Advice for wives & those who desire to be a wife someday.

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  • @Arizonaheat956
    @Arizonaheat956 2 роки тому +115

    Married at 41. Wife died of brain cancer after 20 years. We made each other happy. No more worry for her and that makes me happy now.

  • @brianongod899
    @brianongod899 2 роки тому +106

    Marriage is about being a servant to one another meeting every need with unconditional love and to draw each other and grow in Jesus!

    • @jpbrooks2
      @jpbrooks2 Рік тому +5

      Absolutely.
      It would be equally unfair for husbands to put pressure on their wives to make them happy. Christian married couples are supposed to find happiness and joy in the God that they are supposed to be serving.
      JPB

    • @joycewatt8289
      @joycewatt8289 Рік тому +1

      Amen 🙏🏽

    • @jeffjenkins8225
      @jeffjenkins8225 Рік тому +1

      Exactly,if GOD is in the relationship it will always last,I kept asking my ex fiance to hold hand with me and put GOD first in our relationship,but that didn't happen and now I'm single,,

    • @sixteen.candles.4644
      @sixteen.candles.4644 7 місяців тому

      I would love to have a husband to serve.

  • @mzyotruthnlove8263
    @mzyotruthnlove8263 Рік тому +28

    Happy spouse, happy house. Each person should be happy within himself or herself, and share their happiness with one another. 😊

  • @eatmeals3156
    @eatmeals3156 2 роки тому +40

    Unfortunately the same rules don't apply when you're in a toxic relationship.
    No woman should submit to a man who doesn't walk with God

    • @ramondcunningham1
      @ramondcunningham1 2 роки тому +2

      Well you need to get out of what's toxic

    • @eatmeals3156
      @eatmeals3156 2 роки тому +6

      @@ramondcunningham1 I'm going to assume you've never been in one hence why you'd make such a blase, uninformed comment

    • @cobraxist
      @cobraxist 2 роки тому +12

      True and neither should a Godly man accept an unruly wife.

    • @eatmeals3156
      @eatmeals3156 2 роки тому +2

      @@cobraxist Amen

    • @el_fantasma3
      @el_fantasma3 Рік тому

      ​@@eatmeals3156no it's actually that easy yall make it harder than it has to be

  • @moniquehazzard1383
    @moniquehazzard1383 Рік тому +20

    It’s easy for women to slip into instructor-mode when it comes to household details. I always remind myself that:
    1. He’s a grown man, not my child. Any request I make he has the option to agree or refuse.
    2. There needs to be a balance in who “gets their way”. Women should not expect to get their way all the time. Compromise & sacrifice should be the first instinct.

    • @Koyasi78
      @Koyasi78 9 місяців тому

      Support should be the first instinct. If you're looking first to compromise and sacrifice you're already in an adversarial mindset. Be a team.

  • @kevinregulus7386
    @kevinregulus7386 2 роки тому +23

    If only I could find someone like you who gets it.... GOD FIRST.... Not the programs that society set forth.... All praises to the most high.

    • @yourmajestypie7337
      @yourmajestypie7337 2 роки тому +2

      The MOST HIGH GOD should always be first then your spouse. Society has called bad good and good bad long enough and man/woman has lost our way in truth. Forgive your sista's the MOST HIGH is starting to set us free from the bondage of these devil's. We're maturing and learning as the MOST HIGH is coming back to set us free of the mental slavery that's taken place for hundreds of yrs now.

    • @yourmajestypie7337
      @yourmajestypie7337 Рік тому

      @Praise TMH Yahweh aka Jesus Christ

  • @susansmith493
    @susansmith493 10 місяців тому +2

    Happy wife, happy life ... is actually controlling and abusive. Glad you began to understand.

  • @lorapolinsky2655
    @lorapolinsky2655 2 роки тому +15

    Thank you for saying this. A few weeks ago I heard the Holy Spirit tell me softly but very clear stop telling him what to do. I stood in my tracks and realized I'm bossy. And it's not kind or loving or supportive. I don't like it when people do it to me why should I do it to others.

  • @wesleynunez3825
    @wesleynunez3825 2 роки тому +19

    Bible Talk, this has nothing to do with the video (I am not married). I love you brother and I hope God blesses you in everything you do. Also, you have a distinct voice that was meant for this. Thanks for the video man!

    • @shannonshannon131
      @shannonshannon131 2 роки тому +1

      Amen me too thank you bible talk 🙏🏼🛐💜👑💐🔥✝️

  • @gammaburks
    @gammaburks 2 роки тому +16

    The truth will set you free. 40 years in love with a loyal, committed and sold out man of God. My joy was him letting me be me. The greatest gift was his support of me and mine of him.

  • @kevinharrissr5255
    @kevinharrissr5255 Місяць тому +1

    Firstly it is impossible for you to make someone😅 happy and secondly it is not the husbands responsibility to even try and do so. God didn't call us to be happy, he called us to be holy. You are the source of your own unhappiness. Psalm 37:4-5 says delight yourselves in the Lord then he'll give you the desires of your heart. What this young lady is saying is so true

  • @jo9882
    @jo9882 2 роки тому +11

    I’m not married but was aware of this info.
    I do things to make myself happy

  • @suped1981
    @suped1981 5 місяців тому +1

    Society teaches us the same doctrine that the devil taught us in the garden ,” cater to the women”. Insomuch,that, in turn the HolyGhost/ God/ Jesus stated
    “Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.” (Gen 3:16)Which is not happy wife happy life. The devil still desires to cause you to disobey the order of God. Your desire is what he (husband)wants… or am I reading it wrong? Who has rule?; not abuse of authority, but rule? The birthright? The oldest left in charge while our Father is away preparing a place. A serpent will attack anything weak to get to that which is strong. But after the attack, he consumes his prey, head first(men). So be a husband, men. Not a married man. That’s two separate designations. Be a husband. To the women, be what you were called before you were called wife, HELP(Gen2:18). Then you can be that good thing that is found of men…a wife. Trained and ready, before you say I do. This is why we must raise our children properly. They are someone’s husband, father, uncle. They are someone’s wife,mother, aunt. God first. Look to him to make you happy. Are you happy to suffer?
    1 Peter 3:14
    But and if ye suffer for righteousness' sake, happy are ye: and be not afraid of their terror, neither be troubled;
    It doesn’t matter what the world thinks. If I do the will of God, that makes me happy. If I’m scoffed at, talked about or mocked, thank the Lord. This joy? No man (woman)can give it; no man (woman) can take it away.
    God bless

  • @princesscitiwe05
    @princesscitiwe05 Рік тому +3

    I really want to be a good wife and mother.❤️🙏

  • @Jaxphotographs
    @Jaxphotographs 10 місяців тому +2

    Happy spouse, happy house! Period. You both need to be happy.

  • @Koyasi78
    @Koyasi78 9 місяців тому +1

    I don't get it. Isn't that what people want? The freedom to seek their own happiness while being loved and protected? Why do our women fight this so hard?

  • @jbrown-caminita2926
    @jbrown-caminita2926 Рік тому +1

    And pressure on them eyebrows.!

  • @oliverrobinson4128
    @oliverrobinson4128 Рік тому +1

    You should NEVER look to ANYONE for happiness not even yourself, the Holy Spirit would never teach you to look to yourself for happiness! The Bible says in Psalm 16:11 (KJV), "Thou wilt shew me the path of life: in thy presence is fullness of joy; at thy right hand there are pleasures for evermore".
    and in Romans 15:13 (KJV), "Now the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, that ye may abound in hope, through the power of the Holy Ghost".

  • @sheilaverdell1370
    @sheilaverdell1370 2 роки тому +9

    True words of wisdom. Blessings

  • @LoganDavis-p4j
    @LoganDavis-p4j 9 місяців тому +1

    So fucking what

  • @ariguzman3090
    @ariguzman3090 10 місяців тому +1

    I've been married for 15 years. If I would have known how miserable I would be I would have never gotten married.

  • @Livingyourpurpose-mc8yt
    @Livingyourpurpose-mc8yt Рік тому +1

    Who is this lady?:) Does she have a channel?

  • @truthwins3065
    @truthwins3065 2 роки тому +1

    Very lovely and sweet and this attitude has its place however it’s incomplete and out of balance with an entire picture of what needs to be in a relationship. These instructions just fall short for the woman whose husband is not coming home from work, who’s not spending time with her, who is not following Holy Spirit. There is more necessary for a marriage to be whole, solid and functioning well then just for the woman to be exhorted not to put pressure on your man to make her happy.… Too many selfish men want the woman for a house cleaner, nanny to their kids and It’s me their sexual needs.

    • @yourmajestypie7337
      @yourmajestypie7337 2 роки тому

      In the Bible it says that for both the man and the woman to do so. 1 Corinthians 7:3-5 / Ephesians 5:22-33 / 1 Peter 3:7... To be clear of what it says we have to read for ourselves. Don't let anyone lie to u and say it's a one way street, that's a lie told from the devil's.

  • @Designercheflotta
    @Designercheflotta 5 місяців тому

    Amen n Amen👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻💕💕💕💯💯💯🔥🔥🔥🙏🏽

  • @aramisy.cajigas744
    @aramisy.cajigas744 6 місяців тому

    This is so wrong! If a wife compares her hubby to her exes, that means either she still remembers them, or she does have expectations, and that is "you need to make me feel better than my exes, otherwise, I'm going to go over healthy relationship boundaries, and I don't care if I hurt your feelings!" This is the sad life of many husbands who suffer in silence and don't know their way out of door. Straightforward message: it is never right to compare anyone with anyone else.

  • @Love11904
    @Love11904 3 місяці тому

    Na pressure makes diamonds
    Happy wife happy life ❤

  • @MoneyBthemotive713
    @MoneyBthemotive713 Рік тому

    I mean because we wanna make y’all happy but o don’t wanna feel like the worker ant , living a meaningless and unhappy conditional relationship and purpose. In hopes to keep her until she say this ant it no more . Oh and don’t been then fulfilled All her wants like houses and cars , you are cooked my brother

  • @Of_infinite_Faith
    @Of_infinite_Faith 7 місяців тому

    You gotta learn how to make yourself happy before sharing your life with someone else

  • @Thewolf_573
    @Thewolf_573 10 місяців тому

    Holyspirit translation: The nigga was just not having it

  • @MorenaMarie
    @MorenaMarie Рік тому

    I don’t think everything in society is geared toward making a woman happy. I think everything in society geared for making oneself happy to the extent that both men and women desire everything around them to serve them, and when we aren’t what we consider to be optimally happy, then we have a problem with everything around us. We’re oversensitive and we put a lot of entitlement responsibility on others for our current state of being, but if you see your partner as a separate person worthy of their own happiness, giving them room to pursue things, etc. than you understand ok my husband and I we are a partnership, and though we contribute to one anothers happiness, we are not solely responsible for the others happiness. It is all not always guaranteed and that doesn’t mean that marriage is not worthwhile

  • @carlosherrera421
    @carlosherrera421 Рік тому

    my girl will never get it like this woman has.....and that makes me sad and depressed

  • @SheheilaGreeler
    @SheheilaGreeler Рік тому

    How can that be rocket science?
    Jesus is lord, but how is it not day one common sense that his life and your own life isn’t all about u

  • @xxscarlxrd7777
    @xxscarlxrd7777 2 роки тому +2

    God is real

  • @nickt.7305
    @nickt.7305 Рік тому +1

    Only 1000 views. This should be viewed by millions. Just discovered Bible Talk. Excellent videos. Love how concise they are. They’re like biblical flash cards to help us pass our daily tests.

  • @jenny-im9gc
    @jenny-im9gc 2 роки тому +2

    Very good. I am glad to hear that. Many women believe that they can take money from their husband's and spend it foolishly, not realizing that they are taking away from themselves and putting their family in death. His money is your money and if you take his money and squander it you are squandering your money also.

    • @Cheerleader644860
      @Cheerleader644860 Рік тому

      Yes money is

    • @Cheerleader644860
      @Cheerleader644860 Рік тому +1

      Not to be squandered at all. It was for multiplying it and buying useful things for the house not on Gucci and Louis bouton.

  • @DeaconChriss
    @DeaconChriss 7 місяців тому

    No one is responsible for another person’s happiness. I’m not God

  • @KGTNT978
    @KGTNT978 2 роки тому +3

    ❤️

  • @dannyadams4603
    @dannyadams4603 2 роки тому +8

    SHE THAT HAS EARS LET HER HEAR WHAT THE SPIRIT IS SAYING TO THE CHURCH!!! HUSBANDS STAY IN POSITION!!! PEACE FAMILY!!! ☺️✌🏾🙏🏾

  • @favour1383
    @favour1383 Рік тому

    Is this not a personal message to you and your marriage..?

  • @Necole-x2d
    @Necole-x2d 9 місяців тому

    Wow ouch I’m listening tho😊❤

  • @arturkarpinski164
    @arturkarpinski164 2 роки тому +7

    It's not "happy wife happy life"
    It's HAPPY SPOUSE HAPPY HOUSE!!

  • @Ms_naza
    @Ms_naza Рік тому

    Is this God trying to tell me something

  • @melissahill8144
    @melissahill8144 10 місяців тому

    HAPPY SPOUSE HAPPY HOUSE!!!

  • @Potato-bd5id
    @Potato-bd5id 2 роки тому +3

    Amen!🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️✝️🕊🙌🏽

  • @steppingstone803
    @steppingstone803 2 роки тому +2

    Amen

  • @Daybara
    @Daybara Місяць тому

    Erica combo o think

  • @mayacraw
    @mayacraw 3 місяці тому

    Learning this now

  • @erinwoempner1228
    @erinwoempner1228 2 роки тому +1

    Amen

  • @gray6430
    @gray6430 Рік тому

    Wow I needed to hear thqt

  • @patricksmith3432
    @patricksmith3432 Рік тому

    Great advice

  • @jewleneb8970
    @jewleneb8970 11 місяців тому

    Thank you 🙏💕

  • @thistlegal7288
    @thistlegal7288 2 роки тому +1

    Beautifully Stated. Thank-you for sharing.

  • @jaypoff277
    @jaypoff277 2 роки тому +1

    You’re a wonderful person with a divine perspective. Thank you for giving a testimony that had God at the focus of it. He works for us even when we are in the thick. ❤️🙏💪

  • @Dove_103
    @Dove_103 Рік тому

    Amen

  • @ketsym15
    @ketsym15 Рік тому

    Amen

  • @angelmd43
    @angelmd43 Рік тому

    Amen!

  • @gabriellekelly3462
    @gabriellekelly3462 Рік тому

    Amen

  • @jcarter5521
    @jcarter5521 Рік тому

    👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

  • @steppingstone803
    @steppingstone803 2 роки тому +1

    Good teaching

  • @kimg5142
    @kimg5142 Рік тому

    🔥❤️🔥🇨🇦

  • @sage6972
    @sage6972 2 роки тому

    【promosm】

  • @iampray3463
    @iampray3463 Рік тому

    🙏🏽

  • @Natashahoneypot
    @Natashahoneypot 2 роки тому +1

    Very very nice. 💕 The truth has set me free.

  • @GREATCANADIANDOG
    @GREATCANADIANDOG 2 роки тому +1

    A REAL WOMAN!
    THANK YOU!

  • @pearlsammo1638
    @pearlsammo1638 2 роки тому +1

    Amen! More women need to hear this message. 🙏🏿

  • @mR-dc4oq
    @mR-dc4oq 2 роки тому +1

    Love it!

  • @ME-hw1pg
    @ME-hw1pg 2 роки тому +1

    Im exhausted

  • @MDonawa
    @MDonawa 2 роки тому

    Girl what you been doing to him?

  • @shinookmathews5532
    @shinookmathews5532 7 місяців тому

    This is "TRUE FACTS." Thank you for saying this. i don't mind doing anything for my wife, BUT she needs to understand that i can't do God's job AMEN 🙏🏾

  • @sallylara1102
    @sallylara1102 7 місяців тому

    Amen sister! The order of God is key! Thank God for your vulnerability & humbleness. All glory to God 🙏🏽🎚️

  • @InspiredKreationsByKP
    @InspiredKreationsByKP 10 місяців тому

    This!!!! Thank God for good people who dont mind sharing knowledge. I am doing my part too because I am so grateful to the ones who helped me to understand this. I pray for happiness and a better life for all of us.

  • @blackeyesusan2595
    @blackeyesusan2595 11 місяців тому

    Yes I learned this we have to find peace and content and our own happiness while in a relationship. You can’t expect your partner to make you happy.

  • @deborahgloria3867
    @deborahgloria3867 11 місяців тому

    Thank you very wise insight from the Lord Sister.

  • @strictly45s6
    @strictly45s6 3 місяці тому

    A wife is her husbands helper. She is there to support and help her husband. He leads. She follows.

    • @phoenixrising2231
      @phoenixrising2231 3 місяці тому

      Genitalia *doesn't truly determine nor reflect whom would serve best in a given 'role'/ capacity.
      Though traditions of men have suggested and superimposed that roles are absolutes.

    • @strictly45s6
      @strictly45s6 3 місяці тому +1

      @phoenixrising2231 god created these 2 roles to be absolute. In Genesis after creating man. God said a man needs a helper. Man named his woman. Adam means man. God spoke those words. A man needs a helper. A woman. You don't like it, take it up with God.

    • @phoenixrising2231
      @phoenixrising2231 3 місяці тому

      @@strictly45s6 I'm fully aware of those verses and what they, impose/ imply. As well, the capping the capacity/ ability/ giftedness of each.
      I'm also fully aware of the fact that as displayed from Genesis to Revelation - there was no shortage of men that fumbled their "role". And, as a result, put their wives (plural) and children at risk,. And, likewise, cause then to experience undue and unjust suffering and the like. For the sake of their being sold on doing their own will, and thusly , "doing it their way". In the face of the God whom they professed to serve and be in subjection/ obedience to. Though the fruit of their actions/ lives testified against the words of their mouth.
      Too, when one looks deeper beyond the commonly themed/ highlighted topics covered the many churches, bible study, guides, etc. - One can see with un-blinded eyes that one's very own bible speaks of some women carrying the mantle of a, "leader" "commander".
      And, no. Far from that of a feminist lense - simply speaking verifiable, bible-backed facts. With nothing but Love + love.
      Too, if one is honest with oneself - it's not only the male that needs help...

    • @phoenixrising2231
      @phoenixrising2231 3 місяці тому

      @@strictly45s6 I'm fully aware of those verses and what they, impose/ imply. As well, the capping of the capacity/ ability/ giftedness of each.
      I'm also fully aware of the fact that as displayed from Genesis to Revelation - there was no shortage of men that fumbled their "role". And, as a result, put their wives (plural) and children at risk, subjecting them undue and unjust suffering and the like. All for the sake/ result of them having been sold on doing their own will, and thusly , "doing it their way" - In the face of the God whom they professed to, fear/ love, serve, honor and be in subjection/ obedience to! 👀 Though the fruit of their actions/ lives testified against the words of their mouth.
      When one looks deeper beyond the complete commonly themed/ highlighted topics covered the many churches, bible studies, bible study guides, etc. - On can see with unblinded and unbiased eyes that one's very own bible speaks of some women carrying the mantle of a, "leader" "commander".
      And no. Far from that is a feminist lense - simply speaking verifiable, bible-backed facts. With nothing but Love + love (regarding of what the overlay of preconceived, perception and projection may assume/ presume).

  • @johndelgado5150
    @johndelgado5150 2 роки тому +3

    Great ,wounderful holy Spirit.she is a great woman.

  • @BreezeeGreenz
    @BreezeeGreenz Рік тому +1

    I feel sorry for most married men and don't know how they tolerate nonsense. There's no cater in me. I'm not attracted to women who need to be catered to. Gentlemen, it is not your job to cater to women. If you decide do so, you'll eventually learn.

    • @Cheerleader644860
      @Cheerleader644860 Рік тому

      It is his job to some degree just not to a point where God is being put in any spot after first place in your life.

    • @BreezeeGreenz
      @BreezeeGreenz Рік тому

      @@Cheerleader644860 depends on your definition of 'cater'. I remember after I was 'redpilled', women were suddenly drawn to me. But I worked with all married women and just five other men. The married women thought I should cater to them-- that that's a man's job-- and called me conceited for not doing so. I lost my appetite for any type of catering. I now believe in reciprocity or just doing things for a woman because I want to, not because she thinks she _deserves_ or is _entitled_ to it.

    • @Cheerleader644860
      @Cheerleader644860 Рік тому

      @@BreezeeGreenz well a good wife is actually entitled to being treated how a wife needs 2b but my definition of cater is to pay th bills not maybe for most households do what a man needs done. Anyways, she also needs to cater. Theres no more important role in the home. Theres verses in the scriptures for men to go by and women too. Its so nobody gets besides they damn self in the home as to think I'm more important than th next one living there. The most high is catered to 24/7

    • @BreezeeGreenz
      @BreezeeGreenz Рік тому

      @@Cheerleader644860 no catering. Loving, yes. Catering, not a chance.

  • @latoyathomas9640
    @latoyathomas9640 Рік тому

    IT'S HAPPY SPOUSE HAPPY HOUSE FOR ME!

  • @blaisedjeni2808
    @blaisedjeni2808 2 роки тому

    AMEN AMEN HALLELUJAH
    WORDS OF WISDOM

  • @carlausoff6407
    @carlausoff6407 2 роки тому +2

    My definition of happy wife happy life:
    1) Call if you are going to be late. Our city is scary.
    2) Put up your clean clothes and I won't reorganize your drawers.
    3) Kiss me before you leave and when you get home.
    4) Keep making me laugh.

  • @cupcakepatrice8418
    @cupcakepatrice8418 2 роки тому

    Can you please explain what type of pressure you was putting on him?
    I disagree the Bible teaches women that we are suppose to please and do everything for the man to make him happy

    • @yourmajestypie7337
      @yourmajestypie7337 2 роки тому

      In the Bible it says that for both the man and the woman to do so. 1 Corinthians 7:3-5 / Ephesians 5:22-33 / 1 Peter 3:7... To be clear of what it says we have to read for ourselves. Don't let anyone lie to u and say it's a one way street, that's a lie told from the devil's.

  • @brewynn5845
    @brewynn5845 2 роки тому

    Truth

  • @slaugh77ify
    @slaugh77ify 2 роки тому

    Wow

  • @johndowney8007
    @johndowney8007 2 роки тому +1

    Jezebel spirit

  • @KatieJackson-ex1ih
    @KatieJackson-ex1ih 10 місяців тому

    THANKYOU I NEEDED THIS 🩵💛💚🙏🙏🙏