Do Soulmates Really Exist?
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- Опубліковано 9 тра 2024
- Matt Walsh and divorce lawyer James J. Sexton discuss the cultural influence over marriage, including the idea of soulmates.
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I believe so many marriages end in divorce because too many people think that "puppy love" crush feeling lasts forever, instead of recognizing that real love grows and matures into something far deeper.
DEEPER LIKE BEING ROOMATES!! OR PUTTING UP WITH THE OTHER JUST FOR THE SAKE OF IT !!!
True story. It is work after the first 3-10 years. Everyone is different. My wife and I have been through 15 years of ups and downs, but we are too hard headed to give up as long as it doesn't involve infidelity, we will just deal with it.
Cheers from Texas!
So you think teens should just F it out of their systems before they get married?
Bold strategy, let's see how it works out.
After 37yrs of marriage I am glad the puppy love stuff still pops up occasionally , but what I thank God truly for is that I still find her smoking hot and we still bump and grind once or twice a week and the only thing that interrupted that was being put on active duty for a couple of wars.
@@RdeneckTech Been married for 37yrs - you'll find the romance comes and goes but the hard headedness and bickering is forever.
I have been married for 37yrs we met on a blind date and I asked her to marry me on the third date ( She asked me why I took so long to ask, Our second date was in the ER her appendix blew up). We have raised 3 fine Children, One an academy grad. I'm a former Airport Cop and Firefighter now wheelchair bound and entering the winter of my life and there is not a day that I don't thank and argue with God as to why her. One last thing she is still smoking hot.
I cant count how many women i had, wouldnt trade them all for one woman no matter how good she is.... But im not religous.
I started dating my current wife at 21, we got married at 23, and now I’m 28 with a daughter. We both had the mindset that soulmates are built, not destinied. She tells me all the time that romantic comedy ruined women
True. That and Titanic 😂
My wife and I met when she was 13 and I was 14. We got married at 20 and 21.
We were each others first on our wedding night.
Now we have two teenage boys and about to celebrate our 20th anniversary.
That’s what success looks like to me.
The truth is that love is the will to choose that person every day. ♥️
DO YOU WEAR ONE SHOE FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE???
Beautifully said.
@@jamesjames5715 you sound like you forgot your meds this morning.
you fool@@PsychoSpartan7
Soulmates are real but they are made not found. As you continue to keep choosing one another and grow from your original attraction the other becomes your soulmate.
They aren’t real . You choose to make things work
You need to find someone that will put up with your $#!+ and someone who's $#!+ you can put up with.
soul mates is a sketchy concept... probably doesn't exist
IN DISNEY
There may be soulmates or soul types, but with a divorce rate somewhere around 50% it’s either that people are terrible at identifying who that would be for them or that it isn’t embodied in one person permanently.
It has become too easy to walk away from your spouse in a marriage.
ZERO stigma in being divorced.
And too one-sided when divorce happens.
People think they’re supposed to be happy all the time. Then life sets in, and it’s not rainbows and unicorns, so they troll for a replacement, find one, cause it’s new and exciting, then get a divorce, rinse repeat.
The concept of “soulmates” is absurd. Because the soul transcends death, and it’s till DEATH do we part. So death is the eternal divorce. Right? Yeah.
I have been photographing weddings for 9 years now. Knowing their stories, I've come to see that the worst experiences in life can create the most beautiful bonds.
I agree. What you just mentioned is a glimpse into why God allows evil in this world. His attributes, character, and glory is magnified in darkness. A candle in a dark cave is very bright.
The constant notion that marriage is work, work, work and that happiness is overrated, makes me think that these people project their own struggles onto everybody else.
Marriage from my experience can be happy, easy and joyful.
Yes, but that is a choice that both people choose to make and you have chosen that.
Unpopular opinion: parenting techniques are one of the leading causes of divorce.
Here's an unpopular opinion:: Fools that force kids into this world for their own sake are doomed to fail.
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My husband and I are soulmates. Been together since we were 18 and are now 49. Gosh do I love him
Rare and lucky. God bless you for that find.
Happy for you
Trying to find your "soulmate" is like trying to hit the lottery.
I'd rather hit the lottery...
Or you could put a little work in and maybe you wouldn't be so miserable.
@@xcalabur18And that is sadly while you will never have either.
@@garyhoffman5620 thanks for letting me know.
Guess I hit the mega jackpot then, because I absolutely married the man of my dreams.
Simple answer…no
I hope so, however I'm still waiting for mine. I think so many people stay with someone that they're not happy with, out of a fear of being alone, that doesn't scare me. I don't need someone I want someone ❤
Its someone who will put up with your shtt, and you will put up with theirs, forever.
YEA NOT FUN!!!
In 7th grade I saw a boy walking across the gym. He was of a "lower" social status than me, never met him, would never be the kind of person I would even talk to. Much to my dismay, I felt strongly that I would marry him. He started riding my bus at age 13 and fell hard for me. After chasing me for a year, I agreed to "go with" him at age 14. Married at 18, now 44. Yes, soul mates are a real thing. I don't know how or why, but I live it every day. It does not mean life is always perfect or we don't have our normal married ups and downs. It does mean that we have been 100% committed to eachother these many years and we WORK to create our lives together. We have always known that we are halves of the same whole.
Yes, soulmates exist. My mom and dad were soulmates. I had the best parents who have both passed now. So grateful. They were everything to nurture and love me and give me the start I needed in life. They didn't push me too hard but gave me boundardies. I never doubted their love for each other or for me or my sibblings. I still use their lessons today as an active 70 y.o. They modeled to me how proper people treat one another in life.
P.S no Matt, once again, you are slightly off. Your significant other isn't your soul mate because 'you choose' them....lol. That's absurd. There is luck involved. Chemistry is big. It is that chemistry that allows the bond of being a person's soulmate. It is the spiritual enmeshment that allows that bond to grow and flourish. Being on the same page. Moving toward the same purpose. Enjoying the same things. Caring arguably for the other person more than oneself. Willing to die for the other person and hard to live without the other.
They didn’t work at it at all?
My deepest condolences, my fellow Anglo Saxon.Also Walker is a great name
No such thing as soulmates. Compatibility, yes. But soulmates are Hollyweird propaganda.
Now let’s go ask your parents if they think they were soul mates or they really loved each other enough to make things work
Chemistry is just hormones has nothing to do with anything real . If it did drug addicts would never survive without drugs
Perhaps soulmates do not exist, but that doesn’t mean you can make a marriage work, no matter who you marry. Some monsters don’t show themselves until after you walk down the aisle. Believing you should hang on, regardless of the circumstances, can be dangerous to your soul.
Truth! The love bombing bait and switch is soooo real.
I think what our society promotes is very unrealistic. The focus is all wrong. All the focus should be on the couple discussing their commitment to each other. Real life. Not all the wedding plans, the dress, the party, the honeymoon, etc. Honest, really honest conversations of how to build a life together, values, expectations.
I thought based on the picture that Matt Walsh found his soulmate in James Sexton
They could’ve had a ‘ton of sex’
Not funny….
My ex left me for her 'soulmate.' Then she changed her mind, wanted me back months later. Told her to stick with her soulmate.
Important thing to understand: one's choice in a spouse is the difference btw a soul mate and a cell mate.
True! 😂
The unbelievable flexibility of James Sexton's thumbs is something that cannot be unseen.
Important thing to understand, marriage is not about your happiness.
Guess I'm never getting married. Not gonna be unhappy for the rest of my life.
@@kenshinhimura9387 That’s sad because marriage is a great blessing as well. Marriage will teach you not to be selfish and look out for others before yourself. And to be a protector and a provider.
@@kenshinhimura9387 Important thing to understand, being single won't make you happy. You will be lonely, people are not built to be alone nor are they built to have a long string of one night stands/short term relationships to be sexually satisfied which can lead to disease and does lead to dissatisfaction. Marriage isn't perfect but it is the best option. You will also be serving your nation because family is the cornerstone of society and children need a mum and a dad. My 2c.
@@Paul-el4zd Marriage doesn't teach you that, it gives you the opportunity to learn that. But I do think that is what you mean/understand.
@@Explorshon123 Yep, one quickly learns that you can’t just pursue your own selfish interest (even if you’re not married), that you have to put your wife and the needs of your children first. The parents (especially the fathers) should be teaching their kids, and preparing them for marriage. Main point: Marriage is not about your happiness, and if one approaches it like that, you’re setting yourself up for a big disappointment. I’ve been married for 20 years and it hasn’t always been “happy” but we will be married for life and we love each other deeply. Marriage is full of blessings but it’s also hard and worth it, the nuclear family is the backbone of society.
Matt, you gotta find a reason to get this James Sexton at regular intervals. Listen to this guy! This is a bubble busting rubber on the road reality guy. This culture needs more of this talk. Find a reason Matt, please.
amazing video, great opinions ‼️
There are different types of Love. Romantic love has an expiration date. Romantic love is also conditional & transactional.
@7:01 Talk about not having everything figured out and having a baby and increasing your bond - it always makes me think about the brother of my direct ancestor, Resolved White. Resolved came over on the Mayflower with his parents when he was 5 years old AND his younger brother was BORN on the Mayflower - his mother is who is depicted in scenes of the first Thanksgiving with the baby in a cradle and a 5-year-old at her side. People really did use to just figure it out as they go along. People these days try to have everything perfect first and then miss opportunities for growth and enrichment of their lives. Both of my children were unplanned and I wouldn't trade either of them for anything in the entire universe.
I don’t believe that there is ONE person for you. I do think that there are soul TYPES.
I’m a 41 y/o male. Was engaged once in my mid thirties and it didn’t work.
This divorce lawyer speaks truth. At my age now… I know exactly who I am, what I like, what I don’t like, and what I’m trying to get out of life. Trying to bring a woman into that mix at this age and stage of life will be a hindrance to what I wanna do.
Meh, you just haven't found a companion that you get along with and get to have sex with.
Yup, a lot of middle-aged men are in the exact same boat as you, which is why there really isn't a purpose in getting married after the age of 35 for men. There are exactly zero benefits in the West.
What do you want to do?
@@katydid2877 live free when I’m not at work. It’s simple. I come and go as I please. No one yells at me or cops an attitude. I do what I want when I want.
@@tlow1324 OK. Well, have fun.
Per US Census the average age for women marrying is now 28 and for men it's 30, what research seems to indicate is that the earlier one marries, the more likely it is to get divorced. Obviously is someone waits to marry until their 30's, they are more financially set, so they will be more selective.
My parents were soulmates and my hubs and I are soulmates…and you work hard to keep it
I completely disagree with the notion that marrying later means it’s harder to meld your lives together. I waited for the love of my life and it took all the way until I was forty to meet him. And, we have a phenomenal marriage. In fact, we are more happily married than most of the people we know who married when they were young and immature. I’ve have seen many people find the love of their life when they are wiser (and older).
My wife is my soul mate. I dont think ot happens to everyone but it happend to be. So long suckers
I think it might be up to God and he has someone for everyone
At the end of the day we all dont want to be lonely but we all want to be free
People want sexual freedom until they're all 60. And "freedom" to do what? Does having a job make you unfree? You're certainly free to not have a car and never go anywhere or do anything.
If you’re lonely, get a dog. They add to your life in immeasurable ways. Love them as they love you.
@@tlow1324Dogs love anyone who will throw them some food. True love comes from your spouse and kids. Sorry, that dog will not care for you on your deathbed.
When did Claude Raines get a tattoo?
One thing worth mentioning about how people used to ask "Why aren't you sleeping together" to an unmarried recently married couple is the possibility that the couple *literally did not know that this was something they were supposed to do.*
GUYS HAS MORE COMMON WITH GUYS SAME INTEREST !! HOW CAN A WOMEN BE YOUR SOULMATE ??? I AM NOT SAYING GUYS NEED TO DATE GUYS ...
It is a good idea about "soulmate" because you really need soulmate to make a good relationship to make a family.
No, there’s not.
Short answer: No.
Revolutionary road is part 2 of titanic 😂
No, humans aren’t birds
I mean I can't tolerate anyone but my husband so there's that.
Same here, but I'm Autistic so that's my reason...
@@Charlotte_Martel I'm not autistic but I'm introverted. My husband is extroverted but he also can only stand me. He's just got his charisma leveled all of the way up and it doesn't take any stamina. So he can be superficially charming and put on the song and dance for hours. I can be charismatic but it drains my stamina bar pretty quickly. I feel like a character on Skyrim that has vampirism caught out during the day. Once I drain my social stamina bar it's not coming back for a while especially during the day.
If you’re a reasonable person whom understands marriage is about serving instead of being served, you’ll find success with many partners.
Just like if you’re a selfish turd, there is no soulmating out of it.
No they don't
Oh man I’m getting close to 30 and this dude telling me to marry younger 😭 I want to
So go on, find someone you like and get married. It's a best friendship+, not a job interview. Find someone you enjoy and has the same values and goals and just do it! Don't overcomplicate it. Soul mates do not exist, a perfect spouse does not exist, but two people who get along and decide to commit to making a family together, THAT is very real love.
My idea of love comes from a childhood glimpse of pornography
There is no true love only finely tuned jealously etc
Haaaa haaa!!! Lets not paint pictures all day , im bored 😭🔥🤣 truth hurts , that was a week long fling and they called it the love of a lifetime. ....
Better to have loved and lost 🤣
is his thumb ok?
That's why I like Shrek movie because it shows the truth lol
You have lots of soul mates. Your dog can be your soul mate.
Nope. A dog can't be anything other than a pet. They are not family.
Dog can be a soulmate, it could be a friend or a parent. It’s a connection in life.
lol no dogs can not be soulmates.
@@lillylout.t.a.wthisthatand3658 any type of relationship can be a soulmate
This is why I don't talk spirituality to spiritual people. Lol. We all think we KNOW. 😂😂😂😂
I said "dog" specifically so I can get the idea across that this soul mate thing isn't that big a deal.
Marriage is defunct
DISNEY ALSO WOKE!!!!!
Marriage apart from God is MEANINGLESS. Marriages end in divorce because of selfish spouses not living to glorify God through Christ, but living for themselves.
PEOPLE HAS BEEN BRAINWASHED WITH RELIGIONS YOU NEED TO HAVE A FAMILLY AND CRAP!! TOTAL NONSENSE!!!!
Lol, bad take.
nice tats on the forearms of the "expert". I'm not taking any advice from that guy.
They're far more likely to exist than souls.
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