I had 1.5 mln on my account I could retire TODAY. I will not save 1.5 mln in two lifetimes.
Yeah I about puked listening to this, and that guy in the black shirt is being all fake tony Robbins on her smh
@@jarrettpierce5626Fake Tony Robbins! That made me laugh
"You have 1.5 million dollars. You don't have to worry about unemployment".
And she will still collect unemployment and just add it to the pile.
She does not seem like she is interested in hearing their advice at all. Sounds like she just wants to be talk and be heard. She has compounding anxiety about a lot of things that some of us may or may not understand, so she sounds a bit nuts..
Nailed it. Sounds like hubby didnt have the right response and she needs back up.
@David DeVito I don't think anyone does
She needs to get a therapist with all her $$ 🙄
As a paramedic I quickly learned to regulate my emotions. 1# Compassion: See suffering try to help lesson it. Sympathy 2# Feeling bad for the Pt but not quite empathy. Empathy # 3 Emotionally and mentality putting yourself in the position of the one suffering. 100% of my Pts get compassion (because it's my job), a few get sympathy because it helps them in the process, only rarely does someone get my empathy. Sympathy and Empathy drain us of vital emotional energy that family and close friends deserves from us. If we spend our emotional energy reserve on all our patients we won't be able to give to our family. It's like spending your money on junk food and not being able to pay for rent
Benjamin Ruckman well said! I’m a family therapist and agree one hundred percent!!! 🤙🏼
@@4everu984 I was unaware of this when I first started as an EMT-B, but shorty after moving to a high volume system and becoming a Medic I realised how detrimental it was to give every Pt my total care. Been in EMS for 13 years now. I can't say I've never been happier.
I hope as I age and gather wealth I don't put my entire worth attributed to it. Remember to have fun. Both her and her husband have become obsessed with "gain" Easy to fall for this as you work hard and gather wealth
Yeah, it could become a trap!
This woman makes me sick! Most people wish they had her "problem!"
I know, right?! 🙄
She makes you sick cos she planned her life well?
Most of the richest people I know are also the saddest and most anxious. Money doesn’t buy happiness
@@dialac1 I think it's more because this call seems more like she called to brag about her money and her job, and not because she had a serious financial issues. She wanted praise and she got what she wanted.
shes a snowflake
Intro music not long enough. Please have it go on for another minute.
at least she was humble at the beginning😂😂
Talk about 1st world problems
When she said they’re high performers, she made it seem like they make $200,000+. They make $150,000 as 59/60 year olds... that’s not that extreme. My husband and I are 30 and we already make $140,000 and we’re not even halfway through our careers. Yes, her savings and being debt free put her in a good position, but her income isn’t that wildly “high performing” as she says.
"I'm a millionaire look at me!! Life is so hard"
There a children dying with no water and food and this lady has $1.5 million and complaining ,how sad
Truth, sir! I’ve got both. They wonder why their baby mommy loves me.
Rene Montenegro that’s their hard earned money. You would be upset too. If your so worried about children dying and having no food and water. Do something about it.
Who says i dont
This is real. She needs a break. I understand her and her husbands suggestion.
Terrible call. She is just looking for attention. "wah wah, I don't know what to do... I love the people I work with and I have $1.5 million. Wah."
This lovely sounds very burned-out. I am an RN who felt so guilty leaving my sweet patients. I have been out of nursing for 3 years now and still struggle, however, I have glimmering of a beautiful new retired life: meaningful, creative, cash income...Nursing is no longer my identity. Best to you dear one.
Pray for her husband's mental health.
And remind yourself your husband makes more than 100 grand a year with your house paid off. I feel so so so sorry for you
I think this lady just called to brag about her money and her job and get herself some praise 🤦♀️
"HIgh performers" in the medical field at $100K ? I taught at a community college for more than that.
She is looking for an excuse to not work (part-time).
This Covid19 is very frustrating...
Well put.
The Privileged 🙄
These videos are so cringey lately 🙄
Has no bills, paid off house, and has 1.5 million in the savings but still wants to claim unemployment an “take advantage of the system “. She’s a joke
I disagree. You pay into unemployment insurance. You're entitled to get it when laid off.
@@catlover1986 Yes she is entitled to it but she wants to quit.. therefore not entitled to unemployment.. So she is going to hold on and force the employer to take action so she can "take advantage " as she states.
@@candaceismyname5131 So? Everyone would do the same. I hate working. I have a hard dangerous job. I'm an essential worker, but I'd love to collect a check. No chance of it, however.
@@catlover1986 not sure what your comment is asking me. She was the one stupid enough to go on a national show and use words like.. I want to quit but aslo want to wait to take advantage of unemployment. When you have a million in the bank do u really need to get that additional 200 the state of PA will pay on employment? No probably being greedy! I am no arguing with you that people are entitled to unemployment but this lady should have some couth.
@@candaceismyname5131 It's not greed. It's an earned benefit. Many retirees don't need social security, but they paid for it. Also, a million bucks is hardly necessarily enough to retire on.
Did she call to brag about how ready she is to retire?! Poor thing! She has 1.5 million dollars, but she REALLY loves to help people, so she feels guilty about retiring because the system would collapse without her. 😢
So the point of you calling in?
I feel so stressed and exhausted I have millions of dollars saved up for this moment ...
Thank you for serving as a medical worker. To stay mentally fresh you have to find little things in your everyday life to allow you to relax
We had some people at work leave/quit in the past few weeks. Its nice not hearing them complain about everything, it gives those who stayed a chance to focus on our work without the drama. One gal even went on social media and posted a bunch of lies about what was going on at the place.
If you don't want to be there, leave.
She said they were high performers in the medical field while making $100k (husband) and $50k (wife) for part-time? I thought she was going to say they make a combined $500k. I make more than her husband and I work a simple IT job. Although dealing with COVID-19 can't be easy. I'm all for hazard pay for these types of jobs.
Exactly my thoughts haha! Was expecting to hear physician salaries....she believes she's higher up the food chain than she really is. Entitled attitude
Is she calling to brag or to ask a question?
She sounds pompous.
This is a Christian show. Not to take away from the wisdom shared here but Jesus refreshes us - He gives rest - He also Strengthens us - He enables us to not burn out because He is our strength. So be patient. You will be able to serve again. God will open new doors or even old doors.
Who is this Jesus I want to talk to him can I meet him in person..
The same God that gave us covid19.
@@chucky2569 Try reading the Bible, starting in the book of John
@@sumowan Also the same God who created us and the beautiful world we live in.
Jesus will do what he does but her rest is actually a rest where she needs to take 2 weeks (?) and breathe. She's saying this for a reason. She knows Jesus but knows what is going on inside. If she is fatigued then she better sit down before she fall down or end up being in the hospital herself. I've heard too many hard-working folk who believe in God having to go into the hospital while talking about "God had to lay me down". It's because of God's grace she's made it this far but when there are warning signs (fatigue) then you take heed to the sign/signal.
I can't stand these kind of calls...
Why most millionaires always worry about money?
1st: Glad y'all gave her this support.
2nd:Oh my word. I just realized why I cannot take on more emotional baggage from others. The accumulative baggage has got me tapped out. I'm not going to expound on the situations, but dang. I thought I was just getting cold hearted when I had always been compassionate. What a relief!
Just my 2 cents but most healthcare professionals quickly learn to detach from their emotions in order to do their jobs in a professional manner. This lady is almost ready to retire and she still hasn't figured that out yet... seems like she picked the wrong career.
Or, it is time for her to retire even if that's after she receives unemployment for being laid off. It certainly seems she needs to leave her current work since she has no passion for it any longer and has resources to live financially free without nursing work. Everyone of us need to be reminded when at times we speak or show arrogance that pride leads to destruction and a haughty spirit to a fall! I repent once again for attitudes of pride and arrogance I've displayed even when I didn't notice it!!
Thank the LORD getting in His presence in worship, thanksgiving, praise, prayer, and meditation on those things good in His sight (like Christ-likeness and serving others) will refresh and rejuvenate us and help us get back on His path for our lives, which is often another type of work for which He gifted me and gives me passion (ministry thru entrepreneurial, employment, and volunteer endeavors).
SMH at this lady.. Millionaire worried about temporary unemployment.
What is she even calling about? To talk about how well off she is compared to the other 99% of people?
You're burnt out from giving back good for you.
She’s so ungrateful
Every person lives their own reality. What sounds catastrophic for the person in question may just be every day life issues for others. In this situation, Michelle is financially ahead then most people. Her worries seem unjustified. COVID-19 is temporary. If furloughed, she'll go back to work. Too many people are getting laid off or losing their jobs. They may not have emergency funds. I feel for these people. Michelle, you're totally fine. Take this time to cope with your anxiety and compassion burnout. Perhaps volunteering will help.
Compassion Fatigue? What is she talking about? Get a grip woman, there are real problems and people who struggle. What a waste of a call
This call was idiotic
This is the snobbiest most let them eat cake caller I’ve ever heard
Dave running out of callers?
Maybe get one of Trumps sons on here to talk about their financial struggles.
I'm over here working 70 hours a week. At 12-15 hour shifts. I'm taking home more in overtime than my regular salary. But still even I won't be able to keep this up for forever.
So let's see. Sitting on 1 1/2 million.., no home payment, $2200 pension and SS in 5 years. Husband makes $100K with secure job. So she's burnt out and stressed out ? This woman has no clue what it actually feels like to be stressed out. How pathetic.
Another person complaining about having a good financial situation and still acting as if life sucks for them. Smh 🤦♂️
Wow. That's your problem some people need a hard reality check 😓
She just wanted to call in to humblebrag.
My wife works for a hospital believe me they are not all hiring 4 people in her department (the ER) actually got laid off for the time being. The news only shows you the few bad areas it's not scary everywhere more depressing what's happening to our economy!!!!!
She needs a reality check
She can always deliver pizza....
Interesting phone discussion! Michelle sounded like someone who needs a break from work, but also from life. She needs to recharge, and the good thing is that she can take a break and be okay financially. She will be eligible for unemployment benefits if the job lets her go due to the crisis, but she could use a well-deserved break.
Dr. John D. has been such a VALUABLE and much NEEDED asset to the Ramsey Team! Welcome, Dr. John!
Most definitely have done 911 communications over 24 years Compassions fatigue is real. Ken is spot on. I took up gardening and learned how to fish has been awesome for me.
Is she serious???🥴
We are very Privileged.
Yeah. They must be white too
@@charlesyoung9980 I don't think that this has to do with race or ethnicity. When people have food, they worry about their mortgage. When the house is paid off, they worry about their job and career. When one's food, house, and career is secure we still worry.....it's human nature.
Our physical therapist and occupational therapists are still working out of our senior living community, including myself which works with the seniors in fitness as well. We were given n-95 masks three weeks ago and business as usual was the directive. No cases so far hoping all is well, because without their physical movement they will go downhill very quickly
People out here just trying to save 6 months of living expenses and shes complaining?
She already works part time. She has been “tired” for a long time. She wants her husband to pick up her slack (which he can but he’s asking for more help) maybe he had plans that are being derailed by his wife’s fatigue.
Yeah Dave missed the mark here. I am an occupational therapist at a nursing home and we are essential workers. My boss has even asked me to please stay working there a couple months longer than I had planned (I have had plans to move within the Bay Area soon), because she knows that going through the process of hiring a new therapist would be difficult right now.
Yes, secondary trauma is overlooked and yet is real. I’m grateful to hear them educating the public about Compassionate Fatigue Syndrome. Thank you everyone for doing your party during this time but remember to put time aside for your health too. May God bless us all!
What’s wrong with these callers? I mean, really, come on!
What a whiner!! $1.5 million, no debt, and she's all worried? Shut up!!
Terrific humblebrag lady!!
At least she has the million dollar safety net without too many financial obligations. Several people out there are paycheck to paycheck with no reserves
I process applications for food assistance...i absolutely have this same feeling. Its hard listening to people's stories, I can't imagine the trauma dr, nurses and emts face.
The fact that they even considered "unemployment compensation" with over $1mil sitting in a retirement account (which she can withdraw penalty-free since she's 59) absolutely infuriates me. Incredibly greedy.
Sometimes I feel people call to show off what they have.
She is above taking temperatures... Her husband wants her to work the system and get the those unemployment dollars... What about those who are caring for the elderly and doing the jobs of 10 people, paycheck to paycheck for 10 dollars an hour.. those are the people who have fatigue.