SINGLE MOM, BE ENCOURAGED!| Advice & tips on being a happy, healthy, and thriving, single mother.

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  • Опубліковано 8 січ 2023
  • Hey y'all, I wanted to share some of the things that have helped me along my journey as a single mother. I receive a lot of questions about this topic and wanted to share my thoughts with you! I pray that you take what you need from this video and that you began to thrive in this season of being a single mother. xoxo -Rhia
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  • @ManthaPanthaaa
    @ManthaPanthaaa 6 місяців тому +69

    It's so comforting to know I'm not the only one searching the net for advice/encouragement while I'm on this single parent journey. 😔 new subbie 🫶🏾

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  6 місяців тому +3

      Sis! You are definitely not the only one! All of us are out here trying to make it! By the grace of God we got this!♥️

    • @Skyla_and_Adina24
      @Skyla_and_Adina24 6 місяців тому +2

      You’re not alone! I’m a single pregnant mom! I’m so scared but these type of videos really have comforted me!

    • @shanellem6310
      @shanellem6310 2 місяці тому

      ​@@Skyla_and_Adina24 Me too.

  • @jessecaharvey9885
    @jessecaharvey9885 6 місяців тому +27

    I don’t have a village so I came here. It’s so hard. I’m exhausted. I have no time to even breathe.

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  6 місяців тому +2

      Hey my love, I will be saying a special prayer for God to surround you with the right people for him to send help. I know the load feels heavy, but I know this season won’t last forever. Sending you love and prayers Jesseca.♥️

    • @BenJessica-mz9jg
      @BenJessica-mz9jg 2 місяці тому

      Don't worry

  • @brianaruthmartin
    @brianaruthmartin 8 місяців тому +51

    Girrrrllll…. THANK YOU!! I needed this. I needed to hear every single word you said. I’m a single mom to two little girls under the age of 8, and I’m STRUGGGGLIN. I want to be a better mom. I want to be stronger for my girls. But I feel so damaged and broken down at times & the LAST thing I want is to rub that negativity into my kids. it’s hard out here yall. Thank you so much for this video, I love this & I need this content in my feed for sure.

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  8 місяців тому +2

      Wow, you just confirmed that I need to keep going! I’m so proud of you and I am confident that you will be the best mother to your girls! Praying Gods continued healing in and over your life! This is just a season!♥️♥️♥️

    • @jellybite1
      @jellybite1 6 місяців тому +1

      You got this, mama

    • @shanellem6310
      @shanellem6310 2 місяці тому

      I feel you. You are not alone. I'm a single mom of 3 in Cali- 5yrs, 12yrs, & 17yrs. I'm struggling hard & am trying to find balance all while keeping it all together & creating my online business.

  • @sethunyapk
    @sethunyapk Місяць тому +6

    Watching this video today wasn't by accident. I've struggled to forgive myself for so long. Being a single mom wasn't my dream . My daughter deserves the best mom . Thank you

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  Місяць тому

      Wow! I’m so glad! You are absolutely right, she does! So continue to be your best and walk in your freedom and truth. ♥️🫶🏾 May God continue to bless you and be your guide.

  • @CommentingSomeMore
    @CommentingSomeMore 4 місяці тому +7

    How does this not have a million likes? I searched in yt “how to be a good influence as a single mom” and this video came up. And God is good because I didn’t even search for a specifically Christian video but here I am. I give God all the glory and I see you do too. Thank you ma’am. ❤ God bless

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  4 місяці тому +1

      Yay! I am so glad you found it! I hope it blessed you! We got this!🫶🏾♥️

  • @Ravensabird
    @Ravensabird 5 місяців тому +14

    This is so hard for me being a single mom bc everytime something bad happens it ripple effects everything. And I get back to square 1 again. I want to be financially stable so bad and have better energy and health. & I also have a narcissistic mother that is working against everything I do all the time. I have no drug habits, I don’t drink almost at all, I don’t have a spending habit. I’m just poor and overworked.

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  5 місяців тому

      I’m so sorry, I can only imagine how hard that is to be in your current situation. I will be praying for God to send a mother figure your way and a good support system for you. I will also say a prayer for financial breakthrough. I know times are hard, but keep telling yourself that what currently is won’t always be. You got this mama. Hang in there!♥️🫶🏾🙏🏾

    • @onwuzuligbocelestina2654
      @onwuzuligbocelestina2654 2 місяці тому

      I can truly relate ma'am - rising, falling qnd starting up again.
      I would advise you learn a trade, just anything you love the most ( truth is getting a paid job I good but doesn't last)...... So try my love. It's easy to learn these days because of the help of youtube and other learning social platform. So try, again I would say.
      May God who has strengthened me through the journey strengthen you and give you the right wisdom to succeed.
      I love you dear and I pray you win

    • @shanellem6310
      @shanellem6310 2 місяці тому

      Sis, I don't know if you believe in God; but, I would suggest turning towards God. There is strength in prayer, and when times get hard, pray more. Tell it all to God. Everything happens for a reason. I understand how you feel cause I'm going through the same- taking one step forward, 2 steps back. At least, that's what it feels like. God helps those who help themselves. If your Mom is narcissistic, cut her off or distance yourself. She is not helping you or kids. Matter of fact, let go of all negative people in ur life or set some firm boundaries. That's what I had to do. My Mom is a narc too. My life has been more peaceful since leaving those people alone. See the life you want with your kids and work towards that. Just set your intention and do your best one day at a time. That's all you can do. Also, start creating ur own village- single moms supporting each other. It helps.

    • @MsLotusBlooms
      @MsLotusBlooms Місяць тому

      Why did you have a baby?

  • @Skyla_and_Adina24
    @Skyla_and_Adina24 6 місяців тому +13

    Videos like this are so encouraging. I’m 19 weeks pregnant and I’m single and it’s already been hard. I’m so excited and nervous for my baby to get here. I just feel like I let her and myself down not building an established relationship before having her but honestly it wouldn’t have been her if I did it the way I always planned. And for that reason I know she’s special and a true blessing and she was put here during a time I needed the most. Thank you and God bless you!

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  6 місяців тому +1

      Congratulations sis! Definitely be encouraged in knowing that God makes no mistakes and what he will allows he will provide for! God will give you the provision emotionally, physically, and spiritually to endure and be the best mother you can be! And yes he specializes in bringing us things/people exactly when we need them! Thanks for sharing. Praying for smooth rest of your pregnancy and healthy delivery!♥️♥️🙏🏾🙏🏾🫶🏾

    • @franciscasarpong
      @franciscasarpong 5 місяців тому +1

      Sis you will make it but I don’t know how if Rhia is here to share you will soon share and not be bitter but better.

    • @emmanuelbabaranti9863
      @emmanuelbabaranti9863 2 місяці тому

      I believe that a woman should be able to look up to her man for protection, for well being, and for strength. I intend on fulfilling these roles without failure, I will be this one special woman's knight in shinning armor. This special woman will know that I am deeply in love with her, for I am the type of man that showers her in my love, Whether it be flowers, gifts of candy or jwelry, or just a simple "I love you" and a kiss, she will always know she is loved and appreciated. The only person that truly knows that answer is God himself. I am willing to take the chance and see, if you are willing to get along you seems so sweet. Someone once told me "It is better to have lived life and regret what we have done, than to never have lived and regret doing nothing." I believe this to be true. If you decide that you are interested in discovering the real me and seeing if I'm the man you are searching for, please write back to me. I will patiently be awaiting your letter. I really cant wait to get a response from you .I am looking forward to your response

  • @fofs3084
    @fofs3084 3 місяці тому +4

    I am terrified... Single, working, with a 5 month old. I'm so scared 😢 I feel bad for letting her down. Her step dad is so abusive and I can't anymore... Her dad abandoned us when he found out about her and has never met her... Her step dad decided to marry me while I was pregnant and it was the biggest mistake I've ever made. She's so tiny and cute. She doesn't even cry on me😢 God blessed me with a very very sweet little baby. I do infact have so much to be grateful for. Thank you for the video I'm going to subscribe. Esp. because you're sharing with us from a Christian's perspective. 😢😢😢

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  3 місяці тому

      Hey beautiful, I’m glad you found this video. My advice to you is to only focus on what you can control. You can’t control how involved her father will be, but you can focus on giving your precious baby girl the love that she deserves. Also, if the relationship/marriage isn’t working look into counseling etc. but if it’s not working don’t hesitate to be selfish about you and your daughters safety. Safety is most important. More importantly, when you feel discouraged, sad, and down, don’t forget to pray and get around people who can speak life into you. You got this. And remember that you won’t always be in this position. It will pass soon. ♥️🫶🏾🙏🏾

  • @queendavion7057
    @queendavion7057 15 днів тому +2

    thank you so much this helped me❤️ this is my first pregnancy and although I have support, My emotions are everywhere and I haven’t been feeling like myself. This made me realize I need to be kind to myself❤️😘😘

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  15 днів тому +1

      Congrats to you and your little one on the way! I’m so glad this video was helpful to you! Yes, remember to be kind to yourself! ♥️♥️♥️🫶🏾🫶🏾 you got this!

  • @traceybiagas6123
    @traceybiagas6123 Рік тому +12

    Gurrrrrrl, I love this and I love you. This is for ALL Moms not only single Moms... I am a Mom who is married to my sons' father and we raised them in our home TOGETHER... and there were time when I felt like I was doing it alone and I didn't take care of me. The emotional, physical and spiritual well being of them were on me and I was struggling alone. So I do believe these tips will help all moms. If I can tell another mom anything it will also be to ask for HELP... it is the BEST advice I can give.

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  Рік тому

      Wow, you are so right! Thank you for this feedback! I'm sure thank many women feel this way!

    • @emmanuelbabaranti9863
      @emmanuelbabaranti9863 2 місяці тому

      I believe that a woman should be able to look up to her man for protection, for well being, and for strength. I intend on fulfilling these roles without failure, I will be this one special woman's knight in shinning armor. This special woman will know that I am deeply in love with her, for I am the type of man that showers her in my love, Whether it be flowers, gifts of candy or jwelry, or just a simple "I love you" and a kiss, she will always know she is loved and appreciated. The only person that truly knows that answer is God himself. I am willing to take the chance and see, if you are willing to get along you seems so sweet. Someone once told me "It is better to have lived life and regret what we have done, than to never have lived and regret doing nothing." I believe this to be true. If you decide that you are interested in discovering the real me and seeing if I'm the man you are searching for, please write back to me. I will patiently be awaiting your letter. I really cant wait to get a response from you .I am looking forward to your response

  • @milcahdiesob3799
    @milcahdiesob3799 Місяць тому +1

    You just made me cry 😭😩 this morning and realizing there is a lot I haven't done, a lot of unforgiving spirit, a lot of no appreciation since I'm so focused on what I don't have and what I have lost, I definitely need to do better 🙏.

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  Місяць тому

      Sis, we are all a working progress and on this journey we won’t always get it right! However, if we are still here and still journeying we can make the prominent changes we need to keep bettering ourselves! You got this! I’m proud of you and your new journey! Best of luck to you.🫶🏾🙏🏾

  • @Christina-rq3ed
    @Christina-rq3ed Місяць тому +2

    Im checking in,my name is Christina D. And it's great to be present at this moment.

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  Місяць тому

      Yes! Thanks for checking in! ♥️🫶🏾

  • @TLeaf87
    @TLeaf87 9 місяців тому +8

    Awesome content! Thanks for sharing. I'm a single mom to a 9-year old daughter and it gets real in this season. But GOD...

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  9 місяців тому

      Thank you so much! I’m glad that I could share! And yes mama, you got this!!♥️♥️♥️

  • @JACLYNLOVEISMAGIC
    @JACLYNLOVEISMAGIC 3 місяці тому +3

    Im not religious but i like your advice.

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  3 місяці тому

      I’m so glad you like it! Thanks for watching! 🫶🏾

  • @ayshab2105
    @ayshab2105 28 днів тому +1

    Newly single with three kids Karma often wondering why I made this choice. Then I think back to the situations. I do accept it😢

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  22 дні тому

      Hey sis! Accepting your situation and not blaming yourself/giving yourself grace daily is the best thing you can do. I think daily, reminding yourself that you still have purpose and that nothing you’ve gone through will be wasted is important. Also, practicing daily gratitude has been very helpful for me on my journey. And remember these days won’t last forever. Sending you love and healing. ♥️🫶🏾

  • @sharonwilliams4032
    @sharonwilliams4032 5 місяців тому +5

    Thank you for this content its definitely needed. In my self development journey 5 months clean thank God my kids never gave up on me i have put my children in situations that wasn't motherly and doing the work it takes to be accountable i have no problem with it and this video help me learn to be gracious with myself as a woman as well as learning about myself to be what my daughter or kids need of me as their mom.i value healthy relationships i cut off any unhealthy relationship
    Anything unhealthy will trigger me so my boundaries is a must.im willing to not give up on myself and not give up on my kids

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  5 місяців тому

      I’m so proud of you and your recovery sis! I’m happy to hear that you are giving yourself grace! God gives us so many second chances so the least we could do is give ourselves second chances. Your children are proud of you and are glad that you are determined to win and not give up. We are all rooting for you!♥️♥️🫶🏾

    • @sharonwilliams4032
      @sharonwilliams4032 5 місяців тому

      @@Rhiajanay very fortunate to rediscover what lies under the surface of self and to be courageous to face things that comes along with being a woman/ mother I'm very clear of knowing it's a godly assignment to be a woman who is pure reborn or virtuous as well as a mother. Keep up the content because young women older women this is real to me and we all get discouraged at times we all get distracted by the wrong mate and it takes a toll on the whole dynamic of what a family supposed to be so having strength to move on from the father but no negativity towards him God will deal with the father we thankfully Got God thru it all. Be encouraged to all and to all a happy new year happy new you happy new boundaries happy everything to anyone who desire change its only gone get better renewing the mind soul spirit

  • @parrishmarshall2009
    @parrishmarshall2009 Місяць тому +3

    This is how I used to be never asking for help 4yrs into motherhood now And I NEED HELP and still can’t get it from ANYONE 😭

    • @theliterarytarot
      @theliterarytarot Місяць тому

      I feel that

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  Місяць тому

      Praying that God will surround you with a good village or put someone who loves you and your children in your corner. I know it’s not easy, but keep pushing love.🫶🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @nokwandanyawo6823
    @nokwandanyawo6823 Місяць тому +1

    I've recently moved out with my 3 kids. The relationship was emotionally draining n 1 week after that I find myself crying before God, I felt like I'm not good enough or I don't have enough in me to raise my kids. God has been my strength and I'm trusting him in every step of the way. Thank you so much for this ❤

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  Місяць тому

      Praying for your strength sister! I’m so glad this video was of some help! Hang in there! ♥️🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @kezzerful
    @kezzerful 5 місяців тому +3

    I got 5mins in and literally felt so seen. I really needed to hear evrything you said. I really appreciate how compassionate and real and encouraging this was. Stay blessed sis

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  5 місяців тому

      Awww, praise God! I’m so glad! Thank you so much for the encouragement love! Stay blessed as well!!♥️♥️🫶🏾

  • @sylviaanyango1972
    @sylviaanyango1972 4 місяці тому +3

    Wow i thank God that i came along this Video you have described everything i went through and did wrong i even got Depression but God helped me and is helping me out its not an easy Journey but there is nothing above God.

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  4 місяці тому

      Hey sis! The beautiful part about your journey is that you are still here to tell the story. Continue to focus on moving forward and trust God with you and your kids future. Eyes haven’t seen and ears haven’t heard of all that he has in store. Hang in there!♥️🫶🏾

    • @emmanuelbabaranti9863
      @emmanuelbabaranti9863 2 місяці тому

      I believe that a woman should be able to look up to her man for protection, for well being, and for strength. I intend on fulfilling these roles without failure, I will be this one special woman's knight in shinning armor. This special woman will know that I am deeply in love with her, for I am the type of man that showers her in my love, Whether it be flowers, gifts of candy or jwelry, or just a simple "I love you" and a kiss, she will always know she is loved and appreciated. The only person that truly knows that answer is God himself. I am willing to take the chance and see, if you are willing to get along you seems so sweet. Someone once told me "It is better to have lived life and regret what we have done, than to never have lived and regret doing nothing." I believe this to be true. If you decide that you are interested in discovering the real me and seeing if I'm the man you are searching for, please write back to me. I will patiently be awaiting your letter. I really cant wait to get a response from you .I am looking forward to your response

  • @muvarukiya
    @muvarukiya 3 місяці тому +2

    A new subbie ❤ just been left on my 8 months of pregnancy and been trying to focus on doing things right by my child 😢 this gave me hope

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  3 місяці тому

      You will definitely get through it love! Remember that between you and God you have everything it takes!♥️🫶🏾

  • @michellanuttle
    @michellanuttle Місяць тому +1

    Thank you so much! Great advice I needed this, I am encouraged that I am not alone and with God I can do this!

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  Місяць тому

      Yes my love! Be encouraged!♥️🫶🏾

  • @Lotusbythesea
    @Lotusbythesea 5 днів тому +1

    Thank you for this video. It's been so validating and encouraging on this sabbath morning ❤️. I hope you continue to make videos! And your beat boxing is a vibe ☺️ lol

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  5 днів тому

      Awww! I’m so glad! Happy sabbath! And I will be making more! Thanks for the feedback!🫶🏾♥️

  • @JoyChosen
    @JoyChosen Рік тому +10

    🤍✨Yes motherhood is a ton of emotions rolled into one. Such a beautiful and challenging thing. We got this because God got us! Jesus is with us and he will never leave nor forsaken us!🤍✨

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  Рік тому

      Yes!! ♥️ than an so much for your comment! We got this!☺️

  • @stephanies3862
    @stephanies3862 4 місяці тому +3

    Sis, You are a ray of sunshine 😊

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  4 місяці тому +1

      Awww, thank you so much my love!🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @Mayan144
    @Mayan144 2 місяці тому +1

    Definitely a pick me up video! Thank you so much for this.

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  2 місяці тому

      Yay! You’re so welcome! ♥️🫶🏾

  • @EvelynJoy
    @EvelynJoy 6 днів тому +1

    Gurl! I love your advice and I love your spirit!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  5 днів тому

      Awww, thank you !!♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @RanaLeeJi
    @RanaLeeJi 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you so much. Washing my heart in the love vibrations. ❤️✨

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  2 місяці тому

      Awww! Yay! I’m so glad!♥️

  • @lulasimpson5257
    @lulasimpson5257 6 місяців тому +2

    Today was hard but watching your video put a smile on my face thank you sweetie and yes make more videos 🥰🥰 god bless you ❤

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  6 місяців тому +1

      I’m so glad! And yes, I definitely will be making more videos! Thanks for the confirmation!!♥️♥️♥️🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @herjourneywithin_
    @herjourneywithin_ Рік тому +2

    Thank you so much for this. I love your energy! God bless you❤

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  Рік тому

      Awww, thank you so much! ♥️♥️

  • @kentajackson1992
    @kentajackson1992 10 місяців тому +2

    I am so grateful I came across your video 💜. I needed to hear everything you said. Thanks, Queen 🌻!

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  10 місяців тому +1

      Awww, I’m so glad! Thanks for watching! Be encouraged sis!💕💕

  • @kembrya7766
    @kembrya7766 Рік тому +1

    Great tips! Thank you for sharing what has worked for you throughout your journey as a young mom. Keep being a light and looking good while doing so. I love the ponytail and the Tuskegee lipstick.🥰

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  Рік тому +1

      Thank you so much mom! I am glad to share these tips! And yesssss, I love that lipstick!

  • @aliciafrazier6108
    @aliciafrazier6108 7 місяців тому +3

    Wheww!! I needed to hear this. So glad that I found your page.

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  7 місяців тому

      Yay! I’m so glad! I will be making another video for single moms this week! ♥️♥️

  • @EvelynJoy
    @EvelynJoy 6 днів тому +1

    Sharing with my friend. ❤️❤️❤️

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  6 днів тому

      ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️ I’m so glad!

  • @user-zi1nh4ul1k
    @user-zi1nh4ul1k 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you! God bless you! I needed to hear everything you talked about today!

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  2 місяці тому

      You’re so welcome! Thank you so much! Im so glad! Stay encourage sis!♥️🫶🏾🙏🏾

  • @mackenzieellis9936
    @mackenzieellis9936 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you so much!!! I really needed this ❤

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  2 місяці тому

      You’re so welcome! I’m so glad! ♥️🫶🏾

  • @QuietwithQ
    @QuietwithQ 2 місяці тому +1

    This just helped me relieve my day ty sis 😢🙏🏾😭

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  2 місяці тому +1

      I’m so glad ! By Gods grace we got this! Keep pressing! ♥️🙏🏾

  • @user-fg3ro7pt9o
    @user-fg3ro7pt9o 4 місяці тому +1

    I really… really needed this… thank you so much for making this

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  3 місяці тому

      Awesome! I’m so glad! We got this!🫶🏾♥️

  • @ME_333-
    @ME_333- 9 місяців тому +1

    I needed this, thank you ❤

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  9 місяців тому

      I’m so glad! Stay encouraged love!♥️

  • @CatnCat210
    @CatnCat210 4 місяці тому +1

    Thanks for this sis! 💜

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  4 місяці тому

      Of course sis!🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @carina5230
    @carina5230 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you, God bless you. Positive attitude.

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  2 місяці тому

      God bless you too! We got this!♥️

  • @DrineThePoet
    @DrineThePoet 12 днів тому +1

    I so needed this. Thank you.😢❤

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  12 днів тому

      I’m so glad! You got this! ♥️🫶🏾

  • @indi_brii_00
    @indi_brii_00 5 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for sharing this with me. I’m really going through it with my kids father.

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  5 місяців тому

      You’re welcome love! Hopefully this video was somewhat encouraging! You will make it through. ♥️🫶🏾💯🙏🏾

  • @quitaginger7122
    @quitaginger7122 Рік тому +3

    😂😂u still got tht flow but shout out to the single moms fr who’s making it happen 🎉🎉🎉

  • @kiaraharris826
    @kiaraharris826 5 місяців тому +1

    Omg 😢I love this ❤ really needed this motivation 💪🏾💪🏾

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  5 місяців тому +1

      Yay! I’m so glad! You got this love! 🫶🏾☺️

  • @vanessaaragon655
    @vanessaaragon655 20 днів тому +1

    Thank you so much! This really helped me.

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  20 днів тому

      Yay! I’m so glad! You got this! 🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @rosariocatherinearbulupalo1351
    @rosariocatherinearbulupalo1351 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you ao much for sharing this, I really needed to hear it.

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  2 місяці тому

      Of course! I’m so glad! ♥️🫶🏾

  • @LVARockets
    @LVARockets 25 днів тому +1

    Love this!!!

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  25 днів тому

      Yay! I’m so glad!♥️♥️🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @JoyinIAM
    @JoyinIAM 3 місяці тому +1

    Loved this video! Thank you so much!

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  3 місяці тому

      I’m so glad!!♥️♥️🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @user-rc1eh2kf2w
    @user-rc1eh2kf2w Місяць тому +1

    Better not bitter, better not bitter, better not bitter REPEAT

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  Місяць тому

      Yessss!!♥️♥️♥️🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @sunnyday7533
    @sunnyday7533 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you! Great Tips

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  2 місяці тому

      You’re welcome! Thanks for the feedback!♥️🫶🏾

  • @WandaLeBlanc-sd1tf
    @WandaLeBlanc-sd1tf 2 місяці тому +1

    I just ran across your videos. It's very awesome!. I'm a single mom, a widow actually and I also have guardianship over my granddaughter who's three and I am 55. I definitely need a career and a good support system because I do not have one. Again, thank you for making this video.

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  2 місяці тому

      Wow! I’m so glad you came across this video! God bless you for taking care of your grandchildren and I’m sorry for your loss as well. May god continue to give you the strength and bless you with the right caterer! You got this! By Gods grace!♥️🙏🏾🫶🏾

  • @kleighrocket4895
    @kleighrocket4895 19 днів тому +1

    THANK YOU SIS. I REALLY NEEDED THIS

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  19 днів тому

      You’re so welcome love! We got this!🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @poohaminor
    @poohaminor 8 місяців тому +1

    Sis. We need more of these. New subbie💛

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  8 місяців тому

      Awww, thanks for the feedback! I’ll be dropping a new video soon!♥️♥️♥️

  • @mercynjoroge3117
    @mercynjoroge3117 3 місяці тому +1

    Such sound advise. Thank you so much mum. I needed this 😊

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  3 місяці тому

      I’m so glad!! Thanks for the feedback love! ♥️🫶🏾 we got this!

  • @mariahvernon5052
    @mariahvernon5052 6 місяців тому +1

    It’s giving Issa frim insecure. Love this for you can’t wait to see more ❤

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  6 місяців тому

      Awww, I love her so much!lol && thank you so much! ♥️🫶🏾😌

  • @alainamarie1160
    @alainamarie1160 2 місяці тому +1

    This was definitely helpful ❤

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  2 місяці тому

      I’m so glad!♥️🫶🏾🙏🏾

  • @Cayyfitness
    @Cayyfitness 4 місяці тому +1

    Girl, Thank you for making this. Every single thing you said is currently happening. Trying to push through and tonight was one of those nights. I’m learning to be present, even when I don’t want to.
    On the basis on asking for help, it’s hard when you don’t have much help. Only one person to rely on that I can trust. Hopefully got will show me who else is around to help, that I can trust. Thank you for this video! A blessing trully. ❤

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  4 місяці тому +1

      Sis! You got this and when you don’t lean all the way into God bc he definitely does! I’m glad you found this video! I am believing that this year will be one of your better years! I will be praying that God sends you the right help!♥️♥️🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾 you’re doing a great job!

    • @Cayyfitness
      @Cayyfitness 4 місяці тому

      Thank you so much🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @MilkNT
    @MilkNT 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for your vulnerability, Rhia! This was very encouraging 🫶🏾 new subbie here!

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  7 місяців тому +1

      So thankful for the support! We got this! Thanks sis!♥️

  • @marthastevenson5189
    @marthastevenson5189 9 місяців тому +1

    Love this ❤
    Love the hair❤
    Love you❤

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  9 місяців тому

      ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️love you more! Thanks!

  • @user-du8kn5mo1h
    @user-du8kn5mo1h 8 місяців тому +1

    I needed this thank you 😊

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  8 місяців тому

      I’m so glad! ♥️♥️♥️

  • @LaQuemini
    @LaQuemini Рік тому +3

    You're doing a great job.

  • @da6356
    @da6356 Місяць тому +1

    God bless you and greatly reward you, this really helped me

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  Місяць тому

      I’m so glad it helped! Thanks for the feedback!♥️🫶🏾

  • @jessicajohnson4585
    @jessicajohnson4585 Рік тому +1

    Love THIS!!

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  Рік тому

      Thank you soooo much sis!!

    • @emmanuelbabaranti9863
      @emmanuelbabaranti9863 2 місяці тому

      I believe that a woman should be able to look up to her man for protection, for well being, and for strength. I intend on fulfilling these roles without failure, I will be this one special woman's knight in shinning armor. This special woman will know that I am deeply in love with her, for I am the type of man that showers her in my love, Whether it be flowers, gifts of candy or jwelry, or just a simple "I love you" and a kiss, she will always know she is loved and appreciated. The only person that truly knows that answer is God himself. I am willing to take the chance and see, if you are willing to get along you seems so sweet. Someone once told me "It is better to have lived life and regret what we have done, than to never have lived and regret doing nothing." I believe this to be true. If you decide that you are interested in discovering the real me and seeing if I'm the man you are searching for, please write back to me. I will patiently be awaiting your letter. I really cant wait to get a response from you .I am looking forward to your response

  • @franciscasarpong
    @franciscasarpong 5 місяців тому +1

    You’re amazing sis

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  4 місяці тому

      Thanks love! You are as well! 🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @katehollomanart
    @katehollomanart 6 місяців тому +1

    Subscribed! Thank you so much!

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  6 місяців тому

      Aww, yay! And of course! ♥️🫶🏾

  • @jujutobinson5038
    @jujutobinson5038 4 місяці тому +1

    Thankyou so much for this content

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  4 місяці тому

      You’re so welcome! So glad I get to make it! ♥️

  • @kristinsmithwilliams2601
    @kristinsmithwilliams2601 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for sharing your story, you are beautiful inside and out!! “Kicking the stinking thinking” 😂😂😂😂 took me out! LOL…Subscribing!

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  Рік тому

      Thank you so much cousin! And hahaha I couldn’t think of anything else! Lol

  • @8babygirl8
    @8babygirl8 6 місяців тому +2

    You made my day! Love you!!!

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  6 місяців тому +1

      Yay! I’m so glad! Love you more!♥️🥰

    • @Valencespot
      @Valencespot 5 місяців тому

      Good morning Sandra👋

    • @emmanuelbabaranti9863
      @emmanuelbabaranti9863 2 місяці тому

      I believe that a woman should be able to look up to her man for protection, for well being, and for strength. I intend on fulfilling these roles without failure, I will be this one special woman's knight in shinning armor. This special woman will know that I am deeply in love with her, for I am the type of man that showers her in my love, Whether it be flowers, gifts of candy or jwelry, or just a simple "I love you" and a kiss, she will always know she is loved and appreciated. The only person that truly knows that answer is God himself. I am willing to take the chance and see, if you are willing to get along you seems so sweet. Someone once told me "It is better to have lived life and regret what we have done, than to never have lived and regret doing nothing." I believe this to be true. If you decide that you are interested in discovering the real me and seeing if I'm the man you are searching for, please write back to me. I will patiently be awaiting your letter. I really cant wait to get a response from you .I am looking forward to your response

  • @YaniAmorX
    @YaniAmorX Місяць тому +1

    Thank you 😩😩

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  Місяць тому

      Of course!♥️♥️♥️

  • @Simibabyy
    @Simibabyy 5 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much ❤❤❤

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  5 місяців тому

      You’re so welcome love!♥️🫶🏾

  • @monichan6642
    @monichan6642 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you, I needed this today. And btw, Ruby Woo has been my fav color lipstick for over 20 years!

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  2 місяці тому

      Awww, you’re so welcome! And yesss, I love Ruby Woo! It’s my thing now! ♥️🫶🏾

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  2 місяці тому

      Awww, you’re so welcome! And yesss, I love Ruby Woo! It’s my thing now! ♥️🫶🏾

  • @naledimaqholo6607
    @naledimaqholo6607 5 місяців тому +1

    Thank you 🙏❤️

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  5 місяців тому +1

      Sis! We got this!♥️🙏🏾

  • @thesingleparentreview6254
    @thesingleparentreview6254 3 місяці тому +1

    Great tips!🙏💞

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  3 місяці тому

      Thanks so much!♥️🫶🏾

  • @Alexandria_lee12
    @Alexandria_lee12 6 днів тому +1

    Beautiful video thank you

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  6 днів тому

      Of course! We got this!❤❤

  • @loisekaranja7900
    @loisekaranja7900 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for the video.
    I feel encouraged.
    I will be a more better mum..Lean on God and depend on Him🎉🎉 that's my take home❤

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  3 місяці тому

      Awww, yay! I’m so excited! Yes, we got this and when we feel like we don’t God does! Wishing you the best!♥️🫶🏾

  • @hitmusicsociety
    @hitmusicsociety 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you ❤

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  3 місяці тому

      Of course! ♥️♥️♥️

  • @celinaevans8163
    @celinaevans8163 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you confirmation 😊

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  2 місяці тому

      Awww, I’m so glad! ♥️🫶🏾

  • @zeef5960
    @zeef5960 11 днів тому +1

    Love this ❤. New subscriber. I would love to hear more single mother content.❤

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  11 днів тому

      Awesome! Thanks so much for the feedback! A new video will be dropping this week!🫶🏾🫶🏾♥️

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  11 днів тому

      Thanks for the feedback!

  • @lifeisgreatx6722
    @lifeisgreatx6722 4 місяці тому +2

    I have never felt so lost. I have a 1 and a 2 year old and my partner is leaving me for another woman he has met. We have been together over 12 years, I’ve been by his side battling cancer and then IVF for our children. I feel so betrayed. How can I look after these babies on my own I have no job because I stay at home with them why he works. I’m trying to stay close to god xx

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  4 місяці тому

      Hey sis! I’m sis so sorry to hear that, I know you feel very broken, but when you said you are trying to stay close to God that’s the best thing you can do. Allow him to be your anchor, way maker, healer, and provider. I am praying for unexpected blessings to overflow in your life in this season and for God to mend your broken heart so you can be the best version of yourself. Also, leave your ex in the hands of the Lord (I know it’s easier said than done), but he always gets the best vengeance. Hang in there.♥️🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @MommyTheeStallion
    @MommyTheeStallion Рік тому +2

    I loved this so much! I'm not a single mom but this still resonated so deeply for me. So many of these tips are needed for all moms, brown moms, and christian women as a whole! I appreciate your vulnerability and can't wait to see where you go! #bluedevilbornbluedevilbread!

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  Рік тому

      Wow, thanks so much for your feedback! I'm so glad it resonated with you! And yesss #bluedevilpride! && thanks for your encouragement!

    • @mnbNnn-ni8lt
      @mnbNnn-ni8lt 5 місяців тому

      Thanks am single mom struggling but I thank God from kenya

  • @onlinesidehustles247
    @onlinesidehustles247 Місяць тому +1

    Excellent content.

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  Місяць тому

      Thank you so much!♥️🫶🏾

  • @marinethsanchez
    @marinethsanchez Рік тому +1

    Sending to all of my single mommy friends ❤

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  Рік тому +1

      Awww, thank you sis!

    • @emmanuelbabaranti9863
      @emmanuelbabaranti9863 2 місяці тому

      I believe that a woman should be able to look up to her man for protection, for well being, and for strength. I intend on fulfilling these roles without failure, I will be this one special woman's knight in shinning armor. This special woman will know that I am deeply in love with her, for I am the type of man that showers her in my love, Whether it be flowers, gifts of candy or jwelry, or just a simple "I love you" and a kiss, she will always know she is loved and appreciated. The only person that truly knows that answer is God himself. I am willing to take the chance and see, if you are willing to get along you seems so sweet. Someone once told me "It is better to have lived life and regret what we have done, than to never have lived and regret doing nothing." I believe this to be true. If you decide that you are interested in discovering the real me and seeing if I'm the man you are searching for, please write back to me. I will patiently be awaiting your letter. I really cant wait to get a response from you .I am looking forward to your response

  • @TiffanyMoore8701
    @TiffanyMoore8701 2 місяці тому +1

    Love Love Love this ❤❤❤❤ all your advice was so pure and well needed😊 Thank you so much ❤

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  2 місяці тому +1

      Awesome! I’m so glad you enjoyed it! We got this! ♥️🫶🏾🫶🏾☺️☺️

    • @TiffanyMoore8701
      @TiffanyMoore8701 2 місяці тому +1

      @@Rhiajanay Yes you are absolutely right. Thank you so much for taking the time out to make this!!

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  2 місяці тому +1

      @@TiffanyMoore8701 awww, thank you so much for your feedback! I’m encouraged!

    • @TiffanyMoore8701
      @TiffanyMoore8701 2 місяці тому +1

      @@Rhiajanay yes and I also shared on my FB page. Some women really need to hear this message to know it will be okay 🥹🙏💖

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  2 місяці тому +1

      Wow! That’s so awesome! Thank you so much! We have to stay encouraged!🫶🏾♥️🫶🏾

  • @tierragratefultofatherGod222
    @tierragratefultofatherGod222 3 місяці тому +1

    Thanks

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  3 місяці тому

      Of course! ♥️🙏🏾

  • @msaverielle
    @msaverielle 5 місяців тому +2

    Okay Issa Rae.❤

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  5 місяців тому +1

      Lol haha! That’s my girl!!😂

  • @sammiche
    @sammiche Рік тому +2

    Love it

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  Рік тому

      Thank you love!♥️♥️

  • @theliterarytarot
    @theliterarytarot Місяць тому +1

    A year late but this is lovely thank you 🙏

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  Місяць тому

      I’m so glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for the feedback! We got this!♥️🫶🏾

  • @msaverielle
    @msaverielle 5 місяців тому +2

    Great video.

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  5 місяців тому +1

      Awww, thank you so much sis!♥️🫶🏾

  • @Mayan144
    @Mayan144 2 місяці тому +1

    If it weren’t for God … that’s all I know! Amen. Find your strength in him ladies 😊😊😊😊🩷

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  2 місяці тому

      Amen!♥️🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @charlierlaflosstv
    @charlierlaflosstv Місяць тому +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  Місяць тому

      ♥️♥️♥️♥️🫶🏾

  • @EvelynJoy
    @EvelynJoy 6 днів тому +1

    I just subscribed!!!

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  6 днів тому

      Aww, thank you so much!🫶🏾

  • @wilson8979
    @wilson8979 Місяць тому +1

    I hate my kids dad. He was abusive. And I have to live with that for the rest of my life

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  Місяць тому

      I’m so sorry that you went through that experience! My hope is that you can move forward with your life and give yourself time to heal so you can be the best for yourself and children. You are worthy of a good life!♥️🫶🏾

  • @ayothomas131
    @ayothomas131 9 місяців тому +1

    ❤️❤️❤️

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  9 місяців тому

      ♥️♥️🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @AliceEvans-jy3mo
    @AliceEvans-jy3mo 2 місяці тому +1

    I'm a single mum with 4 children

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  2 місяці тому

      You got this Mama!

  • @Brownsagey
    @Brownsagey 5 місяців тому +1

    Needed

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  5 місяців тому

      Yay!! I’m so glad!💕☺️

  • @tyetishaburroughs3913
    @tyetishaburroughs3913 7 місяців тому +2

    I came here looking for some encouragement I’m a single mother of 2 very young kids struggling trying to rebuild after fleeing from domestic violence

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  7 місяців тому +2

      Sis! I am so very proud of you! You made the best decision for you and your babies. Be patient with yourself, keep your faith strong, and remember that what is right now won’t always be. God has more for you! ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

    • @tyetishaburroughs3913
      @tyetishaburroughs3913 7 місяців тому +1

      @@Rhiajanay thank you so much I’m trying to keep remembering that. And know god is good. It’s hard now but a miracle is coming I’m speaking it over my life

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  7 місяців тому +1

      @@tyetishaburroughs3913 absolutely! I touch and agree with you! ♥️♥️🙏🏾

    • @MilkNT
      @MilkNT 7 місяців тому

      So proud of you! 👏🏾 Give yourself permission to heal and show yourself compassion, there is no “right” way to grieve or heal. You’ve got this momma @tyetishaburroughs3913

    • @tyetishaburroughs3913
      @tyetishaburroughs3913 6 місяців тому

      @@electric5hadow excuse me

  • @irenextreme8201
    @irenextreme8201 Місяць тому +1

    I am 3 months pregnant and just found out he cheated on me at yhe beginning of our relationship. I am scared , hurt and lost. I don't have strength in me.

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  Місяць тому

      I’m so sorry to hear that! I really want you to make the best out of this pregnancy. My advice is to focus on yourself and your baby that you have growing inside of you! We want the baby to be as happy and healthy as possible. Pray about what decisions you need to make and just as sure as God gives you the answer he will also give you the strength. I promise. ♥️🙏🏾

  • @franciscasarpong
    @franciscasarpong 5 місяців тому +1

    It’s the rap for me, the bars are still active sissy😂

    • @Rhiajanay
      @Rhiajanay  5 місяців тому

      Yasssss! Haha thank you sis! I really thought I was flowing! Haha 😂😂

  • @pamelaemelian1890
    @pamelaemelian1890 16 днів тому

    I have forgiven my self for the kind of father I gave my child I can't force him to put hes child first and do right beside her 😢