As I'm studying clinical psychology I could sense there were crucial points missing or miss interpreted such as active listening, open ended questions, unbiasedness and empathy (as I was observing your paralanguage). * BUT USE OF PARAPHRASING WAS ON POINT 👍
Iam not a psychology student but i agree with u completely. Whn a person is taking counseling he or she not just want to be asked questions but also r curious wht is actually happening with them. The question tht the counselor asks r quite frequently asked ones deep inside us and we evn silently answer them. I don't think tht such counseling will help any student whn they r alredy clueless. I know tht one cannot impose there judgment but a few advice must be given to the student to take or not to take is her decision. I felt tht the student waa not comfortable just because the counselor said sit comfortably, its u who should make the person comfortable with ur speaking skills.
Exactly what the language of her...."Maths k liye dimag kam hai"...hr person Ka apna interest hota hai...Iska means yh to ni ki bnde me dimag kam hai...counceling kr rhi ya stress de rahi usko apne biased thought se
The girl said "kuch meri jaisi hain jinko samaj mein nhi aata " And the councilor said "jo achhe hain " Rather she could say "jinko aata hain" there's a difference between the statements and the word "achhe hain" in this context is not the sensible one
Exactly !!!! Deboshree And few more things were misinterpreted 1. Active listening 2. Empathy 3. Personal judgement 4. Unbiasedness I could sense these major points as I am practicing clinical psychology.
Exactly !!! Deboshree And few more points were misinterpreted 1. Open ended questions 2. Unbiasedness 3. Personal judgement 4. Empathy 5. Active listening I could sense all these as i'm practicing clinical psychology.
Hope i am not being judged here..the girl wasn't comfortable and it was merely a question and answer sesion..as a certified counselor and communication coach technical parts like confrontation take a backseat ..first a comfortable connection is important. I am a counselor and teach to think and manage life..but that starts with being a good listener..child was asked about maths ,maths and more of it..life is beyond maths ...her choices should be asked,encouraged and then a secured plan should be suggested to her.
Mujhe lagta hai counselor ma'am ne bohot zyada leading questions pooche. Yeh sahi nahi raha. Bacchi ko apne man ki baat bolne ka avsar nahi mila, ma'am hi uski taraf se nateejo par pahunch rahe the. Ho sakta hai bacchi ko video mein kya bolna hai, vah samajh na aaya ho ya yaad na raha ho lekin asal mein counseling is tarah se nahi kee jaani chahiye. Session ke baad ma'am ne khud kaha ki client ko khud reflect karna hota hai ki uske man mein kya hai. Magar session mein unhone rapport building ko bohot kam samay diya aur samasya ko ujagar karne ke liye bhi prashn poochne ke badle client ko bataya ki uski samasya kya hai
yes, it seems she takes very less time for rapport building . the child is feeling awkward and counselor is only throwing questions to her not not observing her body language.
How clearly an Indian speaks English!Nice Accent.English ain't not her mother tongue so much so the care for the foreign language floats in her pronunciation.
Mere ek friend hai , Jo mjhe but ache lagte hai .wo married hai So that me unki friendship ko sambhal kar rakhna chahti hu. Unki har galti pr me khudse sorry bolkr friendship ko bachaleti hu .kuki mjhe unke touch me rehna achha lagta hai.this friendship is only on whatsapp ...so me unke pics deekhti hu unke bachho ki pics dekhti hu achha lagta hai ye dekhkar b me khush rehleti hu. But jab me unko happy smilie bhejti hu to wo return me . (Dot)msg bhejte hai jo ki jo ki codeword hota hai me unko esa msg bhejne ko mana krti hu.kuki my family is strick kahi family mjhe galat na samjhe unko gaalt na samjhe.isliyegr touch me rhna achha lagta h to me mna krti hu ap esa . Wala msg mat bheja kriye but wo bhejte hai iswaja se naraz hogyi unhone mujhe sorry b ni bola na ye bola why are you sad mera stats dekhkr bhi.mtlb mjhe bht rona arha hai jab (.)msg ka mtlb miss Krna hota h to ab wo ye b ni puche ki don't be sad ab esa ni hoga.jab k meto unko happy dekhke khush holeti hu..me kiya kru me kese happy rahu. Pls meri is problem ka solution de mam. Ham kisi ka bura ni chahte ki kisi family na bigde or achhi healthy dosti rhe but jab hamkisi ko intni importance de or us insan ki life hamari koi ahmiyat ni.me samjh ni pari how to handle this situation.
Very nice Mam !
Very easy way of explaining and very easy language.
Thank you very much!
As I'm studying clinical psychology
I could sense there were crucial points missing or miss interpreted
such as active listening, open ended questions, unbiasedness and empathy (as I was observing your paralanguage).
* BUT USE OF PARAPHRASING WAS ON POINT 👍
Hey I need help to continue my study in psychology if u would help me please let me know
@@poojakhanna2724
What sort of help?
Iam not a psychology student but i agree with u completely. Whn a person is taking counseling he or she not just want to be asked questions but also r curious wht is actually happening with them. The question tht the counselor asks r quite frequently asked ones deep inside us and we evn silently answer them. I don't think tht such counseling will help any student whn they r alredy clueless. I know tht one cannot impose there judgment but a few advice must be given to the student to take or not to take is her decision. I felt tht the student waa not comfortable just because the counselor said sit comfortably, its u who should make the person comfortable with ur speaking skills.
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Exactly what the language of her...."Maths k liye dimag kam hai"...hr person Ka apna interest hota hai...Iska means yh to ni ki bnde me dimag kam hai...counceling kr rhi ya stress de rahi usko apne biased thought se
I am also a psychology student and this video is very helpfull and nice councilling undestand deeply and observe this clearly
Yes ds is good. I m a career counselor.
I might freak out... If my therapist ask these questions... Like it's some kinda attack...
Respect to the brave girl..
She's so cool
Lmao
In psychology we have learned not to ask "why" from client instead ask "what's the reason".
Very simple and very nice
The girl said "kuch meri jaisi hain jinko samaj mein nhi aata "
And the councilor said "jo achhe hain "
Rather she could say "jinko aata hain" there's a difference between the statements and the word "achhe hain" in this context is not the sensible one
Exactly !!!! Deboshree
And few more things were misinterpreted
1. Active listening
2. Empathy
3. Personal judgement
4. Unbiasedness
I could sense these major points as I am practicing clinical psychology.
Exactly !!! Deboshree
And few more points were misinterpreted
1. Open ended questions
2. Unbiasedness
3. Personal judgement
4. Empathy
5. Active listening
I could sense all these as i'm practicing clinical psychology.
Common
@@komalghodarop yess!!
loved the dwelling and reflective questioning .. Amazing work
Hope i am not being judged here..the girl wasn't comfortable and it was merely a question and answer sesion..as a certified counselor and communication coach technical parts like confrontation take a backseat ..first a comfortable connection is important. I am a counselor and teach to think and manage life..but that starts with being a good listener..child was asked about maths ,maths and more of it..life is beyond maths ...her choices should be asked,encouraged and then a secured plan should be suggested to her.
Very helpful demonstration 👍
Mujhe lagta hai counselor ma'am ne bohot zyada leading questions pooche. Yeh sahi nahi raha. Bacchi ko apne man ki baat bolne ka avsar nahi mila, ma'am hi uski taraf se nateejo par pahunch rahe the. Ho sakta hai bacchi ko video mein kya bolna hai, vah samajh na aaya ho ya yaad na raha ho lekin asal mein counseling is tarah se nahi kee jaani chahiye.
Session ke baad ma'am ne khud kaha ki client ko khud reflect karna hota hai ki uske man mein kya hai. Magar session mein unhone rapport building ko bohot kam samay diya aur samasya ko ujagar karne ke liye bhi prashn poochne ke badle client ko bataya ki uski samasya kya hai
Hey I need help to continue my study in psychology if u would help me please let me know
yes, it seems she takes very less time for rapport building . the child is feeling awkward and counselor is only throwing questions to her not not observing her body language.
Maybe you could upload your own psychology counselling session for those of us trying to understand how a counselling session goes.
Million Thanks.
Much needed video.
Good empowerings.
Great channel. Descent good educator.
Thank you mam such a wonderful video.
Great video ❤️💞🙏😎 , please bring this type of video
Counseling should start with confidentiality statement.
Which is Missing
Amazing and really useful.
How clearly an Indian speaks English!Nice Accent.English ain't not her mother tongue so much so the care for the foreign language floats in her pronunciation.
Very good ... love it the way u explain mam
Awesome demonstration 💐
Thank you for this video
This is not counselling. This is totally wrong interpretation of counselling
Then what happens in counseling pls tell I am eager to know
@@ishaniroychawdhury8958 qq
This is man ....
Miss sb sy pihly to rule yai hy ky session ky doran apny client ko Tum ni Aap kihna hy.
Great maam
Thank you madams... Dr. G.B Prasanna, SA(BS), ZPHS,RG COLONY TIRUPATI URBAN
How can I focus on my study ignoring my Borderline Personality Disorder?
Yes madam good help me to reach .
Ramla Blossom
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Wow... her experience shows everything
Very well explained ma'am
Thank you its very useful
Is the client comfortable?
Some points which are absence or not given Focus
Very useful ma'am 😊👍
Nice mam.....
Amazing
Very nice
My sister saw these video and she is scared to go counseling now.
GOOD RAPPORT FORMATION 😁
Great
Great and very informative video
Please don't mislead the young budding psychologist
What has she done???
What do you mean? She did it very well
Madam ji ager aap Hindi me samjao ge to ek aam person be es video ko samj Kar fada la sakta hai😍🙏🙏
Hindi mehh he tohh samjha Rahi 🙄
@@ayushlakra4050he is saying about the last part where only the woman was talking .
👍👌👍
Nice technique 🙏
Nice
whoaaa.. those subtitles though. had me cracking up
TBFH
முஜ்ய் பி ஆப்கி ஹெல்ப் சஹிய்
Lol
Please make more such videos
good
Some time became judgmental and and must ask open ended Quation
👍
Aap ek acchi counselling hai
I want second session
Eta bengali version e dekhaben
Sitting position not as to that of counselling sessions.
Good Demonstration.
Good evening mam
No wonder why this country is where it is, on the official page of NCERT they are giving wrong information, this is not counseling, this is torture
This is totally wrong process of counseling
Sorry... But it is not useful🙏
I wish it cd have been in english or atleast have english translation
Very poor. This woman doesn't know how to counsel.
This is not the way to start counselling
Ye schools !
Don't use why questions
Wrong ❌ pls don't watch
Hello mam
Wrong method
Please dhang se banao...mazak nahi hai ye cheez...sharam karo zara
aunty thoda aur pyaar se baath kar
haha
This is not counselling
Sawal usko puch puch lo uski dimak ki dahi kr di budhhi ne...
Mere ek friend hai ,
Jo mjhe but ache lagte hai .wo married hai
So that me unki friendship ko sambhal kar rakhna chahti hu.
Unki har galti pr me khudse sorry bolkr friendship ko bachaleti hu .kuki mjhe unke touch me rehna achha lagta hai.this friendship is only on whatsapp ...so me unke pics deekhti hu unke bachho ki pics dekhti hu achha lagta hai ye dekhkar b me khush rehleti hu.
But jab me unko happy smilie bhejti hu to wo return me . (Dot)msg bhejte hai jo ki jo ki codeword hota hai me unko esa msg bhejne ko mana krti hu.kuki my family is strick kahi family mjhe galat na samjhe unko gaalt na samjhe.isliyegr touch me rhna achha lagta h to me mna krti hu ap esa . Wala msg mat bheja kriye but wo bhejte hai iswaja se naraz hogyi unhone mujhe sorry b ni bola na ye bola why are you sad mera stats dekhkr bhi.mtlb mjhe bht rona arha hai jab (.)msg ka mtlb miss Krna hota h to ab wo ye b ni puche ki don't be sad ab esa ni hoga.jab k meto unko happy dekhke khush holeti hu..me kiya kru me kese happy rahu. Pls meri is problem ka solution de mam. Ham kisi ka bura ni chahte ki kisi family na bigde or achhi healthy dosti rhe but jab hamkisi ko intni importance de or us insan ki life hamari koi ahmiyat ni.me samjh ni pari how to handle this situation.
Ab aap aur situations kaisi hai ?
good