A Husband Realizes His Wife Is The Murderer

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  • @kimberlyshryack
    @kimberlyshryack 10 місяців тому +26558

    It so refreshing to see an innocent persons body language for once

    • @haloaflame8164
      @haloaflame8164 10 місяців тому +1505

      Lol. It's definitely a rarity to see someone completely innocent like this guy. This guy seems like a real decent guy to chill with.

    • @Weightingtablesafter
      @Weightingtablesafter 10 місяців тому +1931

      If he was not innocent, the narrator would have said “hes nervous. Hes tapping his feet and hes slouched over which is not a confident posture. Hes also stuttering which is a sign of deception.” Dont believe this body language bs.

    • @zulemadelapaz2381
      @zulemadelapaz2381 10 місяців тому +643

      ​@@Weightingtablesafter also @ 6:54 when they ask if he knew anything or participated in the murder he nodded yes while verbally saying no. That's something they would have pointed to show he's guilty.

    • @greuju
      @greuju 10 місяців тому +87

      ​@@haloaflame8164sadly always that type that gets with a hot girl and get cheated on.

    • @SmashedPancakes3939
      @SmashedPancakes3939 10 місяців тому +498

      @@zulemadelapaz2381so true! I watch these and they talk about how alarming some body language is and I’m just like I really hope I’m never interrogated for anything because I do everything they say is bad. I tap my foot, I ring my hands, I also nod yes while saying no, I stutter, I say to be honest a lot. Like those are all things these Channels flag as guilty behavior.

  • @desimo147
    @desimo147 10 місяців тому +11741

    So she destroyed the victim's life, her life and her husbands life for $34,000. Got it. Makes total sense.

    • @ivanmatveyev13
      @ivanmatveyev13 10 місяців тому +303

      capitalism

    • @kinTaro-ju5xu
      @kinTaro-ju5xu 10 місяців тому +237

      That is a lot of money

    • @repost9581
      @repost9581 10 місяців тому +501

      Yeah... not worth it. Go work. Pain and suffering for everyone, to include herself. $34k?! without a real way out on the back end? Master's Degree?! Must've been from one of those universities of Phoenix, some online bs.

    • @dracs007
      @dracs007 10 місяців тому +268

      I lost 34k trading Fubo. Who do I shoot?? 😂

    • @roylavecchia1436
      @roylavecchia1436 10 місяців тому +89

      @@kinTaro-ju5xu Not really.

  • @jeronimo196
    @jeronimo196 2 місяці тому +333

    If he was found guilty - "his posture remains unchanged, carefully controlled - even though an innocent person might become defensive or angry at being wrongfully accused."

    • @sebastube123
      @sebastube123 Місяць тому +16

      I agree

    • @elaine462
      @elaine462 23 дні тому +8

      Yes! I've heard that said before.

    • @kimeriksson7445
      @kimeriksson7445 21 день тому +5

      😂😂

    • @jamesleutshe5664
      @jamesleutshe5664 19 днів тому +22

      Magistrate once held up a traffic ticket I was pissed about, because the cop flat out lied under oath. Said I wouldn't be so angry if I wasn't guilty. No honey, you get madder when you're not guilty, seriously.

    • @jordantrueblood1357
      @jordantrueblood1357 18 днів тому +2

      Also, being a PI, it is safe to assume he would know about tells and thus be able to give out ones that make him appear innocent.

  • @user-wn5vn9ct8o
    @user-wn5vn9ct8o 3 місяці тому +182

    This dude is so genuine and honest, he’s so refreshing 😭

  • @danidynamite2
    @danidynamite2 10 місяців тому +7555

    I love how it wasn't that he thought she was too good a person to murder someone, he just thought she would be less sloppy about hiding a murder. That's pretty telling about her.

    • @Briguy1027
      @Briguy1027 10 місяців тому +492

      It was interesting to see his thought processes when the officer asked him his opinion based on his work experience. It reminds me a bit of when I had to get gum surgery -- my other friend said, why didn't you get a second opinion? I, also being a dentist said, oh, no need. I pretty much was the second opinion.

    • @cgreen399
      @cgreen399 10 місяців тому +88

      She was a CSI tech.

    • @allthingsnu4673
      @allthingsnu4673 10 місяців тому +191

      That's pretty amazing when you think about it. He never once responded in disbelief because of any good character on his wife's part.

    • @ApacheMagic
      @ApacheMagic 10 місяців тому +194

      ‘She’s super intelligent. She’s got a criminal- uh, masters- bachelor’s?’
      Some slip. A criminal what?

    • @corners3755
      @corners3755 10 місяців тому +26

      They are watching too many to catch a murder type shows. So they think they can get away with it.

  • @10mm_is_best_mm
    @10mm_is_best_mm 9 місяців тому +8377

    It should be said, never, ever, ever let the police interrogate you without a lawyer. Even if you’re 100% not guilty. Plenty of innocent people have talked themselves into a jail cell because they ran afoul of some obscure legal tripwire.

    • @richardnunn1958
      @richardnunn1958 9 місяців тому +522

      best advice ever

    • @antoniorobles8706
      @antoniorobles8706 9 місяців тому +708

      Never, ever, ever let the police interrogate you without a lawyer. Especially if you’re 100% not guilty.

    • @richardnunn1958
      @richardnunn1958 9 місяців тому

      @antoniorobles8706 Do not answer any questions period ever because police will try to lock you into a story even if your not guilty just to make you arrest

    • @Traindom
      @Traindom 9 місяців тому +424

      You can easily talk yourself into prison but not out of it
      Edited so it makes sense lol

    • @PleaseDontMindmyDisplayName
      @PleaseDontMindmyDisplayName 9 місяців тому +14

      @@Traindomwhat??

  • @kjul.
    @kjul. 7 місяців тому +359

    That poor husband. He seems like an amazing person and I hope he's happy as of now.

    • @acousticshadow4032
      @acousticshadow4032 Місяць тому +9

      Happy??? I'd say his happiness went out the window here.

    • @djboogieboy
      @djboogieboy Місяць тому

      Happy???? She also was piped by another dude and out killing someone at the same time!!!😂

    • @axelleaxie
      @axelleaxie 27 днів тому +12

      @@acousticshadow4032literally. I’d imagine how sad he would feel after finding out his own wife that he thought he could trust is a murderer

  • @davebruneau6068
    @davebruneau6068 4 місяці тому +1076

    All three cops keep their legs crossed the entire time..they are clearly GUILTY AF

    • @Newnodrogbob
      @Newnodrogbob 2 місяці тому +28

      What…do you think the cops are guilty of?

    • @armtehcannon4813
      @armtehcannon4813 2 місяці тому +255

      @@NewnodrogbobI think it’s a joke, since so many youtubers are “experts” in body language when really body language could be a certain amount of indicators. So many that it’s extremely unreliable, but yet people keep pointing at it as an admission of guilt.

    • @Newnodrogbob
      @Newnodrogbob 2 місяці тому +25

      @@armtehcannon4813 that tracks…I was being dumb because I arrived here from other crime/police videos where all of the comments are ravening unreasoning hatred of police.

    • @EndWach-gi1nh
      @EndWach-gi1nh 2 місяці тому +10

      @@NewnodrogbobStupidity

    • @EndWach-gi1nh
      @EndWach-gi1nh 2 місяці тому +6

      @@armtehcannon4813 I thought he was acting and being a private detective he could’ve set her up. I like to hear her side.., before believing him… or these cops.

  • @shawnaparrill3312
    @shawnaparrill3312 9 місяців тому +4772

    Imagine having to come to terms with the fact his wife killed someone. My heart goes out to this man. Poor soul

    • @mgntstr
      @mgntstr 9 місяців тому +32

      it wasn't so much that she killed someone, it was the getting caught part that bothered him. His wife would be better at concealing a murder.

    • @orlandoromero22
      @orlandoromero22 9 місяців тому +21

      ​@@mgntstrActually I think the crazy embarrassing part is she did this heinous crime to buy her "Cotejo" Umm lover/ B.F. a 🏍️,a ⛵ & other gifts.

    • @jodason8331
      @jodason8331 9 місяців тому +10

      @@orlandoromero22and he didn’t see her cheating?? Like come on man he was a P.I. This gave him a easy out, he just had to wait for the cards to fall.

    • @aavalos7760
      @aavalos7760 8 місяців тому +45

      @@mgntstr It's never apparent that that is what "bothers" him. Hes simply saying for their experience, how could she be so stupid if she actually did commit the crime

    • @Koarpse
      @Koarpse 8 місяців тому +27

      I think he's having a harder time coming to terms with the fact she is not as smart as he thought.

  • @kathrinsides2838
    @kathrinsides2838 10 місяців тому +4444

    I actually appreciate the fact that her husband was so baffled and offended by how sloppy and especially stupid her actions were, embarrassingly so, that he didn’t even address the fact that he didn’t even doubt her ability to do what she’s accused of or question her obvious guilt in his estimation.

    • @jheanelltabana8713
      @jheanelltabana8713 10 місяців тому +59

      Honestly, I am too. They're PI's! 😂

    • @mw-pl5rg
      @mw-pl5rg 10 місяців тому +109

      @jheanelltabana8713 I have found people that are good at snooping into other people's lives are oblivious to their own.

    • @Grizzlox
      @Grizzlox 10 місяців тому +174

      This is exactly what they mean when they say, "You're too close to this."
      It happens to law enforcement officers, lawyers, investigators, and even forensic analysts all the time.

    • @BabalonNuit
      @BabalonNuit 10 місяців тому +149

      @@mw-pl5rg "The shoemaker's children go barefoot"

    • @mw-pl5rg
      @mw-pl5rg 10 місяців тому +36

      @@BabalonNuit Excellent analogy and allegory. Wisdom and wit are rare in this time. Be blessed.

  • @god-fearing6103
    @god-fearing6103 7 місяців тому +84

    Imagine the friend that let her hold the $34,000. The friend never imagined she would come face to face with such evil.

    • @taydestiny38
      @taydestiny38 Місяць тому +7

      No disrespect to the dead, but are we gonna gloss over the fact, that the victim intentionally hid money from her ex husband because of the divorce settlement? She wasn’t exactly innocent.

  • @jerensteffen
    @jerensteffen 3 місяці тому +150

    Get an attorney people, even if you're innocent. Don't talk to police without one.

    • @nl212ep
      @nl212ep 2 місяці тому +3

      Even if you’re innocent 😂

    • @jerensteffen
      @jerensteffen 2 місяці тому +11

      @@nl212ep Why's that funny?

    • @jonasghafur4940
      @jonasghafur4940 2 місяці тому

      @@nl212epprisons are filled with people who thought they had nothing to worry about due to their innocence. There have been entire books written and talks held by countless law professionals. Cops are allowed to lie to you and, especially in the United States, have a history of misconstrued facts and the use of pseudoscientific forensics. Polygraphs are a big one, just to name one. There also are countless cases of state attorneys, judges and prosecutors actively trying to sabotage appeals, including but not limited to the admission of new, DNA-based forensic evidence. the biggest reason for this is that, after passing the bar, you pass on much better offers in private practice, with the expectation of it only being a temporary stop on the road to eventual, bigger riches after returning to private practice. The resulting scheming and manipulation in the name of polishing up one’s CV has lead to truly horrifying consequences. Better be safe than sorry. I’ll gladly pay up for a lawyer.

    • @sandrak4119
      @sandrak4119 2 місяці тому +17

      @@nl212epespecially if you are Innocent

    • @jerensteffen
      @jerensteffen 2 місяці тому +2

      @@sandrak4119 indeed

  • @EricK-tb2dn
    @EricK-tb2dn 10 місяців тому +19620

    Thank you for making more consumable content than a lot of other channels. I don't always have 2-3 hours for a full interrogation.

    • @dannboioq
      @dannboioq 10 місяців тому +892

      Maaaaaaaaaaan. Too many times am I interested I the content but don't have 90 minutes to watch it

    • @DHworldwide185
      @DHworldwide185 10 місяців тому +307

      Then watch it in segments. I love 90 min interrogation films. Sometimes I watch them while exercising or just playing in the background while im doing work.

    • @nasairazul4889
      @nasairazul4889 10 місяців тому +110

      @@DHworldwide185 right I fall to sleep to them sometimes

    • @traceybeerling4776
      @traceybeerling4776 10 місяців тому +14

      @@DHworldwide185 That's a good idea x

    • @CosmicNebula
      @CosmicNebula 10 місяців тому +54

      Do something else while you watch it. I never just sit and watch UA-cam videos. Exercise, cook, clean, on your commute etc etc.

  • @Mazxlol
    @Mazxlol 10 місяців тому +1675

    A murder of a friend over $34k.... Gotta be one true evil person to do something like that. Insane.

    • @HitRockBoglim
      @HitRockBoglim 10 місяців тому +39

      Is my friendship worth 34k? Maybe.. probably not. My life is tho ffs don't kill me over it. Crazy.

    • @callofdoody21
      @callofdoody21 10 місяців тому +42

      friendship shouldnt have a price tag associated with it in any way

    • @HitRockBoglim
      @HitRockBoglim 10 місяців тому +57

      @@callofdoody21 Well it does.. turns out its about $34,000 lol.

    • @tommykinikin9335
      @tommykinikin9335 10 місяців тому +20

      I my experience money doesn't mix well with family or friends. You should always be as secretive as possible with your money. A little off the video subject is how people come out of the woodwork when someone with money passes away. It's amazing how people's personalities change at the prospect of getting money for nothing.

    • @WolfPackRacing
      @WolfPackRacing 10 місяців тому +44

      My son was murdered for his $42,000 bank account 12-11-16 the day before my granddaughter's 3rd birthday. 31 days later, my granddaughter's mother, uncle, and new boyfriend/co-worker, were arrested and charged with his death.

  • @dannymartial7997
    @dannymartial7997 4 місяці тому +184

    I feel so bad for him. Divorce sucks, but having a murderer wife is worse. How do you even recover from that? Finding out the person you trust most is actually a murderer is insane.

    • @brian4180
      @brian4180 3 місяці тому +11

      Nah, at least she doesn't take half his money this way

    • @bibsp3556
      @bibsp3556 3 місяці тому +8

      Would make the divorce easier

    • @KoolT
      @KoolT 3 місяці тому +2

      It's like a death. You don't fully recover.

    • @shir0671
      @shir0671 2 місяці тому +2

      Not really. nothing is worse than divorse in Murica

    • @priscillawagner6205
      @priscillawagner6205 2 місяці тому +1

      Imagine trying to date after that. Explaining that you've been married before. Or your date googling you and your first wife

  • @Un0rdin4rYPr0gr4mmeR
    @Un0rdin4rYPr0gr4mmeR 4 місяці тому +85

    Man. Zach was an absolute man of honor. That stupid lady didn't deserve him at all. And to do such a gruesome murder - that takes some guts. I feel sorry for the loss of life as for everyone whose life was affected, apart from the murderer.

  • @jas_bataille
    @jas_bataille 10 місяців тому +6300

    The fact she ran away with 38 thousand dollars and he was still saying "I can't see her doing something like that" as an ex-officer is incredibly telling of how powerful of a narcissist she is.
    I mean, damn. She ruined your whole life.

    • @sp_only1506
      @sp_only1506 10 місяців тому +338

      You have no idea what narcissistic people can do to your brain, even if you able to leave them you still have PTSD!

    • @leonardofigueiredo2518
      @leonardofigueiredo2518 10 місяців тому +7

      Boom

    • @Larkin4840
      @Larkin4840 10 місяців тому +166

      It's hard to believe someone you are close to let alone someone you love is capable of doing something that horrible. I found out my ex put a baby down in boiling hot water and caused scars all over his back and legs. They tried to say it was an accident but you don't accidentally boil a baby. It happened before we met and I didn't find out until after we'd broken up. I couldn't believe it and I wasn't even in love anymore. You just think you know someone

    • @sp_only1506
      @sp_only1506 10 місяців тому +37

      @@Larkin4840 it's surreal experience and not in a good way it fu*ks you up .

    • @thematrix2661
      @thematrix2661 10 місяців тому +14

      Ana how love can make people blind

  • @meg2231
    @meg2231 10 місяців тому +1930

    not only did she do something horrible, but she obviously lost an intelligent, loyal & decent man who was her husband

    • @charlesfaure1189
      @charlesfaure1189 9 місяців тому +132

      Not that intelligent. He was letting her handle all the finances and knew nothing about how she was doing it. So...actually a doofus.

    • @meg2231
      @meg2231 9 місяців тому +51

      @@charlesfaure1189 haha well that's a fair point

    • @suspicious2delicious
      @suspicious2delicious 9 місяців тому +23

      @@meg2231 ANd I heard she was cheating on him

    • @sainvol
      @sainvol 9 місяців тому +5

      @@suspicious2delicious the horror

    • @suspicious2delicious
      @suspicious2delicious 9 місяців тому +8

      @@sainvol Your wife cheating on you =(

  • @SammyNeedsAnAlibi
    @SammyNeedsAnAlibi 4 місяці тому +153

    My heart goes out to Zach and hope he gets whatever help he needs to get through this. ☮☮

    • @charlesadams8279
      @charlesadams8279 2 місяці тому

      this is the truth- there is a spiritual war that influences the physical world. The people in power in power worship an entity named lucifer. That name is only found in The Bible and satan tried to tempt Jesus Christ with all the kingdoms of the world if He bowed down and worshipped him. Jesus did not but the people with the most influence- celebrities, politicians, billionaires, etc- they have. The first description of satan in The Bible is that he is subtle- and in the world the media subtly leads people away from the truth. The only religious figure that these people are against is Jesus Christ. Do not be turned away by the name of Jesus- this is the truth and the video proves it beyond any amount of doubt. I know the video is long but look at the comments from the people that watched the video if you want to know it’s credibility. This satanic group is what people call the illuminati.
      this video im linking below proves this
      http s: // youtu. be/ gbUK 4cFCTPg
      no spaces

  • @danielshaolin6053
    @danielshaolin6053 7 місяців тому +5

    $34,000 the price of your friend’s life… What a sick individual…

  • @Seattle-ish
    @Seattle-ish 10 місяців тому +739

    Body language can't always be used to determine guilt or innocence. I had years of childhood trauma and when I feel attacked, even verbally, I go right into a very defensive mode to protect myself.

    • @natepowell6912
      @natepowell6912 10 місяців тому +32

      Thats why they check the phone records and check his answers against evidence.

    • @aqua6613
      @aqua6613 10 місяців тому +30

      I noticed that about my husband when I had an argument with him where I just busted out yelling and he completely froze. He had severely pissed me off, but his reaction pissed me off even more about myself. I made it a point to vent my anger somewhere else rather than to bust it out on him. He wouldn't have heard anything I said anyways due to dissonance. I've had my own childhood trauma, but instead of freezing up anymore I snap out of it really quickly and then I go on attack and defense mode. I used to swallow up all my trauma and feelings...
      It is better to remove myself when I feel my anger coming on and he understands when I excuse myself and then find elsewhere to vent and then I can come back and we can talk about things because my communication style just scares the shit out of him.
      Doesn't happen much because I do have levels of self control.

    • @lf2052
      @lf2052 10 місяців тому +24

      yeah I'd be screwed if police brought me in and started throwing questions at me rapidly that seemed accusatory. I get extremely nervous even if I haven't done anything I start thinking what if they start digging and find something I did years ago that's embarrassing like my porn views (legal but no one wants their weird Stuff they watched once way back)
      my body language would show nervousness and I guess guilt I'm going to do more research now to see the exact cues which broadcast guilty

    • @inthelandofmorethansmall7582
      @inthelandofmorethansmall7582 10 місяців тому +10

      That's still a body language baseline.
      And body language will give you away every time.
      Being defensive in and of itself isn't a sign of deception anyway. It's actually more common in this situation.
      Imagine if someone accused anyone of a murder they didn't commit.
      First would be shock.
      Then anger.
      Then depending on the reaction (and level of intensity) of all parties involved, it goes from there. .but body language will give a person away immediately.
      If you're NOT defensive when being accused of something serious and ridiculous, then you're more likely guilty - as compared to the vice versa.

    • @biff3917
      @biff3917 10 місяців тому +6

      these all seem like things easy enough to exploit. A poor decider of guilt or innocence.

  • @chuck936
    @chuck936 9 місяців тому +569

    As someone who suffers from anxiety, body language isn’t always the best way to determine the truth. I would genuinely be nervous even knowing i did not do anything.

    • @densincomprehend8879
      @densincomprehend8879 7 місяців тому +9

      Everyone has anxiety

    • @whokilledthesunv4768
      @whokilledthesunv4768 7 місяців тому +8

      ​@@densincomprehend8879everybody has anxiety *to healthy degrees*. However, some people have anxiety DISORDERS, which causes the anxiety response to take over even when there's no perceived danger. So, yes, everybody has anxiety, but not everybody has ANXIETY, as in, a troubling disorder that's rather serious.

    • @densincomprehend8879
      @densincomprehend8879 7 місяців тому +6

      @@whokilledthesunv4768 guess what...... What you describe can happen to anyone depending on the situation.

    • @whokilledthesunv4768
      @whokilledthesunv4768 7 місяців тому +77

      @@densincomprehend8879 no. It's legitimate psychiatric disorder. Educate yourself. We're talking about permanent states of anguish, not about one particular moment or situation. Living with severe anxiety disorders legally counts as a disability.

    • @densincomprehend8879
      @densincomprehend8879 7 місяців тому +6

      @@whokilledthesunv4768 no because im sick of people using everything like this as an excuse you cannot tell which case is real and which case is not real because so many people use it as an excuse. OMGGGG I CAN'T BE SOCIAL I GOT ANXIETY OMG I CAN'T WORK I GOT ANXIETY OMGGGGGG 😭😭😭😭

  • @Anythingforfreedom
    @Anythingforfreedom 3 місяці тому +15

    He seems truly disappointed in how poorly she planned out the murder.

  • @jackal7610
    @jackal7610 4 місяці тому +18

    This guy was nuts for talking to the cops. Never, ever cooperate. That's a great way for an innocent person to go to jail.

    • @jmackmcneill
      @jmackmcneill 2 місяці тому +1

      He was a cop himself.

    • @ihawms950
      @ihawms950 18 днів тому

      He probably knows more than the detectives interviewing him. He knew what he was doing. Also, in the video it is mentioned that he did talk to his attorney.

  • @WoodyHaroo
    @WoodyHaroo 9 місяців тому +953

    The idea of being able to tell who is innocent and who is not based upon body language has been proven wrong so many times. The interrogators did a good job from my limited experience. But let’s be clear, the evidence freed this man not his body language.

    • @lukeyznaga7627
      @lukeyznaga7627 4 місяці тому +109

      Yes, this is AN IMPORTANT POINT. too much talk in comments about body lanugage as evidence. Its bullshit.

    • @stingcoldplay1
      @stingcoldplay1 4 місяці тому +61

      You are absolutely right. There have been many people whose body language was all over the place and yet they were innocent. Those people were simply nervous about the situation they were dealing with.

    • @lukeyznaga7627
      @lukeyznaga7627 4 місяці тому

      the sad fact is, you are right. If someone lacks confidence, or is under the weather while they are being questioned, they inadvertently sabotage their defense,.@@stingcoldplay1

    • @cameronjames3499
      @cameronjames3499 4 місяці тому +69

      Yep, using the silly "body language expertise" employed in this video, the female detective is actually the murderer since she repeatedly crossed her arms and displayed closed off body language : D

    • @justinbarnett9476
      @justinbarnett9476 4 місяці тому +13

      I have Tourette’s and under stress sometimes my tics come out. If I was being interrogated by the police for a murder I would be panicking and probably acting weird. Body language expert is a ridiculous thing. That’s like being an expert in phrenology

  • @northernmetalworker
    @northernmetalworker 10 місяців тому +615

    Robbing a desperate person who trusted you with their money, then murdering them when they ask for it back, so horrendously cruel.

    • @yourewelcome192
      @yourewelcome192 9 місяців тому +10

      BAD character flaw.

    • @thedevilsadvocate5210
      @thedevilsadvocate5210 9 місяців тому +2

      They use that plot in many tv shows

    • @crazychase98
      @crazychase98 9 місяців тому +2

      Both women were horrible drug using party animals who where lesbian lovers. The 35000 dollars was the dead women's husband money that she stole from the husband before she divorced him. Then tried to get more though almoney and childsupport. She won custody only to give the kids back a few weeks later so she could party with her murderer gf. Look into the case both where horrible people

    • @yourewelcome192
      @yourewelcome192 9 місяців тому +2

      @@crazychase98 WOW! Makes sense.

    • @crazychase98
      @crazychase98 9 місяців тому +1

      @yourewelcome192 It does this thing is from about 5 years ago or so. It's pretty crazy moral of the story dont commit crimes and let women in on it they shoot you in the back!

  • @selenasanchez7336
    @selenasanchez7336 7 місяців тому +8

    This husband Zack seems like a Good guy just a good person. Hope him and her daughter are doing OK.

  • @janewainwright9756
    @janewainwright9756 3 місяці тому +7

    My heart truly aches for this honest, innocent, lovely man.

  • @dexagalapagos
    @dexagalapagos 9 місяців тому +3134

    Holy crap. It's scary to think people are willing to take someone's life over something as little as $30k.

    • @aTalkingPizza
      @aTalkingPizza 9 місяців тому +638

      Not trying to be contrarian, but people get killed for waaaaay less then 30k, which is at least somewhat substantial. But I agree, it's sad and pathetic.

    • @RogerThat1945
      @RogerThat1945 9 місяців тому +88

      Some people would kill for our bike being thieved. Specifically when it is maybe 50% of anything significant we owned at the time.

    • @C0ncep1t
      @C0ncep1t 9 місяців тому +253

      Not justifying it, but $30k is far from little,

    • @jeffhicks8428
      @jeffhicks8428 9 місяців тому +85

      @@C0ncep1t Bro. Overconsuming Americans who make 30k a year drive cars that cost more than 30k. Yes, it's all done through easy credit, but still. I make way more than that, several times that, but I have rarely spent more than half of that on a car. 30k ain't shit in the grand scheme of things. Tons of folks have retirement accounts that swing more than 30k down or up in a week sometimes. Anyone that thinks 30k is worth a life is insane.

    • @i-am-your-conscience
      @i-am-your-conscience 9 місяців тому +16

      And then how sloppy this was made. I somehow feel she almost wanted to be caught, out of some weird reason

  • @CrazyJodice
    @CrazyJodice 10 місяців тому +787

    Disgusting how she preyed on her friend who trusted her. She was going through a divorce and trusted her to help her😢

    • @leetraviusmckay314
      @leetraviusmckay314 10 місяців тому +8

      An episode of American Greed

    • @Vexrak
      @Vexrak 10 місяців тому +68

      She was stealing $ from her husband and hiding it during the divorce- neither of these women were good people

    • @z_ed
      @z_ed 10 місяців тому +19

      ​@@Vexrakexactly

    • @Josh.1234
      @Josh.1234 10 місяців тому +11

      ​@@Vexrak crazy how naive people are about the situation

    • @trashpandattv
      @trashpandattv 10 місяців тому +5

      ​@Vexrak exactly what I was thinking, you don't hide Financials in a divorce they're entitled to half unless you got a prenup

  • @gabrielpierce1985
    @gabrielpierce1985 7 місяців тому +22

    speechless. i’ve seen countless videos about this case on youtube- including major broadcasters- like dateline and 48 hours. this is the first i think any of us have seen this video/his side of things. well done, you deserve all the followers for both just copying and pasting the same bullet points

  • @tacticalsapper
    @tacticalsapper 10 місяців тому +1982

    To the people thinking, when he said "I can't see her doing something like that", that he is influenced by her narcissistic personality NO that's not what he meant, he describes her as being highly intelligent and having a master degree ,while the murder was a sloppy job. He thought she was too smart to be so dumb.

    • @datdabdoe1417
      @datdabdoe1417 10 місяців тому +217

      Not for a second did he think "She wouldnt do that" only "If she did, she wouldn't have done it this poorly"

    • @Steef_Lee
      @Steef_Lee 10 місяців тому +12

      Exactly

    • @markfryer9880
      @markfryer9880 10 місяців тому +40

      Certainly, her own phone gave her up as to her being at the murder scene and then keeping the victims phone with her as she goes to the wedding. Bit dumb for someone with a degree/masters in Criminology.
      The trick is to turn off your phone's geo-location and then turn off the victims phone location and turn it off.
      A similar case happened in Melbourne, Australia a few years ago. A young woman disappeared on her way home from work (and she happened to work with one of the news channels so they had a big interest in the story). Turns out this guy with a history of sexual assault, attacked her, dragged her into a lane way and started to assault her, then bundled her into his car, raped her then strangled her to death and then drove to a remote location on the outskirts of Melbourne. Phone records showed the two phones (his and hers) travelling together, video footage from the Toll Road was linked with the timeline of travel, and the time spent out in the remote suburb. Video surveillance, phone location record matching and a check of known criminals in the area pointed to the eventual murderer.
      Now that bastard will rot in jail. Unfortunately, nothing can bring back that young woman or mend her fiance's broken heart, all because some dude couldn't control his trouser brain!

    • @datdabdoe1417
      @datdabdoe1417 10 місяців тому +52

      @@markfryer9880 You cant turn off your phones geo location. Sure, you can turn off its GPS connection, but its still hooked into the telephone tower system, and regularly pings it for Data, cell service, the time of day, etc. If they get a warrant on your cell records, they can look through it, and do the math based on which towers you pinged, to calculate your location give or take 100 feet.

    • @manichairdo9265
      @manichairdo9265 10 місяців тому

      Proving yet again the majority of murderers are rancid dimwits.😅

  • @Leonicles
    @Leonicles 10 місяців тому +1453

    I’ve listened to several podcasts & Dateline about this case. None of them said much about the killer's husband. I didn't know anything beyond he was a cop and that Ashley was cheating on him. Thanks for focusing on this man's experience on this sad story. I really like another UA-cam channel, Dreading, because he often focuses on the collateral damage around a crime. I'm glad to see you also do that!

    • @tessiepinkman
      @tessiepinkman 10 місяців тому +19

      Dreading is fantastic, and the reason every video they release is great is because of the massive amount of empathy they show and what you said; that they focus on the collateral damage around the crime/criminal.

    • @mhairimushroom5601
      @mhairimushroom5601 10 місяців тому +9

      Thanks for the recommendation. Heading there after this 👍

    • @donovannotmcnabb2106
      @donovannotmcnabb2106 10 місяців тому +4

      @@mhairimushroom5601definitely recommend Dreading! He’s thoughtful with his videos and very thorough

    • @StefanConstantinDumitrache
      @StefanConstantinDumitrache 10 місяців тому +8

      @@mhairimushroom5601 there's also Coffeehouse Crime.

    • @jesd.5745
      @jesd.5745 10 місяців тому

      Yes!! A totally new perspective!!

  • @thickerconstrictor9037
    @thickerconstrictor9037 Місяць тому +5

    Thank you for pointing out all the things that guilty people versus innocent people tend to do in interrogations I'm taking detailed notes and practicing

  • @rabbidguarddog
    @rabbidguarddog 7 місяців тому +2

    That poor man, so blindsided that even as a PI he had trouble seeing the truth.

  • @kevdimo6459
    @kevdimo6459 10 місяців тому +895

    The poor man was taken in by the person he loved so much. She deserved life without parole, she stole her friends money, and premeditated her murder. Evil has no bounds!

    • @ellakajfasz2569
      @ellakajfasz2569 10 місяців тому +7

      I didn't hear the whole case, but it didn't sound like it was premeditated if she had already spent all the money but didn't kill her until the day she asked for it back.

    • @kevdimo6459
      @kevdimo6459 10 місяців тому +33

      @@ellakajfasz2569 so they just so happened to meet up on a farm that her relatives own. She filled in the grave with concrete she purchased from a hardware store! What about her using the husband’s phone and not her own. Sounds premeditated to me. 😁

    • @mark7831
      @mark7831 10 місяців тому

      So sad, I went true same with my woman gave her not everything but alot

    • @thearsenal5537
      @thearsenal5537 10 місяців тому

      Lol. He’s got you.

    • @astatalan
      @astatalan 10 місяців тому

      she deserve it not for what she did. but for getting more funding for the prisons. we need prison reform

  • @marcedoreste
    @marcedoreste 8 місяців тому +1762

    Man, this legit gives chills.
    Imagine spending your life with the person you love only to find out she's a monster-the worst type of monster

    • @sweetkiwipie1569
      @sweetkiwipie1569 7 місяців тому +43

      I respect your opinion, but I disagree.kid rapists/killers are the worst monsters

    • @MehrubaAfroz
      @MehrubaAfroz 7 місяців тому +55

      ​@@sweetkiwipie1569yes, but that doesnt make monsters like her any less. The wife over here doesnt deserve any form of forgiveness

    • @basic6735
      @basic6735 7 місяців тому +26

      @@MehrubaAfrozI reckon murderers are worst, personally I don’t believe in an afterlife and the thought of losing your one singular chance to walk this earth to some monster is terrifying, at the very least with being raped there is a chance of recovery, no matter how small

    • @franciscodonato9912
      @franciscodonato9912 6 місяців тому +1

      as long as they dont try to kill me or make me a accomplice i dont care 😅

    • @joecharles5368
      @joecharles5368 6 місяців тому +1

      You don't even need to be a person of color always. Hmmm🤔

  • @AngryBoozer
    @AngryBoozer 6 місяців тому +6

    I question the reliability of these "signs of guilt".
    I look stressed and guilty when I walk out of a shop without buying anything.

    • @ipilotaneva2586
      @ipilotaneva2586 6 місяців тому

      it’s copaganda. Cop interrogation techniques like the Reid technique are proven time and time again to be bunk. Their intent is to prove everyone who walks in as guilty

  • @TammieBuckeye
    @TammieBuckeye Місяць тому +1

    Thank you so very much for how you did this and gave us the ending of what happen in court. Love it

  • @claymac7895
    @claymac7895 10 місяців тому +1469

    This man had no idea how close he came to getting charged in this murder. Had Ashley lied and said he was in on it he’d have got life.

    • @whyumadtho355
      @whyumadtho355 10 місяців тому +480

      100%. Garauntee he would've been even placed as the master mind of the whole thing solely because he was a man

    • @twixy.
      @twixy. 10 місяців тому +114

      unfortunate truth

    • @dovidstaples9985
      @dovidstaples9985 10 місяців тому +290

      Reason #274 for why you NEVER talk to cops without a lawyer no matter how innocent you are

    • @jennifersilves4195
      @jennifersilves4195 10 місяців тому +24

      ​@@whyumadtho355Because he's a cop.

    • @GeraltzCrafta
      @GeraltzCrafta 10 місяців тому +87

      @@dovidstaples9985He had a lawyer present

  • @negativecharisma7583
    @negativecharisma7583 10 місяців тому +2836

    Not talking to the cops without a lawyer aside, I don't see many people acknowledging just how horrible a realization that must have been for the guy. Within seconds his whole world was utterly obliterated. I hope he's been able to process all that and move forward...
    (EDIT: Alright, I get it, the lawyer's in the room, 30 other people have already told me, you don't need to waste your time lmao)

    • @pattonkeith
      @pattonkeith 10 місяців тому +231

      His lawyer is there. The one who told him to let the interrogator finish his question before answering is his lawyer.

    • @SirHumphrey498
      @SirHumphrey498 10 місяців тому +24

      he dodged not a bullet but the atomic bond

    • @davemarnell8871
      @davemarnell8871 10 місяців тому +37

      How did he not see his wife spending an extra $34k? What did she buy and how long a period was she 'holding' the money?

    • @daghalfrunt2160
      @daghalfrunt2160 10 місяців тому +82

      @davemarnell8871 according to that bank statement they showed, it looks like she paid off thousands of dollars in credit cards the day after she got the money. And the account was negative the day before. She may not have purchased anything, just paid off debt. That would go unnoticed if he never paid attention to the finances in the first place. It's not like she made any big purchases

    • @jaymike3302
      @jaymike3302 10 місяців тому +30

      @@zinger777 This is always the dumbest comment. Millions of people talk to the police to help them solve crimes. And it's the right thing to do.

  • @elonmusk9697
    @elonmusk9697 7 місяців тому +3

    25 years to life?!
    Every teenage boy gets life without parole for something like that.
    It's absolutely ridiculous how women are treated

    • @ihawms950
      @ihawms950 18 днів тому

      Exactly!! This guy would've gotten life in prison if he had any involvement simply for being a man.

  • @user-so4rr2vp7c
    @user-so4rr2vp7c 7 місяців тому +3

    Thank you for giving us such a nice tips Jeff. LMAO 🤣🤣🤣

  • @philochristos
    @philochristos 10 місяців тому +2589

    Which is worse? Finding out that your wife cheated on you, or finding out that your wife committed murder?

    • @tariqifield6178
      @tariqifield6178 10 місяців тому +121

      Great Question Sam

    • @humanitykrusher8132
      @humanitykrusher8132 10 місяців тому +675

      Cheating.

    • @desvdam
      @desvdam 10 місяців тому +241

      First one for sure, i rather deal with disappointment and disgust than heartbreak, might be my BPD talking tho 😂

    • @mikebaker9574
      @mikebaker9574 10 місяців тому +35

      Tricky question!

    • @colormebrave2231
      @colormebrave2231 10 місяців тому

      a woman would say murder while I think a man would say cheated on you

  • @ragreenburg
    @ragreenburg 10 місяців тому +467

    The fact that he went to the bank to get a statement to make a timeline for his day is incredible. I literally would have never thought of that.

    • @kavyat.5614
      @kavyat.5614 10 місяців тому +97

      i mean he was a pi himself once so i guess he has a good idea on what would prove his innocence

    • @pilarq7886
      @pilarq7886 10 місяців тому +14

      Im not a PI and long ago i thought the only thing i could think of was call the bank to see what transactions i INITIATED ...NOT processed on said date... I wonder if a satellite can regurgitate what we watched on TV on said date.. Also your computer search engine could help too... my cats help ..well shes napping ALL the time -she didnt see nothing

    • @benjoseph25
      @benjoseph25 10 місяців тому +5

      @@pilarq7886 I'm sorry but what does PI mean? Is that like a term? Thanks 😊

    • @kimeurich5204
      @kimeurich5204 10 місяців тому

      ​​​private investigator

    • @jonah6300
      @jonah6300 10 місяців тому +16

      @@benjoseph25private investigator

  • @gkail6980
    @gkail6980 7 місяців тому +2

    Heartbreaking seeing that wholesome guy slowly hitting that realisation

  • @paulgibbons2320
    @paulgibbons2320 7 місяців тому +2

    A PI would be 100% informed about what body language they look for in interviews

  • @JaySmith-pv2mw
    @JaySmith-pv2mw 8 місяців тому +98

    Don't ever let somebody ELSE handle your finances.

    • @barbarabonnette2705
      @barbarabonnette2705 2 місяці тому +6

      Ever

    • @user-gf3kw4sl9q
      @user-gf3kw4sl9q Місяць тому +5

      Money is the root to evil. Taylor should never have handed over $34,000 to anyone except a financial institution.

    • @bradbutcher3984
      @bradbutcher3984 Місяць тому +1

      Yep. My ex wife cleaned out our savings.

    • @AdamFoster-bj4yg
      @AdamFoster-bj4yg Місяць тому

      ​@@user-gf3kw4sl9q- Money isn't. It's the "love" of money that's the root of all evil. Not just money by itself.

    • @bentonrp
      @bentonrp 18 днів тому +1

      @user-gf3kw4sl9q Money isn't the root of all evil. There was absolute evil in tribal humanity before money. That kind of evil still exists regardless of the existence of money.

  • @Eazy-ERyder
    @Eazy-ERyder 10 місяців тому +151

    I'm glad this one isn't so ridiculously long and drawn out like most other YT crime interview

    • @SpaceJockey805
      @SpaceJockey805 10 місяців тому +5

      Except when it’s long and drawn out, you get a little more context. I prefer a long interrogation video, I’ve learned a lot more from those rather than these short videos that skim over a lot of important info. In my opinion, this is one of the weaker true crime channels

    • @Carolinas_SweetTea
      @Carolinas_SweetTea 10 місяців тому +1

      Me too it was straight to the point ☝️❤

    • @Eazy-ERyder
      @Eazy-ERyder 10 місяців тому +1

      @@SpaceJockey805 I can respect that completely

    • @boxingstar7749
      @boxingstar7749 10 місяців тому

      ​@@Eazy-ERyderThank you for respecting it completely. Complete efforts shall not go unnoticed.

    • @ekaterinas8796
      @ekaterinas8796 10 місяців тому

      Agreed, this is why I am watching!

  • @PriscilleDhesse
    @PriscilleDhesse 7 місяців тому +62

    By the moment he heard “feelings aside” he just accepted that his heart had to break for justice.
    Despite the pain he barely doubts on what to do, didn’t escape, and gave whatever he could. For a sincerely loving husband it’s so freaking brave!

  • @awribalhidugagk2949
    @awribalhidugagk2949 7 місяців тому +5

    Being a PI would make it very easy for him to plan this.

    • @malachi-
      @malachi- 7 місяців тому +1

      Yeah, that's the joke here, everybody is so sure he's just that dumb, but his job is in an industry that knows how it all goes... fools.

  • @travisera1
    @travisera1 9 місяців тому +392

    Over a 34k shopping spree? If that is how little someone values a friendship, let alone a friends freaking life, that person is a psychopath. She will still be a danger to society in 25 years. Keep her locked up for life.

    • @lastcallbartendingla8849
      @lastcallbartendingla8849 9 місяців тому +21

      Let alone anyone’s life really. A normal person would value a complete strangers life more than $34k.

    • @abouttime2569
      @abouttime2569 9 місяців тому

      I have read news on people killing for less than that

    • @bobarcher5837
      @bobarcher5837 9 місяців тому

      @@lastcallbartendingla8849 People get murdered for less than that literally every single day

    • @TheCabledawg1
      @TheCabledawg1 9 місяців тому +30

      People have been killed for alot less....like road rage...or I rememeber this case where a lady was killed over $8.

    • @polarvortex3294
      @polarvortex3294 9 місяців тому +15

      @@TheCabledawg1 I think that with road rage, and many other murderous crimes, the victim can become a kind of a symbol in the mind of the killer of all the people that have annoyed and disrespected him over the years -- people he was unable to punish as he'd have liked to. In this way, even a very small incident can trigger a kind of avalanche. It's like they say, "I've had enough of these *&# holes!" This is just one reason why it's unwise to push people. You don't know what they've been bottling up or how they'll see you.

  • @situated4
    @situated4 4 місяці тому +6

    Married people do not have to testify against one another. Spousal privilege.

  • @Legacy_125
    @Legacy_125 2 місяці тому +2

    I can’t tell you Jason. They clearly know each other. Then he says I don’t know buddy. They are clearly friends.

  • @pattonkeith
    @pattonkeith 10 місяців тому +319

    Everyone saying he shouldn't be talking to the cops without a lawyer present isn't paying attention. Check the bottom left corner, the guy taking notes is his lawyer. And if you're still not sure, 10:38 . Pay attention.

    • @jaymike3302
      @jaymike3302 10 місяців тому

      People who say this are either dumb or they cheer for the murderer. Millions of people talk to the police to help them solve crimes.

    • @TheBlownapart
      @TheBlownapart 10 місяців тому +27

      Good catch. Thank you for pointing that out.

    • @AnneOhn123
      @AnneOhn123 10 місяців тому +5

      Right?!

    • @robertlevine2827
      @robertlevine2827 10 місяців тому +14

      He used to be a cop himself, after all.

    • @JanNan
      @JanNan 10 місяців тому

      Thank you, i very rarely watch , i tend to just listen, 😊 Have a wonderful day 😊

  • @irwinelgrande5350
    @irwinelgrande5350 9 місяців тому +64

    PSA Reminder: Don't talk to cops without a lawyer, even if you're innocent, specially if you're innocent.

    • @RodCornholio
      @RodCornholio 9 місяців тому +11

      Sound logic. You will never become "more innocent" by talking to them.

    • @PocketKneif
      @PocketKneif 2 місяці тому +2

      Especially about a murder.

    • @geoninja8971
      @geoninja8971 2 місяці тому +1

      @@PocketKneif Especially when they start asking you about your movements!

  • @Alex-xg9xt
    @Alex-xg9xt 6 місяців тому +8

    @Dr Insanity idk if you get around to reading all of these but I want you to know that your production style is next-to-none followed by a select few in this space. You’re awesome and really easy to listen to! The way you present brings me back to my childhood watching my grandmas “programs”(remember when everyone said ‘my program’? Haha wow)
    You’ve only recently appeared in my recommendations but you deserve this sub wholly. Genuinely feels like I’m watching Discovery in 2005 without the music and I thank you for the content.

  • @LordFred69
    @LordFred69 2 місяці тому +2

    Husband knows more than he's saying.

  • @YedidyahPorasy
    @YedidyahPorasy 10 місяців тому +546

    No one we like is capable of anything like that until reality decides to beat the sh*t out of our innocence.

    • @SiIhou
      @SiIhou 10 місяців тому +18

      I loved the clickbait though, making it look like if the detective was the wife

    • @kristinsevin
      @kristinsevin 10 місяців тому +18

      On the contrary. Something I learned early in life is absolutely EVERYBODY is capable of horrible things. Everybody. No exceptions. And you'd be surprised who's WILLING.

    • @jgs_gamestudio9096
      @jgs_gamestudio9096 10 місяців тому +8

      ​@kristinsevin No not everybody, that's false as hell. Some would literally rather commit suicide than kill another person.

    • @kevinexline5392
      @kevinexline5392 10 місяців тому +4

      @@jgs_gamestudio9096 being willing and being capable are two entirely different things. No person has ever existed, exists, or will ever exist that isn’t capable of atrocious shit. I’m tired of the saying that humans are a good species that sometimes do bad things. No, humans are a terrible species fueled by greed, hate, envy, etc that are capable of doing some good every once in a while. Just because you aren’t willing to do bad, doesn’t mean that human nature doesn’t lend itself to being capable of doing bad.

    • @jgs_gamestudio9096
      @jgs_gamestudio9096 10 місяців тому +10

      @kevinexline5392 no offense but that sounds dumb af. That's like saying anyone is capable of picking up a knife and stabbing the closet person, like no shit.
      But some people, would never - ever kill another human being, because they decided internally that they would never do so - under any circumstance.

  • @currenteventsenthusiast9477
    @currenteventsenthusiast9477 10 місяців тому +217

    Imagine spending all that time in prison over 34K…. Life you could have just picked some overtime for 12-18 months but instead you lose 25 years.. What was she thinking

    • @tinknal6449
      @tinknal6449 10 місяців тому +5

      Makes me wonder if she had run the business into the ground and she was afraid the husband was about to find out.

    • @jagenv
      @jagenv 10 місяців тому +9

      She could of made an onlyfans and maybe made it even quicker ..

    • @shelocsher2396
      @shelocsher2396 10 місяців тому +2

      Right. Or take out a damn loan. Smh two lives wasted

    • @tinknal6449
      @tinknal6449 10 місяців тому +5

      @@shelocsher2396 3 counting her husband, or maybe he dodged a huge bullet.

    • @dantegreen7642
      @dantegreen7642 10 місяців тому +6

      If you watch the other videos about her she spent most of that money on her side boyfriend she bought him a bought and a bunch of other things

  • @britishtechguru
    @britishtechguru 4 місяці тому +5

    The husband was a victim too. I hope he divorced his wife and found a new life with somebody who could be what his wife was supposed to be.

  • @scottscott6794
    @scottscott6794 9 місяців тому +513

    My heart goes out to the family that lost a beautiful child. I am grateful for the detectives to put this monster behind bars forever.

    • @sailingelectricgitana1286
      @sailingelectricgitana1286 9 місяців тому +18

      She was hiding money from her husband prior to divorcing him. Hardly a lady or "beautiful child". Seems like she was a lying, conniving woman to me. Part of me wants to say she got what she deserved. I have to stop myself from thinking that way. Quite frankly I think both husbands here are better off to be rid of these witches.

    • @Dr.Mcstaby
      @Dr.Mcstaby 9 місяців тому +4

      sigh if only we would quit putting these things in boxes and just put them in the dirt so we did not have to pay for them and they would not to make big jails for them out of tax payers money the world we be a safer place cause a dead criminal can't hurt anyone anymore.

    • @Derek_Wyld
      @Derek_Wyld 9 місяців тому

      @@Dr.Mcstaby I mean you're not wrong...at all. It sucks, but you're not

    • @scorpion407
      @scorpion407 9 місяців тому

      @@Dr.Mcstaby Let's say however that there is a re-incarnation. Would you rather let such a soul re-incarnate and start a new life or let it suffer till the rest of its current life?

    • @RaphaelDawkinsCombatRadio
      @RaphaelDawkinsCombatRadio 8 місяців тому

      She stole the husbands money, gave it to Ashley to hide it, Ashely spent it, the judge told the fiend if she doesn't return the money by......he would jail her. When she asked Ashley for the money she stole Ashley takes her for a drive to a relatives farm and puts a slug in the back of her head. Nothing beautiful there, quite ugly actually.

  • @dawnatkinson7704
    @dawnatkinson7704 10 місяців тому +369

    Interesting that he says it couldn't be her because it was sloppy and not that she could never do anything so horrific.

    • @Laxbros1142
      @Laxbros1142 10 місяців тому +43

      Thought the same. Obviously the video is cropped but if that was his first thought…well his wife couldn’t have been a very good person to begin with hahah

    • @diligentsun1154
      @diligentsun1154 10 місяців тому +11

      What 'private investigator' AND former cop is that unaware?
      There's a rat somewhere, as yet uncovered.
      Believe THAT.

    • @crissyoi
      @crissyoi 10 місяців тому +1

      I mean also, if I'm being questioned and not told I'm a suspect, why on earth go pull my own bank statements to clear my name? Odd.

    • @spoopy132
      @spoopy132 10 місяців тому +38

      ​@crissyoi I mean, if the cops wanna know where I was the day of a murder and I can't remember then that's probably exactly what I'd do

    • @burningdaylights
      @burningdaylights 10 місяців тому +30

      @crissyoi
      The video said they wanted to know what he did that day, so he pulled statements to see where he'd been, because he didn't remember. If they asked me where I was a certain day, I'd need a calendar, refer to my schedule for that week, and if I happened to be in another town on business or something, bank records sure would be handy to have if you don't save every receipt you're given.

  • @shadowr2d2
    @shadowr2d2 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for posting this video 🎉. You have a new subscriber. Keep up the great 👍 work. It’s amazing 🤩 to see. How much your body language. Can give off what’s in your mind. Dam..

  • @selenasanchez7336
    @selenasanchez7336 7 місяців тому +1

    Ashley is cold as the North pole, not 1 tear, and zero remorse that is scary.

  • @krashd
    @krashd 10 місяців тому +219

    "The bad news is your wife has been cheating on you.."
    "What? What the hell is the good news?!"
    "She's going to prison until she's 90!"

    • @zombiedodge1426
      @zombiedodge1426 10 місяців тому +10

      "I have some bad news about your wife."
      "Did she wreck the car?"
      "No, she murdered someone."
      "But the car's okay, right?"

  • @V.Oakley
    @V.Oakley 10 місяців тому +101

    How disturbing is this! 😢 I feel really bad for this guy.

  • @Platinum1812
    @Platinum1812 7 місяців тому +12

    Plot twist: as a PI he knew how to act, how to set everything up, how to manipulate the evidence in order to get rid of his overspending wife.

  • @----.__
    @----.__ 8 місяців тому +1

    I broke up with a woman recently who seemed like the sweetest person on the planet. Soft spoken, really pretty, cared for sick animals, I thought I was on to a winner. Within a few weeks of moving in with her, her charade fell apart. She used to spit on me, slap me, kick me, punch me, throw boiling water at and eventually stabbed me. I spent nearly a decade in the military and have seen front line action, not much scares me these days, but there were many occasions with this woman that I genuinely feared for my life and couldn't sleep. The hardest part was that she always threatened to tell the police I was being violent to her, which was never the case, I'd sooner walk out than get physical with her, but the threat was always present. And it hurt even more so when she'd be violent to me, and then threaten to call the police on me. She had major psychological issues and it's evident why someone seemingly so sweet, and so beautiful, could still be single. I survived her wrath, and I pity the next guy who falls for her song and dance.

  • @MyCometsDeparture
    @MyCometsDeparture 10 місяців тому +120

    I apperciate your style of commentary! Other creators will stop every 10 seconds to explain why someone blinked and it drives me nuts.

  • @sandersson2813
    @sandersson2813 4 місяці тому +3

    When someone is described as "super intelligent" you know they are not.

  • @annarush7176
    @annarush7176 5 місяців тому +5

    I'm surprised the husband didn't know if his wife had a master's or a bachelor's. He clearly didn't know her well.

    • @willth3thrill
      @willth3thrill 4 місяці тому

      that was weird, I'm fairly confident I could ask anyone I know what degree their wife has and where it's from and they would answer with 100% confidence

  • @DavidVelasquez9
    @DavidVelasquez9 10 місяців тому +398

    Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser,i wasnt going to let my marriage of 18years crash

    • @peterwilliams6361
      @peterwilliams6361 10 місяців тому

      amazing,i am kinda in a similar situation,how did you handle it?

    • @DavidVelasquez9
      @DavidVelasquez9 10 місяців тому

      @@peterwilliams6361 well not the orthodox way but i was referred by a friend to a spiritual adviser and healer

    • @peterwilliams6361
      @peterwilliams6361 10 місяців тому

      @@DavidVelasquez9 please how can i get in touch with the spiritual adviser?

    • @DavidVelasquez9
      @DavidVelasquez9 10 місяців тому

      @@peterwilliams6361 her name is *Victoria Lee Hess* ,and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as caster

    • @DavidVelasquez9
      @DavidVelasquez9 10 місяців тому

      you can look her name up online and you will find all you need.

  • @samathythemanathy8112
    @samathythemanathy8112 9 місяців тому +647

    An important thing to consider when evaluating Zach's body language is it sounds like he is a former investigator or at the very least has friends who are. He has confidence and experience in the system, making him more comfortable in it.
    JCS has an interesting video on innocent questionings and the majority are nothing like this but instead very uncomfortable experiences for the innocent who don't have experience and are afraid of being falsely accused.

    • @samathythemanathy8112
      @samathythemanathy8112 9 місяців тому +15

      @@anonyms1828 Ah cheers, must have missed it. Clearly experienced and comfortable with the system then.

    • @Johnny_Silverhand1
      @Johnny_Silverhand1 8 місяців тому +7

      @@coachellalyricist its mentioned in the video also bruv. Read the sub comment two comments above yours

    • @wildca1x1
      @wildca1x1 6 місяців тому +8

      He mentions in one of the first sentences he worked PI cases.

    • @sleepyNovember_project
      @sleepyNovember_project 6 місяців тому +4

      Imagine how a falsely accused social phobe was brought in for interrogation

    • @Kyle_Riel
      @Kyle_Riel 6 місяців тому +9

      He framed his wife and paid his bills with the victims money. No doubt

  • @xollyxolly3234
    @xollyxolly3234 3 місяці тому +9

    I held onto a relatives 22k for 7 years. When they came back to withdraw it....I gave it all to them. Never spent it. I ain't that kind of person. I may not be religious and I hate taking political sides but I always keep my word when it comes to safekeeping

  • @user-cf8gn6jd7t
    @user-cf8gn6jd7t 2 місяці тому

    Nicely done with this video! I liked it SO VERY MUCH that I subscribed to the channel and clicked on the bell icon and gave it a GREAT, BIG, HUMONGOUS “thumbs up” immediately after watching it!!! Please keep up the phenomenal work!

  • @MMM18092
    @MMM18092 10 місяців тому +194

    His main doubt wasn't that her morals or empathy would prevent her from becoming a killer, it was that she was too smart to get caught.

    • @muridtahmatgnas2184
      @muridtahmatgnas2184 10 місяців тому +11

      "emotions aside"

    • @Will-nb8qk
      @Will-nb8qk 10 місяців тому +3

      yeah true 😅

    • @dakotareid1566
      @dakotareid1566 10 місяців тому +9

      No, his doubt was the way that she did it, him saying “it’s just sloppy” means he would think if she did something like that she’d be more careful but instead she left tons of evidence.

    • @uwaila089
      @uwaila089 10 місяців тому +3

      ⁠@@dakotareid1566that’s what the OP meant lol. He felt she was too intelligent to do such a sloppy crime

    • @honiej00n75
      @honiej00n75 10 місяців тому +2

      And he asks I said she’s got a criminal.. and then stopped himself and they all said masters degree

  • @retnuHDJ
    @retnuHDJ 10 місяців тому +57

    If I was ever accused of murder, I don't think my body language would be anywhere close to calm lol

    • @erikbudrow1255
      @erikbudrow1255 10 місяців тому +4

      Seriously I'd have to really convince myself to chill out. But on the inside I'd be like "SHIT THIS IS GETTING PINNED ON ME AND I DIDN'T DO A GOD D*MN THING!" 😳😅😰☠😞

    • @0Atche0
      @0Atche0 10 місяців тому

      If you didn't do it, they wouldn't have any evidence of you doing it, so why would you be panicking unless something was linking you to it

    • @erikbudrow1255
      @erikbudrow1255 10 місяців тому +16

      @@0Atche0 People get falsely accused all the time because evidence seems to pointing in a direction that isn't actually consistent with reality.

    • @0Atche0
      @0Atche0 10 місяців тому

      @@erikbudrow1255 pointing at and having concrete evidence is not the same, unless you get framed by someone, you are most likely going to be fine due to lack of evidence

    • @erikbudrow1255
      @erikbudrow1255 10 місяців тому

      @@0Atche0 *Most likely* yes, but the *evidence* shows that people get wrongly accused AND CONVICTED all the time without being framed. Hell, when I was arrested, both the police officer and I were asked to give written accounts of the event and I got to see what he wrote (it was my legal right). There were lots of details that did not line up. Go figure.
      Get with reality bro. This "justice" system is far from perfect and I have learned from multiple experiences to stay far far away from any activity that could put me on the radar of the authorities because the truth gets distorted so incredibly easily and shit happens to people who don't deserve it.

  • @PlutoTheGod
    @PlutoTheGod 7 місяців тому

    The level of greed involved to kill your own friends over a couple thousand dollars because you couldn’t control a dumb spending spree is mind boggling.

  • @Beerbellybilly1
    @Beerbellybilly1 7 місяців тому

    I see many of these videos about body language in interviews. Some body language can be an indicator of guilt, but it can also mean nothing. Its perfectly normal to feel insecure and adopt that kind of body language if you're not used to bee interviewed by the police and feel uncomfortable. We have to remember that in the back of any innocent persons mind there is a small thought that says how do I not talk my self into this.

  • @brenreidy8763
    @brenreidy8763 9 місяців тому +323

    You mean we dont have to watch the ENTIRE interrogation to be entertained!? A MIRACLE! Thank you!

    • @aidanc9396
      @aidanc9396 9 місяців тому +9

      Yes, consoom, let the short-form content rot your mind

    • @brenreidy8763
      @brenreidy8763 9 місяців тому +28

      @@aidanc9396 Agreed about short form, but 11 minutes isnt considered short form quite yet is it? Im thinking less than 2 minutes.

  • @cornonthecob1268
    @cornonthecob1268 10 місяців тому +60

    Just a footnote: educated and intelligence are two totally different categories

    • @jaymatthews9324
      @jaymatthews9324 10 місяців тому

      Intelligent people are good a critical thinking, can entertain complex conditional hypotheticals, and often get away with stuff like this.
      "Educated" just means you can follow instructions, you're half decent at rote memorization, or you're likeable, attractive, good at manipulation, a cheater, etc.
      They aren't mutually exclusive, but there is a clear distinction between the concepts. There are high IQ bums, and room temp IQ millionaires. Never assume someone is smart based on a peice of paper.

    • @aqua6613
      @aqua6613 10 місяців тому

      Ex ducare in Latin means to lead out of..and inter legere means to lay into or to impart.
      I suppose you can be educated and still a dumbass and you can be intelligent even without education. It's fortunate when intelligence and education have a meeting in a person's life.
      I was educated, but I hardly used any of the knowledge that was imparted into me in school...they are merely snapple facts at this point and little trinkets like Christmas ornaments on my mental tree.
      I drive a truck where I have all day to marvel over my mental tinsel and then sometimes I shake my head and some of it falls into someone else's lap 😆

    • @Carolinas_SweetTea
      @Carolinas_SweetTea 10 місяців тому +1

      Right cause he was like she's intelligent she has a master / bachelor degree one of the two 😂 I was like ummm. 😳☝️ Baby. Lmao it's not funny but that sent me to the moon 😂 I was like WTF does a degree have to do with anything when you are a sick minded person.

    • @Tarlyne
      @Tarlyne 10 місяців тому

      ​@carolinasweettea3 its has nothing to do with her mind. He just can't believe that she murdered someone and its a sloppy murder because she has a bachelor or master in Criminology (most likely or something related).

  • @angelab9819
    @angelab9819 7 місяців тому +2

    Just remember you cant take money with you to the other side only your soul and what you learnt from this life.

  • @justinmusic1296
    @justinmusic1296 7 місяців тому

    It's amazing to me when I hear people say they know "nothing" about their own finances

  • @nihilistic7840
    @nihilistic7840 10 місяців тому +63

    You can have nothing to hide and still feel uncomfortable and threatened when interviewed on your own in a small room by 3 detectives who could hold your entire future in their hands

    • @55kemi
      @55kemi 10 місяців тому +6

      I think the guy out of shot was his lawyer.

  • @jukeboxfandango
    @jukeboxfandango 10 місяців тому +330

    When they talk about body-language in these videos, this is a great example of a guy who has nothing to hide and simply wants to set the record straight. Sits up straight, even leans into the back of the chair. Very open posture, looking everyone in the eye as he speaks, answering everything directly and quickly.

    • @g6qwerty
      @g6qwerty 10 місяців тому +24

      I can't stand looking into people's eyes after a while is that why folks think I'm untrustworthy even though all I say is the truth?

    • @erikbudrow1255
      @erikbudrow1255 10 місяців тому +30

      Honestly, I was less than impressed with their assessment of his body language. They mentioned he was leaning back and also leaning forward...what other postures could he have had?? Standing on his head? LMAOOOO

    • @McFrax
      @McFrax 10 місяців тому +1

      ​@@erikbudrow1255Lean to the sides? Move his legs? Nice good head? Nothing entirely different, but there is a ton of variations he might have been going through.

    • @erikbudrow1255
      @erikbudrow1255 10 місяців тому +1

      @@McFrax Right, so no matter what other nuances he does with his posture makes no bit of difference lmao ...unless there's some expert out there that can convince me otherwise lol

    • @McFrax
      @McFrax 10 місяців тому +5

      @@erikbudrow1255 There was another video of a women that was relatively calm until the interview started pointing at her being guilty, at which point she started rocking back and forth, and eventually spinning around, making big circles with her head. I think she stopped that only after it became clear that she's done.
      These reactions are not a proof anyway, but they can be a strong hint one way or the other.

  • @BobZombie8806
    @BobZombie8806 3 місяці тому +2

    Dude seems like such a loyal guy

  • @matthewstone1362
    @matthewstone1362 7 місяців тому +1

    Shit man if a cop accused me and i was innocent id probably sit back and fold my arms. Just the accusation would make you shrivel.

  • @AbdulAbdul1
    @AbdulAbdul1 10 місяців тому +237

    Imagine someone who you loved. Someone who was kind, caring, and smart. Had told you that they'd be busy, only to find out they had committed a murder that day.

    • @0Atche0
      @0Atche0 10 місяців тому

      I mean, she was busy lol

    • @alaididnalid7660
      @alaididnalid7660 3 місяці тому +1

      Actually, she only checks 1 out of 3 of those boxes.

  • @gaiusbaltar8915
    @gaiusbaltar8915 9 місяців тому +192

    07:06 "Zach's open body language indicates no signs of guilt."
    **WRONG!** His open body language indicates that he *trusts the investigators.*
    This is an important distinction, because *distrust* of the investigators could have come from *anything.*
    * Who knows that the cops are competent enough to actually figure out your innocence?
    * Who knows that they aren't just sloppy, latch onto the first piece of evicence and call it a day?
    * Who knows that they have good intentions to begin with?
    These are all questions that could pop up in one's head when you are being investigated for bloody *murder,* so conflating *trust* with guilt or innocence is a very dangerous thing.

    • @moniqueloomis9772
      @moniqueloomis9772 5 місяців тому +9

      Yeah, I don't understand why most people don't understand or know that. 😮

    • @busraterzi8189
      @busraterzi8189 3 місяці тому +4

      THIS! YES!

    • @JohnDoe-po3ku
      @JohnDoe-po3ku 2 місяці тому +7

      Body language analysis is quackery

    • @neonjoe529
      @neonjoe529 2 місяці тому +1

      ​@karlwithak. Wrong - reading body language is a useful tool that can be used as a guide for investigators. It's true that it's not a replacement for evidence, but saying it's meaningless is incorrect.

    • @Kadaspala
      @Kadaspala 2 місяці тому +2

      ​​@@neonjoe529Nah, body language experts have been demonstrated to be unreliable pseudoscience grifters pretty thoroughly at this point.
      The issue is that, while body language can be indicative of certain emotional states, it's:
      1) Not universally reliable. Different cultural backgrounds, body types, disabilities, neurodivergences, etc can produce a wide range of various body languages for various reasons without true reliable consistency. The neurodivergent aspect in particular is a huge issue with "body language forensics", as anyone even slightly familiar with autism, ADHD, etc will note how the vast majority of what so-called body language experts cite as signs of guilts are literally just common neurodivergent symptoms such as aversion to eye contact and fidgeting.
      2) Plagued by bias when used as "evidence." Like what is often considered indicative of guilt is actually just indicative of anxiety, but it's presumed by police that said anxiety itself is an indication of guilt, as opposed to indicative of...y'know, being interrogated by police.
      The vast majority of body language expert content -- this video included -- are from a retrospective perspective. It's kinda like a psychic telling you about the world events of yesterday. Once you already know the outcome of a case it's incredibly easy to go back and cherry pick body language claiming that it's clear evidence.
      But actual science and controlled studies have shown that the predictions and assertions of body language experts without the benefit of retrospection are less reliable than a random coin flip. It's not a real science, it's pseudoscience sophistry that's nevertheless endorsed by law enforcement as it gives them more excuses and power to accuse and detain people with impunity -- they just have to cite "suspicious body language".

  • @aBlackPerson69
    @aBlackPerson69 2 місяці тому +2

    God I can hardly stand to watch this poor guy sit there and talk to these devils with no attorney... that shit is terrifying

  • @bigkendallas
    @bigkendallas 7 місяців тому

    Do not EVER agree to talk the police without an attorney present. He sincerely wanted to help them since it was a coworker...... But he knew that even then - you better have an attorney with you.

  • @garthg.6150
    @garthg.6150 10 місяців тому +29

    The cops are looking pretty suspicious, they are leaning back. Better check out their alibis.

    • @abigaildyer04
      @abigaildyer04 10 місяців тому +2

      ??

    • @ericwilliams1659
      @ericwilliams1659 10 місяців тому +2

      ​@@abigaildyer04he is making fun of how police can claim any reaction, even lack of reactions has suspicious.
      Example - Police can pull you for suspicious driving for driving under, over and the exact speed limit. There are dozens of videos on the internet about it.

  • @astralfluxaf
    @astralfluxaf 10 місяців тому +113

    Liked for being 10 minutes long instead of 2 hours 👍

    • @jrchmgn2774
      @jrchmgn2774 10 місяців тому

      Yes this is not EWU.

    • @JussCarm
      @JussCarm 10 місяців тому +2

      Yess😅 samee

  • @TheMeanGreenGoblin
    @TheMeanGreenGoblin 7 місяців тому

    Every person should read Malcolm Gladwell's book Talking to Strangers. You cannot judge anyone by their body language.

  • @MAZEMIND
    @MAZEMIND 8 місяців тому +1

    LOL, Don't talk to the police. Your lawyer will do that for you.

  • @ShyPineapple777
    @ShyPineapple777 10 місяців тому +175

    I can’t imagine the pain of knowing that the person you love so much is a secret murderer😔😢

    • @aqua6613
      @aqua6613 10 місяців тому +18

      I had to find out my former husband was a pedophile...
      I had seen some red flag behavior that disturbed me so I left him. His family who is highly religious persecuted me for leaving him. He had everyone including me fooled.
      I warned a friend of his who had little girls and he cussed me out.
      I left anyways and started my life over.
      2 years later inheard he had died from a heart attack so I called his friend and he told me he had a warrant out for his arrest for molesting his 7 year old daughter.
      When you know you know...I just have no idea if he's had more victims.
      That whole process nearly killed me mentally emotionally and spiritually.
      But God is good and I'm glad he's gone and I just have to live with the memory and the ghost of it all. I wish the friend would have believed me and protected his little girl from him, but he has to live with that guilt.

    • @ShyPineapple777
      @ShyPineapple777 10 місяців тому +5

      @@aqua6613 Oh my goodness that sounds terrible! 😩 I pray God continues to bless you as you are recovering from that situation internally. It’s sad what our world has come to 😔

    • @williamsherman1089
      @williamsherman1089 10 місяців тому +1

      Well lucky for him he didn't find out a harder way

    • @lizhurgeton2637
      @lizhurgeton2637 10 місяців тому

      Uhuh..WAS a secret murderer

    • @thematrix2661
      @thematrix2661 10 місяців тому

      @@aqua6613 If I have a friend and someone told me he is a pedo I would defend that friend but I would not leave him or have him around my kids better safe than sorry.

  • @msdeviantdizzy
    @msdeviantdizzy 10 місяців тому +129

    This vid made me realize how important having an attorney present during any questioning is.

    • @Didenne
      @Didenne 10 місяців тому +3

      He does have one present

    • @liscolite
      @liscolite 10 місяців тому +2

      He is a private investigator... So he knows d drill

    • @webmoss
      @webmoss 10 місяців тому

      Did you just realize that you’re dishonest and not capable of lying?

  • @mercurialpierrot7073
    @mercurialpierrot7073 7 місяців тому

    Lesson here is to always get your own lock box

  • @ericalexander5890
    @ericalexander5890 7 місяців тому +1

    That money wasn't given to Ashley for "safekeeping." It was given to Ashley because Taylor was hiding assets because she was going through a divorce. That doesn't justify what happened to her, but that's what happened.