A Husband Realizes His Wife Is The Murderer

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  • @kimberlyshryack
    @kimberlyshryack Рік тому +30779

    It so refreshing to see an innocent persons body language for once

    • @haloaflame8164
      @haloaflame8164 Рік тому +1696

      Lol. It's definitely a rarity to see someone completely innocent like this guy. This guy seems like a real decent guy to chill with.

    • @Weightingtablesafter
      @Weightingtablesafter Рік тому +2205

      If he was not innocent, the narrator would have said “hes nervous. Hes tapping his feet and hes slouched over which is not a confident posture. Hes also stuttering which is a sign of deception.” Dont believe this body language bs.

    • @zulemadelapaz2381
      @zulemadelapaz2381 Рік тому +731

      ​@@Weightingtablesafter also @ 6:54 when they ask if he knew anything or participated in the murder he nodded yes while verbally saying no. That's something they would have pointed to show he's guilty.

    • @greuju
      @greuju Рік тому +97

      ​@@haloaflame8164sadly always that type that gets with a hot girl and get cheated on.

    • @SmashedPancakes3939
      @SmashedPancakes3939 Рік тому +562

      @@zulemadelapaz2381so true! I watch these and they talk about how alarming some body language is and I’m just like I really hope I’m never interrogated for anything because I do everything they say is bad. I tap my foot, I ring my hands, I also nod yes while saying no, I stutter, I say to be honest a lot. Like those are all things these Channels flag as guilty behavior.

  • @EricK-tb2dn
    @EricK-tb2dn Рік тому +20852

    Thank you for making more consumable content than a lot of other channels. I don't always have 2-3 hours for a full interrogation.

    • @LarryLooseman
      @LarryLooseman Рік тому +947

      Maaaaaaaaaaan. Too many times am I interested I the content but don't have 90 minutes to watch it

    • @DHworldwide185
      @DHworldwide185 Рік тому +322

      Then watch it in segments. I love 90 min interrogation films. Sometimes I watch them while exercising or just playing in the background while im doing work.

    • @nasairazul4889
      @nasairazul4889 Рік тому +113

      @@DHworldwide185 right I fall to sleep to them sometimes

    • @traceybeerling4776
      @traceybeerling4776 Рік тому +15

      @@DHworldwide185 That's a good idea x

    • @CosmicNebula
      @CosmicNebula Рік тому +57

      Do something else while you watch it. I never just sit and watch UA-cam videos. Exercise, cook, clean, on your commute etc etc.

  • @Scientist_Salarian
    @Scientist_Salarian Рік тому +10537

    It should be said, never, ever, ever let the police interrogate you without a lawyer. Even if you’re 100% not guilty. Plenty of innocent people have talked themselves into a jail cell because they ran afoul of some obscure legal tripwire.

    • @richardnunn1958
      @richardnunn1958 Рік тому +668

      best advice ever

    • @antoniorobles8706
      @antoniorobles8706 Рік тому +866

      Never, ever, ever let the police interrogate you without a lawyer. Especially if you’re 100% not guilty.

    • @richardnunn1958
      @richardnunn1958 Рік тому

      @antoniorobles8706 Do not answer any questions period ever because police will try to lock you into a story even if your not guilty just to make you arrest

    • @Traindom
      @Traindom Рік тому +543

      You can easily talk yourself into prison but not out of it
      Edited so it makes sense lol

    • @PleaseDontMindmyDisplayName
      @PleaseDontMindmyDisplayName Рік тому +17

      @@Traindomwhat??

  • @jeronimo196
    @jeronimo196 9 місяців тому +2039

    If he was found guilty - "his posture remains unchanged, carefully controlled - even though an innocent person might become defensive or angry at being wrongfully accused."

    • @sebastube123
      @sebastube123 8 місяців тому +96

      I agree

    • @elaine462
      @elaine462 7 місяців тому +85

      Yes! I've heard that said before.

    • @kimeriksson7445
      @kimeriksson7445 7 місяців тому +19

      😂😂

    • @jamesleutshe5664
      @jamesleutshe5664 7 місяців тому +188

      Magistrate once held up a traffic ticket I was pissed about, because the cop flat out lied under oath. Said I wouldn't be so angry if I wasn't guilty. No honey, you get madder when you're not guilty, seriously.

    • @jordantrueblood1357
      @jordantrueblood1357 7 місяців тому +26

      Also, being a PI, it is safe to assume he would know about tells and thus be able to give out ones that make him appear innocent.

  • @desimo147
    @desimo147 Рік тому +14543

    So she destroyed the victim's life, her life and her husbands life for $34,000. Got it. Makes total sense.

    • @ivanmatveyev13
      @ivanmatveyev13 Рік тому +369

      capitalism

    • @kinTaro-ju5xu
      @kinTaro-ju5xu Рік тому +302

      That is a lot of money

    • @repost9581
      @repost9581 Рік тому +600

      Yeah... not worth it. Go work. Pain and suffering for everyone, to include herself. $34k?! without a real way out on the back end? Master's Degree?! Must've been from one of those universities of Phoenix, some online bs.

    • @dracs007
      @dracs007 Рік тому +324

      I lost 34k trading Fubo. Who do I shoot?? 😂

    • @roylavecchia1436
      @roylavecchia1436 Рік тому +121

      @@kinTaro-ju5xu Not really.

  • @danidynamite2
    @danidynamite2 Рік тому +8816

    I love how it wasn't that he thought she was too good a person to murder someone, he just thought she would be less sloppy about hiding a murder. That's pretty telling about her.

    • @Briguy1027
      @Briguy1027 Рік тому +560

      It was interesting to see his thought processes when the officer asked him his opinion based on his work experience. It reminds me a bit of when I had to get gum surgery -- my other friend said, why didn't you get a second opinion? I, also being a dentist said, oh, no need. I pretty much was the second opinion.

    • @cgreen399
      @cgreen399 Рік тому +102

      She was a CSI tech.

    • @allthingsnu4673
      @allthingsnu4673 Рік тому +223

      That's pretty amazing when you think about it. He never once responded in disbelief because of any good character on his wife's part.

    • @ApacheMagic
      @ApacheMagic Рік тому +227

      ‘She’s super intelligent. She’s got a criminal- uh, masters- bachelor’s?’
      Some slip. A criminal what?

    • @corners3755
      @corners3755 Рік тому +33

      They are watching too many to catch a murder type shows. So they think they can get away with it.

  • @shawnaparrill3312
    @shawnaparrill3312 Рік тому +5486

    Imagine having to come to terms with the fact his wife killed someone. My heart goes out to this man. Poor soul

    • @mgntstr
      @mgntstr Рік тому +36

      it wasn't so much that she killed someone, it was the getting caught part that bothered him. His wife would be better at concealing a murder.

    • @orlandoromero22
      @orlandoromero22 Рік тому +24

      ​@@mgntstrActually I think the crazy embarrassing part is she did this heinous crime to buy her "Cotejo" Umm lover/ B.F. a 🏍️,a ⛵ & other gifts.

    • @jodason8331
      @jodason8331 Рік тому +12

      @@orlandoromero22and he didn’t see her cheating?? Like come on man he was a P.I. This gave him a easy out, he just had to wait for the cards to fall.

    • @aavalos7760
      @aavalos7760 Рік тому +48

      @@mgntstr It's never apparent that that is what "bothers" him. Hes simply saying for their experience, how could she be so stupid if she actually did commit the crime

    • @Koarpse
      @Koarpse Рік тому +30

      I think he's having a harder time coming to terms with the fact she is not as smart as he thought.

  • @davebruneau6068
    @davebruneau6068 11 місяців тому +2890

    All three cops keep their legs crossed the entire time..they are clearly GUILTY AF

    • @Newnodrogbob
      @Newnodrogbob 9 місяців тому +45

      What…do you think the cops are guilty of?

    • @armtehcannon4813
      @armtehcannon4813 9 місяців тому +581

      @@NewnodrogbobI think it’s a joke, since so many youtubers are “experts” in body language when really body language could be a certain amount of indicators. So many that it’s extremely unreliable, but yet people keep pointing at it as an admission of guilt.

    • @Newnodrogbob
      @Newnodrogbob 9 місяців тому +57

      @@armtehcannon4813 that tracks…I was being dumb because I arrived here from other crime/police videos where all of the comments are ravening unreasoning hatred of police.

    • @EndWach-gi1nh
      @EndWach-gi1nh 9 місяців тому +14

      @@NewnodrogbobStupidity

    • @EndWach-gi1nh
      @EndWach-gi1nh 9 місяців тому +11

      @@armtehcannon4813 I thought he was acting and being a private detective he could’ve set her up. I like to hear her side.., before believing him… or these cops.

  • @kathrinsides2838
    @kathrinsides2838 Рік тому +4868

    I actually appreciate the fact that her husband was so baffled and offended by how sloppy and especially stupid her actions were, embarrassingly so, that he didn’t even address the fact that he didn’t even doubt her ability to do what she’s accused of or question her obvious guilt in his estimation.

    • @jheanelltabana8713
      @jheanelltabana8713 Рік тому +66

      Honestly, I am too. They're PI's! 😂

    • @mw-pl5rg
      @mw-pl5rg Рік тому +116

      @jheanelltabana8713 I have found people that are good at snooping into other people's lives are oblivious to their own.

    • @Grizzlox
      @Grizzlox Рік тому +181

      This is exactly what they mean when they say, "You're too close to this."
      It happens to law enforcement officers, lawyers, investigators, and even forensic analysts all the time.

    • @BabalonNuit
      @BabalonNuit Рік тому +157

      @@mw-pl5rg "The shoemaker's children go barefoot"

    • @mw-pl5rg
      @mw-pl5rg Рік тому +38

      @@BabalonNuit Excellent analogy and allegory. Wisdom and wit are rare in this time. Be blessed.

  • @jas_bataille
    @jas_bataille Рік тому +6680

    The fact she ran away with 38 thousand dollars and he was still saying "I can't see her doing something like that" as an ex-officer is incredibly telling of how powerful of a narcissist she is.
    I mean, damn. She ruined your whole life.

    • @sp_only1506
      @sp_only1506 Рік тому +353

      You have no idea what narcissistic people can do to your brain, even if you able to leave them you still have PTSD!

    • @leonardofigueiredo2518
      @leonardofigueiredo2518 Рік тому +7

      Boom

    • @Larkin4840
      @Larkin4840 Рік тому +172

      It's hard to believe someone you are close to let alone someone you love is capable of doing something that horrible. I found out my ex put a baby down in boiling hot water and caused scars all over his back and legs. They tried to say it was an accident but you don't accidentally boil a baby. It happened before we met and I didn't find out until after we'd broken up. I couldn't believe it and I wasn't even in love anymore. You just think you know someone

    • @sp_only1506
      @sp_only1506 Рік тому +39

      @@Larkin4840 it's surreal experience and not in a good way it fu*ks you up .

    • @thematrix2661
      @thematrix2661 Рік тому +15

      Ana how love can make people blind

  • @WoodyHaroo
    @WoodyHaroo Рік тому +1192

    The idea of being able to tell who is innocent and who is not based upon body language has been proven wrong so many times. The interrogators did a good job from my limited experience. But let’s be clear, the evidence freed this man not his body language.

    • @lukeyznaga7627
      @lukeyznaga7627 11 місяців тому +123

      Yes, this is AN IMPORTANT POINT. too much talk in comments about body lanugage as evidence. Its bullshit.

    • @stingcoldplay1
      @stingcoldplay1 11 місяців тому +69

      You are absolutely right. There have been many people whose body language was all over the place and yet they were innocent. Those people were simply nervous about the situation they were dealing with.

    • @lukeyznaga7627
      @lukeyznaga7627 11 місяців тому

      the sad fact is, you are right. If someone lacks confidence, or is under the weather while they are being questioned, they inadvertently sabotage their defense,.@@stingcoldplay1

    • @cameronjames3499
      @cameronjames3499 11 місяців тому +80

      Yep, using the silly "body language expertise" employed in this video, the female detective is actually the murderer since she repeatedly crossed her arms and displayed closed off body language : D

    • @justinbarnett9476
      @justinbarnett9476 10 місяців тому +19

      I have Tourette’s and under stress sometimes my tics come out. If I was being interrogated by the police for a murder I would be panicking and probably acting weird. Body language expert is a ridiculous thing. That’s like being an expert in phrenology

  • @Mazxlol
    @Mazxlol Рік тому +2099

    A murder of a friend over $34k.... Gotta be one true evil person to do something like that. Insane.

    • @HitRockBoglim
      @HitRockBoglim Рік тому +44

      Is my friendship worth 34k? Maybe.. probably not. My life is tho ffs don't kill me over it. Crazy.

    • @callofdoody21
      @callofdoody21 Рік тому +50

      friendship shouldnt have a price tag associated with it in any way

    • @HitRockBoglim
      @HitRockBoglim Рік тому +68

      @@callofdoody21 Well it does.. turns out its about $34,000 lol.

    • @tommykinikin9335
      @tommykinikin9335 Рік тому +32

      I my experience money doesn't mix well with family or friends. You should always be as secretive as possible with your money. A little off the video subject is how people come out of the woodwork when someone with money passes away. It's amazing how people's personalities change at the prospect of getting money for nothing.

    • @WolfPackRacing
      @WolfPackRacing Рік тому +62

      My son was murdered for his $42,000 bank account 12-11-16 the day before my granddaughter's 3rd birthday. 31 days later, my granddaughter's mother, uncle, and new boyfriend/co-worker, were arrested and charged with his death.

  • @Seattle-ish
    @Seattle-ish Рік тому +903

    Body language can't always be used to determine guilt or innocence. I had years of childhood trauma and when I feel attacked, even verbally, I go right into a very defensive mode to protect myself.

    • @natepowell6912
      @natepowell6912 Рік тому +33

      Thats why they check the phone records and check his answers against evidence.

    • @aqua6613
      @aqua6613 Рік тому +34

      I noticed that about my husband when I had an argument with him where I just busted out yelling and he completely froze. He had severely pissed me off, but his reaction pissed me off even more about myself. I made it a point to vent my anger somewhere else rather than to bust it out on him. He wouldn't have heard anything I said anyways due to dissonance. I've had my own childhood trauma, but instead of freezing up anymore I snap out of it really quickly and then I go on attack and defense mode. I used to swallow up all my trauma and feelings...
      It is better to remove myself when I feel my anger coming on and he understands when I excuse myself and then find elsewhere to vent and then I can come back and we can talk about things because my communication style just scares the shit out of him.
      Doesn't happen much because I do have levels of self control.

    • @lf2052
      @lf2052 Рік тому +31

      yeah I'd be screwed if police brought me in and started throwing questions at me rapidly that seemed accusatory. I get extremely nervous even if I haven't done anything I start thinking what if they start digging and find something I did years ago that's embarrassing like my porn views (legal but no one wants their weird Stuff they watched once way back)
      my body language would show nervousness and I guess guilt I'm going to do more research now to see the exact cues which broadcast guilty

    • @inthelandofmorethansmall7582
      @inthelandofmorethansmall7582 Рік тому +11

      That's still a body language baseline.
      And body language will give you away every time.
      Being defensive in and of itself isn't a sign of deception anyway. It's actually more common in this situation.
      Imagine if someone accused anyone of a murder they didn't commit.
      First would be shock.
      Then anger.
      Then depending on the reaction (and level of intensity) of all parties involved, it goes from there. .but body language will give a person away immediately.
      If you're NOT defensive when being accused of something serious and ridiculous, then you're more likely guilty - as compared to the vice versa.

    • @biff3917
      @biff3917 Рік тому +8

      these all seem like things easy enough to exploit. A poor decider of guilt or innocence.

  • @negativecharisma7583
    @negativecharisma7583 Рік тому +2895

    Not talking to the cops without a lawyer aside, I don't see many people acknowledging just how horrible a realization that must have been for the guy. Within seconds his whole world was utterly obliterated. I hope he's been able to process all that and move forward...
    (EDIT: Alright, I get it, the lawyer's in the room, 30 other people have already told me, you don't need to waste your time lmao)

    • @pattonkeith
      @pattonkeith Рік тому +237

      His lawyer is there. The one who told him to let the interrogator finish his question before answering is his lawyer.

    • @SirHumphrey498
      @SirHumphrey498 Рік тому +25

      he dodged not a bullet but the atomic bond

    • @davemarnell8871
      @davemarnell8871 Рік тому +37

      How did he not see his wife spending an extra $34k? What did she buy and how long a period was she 'holding' the money?

    • @daghalfrunt2160
      @daghalfrunt2160 Рік тому +82

      @davemarnell8871 according to that bank statement they showed, it looks like she paid off thousands of dollars in credit cards the day after she got the money. And the account was negative the day before. She may not have purchased anything, just paid off debt. That would go unnoticed if he never paid attention to the finances in the first place. It's not like she made any big purchases

    • @jaymike3302
      @jaymike3302 Рік тому +31

      @zinger777 This is always the dumbest comment. Millions of people talk to the police to help them solve crimes. And it's the right thing to do.

  • @janewainwright9756
    @janewainwright9756 10 місяців тому +108

    My heart truly aches for this honest, innocent, lovely man.

  • @tacticalsapper
    @tacticalsapper Рік тому +2127

    To the people thinking, when he said "I can't see her doing something like that", that he is influenced by her narcissistic personality NO that's not what he meant, he describes her as being highly intelligent and having a master degree ,while the murder was a sloppy job. He thought she was too smart to be so dumb.

    • @datdabdoe1417
      @datdabdoe1417 Рік тому +223

      Not for a second did he think "She wouldnt do that" only "If she did, she wouldn't have done it this poorly"

    • @Steef_Lee
      @Steef_Lee Рік тому +12

      Exactly

    • @markfryer9880
      @markfryer9880 Рік тому +41

      Certainly, her own phone gave her up as to her being at the murder scene and then keeping the victims phone with her as she goes to the wedding. Bit dumb for someone with a degree/masters in Criminology.
      The trick is to turn off your phone's geo-location and then turn off the victims phone location and turn it off.
      A similar case happened in Melbourne, Australia a few years ago. A young woman disappeared on her way home from work (and she happened to work with one of the news channels so they had a big interest in the story). Turns out this guy with a history of sexual assault, attacked her, dragged her into a lane way and started to assault her, then bundled her into his car, raped her then strangled her to death and then drove to a remote location on the outskirts of Melbourne. Phone records showed the two phones (his and hers) travelling together, video footage from the Toll Road was linked with the timeline of travel, and the time spent out in the remote suburb. Video surveillance, phone location record matching and a check of known criminals in the area pointed to the eventual murderer.
      Now that bastard will rot in jail. Unfortunately, nothing can bring back that young woman or mend her fiance's broken heart, all because some dude couldn't control his trouser brain!

    • @datdabdoe1417
      @datdabdoe1417 Рік тому +55

      @@markfryer9880 You cant turn off your phones geo location. Sure, you can turn off its GPS connection, but its still hooked into the telephone tower system, and regularly pings it for Data, cell service, the time of day, etc. If they get a warrant on your cell records, they can look through it, and do the math based on which towers you pinged, to calculate your location give or take 100 feet.

    • @manichairdo9265
      @manichairdo9265 Рік тому

      Proving yet again the majority of murderers are rancid dimwits.😅

  • @meg2231
    @meg2231 Рік тому +2190

    not only did she do something horrible, but she obviously lost an intelligent, loyal & decent man who was her husband

    • @charlesfaure1189
      @charlesfaure1189 Рік тому +144

      Not that intelligent. He was letting her handle all the finances and knew nothing about how she was doing it. So...actually a doofus.

    • @meg2231
      @meg2231 Рік тому +55

      @@charlesfaure1189 haha well that's a fair point

    • @suspicious2delicious
      @suspicious2delicious Рік тому +25

      @@meg2231 ANd I heard she was cheating on him

    • @sainvol
      @sainvol Рік тому +6

      @@suspicious2delicious the horror

    • @suspicious2delicious
      @suspicious2delicious Рік тому +8

      @@sainvol Your wife cheating on you =(

  • @Leonicles
    @Leonicles Рік тому +1519

    I’ve listened to several podcasts & Dateline about this case. None of them said much about the killer's husband. I didn't know anything beyond he was a cop and that Ashley was cheating on him. Thanks for focusing on this man's experience on this sad story. I really like another UA-cam channel, Dreading, because he often focuses on the collateral damage around a crime. I'm glad to see you also do that!

    • @tessiepinkman
      @tessiepinkman Рік тому +19

      Dreading is fantastic, and the reason every video they release is great is because of the massive amount of empathy they show and what you said; that they focus on the collateral damage around the crime/criminal.

    • @mhairimushroom5601
      @mhairimushroom5601 Рік тому +9

      Thanks for the recommendation. Heading there after this 👍

    • @donovannotmcnabb2106
      @donovannotmcnabb2106 Рік тому +4

      @@mhairimushroom5601definitely recommend Dreading! He’s thoughtful with his videos and very thorough

    • @StefanConstantinDumitrache
      @StefanConstantinDumitrache Рік тому +8

      @@mhairimushroom5601 there's also Coffeehouse Crime.

    • @jesd.5745
      @jesd.5745 Рік тому

      Yes!! A totally new perspective!!

  • @Un0rdin4rYPr0gr4mmeR
    @Un0rdin4rYPr0gr4mmeR 11 місяців тому +142

    Man. Zach was an absolute man of honor. That stupid lady didn't deserve him at all. And to do such a gruesome murder - that takes some guts. I feel sorry for the loss of life as for everyone whose life was affected, apart from the murderer.

  • @northernmetalworker
    @northernmetalworker Рік тому +808

    Robbing a desperate person who trusted you with their money, then murdering them when they ask for it back, so horrendously cruel.

    • @yourewelcome192
      @yourewelcome192 Рік тому +11

      BAD character flaw.

    • @thedevilsadvocate5210
      @thedevilsadvocate5210 Рік тому +4

      They use that plot in many tv shows

    • @crazychase98
      @crazychase98 Рік тому +2

      Both women were horrible drug using party animals who where lesbian lovers. The 35000 dollars was the dead women's husband money that she stole from the husband before she divorced him. Then tried to get more though almoney and childsupport. She won custody only to give the kids back a few weeks later so she could party with her murderer gf. Look into the case both where horrible people

    • @yourewelcome192
      @yourewelcome192 Рік тому +2

      @@crazychase98 WOW! Makes sense.

    • @crazychase98
      @crazychase98 Рік тому +1

      @yourewelcome192 It does this thing is from about 5 years ago or so. It's pretty crazy moral of the story dont commit crimes and let women in on it they shoot you in the back!

  • @CrazyJodice
    @CrazyJodice Рік тому +878

    Disgusting how she preyed on her friend who trusted her. She was going through a divorce and trusted her to help her😢

    • @leetraviusmckay314
      @leetraviusmckay314 Рік тому +10

      An episode of American Greed

    • @Vexrak
      @Vexrak Рік тому +79

      She was stealing $ from her husband and hiding it during the divorce- neither of these women were good people

    • @z_ed
      @z_ed Рік тому +20

      ​@@Vexrakexactly

    • @Josh.1234
      @Josh.1234 Рік тому +13

      ​@@Vexrak crazy how naive people are about the situation

    • @PurpleHazePadres
      @PurpleHazePadres Рік тому +7

      ​@Vexrak exactly what I was thinking, you don't hide Financials in a divorce they're entitled to half unless you got a prenup

  • @chuck936
    @chuck936 Рік тому +706

    As someone who suffers from anxiety, body language isn’t always the best way to determine the truth. I would genuinely be nervous even knowing i did not do anything.

    • @densincomprehend8879
      @densincomprehend8879 Рік тому +10

      Everyone has anxiety

    • @whokilledthesunv4768
      @whokilledthesunv4768 Рік тому +8

      ​@@densincomprehend8879everybody has anxiety *to healthy degrees*. However, some people have anxiety DISORDERS, which causes the anxiety response to take over even when there's no perceived danger. So, yes, everybody has anxiety, but not everybody has ANXIETY, as in, a troubling disorder that's rather serious.

    • @densincomprehend8879
      @densincomprehend8879 Рік тому +8

      @@whokilledthesunv4768 guess what...... What you describe can happen to anyone depending on the situation.

    • @whokilledthesunv4768
      @whokilledthesunv4768 Рік тому +88

      @@densincomprehend8879 no. It's legitimate psychiatric disorder. Educate yourself. We're talking about permanent states of anguish, not about one particular moment or situation. Living with severe anxiety disorders legally counts as a disability.

    • @densincomprehend8879
      @densincomprehend8879 Рік тому +7

      @@whokilledthesunv4768 no because im sick of people using everything like this as an excuse you cannot tell which case is real and which case is not real because so many people use it as an excuse. OMGGGG I CAN'T BE SOCIAL I GOT ANXIETY OMG I CAN'T WORK I GOT ANXIETY OMGGGGGG 😭😭😭😭

  • @jerensteffen
    @jerensteffen 10 місяців тому +606

    Get an attorney people, even if you're innocent. Don't talk to police without one.

    • @nl212ep
      @nl212ep 9 місяців тому +9

      Even if you’re innocent 😂

    • @jerensteffen
      @jerensteffen 9 місяців тому +25

      @@nl212ep Why's that funny?

    • @jonasghafur4940
      @jonasghafur4940 9 місяців тому

      @@nl212epprisons are filled with people who thought they had nothing to worry about due to their innocence. There have been entire books written and talks held by countless law professionals. Cops are allowed to lie to you and, especially in the United States, have a history of misconstrued facts and the use of pseudoscientific forensics. Polygraphs are a big one, just to name one. There also are countless cases of state attorneys, judges and prosecutors actively trying to sabotage appeals, including but not limited to the admission of new, DNA-based forensic evidence. the biggest reason for this is that, after passing the bar, you pass on much better offers in private practice, with the expectation of it only being a temporary stop on the road to eventual, bigger riches after returning to private practice. The resulting scheming and manipulation in the name of polishing up one’s CV has lead to truly horrifying consequences. Better be safe than sorry. I’ll gladly pay up for a lawyer.

    • @sandrak4119
      @sandrak4119 9 місяців тому +68

      @@nl212epespecially if you are Innocent

    • @jerensteffen
      @jerensteffen 9 місяців тому +6

      @@sandrak4119 indeed

  • @pattonkeith
    @pattonkeith Рік тому +360

    Everyone saying he shouldn't be talking to the cops without a lawyer present isn't paying attention. Check the bottom left corner, the guy taking notes is his lawyer. And if you're still not sure, 10:38 . Pay attention.

    • @jaymike3302
      @jaymike3302 Рік тому

      People who say this are either dumb or they cheer for the murderer. Millions of people talk to the police to help them solve crimes.

    • @TheBlownapart
      @TheBlownapart Рік тому +28

      Good catch. Thank you for pointing that out.

    • @AnneOhn123
      @AnneOhn123 Рік тому +5

      Right?!

    • @robertlevine2827
      @robertlevine2827 Рік тому +14

      He used to be a cop himself, after all.

    • @JanNan
      @JanNan Рік тому

      Thank you, i very rarely watch , i tend to just listen, 😊 Have a wonderful day 😊

  • @kevdimo6459
    @kevdimo6459 Рік тому +935

    The poor man was taken in by the person he loved so much. She deserved life without parole, she stole her friends money, and premeditated her murder. Evil has no bounds!

    • @ellakajfasz2569
      @ellakajfasz2569 Рік тому +7

      I didn't hear the whole case, but it didn't sound like it was premeditated if she had already spent all the money but didn't kill her until the day she asked for it back.

    • @kevdimo6459
      @kevdimo6459 Рік тому +33

      @@ellakajfasz2569 so they just so happened to meet up on a farm that her relatives own. She filled in the grave with concrete she purchased from a hardware store! What about her using the husband’s phone and not her own. Sounds premeditated to me. 😁

    • @mark7831
      @mark7831 Рік тому

      So sad, I went true same with my woman gave her not everything but alot

    • @thearsenal5537
      @thearsenal5537 Рік тому

      Lol. He’s got you.

    • @menjolno
      @menjolno Рік тому

      she deserve it not for what she did. but for getting more funding for the prisons. we need prison reform

  • @dexagalapagos
    @dexagalapagos Рік тому +3229

    Holy crap. It's scary to think people are willing to take someone's life over something as little as $30k.

    • @aTalkingPizza
      @aTalkingPizza Рік тому +654

      Not trying to be contrarian, but people get killed for waaaaay less then 30k, which is at least somewhat substantial. But I agree, it's sad and pathetic.

    • @RogerThat1945
      @RogerThat1945 Рік тому +90

      Some people would kill for our bike being thieved. Specifically when it is maybe 50% of anything significant we owned at the time.

    • @C0ncep1t
      @C0ncep1t Рік тому +256

      Not justifying it, but $30k is far from little,

    • @jeffhicks8428
      @jeffhicks8428 Рік тому +88

      @@C0ncep1t Bro. Overconsuming Americans who make 30k a year drive cars that cost more than 30k. Yes, it's all done through easy credit, but still. I make way more than that, several times that, but I have rarely spent more than half of that on a car. 30k ain't shit in the grand scheme of things. Tons of folks have retirement accounts that swing more than 30k down or up in a week sometimes. Anyone that thinks 30k is worth a life is insane.

    • @i-am-your-conscience
      @i-am-your-conscience Рік тому +16

      And then how sloppy this was made. I somehow feel she almost wanted to be caught, out of some weird reason

  • @Anythingforfreedom
    @Anythingforfreedom 10 місяців тому +142

    He seems truly disappointed in how poorly she planned out the murder.

  • @claymac7895
    @claymac7895 Рік тому +1582

    This man had no idea how close he came to getting charged in this murder. Had Ashley lied and said he was in on it he’d have got life.

    • @whyumadtho355
      @whyumadtho355 Рік тому +511

      100%. Garauntee he would've been even placed as the master mind of the whole thing solely because he was a man

    • @cchewyy.
      @cchewyy. Рік тому +118

      unfortunate truth

    • @dovidstaples9985
      @dovidstaples9985 Рік тому +308

      Reason #274 for why you NEVER talk to cops without a lawyer no matter how innocent you are

    • @jennifersilves4195
      @jennifersilves4195 Рік тому +23

      ​@@whyumadtho355Because he's a cop.

    • @GeraltzCrafta
      @GeraltzCrafta Рік тому +96

      @@dovidstaples9985He had a lawyer present

  • @kjul.
    @kjul. Рік тому +509

    That poor husband. He seems like an amazing person and I hope he's happy as of now.

    • @acousticshadow4032
      @acousticshadow4032 8 місяців тому +18

      Happy??? I'd say his happiness went out the window here.

    • @djboogieboy
      @djboogieboy 8 місяців тому

      Happy???? She also was piped by another dude and out killing someone at the same time!!!😂

    • @batrachology
      @batrachology 7 місяців тому +18

      @@acousticshadow4032literally. I’d imagine how sad he would feel after finding out his own wife that he thought he could trust is a murderer

    • @Fat12219
      @Fat12219 4 місяці тому

      But think 🤔 back of his wife 🤔 😮😢

  • @marcedoreste
    @marcedoreste Рік тому +1802

    Man, this legit gives chills.
    Imagine spending your life with the person you love only to find out she's a monster-the worst type of monster

    • @sweetkiwipie1569
      @sweetkiwipie1569 Рік тому +46

      I respect your opinion, but I disagree.kid rapists/killers are the worst monsters

    • @MehrubaAfroz
      @MehrubaAfroz Рік тому +57

      ​@@sweetkiwipie1569yes, but that doesnt make monsters like her any less. The wife over here doesnt deserve any form of forgiveness

    • @basic6735
      @basic6735 Рік тому +27

      @@MehrubaAfrozI reckon murderers are worst, personally I don’t believe in an afterlife and the thought of losing your one singular chance to walk this earth to some monster is terrifying, at the very least with being raped there is a chance of recovery, no matter how small

    • @franciscodonato9912
      @franciscodonato9912 Рік тому +1

      as long as they dont try to kill me or make me a accomplice i dont care 😅

    • @joecharles5368
      @joecharles5368 Рік тому +1

      You don't even need to be a person of color always. Hmmm🤔

  • @juliesprutte4653
    @juliesprutte4653 4 місяці тому +16

    He really seems so genuine and sweet. I feel really bad for him. Also, great job bringing your lawyer as a lawyer should always be present when you are being questioned.

  • @Eazy-ERyder
    @Eazy-ERyder Рік тому +189

    I'm glad this one isn't so ridiculously long and drawn out like most other YT crime interview

    • @SpaceJockey805
      @SpaceJockey805 Рік тому +6

      Except when it’s long and drawn out, you get a little more context. I prefer a long interrogation video, I’ve learned a lot more from those rather than these short videos that skim over a lot of important info. In my opinion, this is one of the weaker true crime channels

    • @Carolinas_SweetTea
      @Carolinas_SweetTea Рік тому +2

      Me too it was straight to the point ☝️❤

    • @Eazy-ERyder
      @Eazy-ERyder Рік тому +1

      @@SpaceJockey805 I can respect that completely

    • @boxingstar7749
      @boxingstar7749 Рік тому

      ​@@Eazy-ERyderThank you for respecting it completely. Complete efforts shall not go unnoticed.

    • @ekaterinas8796
      @ekaterinas8796 Рік тому

      Agreed, this is why I am watching!

  • @philochristos
    @philochristos Рік тому +2717

    Which is worse? Finding out that your wife cheated on you, or finding out that your wife committed murder?

    • @tariqifield6178
      @tariqifield6178 Рік тому +131

      Great Question Sam

    • @humanitykrusher8132
      @humanitykrusher8132 Рік тому +720

      Cheating.

    • @desvdam
      @desvdam Рік тому +253

      First one for sure, i rather deal with disappointment and disgust than heartbreak, might be my BPD talking tho 😂

    • @mikebaker9574
      @mikebaker9574 Рік тому +37

      Tricky question!

    • @colormebrave2231
      @colormebrave2231 Рік тому

      a woman would say murder while I think a man would say cheated on you

  • @AngryBoozer
    @AngryBoozer Рік тому +260

    I question the reliability of these "signs of guilt".
    I look stressed and guilty when I walk out of a shop without buying anything.

    • @ipilotaneva2586
      @ipilotaneva2586 Рік тому

      it’s copaganda. Cop interrogation techniques like the Reid technique are proven time and time again to be bunk. Their intent is to prove everyone who walks in as guilty

    • @Mereologist
      @Mereologist 5 місяців тому +4

      In a real analysis of body language, it is contrasted in different situations with a person's normal posture and the like. As you observe, some people just look a certain way for completely different reasons.

    • @jeremiahbabin2638
      @jeremiahbabin2638 5 місяців тому +5

      Maybe if you weren't stealing stuff, you wouldn't feel so guilty.

    • @BettyFL
      @BettyFL 4 місяці тому +8

      @@jeremiahbabin2638Not nice. Sticker shock is stressful enough. Maybe someone wants to buy a gift but realizes they can’t afford what the person wants. SMH.

    • @pandadoublexl
      @pandadoublexl 4 місяці тому +2

      It's such bogus content and the exact kind of nonsense used to wrongfully convict people all of the time. It won't be long before this channel and many others will find themselves on the wrong side of the truth.

  • @thickerconstrictor9037
    @thickerconstrictor9037 8 місяців тому +21

    Thank you for pointing out all the things that guilty people versus innocent people tend to do in interrogations I'm taking detailed notes and practicing

  • @gaiusbaltar8915
    @gaiusbaltar8915 Рік тому +198

    07:06 "Zach's open body language indicates no signs of guilt."
    **WRONG!** His open body language indicates that he *trusts the investigators.*
    This is an important distinction, because *distrust* of the investigators could have come from *anything.*
    * Who knows that the cops are competent enough to actually figure out your innocence?
    * Who knows that they aren't just sloppy, latch onto the first piece of evicence and call it a day?
    * Who knows that they have good intentions to begin with?
    These are all questions that could pop up in one's head when you are being investigated for bloody *murder,* so conflating *trust* with guilt or innocence is a very dangerous thing.

    • @moniqueloomis9772
      @moniqueloomis9772 Рік тому +9

      Yeah, I don't understand why most people don't understand or know that. 😮

    • @busraterzi8189
      @busraterzi8189 10 місяців тому +4

      THIS! YES!

    • @JohnDoe-po3ku
      @JohnDoe-po3ku 9 місяців тому +7

      Body language analysis is quackery

    • @neonjoe529
      @neonjoe529 9 місяців тому +1

      ​@karlwithak. Wrong - reading body language is a useful tool that can be used as a guide for investigators. It's true that it's not a replacement for evidence, but saying it's meaningless is incorrect.

    • @Kadaspala
      @Kadaspala 8 місяців тому +3

      ​​@@neonjoe529Nah, body language experts have been demonstrated to be unreliable pseudoscience grifters pretty thoroughly at this point.
      The issue is that, while body language can be indicative of certain emotional states, it's:
      1) Not universally reliable. Different cultural backgrounds, body types, disabilities, neurodivergences, etc can produce a wide range of various body languages for various reasons without true reliable consistency. The neurodivergent aspect in particular is a huge issue with "body language forensics", as anyone even slightly familiar with autism, ADHD, etc will note how the vast majority of what so-called body language experts cite as signs of guilts are literally just common neurodivergent symptoms such as aversion to eye contact and fidgeting.
      2) Plagued by bias when used as "evidence." Like what is often considered indicative of guilt is actually just indicative of anxiety, but it's presumed by police that said anxiety itself is an indication of guilt, as opposed to indicative of...y'know, being interrogated by police.
      The vast majority of body language expert content -- this video included -- are from a retrospective perspective. It's kinda like a psychic telling you about the world events of yesterday. Once you already know the outcome of a case it's incredibly easy to go back and cherry pick body language claiming that it's clear evidence.
      But actual science and controlled studies have shown that the predictions and assertions of body language experts without the benefit of retrospection are less reliable than a random coin flip. It's not a real science, it's pseudoscience sophistry that's nevertheless endorsed by law enforcement as it gives them more excuses and power to accuse and detain people with impunity -- they just have to cite "suspicious body language".

  • @Letsdolunch2023
    @Letsdolunch2023 Рік тому +60

    She will be approximately 71 years old before she has a chance of parole. Glad that she was brought to justice and will pay for her crimes.

    • @MrJsv650
      @MrJsv650 Рік тому +4

      She aged about thirty years between her interviews arrest and prosecution.

    • @Fat12219
      @Fat12219 4 місяці тому

      71 years old 😮

    • @tsitracommunications2884
      @tsitracommunications2884 3 місяці тому +2

      She'll need an atm card for that

  • @JLB6250
    @JLB6250 Рік тому +201

    I love the fact that one of the main reasons he couldn't believe she did it was just how sloppy the murder was committed

    • @rosesweetcharlotte
      @rosesweetcharlotte Рік тому +8

      This was the best part lol
      Like, surely my intelligent, educated wife could do better than that?

  • @SammyNeedsAnAlibi
    @SammyNeedsAnAlibi 11 місяців тому +178

    My heart goes out to Zach and hope he gets whatever help he needs to get through this. ☮☮

    • @charlesadams8279
      @charlesadams8279 9 місяців тому

      this is the truth- there is a spiritual war that influences the physical world. The people in power in power worship an entity named lucifer. That name is only found in The Bible and satan tried to tempt Jesus Christ with all the kingdoms of the world if He bowed down and worshipped him. Jesus did not but the people with the most influence- celebrities, politicians, billionaires, etc- they have. The first description of satan in The Bible is that he is subtle- and in the world the media subtly leads people away from the truth. The only religious figure that these people are against is Jesus Christ. Do not be turned away by the name of Jesus- this is the truth and the video proves it beyond any amount of doubt. I know the video is long but look at the comments from the people that watched the video if you want to know it’s credibility. This satanic group is what people call the illuminati.
      this video im linking below proves this
      http s: // youtu. be/ gbUK 4cFCTPg
      no spaces

  • @currenteventsenthusiast9477
    @currenteventsenthusiast9477 Рік тому +235

    Imagine spending all that time in prison over 34K…. Life you could have just picked some overtime for 12-18 months but instead you lose 25 years.. What was she thinking

    • @tinknal6449
      @tinknal6449 Рік тому +5

      Makes me wonder if she had run the business into the ground and she was afraid the husband was about to find out.

    • @jagenv
      @jagenv Рік тому +9

      She could of made an onlyfans and maybe made it even quicker ..

    • @shelocsher2396
      @shelocsher2396 Рік тому +2

      Right. Or take out a damn loan. Smh two lives wasted

    • @tinknal6449
      @tinknal6449 Рік тому +5

      @@shelocsher2396 3 counting her husband, or maybe he dodged a huge bullet.

    • @dantegreen7642
      @dantegreen7642 Рік тому +8

      If you watch the other videos about her she spent most of that money on her side boyfriend she bought him a bought and a bunch of other things

  • @ragreenburg
    @ragreenburg Рік тому +495

    The fact that he went to the bank to get a statement to make a timeline for his day is incredible. I literally would have never thought of that.

    • @kavyat.5614
      @kavyat.5614 Рік тому +100

      i mean he was a pi himself once so i guess he has a good idea on what would prove his innocence

    • @pilarq7886
      @pilarq7886 Рік тому +14

      Im not a PI and long ago i thought the only thing i could think of was call the bank to see what transactions i INITIATED ...NOT processed on said date... I wonder if a satellite can regurgitate what we watched on TV on said date.. Also your computer search engine could help too... my cats help ..well shes napping ALL the time -she didnt see nothing

    • @benjoseph25
      @benjoseph25 Рік тому +6

      @@pilarq7886 I'm sorry but what does PI mean? Is that like a term? Thanks 😊

    • @kimeurich5204
      @kimeurich5204 Рік тому

      ​​​private investigator

    • @jonah6300
      @jonah6300 Рік тому +17

      @@benjoseph25private investigator

  • @scottscott6794
    @scottscott6794 Рік тому +519

    My heart goes out to the family that lost a beautiful child. I am grateful for the detectives to put this monster behind bars forever.

    • @sailingelectricgitana1286
      @sailingelectricgitana1286 Рік тому +19

      She was hiding money from her husband prior to divorcing him. Hardly a lady or "beautiful child". Seems like she was a lying, conniving woman to me. Part of me wants to say she got what she deserved. I have to stop myself from thinking that way. Quite frankly I think both husbands here are better off to be rid of these witches.

    • @Dr.Mcstaby
      @Dr.Mcstaby Рік тому +5

      sigh if only we would quit putting these things in boxes and just put them in the dirt so we did not have to pay for them and they would not to make big jails for them out of tax payers money the world we be a safer place cause a dead criminal can't hurt anyone anymore.

    • @Derek_Wyld
      @Derek_Wyld Рік тому

      @@Dr.Mcstaby I mean you're not wrong...at all. It sucks, but you're not

    • @scorpion407
      @scorpion407 Рік тому

      @@Dr.Mcstaby Let's say however that there is a re-incarnation. Would you rather let such a soul re-incarnate and start a new life or let it suffer till the rest of its current life?

    • @RaphaelDawkinsCombatRadio
      @RaphaelDawkinsCombatRadio Рік тому

      She stole the husbands money, gave it to Ashley to hide it, Ashely spent it, the judge told the fiend if she doesn't return the money by......he would jail her. When she asked Ashley for the money she stole Ashley takes her for a drive to a relatives farm and puts a slug in the back of her head. Nothing beautiful there, quite ugly actually.

  • @diggy-d8w
    @diggy-d8w 4 місяці тому +15

    As I watch this strong man show how he defends himself of a crime, I can't help but to wonder about other innocent folks who
    aren't as mentally strong or able to hold up under the pressure of such an investigation? I imagine many wind up going down
    for crimes they might not have committed? How many just cave in & admit just to end the tense situation? Just wondering.
    peace & GB ALL

  • @brenreidy8763
    @brenreidy8763 Рік тому +335

    You mean we dont have to watch the ENTIRE interrogation to be entertained!? A MIRACLE! Thank you!

    • @aidanc9396
      @aidanc9396 Рік тому +9

      Yes, consoom, let the short-form content rot your mind

    • @brenreidy8763
      @brenreidy8763 Рік тому +28

      @@aidanc9396 Agreed about short form, but 11 minutes isnt considered short form quite yet is it? Im thinking less than 2 minutes.

  • @V.Oakley
    @V.Oakley Рік тому +116

    How disturbing is this! 😢 I feel really bad for this guy.

  • @samathythemanathy8112
    @samathythemanathy8112 Рік тому +650

    An important thing to consider when evaluating Zach's body language is it sounds like he is a former investigator or at the very least has friends who are. He has confidence and experience in the system, making him more comfortable in it.
    JCS has an interesting video on innocent questionings and the majority are nothing like this but instead very uncomfortable experiences for the innocent who don't have experience and are afraid of being falsely accused.

    • @samathythemanathy8112
      @samathythemanathy8112 Рік тому +14

      @@anonyms1828 Ah cheers, must have missed it. Clearly experienced and comfortable with the system then.

    • @Johnny_Silverhand1
      @Johnny_Silverhand1 Рік тому +6

      @@coachellalyricist its mentioned in the video also bruv. Read the sub comment two comments above yours

    • @wildca1x1
      @wildca1x1 Рік тому +8

      He mentions in one of the first sentences he worked PI cases.

    • @sleepyNovember_project
      @sleepyNovember_project Рік тому +3

      Imagine how a falsely accused social phobe was brought in for interrogation

    • @Kyle_Riel
      @Kyle_Riel Рік тому +9

      He framed his wife and paid his bills with the victims money. No doubt

  • @lornbaker1083
    @lornbaker1083 8 місяців тому +8

    You can literally feel the devastation in this man once he actually clicks. god bless this poor man

  • @YedidyahPorasy
    @YedidyahPorasy Рік тому +546

    No one we like is capable of anything like that until reality decides to beat the sh*t out of our innocence.

    • @clursunny
      @clursunny Рік тому +18

      I loved the clickbait though, making it look like if the detective was the wife

    • @kristinsevin
      @kristinsevin Рік тому +18

      On the contrary. Something I learned early in life is absolutely EVERYBODY is capable of horrible things. Everybody. No exceptions. And you'd be surprised who's WILLING.

    • @jgs_gamestudio9096
      @jgs_gamestudio9096 Рік тому +9

      ​@kristinsevin No not everybody, that's false as hell. Some would literally rather commit suicide than kill another person.

    • @kevinexline5392
      @kevinexline5392 Рік тому +4

      @@jgs_gamestudio9096 being willing and being capable are two entirely different things. No person has ever existed, exists, or will ever exist that isn’t capable of atrocious shit. I’m tired of the saying that humans are a good species that sometimes do bad things. No, humans are a terrible species fueled by greed, hate, envy, etc that are capable of doing some good every once in a while. Just because you aren’t willing to do bad, doesn’t mean that human nature doesn’t lend itself to being capable of doing bad.

    • @jgs_gamestudio9096
      @jgs_gamestudio9096 Рік тому +11

      @kevinexline5392 no offense but that sounds dumb af. That's like saying anyone is capable of picking up a knife and stabbing the closet person, like no shit.
      But some people, would never - ever kill another human being, because they decided internally that they would never do so - under any circumstance.

  • @dannymartial7997
    @dannymartial7997 11 місяців тому +304

    I feel so bad for him. Divorce sucks, but having a murderer wife is worse. How do you even recover from that? Finding out the person you trust most is actually a murderer is insane.

    • @brian4180
      @brian4180 10 місяців тому +14

      Nah, at least she doesn't take half his money this way

    • @bibsp3556
      @bibsp3556 10 місяців тому +13

      Would make the divorce easier

    • @KoolT
      @KoolT 10 місяців тому +5

      It's like a death. You don't fully recover.

    • @shir0671
      @shir0671 9 місяців тому +4

      Not really. nothing is worse than divorse in Murica

    • @priscillawagner6205
      @priscillawagner6205 9 місяців тому +1

      Imagine trying to date after that. Explaining that you've been married before. Or your date googling you and your first wife

  • @travisera1
    @travisera1 Рік тому +407

    Over a 34k shopping spree? If that is how little someone values a friendship, let alone a friends freaking life, that person is a psychopath. She will still be a danger to society in 25 years. Keep her locked up for life.

    • @lastcallbartendingla8849
      @lastcallbartendingla8849 Рік тому +21

      Let alone anyone’s life really. A normal person would value a complete strangers life more than $34k.

    • @abouttime2569
      @abouttime2569 Рік тому

      I have read news on people killing for less than that

    • @bobarcher5837
      @bobarcher5837 Рік тому

      @@lastcallbartendingla8849 People get murdered for less than that literally every single day

    • @TheCabledawg1
      @TheCabledawg1 Рік тому +30

      People have been killed for alot less....like road rage...or I rememeber this case where a lady was killed over $8.

    • @polarvortex3294
      @polarvortex3294 Рік тому +15

      @@TheCabledawg1 I think that with road rage, and many other murderous crimes, the victim can become a kind of a symbol in the mind of the killer of all the people that have annoyed and disrespected him over the years -- people he was unable to punish as he'd have liked to. In this way, even a very small incident can trigger a kind of avalanche. It's like they say, "I've had enough of these *&# holes!" This is just one reason why it's unwise to push people. You don't know what they've been bottling up or how they'll see you.

  • @gradetrend8138
    @gradetrend8138 4 місяці тому +10

    Good he had his attorney with him. The interrogators didn't tell him upfront that his wife was the prime suspect . The purpose of this interview was probably to ascertain if he was an accomplice, turn him against his wife, or see what he may have knew about the financial aspect of the crime, or if he helped her cover it up after the fact. His attorney shut all of this down! He wasn't involved in ANY aspect of this crime.. and he was smart enough to have representation to protect him from a false conviction!

  • @dawnatkinson7704
    @dawnatkinson7704 Рік тому +374

    Interesting that he says it couldn't be her because it was sloppy and not that she could never do anything so horrific.

    • @Laxbros1142
      @Laxbros1142 Рік тому +44

      Thought the same. Obviously the video is cropped but if that was his first thought…well his wife couldn’t have been a very good person to begin with hahah

    • @diligentsun1154
      @diligentsun1154 Рік тому +12

      What 'private investigator' AND former cop is that unaware?
      There's a rat somewhere, as yet uncovered.
      Believe THAT.

    • @crissyoi
      @crissyoi Рік тому +2

      I mean also, if I'm being questioned and not told I'm a suspect, why on earth go pull my own bank statements to clear my name? Odd.

    • @spoopy132
      @spoopy132 Рік тому +38

      ​@crissyoi I mean, if the cops wanna know where I was the day of a murder and I can't remember then that's probably exactly what I'd do

    • @burningdaylights
      @burningdaylights Рік тому +30

      @crissyoi
      The video said they wanted to know what he did that day, so he pulled statements to see where he'd been, because he didn't remember. If they asked me where I was a certain day, I'd need a calendar, refer to my schedule for that week, and if I happened to be in another town on business or something, bank records sure would be handy to have if you don't save every receipt you're given.

  • @irwinelgrande5350
    @irwinelgrande5350 Рік тому +93

    PSA Reminder: Don't talk to cops without a lawyer, even if you're innocent, specially if you're innocent.

    • @RodCornholio
      @RodCornholio Рік тому +15

      Sound logic. You will never become "more innocent" by talking to them.

    • @PocketKneif
      @PocketKneif 9 місяців тому +2

      Especially about a murder.

    • @geoninja8971
      @geoninja8971 9 місяців тому +1

      @@PocketKneif Especially when they start asking you about your movements!

    • @johanstinson
      @johanstinson 4 місяці тому +1

      His lawyer is literally sitting right there

  • @MyCometsDeparture
    @MyCometsDeparture Рік тому +131

    I apperciate your style of commentary! Other creators will stop every 10 seconds to explain why someone blinked and it drives me nuts.

  • @jackal7610
    @jackal7610 11 місяців тому +74

    This guy was nuts for talking to the cops. Never, ever cooperate. That's a great way for an innocent person to go to jail.

    • @jmackmcneill
      @jmackmcneill 9 місяців тому +6

      He was a cop himself.

    • @ihawms950
      @ihawms950 7 місяців тому +3

      He probably knows more than the detectives interviewing him. He knew what he was doing. Also, in the video it is mentioned that he did talk to his attorney.

    • @gradetrend8138
      @gradetrend8138 5 місяців тому +4

      He had a lawyer in the room who was sitting right next to him the lawyer shut down any questions they attempted to frame him

    • @cj45cal
      @cj45cal 5 місяців тому +1

      Put the stolen money in her own account? Duhh

    • @wilfredoatienza9232
      @wilfredoatienza9232 2 місяці тому

      Deadpool u​@@ihawms950

  • @astralfluxaf
    @astralfluxaf Рік тому +120

    Liked for being 10 minutes long instead of 2 hours 👍

    • @jrchmgn.
      @jrchmgn. Рік тому +1

      Yes this is not EWU.

    • @JussCarm
      @JussCarm Рік тому +2

      Yess😅 samee

  • @cornonthecob1268
    @cornonthecob1268 Рік тому +72

    Just a footnote: educated and intelligence are two totally different categories

    • @jaymatthews9324
      @jaymatthews9324 Рік тому

      Intelligent people are good a critical thinking, can entertain complex conditional hypotheticals, and often get away with stuff like this.
      "Educated" just means you can follow instructions, you're half decent at rote memorization, or you're likeable, attractive, good at manipulation, a cheater, etc.
      They aren't mutually exclusive, but there is a clear distinction between the concepts. There are high IQ bums, and room temp IQ millionaires. Never assume someone is smart based on a peice of paper.

    • @aqua6613
      @aqua6613 Рік тому

      Ex ducare in Latin means to lead out of..and inter legere means to lay into or to impart.
      I suppose you can be educated and still a dumbass and you can be intelligent even without education. It's fortunate when intelligence and education have a meeting in a person's life.
      I was educated, but I hardly used any of the knowledge that was imparted into me in school...they are merely snapple facts at this point and little trinkets like Christmas ornaments on my mental tree.
      I drive a truck where I have all day to marvel over my mental tinsel and then sometimes I shake my head and some of it falls into someone else's lap 😆

    • @Carolinas_SweetTea
      @Carolinas_SweetTea Рік тому +1

      Right cause he was like she's intelligent she has a master / bachelor degree one of the two 😂 I was like ummm. 😳☝️ Baby. Lmao it's not funny but that sent me to the moon 😂 I was like WTF does a degree have to do with anything when you are a sick minded person.

    • @Tarlyne
      @Tarlyne Рік тому

      ​@carolinasweettea3 its has nothing to do with her mind. He just can't believe that she murdered someone and its a sloppy murder because she has a bachelor or master in Criminology (most likely or something related).

  • @Ameliafromhere
    @Ameliafromhere Рік тому +354

    It’s obvious he loves (loved) his wife so much. My heart breaks for him.

    • @ifyourepeatalieoftenenough8500
      @ifyourepeatalieoftenenough8500 Рік тому

      Mine, too

    • @memoramos4833
      @memoramos4833 Рік тому +1

      He framed her. He used to be a a P.I.

    • @theangryparas3167
      @theangryparas3167 Рік тому +25

      ​@memoramos4833 bruh, she definitely did it. Did you not watch the video, or did you just have it in the background while playing some stupid game on your phone

    • @memoramos4833
      @memoramos4833 Рік тому +1

      @@theangryparas3167 no, your mom actually told me about it.

    • @theangryparas3167
      @theangryparas3167 Рік тому +15

      @@memoramos4833 Aight, are you a medium?

  • @unclewalt1
    @unclewalt1 6 місяців тому +23

    A private investigator who doesn't know whether his wife has a masters or a bachelors in criminal justice. Excellent.

  • @MMM18092
    @MMM18092 Рік тому +205

    His main doubt wasn't that her morals or empathy would prevent her from becoming a killer, it was that she was too smart to get caught.

    • @muridtahmatgnas2184
      @muridtahmatgnas2184 Рік тому +11

      "emotions aside"

    • @Will-nb8qk
      @Will-nb8qk Рік тому +3

      yeah true 😅

    • @dakotareid1566
      @dakotareid1566 Рік тому +11

      No, his doubt was the way that she did it, him saying “it’s just sloppy” means he would think if she did something like that she’d be more careful but instead she left tons of evidence.

    • @uwaila089
      @uwaila089 Рік тому +4

      ⁠@@dakotareid1566that’s what the OP meant lol. He felt she was too intelligent to do such a sloppy crime

    • @honiej00n75
      @honiej00n75 Рік тому +2

      And he asks I said she’s got a criminal.. and then stopped himself and they all said masters degree

  • @god-fearing6103
    @god-fearing6103 Рік тому +131

    Imagine the friend that let her hold the $34,000. The friend never imagined she would come face to face with such evil.

    • @taydestiny38
      @taydestiny38 8 місяців тому +18

      No disrespect to the dead, but are we gonna gloss over the fact, that the victim intentionally hid money from her ex husband because of the divorce settlement? She wasn’t exactly innocent.

    • @rossrobertson674
      @rossrobertson674 6 місяців тому +6

      She's pretty evil herself (not as evil) she stole $17,000 from the man who she's divorcing, that money was theirs not hers

    • @rossrobertson674
      @rossrobertson674 6 місяців тому +2

      ​@@taydestiny38 yes yes thank you, I thought I was the only person who saw that, it's 100% the move they make every time they file for divorce, go and clean out the joint accounts, I don't understand how the courts let that happen

    • @Fat12219
      @Fat12219 4 місяці тому

      Her own friend , n 34, 000 😮

  • @nihilistic7840
    @nihilistic7840 Рік тому +75

    You can have nothing to hide and still feel uncomfortable and threatened when interviewed on your own in a small room by 3 detectives who could hold your entire future in their hands

    • @55kemi
      @55kemi Рік тому +7

      I think the guy out of shot was his lawyer.

  • @xollyxolly3234
    @xollyxolly3234 10 місяців тому +20

    I held onto a relatives 22k for 7 years. When they came back to withdraw it....I gave it all to them. Never spent it. I ain't that kind of person. I may not be religious and I hate taking political sides but I always keep my word when it comes to safekeeping

    • @markherring3513
      @markherring3513 3 місяці тому

      if it was in your acocunt did u have to pay taxes on it? Doesnt the bank have to report to irs any deposites over 10 grand?

    • @IndigoStarrAz
      @IndigoStarrAz 3 місяці тому +1

      Good on you!

  • @garthg.6150
    @garthg.6150 Рік тому +41

    The cops are looking pretty suspicious, they are leaning back. Better check out their alibis.

    • @abigaildyer04
      @abigaildyer04 Рік тому +2

      ??

    • @ericwilliams1659
      @ericwilliams1659 Рік тому +2

      ​@@abigaildyer04he is making fun of how police can claim any reaction, even lack of reactions has suspicious.
      Example - Police can pull you for suspicious driving for driving under, over and the exact speed limit. There are dozens of videos on the internet about it.

  • @krashd
    @krashd Рік тому +227

    "The bad news is your wife has been cheating on you.."
    "What? What the hell is the good news?!"
    "She's going to prison until she's 90!"

    • @zombiedodge1426
      @zombiedodge1426 Рік тому +11

      "I have some bad news about your wife."
      "Did she wreck the car?"
      "No, she murdered someone."
      "But the car's okay, right?"

  • @kentbeitel9966
    @kentbeitel9966 Рік тому +262

    I feel bad for the victim and the husband. He seems like a nice guy. That’s crazy to end multiple people’s lives over a measly 34k.. I couldn’t imagine what he is feeling at that moment

    • @jamesjiao
      @jamesjiao Рік тому +2

      Victim was divorced though. Her ex was only mentioned in passing.

    • @kentbeitel9966
      @kentbeitel9966 Рік тому +9

      @@jamesjiao I meant the husband in the video

    • @rinlo1424
      @rinlo1424 Рік тому

      😊

    • @rinlo1424
      @rinlo1424 Рік тому

      😊😊

    • @timmyp34
      @timmyp34 Рік тому +12

      Partially feel bad for the victim, but she was trying to hide cash during the divorce. Oh what a tangled web we weave, when first we practice, to deceive.

  • @MccadeAlbina
    @MccadeAlbina 2 місяці тому +1

    I couldn’t stop watching! You really know how to keep your audience engaged. 👍

  • @JaySmith-pv2mw
    @JaySmith-pv2mw Рік тому +128

    Don't ever let somebody ELSE handle your finances.

    • @barbarabonnette2705
      @barbarabonnette2705 9 місяців тому +7

      Ever

    • @JoanneCopeland-d6y
      @JoanneCopeland-d6y 8 місяців тому +5

      Money is the root to evil. Taylor should never have handed over $34,000 to anyone except a financial institution.

    • @bradbutcher3984
      @bradbutcher3984 8 місяців тому +1

      Yep. My ex wife cleaned out our savings.

    • @AdamFoster-bj4yg
      @AdamFoster-bj4yg 7 місяців тому

      ​@@JoanneCopeland-d6y- Money isn't. It's the "love" of money that's the root of all evil. Not just money by itself.

    • @bentonrp
      @bentonrp 7 місяців тому +2

      @user-gf3kw4sl9q Money isn't the root of all evil. There was absolute evil in tribal humanity before money. That kind of evil still exists regardless of the existence of money.

  • @AbdulAbdul1
    @AbdulAbdul1 Рік тому +236

    Imagine someone who you loved. Someone who was kind, caring, and smart. Had told you that they'd be busy, only to find out they had committed a murder that day.

    • @0Atche0
      @0Atche0 Рік тому

      I mean, she was busy lol

    • @alaididnalid7660
      @alaididnalid7660 10 місяців тому +1

      Actually, she only checks 1 out of 3 of those boxes.

  • @jukeboxfandango
    @jukeboxfandango Рік тому +331

    When they talk about body-language in these videos, this is a great example of a guy who has nothing to hide and simply wants to set the record straight. Sits up straight, even leans into the back of the chair. Very open posture, looking everyone in the eye as he speaks, answering everything directly and quickly.

    • @g6qwerty
      @g6qwerty Рік тому +25

      I can't stand looking into people's eyes after a while is that why folks think I'm untrustworthy even though all I say is the truth?

    • @erikbudrow1255
      @erikbudrow1255 Рік тому +30

      Honestly, I was less than impressed with their assessment of his body language. They mentioned he was leaning back and also leaning forward...what other postures could he have had?? Standing on his head? LMAOOOO

    • @McFrax
      @McFrax Рік тому +2

      ​@@erikbudrow1255Lean to the sides? Move his legs? Nice good head? Nothing entirely different, but there is a ton of variations he might have been going through.

    • @erikbudrow1255
      @erikbudrow1255 Рік тому +1

      @@McFrax Right, so no matter what other nuances he does with his posture makes no bit of difference lmao ...unless there's some expert out there that can convince me otherwise lol

    • @McFrax
      @McFrax Рік тому +5

      @@erikbudrow1255 There was another video of a women that was relatively calm until the interview started pointing at her being guilty, at which point she started rocking back and forth, and eventually spinning around, making big circles with her head. I think she stopped that only after it became clear that she's done.
      These reactions are not a proof anyway, but they can be a strong hint one way or the other.

  • @LucienShowler
    @LucienShowler 10 місяців тому +1

    This dude is so genuine and honest, he’s so refreshing 😭

  • @retnuHDJ
    @retnuHDJ Рік тому +67

    If I was ever accused of murder, I don't think my body language would be anywhere close to calm lol

    • @erikbudrow1255
      @erikbudrow1255 Рік тому +6

      Seriously I'd have to really convince myself to chill out. But on the inside I'd be like "SHIT THIS IS GETTING PINNED ON ME AND I DIDN'T DO A GOD D*MN THING!" 😳😅😰☠😞

    • @0Atche0
      @0Atche0 Рік тому

      If you didn't do it, they wouldn't have any evidence of you doing it, so why would you be panicking unless something was linking you to it

    • @erikbudrow1255
      @erikbudrow1255 Рік тому +17

      @@0Atche0 People get falsely accused all the time because evidence seems to pointing in a direction that isn't actually consistent with reality.

    • @0Atche0
      @0Atche0 Рік тому

      @@erikbudrow1255 pointing at and having concrete evidence is not the same, unless you get framed by someone, you are most likely going to be fine due to lack of evidence

    • @erikbudrow1255
      @erikbudrow1255 Рік тому

      @@0Atche0 *Most likely* yes, but the *evidence* shows that people get wrongly accused AND CONVICTED all the time without being framed. Hell, when I was arrested, both the police officer and I were asked to give written accounts of the event and I got to see what he wrote (it was my legal right). There were lots of details that did not line up. Go figure.
      Get with reality bro. This "justice" system is far from perfect and I have learned from multiple experiences to stay far far away from any activity that could put me on the radar of the authorities because the truth gets distorted so incredibly easily and shit happens to people who don't deserve it.

  • @TommyFlanagan666
    @TommyFlanagan666 Рік тому +472

    Genuine narcissism of Ashley’s caliber is one of the most dangerous personality disorders there is. She committed this crime basically right under her husband’s nose, and even with a good deal of evidence pointing directly at her he can’t seem to imagine her guilty of the crime. A narcissist will mind kcuf you in ways you never thought possible. My best friend is still recovering (cPTSD) from a relationship with just this kind of person and it’s been over a decade since they parted ways. If evil exists, my friend’s former girlfriend was its personification. I sincerely hope the gentleman in this video is able to pull his life back together and put this chapter in his rear view mirror.

    • @noflyguy7321
      @noflyguy7321 Рік тому +11

      Well written, loved the read.

    • @SonyCamry
      @SonyCamry Рік тому +2

      agree.,

    • @tabby7189
      @tabby7189 Рік тому +3

      He seems well enough integrated into society. As someone who almost certainly has CPTSD, I predict that he will find his way.

    • @carpathianken
      @carpathianken Рік тому +10

      That's the thing with narcissism, their sense of entitlement is through the roof.
      So when Taylor asked Ashley to return the $34,000 she'd given her for safekeeping back the sense of entitlement Ashley had for the money sent her into a narcissistic rage that let to the murder & the lack of empathy towards her victim which is also a notorious narcissistic trait led to the subsequent attempt to the sloppy cover up.

    • @tabby7189
      @tabby7189 Рік тому +8

      @@carpathianken I hadn't considered that narcissism could contribute to the sloppiness in covering up, but now that you say it, I can see the connection

  • @DeeRuss
    @DeeRuss Рік тому +51

    I’m the type of person to act nervous and guilty even though I didn’t do nothing wrong 😂 just all them people looking at me and being cornered wouldnt make me feel right

    • @gcailynn888
      @gcailynn888 Рік тому +5

      right 😭

    • @cba4389
      @cba4389 Рік тому +2

      Body language is bogus.

    • @HaYlEeXx19
      @HaYlEeXx19 Рік тому +2

      Same. I have huge anxiety problems. I’d be freaking out 😅😅😅I’d look so guilty

    • @nightmarerex2035
      @nightmarerex2035 Рік тому

      @@cba4389 might aas well be alien langudge from 9 million universes away if your atutistic.

  • @JoJoWolf693
    @JoJoWolf693 4 місяці тому +4

    It is nice to see honesty

  • @gabrielpierce1985
    @gabrielpierce1985 Рік тому +24

    speechless. i’ve seen countless videos about this case on youtube- including major broadcasters- like dateline and 48 hours. this is the first i think any of us have seen this video/his side of things. well done, you deserve all the followers for both just copying and pasting the same bullet points

  • @seabass7282
    @seabass7282 Рік тому +370

    As someone with severe ADHD, I’ve always wondered if interrogators take into account the inability to sit still or maintain a calm and comfortable demeanour when interrogating. I assume they’d have medical records, but I also feel that the very real effects and symptoms of ADHD or similar ailments like Acute Anxiety Disorder are rarely taken seriously. I’d be interested to know if an innocent person shifting in their seat due to ADHD would be more likely to be seen as guilty because of body language? Would anyone be able to substantiate this?

    • @paulmryglod4802
      @paulmryglod4802 Рік тому +94

      In school, I was accused of vandalism and because I was squirming in my seat, I got detention without any other evidence. Tuned out to be my buddy who did it (drawing on the playground equipment).
      So, from my adhd perspective, yeah it doesn't help.

    • @BspVfxzVraPQ
      @BspVfxzVraPQ Рік тому +22

      They look at change in behavior. Especially when they increase the pressure.

    • @bobbyswain7049
      @bobbyswain7049 Рік тому +71

      thats why you never say a word to em without a lawyer present

    • @peterhernandez7817
      @peterhernandez7817 Рік тому +4

      Of course they do

    • @newerest1
      @newerest1 Рік тому

      Body language can be used in a court trial I'm sure, but it's hardly convincing evidence if that's ALL there is. It'll just make the cops look for more evidence (that shouldn't exist), and yeah that could lead to them trying to pin a circumstantial case on you.
      The key is to never commit crimes...
      The comment above above the school system shows how those punishments get dealt - essentially by a dictator. Judge, jury, executioner.

  • @erinrothermel6569
    @erinrothermel6569 Рік тому +33

    That poor guy. He didn't want to hear what his gut was telling him. I hope he and Taylor's loved ones can all find peace. Ashley, on the other hand.....

  • @sandersson2813
    @sandersson2813 10 місяців тому +11

    When someone is described as "super intelligent" you know they are not.

    • @LaurieWilliams-lk8fc
      @LaurieWilliams-lk8fc 4 місяці тому

      Says someone who writes "they are" to refer to one person.

    • @sandersson2813
      @sandersson2813 4 місяці тому +1

      @@LaurieWilliams-lk8fc It's perfectly acceptable. This isn't a pronoun issue.
      I wasn't even referring to this individual, I was referring to when you hear any hear anyone claim this.

    • @LaurieWilliams-lk8fc
      @LaurieWilliams-lk8fc 4 місяці тому

      @@sandersson2813 "It's perfectly acceptable" - in whose opinion?
      Someone who lacks the ability to count to 2?
      "someone is .. they are" - why not "someone are .. they is"?
      Muddling singulars and plurals results in ambiguity and loss of function of language.

    • @sandersson2813
      @sandersson2813 4 місяці тому

      @@LaurieWilliams-lk8fc You're being a moron.
      I wasn't referring to this person. I said when "someone is described as". That could relate to ANYONE.

  • @Vladx35
    @Vladx35 Рік тому +87

    When it hit him, I can't imagine what went on in his mind.

  • @ricklehurst
    @ricklehurst Рік тому +18

    FYI: Body language has been debunked as useless in determining whether someone is telling the truth.

    • @-.__Hazel__.-
      @-.__Hazel__.- Рік тому +5

      It’s not something that you can use as an evidence in court but it helps the detectives to form better questions and direct the interrogation to fruitful results! So it’s not useless but not always helpful!

    • @phapnui
      @phapnui 5 місяців тому

      @@-.__Hazel__.- I concur. Same deal with lie detectors. Ironic that so much weight given to eyewitness testimony, one of the lowest levels of evidence from a scientific perspective.

    • @johanstinson
      @johanstinson 4 місяці тому +1

      It sure hasn't.

    • @ricklehurst
      @ricklehurst 4 місяці тому +1

      @@johanstinson in your bubble perhaps.

  • @annettegreen5474
    @annettegreen5474 Рік тому +31

    You actually don't see him realizing that his wife is a murderer, which is annoying when that's what the heading states.

    • @JustMarty
      @JustMarty 9 місяців тому +3

      8:00 around that time you can see he's starting to piece it together.

  • @TammieBuckeye
    @TammieBuckeye 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so very much for how you did this and gave us the ending of what happen in court. Love it

  • @AllenHanPR
    @AllenHanPR Рік тому +90

    This woman also stole money from her family by skimming money from their rental business. When she was about to meet up to answer for the missing money. Their business burned down she was charged with Arson and Stealing from her own family. She also stole $100K from her husband so she gave it a guy she was cheated with on her husband. She already had evil tendencies, The murder was just extra.

  • @cd8361
    @cd8361 Рік тому +44

    See, only 25 years sounds insane to me. In my opinion, she should absolutely, at the VERY least, spend the rest of her life in prison.

    • @telefon8102
      @telefon8102 Рік тому

      I think live in prison is debatable here, she do not deserve it.

  • @shawcore3607
    @shawcore3607 Рік тому +52

    Just imagine if this guy had a life insurance...........

  • @ZephlarNation
    @ZephlarNation 6 місяців тому +9

    What man just gives his wife his money and doesn't have any handle on finances? That's wild.

  • @peachesdixon7567
    @peachesdixon7567 Рік тому +106

    Poor guy. He realizes that the evidence is pointing to his wife, but he simply can not admit it is possible.

    • @Rhaspun
      @Rhaspun Рік тому +6

      Yes. He will block that thought from taking over his mind as long as he can. But there comes a point where it becomes impossible.

    • @TheMattVis
      @TheMattVis Рік тому +3

      In fact, usually most times when people try their best to search a clue to prove someone they trusted is innocence, they would find more and more proof that they aren't.

  • @alby7186
    @alby7186 Рік тому +56

    This makes me remember the time I was interrogated by 2 sheriff officers in my parents house when I was a teenager. My parents weren't home and me and my buddy had just finished smoking back to back joints when we saw 2 nicely dressed men walking up to the front door, in my mind I thought they were religious people coming to talk about God. I answered the door and was confused when I realized they weren't religious people. I couldnt figure out why they were there and then they showed their badge and my paranoia ramped up to 1000, I was flustered and ended up letting them in the house. Someone had used a stolen credit card to make online purchases, which were being delivered to another house on my street, and sheriffs claimed whoever was doing it was using our wifi network. They interrogated me and my friend for hours, found my friends weed, called my dad at work - it was and awful experience. I had no idea what they were talking about but they kept alot of pressure, treating me as if I was guilty. They would turn everything i said around on me to the point that I was starting to snap. My dad allowed them to take the computer and I think some other stuff. The way they were acting I thought I was in legit trouble but by the next day they basically admitted that I wasn't a suspect anymore, after like 6 months they returned the computer and claimed they never searched it.

  • @nobody-ly9ef
    @nobody-ly9ef Рік тому +178

    Greed is a deadly sin.

    • @user-de6zo2vd9z
      @user-de6zo2vd9z Рік тому +8

      @Zinger MC. Zingerton yeah but entrusting a "close friend" with 35k is something anyone would do if they had no1 else to go to while dealing with a divorce. The couple was doing fine, a married couple with good, stable jobs in a low-cost state being able to buy countless firearms which arent necessarily cheap. Stealing 34k and killing a friend over that is just insane and the reason she was caught and put in prison.

    • @tartaninka
      @tartaninka Рік тому

      ​@@johnnysunrocket8618...but they all started young and ' innocent ' ..

    • @kenneth9874
      @kenneth9874 Рік тому +1

      So is pride, freaks month is for once aptly labeled

  • @Angelthedog
    @Angelthedog 4 місяці тому +3

    Smart commentary. Usually, such commentary just bugs me. Well done.

  • @Ronsonator
    @Ronsonator Рік тому +50

    She transferred about 14K by the second day she had that money in her account. That poor woman never stood a chance getting her money or life back...

    • @foreignuser_
      @foreignuser_ Рік тому +11

      The victim was trying to hide money during a divorce case; yeah, that's the truth you're ignoring. Her conscience wasn't clear either and if a man did that you'd probably be saying he deserved it.

    • @12yearssober
      @12yearssober Рік тому +1

      ​@@foreignuser_
      Well said

    • @truthblunt
      @truthblunt Рік тому +2

      I don't know about that poor woman, she was stealing money from her own filth and spouse...seems like shadiness invited in created more shadiness and danger.

  • @XSR_RUGGER
    @XSR_RUGGER Рік тому +50

    Man, as an autistic man it would scare the crap out of me for my body language to be used against me 😳.
    I constantly mentally check how I'm standing, leaning, how my face looks, EVERYTHING, and I'm not even sure if I'm doing it correctly when I'm not under stress. Being accused or investigated would make me appear incredibly guilty as my go to is to cross my arms and generally close up even though I don't have a problem communicating via spoken word or in writing. That and the fact that eye contact for me is forced because that's what I'm supposed to do, I'd look like a slam dunk case.
    (Edited for punctuation)

    • @willtrap4food698
      @willtrap4food698 Рік тому +4

      Get a lawyer always. They can save your life just as much as any doctor

    • @bimbobaggypants4820
      @bimbobaggypants4820 Рік тому +5

      As far as I'm aware I'm not autistic but I'm always conscious of how my body language and facial expressions appear to People. I'm always thinking "what if they think I'm smiling too much or what if they think i look angry" i do suffer from social anxiety though.

    • @TIZFUNK
      @TIZFUNK Рік тому +3

      im not autistic and id still probably get blamed cuz id do the same thing haha. I was thinking the same thing watching this

    • @XSR_RUGGER
      @XSR_RUGGER Рік тому

      @@bimbobaggypants4820 social anxiety and autism have some comorbidities. Usually people with social anxiety are diagnosed correctly but it is more common for an autistic person to be misdiagnosed with social anxiety. It's weird because I don't generally care what people think of me but I don't want them to feel uncomfortable so that is where my anxiety comes from. I don't care to fit in but I also don't want to necessarily make people uncomfortable by staring at them or not staring at them. My compromise is to look at them when their speaking (which I hate 😆) and I look away when I speak to give myself a break. I don't know socially what the impact of that strategy is but I've made myself ok with that approach.

    • @XSR_RUGGER
      @XSR_RUGGER Рік тому

      @@TIZFUNK the thing is I know what you're "supposed" to do so then I'd be conscious of when I didn't do what I was supposed to do but exaggerate it so that it would come off as disingenuous.
      I have to admire how this guy was cool under pressure.

  • @Thescott16
    @Thescott16 Рік тому +203

    The analysis is Zach's posture and body language during the interview has taught me that social anxiety will land people in jail.
    Edit: I knew this joke would start some conversations.

    • @QuangLe-qk3nv
      @QuangLe-qk3nv Рік тому +4

      They can tell what is cause by social anxiety and what is cause by guilt. and its also depends on how you are normally as well. If you're normally socially awkward. then they cant assume that

    • @Seth9809
      @Seth9809 Рік тому +5

      People who know what they are doing, look for your behavior changing.
      If you're extremely uncomfortable, and then suddenly you're all relaxed when you shouldn't be, that's really weird.

    • @BillyWilliamson
      @BillyWilliamson Рік тому

      @@QuangLe-qk3nv No, they can't. Body language analysis is bunk science.

    • @luckerowl8990
      @luckerowl8990 Рік тому +19

      body language alone won't land you in prison but I can see a socially awkward person talking themself into prison by accident, which is why having a lawyer present is always a good idea

    • @floydlawsen
      @floydlawsen Рік тому +5

      @@QuangLe-qk3nv maybe they can tell things from some body language. Many cops and DA's will happily put an innocent person away for life with guilty person free because they want to advance their own careers. So if they do intuit something from body language they might not use that knowledge for good.

  • @IndigoStarrAz
    @IndigoStarrAz 3 місяці тому +2

    I'm glad he was found innocent but I still got the vibe he knows his way around body language and how to behave in this situation. Also, he was smart to have his lawyer present.

  • @MikeinEtna
    @MikeinEtna Рік тому +43

    You should have noted: Within very short order, Ashley had spent all of Taylor’s money to pay off credit card bills, her lover’s business expenses, plus a motorcycle and boat for him.
    Not only that, she’d also mishandled and spent money from her family’s business, while deceiving her own husband out of funds.

  • @ShyPineapple777
    @ShyPineapple777 Рік тому +175

    I can’t imagine the pain of knowing that the person you love so much is a secret murderer😔😢

    • @aqua6613
      @aqua6613 Рік тому +18

      I had to find out my former husband was a pedophile...
      I had seen some red flag behavior that disturbed me so I left him. His family who is highly religious persecuted me for leaving him. He had everyone including me fooled.
      I warned a friend of his who had little girls and he cussed me out.
      I left anyways and started my life over.
      2 years later inheard he had died from a heart attack so I called his friend and he told me he had a warrant out for his arrest for molesting his 7 year old daughter.
      When you know you know...I just have no idea if he's had more victims.
      That whole process nearly killed me mentally emotionally and spiritually.
      But God is good and I'm glad he's gone and I just have to live with the memory and the ghost of it all. I wish the friend would have believed me and protected his little girl from him, but he has to live with that guilt.

    • @ShyPineapple777
      @ShyPineapple777 Рік тому +5

      @@aqua6613 Oh my goodness that sounds terrible! 😩 I pray God continues to bless you as you are recovering from that situation internally. It’s sad what our world has come to 😔

    • @williamsherman1089
      @williamsherman1089 Рік тому +1

      Well lucky for him he didn't find out a harder way

    • @lizhurgeton2637
      @lizhurgeton2637 Рік тому

      Uhuh..WAS a secret murderer

    • @thematrix2661
      @thematrix2661 Рік тому

      @@aqua6613 If I have a friend and someone told me he is a pedo I would defend that friend but I would not leave him or have him around my kids better safe than sorry.

  • @caseyhamm4292
    @caseyhamm4292 Рік тому +132

    as someone who is autistic, body language cannot and should not be used to determine guilt. all people act differently in different circumstances based on their experiences and their own nature. conviction should be based on evidence and solid verifiable fact

    • @FleetAdmirable
      @FleetAdmirable Рік тому +19

      Its just police being police
      Theyll see you do absolutely nothing and ask why are you nervous and smell like weed

    • @HeatherMcSwayde
      @HeatherMcSwayde 11 місяців тому +9

      That's not how they "determine" guilt, it just gives signs for them to dig deeper.

    • @caseyhamm4292
      @caseyhamm4292 11 місяців тому +6

      @@HeatherMcSwayde 1) they absolutely use it to determine culpability, and 2) even if they did just use it as an excuse to dig deeper, that still doesn’t change the fact of what i said: neurotypicality is a myth so pretending that everyone acts the same/has any sort of similar body language is leading to false convictions. you are basically splitting hairs on a massive failing of our justice system

    • @BusinessOfFear
      @BusinessOfFear 11 місяців тому +7

      This is expert level stuff. Autistic or not, people have tells.

    • @caseyhamm4292
      @caseyhamm4292 11 місяців тому +6

      @@BusinessOfFear and no one’s tells are the same. why are you doubling down on this?

  • @CK-xh7gn
    @CK-xh7gn 22 дні тому +1

    Where's your lawyer, sir?

  • @redrum0929
    @redrum0929 Рік тому +15

    During that whole interview, I never saw him realize his wife with the murderer