Taking Responsibility for Other People's Feelings - Tapping with Brad Yates
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“They can heal if they choose to” - THANK YOU FOR THIS!
So many tears of resonance and release with this today. Instant tears at “ So I need to go to great lengths to make sure everyone is ok, no matter the sacrifice to myself”. And from the 5 minute mark of “but I can’t take on someone else’s pain, and I can’t take it away for them” onward, so many tears..... of my family, of teenage trauma with friends and my first love.....wow it went everywhere! Thank you Brad ❤️
This is at the heart of people pleasing. Thank you for this video, it’s helping me release another layer of the shackles of people pleasing.
I hope you will also find this helpful if you haven't seen it: ua-cam.com/video/_Oi0dxsR8pE/v-deo.html
Thank you from the bottom of my heart ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ i just can’t imagine being without these tappings. You are a true savior and a divine worker. I was shamed so much as a child by my coach, made responsible for his feelings and everyones feelings, gone through whole lot of emotional abuse and came out broken with the toxic shame personality. I have spent most of my adulthood working through the issues and I am sincerely so grateful for the work you do. Some days I just cant believe how healing the words you say are! Thank you, Brad! Please know that your work makes my life better every single day. May you be blessed🙏
Through this process I realized I took responsibility and blame for my fathers death and my mothers subsequent grief when I was younger. I know see how this has perpetuated through all areas of my life to the point where I feel bad for succeding if it makes others feel bad. I feel free to release this now at a cellular level.
Will definetely repeat this tapping, Thank You Brad.
Yes to releasing these long held traumas. Each time l tap more comes up and releases its grip on me. Repeating ,releasing
I’m a fixer and immediately felt this one like a lump of stone in my throat. I changed the wording a bit to include that I’m not responsible for taking on people’s issues or making things better for them.
With that - I realized that ultimately everyone has their lessons to learn and that they need to address to so they can become free!
My neck and shoulders always hurt because of the weight that I’ve put on me and the lie that I’ve been telling myself. As I tapped the tears poured and released some much neck pain.
I’ll be rinsing and repeating this for sure!
Thank you Brad!
thank you Brad. being a life-long people-pleaser has become a living hell having some very real, very serious consequences now. it's like i need everyone else's wellbeing in tact in order to feel my own. I just can't do it anymore but feel tremendous pressure, guilt and anxiety because of it. I've been having a horrible drawn out anxiety attack the last month or so and it's gotten worse the last couple days. I've been using your videos the last two days and they've been helpful in bringing down the intensity at least temporarily. i know i'll be okay. i choose to release all this anxiety and find my own peace. thank you again.
Thank you for sharing this. I am the same way and it is a difficult way to live. I'm working on detaching and freeing myself from it. Brad's videos give me so much relief!
Me too, thank you for sharing,
you are so strong and amazing, thank you for sharing this.
Setting myself free from the responsibility to hold people’s pain AND hold relationships together. Tapping on this all week has uncovered the deep trauma under this behaviour- the fear and trauma of disconnection of course. It’s under everything. Trauma from disconnection in my life, but also the awareness of the disconnection trauma of generations before me, especially between parent and child. This pain of disconnection, and fear of more disconnection is the weight that’s always in my heart. And the deep fear that it will always be like this because it’s so easily triggered by other people’s pain and isolation. Hence the ‘carrying others pain’ in hopes it will lighten their heart so they’re able to isolate less and connect more. It’s always about connection, and why the areas of grief, shame and loneliness are so stirring for me....it’s always about our basic human emotional need of connection 💛
Thank you, Brad. I love tapping with you and have done so for 7 years. I chose this video because of something that happened this morning in my family. I don't normally get very emotional while tapping, but this topic and your words brought up a whole ton of stuff from my childhood, and I was crying. Wow! I took a sip of water and moved my body (ran up and down the stairs), then did it again. The 2nd time I didn't have such a strong reaction. I had ideas of what steps I can take to move the situation along. And I have something else to work on and release from my childhood. Thank you, thank you, thank you 💖
This is the most stubborn belief within me and I can't thank you enough for helping me repeat this specific tap, over and over and over....god bless
It’s my birthday today Brad.
I started it with tapping with you. I am a recovering Codependant and People Pleaser, and tonight I set myself free from feeling responsible for my abusive mother’s feelings with this video.
I also did the one on Allowing Miracles, and I am excited to see what will happen. Today is the start of the rest of my life! 😃😃😃
Thank you so much for your videos, I just discovered you recently but I find it so comforting to tap along with you. Wish you a wonderful day 🙏🏼😊🌈
Happy Birthday, Carrie! :) ua-cam.com/video/dXDjtn8N8Sk/v-deo.html
Thank you Brad! 😃🙏🏼
I clicked on the link you posted, and tapped along with you to have a wonderful birthday (had no idea you had that video, thanks very much for providing the link here!) and I had a great day! 😊
I even ended up having an extended birthday celebration into this week, am meeting a good friend for lunch tomorrow and we’re belatedly celebrating my birthday together. Talk about an abundance of riches 😃 Wooohoooo!
As always, thanks to you all the way from India, and wish you a nice day Brad! 🙋🏻♀️ 🌈
Thank you Brad. The more I grow and heal the more I realize how brilliant your tapping scripts really are. They have, and will continue to be so helpful for me on my healing journey.
Day 7: Setting myself free of believing I need to help take away people’s pain, or prevent them from more pain. Yup.....this is the role I have played, to ease their hearts in hopes it would lead to less isolation, less pain for them, AND me ❤️ And now out comes the fear of what caused this trauma behaviour, this belief in the first place. I am so looking forward to (and at the same time so fearful) of the journey through this pain and our the other side 💚
“Setting myself free of the responsibility to hold and be at fault”, Day 4 💙
Perfect timing...6 yrs later. Thank you Brad! As Eft practioner myself this is an awesome tapping session.
Thank you so much. My. Mother is in a nursing home and I feel responsible how she feels. I will tap a lot with you.
Just what l needed always feeling responsible for my father’s ptsd after WW ll . Remembering this on D Day. Finally can let go . Thank you
‘Setting myself free from the responsibility’ Day 2 💜
Setting myself free from the responsibility of being at fault when others are in pain. Day 6! Moving forward courageously, even in the face of fear of disconnection.🧡
This came as Divine guidance and a sign that if we ask for help we are supported and that we are not responsible for other people’s feelings and how they make you feel . The only free will we have is how we choose to feel . I release myself now for feeling guilty and responsible about other peoples feeling and I think that is living from gods eye tooo . Thank you Brad ! Ever grateful to you .
I am carrying so much grief from knowing about the trauma my brother experienced with my Dad, and how this trauma (and his resulting disability) has created such struggle and heartache in his life. It's been completely heartbreaking to watch all these years.... and so, I became my brother's keeper (like you said) - I have thought all my life that it was partly my responsibilty to shield him from any more pain of poverty or trauma, in any way I could. Even with the financial help all these years, it has not 'saved' him..... I can't save him....😪
Thank you for that. I have a lifetime of that to set myself free from, and I'm praying that this will help.
Thank you for another wonderful video!
Taking responsibility for my family’s financial issues / poverty. 😢 “All those times in my life where I was told directly or indirectly that I was responsible for helping my family financially. It was my job to make sure everyone was ok because I was the only one. And that it was my fault if they ended up on the street” 😭😭
The same thing has happened to me. Well working on it. Wish you the best Kimberly. God Bless you.
I hear where your at and take strength that we all are working together to release this awful learned behavior. Being aware is 95% of the recovery. We’re all on the road to awareness. Hooray
@@gardenialeeman4932 ❤️
@@franceshall3364 hooray! Thrive and evolve on girl! ❤️
“Setting myself free from the responsibility to hold and be at fault” Day 3 ❤️
Words cannot capture the gratitude I have for what you are doing for everyone in this world, Brad.
This one made me cry - so much letting go. I love being able to turn the corner on this, as taking on the responsibility for other people’s feelings (etc.) has resulted in an pain in my shoulder, which goes away when I tap, but then…it comes back, because I haven’t changed the over-responsibility factor…until now!🎉❤ thank you for helping me to let go of this need to be so responsible for stuff that isn’t mine. What a relief!😂
Thank you!
Thank You So Much
Brad i just discovered this vided. This is EXACTLY WHAT I WAS LOOKING FOR.eft does work, with constant practice. Thank you soooo much❤❤❤❤
This is such a special and powerful session. Thanks Brad!
This is EXACTLY what I need thank you
I felt so good after this tapping. Thank you Brad. I have been the problem solver of the family. And I don't have to anymore. All of us can do something for ourselves. God Bless you!!💕
Thank you sooo much for helping me out with setting myself free and those I love the most! I feel light and liberated and never realized there was so much burden I'd been carrying all my life playing a placator. Much love and blessings for sharing this
Thank you 🙏🏼 your are a blessing to this earth God bless you 💕
It was so powerful, I couldn't stop yawning
thank youuuu brad
thanks Brad, needed this 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
❤️ Bless your heart ❤
Just listened to your talk in the 'Trusting after Trauma summit'- well done!! I LOVE the energy rinse phrase you used, and the 'reminder lightbulbs' you set off in my head about trauma and carrying responsibility :) I think a tapping session on 'daily energy rinsing/energy hygiene' would be great, if that idea resonates with you too. Thanks Brad!
Thank you brad your videos are helping me clear a lot of negativity from my past❤ youlr voice is soothing and your energy unconditional.
Excellent. Thank you! I will def be doing that one again!
So, so good. Thank you!!
Thank you for setting us free in so many ways, Brad!
Tears and more awareness after watching this video now; my healing heart thanks you again, with love :)
Freedom from feeling that I have to “save the world”! Whew 😂! What a relief. I feel my whole body realigning: it’s good 🎉
Perfect for what I’m feeling and have felt for a very very long time!! Thank you.
This is so beautiful and needed. Thank you! 🙏
Thank you so much for this Brad. This is precisely what I needed today.❤️🙏👍
Thank you so much Brad, just what I needed!!! 👍🏻
BRAD, thank you thank you for providing rich and powerful content to the web, this video helped me clear a BIG BIG one for me.... just looking for help in you tube in regards to how to deal with other people's drama all I Got here.... This was the root of my suffering for many years and this video just helped me SO MUCH to recognize it.
Thank you again
Good one. Perfect timing! Thanks, Brad.
as always, a complete perspective, and very wholesome approach to these feelings. Thank you Brad! You make my life better :-)
thank you!!!!!!!you are an amazing human being...thank you for this immense value you provide with your videos. I really love what you are doing for this planet. Self healing is the key of happiness. Happiness only comes from within,nobody can make you happy,you decide it. Greets from Germany
Thank you so much. All clear! thank you, Brad.
Another great EFT video! Thank you Brad!
Thank you, Brad, that was very helpful.
Thank you so so much for this video and all the others videoes :-)
It is helping me so much. It is making my whole life much safer.
This was so helpful. Thank you!!
Thanks, Brad! That's a great one!
thanks, Brad, I love your videos-very helpful!
This is fantastic!
Thank you Brad
"I AM letting go of the belief that I am solely responsible for the success or failure of my relationships."🥰 I believe this outdated, trauma belief and behavior is under all my fear and distrust that I will abandon myself for love. "I TRUST myself and I trust Love, over the pressures and pain messages of my family and over the self- sabotaging martyrdom and hero-ing behaviors!" 🥰
I got an image of me da coming in from work, he is worn out and I am little. Thank you Brad.
Thank you Brad. I wonder if it would be possible to do one about taking responsibility for other people's debt. I know the issue is a mixture of this one + debt, which you also have very helpful videos on. Just wondering about your insights on this.
You might try tapping along with this one while changing the word/thought "feelings" to "debt." This one may also be helpful: ua-cam.com/video/rRToSd9ZZtI/v-deo.html
Great.
Brad, do you have a video about taking responsibility for other people's problems or doing other people's work for them?
Hey Brad, have you done any videos on Extreme Ownership or taking ownership of your life? I've read the book Extreme Ownership and I think it would be awesome to tap on.
I read that, too. I hope this one is helpful: ua-cam.com/video/ndZgxOnIqN0/v-deo.html
This is epic if you have VOW of Martyrdom on Soul level.
Love
Can we use it for unrequited love too? I feel guilty for making them love me while I cannot answer their love. I'm thinking if I was too nice, or too naive to accept their "friendly" invitations, etc.
such a great question..... feels really stuck and confusing when this happens... there's a whole can of guilt, shame and beating yourself up besides a myriad of other things....
Amen✨🙏🏾✨
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Hi. Is it safe to do proxy eft . Any adverse effect? Shud we protect us before doing proxy eft
I hope you'll find this helpful: ua-cam.com/video/qEsebKnhRQ8/v-deo.html
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And things became confusing when he started tapping on his hand..
If you are new to tapping, please watch this video so you understand what it is about: ua-cam.com/video/JiD72cZ5mcU/v-deo.html
Can we do oroxy eft on photo
Why does the culture not understand this. We are bombarded daily about a story of how some person is offended.
If we're not responsible for other people's feelings, then why have any standards for human behavior at all (courtesy, politeness, consideration of others, etc)? If someone rips John off, steals his wallet, or vandalizes his property, then it's John's fault for getting angry at it and not the criminal's. Same thing for being arbitrarily judged by a stricter standard than everybody else when there's clearly no sane reason to hold him to a higher standard.a torture-murder victim's relatives are blameworthy for their own anguish. If John's own wife of 15 years cheats on him, I suppose it's also his own fault for being upset about it? That is just a cheap psychological game that legitimizes victim blaming, or simply giving people a reason to do whatever they want regardless of the negative consequences toward others, or both. No thanks.
I hear what you're saying, but I hope you'll consider another point of view, as I think it may lead to greater well-being. Or not - but I'll throw it out there anyway. ;)
I'm certainly not suggesting that we are not responsible for our own behavior. But ask yourself, do you feel it is your natural inclination to want to cheat people - to hurt them - but only refrain from doing so for fear that you'll be responsible? We have those human standards because I believe that, when we are happy and healthy, that is our natural behavior... I am courteous to others simply because it feels good to do so, and I have no control over whether that makes them feel good. And does it seem fair that John has no option that involves peace of mind? It would be absolutely normal for him to be upset - but I don't believe it is a requirement that is forced on him. Crappy things happen to us sometimes, but I like to believe I have a choice about how I respond.
I hope that is beneficial.
Thank you so much