SINGLE MOM MOTIVATION | Podcast about Life
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- Опубліковано 28 вер 2024
- Today I sit down with Major of the MHB podcast as we discuss topics such as being a single mother, finding a work life balance and learning to love yourself. These are topics that I am so extremely passionate about and I am so grateful to be able to share my experience on this podcast about life with you all.
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Lord she is so right, I wish I had known myself before I had my children. They do deserve so much out of life and it is all on me. Thank you for this
I think this definitely needs to be talked about more because the unfortunate thing is you dont understand how much you DONT know yourself until your in a position where you are no longer the focus. Its a hard pill to swallow and I think this is one of the prime things that leads to many of the problems/insecurities we face as mothers.
I think that even when a single mom has a support system she really is still very much alone. I have 2 kids, boys, and my parents help me out a lot but when I make a decision about my kids that I feel is right I still get so much grief over it.
Almost two years later from recording this and I agree! It’s so easy to feel like you have the weight on the works in your shoulders and the only thing I have found that helps is realizing how much God will help if I let him. It so easier said than done but when it really resonates with you the mental stress that it’s lifted off is significant . For the part about your parents, I’m going to dedicate an entire video responding to it 🥰❤️. It will be released between no later than the second week of November.
Exactly. It feels like you are still alone.
Wow! Great tips. I am a single mother and life coach for single mothers. I did a live on Facebook about the same thing. Self love is the best love. How can you love anyone else if you don’t love yourself? It’s impossible. Plz keep this content coming.
That is awesome! I am actually a health coach as well but I have been feeling like Im being called more to speak directly to single moms. That is where my content will be primarily geared to so please stay tuned!
I tend to be an overgiver, giving so much that’s it’s detrimental to my own well being because I never get anything in return and that tears me down from the inside out. I stopped caring about myself, stopped pouring into myself and let myself go. My self esteem plummeted because the husbands that came into my life, and then eventually an old puppy love from high school, and they tried to take everything I had left. They drained me. God had to tell me that I needed to be single and be still. I was throwing pearls among swine and that’s not of God. (And that’s a bible verse guys) I have to be still for the first time in my life and just rest in him, knowing that my child and I will be provided for and well taken care of with or without a man around. My strength comes from the most high and I am unstoppable. I can do all things through Christ that strengthens me
So sorry for the late reply Ive been on somewhat of a hiatus. First and foremost I would like to thank you for sharing a part of your journey with me; I do not take that vulnerability for granted! But YES to everything you said! I am also walking in a season where I have finally said ok God, I am so tired of getting in my own way and mostly yours. YOU are my protector, you are my provider not a man. I want to lean on you and only you. And you know what, my life has done a 180 and I just so excited to see how He will use me in the near future.
This resonates on the highest degree. Taking the lessons and implementing all of them moving forward.
@@martinecooper6669 I believe in you mama! Keep going I know you can do this! 🥰
That's the biggest statement that I'm adjusting to which is the routine and focus for one day might not work for the very next day. At some point that constant change will create a gateway to being stuck in survival mode,... so it is best to find a routine dedicated to a short term goal that allows for some stability - that'll reduce stress and open up for better opportunities of growth, peace and purpose.
I definitely agree about slipping into survival mode and as negative a connotation it may have, sometimes that exactly what you have to do. I found myself in that season a few times but I think that you just have to remember thats all it is, a season. Typically even with one small change your world can shift drastically. But when you look at the big picture, putting God front and center is what changes things in a more concrete way (aka finally feeling stable). At least that has been the case for me and something will certainly be talking more about.
BEAUTIFULLY SAID🗣💙 you are a great mother and woman! You made the best decision
You are very sweet! Thank you so much for your kind words❤️
New subscriber here! I love your videos thus far! I am also a single mom. I have a 3yo, 2yo, and almost 1yo. It is very difficult but it is my favorite job in the world. I am also self employed and looking for more ways to build my income as I want to be a SAHM mom and spend time with my kids while they are young. Thank you so much for your videos, encouragement, and advice! You have a life long supporter, follower, and friend here 💜
Thank you so much for watching and subscribing! I honor you mama because I know it can be tough but you are doing it! Trying to create balance while also earning a sufficient income can be challenging. This year I told myself I had to stop with all the million side hustles because it was burning me out. Long story short I am going full ahead in my health coaching as well as tech (my last video talks more about that!). Things have been SO much better and this is just the beginning. Finding what works for you and your lifestyle is key and I’m confident you can make it happen ☺️
Thank you for this 💙. It’s so easy to be stuck in bitterness.
Yes mam! Taking accountability and focus that energy on yourself is so key!
I just want to say, I can listen to you talk ALL DAY. Your words are powerful and mighty, yet your voice and energy is soothing. Thank you for sharing this, many of us single Moms can very much relate. I would love to hear more from you and about your journey.
Thank you so much for watching and your kinds words! If you would like to know more I have this available! I am also trying to figure out a new uploading schedule!
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Stay strong to all Single mom like me.Godbless!
I absolutely love this. I have been so bitter for having no help. I needed this mindframe shift
Yes mama! You HAVE to take that power back by accepting responsibility for being in a space that even allowed this person in your life to begin with. From there you can begin the work to make sure you heal in a way that it never happens again! I coach mamas with this so if you need additional support shoot me an email hello@livingredefined.co
This woman is incredible and this was everything I needed to hear ❤ thankyou!
Aww you are so sweet thank you for listening!
This is amazing. I needed this
I am so glad you enjoyed! Thank you for watching love ❤
Do the inner work is so true 🥹
Yes! I talked even more about this in my last video about Eve. ❤️☺️
This is amazing 🙏🏼💖
Thank you so much love! I’m grateful you took the time to listen ❤️
Loved loved loved this podcast , she said so many things that hit me! 💕
Thank you for watching!!!
Beautiful I enjoyed watching/listening to this.
I am so grateful for you taking the time to listen! I don’t take that for granted ❤️
Beautiful thank you ! Very wise women powerful words . I needed this
So glad you were impacted love! Thank you so much for watching 🤍🤍
Beautiful spirit❤
I love this talk, thank you do much
You are so welcome love!
Love this
Thank you!
I am a single man parent in Germany, is my first baby boy * I want friendship who will help me with idea if I need help , sometimes I don't know what to do.
You are such a beautiful mama! And I love what you share! Definitely subbed and liked!! Would love to be YT mama friends!
AmalieMaren Thank you so much hun and I’m so glad you came across my channel! I just subscribed to your channel as well can’t wait to watch your videos! 😍❤️
I am a single papa in Germany, is my first baby boy * I want friendship who will help me with idea if I need help , sometimes I don't know what to do.
This was beautiful
Thank you for taking the time to listen!
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Why did you quit Delta?
Mostly personal reasons. I did not have the support system in place to continue being away from my children that often.
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I’m drowning
It can be a lot! If you need more support see link below or we can always chat 1/1!
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I especially resonate as a single mom, with needing to plan out my time very intentionally! And also not being desperate for love.
Yes! It's so easy to become overwhelmed and just get swooped away by everyday life...which in turn makes a perfect storm for wanting companionship to lighten the load emotionally, mentally, financially etc. Lately I have been walking through a season where I have decided to put God front and center of all of those desires...and I can tell you my life has most certainly changed.
Oh this is sooo me. Thanku. I conquer
Beautiful and wise. Thanks you for your motivating words. I needed to hear every word this morning. Single parenthood is not the easiest but it feels good to see others getting through it, doing well & raising healthy & happy children. I feel much more supported & motivated when I see that.
Islah Munirah Thank you so much for your words; I send so much love and encouragement your way. If you would ever like to connect more please let’s talk! I know it’s nothing like having someone in your corner who just gets it.
I am a single man parent in Germany, is my first baby boy * I want friendship who will help me with idea if I need help , sometimes I don't know what to do.
Chatela, I listened to everything you have said thoroughly and through the understanding The LORD has given me, from a "so called" single mother to another you are dropping jewels my dear. I say "so called" single mother because when The LORD is walking with you and guiding you, you are never truly single or alone. Yes it can be very challenging to the flesh at times, but its building up your Spirit, it's Building up your character; it goes alone with that saying, " whatever doesn't kill you make you stronger. When I found out I was pregnant with my now 8 year old son, I knew from the very beginning I would be a "single mom". I didn't leave room for pity party or blame game. I did what was necessary for the well-being of my child. I moved to a totally different state and started over from scratch with Faith and only $200.00 to my name. I went to a shelter for woman and children, I gave 100% and Grind by The LORDS mercy ,I climbed to the top of what looked like a Terrible situation. My son has never went without anything. I nevered relyed on other's especially a man who didnt truly know what love was, because you have to Truly Know The Lord to even Know what true love really is all about. So I say to whomever reading this, Focus on your children, love them be patient, kind,, long-suffer them, put in the quality time. They will love you for it, most importantly TRUST IN THE LORD HE WILL SEE YOU THROUGH!!!
I love you! Thank you for so much transparency and I want to sincerely say that I honor you! I am proud of you and I agree with everything you said! At the time I made this video I didn’t have the same relationship with God as I do now. This last year he has completely renewed me in a way I never expected. When you talk about that dependence on God I couldn’t agree more. I’ve actually been thinking about a video on speaking about just that…as a single mother your relationship with God has to become your number one priority. And as you started no you are not alone. That’s something I have had to repent about, always saying how I had to do “everything alone”. If that ever slips out of my mouth these days I quickly correct myself because there’s no way I can truly say I’m alone anymore. Thank you for YOUR jewels mama and thank you for watching, ☺️🥰
@@ChatelaMonae I love you to my dear AMEN, and ALL GLORY TO THE LORD JESUS CHRIST!!!
God has definitely been doing great things in my life recently. I used to waddle in my sorrow and pain as a struggling single mother but I'm on a come up and God has been working. I'm not living in fear and depression anymore. I was hurt and bitter for so long for being a single mother. I really thank God for being the head of my life. I take responsibility for my choices and now I'm moving ahead. No more sitting around being a victim. I'm turning my pain into an empire and inspiring myself. This video just speaks everything I've been through.
I LOVE this! I need to get your info so we can talk more! Can you reach out on IG? @chatelamonae
Chatela, Bravo Bravo & a million Bravo to you sweetie. I love the part that you said don't be so desperate to love and end up loving the wrong person that will hurt you. I'm a victim of it when I spent 5 years with a Narcissist. One morning I woke and said to myself I have a pretty angel that I need to race and I need to teach her alot of goodies. That's how I left him. Loving myself, my kid and focusing on my creator is the best thing ever.
BRAVOTOEVERYSINGLEMOM#
Omg I can relate so much to your story! I woke up one day too like what in the heck have I been doing! So glad you chose yourself and better for your little ones. Thank you so much for watching.
We’re witnessing only a glimpse of this woman’s inner strength right here. Incredible. Every word was so true and empowering. 100% on the bit about journaling. I learned to journal at a young age. I’ve never really had friends or a support group that weren’t toxic. I’ve found that being alone is best while I work on learning to love myself. I’ve always thrived in my independence but being alone can hurt sometimes so that’s why I learned to write. It’s one of my many strengths and a great way to check in with myself, acknowledge my own emotions, remember my strengths, and validate my feelings. As a single mother, I couldn’t agree more. I won’t continue the trauma that’s been cycling throughout so many generations. I WILL model a mother who loves herself, who allows herself grace to heal, who shows up in her fullest authenticity. I will raise a son who loves himself, feels worthy and is capable of making healthy emotional choices and physically healthy choices. I will be a mother who learns to love her body, and knows her worth. Thank you for being a soft hearted and strong minded woman with a fierce spirit, ready and willing to make the most of your past decisions. This full circle is inspiring and empowering for others
Wow!!!! Thank you so much for listening and those kinds words. But also thank you for doing the work and making the necessary adjustments so your boys can see a healed version of mama! I love the wisdom you have shared here, I wish you so many blessings as you continue to grow ❤️
Beautiful ❤ I love this message and agree 100%.
What an important and brilliant video. This is so true. My life unfolded because I had very little self love. Learned from it, making changes but I wish I had known this when I was young. Every young girl needs to watch this xx
Thank you so much for watching! Self love is so neglected among us women and like you mentioned our young girls, I really hope to continue pushing this message forward!
I really needed to hear this 😞
Please stay tuned...I have more things coming specifically for single mothers.
To all single mom.Jesus become ur companion thru all of this.God be with you all single mothers❤
Thank you...I have been allowing men to use me since I was molested as a little girl and I am now trying to heal and raise my kids...I feel like I am losing alot but I have to be strong like you and all the others...
First of all thank you so much for your vulnerability and sharing such an intimate part of your journey with me. The fact that you recognize this area for growth is HUGE! Knowing this gives you so much power in your healing journey 🤍🤍. Know that it’s not always easy but that doesn’t mean you are doing something wrong. Continue being intentional, seeking to grow and allow God to you what he sees in you! I’m so proud of you mama 🤍🤍
Same Same SAME
I wish I have known this before having any children.
Don’t we all! But we always can maneuver different going forward ❤️
I need you as a friend in my life. Subscribed
So sweet! Thank you for joining me on this journey. I have taken a bit of a hiatus but God has definitely brought things full circle for me and as a result I have a WEALTH of things I want to talk about. I hope to add value to you along your journey as well!
Truly inspirational and motivating! Thank you for having the courage and strength to share this wisdom with us and I really needed to hear it 🙏.
Thank you for listening! I am grateful to have crossed paths with you I hope to add tremendous value to your life.
Girl this is my current situation 😢Going through the motions and changes now in the healing phase
This was beautiful. Thank you both,great job. Great content
Thank you so much! love!
Wow. I'm thankful for your words! Life makes this much more sense _ optimism 💙💜❤🧡💛🤎
Thank you for listening!
I am a single man parent in Germany, is my first baby boy * I want friendship who will help me with idea if I need help , sometimes I don't know what to do.
I know it's hard, even for dad's! Please feel free to reach out anytime I would love to help anyway I can! I am actually in the process of figuring out how to connect even more with my subscribers I'll get back with you!
@@ChatelaMonae thanks i appreciate
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This was so beautiful. I really resonated with this. Thank you!
Aww thank you for taking the time to watch. I’m so glad you found value in it!
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Thank you so much for sharing your story.. God bless you all
Thank you for watching. Blessing to you as well!
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Thank you! Same to you.
This is truly inspiring
Thank you so much and thank you for watching!
Oh new subscriber!
Welcome sis!!!! I’m so happy to connect with you!
I hear you 💙
I appreciate you listening!
🌄💜😍 so true
So glad it resonated with you!