WHY YOUR HAIR ISN'T GROWING | Spilling The Tea On Natural Hair Growth
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My issue with stylists is that they don’t know how to detangle natural hair, so they rip through your hair with paddle brushes, fine toothed combs, etc. and ask why you didn’t detangle before coming. Even though you DID detangle.
OMG. She took that damn paddle brush and was brushing my curls. Really. I was pissed. Oh and she said shes trying to go natural. Well I told her you will need to learn about it to be about it.
nurseemmanuelle .......Not to sound racist or anything, but cosmetology schools usually teach methods for white people's hair and not ours. They have gotten hip to separation of product....they know it takes different products for our natural hair, but they still use the same methods for caring for our hair and it's just not so. You can't comb or brush our hair the same as you would a white person. A fact that they have not accepted yet. Our hair IS different and should be treated as such. Nothing is wrong with that, why pretend that we can use the same products and care for it the same way?
I'm white but I have curly hair, and I absolutely cannot brush it when it's dry. I don't even go to hairdressers anymore because it's so damn painful when they brush my hair out. I cut it at home
I had a white stylist wash my hair. She only washed it two times. I scratch my hair and a mountain of dirt is in my nails! I couldn't even feel the girl's fingers on my scalp! Then her manager had the NERVE to say I don't have "normal hair". She's lucky she caught me when I was young and ridiculously patient, cause I just ain't got time for that sort of foolery these days.
nurseemmanuelle some stylists**
1. Stop going to a salon, learn your hair yourself!
2. Pay attention to the ingredients in your hair products (if you don’t recognize the first 3 ingredients, d r o p i t)
3. Create a hair regimen
4. Listen to your hair
5. Use low manipulation styles
6. Wear your hair in stretched styles (especially if it is very kinky)
7. Deep condition weekly
8. Learn your hair porosity (try some at-home tests)
9. Moisturize your hair properly
Tip 2 is horrible what if it was a genuinely good product?
Tip 2 what does regimen mean?
Ndamononghenda Nekuta think of it meaning routine, so create a hair routine that works for you :)
Honey aesthetic think of your hair being your mouth and your hair products being the food. A lot of people like to know everything they’re eating and avoiding chemicals. Of course though, do what works for you! A lot of people don’t strictly follow every one of these rules, they’re just helpful guidelines she pointed out in the video :)
BRuh my has a freakin' salon lmao
I hate when people be like is that a wig no it's called hard work and loving ur hair 😂
I know right! My mom last week that my hair was a wig!
I've had people put their hands in mines and tug.
Jonathan Washington wow that's so disrespectful😧😢🤭 It woulda been a fight😂😂😂😭
@@J-W.- omg
But deep down you like it when you hear that sis...haha it's an undertone compliment ..yall know 😂
Story time!!
When I was in school the dismissal bell rung, and I was making my way down the hall. I was wearing an afro that day, and it's pretty big. These two girls were talking and one of them said "I like your hair!", so I said "thank you" and kept walking. Her friend turned to her and said "you know that isn't real right?", the first girl said "I know but it's still pretty". I almost tripped over.
Tommy Wiseau I wouldve turned around and backhanded their asses🤷🏾♀️
Excuse me? Fake? What you you meaaaan?!
Bruhh i can not with people ask me same
Tommy Wiseau gating girls ain’t happy happy girls ain’t hating
That’s my problem, I don’t deep condition. That stops now. 2018 will be the year I get this hair together. In Jesus’ name. Amen.
Update 05/24/20: I decided to cut my hair again (about 5-6 inches off) back in October. I'm doing much better with conditioning regularly. My hair is healthier, but I haven't reached full Afro goals yet. (The goal I've set for myself)
Hope everyone else is staying safe during this global situation and taking time for self care. Be blessed!
Amen!
Amen!
Amen!
Amen🙌
AMEN
Your hair made me happy
Hey lo ❤
Omg HII « «
This video literally made me get up and refresh my curls that’s been in a bonnet for two days ...
“Cut off 12 inches”...sis that’s a whole ass hair cut. I cannot with these scissor happy stylists.
Michaella Allen rigggghhht 😂😂😂
IM DEAD.😂😂😂😂😂😂
a whole BIG CHOP
@@skylar200 😂😂😂
Michaella Allen my hair doesn’t even have 12 inches to spare
when Drake stood up clapping I died
Yass I hate when I go to get a trim & I see them cutting off 1 to 2 inche like sis u know u wrong. 😩😭😂
Princess Kay like sis why you trying to do me dirty 😂
Princess Kay
I've never heard of anyone going to a stylist and them NOT cutting more that inch or more. I don't know what theses stylist don't understand. Maybe if I was to go to one and use the phrase "just DUST my ends", and maybe they won't go scissor happy. lol.
Khalidah Kamal yes I’m a start using that phrase. they be getting mad tight like sis I done put blood sweat & tears to get this shit to grow & u gt cut off all my hard work like that. I be ready to square up. 🤦🏾♀️😭😂
Princess Kay
LOL! I HATE conflict but I don't trust myself if I went to a "stylist" and my is cut so short almost damn near to my ears. That's why I just won't go to them.
Khalidah Kamal that actually just happened to me as well. After 5yrs of being natural my hair had grown mid back length. I went just before Thanksgiving to get my normal blow out and a trim but instead she CUT not trimmed but CUT my hair into a shoulder length bob. When I tell my you my heart hit the floor. But surely on the pursuit to growing it back longer and healthier.
The stylist I was going to would charge an additional $25 for a trim here in Chicago. It was more like a Cut every time so I decided to test her one day. I had my hair done by one of the other stylist in the salon when she wasn't there. This new stylist proceeded to trim my hair (like they love to do) and I left shortly afterward. When I returned to my normal stylist a short time later for a blowout, she insisted that I needed a trim. I told her, "It was literally cut recently. I SERIOUSLY doubt I need a trim." She continued to give this BS excuse as to why I had to have one and I Realized then, that it was always about the additional $25 she was trying to make. It wasn't about health or what she really thought I needed. Ole girl had just been chopping my hair off for no reason at all. Learned my lesson.
cheterry17 That's why I go to Supercuts. If you ask for a trim of the dead ends, that's all they'll do. However, if you ask for a full cut, they'll do that as well.
cheterry17 😢😢
25 is cheap as heck try 150 I live in burnsville Minnesota i havnt been to my stylist in over 7 years I've been natural since the 6th grade my choice my mother never let me get my hair done with weave thank God it's ugly anyways I don't like it my natural hair is beautiful the way it is the only thing I've ever done was straighten my hair until I realized my natural curl looks way better than my natural hair straight
I get what you mean, some stylists have individual sales goals and the store as a whole does as well. Sometimes it more about greed than hair. Sorry that, that happening to you.
Lol @ole. You Nigerian.?
I don't know why people be acting like black people can't have good hair💯❤
GOOD HAIR? What is good hair?
No such thing!! Either your hair is kept or unkept!
Ikr! People act like black people can't have long hair and automatically have to assume it's a wig like damn! 🙄
Healthy hair is good hair.
Gabriell Williams we all have good hair 😍❤️❤️it’s in our culture
On everything, my hair only started growing when I stopped letting people touch my hair.
Naturally Sando boom! Who knew that could have such a big impact?! 👏🏽
All that negative energy they was protecting onto your hair
Naturally Sando same
I'mma try this but in middle school it's gonna be hard to keep people off my hair
Sando D Same here! The hairdressers are so impatient and actually get annoyed when you tell them to be gentler!To avoid conflict,I just decided to be doing my own hair and I can see a HUGE difference!
😂🤣 that drake meme when you were reading the product ingredients. That was so perfect. 😂🤣
RiceKrispieTreats08 thank you!! Gotta throw my jokes in where I can 😂😂
I have to threaten my hair😂It be testin me some times. One day it go up in a bun easy😤the next day it be stuck in a afro😥Like are you for real
Jhonny Hill LMFAOOOO
My life 😂😂😂 I don't fight it anymore. My hair wins lol
You and I, same whatsapp group.
Fr 😡🤦🏾♀️
Her hair is the most alive natural I’ve ever seen it’s BEAUTIFUL
Girl you're spot on with the scissor happy hair stylists!!! I make sure I trim my hair a couple times a year and just cut it when it's dry and if my ends feel thin and weak. These stylists LOWKEY be Hattin on how long some people's natural hair is and they just wanna CHOP CHOP CHOP.😒
Right!
Right!! And if you notice, alot of these stylist dont even do their own hair (which i never understood 🤷🏽♀️). But can maintain someone else's. Maybe if they tried to maintain their own hair as well, it can look like our hair, ya think.....🤔🤔
@@rb641 I feel the same you do and I'm a Stylist. I NEVER trimmed anyone's hair like a CUT b cuz I don't like that either. I've been to Stylist THAT TRIED IT😕 and I'm no don't even and I make sure they know I'm a Hair Stylist also so only go to someone for a sew-in and I trim my own ends, treatments so when I go to someone just do my HAIR I do EVERYTHING else vitamins, water etc that is how I grew my hair out, and also leaving it alone been HAPPILY NAPPY for 8 yrs now 😊
She’s pretty and has great hair 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾👍🏾
Glorious IMN thank you!! ☺️😊💕
Ok unrelated.. your skin yasss
bubbleyum71 thank you boo!! 🤗
I seriously appreciate the fact that you did ACTUAL RESEARCH...I see you checking your notes and not just winging it. Good job sis!
You did a very good job in explaining the concept of giving your hair attention. One of the most important things we can do is stop using cheap products on our hair. It deserves more.
Linda Mack expensive products don't wrk on all hair types. I understand wut u mean about our hair desire but there r cheap products that are really well wit sum ppl textures n they have retained plenty uv growth from it. Most uv these expensive products that r made for tighter coarse textures jus cost too much n they taking that muny rite out uv our pocket wen it's not even helping our hair. But bcuz most uv us r so quick 2 go buy these trending xpensive products it's slowly breaking us n the companies noit. I do not use xpensive products on my hair n my hair hav been fine n stil thriving.
Yeah tbh shea moisture, cantu, creme of nature and as i am does not work for my hair at all. The only conditioner my hair likes is the tresemme moisture rich. Everyones hair is different. Keep doing whatever works for you!
Ashleigh Zanotti I feel u n I luv creme uv nature. Not all their products wrk on my hair tho. I do luv herbal essence hello hydration.
Hey, no disrespect but it's not about the cost. It's about the content, use organic products and you should be fine. I'm lucky, I live in West Africa so I just use what we have that grows naturally here. It's waaaaaay cheaper and my hair loves local products. Especially sheabutter, buttermilk (man shanu) and palm kernel oil. Black soap is another fave
Zeezam MG I feel u. Its wut wrks 4 each individual. Even those who don't use organic products still retain much growth n their hair is super healthy. I do understand that the most natural products will benefit us most but even non-organic products wrk jus as well 4 sum uv us
I knew it was serious when you took the notebook out 😂❤️
Elysha Castillo Right! Show me the notebook so I know it’s real 😂
NaturalReign I’m about to make me a whole schedule because of this video😂 about to get my own notebook
Elysha Castillo
Yes
Yassss hair! I need this video girl cause I'm bald headed! Lol
Kiya Karimu Lmao you have me dead 😂😂
Kiya Karimu Keep drink a lot of water to start. Also please start by knowing your hair porosity... That's the best part of brilliant growth
Kiya Karimu 😂😂😂😂😂
Same 😂😂
Lmaoooo me affff
so i have been looking on videos on how to grow your hair and i feel like this helped a lot on my natural hair journey even though i am 12 i need to learn at a young age
AKIA EVANS happy hair growing bbygirl!
That one curl in the middle lol
4:28 the way she said "SIS I CANT BREATHE"😂😂😂
I never leave comments but I 💜 her! She gets straight to the point no extra. She explain very well!
Melissa Polk thank you so much love!! 💕
Looking like a young Chaka Khan! You go Sis!
Sherri Solomon yes! That's who she looks like. Absolutely beautiful.
Ok no shade but y'all reaching.. she's beautiful but definitely not chaka Khan lol
This video actually helped me a lot because I didn't know that you should moisturize BEFORE putting oils in. I used to just put coconut oil in my hair overnight and I always wondered why my hair still felt dry especially after I washed it but now I understand. Hopefully my hair will continue to grow healthier and longer now that I can change my routines!!!
I have to add a little water to oils when moisturizing my hair. If not it would be greasy and dry
Her hair is actual GOALS 😀😂😍
THEONEANDONLYME Price thank you honey!!
It's so true about the hair salon. My neighbor was a stylist and she said they are not into styling hair pass the shoulders because it cost them time and money, and no business survives when you're losing time and money. Look around. How many long time customers have long hair?
EH CBunny good point. I stopped going because my friend's stylist gave her a perm without telling her and burned the F*** outta the side of my head.
Haven’t even watched the full video yet & i already 100% agree with the dont go to your stylist tips. I had a stylist i was going to since i was little and never saw much growth till i left & started doing my own hair.
Baby, your hair gives me LIIIIFE!😍💆🏾♀️
FINALLY FOUND MY HAIR GOAL!!! now this is hair. will follow you from now on. why am I just finding you ugh
“I can’t breathe , sis I can’t breathe ” 😭😭
A GODDESS WITH NO MAKEUP YALL MAD
Facts
One of my hair crushes ♡♡♡
Gem Floral I’m honored love!! 💕💕
Same😍😍😍😍
Gem Floral 👍
Marbelys C. Amparo D.L morning
Great
This is probably the best video I’ve seen on hair growth. Thank you sis! I like how you give the tip and then explain the science behind it. For example, I know porosity is a big deal but I didn’t understand why. Also, learning your own hair and not putting your fate in the hands of your stylist is a big one. Thanks again, great video
Yummy FatKid thank you! I’m so glad you found this helpful!!
This was so helpful, thank you! I just recently cut ALL my hair off in April to start over with my natural journey so I need all the help I can get. Loved this video, definitely subscribed ❤️
I got my notebook 💪😭 yaszzzz . Thank you beautiful for this. All the best for the new year
Very informative I agree. I always say listen to your hair and I agree with the salon visits. During the consultations I need to know exactly what products you plan to use and the process your going to use. Awesome video.
This video has been so helpful👌🏽
Thank you for spelling things out so clearly!!!! you’ve just helped me understand what I need to keep doing to see more hair growth
You are such a blessing and thank you for getting to the point.
YOUR HAIR LOOKSSS SOOO GOOOOD
Annesha Adams thank you so much love!
That's why I stop going to hair stylist.. they cut off too much hair.. I go in with long hair.. I come out with hair up to my ears..
Septina Willis exactly
Yes they cut to much off when you only ask for them to cut bit off they get carry away with the scissor
Thank you so much for this! I'm just starting to really care for my hair and found your videos. Feel like I've found the blueprint! 🙌🏾🥰
I’m the only natural one in my house, so I try everything I can but nothing seems to work. Thank you so much for this video ❤️❤️❤️
Now this is beautiful haiR!
Nina's Akashic Records thanks love!! 💕
*taking notes 📝* 😩
Pretty Presh *Ditto!*
Pretty Presh 😂😂 literally
Haa same !!!
This was very helpful, especially the part about checking the ingredients on the products. I haven't done that, but I am doing it today! I also appreciated hearing that the oils lock in the moisture that you already have in your hair instead of moisturizing your hair. Thank you for these helpful hints!
You are a real. No ads and ads and sponsors just spill the tea.. I hear yuh
I'm a hair stylist and I learned much from u thanks
This video was definitely more helpful than all the videos I’ve watched in the past about this topic THANK YOU SIS ❤️❤️
Fashionrebelxo no problem girl!!
I've found my hair twin!!! My daughter introduced me to your channel & I'm hooked already.
Soon as the video came on i was like yesssss come thru with the curls I love your hair 🙌🙌❤
Great video! That hair is beautiful! Thanks for sharing hun.
Love this video and your hair. I’m trying to grow out my tapered cut so this was needed
Thank you🙌🏽 for letting us know why people say to do certain things to your hair! I never knew why exactly oil goes on last! I love your detail !
This is the put on! Thank you, because I was clueless, because I have had my hair in locks for over10 yrs... N now I'm a new type of natural with my original curl.. SO this is super helpful! Thank you!
I’m a real one! Because I made it to the end!! 🙌🏼😂 And enjoyed it! New subbie!
Thanks for the response. I am giving my hair more attention than I use to and through couponing able to try more things. Some work some don't. One of the best products I have tried is aussie moisture products. The deep conditioner is extremely good.
This is by far the most informative hair care video I've ever watched. You went straight to the Point!!! I've been doing so many things wrong. 🤭 But truth is, only few months I've changed my hair stylist and my hair had been growing CRAZY.
seriously I am just coming across this video and I was like that can not be all her hair. Gurl it is absolutely beautiful you got a new subbie boo
"If you made it to the end of this video, you a real one!" 😂😂😂😂 Love it!! I stopped going to my beautician for 5 months and really notice the difference. And yes people ask if I'm wearing a weave. Nope I just love my hair so I treat it right.
Hair goals 😩❤️🔥
I am IN LOVE with your hair!!
Omg I want to hug you! You broke this down soooooo well!!! THANK YOU! THAT YOU! THANK YOU!!!
Your hair is sooo beautiful!!!
That was some real stuff little mama. Great!!! Can wait to try all the recommended oils.
I thank you for the information, it’s very much appreciated. This will definitely help me on my natural journey. Bless up to you sis!
Enjoyed watching your video sis!!! Can't wait to watch more... thank you!!!
I have not been to a salon in 9 years!!! I don’t miss it!!! Lol! I have been doing my own hair since 2009 when I started transitioning and especially since I went natural in 2010.
I’m 16 Finna be 17 with 4c hair shoulder length by 18 I want it down my back before college
Hell Queen yeah lol
How it’s going so far? I’m 4C and trying to be BraStrap Length in 3months. Im 2 Yrs Natural and at Collarbone length
Do you have any tips
T I R Z A H trim when ends get rough, moisturize, low manipulation styles, if you use products with silicons make sure to use a sulfate shampoo every two weeks or four, every month or two weeks do a protein treatment, did I say low manipulation because too much will break your hair. Have a good day 🙂
use rice water 3-2 times a week❤
I'm sat under a hair steamer right now watching your video, your hair is beautiful, I'm determined to get there!
Thanks!!!!!!! I needed this! I can't wait to see my out come!
Love the big hair
Ms ch thanks love!!
Big Hair, Don't Care. I like that
Just discovered you and LOVE you Sis! The info is on point and your delivery is REAL! The thumbs down are trippin'!
Very helpful !! It made me realize that I used to have a routine and I don't anymore, I will get back to it! 2020 we still hereee
Girl I feel you!!!! I say the same things in my videos!! I 100% agree with all the steps provided. These same tips have helped me obtain healthy and long hair.
For more hair growth tips:
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NaturalReign Do you ever braid your hair? What is your everyday morning routine?
NaturalReign This is the first video of yours that I watched and I love your personality! Plus your hair is definitely my personal hair goal😎
Where do you purchase the almond oil?
Thanks
NaturalReign hey is it true that water is moisture? Do you use wild growth oil? If so does it work? I need your help please. My hair has a lot of Dandruff's and I don't know why. It's damaged and very dry and it's short. Help me please what should I do.
Much thickness, rate of growth, & texture is genetics. Mine will only grow but so lengthy; yours is quite bushy & lengthy ~ really nice!
I loved this video and how informative it is! Not to mention your personality is adorable...😘
Your fro is so healthy and full.. GOALS...🙌💪✨
You are spot on with that first tip! I like my hair stylist she's really nice and very gentle with my hair, but I noticed that I retain more length and my hair grows more when I do my hair. I just don't do my hair because I'm SO LAZY!!! Lol! But 2018, I'm going to try to do my own hair more.
When you upload - I stop everything I’m doing just to watch✨💕
NaturallyIyannah thanks boo! You’re a real one!! ❤️😘
Your hair is my goal. I am so happy to see this i am in tears of joy. You go sis youu effing goooo
Thanks for some reminders I forgot about for my natural hair to grown. Thank you a million girl and yes I watched from start to finish.
I am so happy the universe suggested your video to me.... I needed this!!! thanks sis
I really liked what you said about knowing your hair. I haven't been to a salon In over 10 years. I've been taking care of my hair since. I use to get perms but I stopped in 2008 now my hair had broken off and I really didn't know what to do so I decided to braid my hair and really take care of it. Then aftèr awhile i notice that my hair was growing the only thing I did was to leave my hair alone for at least 3 months at a time then I would wash condition my hair and it worked , now my hair is to my bra stap in the back and as of now I still were my hair in braids but I deep condition my hair evèry two weeks I don't use a lot of shampoo but I do wash my hair and deep condition it more.
The moment you said stop going to the salon is when I clicked the thumbs up button! I watched this entirely and think this will help me. I'm determined to stay natural and not just for a few months as I've done in the past.
INSTANT SUBSCRIBE. I wish I saw a video like this sooner! I’ve been natural since my sophomore year of high school and I’m literally JUST NOW learning most of these things as a sophomore in college. I know. I was soooo stuck on listening to other people rather than my own hair for too long. This video is a sign, a confirmation. 2018 is my year to love on my hair & learn to listen to it even better. Thank you ❤️.
Girl your hair is the bom!!!😱😱
Thanks this was the best explanation on how to determine my hair porosity. Thanks
Thank you for explaining porosity! It's going to make a big difference in my hair growth now.
Great tips. This was very informative and well spoken.
Your Hair is so beautiful!
Yo hair is giving me liiiife! 😍💯👏🏽
❤️thank you for this Queen. I'm bout to grow my hair back out from my waves and I needed to hear some of this
Thank you for the pointers. You definitely know what your talking about.