81: Conversations with Racist Family Members
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- Опубліковано 10 лют 2025
- Ms. Pat opens the show asking "what is wrong with the police?" In the wake of the Breonna Taylor verdict. We also talk about handling racist family at the holidays.
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“YOU started the Tea Party and ate my ribs??” 😂😂😭
Imagine Ms. Pat & Bill Burr on a podcast together, god damn that will be insanely funny.
3rd wheel tory holcomb for the W!!! Iconic podcast!!!
Bill would have to bring his black wife onto the podcast with him.
Yes and they have the down to earth skills to cut to the chase and say what needs to be said and heard🧐
Ppl of color are tired thank Ms pat
Listened to this yesterday and now rewatching. Love that y’all are having these conversations ❤️
ms. pat is an entire demographic of conservative black moms who are not aunt viv. she sounds nothing like my mom but sounds EXACTLY like my mom
breonna = psy op
cousin tearless tv interview within 2 days
As an older white guy myself, I didn't realize that black people are still living with so much fear. It's easy for many of us to dismiss racism because post civil rights, it seems on the surface that everybody has access (roughly speaking) to everything we do. When I see people Of color shopping, dining, living and enjoying many of the things I do, it's difficult to acknowledge the nuances because they're deeply layered and in many cases abstract. I've always considered myself a liberal, but as-of late I have become somewhat critical of the overt political correctness that often gets displayed. Recently, I've come to realize that the motive of many activists is not to diminish the First Amendment, but to demand respect and in all honesty I can respect that. Also, as an older white guy that knows many Republicans, I often think their elitism gets mistaken for racism. I'm not saying they're not racist but I have a feeling Ms. Pat's dentist probably doesn't hate people of color, he just doesn't want to help fund their healthcare. Who knows, maybe he is a racist but as a society sometimes we mislabel people before we know their full intentions. It's difficult because there is no instruction manual to effectively run a multicultural society, all we can do is listen and respond with compassion. Thanks for the discussion Ms. Pat and also you've convinced me to get off my behind and vote for Biden!
I really like your response and "as an older white man" to be open to listening to another groups point of view. It is so important. I wish more white people would be open to really listening to the perspective of black people in America.
@ Are you a black person living in the US?
@@taylorfausett177 Thank you!
@Robin Hood I understand! Thanks for the follow-up.
I agree with you! The primary aspect that scares me a lot is that it feels like our society, in general, is more and more "anti-human." I think technology and other things have separated people. While computers/internet/phones/apps make life easier in a lot of ways, we don't really interact with other people in the ways we once did and we are missing that connection. We really aren't communicating or connecting in the ways that humans should. The media and politics in general don't help and basically contribute to polarizing people because they generate so much $ and these issues fuel campaigns. It is really sad. I agree that elitism and other things are often mistaken/mislabeled as racism. And we are living in an atmosphere where that has become acceptable. I can only hope we will begin to identify less with political parties, bullshit politicians and their agendas, and identify more with one another. I really commend Chris, Deon, and Ms Pat especially for having this conversation.
I visit this episode often! One of my favorites…
"I would rather fight Breast cancer than think about someone shooting JuneBug"
Wow! America, please stop expecting black parents to think like this, it is not normal at all.
Hugs to Ms Pat ❤️😘
Deon!!!!. Speaks truth. 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾 "You not finna do that here" 37:45 .
My favorite episode by far! I don't understand why this one, doesn't have more views! Nothing, but the truth!
43:00 thank you Deon 👌 I am not gonna argue with a 50 yr old man. At that point only experience can change their opinions and I can’t give that to them.
I just love ya so much Ms. Pat 😭❤️ can’t wait to read your book ASAP
Good conversation. I love you Ms. Pat. You're beautiful and so funny. I was raised with some wrong thinking going on. It wasn't outright most of the time. I was also raised Christian and thank God for that because when I walked out of Jr high with a black friend and my grandpa said next time you do that you'll walk home, I was livid. My first thought was Jesus loves everybody. He sees us as one entity, brothers and sisters of the same family. We all are on equal footing before God. He sees people, His beloved children. The enemies agenda is destruction and offense. God's will is unity. We can all celebrate each others differences. There are so many beautiful things that come out of different cultures. How can you say you believe in God and not love everyone He created? That's the belief I chose to go with and I'm so glad I did. I'm choosing to teach my kids the same and pray that it will continue through them. Empathy must be taught. It seems to have disappeared in our world today.
J did sees skin color, he sees gender he created the difference. It's to be celebrated not to divide or breed fear.
@@hillaryconsultingservices Thank you for opening my eyes to that Nakia. I have edited my comment.
Ms Pat gave an epic monologue here
Deon is so smart. He is right about that it's the "System". We have to change the way our police force is trained, or rather, not changed. In the UK, the have so much more training and they don't carry guns.
Yes UK police don't have Guns they have mp5s
@@kahhouliabdellah8314 Only one in 20 UK police carries a gun.
@@kahhouliabdellah8314 Do you live there?
@ Not really. I'm saying that the police in the US need a lot more training. The UK has better training.
I love Ms Pat so much. She really never gets into an issue. I respect her to the fullest and I'm glad she is representing how black people feel and why regarding the police. Unless I walk in her foot steps, I will never really know how she/you feel. It's that simple. But the average white person is so committed to being defensive that they will never be able to do that, unfortunately.
Love and respect to Ms. Pat and Crew ✊️🤘💨💨💨💨💨💨
I fully enjoyed this episode. Like all the others. No lies told. Respect all point of views. ❤️
Sweep enough dirt under a rug you will eventually trip over the bump .
Man, this is an amazing conversation...damn.
I’m so glad I get to see y’all!!
Great show Ms. Patt.
I love you miss Pat!
And why don’t he feel the same sorrow for the black man like he does for the blue
50:20 Deon is spot on.
Pro life means to protect life from beginning to end. Therefore you invest in Child care prenatal care, nurseries,pre-school, primary, high school, vocational education, colleges and universities. This would contribute to a better coalition of neighbourhoods, then towns, then cities. It would mean paying people for the wok they do a fair and just wage, not trying to defraud them of their pensions after a lifetime of service. To be accountable if called out on unacceptable behaviour and not cowardly target and abuse the person who checked you for your nonsense.
Thanks for these interesting and inspirational conversations. Keep pushing for more uncomfortable but necessary conversations that help enlighten the people who can’t or won’t listen to the people with the educational voices, but may understand a lot clearer coming from someone like you Ms Pat 🤗🙏🏽👈🏽💪🏽
Is it me or is there only sound in my left AirPod?
Same
Same and I have BOSE headphones
@@scoopitywoop u shouldn’t settle for bose
@@staticbeans thanks Judge Judy
Same 😂
Miss Pat looking like a Older Meg Thee Stallion
Lol no she doesn't.
The hair just turning me on ion know she giving me older Meg vibes
Thank You Ms Pat! Love Ya!
Ms Pat will be in ATX in November. I am def ready for the laugh.
Yo Miss Pat just subbed here from Rogan. This was a great episode. I'm gonna check out the rest. Don't know if that's your son but he's on the money
Deon Curry is not Ms Pats son, he is a comedienne.
@@evelynaguilar1035 I know now lol 😆 been watching all her stuff.
I'm white but I hate racist there's family of mine that is but they done learned I told them about themselves and I don't associate with them we all bleed. Red and color of skin does not matter to me I love everyone I can't stand racist I don't hang out with them and I don't associate with them I totally agree with u Ms Pat much love
Good for u !
Ur thought and character makes u a free man !!!
58,09 Amen Deon 👏 so often the voice of reason on this show
Look at Spangler's shorts, and I'm drudging threw a foot of snow, I'm Jelly. Loves you all✊🏾
Love you Ms. Pat
Preach Miss Pat. It’s just evil.
Not getting notifications for the last couple shows! I have to catch up on 4-5 shows. Def don't mind tho.
Pat hope you doing well you looking good these days
I love these. You guys keep it so real. You guys also are educated in theses issues not just what the media says about it. Thank you guys.
I do agree that it's the training or lack in their training that is at the core. And part of that training should be ongoing in-services about the laws, the ethics, that no matter the situation are primary. You are supposed to be using the least amount of force...PERIODDTT!!! I also think mandatory group therapy would do them a lot of good.
A person given this authority over the public needs to be of a certain moral character, and if not that naturally, it should be taught. Refreshers also a routine. Reminders of how they are expected to operate when they're working with people...it's not supposed to ever be personal...
And the capacity for crisis intervention needs to be on point. It was also a great point made that they escalate situations. I'm white and I'm a girl and I still avoid the police because they are like that... I feel like I haven't really seen them be helpful, and only kind of deteriorate things and take them to a level they don't need to go, and I don't wanna take a chance. I'll cross the street and walk away...smh LOVED this one u guys!
VIDEO!!!!!! Thank you god.
My leaf ear loved this.
I knew sooner or later Chris would say Crack Babies the wrong 😑 way Pat says that not you your too comfortable Chris
Im with chris there is a lot thats said what you should do, but its ultimately not gonna be productive. In my opinion there are a lot of people whos mind you are not changing. Its one thing to converse with someone who you can reach, but theres a lot of people who are only in it to “win” and dig their heels in deeper
Everyone: Here's my opinion and that's that, it's gospel.
Me: Something is wrong with the audio on this one.. 😮
That said, I'm only like 10mins in 😅
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All Love to the crack babies 💖💞🕊
Deon 100% it is not the police's role to evaluate the facts and make determinations of a case or to enforce punishment.
is not black peoples responsibility to educate bigotted, racist people on the ignorance! Unless there is zero tolerance for the hate people spew, the division amongst society and the violence & prejudice displayed you are enabling and sympathizing. Put your political affiliations aside and vote for policy and the protections of vulnerable members of our families, workplaces, and communities.
I like the way Chris approaches Racism. I relate it to the way you try to get somebody who doesn’t believe in GOD to believe. You can’t just go up to them their thought process is stupid. Talk to them and help them understand what they think is stupid and give them knowledge.
Nobody goes to a random person and say they are racist. It is typically when its a racist act happening. Chris could stfu because he himself is racist. Maybe you are too. Who knows
Very interesting 👌.
Sometimes deon sound like Chris Tucker 😂😂
Stand up 4 right
Black & blue is gd colors where I’m from 😭😭they was mad asl when they saw the police took they colors .. not gone lie love when deon talk about race & politics you better say that black man!!
Attached the police pension fund. The state and tax payer have to pay for their actions.
I think a great President would be Joe Rogan someone that had left the Mormon Church suggested that the Podcast is called Mormon Stories John Dahl is the guy who runs the Mormon Stories I know Joe Rohan wouldn’t want that job but there’s a lot of people out there that love Joe Rohan funny and Smart!!!
Check the audio. It favors the right moreso than the center
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ms pat the queen of comedy ?!
Overseer ( popo ) dogs are taught in German , google the commands and a few , less than 10 . Plots , pass off , pocken , ouws ( that’s spelled wrong ) but yeah so don’t trip just learn the commands .
Ms.Pat has a point 👉
Dope episode
Ms. Pat you're awesome I laugh so hard when you're talking anytime and everytime.
Please fix the audio. Please fix it. I only hear you on my left ear.
I thought Chris was more intelligent than this just say you're going to vote for Trump and be done with it I can't listen to this anymore
It was tough a tough listen
24:20 I'm married to Portuguese man. Because of their Catholic and colonising history they are strong on the - Oh don't say anything to so-n-so.
Things get more and more hectic, only in my heart/brain/soul, from 2015-present.
SO you don't want me to say anything to so-n-so, I don't have to be around them. I said - No I will not be going out of my way to visit with them and if I happen to be busy when they come so be it.
Cut to - visiting his Auntie who has gone above and beyond to be awesome to us.
I was eager to visit her. While sitting at her kitchen table she looks at me with a twinkle in her eye and says - so-n-so has invited themselves over please don't get to upset I know how they are but if I had reacted to all the mean things they've done to me, I'd be stooping to their level.
Cut to - drinking and brooding when they start with their bs again in the middle of your story as if they are specifically fucking with you because they know the others are protecting them. You realize what a manipulative person they are and your resentment for so-n-so grows deeper as you wait for your moment to strike.
If you get over whelm from reading puff and eat fruit and water , take notes , compare and learn objectively leave your feelings on the shelf so you can get the real truth .
Sound only coming into one headphone ear
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Yes make a racist uncomfortable with a factual check
Is anyone else having an issue with the sound?
Yes. I’m listening on earphones and can only hear from the left one.
Yes. When I rotate my screen without the headphones I can hear fine
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#BallotorBullet
JusticeforBreonnaTaylor
It's fuked up
Love yous.
I advise everyone to rewatch this again now that the election are over & Biden won!! Such an awesome episode
I think that it is just about power period. Anyone nonwhite is not even a thought. Because they have all the power.
I also believe that the police need more training n let’s not forget that they risk their lives every day n we do need them but a clean up definitely needs to be done
You're wrong ms pat. I was 7 and learned everything about Black history and it didn't make me hate white ppl. I watched eye on the prize, roots, etc. I had old Black parents that told me what it was like growing up in the south during the civil rights movement. I didn't hate White ppl. I learned to hate the system. I learned why I would be viewed and treated a certain way going out into the world. Not wanting kids to learn history is a problem. You were making the same argument wypipo make to not teach history in school. Without learning history they are doomed to repeat it.
How do you feel about Florida changing history, and not teaching correct history. Slavery was a privilege.
You should hate them actually
Roots wasn’t even real, he stole someone else’s book and was sued successfully…. Y’all don’t even research your talking points.
Theres no audio
Republicans ( Red ) Democrat’s ( Blue ) 😂😂😂😂 high paid blood and crips that pay no taxes , the game is so real .
Knife your nationality claim your treaties , research your constitution ( Black ) ink is the only thing in it , nationality is The Key .
It seems he’s turning red
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I love what you’re saying here. If you need another white guy besides Chris that isn’t subtly racist or always acting like these are the only blacks people he’s ever met you can hit me up! I live on the north side, am an audio engineer, and never proudly founded the Tea Party! lol #fucktheteaparty #theywereallracistbecauseeveryoneinitallowedit
The audio mixed was fucked up too.
Tea Party?
Why can't the police receive the same training as the mighty Merican soldiers? Deescalation training is lacking.
Dear racist chris, I don't care about no opportunity to change a racist mind. They're not going to change and its not up to me or us to change yall racist mind.
Sorry guys! I can barely hear you.
Word , capitalism has no moral base , ethics or values .
Left ear audio only
Place liens on the officers Bond freeze dat check . Research police Bonds and see the millions of dollars being made passed around like a old used snatch and what ever know the Law ( Blacks Law Dictionary) 4th edition
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I here you. But you have a closed minded person in the middle. Having a uncomfortable conversation is hard.
🙌🔥💯👏 FTP
She is so FUCKING lit
I'm sorry, but there is a ton of misinformation in this episode. I know the intentions were good, but it spread so much wrong information and ideas that are just factually wrong and false.
Such as? [Genuine question]
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Their not crack babies Chris. Aka stop calling them crack babies. Chris. Gtfo here. Then speak of the devil. Tuh. Get him off the show.
Yeah that was ugly. Clearly she calls them that but that doesn’t mean anyone else can! Lol
Someone needs a hug
I think that Chris is gaslighting them. Ms Pat has informed Chris numerous times to stop calling her children crack babies. By now he should know their names. He is passive aggressive disrespectful Ms Pat and her children. I think that’s why her daughter spoke to him that way. She felt the disrespect from Chris by keep calling her a crack baby.
I think that before speaking about any case like Breona do your research please
Yea white boy chris being THAT type of ally should not be in a Black space
Chris stop calling her kids crack babies. Only Miss Pat can call them that. But Chris hurt people hurt people. Your feelings was hurt but can you appreciate how BP have felt for what we have gone thru through. So flip the script and take a pause and understand that That BP is coming from a place of pain. Then you can have a conversation on why she felt that way etc…