Why My Marriage Ended | Britt Chat #18 |
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- Опубліковано 7 січ 2018
- On this episode of Britt Chat, I share more of my journey and a few tips for how to move forward in a difficult relationship. Thanks so much for watching. Be sure you're SUBSCRIBED to catch my uploads on MONDAY AND FRIDAY!
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You didn't have to do this, but you did it on your terms and with such grace and poise. Not once did you degrade your children's father. You did this with class and honesty. Thank you for sharing.
Britt is goals!!!!
So classy and proud of u sista wish I had met you sooner. Great job you are so smart and positive. The best has to come your way😀🎗
If he was a black man...
“ if you’re in a relationship with a person doesn’t want to be there, you need to let go”🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Eno Explores That is the absolute truth. I had to pause the video for a few minutes when she said be willing to let go because I was in a situation a year ago where I KNEW the man I loved wasn’t into it anymore but i refused to let go and kept holding on. And that made things far worse than they needed to be in the end. Im past it now and I’ve learned my lesson but wow I wish I could go back and tell my past self that it wasnt worth it
Really Austin lost out big time how do you leave somebody like this woman the hell was wrong with that dude.
ThatSingerReactions right! He will regret it.
I totally agree!
he will regret it big time.
Some people are empty inside.
Racist
Bottom line, he was selfish, weak, gave into his sin and chose himself over you and his kids.
This is the likely case...there is no peace in this.
I clicked this to be nosey and ended up inspired 💚 Thanks for sharing your testimony girl!
lol
Me too 😔 i feel so ashamed admitting that lol but I really did love the msg she gave!
So true😂
Jesikya Carl lol girl
Jesikya Carl me too
I love how real she is. How she didn't go into a dark place and throw him under the bus like she could have. Nothing but respect for you and I do hope that find true love later. Sending hugs.
Chanel Amobi like the definition of humbleness and humility. She’s a role model.
Yes! An inspiring, strong woman she is!
This video is the absolute best! Not because I expected you to bash him or be petty (which if you were I’d be in total support of) but because you are the epitome of class and dignity. You’re glow up is real and not even halfway over. #blackgirlmagic
“She opens her mouth with wisdom, and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.”
Proverbs 31:26
Britt you are so amazing and classy. You could have easily named names and turned this into a messy video. Instead you took the high road and made A wonderful video sharing your perspective and advice that could possiably help someone else.
Roxie1225 yes she is!!!
Beautiful of you to encourage her 💕 😘
Thanks Britt. My 5 year relationship ended the exact time yours did. I'm 22 and had to move back to my hometown, move in with my mom, find a new job, and had no friends here. I was so scared, and knowing that you were there with me helped. I was obviously so sad for you, but you were a huge part in me not feeling alone
MacKenzie Kelso Same here
9yrs with My X /BD nd I have our 3yrs old son with me
❤️❤️ stay strong and lean on god ladies you will prevail!!!
I'm not even going through anything related to this video, but I'm still over here in tears. God is out there molding and shaping a wonderful man for you. You are a beautiful person and I'm so happy that you are on a path to finding peace and happiness in your life.
Amanda LaShawn Amen!I agree with you.
This! 💜
Amanda LaShawn agreed!! Great comment!!🖤👌
Damn I was probably one of the first subs, back when they got no more than 500+. Too bad things turned that way, Austin
turned to be a real scumbag for walking on this beautiful family. After every bad things I'm sure something good will come to you Britt!
The Bible says adultery is cause for divorce, and even though it's heartbreaking, you are free to marry again...a man *worthy* of your heart.
Don't know what bible your reading but that's not true true word KJV only! . She can leave if fornication happens .This only happens for the espoused / engaged, not married ppl. Married ppl can't commit fornication, so this doesn't apply to married ,if you do marry again while your first husband lives you are living in sin only death can allow you to marry again .
H. DeBeau that is incorrect. Only death frees one to marry again.
MegaTIGGER31 Matthew5:31-32 KJV, Jesus said.
Holly 2 Moons Matthew 5:31-32 KJV. Jesus said.
No it does not say that. The bible says except it be for FORNICATION, and that only can happen prior to marriage during the engagement period. Married people do not commit fornication if they are unfaithful, they commit ADULTERY. After that you are married, if your spouse is unfaithful, you cannot divorce them and get another one! If you do, you commit adultery. I didn't say it, the word of God says it.
(Mark 10:11-12) 11 And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth adultery against her.
12 And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery.
(Romans 7:2-4) 2 For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband SO LONG AS HE LIVETH; but IF THE HUSBAND BE DEAD, she is loosed from the law of her husband.
3 SO THEN IF, WHILE HER HUSBAND LIVETH, SHE be MARRIED to ANOTHER man, SHE SHALL BE CALLED ADULTERESS: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man.
The best part that I got from this is, "You are 100% enough!. " thank you.
You are such a light! Thank you for sharing your heart. The Lord is near to the broken-hearted and He is obviously carrying your through this tough time. ❤️❤️
The Rich Life I was watching your video a few days ago
awe, thank you :)
I was just watching your video
God is with you! God bless you always!
I’m honestly so in love with you Britt.
I love all the positivity and sincerity that this channel embodies. You’re an amazing single mom! ❤️💋
Thank you for choosing to share when YOU wanted to share Britt. It takes a lot of courage to talk about a tough time in your life. ❤️
This is by far the best video I have watched since I subscribed to your channel. And it's not because you opened up, you didn't have to. This video shows how genuine you are & how deep is your relationship with the Lord. As you said only He can help you make it through. I am sure that God will make a way where there seems to be no way. May He tremendously bless you and your children this year and the years to come.🙏🏾
I had unsubscribed a long time ago, and you're the reason why I resubscribed. You're so inspiration and you have such a great head on your shoulders. Keep going Britt! You can do it!
Jessica Salinas same although I didn’t unsubscribe. I just stop watching regularly and not to down talk anyone but Austin was the reason why. This channel is so much calming and relaxed now. You go Brittany!
Same!!! Austin rubbed me the wrong way
Same boat here. I loved the kids but stopped watching because I just could t watch him be fake. You can see it through the camera. So happy for her. This channel is going places.
Same here I stopped watching their UA-cam channel before but I resubscribed.
same
My relationship with God is the reason why I'm alive. He is the difference for all who seek Him. Thank you for sharing your heart and soul before strangers. You may never ever know who you're blessing but God does and He blesses those who trust Him. Keep the faith Britt. God continue to bless you and the children.
Don’t you go to My church?
Brit, preach. WELL SAID. I just want you to know that ever since we met, and throughout our time of hanging out, and visiting about stuff, you have constantly surprised me with your grace, integrity, and forgiveness about this situation and many others. I have honestly never heard anyone talk about their marriage ending in this way. Your constant trust in the Lord, never wavering faith in Him, and your dedication to your marriage even before it ended blows my mind. Thank you for sharing this video. There are very few people who look at marriage the way you do. Thank you, friend!
TwinSauce She is pretty amazing!! God can take you and completely change everything about you, from the inside OUT.. people don't realize that God can change your outside appearance 💜 God Is Love
Agreed!
TwinSauce she’s. A amazing girl
Your words were uplifting and motivating.
The channel is so much better now you run it. Everything much more genuine and not forced ❤️
OMG YESSSSSSSS!
EVERYTHING is sooo much more sincere!
🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
Girl, talk about it! He was the reason I stopped watching their channel a few years back.
Yeh, I found him annoying. He seemed a bit fake to me, too in your face, and he never let her run the show. She is so much more genuine and likeable.
Stop the instigation!
I just can't fathom to have my husband tell me "marriage isn't for me" , and having three kids and expecting number 4, and basically walk out . I don't think I could be as strong to move on as you , I'm saying that from the pit of my heart
AllyVitaliyplus3 Vitaliy Ot happened to me but I was left for another woman. He even married her. We only have one little girl. You’re a lot stronger than you think you are. 3 years later I’m strong and happy. My ex husband ended up taking his life in March of last year.
None ya businezz can I ask, sorry if too personal , did it make you happy that he took his own life ? Or were you devastated. I can't even imagine
AllyVitaliyplus3 Vitaliy
Heavens no!!! That’s my daughters Father. I’d bring him back for her if I could 😞
He was a great father to her. Also, he was a Army Medic/ had 6 deployments and suffered from PTSD. Served 17 years in the Military.
I know exactly what you mean
None ya businezz 😓did your daughter ask about him ? Or was she too little to understand . You miss him still , I can't even imagine 😭
you are honestly just an absolute rockstar Britt... wise, very wise.
Thank you, Britt. You have no idea how your courage inspires me to move on from a 20yr marriage. It's been over for a long time, but I've been in denial only because change scares me. I have been miserable for a long time and I want to find the happiness I deserve, but it's really hard. It's only been 5 months since he left me, so time is what I need to heal. Thank you for being you.
Jacqueline, take one day, one step at a time.
Kathy Oscar thank you. I am really trying.
Gods grace is upon you and he will give you the glory. Keep your heart and mind on god and he will lead the way for you. I know it hurts because I’m in it too right now. But god showed up for me. To good be the glory. I’m praying for all the broken hearts to be mended🙏🙌🏽
DiaryFull ofCurlz thank you. I pray every day.
You got this!! You are strong!! ❤️❤️
Hes going to realize one day the grass wasnt greener on the other side
Well...time will tell. Either he'll end up lonely trying to be fulfilled by one woman after the other, OR he'll finally come into his own and be a better man with someone else or just be a better man for himself.
@@lkofie6670 yep.
Wow clicking on a video like this where a person was so hurt but able to rise above for god her kids and society and be graceful about her feelings is the most refreshing thing I’ve seen in a long time. To be nice and uplift those who have hurt you is so hard but so amazing! Brittany you are amazing!
THANK YOU SO MUCH!
Well honey the grass is not always greener on the other side! Just don’t understand why men be willing to lose their family over that. Great Advice Britt!! You’re so beautiful , smart, and an amazing mom!! It was a rough year and yet you’re still standing !! God is good ❤️😘😘
Life With Kim B. (I have always liked the expression, the grass is greener where you water it)
Life With Kim B. So true. You always end up a better and happier person on the other end of bad relationships. Give it some time Britt, you'll see.
They think with their penises!!
Life With Kim B. Just finding out about this couple. From what I understand they BOTH were too young. Plus, it didn't help that they were the SAME or nearly the same age which was a MAJOR mistake. He should have been at least 8-12 years older. I notice the further ahead
man is from your again the more he's going to put in work. Why? Because he knows that they are younger men that are gunning for you that he has to compete with that can easily get your attention PERMANENTLY if he starts slipping That includes Church men.
You are class personified. Your kids will thank you for your grace in this situation one day.
I needed this... I know how it feels to invest 8 years into a person and they decide you're "not enough ". Knowing you're a good person, knowing you gave it your all. And it sucks. But you are so right... Don't fight it. LET THEM GO!
Britt after a heart break it was through God that I learned to breathe again, to love myself, and to accept and defy the odds! Weaping endures for a night but joy comes in the morning!
Kodii's Corne
Thanks for opening up/sharing! I pray your openness helps many others as you have a positive platform and a testimony in-progress that can really bless lives! 🙏🏾😘 I also pray 2018 is your best year yet!!
I wish I didn't have to say this Britt, but this only happens a thousand times a year when a young boy pursues a young lady he feel he cannot do without, he has to marry her only to find out later marriage is 100 percent on both sides. His selfishness won't allow him to be happy. So he wants to sow his wild oats after he's broken his wife's heart. It happened to me when my children were small. Although we loved Austin, God will give you a Man next time.
Elisa Castro: it’s not empowering for anyone, it’s absolutely degrading and spiritually dangerous.
This vlog really hit home for me. I really needed to hear this. Thank you for being so open and honest about what you're going through.
I absolutely loved this video and thank you for sharing your real life truth. Yes ma’am Jesus Christ is the best friend of healing heart felt pain. Been there.
You ain't lied girl. My marriage of 15 years ended 2 years ago. If it were not for God I wouldn't have made it through. Period end of story. I accredited ALL of my strength to him! Now I'm on the mend and everyday it gets easier and easier. But only through christ.. otherwise I'd probably had driven off a cliff somewhere lol.
Britt, watching this I can't help but think your kids are going to see this one day & respect you so much for your strength, faith, and truth.
You have changed so much since 1st videos.... and you are so calm and amazing... he has no idea what he has lost....I am very sorry for him...
Brittney, you are very classy and this was very tactful. May God continue to bless you and your kids!!
We have VERY similar stories. And I'm so glad you made this. I have felt inadequate and a failure on so many levels and I've heard all those lies in my head. I'm actually headed to our first hearing soon. I definitely needed to hear this. 💜
Like she said, YOU are more than enough. Bless you sis.
Don’t let the devil confuse you. You are a child of a king❤️ you were made perfect in god image don’t change anything about you because someone is out here that will love you for all of you!!!!! God bless you!
The way you deal with this situation is just inspiring. You have so much wisdom. You are showing the world that it does not always require anger to deal with a situation that can seem to hurt us, but act with grace. Thanks for this video
Brittany, I admire your strength and your courage for being so transparent on YT. It's not easy, but you will get through this. God is good, as you know. Continue to lean on him and get your strength through him.
I have been praying for you and the kids every day Britt. There's a song I listen to that has helped me realize that no matter what garbage I face in this earth, God is still good. It's called Closer by Steffany Gretzinger. You are an amazing testament to what God can do with brokeness. Thank you for sharing your light.
You're such a wonderful breath of fresh air. The realness is raw and I hope that you can feel my prayers. Keep on keeping on, Britt! You're doing a wonderful job 💙
You’re an inspiration. My fiancé of five years left me last month for another girl. It felt like the end of the world, but God has given me a lot of strength and after a month, I have started to stop crying over him and I don’t think of him as much.
You got this girl!
Honey, I am rooting for you all the way.. I’ve been watching you guys since Audrey was born and when you all were living in that apt in California. Honestly I’ve always thought you deserved better.. sorry for the shade, but he always seemed more invested in getting views than his marriage. I’m so rooting for you, Jesus will carry you through this whole journey. I will pray for the best:) your kids are going to look up to you in the future and see how selfless you were to be willing to never walk away from them.
The strength and resilient beauty of a woman is evident in your life. Love you, and praying for you. ❤️
Wow thank you so much. God IS the answer
Hold all my calls , cancel all my appointments , this is gonna be the video I've been waiting for..
Thank you for sharing this video. Speaking your "Truth" is awesome not just for your healing but for inspiration for others. Britt you shall "Rise". 😘 😘
I really needed this. After 3 years of being in a relationship with someone who wasn't even putting in anything and wasn't being faithful. Finally I ended it n its been 6 months and finally I'm at the point where I realize it's not my fault. I just need the reminder so thank you 💖
So it took you 8yrs to figure out "marriage wasn't for you" smfh...Britt you are beautiful, caring, kindhearted and God will bless you and your babies.. I pray eventually you will find a love that's like no other, a God sent love.
Right... 8 yrs and 3 children
Even with God in your life, sometimes things just don't work out, there are valleys and mountains but I can honestly (married 30 plus years, 3 kids, 1 grand) say knowing him makes life more bearable!! Thanks Brit and I want to encourage you to hang in there!! God bless!!
Ru T well said
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I love the way you expressed this.... Much love,much light
Thank you 🤗
He made a big mistake. He was and is not mature in the Lord like you. He has been swept away by the lust of this world.
Pray that he becomes mature in his faith. Let God be the righteous judge that he is.
I'm sorry but this is why I'm really against young people especially men from getting married at young age. In this day and age, there is too much lust and temptation out there for men let alone a young man. There is too much going out in the world too see and do and for some men, it's better for them to wait until they're older to settle down.
Camille Taylor im so lost what did he do
It's especially sad when children are involved. He build a family, his family that God gave him charge over, and he left it for what? Although they are no longer together, I do pray that he will come to repentance, leaving the lifestyle of adultery. She will be fine.
A Matt Age has nothing to do with maturity. There has been temptation since the beginning of time. Self control is what MOST PEOPLE lack, no matter what age.
But they broke your trust. Multiple times. Boy bye. No, it's not your fault. That other person is bad. Point blank.
No one is good but the Father. All have sinned and fallen short of thr glory of God. Jesus tells us to forgive just as He forgives us for our shortcomings. God has shaped this young woman and is using her for His purpose. ❤️
Thank you Brittany for opening up about your struggles, challenges and growth. It was so heartwarming to hear you speak so honestly and knowing you want to help others with your testimony. I love your vlogs, Brittany and love how wise and encouraging you are when you share with us. Keep it up. Praying for you.
This is my first comment on UA-cam and to a very deserving woman. May God cover you with peace and prosper all that you do. He will reward you for your obedience and sacrifice thanks for not being bitter, petty or anything easy to do thanks for choosing what’s hard to do in times of pain and that’s kindness. You are making a difference and living a life of impact.
I honestly love this new you please keep pushing your doing great i love watching you grow into this new you 😘
such a wise and strong woman!! Thank you so much for sharing this.
This is crazy because I literally thought about you the other day. And then I see you on my recommended. You’re energy has always made me feel good. You’re a pure person. And I just wish the best for you on your journey in life.
Thank you for your transparency Britt. Continue to be a bright light. Love you.
You are an amazing woman.
I remember I had to stop watching the channel because I felt he was disingenuous, overtime it got worse, you could tell he was not in the present. It was like he was on the outside watching himself, he was acting like this was the life that he wanted but it really wasn't in the end.
I just want what's best for you and the kids, I don't feel he is it. All of you are so amazing without him, how is that? No matter what, you and those babies will thrive. Be blessed Brit.
We tend to forget God is in control. He will not give anything that you can not bare. Life challenges happen in season. Forgive yourself, forgive the other person, grieve and move on. Trust in God and pray for guidance.
I’m the one who DM you recently and all I can say is THANK YOU! You truly are an inspiration! And thank you for being real !
It's been 3 years after a 13 year "abusive" relationship and I still feel not "good enough" .. it takes time to love yourself again ..but yes.. time does heal :) it gets easier and i have started to find myself again :)
thank you for YOUR story xo
lord knows I want to go get my tea, but who has time when brit is spilling it all the real way.
The Delaveau's lol I was in bed watching I didn't fell like getting up
The Delaveau's ii
Watching you grow and finding your voice is truly amazing!!!
Britt thank you so much for this. So many people including myself has gone through this and sometimes it’s really hard just to move on but you verbalizing it and just letting us know it’s not anyone’s “fault” per se really blessed me. Thank you so much for sharing your truth and how your relationship with God has brought you through. I cant say thank you enough
Love your honesty and strength. I watched your video with misty eyes. I know it was God who is your keeper. I don’t know how someone could just walk away from such a large commitment. I do feel some type of way but you are right the children come first. No harsh words need to be said. You are truly being classy and you are a inspiration on how we all need to lean to and on Christ.
Prayers and mucho BLESSINGS to you Britt ... your strength is AMAZING... keep pushing through my love 💜🙏🏾💕💕
This has been the most honest and best video you have put out in a few weeks..truth always win and this is what people are looking for.
I admire your courage, God bless you!
Great message.Thank you for sharing your story. Also, love the picture at the end.
Britt, I don't comment on your videos that often, but I loved watching you guys as previously the Nive Nulls and now as Britt's Space and it is amazing how you've dealt with this. I mean, it's just so crazy that you've gone through so much stuff and you still function, it's crazy - I'm amazed. I'm so glad that you're feeling like yourself again, day by day and continuing with what faith has for you and the path that is being lead out to you. I will be watching your journey throughout.
Britt you're like the big sister I never had. You're words speak so much truth and wisdom into my life. Continue speaking because It truly touches many of our hearts. Love you to pieces sis keep shining! ♥️♥️♥️
Amen girl! He is so faithful! So thankful for your testimony and your vulnerability! What a witness to Him!
Thanks so much for your honesty and obedience, Britt! You have no idea how much you are helping right now. God bless you!!
You are such a strong mama! Keep it up❤
Very good advice. Blessings to you. Love and Light
Tears. Britt, you hit the nail on the head with this vlog. I’m going to pray about my relationship tonight. Thank you!!
Thanks for sharing Brit❤️ This spoke to me on so many levels. You are so inspiring!
now that I have finish watch all I have to say in your own words is "YOU ARE GONNA BE OK" keep doing awesome brit.
Brittney....you are so strong and amazing. Thanks for sharing your story.
Thank you for sharing so candidly and genuinely. Whenever you share your struggles you open yourself to helping others in their hurt. I know you have helped me in mine. Praying for your continued strength and bravery.
Thank you so much for opening up!
So I had mixed emotions throughout this video. At first when you were talking about Austin and the end of your marriage I was angry again and it felt like it just happened. I've been watching you guys for the past couple years and have seen all the videos, I really looked up to you all as family because you guys were all close and are of God and it just felt like for me a place to come for humor, peace, interracial love (
Still praying for u
Britt you are such a positive light even during the dark times. I love how you remain positive and up lifting. Thank you for sharing your story
Britt this is amazingly refreshing, the rawness, the realness, is so touching! Thank you!
Thanks for sharing your story. I think you're handling it remarkably.
Absolutely am in awe of you as a person. True inspiration for women!
Handled with such inspiration, truth and CLASS! You are a bright light, Britt! Here you are today. So amazing! Thank you for being you and sharing that with us!
I love that you're still making videos and I appreciate your optimism! You are so strong and I so look forward to seeing you grow as a person! Love you!!
GOD is Amazing!! 14 years of marriage gone for me but lessons learned along the way. We are fearfully and wonderfully made. Bless you Brittney😍
I admire your strength...it would have been easy to run and hide.
LOVED THIS. Thank you so much for sharing
What a powerful testimony. Thank you for being so open and vulnerable. Prayers for you and your family. Thanks for being a blessing!! ❤️
YOU are incredible, sweet friend! Those babies are blessed with you as their mama. I want to hug you!!!!
Thx friend 🤗❤️
You're marriage story is exactly mine's. I've been married for 7 yrs and have a 6 year old daughter. And to the T, your experience is mine! I am in the midst of separating and not by my choice. Thank you for being transparent and allowing God to use you to encourage me at this moment. You're in my prayers...❤
My marriage of 13 years ended last month. Your videos are encouraging, you are doing Gods work. Thank you.
Literally just want to give you the biggest hug! Praying with you and for you momma!