It takes two to raise a child. If the man isn’t interested in his relationship with his sons, the mother has to figure out how to be a builder and teach her children too. It is not about maleness nor femaleness, it is about filling those needs and children see that. Brian loves Jessica because he must have had a mother who was worth loving too. It takes both parents to make an exceptional man.
I apologize for not including Brian’s mom. I went to school w Brian’s dad and I see so much of his dad in him. Of course I should have included his mom in my post and for that I apologize.
Thank you for the further explanation, @bethprokopf5173. Now I understand your comment better. Brian is a kind and thoughtful person and superb caregiver. My thoughts and prayers are with both Brian & Jessica. They are a fabulous team! ❤️❤️
I got a good mix of my parents. But the side that most people see comes from my dad. He's the outgoing social butterfly of my parents. My mom is the type to sit and read a book. 😀😀
@jk Sampley I agree. I wish I had someone like him when I had my mastectomy. My husband, now ex made me get up and pack our son's lunch the second day after surgery because he didn't know how to. The only thing he was concerned about was when we would have sex again. Brian is a saint.
@@stacydavis1682 I wish I had someone like him anytime. I'm technically married, but he's a narcissist and has never been a companion. We are only together in our old age because it's cheaper than trying to go it alone separately, but sometime I think it's worse than actually being alone.
@@CharGC123 I am 57 and have been alone for over 20 years. It's really, really tough financially, but I gave up on men and decided I am better off alone.
@@lisesolberg5301 Same here, 20 years sans man. It just reorganising of attitude, of expectations, of finances, and learning to love one's self, be proud of your achievements. Women are not weaklings.
You are such a sweet man, Brian. Jessica is lucky to have you. You are lucky to have Jessica. My prayer is that you will come through this time and that you can move on with your lives. I hope that Jessica is getting stronger every day. Love to both of you and thanks for the update. 👋❤️🇨🇦
I don’t know if you follow Jenny Apple, but her husband, Kyle, has his own UA-cam channel where he gives his thoughts on being a caregiver for a spouse going through cancer treatment . Glad you’re “ok”. Thank you for the update x
I follow them as well.. Kyle is a wonderful husband, father of two and so so good to Jenny. Prayers to all who are touched by this horrible disease 🙏❤️
Brian, you just now hit LEGENDARY status. Right now that's the highest level, but they are working on DLC that will introduce new levels to the Game of Life. Well done.
I get it. As a caregiver it sometimes feels as though we're walking through a mine field, or just waiting for another shoe to drop. Maybe it's something akin to battle fatigue. Anyway, I send my very best wishes to you both for good outcomes and simply the peace of mind that can be hard to come by when facing a cancer diagnosis. Know that many people are pulling for you!
Thank you for taking the time to jump on. Don't beat yourself up. There are so many high priority conflicts that are making demands on your physical, mental, spiritual, and emotional health. God will provide what you need when you need it. No, we don't understand the why's. But I know you trust in God, whatever may come. Sending you hugs of strength and courage. You are loved.
Brian, I hear You with exercise deal. I don't Think I will ever join a gym. But, I am Trying to walk my dog at the end of the day. She also needs to lose weight. Oops! I also Like biking and hiking in very scenic areas! I’m glad to hear that Jessica is finally on the mend. You guys have been in a whirlwind for a long time now! You 2 are stronger than you know! Keep it up! The walking and biking will help your psyche
Wow, it’s been a long two weeks!!!!. When you’re under extreme stress, food is the last thing to worry about! Comfort is comfort! You are young enough that when things are better at home for you and Jessica, you can get back to healthy eating. But beating yourself up will do no good!!!! So stop!!! You have other concerns at the moment! If you are not kind to yourself you will have other heath issues. PLEASE TRUST ME! My precious husband died two weeks after my last chemo. Heart attack at barely 56. I’m still here, 15 yrs later! Cut yourself some slack, eat a baked potato and Spring is around the corner. Time to walk puppies and enjoy your garden! Find a way for you to de-stress, please! I’m not on instagram or other social media, so without these updates, I would not know HOW you are. Please let Jessica know, there are many many many people not on Instagrams that are praying for you both. So we are in the DARK. Much love and support to you both!! 8:008:20
NOT watching that "Big Event" & Instead Watching Krocks in the Car☆☆~Sending Lotsa LUV, Big Hugs, & Daily PRAYERS from Here in Surprise, Arizona♡♡...Blessings, Holly!!
Dude. I saw both my sister and my husband through cancer treatment about 18 months apart. People said the same things to me, worried for my well-being. They shouldn't have worried, I had my Cancer Suit on. Like superman, but different. Caring for them was the absolutely best thing I could have done for myself at the time. Yes, I tried to take walks, eat healthy, drink water... all the things. But really I was doing the best thing I could do at the time, take care of them. After the worst of it was done I got a good therapist and dealt with any unresolved issues. Take this with a grain of salt, because you shouldn't take advice from strangers on the internet, but I think you're doing just fine. Just keep doing what you're doing. You got this. Stay strong.
Bless your sweet heart!! My grown daughter has Stage 4 colorectal cancer and has been on every-other-week chemo since March 2019….I can’t tell you how much I admire the ones going through the cancer and you spouses having to deal with this…..I’m grateful for the amazing strength of my daughter and the heartfelt loving care of my son-in-law!!!! Sending healing hugs to. you both…❤
I'm praying for you both. I'm glad to hear that you're taking care of yourself too. Don't worry about being perfect with your diet right now. Do the best you can and try to get outside as much as you can for your mental health.
The word Cancer wakes you up to what is important in life. Things are just things. Say what you need to say every day .I have been through this and I never expected my hubby to die so it was a shock when I got the call he had hours to live. Everyday I want more time. So spend time together and enjoy life.🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Glad you are okay and I’m sure I don’t need to tell you that if Jessica is sleeping/resting, a quick walk or bike ride each day does wonders for body AND mental health. Also, it will help her to see you caring for yourself. I am a caregiver… it’s a must!
I think at times like this, if there is a bright side, is that you appreciate the little things a lot more, like the sun setting on a snow covered landscape.♥
I have been following pretty much from the start. I feel like we are close friends, even though we've never met. I think a lot of followers feel the same way. I want you to know so many of us are praying for both of you. Take care of yourselves first. ♥️
Also to add. Brian I think it’s important you speak to someone so you can express how you are really feeling. You will feel better being able to get it out !
My spouse is my caregiver and I’m so INCREDIBLY grateful to him. You are focused on Jessica, not yourself, which is lovely. Wishing you all the best. Truly. 💜
Brian, you and Jessica remain in my prayers. I get the whole enjoying the caregiver role. Being useful in a crisis is the thing that gets me through it. I was there for my mom first, and then my husband. One word of warning, when the crisis passes, be ready for a flood of emotions. My husband is doing remarkably well, and I am so grateful. But once he got to a place where he didn’t need me as much, all the feelings I’d been stuffing away came in like a storm. It was time for me to take care of myself. I’m much better of taking care of other people. Don’t be like me. 🙏🏼
That is so wise! You've given me a lot of new insight into how I was when my husband got through cancer treatments 10 years ago and then I perceived him as ignoring me. And then he had a stroke and it was hospitals being caregivers for two weeks until he died. I'm glad to see my frustration was normal.
I totally agree. When my beloved mommy was diagnosed with stage 4 ovarian cancer it absolutely consumed me. When she was lost I was lost. I had no idea who I was and where I was going anymore. I lost my dad a couple of years later and even though he had been in a nursing home and didn’t need me as much I felt , and still do, totally bereft and lost
Oh my gosh, Oliver's little mouth, so cute! Take care of yourself, Brian. I have been a caregiver, and you give the best care when you take care of yourself. Jessica is so lucky to have you. Sending healing energy to Jessica!
I went through this with my brother back in 2009 with kidney cancer. Stage 4, we did everything to save his life. I went to every appointment (in Boston- we live in Maine). I wrote everything down at the doctor’s appointments, my brother would introduce me as, “ This is my sister, my secretary.”… hahahaha lots of emotions, I get it.
My hometown is Collinsville (Lived there for 50 yrs - just retired to TN) so it warmed my heart to hear you speak about Fairview Heights. Thanks for keeping us in the loop, Brian. You’re a good man. Continued prayers for you both.
I know your emotional and mental state can be helped with your strong spiritual self. The idea of Movement can help with your emotional and mental side as well. Taking the puppies and Peef out for walks and the take a few photos to surprise Jessica with... Do remember your health can help Jessica better. Be well.....tell your parents thank you....,.
🥰🥰"I don't know.. I kinda.. I kind of.. I like taking care of her.. I can't explain it.. I don't know I just do" ❤ The essence of Love ❤ You two are lovely to watch. Happy Valentines Day ❣💞
I love that you love Jessica and are so proud to take care of her and love her. Dont forget to ask for help if and when you need it. Brian try and remember to take care of yourself as well. Wishing you Brian and Jessica and all your loved ones lots of blessings and well wishes.
Dear Brian, being a caregiver is the hardest thing you will ever do and if you could take some of Jessica's pain away I know you would. We can all tell that you love her from the bottom of your heart and she loves you. Take care of you both. Xxx
One day at a time, a little each day. Start small & try to add a few minutes each day, for no other reason than to move forward, feel better & take what little control you can take at this time. Physical movement, meditation, simple games that take you mind away for a minute & holding tightly to each other & to all of the support around you will help you get through this each day. We are all praying for you both.
Ok is good. Thank you for thinking of us, you're a peach. Love to you and Jessica as you heal. Yes, I was wondering how you all were. Be well, and show us your garden... lovely that she is forward thinking. Meee tooo.
I was a caregiver. Taking care of my husband was the most meaningful thing I ever did in my life. I know that feeling of not being able to catch your breath. When it happens, slow down, take some deep breaths. It will be OK. Sending hopeful and loving thoughts.
What a lovely guy you are. Please give Jessica our love. Both of you hang in there and give yourselves all the grace in the world for everything you have been through and are still going through. Sending you both healing wishes and prayers
Yes, it is super bored Sunday. However, I'd rather hear from you guys on a UA-cam video then watch that boring game any day! Glad things are as good as they are for you guys. Best wishes, and hoping things get a lot better for the both of you. Stay positive, stay awesome! I'm a loyal UA-cam fan.
Dear, darling Brian and Jessica .. I was thinking to myself while going through some 'stuff' of my own, how blessed I am to still be breathing. I remembered that, while I may not have any shoes, the other guy may not have any feet .. so I just have to pull myself up, dust myself off and carry on carrying on. To quote my mother's last words to me: "God gave me what he wanted me to have" .. and so it is. Be blessed you two. 💜🙏🕊
ThankQ Brian for keeping us posted!! You are a great person. It's your positive attitude that keeps you both afloat! Keep keeping on! Take care of both of you! Cheers! 👋🏻👋🏻 waving to Oliver too!!! 👍🏻👍🏻
Definitely play pickleball! Such a fun sport. Things move so fast that you don’t have a chance to think of anything else. And it is such a social game…..you’ll enjoy meeting new people! Good luck with everything..
You two are doing an exceptional job with all that has been happening. Thank you for taking the time to do an update. You guys continue to do the things that work for you and how you feel. Taking care of yourselves, whatever that may be, you need to do as you two are the number one priority! Positive energy being sent to you!
The stress of what you both have been thru is so exhausting and depressing. Being constantly in and out of hospitals seeing so many sick people you realise how lucky you are to be able to obtain great health back. You both have it in you to be your best. Spring is here. A month from now the light will be even brighter. Cheers
You’re just a good, good person, Brian. So glad you guys are able to cruise for a while. ❤ I have no way of reaching you privately because I am not in FB or IG, but wanted to let you know that I stumbled on a website using Jessica’s story to bash the COVID-19 vaccines. Disgusting. I sent a message confronting them but got no reply.
I didn't think about how that S word was forbidden! 😄 I'm thinking of you guys every day! 💗 You're such an awesome hubby. Glad you and Jessica are getting through the ups and downs of recovery. Looking forward to good news and keeping you in my thoughts/prayers.
Poor baby Oliver! He appears extremely worried and in shock. I admire your coping skills…….that smile, the positivity. Prayers are with your family! Hope Jessica a speedy recovery. We all miss you😍
thank you for sharing your feelings with us. Your eyes look optimistic with hope mixed with sadness, exhaustion, grief and 'things to do'. It is understandable that the changes in routine, potato diet, gave you a goal... a positive one that kept it going no matter how ehh it was for you both LOL. I couldn't do it alone, but with positive reinforcement and humor. My heart is breaking and I am still in shock from the very first "Hi, I'm Jessica in the car. I have this pain that is not going away and i thought I would share". Please always share...because it helps a whole community of people who isolate themselves because of fear. I am one of them. I have been a subscriber of your channel since 'potatoes'. There are no words to describe how a loyal subscriber feels and how they react. Prayers upon prayers surround you and Jessica and no matter what, YOU ARE GOING TO BE OKAY.
Bless you for your update and just take one thing at a time and as far as activity , just do it for your stress and anxiety to let it out. Every thing else will fall into place ( more energy ,smaller pants !! , just bonuses like that ) much love and admiration ......
Thank you for taking the time to share latest news Brian. I am keeping you and Jessica in my prayers. You both are such a bright light to the world. May God bless you and keep you through this extraordinary difficulty. ❤
Thanks for the update. Being a caregiver means going through all the emotional ups and downs plus having to be available 24/7; and yet, one rarely gets the credit for how tough and challenging caregiving is. You’re doing an awesome job but please remember to care also for Brian!🤗
It was nice to see ya Brian ,,,, Jessica has been in my thoughts and on my mind , I wish there was something I could do other then thoughts and prayers . You both are beautiful souls and you've made a difference in this world.
Me and my husband have started taking up walking the dogs everyday. It helps so much mental health wise and energy wise. My father passed away in 2022 and I was just mentally defeated completely.
Praying for both of you. Your dad raised a wonderful man in you Brian.
It takes two to raise a child. If the man isn’t interested in his relationship with his sons, the mother has to figure out how to be a builder and teach her children too. It is not about maleness nor femaleness, it is about filling those needs and children see that. Brian loves Jessica because he must have had a mother who was worth loving too. It takes both parents to make an exceptional man.
I apologize for not including Brian’s mom. I went to school w Brian’s dad and I see so much of his dad in him. Of course I should have included his mom in my post and for that I apologize.
Thank you for the further explanation, @bethprokopf5173. Now I understand your comment better. Brian is a kind and thoughtful person and superb caregiver. My thoughts and prayers are with both Brian & Jessica. They are a fabulous team! ❤️❤️
I got a good mix of my parents. But the side that most people see comes from my dad. He's the outgoing social butterfly of my parents. My mom is the type to sit and read a book. 😀😀
Jessica is so lucky to have you and that attitude. Prayers and best wishes for you both 🙏❤️🙏
You are a good man, Brian, you are an example to us of what a loving husband really is all about. Continued prayers for you both 🙏 ❤️
@jk Sampley I agree. I wish I had someone like him when I had my mastectomy. My husband, now ex made me get up and pack our son's lunch the second day after surgery because he didn't know how to. The only thing he was concerned about was when we would have sex again. Brian is a saint.
@@stacydavis1682 I wish I had someone like him anytime. I'm technically married, but he's a narcissist and has never been a companion. We are only together in our old age because it's cheaper than trying to go it alone separately, but sometime I think it's worse than actually being alone.
@@CharGC123 I am 57 and have been alone for over 20 years. It's really, really tough financially, but I gave up on men and decided I am better off alone.
@@lisesolberg5301 I think you're right!
@@lisesolberg5301 Same here, 20 years sans man. It just reorganising of attitude, of expectations, of finances, and learning to love one's self, be proud of your achievements. Women are not weaklings.
You are such a sweet man, Brian. Jessica is lucky to have you. You are lucky to have Jessica. My prayer is that you will come through this time and that you can move on with your lives. I hope that Jessica is getting stronger every day. Love to both of you and thanks for the update. 👋❤️🇨🇦
I don’t know if you follow Jenny Apple, but her husband, Kyle, has his own UA-cam channel where he gives his thoughts on being a caregiver for a spouse going through cancer treatment . Glad you’re “ok”. Thank you for the update x
I follow them as well.. Kyle is a wonderful husband, father of two and so so good to Jenny. Prayers to all who are touched by this horrible disease 🙏❤️
Yes i follow them also,,, Praying for not only them but all of us ❤
We love Jenny & Kyle too! They are such an inspiration!
Me too, love them.
I love Jenny and Kyle! Such a beautiful couple!
Thanks!
Thank you for the update Brian. I’m glad you’re doing okay.
Oliver looked stuffed! Still praying for you guys. Appreciate the update.
Ikr?? 🤣🤣
I thought he was a soft toy! 🫢
It's real? 🙃
Brian, you just now hit LEGENDARY status. Right now that's the highest level, but they are working on DLC that will introduce new levels to the Game of Life. Well done.
Praying for y’all! I’m going through cancer again. My turned into metastatic breast cancer. Im
Love and prayers to both of you and the pups. Thank you for taking the time to give us an update.
I get it. As a caregiver it sometimes feels as though we're walking through a mine field, or just waiting for another shoe to drop. Maybe it's something akin to battle fatigue. Anyway, I send my very best wishes to you both for good outcomes and simply the peace of mind that can be hard to come by when facing a cancer diagnosis. Know that many people are pulling for you!
Thank you for taking the time to jump on. Don't beat yourself up. There are so many high priority conflicts that are making demands on your physical, mental, spiritual, and emotional health. God will provide what you need when you need it. No, we don't understand the why's. But I know you trust in God, whatever may come. Sending you hugs of strength and courage. You are loved.
Prayers still going up for you both.
Brian, I hear You with exercise deal. I don't Think I will ever join a gym. But, I am Trying to walk my dog at the end of the day. She also needs to lose weight. Oops! I also Like biking and hiking in very scenic areas! I’m glad to hear that Jessica is finally on the mend. You guys have been in a whirlwind for a long time now! You 2 are stronger than you know! Keep it up! The walking and biking will help your psyche
Wow, it’s been a long two weeks!!!!.
When you’re under extreme stress, food is the last thing to worry about! Comfort is comfort! You are young enough that when things are better at home for you and Jessica, you can get back to healthy eating. But beating yourself up will do no good!!!! So stop!!! You have other concerns at the moment!
If you are not kind to yourself you will have other heath issues. PLEASE TRUST ME!
My precious husband died two weeks after my last chemo. Heart attack at barely 56. I’m still here, 15 yrs later! Cut yourself some slack, eat a baked potato and Spring is around the corner. Time to walk puppies and enjoy your garden!
Find a way for you to de-stress, please!
I’m not on instagram or other social media, so without these updates, I would not know HOW you are.
Please let Jessica know, there are many many many people not on Instagrams that are praying for you both. So we are in the DARK.
Much love and support to you both!! 8:00 8:20
NOT watching that "Big Event" & Instead Watching Krocks in the Car☆☆~Sending Lotsa LUV, Big Hugs, & Daily PRAYERS from Here in Surprise, Arizona♡♡...Blessings, Holly!!
Dude. I saw both my sister and my husband through cancer treatment about 18 months apart. People said the same things to me, worried for my well-being.
They shouldn't have worried, I had my Cancer Suit on. Like superman, but different. Caring for them was the absolutely best thing I could have done for myself at the time.
Yes, I tried to take walks, eat healthy, drink water... all the things. But really I was doing the best thing I could do at the time, take care of them.
After the worst of it was done I got a good therapist and dealt with any unresolved issues.
Take this with a grain of salt, because you shouldn't take advice from strangers on the internet, but I think you're doing just fine. Just keep doing what you're doing. You got this. Stay strong.
Janell, I think this is about the best description! 😀Thank you for this. I truly appreciate it. 😀
Those glasses look great on you.
Thank u for taking the time out of your busy schedule and thinking of us with the update. Love and peace and all good wishes.🥰😇
You are wonderful Brian, just walking will help you physically and mentally. I am sure you need some help there too.
Bless your sweet heart!! My grown daughter has Stage 4 colorectal cancer and has been on every-other-week chemo since March 2019….I can’t tell you how much I admire the ones going through the cancer and you spouses having to deal with this…..I’m grateful for the amazing strength of my daughter and the heartfelt loving care of my son-in-law!!!! Sending healing hugs to. you both…❤
You said it best. You are right where you are supposed to be.
I'm praying for you both. I'm glad to hear that you're taking care of yourself too. Don't worry about being perfect with your diet right now. Do the best you can and try to get outside as much as you can for your mental health.
Glad to see your face, Brian. Ok is not a bad place to be. Hoping Jessica continues to recover.
The word Cancer wakes you up to what is important in life. Things are just things. Say what you need to say every day .I have been through this and I never expected my hubby to die so it was a shock when I got the call he had hours to live. Everyday I want more time. So spend time together and enjoy life.🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Glad you are okay and I’m sure I don’t need to tell you that if Jessica is sleeping/resting, a quick walk or bike ride each day does wonders for body AND mental health. Also, it will help her to see you caring for yourself. I am a caregiver… it’s a must!
Thanks Brian for the update. You and Jessica are in my prayers.
I think at times like this, if there is a bright side, is that you appreciate the little things a lot more, like the sun setting on a snow covered landscape.♥
I have been following pretty much from the start. I feel like we are close friends, even though we've never met. I think a lot of followers feel the same way. I want you to know so many of us are praying for both of you. Take care of yourselves first. ♥️
Also to add. Brian I think it’s important you speak to someone so you can express how you are really feeling. You will feel better being able to get it out !
Thanks for the update. "Not bad" is pretty good for all you are going through.
My spouse is my caregiver and I’m so INCREDIBLY grateful to him. You are focused on Jessica, not yourself, which is lovely. Wishing you all the best. Truly. 💜
I hope Jessica continues to recover and well done Brian for being the best husband that you can be. Look after yourself too.
Oliver is adorable. Wishes for recovery.
It’s a thin line between caring and enabling so be wise about just giving yourself over to doing everything for the other… take care of yourself
❤❤❤🙏🙏❤️❤️🙏🙏being a caregiver is hard work, it’s draining, worrying.take care of yourself
Continued prayers.
Brian, you and Jessica remain in my prayers. I get the whole enjoying the caregiver role. Being useful in a crisis is the thing that gets me through it. I was there for my mom first, and then my husband. One word of warning, when the crisis passes, be ready for a flood of emotions. My husband is doing remarkably well, and I am so grateful. But once he got to a place where he didn’t need me as much, all the feelings I’d been stuffing away came in like a storm. It was time for me to take care of myself. I’m much better of taking care of other people. Don’t be like me. 🙏🏼
Same here !! You are spot on !!
That is so wise! You've given me a lot of new insight into how I was when my husband got through cancer treatments 10 years ago and then I perceived him as ignoring me. And then he had a stroke and it was hospitals being caregivers for two weeks until he died. I'm glad to see my frustration was normal.
I totally agree. When my beloved mommy was diagnosed with stage 4 ovarian cancer it absolutely consumed me. When she was lost I was lost. I had no idea who I was and where I was going anymore. I lost my dad a couple of years later and even though he had been in a nursing home and didn’t need me as much I felt , and still do, totally bereft and lost
Hope you both are having a great weekend full of snuggles and 💕 love
Missing you both, you are both in my daily prayers 🙏🙏🙏take care of each other 🥰
I’m soooo glad you put something on today. I was getting worried about you guys. Love and light to you.
Oh my gosh, Oliver's little mouth, so cute!
Take care of yourself, Brian. I have been a caregiver, and you give the best care when you take care of yourself. Jessica is so lucky to have you. Sending healing energy to Jessica!
Great idea to exercise. It will help your mood!
Thanks for updating us on YOU Brian : ) Prayers for you both. Keep your Faith !
I went through this with my brother back in 2009 with kidney cancer. Stage 4, we did everything to save his life. I went to every appointment (in Boston- we live in Maine). I wrote everything down at the doctor’s appointments, my brother would introduce me as, “ This is my sister, my secretary.”… hahahaha lots of emotions, I get it.
My hometown is Collinsville (Lived there for 50 yrs - just retired to TN) so it warmed my heart to hear you speak about Fairview Heights. Thanks for keeping us in the loop, Brian. You’re a good man. Continued prayers for you both.
Yep, I was born and raised in Collinsville. I love it here. 🙂
Such a calming voice for Jessica
I know your emotional and mental state can be helped with your strong spiritual self. The idea of Movement can help with your emotional and mental side as well. Taking the puppies and Peef out for walks and the take a few photos to surprise Jessica with... Do remember your health can help Jessica better. Be well.....tell your parents thank you....,.
You two are beautiful individuals. God bless your journey.
Brian, you are a kind gentle soul! Jessica is so blessed to have you! Praying for both of you. 🙏 ❤
🥰🥰"I don't know.. I kinda.. I kind of.. I like taking care of her.. I can't explain it.. I don't know I just do" ❤ The essence of Love ❤ You two are lovely to watch. Happy Valentines Day ❣💞
Prayers ❤
Good to see you
I love that you love Jessica and are so proud to take care of her and love her. Dont forget to ask for help if and when you need it. Brian try and remember to take care of yourself as well. Wishing you Brian and Jessica and all your loved ones lots of blessings and well wishes.
Dear Brian, being a caregiver is the hardest thing you will ever do and if you could take some of Jessica's pain away I know you would. We can all tell that you love her from the bottom of your heart and she loves you. Take care of you both. Xxx
One day at a time, a little each day. Start small & try to add a few minutes each day, for no other reason than to move forward, feel better & take what little control you can take at this time. Physical movement, meditation, simple games that take you mind away for a minute & holding tightly to each other & to all of the support around you will help you get through this each day. We are all praying for you both.
Caregivers get exhausted, your sweet love for Jessica is an inspiration. 💞
Thanks for keeping us posted.
Ok is good. Thank you for thinking of us, you're a peach. Love to you and Jessica as you heal. Yes, I was wondering how you all were. Be well, and show us your garden... lovely that she is forward thinking. Meee tooo.
Yes yes yes pickleball. It’s so fun. Never feels like exercise but is a good workout. It’s social, physical and fun.
It doesn't sound like much, but sometimes "fine" or "ok" is actually super good. You sound good Brian. Love to you both.
Thank you very much. I'm actually reminded of a quote from the band Radiohead. "You can try the best you can. The best you can is good enough." 🙂
I was a caregiver. Taking care of my husband was the most meaningful thing I ever did in my life. I know that feeling of not being able to catch your breath. When it happens, slow down, take some deep breaths. It will be OK. Sending hopeful and loving thoughts.
What a lovely guy you are. Please give Jessica our love. Both of you hang in there and give yourselves all the grace in the world for everything you have been through and are still going through. Sending you both healing wishes and prayers
I know the stress is unbelievable..praying for both of you. We love you
Are those new glasses Brian? Love them if so. Love and prayers for both of you❤️
Yep, they absolutely are. You are the first person to say anything about them. 😀
@@KrocksInTheKitchen Yay!!!!
Was just about to say, love the glasses!
@@KrocksInTheKitchen what kind are they?? I want some !!!
Be kind to yourself Brian. Keeping you both in my thoughts 🥰
Yes, it is super bored Sunday. However, I'd rather hear from you guys on a UA-cam video then watch that boring game any day! Glad things are as good as they are for you guys. Best wishes, and hoping things get a lot better for the both of you. Stay positive, stay awesome! I'm a loyal UA-cam fan.
Thank you so much for this update. I have been wondering and watching this site for updates. Prayers
Dear, darling Brian and Jessica .. I was thinking to myself while going through some 'stuff' of my own, how blessed I am to still be breathing. I remembered that, while I may not have any shoes, the other guy may not have any feet .. so I just have to pull myself up, dust myself off and carry on carrying on. To quote my mother's last words to me: "God gave me what he wanted me to have" .. and so it is. Be blessed you two. 💜🙏🕊
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Life is never predictable. All we can do is trust in God and do the best we can do. Many prayers for both of you.
ThankQ Brian for keeping us posted!! You are a great person. It's your positive attitude that keeps you both afloat! Keep keeping on! Take care of both of you! Cheers! 👋🏻👋🏻 waving to Oliver too!!! 👍🏻👍🏻
Definitely play pickleball! Such a fun sport. Things move so fast that you don’t have a chance to think of anything else. And it is such a social game…..you’ll enjoy meeting new people! Good luck with everything..
You two are doing an exceptional job with all that has been happening. Thank you for taking the time to do an update. You guys continue to do the things that work for you and how you feel. Taking care of yourselves, whatever that may be, you need to do as you two are the number one priority! Positive energy being sent to you!
The stress of what you both have been thru is so exhausting and depressing. Being constantly in and out of hospitals seeing so many sick people you realise how lucky you are to be able to obtain great health back. You both have it in you to be your best. Spring is here. A month from now the light will be even brighter. Cheers
You’re just a good, good person, Brian. So glad you guys are able to cruise for a while. ❤
I have no way of reaching you privately because I am not in FB or IG, but wanted to let you know that I stumbled on a website using Jessica’s story to bash the COVID-19 vaccines. Disgusting. I sent a message confronting them but got no reply.
So glad to hear Brian that you and Jessica are doing ok. Thanks for keeping us updated.
I must have missed all the dog episodes. That dog looked stuffed. LOL Glad that everyone is alive and well.
I agree! Not real looking at all, LOL!!
You and Jessica are so strong. I admire both of you and wish you the best.
I didn't think about how that S word was forbidden! 😄 I'm thinking of you guys every day! 💗 You're such an awesome hubby. Glad you and Jessica are getting through the ups and downs of recovery. Looking forward to good news and keeping you in my thoughts/prayers.
Poor baby Oliver! He appears extremely worried and in shock. I admire your coping skills…….that smile, the positivity. Prayers are with your family! Hope Jessica a speedy recovery. We all miss you😍
He was just surprised I picked him up like that. 🤣
thank you for sharing your feelings with us. Your eyes look optimistic with hope mixed with sadness, exhaustion, grief and 'things to do'. It is understandable that the changes in routine, potato diet, gave you a goal... a positive one that kept it going no matter how ehh it was for you both LOL. I couldn't do it alone, but with positive reinforcement and humor. My heart is breaking and I am still in shock from the very first "Hi, I'm Jessica in the car. I have this pain that is not going away and i thought I would share". Please always share...because it helps a whole community of people who isolate themselves because of fear. I am one of them. I have been a subscriber of your channel since 'potatoes'. There are no words to describe how a loyal subscriber feels and how they react. Prayers upon prayers surround you and Jessica and no matter what, YOU ARE GOING TO BE OKAY.
I'd prefer to watch you to that game. Prayers for you both. Life gets in the way, don't beat yourself up.
Bless you for your update and just take one thing at a time and as far as activity , just do it for your stress and anxiety to let it out. Every thing else will fall into place ( more energy ,smaller pants !! , just bonuses like that ) much love and admiration ......
Thinking of you and wondered about Oliver
Thank you for taking the time to share latest news Brian. I am keeping you and Jessica in my prayers. You both are such a bright light to the world. May God bless you and keep you through this extraordinary difficulty. ❤
You are a good guy Brian.
Thanks for the update. Being a caregiver means going through all the emotional ups and downs plus having to be available 24/7; and yet, one rarely gets the credit for how tough and challenging caregiving is.
You’re doing an awesome job but please remember to care also for Brian!🤗
Good to hear from you. I was wondering how you going.
Love to you both.
Janice 👵 🇬🇧 xxx
Love the new specs
Your a beautiful soul! May the Lord Jesus Christ renew your strength and Jessica. Your a beautiful couple and Oliver is a added bonus. God bless !
I have an ill husband. I’m anxious to fill his needs. Love just does that. Keep the faith, you’re not alone.
Brian, you have the heart of a servant, God love you! God bless you both!
Hey!! New glasses Brian. They look great on you! Tell Jessica we miss seeing her too but just glad for the update.
Keeping you both in prayer. I'm thankful you both have each other. I'm fighting the fight, as well.
Thank you for the update, God bless and heal Jessica and strengthen you!!
With all the surgery Jessica went through so is she Cancer free..
I'm praying for you both..
Sending love from Ireland xx
I'll take any love I can get. We are still trying to figure out how to get to Ireland at some point. 😀
That would be wonderful, something to look forward to 💕
It was nice to see ya Brian ,,,, Jessica has been in my thoughts and on my mind , I wish there was something I could do other then thoughts and prayers . You both are beautiful souls and you've made a difference in this world.
Me and my husband have started taking up walking the dogs everyday. It helps so much mental health wise and energy wise. My father passed away in 2022 and I was just mentally defeated completely.
So good to hear from you guys❣️ You are constantly in my prayers🙏🏼
Thanks Brian for letting us know! I got very nervous, not seeing any posts! 😮🤭🙏🏻♥️😎❣️🥳😇
you could say it's Superb Owl time.
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