You cannot control people's thoughts *clap👏clap👏 You cannot control people's speech *clap👏clap👏 You can self identify Even as a little pie but people don't have to comply *clap👏clap👏
Hhhmmmm? So can I eat them? I’m NOT being serious at all. I have been told that I can be hunted for being me. Though I don’t think that the people who say this have the courage to actually do it.
Transgender or not and pronouns aside - I find I don't want to really have a conversation with someone that has a bunch of rules they give me before I even say "Hello". The majority of people I deal with through my job would be offended if I asked them their pronouns.
The majority of everyone everywhere would be offended. It's only an extremely SMALL, self-marginalized group of people, less than 0.001% of the population that think this way, and it's mainly just to get TikTok clicks and likes, so nothing to even waste time bothering about. It's all for show, fame, and the perpetuation of perceived victimhood.
@@C.Church i will create a lot of nonsensical pronouns and pull them in that insanity. No matter their gender identities, everyone who uses neopronouns deserves that.
people like that have always existed, we just have a medium to amplify 'em. Back in the day you'd just not hang out with someone like that. And you'd never know what dumb thing they were saying.
It’s getting to the point where it feels like certain aspects of the “trans community umbrella” WANTS TO BE MISGENDERED THROUGH PRONOUNS or NEOPRONOUNS … is anyone else kind of feeling that, too?
I 100% believe they get euphoria when people use their pronouns. I call it the "narcissist's high". They get off on bending other people to their will.
They aren't as willing to die forcing mandatory speech on me as I am to say what I want. That's why they attack unarmed children in schools in Nashville rather than run up on a Spec Ops Marine who stays strapped with that bullshit
Of course the person saying "pronouns are mandatory" is someone using a blue wig, painted facial hair (with some random art), plastic fox ears or something, piercing, contact lens and a dozen of neck chains. You can throw 50 more accessories over her head and she still will feel lost about her real personality. Tell me you have a severe identity crisis without telling me you have a severe identity crisis. 🙂
I hope to god that stuff was painted on and not a tattoo. Now that I took a longer look it does look like paint. At least that woman had the fortitude to not get that tattooed on her.
I genuinely suspect that people like the ones in these videos are not LGBT. I don't think they even like or wish to acknowledge LGBT people, or anyone else for that matter. I suspect these are people afflicted with varying degrees of autism or aspergers - or they are narcissists addicted to social media trends.
3:33 Anyone who was raised by or has been in a relationship with a narcissist, won't find this wild at all. Walking on eggshells is precisely what they want you to do, whenever you're around them.
And to purposely trap someone so they can have a “gotcha” moment . I’ve seen a junior high student talk about this, and he was purposefully using it to catch a teacher “misgendering” him, to cause trouble. Female -she on Monday (‘cause skirt) male -he on Tuesday (pants), and they/them on Wednesday (pants) , reports teacher for using the wrong pronoun. Brags he’ll get the teacher fired.
You are 100% right! My Mom dated an alcoholic narcissist when I was a child and that man was all about belittling everyone and telling them how stupid they were. He was so mean to me and my siblings. He physically and mentally abused my Mom. When his kids visited they could do no wrong even through they misbehaved always.. My Mom finally broke up with him but it was a horrible ten years in the mean time. His children eventually grew up to be criminals. One of his sons is even a registered sex offender for violating a nine year old girl! Narcissistic people certainly don’t spread love in this world. They only care about having their egos boosted and they don’t care how they affect others.
I would too. I mean... I am a well equiped woman and if anyone had to ask, my first thought would very likely be whether they needed their eyes checked. The next would be, if they can't see it it's none of their business.
I just can’t with these people - there are so many with real problems, and here they are crying because they are VISIBLY female, and got called ma’am. 😢 Marcus I love your channel and keep fighting the good fight, you’re a sane voice in a sea of crazy.
@@QueSeraSeraaaaAgreed, they cover their underlying mental issues. Trauma, abuse, PTSD, depression, schizophrenia, ect that are the real issues. Usually while somehow simultaneously refusing to admit to anything based in reality in any way. Between their delusions about their gender to beliefs there's a trans genocide happening. It blows my mind.
@@WhatTheWHAT524 i can tell them that i lived with PSTD since years, but unlike their first-world problems, i don't brag about it. having PSTD is tiring on a daily-basis, and there is no true solutions about it. Even therapies never helped in my case, plus most therapists seemed to be high.
"And she put on an elf costume....we are not the same." Bravo my good...person. Bravo Sorry. First time seeing your channel so. Being a southerner I was raised to Ma'am and Sir as signs of respect. That's one of the saddest parts about this. Most people are actually trying to be polite and show respect. They then get yelled out for getting it wrong. BTW....I would call you sir if I met you in public. If I do, it was me trying to be polite. I enjoy your views.
The get mad when people tell them they don't want to be called cis but expect us to use their preferred pro puns under threat of punishment. Hypocrisy at it finest. (🤦🏻♀️ Pronouns, I meant preferred pronouns, not puns. Thank you autocorrect for accidentally making a joke)
"Mandatory"? Yeah, good luck with that. These people have done so much damage to the trans acceptance movement. Five years ago, I would have bent over backwards to be empathetic and supportive. Now I don't give a toss.
This is something that I am so fed up: already with the they/them team, and now with neopronouns and even men and women using the opposite pronouns. They want control in the name of "love and tolerance".
People with neopronouns are the kind of people we brazilians ask to never come to Brazil, they WILL have a mental breakdown and they WILL be a pain in the ass the minute they discover that the only language that "accepts" neopronous is english
Agreed!!! Americans should not be ostrasized or “cancelled” for not spewing the “Pledge of Allegiance” all over our public schools and sports events! That flag is nothing more than a symbol! They should pledge to uphold “liberty and justice for all”!!!!
@@AliciaTheTroonSlayer you are lying!!! You and your ilk want, and demand that public schools follow your Reich wing fascist agenda and teach “Christianity” as truth! You abandon truth for your belief in an air god that you cannot show any proof of! Keep your religion outta our government and public schools!
That is the way of these people from Clown World. They demand pronouns and respect but give us insolent words we never asked for and also zero respect in return. The explanation they give for the word cis is as ridiculous as the rest of their warped ideology. It is actually a Latin word used in Chemistry meaning 'on this side of'. However, the Trans Activists say it means someone who is the same gender they were assigned at birth. As 'assigned' means something which is given to someone, then I assume they mean that everyone is born with no gender and then someone gives them one as soon as they pop out. They haven't made it clear whether this means the doctor, nurse, midwife, the husband, God, or whoever? But this is how clueless these people are. You have men pretending to be women and coming up with this nonsense because they know absolutely nothing about women or biology. Your sex/gender is determined at conception as all women know. Not at birth. And yes, the world is becoming a very sick place thanks to Trans Ideology. Not even out children are safe from them.
I’m yet to be asked (other than in a form) but if/ when I am asked my intended response will be feigned confusion followed by “well I am a woman but you’re welcome to refer to me with whatever pronouns you choose. I don’t care”
@@QueSeraSeraaaa I wouldn't call those the best example, because "-kun" is often used for a subordinate regardless of gender, and "-chan" is more intimate and can still be used for boys. Honorifics sometimes have gendered connotations, but are ultimately gender-neutral. But there is "men's" Pocky and it's literally just dark chocolate.
@@ingloriousMachina you're right about that. But overall, Japanese is gendered as well, and they ain't too crazy over diversity. Political signs, like BLM are forbidden, and their crimes rates is lower compared to the US or even Europe. My Japanese friend confirmed a lot of things already.
Just a friendly reminder, if "normal" people didn't exist, they'd have nothing to aspire to look like, they want to be us and need constant validation for doing so, we just exist and require nothing to do so, thats the difference.
Annoys me because I have triggers a lot worse than being misgendered. Like a bad startle reflex due to ptsd, claustrophobia, cognitive and mh issues. And they are triggered over pronouns?
@@manga626the only constant in your “pronoun” trilogy is “girl”! Assume you wanna be called a “girl”! The rest of your diatribe was just descriptors that are not pronouns but more of an embellishment of what you consider yourself! Nice try 🙄🤷♂️
In this video I had no idea you were trans until you said so. What you said makes perfectly sense. I played volleyball with a guy for 17 months before he told me he used to be a girl. I had NO idea, and he was so happy when I reacted that way. He was like yeah it is actually very nice you "assumed" I was a dude all this time.
You cannot compel speech in this great country 🇺🇸, so they can whine all they want. I’m more than happy to call Marcus a he because he looks like a man and is respectful
I'm a trans woman and I HATE it when people assume I'm into gender ideology and ask for my pronouns. Like my entire presentation is trying to make it obvious that I want to live as a woman ...
Something I dislike about this that I haven't seen mentioned is that people put so much focus on their gender, other people's gender, etc, there's so much that they expect people to know and remember. This is dangerous in food service, and other type of jobs, where a lot of concentration is required, it might not seem like a lot of concentration is needed in the food service industry, but think of how many food diseases exist. There have been a few times when I've ordered a chocolate milkshake and had been given a rocky road one, imagine if I had been allergic to nuts? I've even heard of people dying over food mix up mistakes, so I think it's very important to have 100% concentration in the food industry job as well as many other jobs, but this seems like it'll make it difficult for people to, if they're struggling now imagine how much worse it'll be if they have to use their already over used brain power to focus on stuff like this. The good of humanity is worth more than making sure you don't step on eggshells around a small VERY LOUD section of the population.
In any job, the job comes first. You do the job the best you can and while you do that, you will have no time to think about yourself. That is one of the pleasant things about jobs.
I can honestly say I've never been mean-mugged by someone singing "If your happy and your know it" and then actually clapping their hands. That's some horror movie, purge type shyt
How can you tell that people aren't genuinely trans, using preferred pronouns. Whatever happened to a woman just being allowed to be a tomboy with no need for stupid pronouns.
As a biological female with short hair I get mistaken for a man and when I was young it made me feel embarrassed and ashamed but now that I’m an adult I realize if someone calls me sir they are actually just trying to be polite.
Same here. I had short hair and wore lots of dude clothes 😂 From behind people would say “ excuse me sir “ then be kinda confused when I turned around. I did wear makeup. I even had the police call me “Sir”. I never was too embarrassed, I just would say “opps! I’m a girl “. I never was offended.
Well, if I ever encounter one, I'm just going to use their name in place of any pronoun. "Stacy likes working at Stacy's job, Stacy gets a lot of work done at Stacy's desk. Stacy is proud of Stacy's self" Bit tedious, but still correct and allows me to play my own game that while being awkward, still makes sense.
The thing is….”if I ever encounter one”….your believing the propaganda, even though you have never witnessed it personally!!!! Probability is that you will never “encounter one”!!!! 🙄🤷♂️ Stop spreading BS! 🙄
I work with 6-8 youngsters per day most days a week, imagine me saying over and over all day long "what are your pronouns?" Imagine a teacher addressing 30 kids in a classroom and expected to remember all the different pronouns for everyone - and worried about getting sacked if they get any wrong??! Nobody thinks about these things, because the people that say these things only meet one or two people per year or something, I literally speak to hundreds of people over a 12-month period! Very exhausting having to ask for pronouns all day every day!
RIGHT! I had a purple mohawk in 1985 and was fight in the streets of Hollywood next to my gay friends because g@y b@shing with bats, bricks and chains was a very real thing! These people now have no clue!
@@starlitsky4751 i used to color my hair, but as i aged, i grew sick of it. I needed to let my natural color living once again, none of the coloring was intense, it's just that blond doesn't fit me that much. Compared to brune/black.
As someone who lives with anxiety, the last thing I think about is videoing myself on the daily and what I go through. I prefer just keeping to myself, and not putting any attention on myself.
I think the platform called Tik Tok seems to validate so many of these people, it’s like no one wants to upset them, but I don’t have to go along with idiocy. I appreciate you Marcus for talking about all of this idiocy we are seeing so much of these days.
the fact these types of narcissists have the audacity to say that their identity doesn't effect anyone and then demand tha everyone go out of their way to call them confusing and nonsensical things in the same breath is so wild
The whole pronouns game is about power. Being an ally just puts you in the line of fire. You’re on the frontline, having to watch every word. You will NEVER get a pass if you misstep. They use, abuse and discard. You’re a stepping stone for their power. In fact, you have enabled it. Enjoy.
The fact these people believe I start any conversation with "What's your pronouns?" is wrong to begin with. That's not how society has worked in my 48 years of life. If someone asks me to to use pronouns I probably will as long as it's not they/them.
As an autistic woman I feel that same way about people misappropriate autism. My disorder is not something you choose to be and differently nothing you can switch on and off.
The amount of self diagnosis is truly astounding and a massive diservice to people with actual Autism. I have fairly bad adhd which I went through intense testing with a Nueropsych at 40, so when people self diagnose it makes me feel so annoyed. People weaponizing real issues for fun or to be cool is honestly just sick.
They will. Because they already have more power over us, because all they have to do scream "bigotry" for us to lose a job or for them to get hired over competent people. Because busniesses have no spine.
That would be too much work and not enough viewers to feed their narcissism. It's much easier to bitch and moan across a screen and be the star of your own little world.
I can say with absolute certainty that I have never walked up to someone and go "What's your pronoun?" nor have I been asked in person or heard people ask about their pronouns.
Sorry people. You cannot control what other people say. In any circumstance. They continue to rely on others for their own satisfaction. That never works. Its from within.
Happy Thanksgiving, Marcus. I try to be respectful when I am out in public. The problem is that you don't know with these people. Rather then get into some kind of disagreement with them, it's just easier to avoid them completely. I'm unfiltered so I already struggle with not blurting things out. I'll also point out that I've been misgendered over the phone. Call me during peak allergy season early morning, I sound like a dude. So this isn't unique to them either. I'd tell them what my parents always told me when they thought I was being ridiculous -" get over yourself ".
I thought about what you said about appropriation of a meantal illness and I feel this more nefarious than that. Your take on their behavior + an astute comment by @Selynn. about narcissist makes me feel these people were not getting the attention they feel they deserve and decided as you state to appropriate a mental illness. My concern is if it is only discussed in this manner we miss the harm they do via their narcissist behavior like you stated, they make you question your own instincts. We need to start calling out narcissistic behavior. It is a mental illness it self yet it harms more than just the person who has it. We should not shame them, we should distnce ourselves from them, ignoring them is very painful to them and show them compassion for the pathetic humans they are, this also devastates them. Narcissistic behavior is a toxin we need to try and eradicate from our society.
Marcus, I would like to say thank you to you for opening my eyes as much as you have. I am 13 now, but when I was really into the LGBT, I was 10-12. I know I’m very young, so I may not understand a lot of what I’m hearing about, but I‘d like to think I’m able to comprehend such things at this point. Anyways, it didn’t necessarily start out like this. I did think that I was Bisexual because I had a girlfriend (I am a biological female) at some point. This was before I was active on TikTok. Once I was, oh boy, did things start going downhill fast. I first thought I was Aromantic because I didn’t like people that much. (I‘m a child, so that shouldn’t even be something I‘m worried about.) Then, I started to think I was all sorts of things (E.g. Trans, Gay, Pan, Omni, Agender, Aboy, Libramasculine, basically a majority of them were things that aren’t even real lmao.) and that my pronouns were he/they/xe/star, and whatever else you could think of. It even got to a point where I told my mom that I WAS TRANSGENDER AND I THOUGHT I WAS A BOY. Looking back, I‘m so glad my parents didn’t immediately take what I said to heart and actually questioned me instead. The older I grew, the more I became invested in this life. I even thought that a MAN that said he was nonbinary and a lesbian was what he said and defended him. That‘s how insane the delusions were. I am very aware there are several things wrong with me mentally, most of which I blame on myself rather than what might actually be the problem. Honestly, I’m so glad that these 'conservative' UA-camrs have opened my eyes to how much of a cult this is and told me that I can be a girl that likes boy things. I’m disappointed in myself that I used to HATE these kind of UA-camrs that just tell you what reality is. Also, I’ve deleted TikTok long ago, so I‘d say that helped improve my mental health a bit more. (It‘s still bad tho.💀) Apologies if this is a jumbled mess. I’m not good at writing long paragraphs.
I don't mind going out of my way for people if they ask and/or appreciate but I HATE it when I'm just expected to do/know something, and I can't stand being taken for granted, so I'm very unlikely to call someone rat/ratself, elf/elfself etc, cos its bloody stupid!
Nothing says compassion like mandatory. "we just want equality". Yup, because everyone else has mandatory ways others must address us to stroke our egos.
I grew up in the 90s. My sister is gay. All of her friends were trans and gay. This isnt what they wanted! They didnt want to control anyone. They wanted respect. even they think this has gotten way outta hand.
"My pronouns are preferred, they are mandatory, watch me as I clap and look at you like a psycho." No, it's not mandatory and your biology never changes no matter how bad you wish they do.
Marcus is a person who counts being trans as one of his many interesting attributes and accomplishments. These TikTokers present as an image, a facade, a construct... but not a person. I think if we ever found the real person buried deep down they'd beg us to let them out 😢
But how did it get so narcissistic? Because the "you will never be good enough" is narcissistic abuse, and taking pleasure saying "now you offended me" is narcissistic abuse.
It's so good to live in country where the language literally does not make it easy to add another pronouns, since they are correlated with verbs, so in order to create new pronoun you would have to change the whole verb conjugation so, EVERY verb would have to have new form. IT seems so abstract to me what is going on in English speaking countries. I guess Polish grammar is... transphobic???? :O
That’s a big lesson in life I think -is realizing you can not control other people or circumstance but you can control how you respond to them. I have become a much stronger fuller person since I realized that and I’m still working on it, because it’s not easy!
I'm a biological woman and if someone asked me what my perferd pronouns are or my pronouns, I would feel so offended like i'd look down at my chest like "Damn ladies you had one job!"
I really don't care what pronouns they are using. Not because I don't respect them but because I don't want them to control what I can and can't think feel or say. As well as I don't want to feed their narcissism.
What's the end game for them? To end up even more alone and miserable? I will support real transexuals that have a medical diagnosis. I'm sick of this self-diagnosing garbage. If someone does not have a legit diagnosis, then they can get bent and get out of my space. Sex exists and is a vital part of us. Gender, if it exists at all, would be one small aspect that falls under our personality "umbrella" and I will not be forced to like, celebrate, and accept people with horrific personalities under the guise of gender ideology. It's such an odd way to try and force people to like you. (Not you I mean those entitled brats).
Over my career I have had the opportunity to hire hundreds of people. The blue haired one would not even make it through the front door for an interview.
My attitude is: “Your rights end where my rights start. You do not have the right to command me to mangle the King’s English.” People like you, Blaire and Buck “pass” it is easy to know how to address you and refer to you. The TRAs seem to want to torpedo the progress the has been made in the acceptance of those suffering from sexual dysphoria.
I live in California and work with tons of people my age (20’s). Lots of them go to universities yet I never see this in real life. Even people who wear the flag pins never ask someone their pronouns. It’s so weird like does this only exist online and in schools??
Happy Thanksgiving, Marcus! we cannot control or mandate how others perceive us. being hung up on presentation and identity is unhealthy and unproductive. just BE.
Nope. I don’t have to pretend along with them. And yes, this is all about them controlling and manipulating other people. And forced participation in their games. And dressing up as an elf doesn’t mean I have to call you one. If I say freak everyone one will know who I’m referring to, so communication accomplished.
That person should realize that if I must call them what they want to be called, then they must call me what I want. I am a woman, not cis, and I say that you can tell my pronoun by looking at me. I shouldn't have to say my pronouns are she / her. I don't present or identify as a woman, I am a woman.
Thank you. I'm a 50 year old, straight man with a 10 year old daughter and lately I have been feeling like i need to keep my mouth shut, because I'm completely lost and don'twanttoupset anyone. I'm suddenly surrounded by blue haired 'people' demanding i use a thousand different pronouns. I deliberately search for videos that have opposing opinions to me, in an attempt to learn more instead of being caught in an echo chamber. This is the 1st time i have come across a video from a real trans person, that shares my view. I completely understand your story. It makes complete sense. No BS. You are now a man and don't need to wear a huge badge to tell everyone. You just want to get on with your life, like everyone else. It's very refreshing. Thank you. I feel like I've always kept myself well informed, but this new trans/non binary movement has got me scratching my head. For me, you're the expert in this field as you've 'been there,seen that,got the t-shirt' so to speak. I'm sure you get your fair share of hate for speaking up. I've tried talking to the so called trans activists, but instead of answering my questions, they reply with rudeness and laughter. Thanks. It's nice to know I'm not insane.
@@justokei OK thanks. I'm not here to offend anyone though. I just have genuine questions and the general population seem to run on here say. What is non-binary? I understand that some people feel different from their birth gender, as Marcus did, but I don't understand how someone can be neither male or female. Everyone has to be one or the other. The non-binary is just feelings right? Like gender dysphoria. Or am I completely wrong?
@@notbadsteve Okay so nonbinary is a gender identity outside of the gender binary ie male and female. the basis for being nonbinary is essentially that the majority of what we would consider to be gender falls outside biological sex so gender in this circumstance is not bound by a gender binary there for someones gender could exist outside of a sex binary. Personally I'm nonbinary I prefer it when people use masculine terms to refer to me, I have some dysphoria and choose to present myself in an androgynous way as a way of making myself feel more comfortable.
@@justokei thanks. So gender is different to sex? Can I ask what your sex was before you discovered you was non-binary. For instance, if you needed medical treatment, for say testicular or ovarian cancer, you'll have one of those parts, which makes you male or female. So I guess what I'm trying to figure out is , can you be a non binary male or non binary female? Because from my understanding, non binary can't exist in a medical procedure , other than if all those parts have been removed. I'm sorry if I'm sounding stupid. This is the 1st time I've ever had a sensible, calm conversation on the subject.
@@notbadsteve You are good so nonbinary is a gender identity meaning that it isn't dependant on medical procedures, many nonbinary people might choose to medically transition too feel more comfortable in their body but many also do not.
I'm actually glad for the crazy colored hair. It gives me a warning of the craziness I'm probably going to have to deal with if I engage with that person.
They behave like petulant children and are straight up annoying. Cos playing day in and out must be so exhausting. The main objective is to be offended. Being offended provides the narcissist with adequate fuel needed for TikTok tantrum’s.
You always talk so much truth!!!! ❤ your words need to be spread everywhere! You always speak in a factual and intelligent way, I genuinely love every video of yours 🥰and your message is soooo important right now, shit has gone crazy!!
I’ve yet to have anyone ask me my pronouns…. I think my response will be feigned confusion followed by “well I’m a women but if you choose to refer to me as ‘he’ that’s your choice”
I think I fell in love with you when you talked about how they act like children and just like children, we need to tell them, "no". I never thought I would want to divorce myself from the T in our community, but today's generation of fake activists are doing nothing more than LARPing. They're taking our community backwards after we fought so hard and long for rights. It's disgusting.
Whilst demanding womens' rights including gay women return to the stone age. The saving grace is the rope we gave them allows initially sympathetic governments/public service to see through the lie they were fed. Australia has enforced equality laws which means just that. An influential equal marriage lobby group was taken over by T activists who basically demand the T get more rights than the majority. Religion has little influence here yet with our acceptance are granted an exemption from those laws due to belief. Those activists now demand self identifiers access all female only sport/spaces & religious schools/churches be denied their exemptions. Fortunately few are listening.
1:28 actually it wasn't an elf costume, it was a demon costume because it had two huge horns. That's what I thought at first as well, but the demon costume seems more fitting, don't you think?😂😂😂
I’m just wondering how many times are these people are really getting “misgendered.” BUT if you have a 5:00 shadow and wearing a dress? That is confusing to people!!! Legitimate trans people want to blend into society. Thank you for your content, Marcus. We need more content in the forefront and not silence you, Blaire White, Buck Angel, etc.
Thank you for being a actually sene trans guy I remember seeing people like this when I where 12 and gender dysphoria and they made me so depressed I thought I was the only girl in the whole world that wanted to be a guy cause I had only heard of trans women and after 3 years I finally found you so thank you :3 you have helped me make my mom understand better and myself and just given me hope :3 ❤❤❤
I will not spend the rest of my life asking people what their pronouns are! I have a deep voice for a woman. I cannot count the times on the phone someone has called me mister. I dont care,lol
Well, calling yourself a biological woman is every bit as bad. It's Trans Activists who have labelled us with prefixes and yet here you are aiding them. You are a woman. That describes you perfectly. We never needed prefixes before and we certainly don't need them now. We are not cis women, real women, or biological women. We are women.
non-passing trans people? definitely, I'll do my best to make sure I don't slip. they/thems? nope, fucking done with them. I do my best to avoid interacting with those.
You’re so correct. It’s about them winning an argument and people saying what that trans person WANTS you to say. Ignore EVERYTHING you know as truth and come on into the twilight zone!!
To shave or not to shave?
NOT, the 5 o'clock shadow looks good on you!
Agreed with above comment
Shaving would be a crime against humanity
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Whatever makes you happy on the day 😁
You cannot control people's thoughts
*clap👏clap👏
You cannot control people's speech *clap👏clap👏
You can self identify
Even as a little pie
but people don't have to comply
*clap👏clap👏
It is NOT my responsibility to know your pronouns, that's on you since you made that choice to use them,they are NOT mandatory 😮
Wonderful!!!❤
Hhhmmmm? So can I eat them? I’m NOT being serious at all. I have been told that I can be hunted for being me. Though I don’t think that the people who say this have the courage to actually do it.
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Hey that was really good 😂😂😂😂😂❤🎉
Transgender or not and pronouns aside - I find I don't want to really have a conversation with someone that has a bunch of rules they give me before I even say "Hello".
The majority of people I deal with through my job would be offended if I asked them their pronouns.
Same. I’d just know immediately that this is a person I’m going to avoid.
Same here!😂
The majority of everyone everywhere would be offended. It's only an extremely SMALL, self-marginalized group of people, less than 0.001% of the population that think this way, and it's mainly just to get TikTok clicks and likes, so nothing to even waste time bothering about. It's all for show, fame, and the perpetuation of perceived victimhood.
Once they started calling nouns pronouns, I couldn't take them seriously on anything ever again.
As in the Novel 1984, this is called "new speak". That's on top of all the rest.
Neo pronouns aren't even a good thing, they're random-ass pronouns pulled out their asses.
@@whocares_bear It's an nightmare come true. Whatever you do, DO NOT watch the movie "Idiocracy". 💔
@@C.Church i will create a lot of nonsensical pronouns and pull them in that insanity.
No matter their gender identities, everyone who uses neopronouns deserves that.
I suspect the parts of speech are not taught anymore.
I really hate how people have become entirely too comfortable saying and doing utter nonsense with absolute confidence
Neil deGrasse Tyson (holding up a banana) 'this... is an apple' every sane person on earth: 'its a banana' NdgT: 'ITS AN APPLE, just BELIEVE, BIGOT!"
people like that have always existed, we just have a medium to amplify 'em. Back in the day you'd just not hang out with someone like that. And you'd never know what dumb thing they were saying.
People are cowards who are afraid of excommunication. The meek and mild amongst us never make a difference in society. Remember that.
And bullying others for daring to not staying in the loop about their newest nonsense.
I’m so over it. They're the least inclusive “inclusive community” that I've ever witnessed other than terror groups.
It’s getting to the point where it feels like certain aspects of the “trans community umbrella” WANTS TO BE MISGENDERED THROUGH PRONOUNS or NEOPRONOUNS … is anyone else kind of feeling that, too?
I always thought of that.
Also the "trans umbrella" is bullshit, either someone is trans or isn't.
Yep. Just to whine on social media about how OpPrEsSeD they are 🙄
@@Effaly_ in fact, they're attention-seekers.
I'm itching to troll them.
Oh, obviously. Like how can anyone not be misgendered when they use plankton/planktons pronouns?
@@hummingbirdcity YOU GIVE ME AN IDEA!
I need more ideas to troll them efficientlly.
I 100% believe they get euphoria when people use their pronouns. I call it the "narcissist's high". They get off on bending other people to their will.
The smug self satisfaction. Absolutely.
"Mandatory". 😂
It's adorable that anyone thinks they can control my speech.
Funnily enough, none could control mine, no matter how many times i get suspended.
I repeated the same things i said, the AI ignored that.
They aren't as willing to die forcing mandatory speech on me as I am to say what I want. That's why they attack unarmed children in schools in Nashville rather than run up on a Spec Ops Marine who stays strapped with that bullshit
Exactly, mandatory by whom???
Mandatory?
I identify as female. My pronouns are WOMANdatory!
🤪
I can’t even control my own speech. Why do they think that they can control it?
Of course the person saying "pronouns are mandatory" is someone using a blue wig, painted facial hair (with some random art), plastic fox ears or something, piercing, contact lens and a dozen of neck chains. You can throw 50 more accessories over her head and she still will feel lost about her real personality.
Tell me you have a severe identity crisis without telling me you have a severe identity crisis. 🙂
Horns. They were horns. Oddly appropriate, if you ask me.
I hope to god that stuff was painted on and not a tattoo. Now that I took a longer look it does look like paint. At least that woman had the fortitude to not get that tattooed on her.
I genuinely suspect that people like the ones in these videos are not LGBT.
I don't think they even like or wish to acknowledge LGBT people, or anyone else for that matter.
I suspect these are people afflicted with varying degrees of autism or aspergers - or they are narcissists addicted to social media trends.
Absolutely!
3:33 Anyone who was raised by or has been in a relationship with a narcissist, won't find this wild at all. Walking on eggshells is precisely what they want you to do, whenever you're around them.
Ding ding ding ding!!! Have a narc parent. These people scream narcissist.
And to purposely trap someone so they can have a “gotcha” moment . I’ve seen a junior high student talk about this, and he was purposefully using it to catch a teacher “misgendering” him, to cause trouble. Female -she on Monday (‘cause skirt) male -he on Tuesday (pants), and they/them on Wednesday (pants) , reports teacher for using the wrong pronoun. Brags he’ll get the teacher fired.
this
@@MaliciousMalcontent and that supply is a bottomless pit
You are 100% right! My Mom dated an alcoholic narcissist when I was a child and that man was all about belittling everyone and telling them how stupid they were. He was so mean to me and my siblings. He physically and mentally abused my Mom. When his kids visited they could do no wrong even through they misbehaved always.. My Mom finally broke up with him but it was a horrible ten years in the mean time. His children eventually grew up to be criminals. One of his sons is even a registered sex offender for violating a nine year old girl! Narcissistic people certainly don’t spread love in this world. They only care about having their egos boosted and they don’t care how they affect others.
If someone asked me what my pronouns are, I would think there was something very wrong with them
I'd ask if you were openly LGBTQ+
I would too.
I mean... I am a well equiped woman and if anyone had to ask, my first thought would very likely be whether they needed their eyes checked. The next would be, if they can't see it it's none of their business.
I'd laugh & say “what are yours?” then say that my lived experience says otherwise and call them the opposite. Be a clown, get clowned
I just can’t with these people - there are so many with real problems, and here they are crying because they are VISIBLY female, and got called ma’am. 😢
Marcus I love your channel and keep fighting the good fight, you’re a sane voice in a sea of crazy.
Right 😂 you can always tell … the men will go on violent verbal tirades when they’re “misgendered” and the women sob.
Indeed this shit is so stupid.
It's as if their literally expecting you to be some kind of Mind-Reader.
They're trying to cover the real issues, that's the problem..
@@QueSeraSeraaaaAgreed, they cover their underlying mental issues. Trauma, abuse, PTSD, depression, schizophrenia, ect that are the real issues. Usually while somehow simultaneously refusing to admit to anything based in reality in any way. Between their delusions about their gender to beliefs there's a trans genocide happening. It blows my mind.
@@WhatTheWHAT524 i can tell them that i lived with PSTD since years, but unlike their first-world problems, i don't brag about it.
having PSTD is tiring on a daily-basis, and there is no true solutions about it.
Even therapies never helped in my case, plus most therapists seemed to be high.
"And she put on an elf costume....we are not the same." Bravo my good...person. Bravo
Sorry. First time seeing your channel so. Being a southerner I was raised to Ma'am and Sir as signs of respect. That's one of the saddest parts about this. Most people are actually trying to be polite and show respect. They then get yelled out for getting it wrong.
BTW....I would call you sir if I met you in public. If I do, it was me trying to be polite. I enjoy your views.
It's funny how they say that we don't get to decide what to call them but yet they want to decide what we have to say
The get mad when people tell them they don't want to be called cis but expect us to use their preferred pro puns under threat of punishment.
Hypocrisy at it finest.
(🤦🏻♀️ Pronouns, I meant preferred pronouns, not puns. Thank you autocorrect for accidentally making a joke)
Funniest part is they have absolutely no power to enforce their "rules". That's probably one of many reasons why they are so angry.
"Mandatory"? Yeah, good luck with that. These people have done so much damage to the trans acceptance movement. Five years ago, I would have bent over backwards to be empathetic and supportive. Now I don't give a toss.
MAAAAAANdatory? Oh they got jokes 👰🏻♂️
Choose carefully when you try to employ someone see if they have pronouns on their CV, such as flower flower emoji bs. 😂
This is something that I am so fed up: already with the they/them team, and now with neopronouns and even men and women using the opposite pronouns. They want control in the name of "love and tolerance".
these people have the mindsets of toddlers 🤦🏽♀️
Even toddlers aren't this unhinged. I spend 40 hours a week with a dozen of them.
@@ingloriousMachina Untill these wackjobs get a hold of them!
ya like what the fuck are they gonna do if i dont call them by the right pronouns
My nephew was litterally Einstein when he was younger..
The comparaison to them. 😂
@@naaaaa-t5xscream louder. 🤣
People with neopronouns are the kind of people we brazilians ask to never come to Brazil, they WILL have a mental breakdown and they WILL be a pain in the ass the minute they discover that the only language that "accepts" neopronous is english
Oh please, their meltdown would be so deserved.
Don't tell them that fact.
@@QueSeraSeraaaa I don't want to deal with the meltdown and the colonization attemp, but it would look funny from far
@@candybeth and film them with an hidden camera.
Outside of the US, none love neopronouns.
Outsie of the rainbow mafia, bo one likes neopronouns.
What are neopronouns
Speech should never be mandatory.
Agreed!!!
Americans should not be ostrasized or “cancelled” for not spewing the “Pledge of Allegiance” all over our public schools and sports events!
That flag is nothing more than a symbol!
They should pledge to uphold “liberty and justice for all”!!!!
@@donaldallen1213We don’t. Is the latest invented outrage in the dysphoric community? 👰🏻♂️
@@AliciaTheTroonSlayer who is the “we” you speak of?
@@AliciaTheTroonSlayer you are lying!!!
You and your ilk want, and demand that public schools follow your Reich wing fascist agenda and teach “Christianity” as truth!
You abandon truth for your belief in an air god that you cannot show any proof of!
Keep your religion outta our government and public schools!
@@donaldallen1213 Us Americans. That aren’t senile. Sorry about your condition.
These same people want to cry their pronouns are mandatory BUT refuse to not call me cis when asked!
That is the way of these people from Clown World. They demand pronouns and respect but give us insolent words we never asked for and also zero respect in return. The explanation they give for the word cis is as ridiculous as the rest of their warped ideology. It is actually a Latin word used in Chemistry meaning 'on this side of'. However, the Trans Activists say it means someone who is the same gender they were assigned at birth. As 'assigned' means something which is given to someone, then I assume they mean that everyone is born with no gender and then someone gives them one as soon as they pop out. They haven't made it clear whether this means the doctor, nurse, midwife, the husband, God, or whoever? But this is how clueless these people are. You have men pretending to be women and coming up with this nonsense because they know absolutely nothing about women or biology. Your sex/gender is determined at conception as all women know. Not at birth. And yes, the world is becoming a very sick place thanks to Trans Ideology. Not even out children are safe from them.
Even as a biological woman I woulf be offended if someone asks my pronouns. Id find that incrediblely rude.
Let's not say *biological* woman. That's playing right into their hands.
@@Saranda4787real woman is better.
@@Saranda4787What's wrong with saying biological women, it's better than calling ourselves cis women.
@@blueiris1542really, “woman” should be enough in itself because that’s what it is.
@@melaniegrace7707Yeah, Real Women or Biological women. Either one is fine.
I hate being asked my pronouns. It makes me so uncomfortable.
I’m yet to be asked (other than in a form) but if/ when I am asked my intended response will be feigned confusion followed by “well I am a woman but you’re welcome to refer to me with whatever pronouns you choose. I don’t care”
I don’t answer them ! They don’t exist as a true trans would not make such a fuss ! But an attention seeker well they manipulate !
NO!
No and no.
They ain't "mandatory", it's the main part of someone's biology.
They like to use the argument that Japan doesn't have gendered 3rd person pronouns.
No, they just have gendered literally everything else.
@@ingloriousMachinait's obvious with: kun, chan.
@@QueSeraSeraaaa
I wouldn't call those the best example, because "-kun" is often used for a subordinate regardless of gender, and "-chan" is more intimate and can still be used for boys. Honorifics sometimes have gendered connotations, but are ultimately gender-neutral.
But there is "men's" Pocky and it's literally just dark chocolate.
@@ingloriousMachina you're right about that.
But overall, Japanese is gendered as well, and they ain't too crazy over diversity.
Political signs, like BLM are forbidden, and their crimes rates is lower compared to the US or even Europe.
My Japanese friend confirmed a lot of things already.
Just a friendly reminder, if "normal" people didn't exist, they'd have nothing to aspire to look like, they want to be us and need constant validation for doing so, we just exist and require nothing to do so, thats the difference.
I love how they expose their weaknesses making it easier to trigger them
Annoys me because I have triggers a lot worse than being misgendered. Like a bad startle reflex due to ptsd, claustrophobia, cognitive and mh issues. And they are triggered over pronouns?
The only pronouns that anyone has say over are "me" and "I". Enjoy using those as much as you like. We already know they are your favorite
Everyone have those.
A tiny portion of shitbrains use "they/them".
Well said!
This!
My pronouns are 'beautiful girl', 'awesome girl' 'smart girl' 😂So, from now on society has to confirm to my made-up rules.
@@manga626the only constant in your “pronoun” trilogy is “girl”!
Assume you wanna be called a “girl”!
The rest of your diatribe was just descriptors that are not pronouns but more of an embellishment of what you consider yourself!
Nice try 🙄🤷♂️
In this video I had no idea you were trans until you said so. What you said makes perfectly sense. I played volleyball with a guy for 17 months before he told me he used to be a girl. I had NO idea, and he was so happy when I reacted that way. He was like yeah it is actually very nice you "assumed" I was a dude all this time.
You cannot compel speech in this great country 🇺🇸, so they can whine all they want. I’m more than happy to call Marcus a he because he looks like a man and is respectful
Some of them don't even try. Men of course.
Don’t know about great
You can compel speech and they are doing it. Beware! Your freedoms of speech will fall to this fascist gender ideology.
Great? 😂
@@iqtidarrahman2148 And yet your kind come by the thousands. 👀
I'm a trans woman and I HATE it when people assume I'm into gender ideology and ask for my pronouns. Like my entire presentation is trying to make it obvious that I want to live as a woman ...
Something I dislike about this that I haven't seen mentioned is that people put so much focus on their gender, other people's gender, etc, there's so much that they expect people to know and remember.
This is dangerous in food service, and other type of jobs, where a lot of concentration is required, it might not seem like a lot of concentration is needed in the food service industry, but think of how many food diseases exist. There have been a few times when I've ordered a chocolate milkshake and had been given a rocky road one, imagine if I had been allergic to nuts? I've even heard of people dying over food mix up mistakes, so I think it's very important to have 100% concentration in the food industry job as well as many other jobs, but this seems like it'll make it difficult for people to, if they're struggling now imagine how much worse it'll be if they have to use their already over used brain power to focus on stuff like this.
The good of humanity is worth more than making sure you don't step on eggshells around a small VERY LOUD section of the population.
"My pronouns are-"
"Look, either you are ordering or telling your political stance, choose one"
As someone who works in the food industry you’re absolutely right.
@@Jade-yl9ee I hope you haven't had to deal with too many annoying people.
In any job, the job comes first. You do the job the best you can and while you do that, you will have no time to think about yourself. That is one of the pleasant things about jobs.
I can honestly say I've never been mean-mugged by someone singing "If your happy and your know it" and then actually clapping their hands. That's some horror movie, purge type shyt
How can you tell that people aren't genuinely trans, using preferred pronouns. Whatever happened to a woman just being allowed to be a tomboy with no need for stupid pronouns.
I would be a "lesbian", despite the fact that i'm not interested to date another woman.
And anyone else for that matter.
As a biological female with short hair I get mistaken for a man and when I was young it made me feel embarrassed and ashamed but now that I’m an adult I realize if someone calls me sir they are actually just trying to be polite.
Same here. I had short hair and wore lots of dude clothes 😂
From behind people would say “ excuse me sir “ then be kinda confused when I turned around.
I did wear makeup.
I even had the police call me “Sir”.
I never was too embarrassed, I just would say “opps! I’m a girl “. I never was offended.
For me it beats "Hey, you there!"
I was raised to call elders Sir or Ma’am. Luckily most of the pronoun army is younger than me so I can give respect to elders without a tirade.
Well, if I ever encounter one, I'm just going to use their name in place of any pronoun.
"Stacy likes working at Stacy's job, Stacy gets a lot of work done at Stacy's desk. Stacy is proud of Stacy's self"
Bit tedious, but still correct and allows me to play my own game that while being awkward, still makes sense.
That's literally fucking Gold. It inadvertently makes them seem like they're fucking dumb, or they need to be spoken to, and about, as children.
I'm fine using "it"
The thing is….”if I ever encounter one”….your believing the propaganda, even though you have never witnessed it personally!!!!
Probability is that you will never “encounter one”!!!! 🙄🤷♂️
Stop spreading BS! 🙄
I've done this to someone before. I don't think they caught onto what I was doing though, so it was a little disappointing
@@AlwaysKDawg prob because they figured that (((you))) were the person with a disability! And they are probably correct!
I work with 6-8 youngsters per day most days a week, imagine me saying over and over all day long "what are your pronouns?" Imagine a teacher addressing 30 kids in a classroom and expected to remember all the different pronouns for everyone - and worried about getting sacked if they get any wrong??! Nobody thinks about these things, because the people that say these things only meet one or two people per year or something, I literally speak to hundreds of people over a 12-month period! Very exhausting having to ask for pronouns all day every day!
I really wish they would stop with the colored hair, I was doing that b4 it was adopted by the crazies
Coloring your hair that way can fck with the health of it.
If you want to dye your hair, stick to natural dark colors, they match the base.
RIGHT! I had a purple mohawk in 1985 and was fight in the streets of Hollywood next to my gay friends because g@y b@shing with bats, bricks and chains was a very real thing! These people now have no clue!
@@QueSeraSeraaaa my hair is pretty healthy considering what I put it through. Most things people do to their hair is unhealthy
@@starlitsky4751 i used to color my hair, but as i aged, i grew sick of it.
I needed to let my natural color living once again, none of the coloring was intense, it's just that blond doesn't fit me that much.
Compared to brune/black.
@@QueSeraSeraaaanah, only if you don't take care of it. Many people keep it healthy after dying.
As someone who lives with anxiety, the last thing I think about is videoing myself on the daily and what I go through. I prefer just keeping to myself, and not putting any attention on myself.
I think the platform called Tik Tok seems to validate so many of these people, it’s like no one wants to upset them, but I don’t have to go along with idiocy. I appreciate you Marcus for talking about all of this idiocy we are seeing so much of these days.
the fact these types of narcissists have the audacity to say that their identity doesn't effect anyone and then demand tha everyone go out of their way to call them confusing and nonsensical things in the same breath is so wild
The whole pronouns game is about power. Being an ally just puts you in the line of fire. You’re on the frontline, having to watch every word. You will NEVER get a pass if you misstep. They use, abuse and discard. You’re a stepping stone for their power. In fact, you have enabled it. Enjoy.
Hell will freeze over before I ask these crazy people about their pronouns.
Telling me i HAVE to do something is a sure fire way to ensure I DONT do that thing.
The fact these people believe I start any conversation with "What's your pronouns?" is wrong to begin with. That's not how society has worked in my 48 years of life. If someone asks me to to use pronouns I probably will as long as it's not they/them.
There is no verb " to gender". Therefore it isn't possible to
" mis-gender" anyone.
When do you refer to people by their personal pronouns?
As an autistic woman I feel that same way about people misappropriate autism. My disorder is not something you choose to be and differently nothing you can switch on and off.
IKR I’m soooooo sick of seeing all the “autism quirky” stuff those people spew
The amount of self diagnosis is truly astounding and a massive diservice to people with actual Autism. I have fairly bad adhd which I went through intense testing with a Nueropsych at 40, so when people self diagnose it makes me feel so annoyed. People weaponizing real issues for fun or to be cool is honestly just sick.
I hope for dear life these types of people never get in a position of power
They will. Because they already have more power over us, because all they have to do scream "bigotry" for us to lose a job or for them to get hired over competent people. Because busniesses have no spine.
Don't worry about it. They are loud and crazy, people laugh about it.
That would be too much work and not enough viewers to feed their narcissism. It's much easier to bitch and moan across a screen and be the star of your own little world.
If the next head of government has pink hair and a nose ring, emigrate!
Look up 'Rachel Levine': 'Biden picks transgender woman as assistant health secretary'
I can say with absolute certainty that I have never walked up to someone and go "What's your pronoun?" nor have I been asked in person or heard people ask about their pronouns.
Giving me half of your money is not preferred it's mandatory, pay up.
Sorry people. You cannot control what other people say.
In any circumstance.
They continue to rely on others for their own satisfaction.
That never works.
Its from within.
Happy Thanksgiving, Marcus.
I try to be respectful when I am out in public. The problem is that you don't know with these people. Rather then get into some kind of disagreement with them, it's just easier to avoid them completely. I'm unfiltered so I already struggle with not blurting things out. I'll also point out that I've been misgendered over the phone. Call me during peak allergy season early morning, I sound like a dude. So this isn't unique to them either. I'd tell them what my parents always told me when they thought I was being ridiculous -" get over yourself ".
I thought about what you said about appropriation of a meantal illness and I feel this more nefarious than that. Your take on their behavior + an astute comment by @Selynn. about narcissist makes me feel these people were not getting the attention they feel they deserve and decided as you state to appropriate a mental illness. My concern is if it is only discussed in this manner we miss the harm they do via their narcissist behavior like you stated, they make you question your own instincts. We need to start calling out narcissistic behavior. It is a mental illness it self yet it harms more than just the person who has it. We should not shame them, we should distnce ourselves from them, ignoring them is very painful to them and show them compassion for the pathetic humans they are, this also devastates them. Narcissistic behavior is a toxin we need to try and eradicate from our society.
I support you for calling out this insanity. edit for typo.
Mispronouning an Activist is Mandatory. XD
Marcus, I would like to say thank you to you for opening my eyes as much as you have. I am 13 now, but when I was really into the LGBT, I was 10-12. I know I’m very young, so I may not understand a lot of what I’m hearing about, but I‘d like to think I’m able to comprehend such things at this point. Anyways, it didn’t necessarily start out like this. I did think that I was Bisexual because I had a girlfriend (I am a biological female) at some point. This was before I was active on TikTok. Once I was, oh boy, did things start going downhill fast. I first thought I was Aromantic because I didn’t like people that much. (I‘m a child, so that shouldn’t even be something I‘m worried about.) Then, I started to think I was all sorts of things (E.g. Trans, Gay, Pan, Omni, Agender, Aboy, Libramasculine, basically a majority of them were things that aren’t even real lmao.) and that my pronouns were he/they/xe/star, and whatever else you could think of. It even got to a point where I told my mom that I WAS TRANSGENDER AND I THOUGHT I WAS A BOY. Looking back, I‘m so glad my parents didn’t immediately take what I said to heart and actually questioned me instead. The older I grew, the more I became invested in this life. I even thought that a MAN that said he was nonbinary and a lesbian was what he said and defended him. That‘s how insane the delusions were. I am very aware there are several things wrong with me mentally, most of which I blame on myself rather than what might actually be the problem. Honestly, I’m so glad that these 'conservative' UA-camrs have opened my eyes to how much of a cult this is and told me that I can be a girl that likes boy things. I’m disappointed in myself that I used to HATE these kind of UA-camrs that just tell you what reality is. Also, I’ve deleted TikTok long ago, so I‘d say that helped improve my mental health a bit more. (It‘s still bad tho.💀)
Apologies if this is a jumbled mess. I’m not good at writing long paragraphs.
I don't mind going out of my way for people if they ask and/or appreciate but I HATE it when I'm just expected to do/know something, and I can't stand being taken for granted, so I'm very unlikely to call someone rat/ratself, elf/elfself etc, cos its bloody stupid!
Nothing says compassion like mandatory. "we just want equality". Yup, because everyone else has mandatory ways others must address us to stroke our egos.
I don’t have to worry about misgendering anyone. I simply do not speak to them.
I grew up in the 90s. My sister is gay. All of her friends were trans and gay. This isnt what they wanted! They didnt want to control anyone. They wanted respect. even they think this has gotten way outta hand.
"My pronouns are preferred, they are mandatory, watch me as I clap and look at you like a psycho."
No, it's not mandatory and your biology never changes no matter how bad you wish they do.
Marcus is a person who counts being trans as one of his many interesting attributes and accomplishments.
These TikTokers present as an image, a facade, a construct... but not a person.
I think if we ever found the real person buried deep down they'd beg us to let them out 😢
But how did it get so narcissistic? Because the "you will never be good enough" is narcissistic abuse, and taking pleasure saying "now you offended me" is narcissistic abuse.
It's so good to live in country where the language literally does not make it easy to add another pronouns, since they are correlated with verbs, so in order to create new pronoun you would have to change the whole verb conjugation so, EVERY verb would have to have new form. IT seems so abstract to me what is going on in English speaking countries. I guess Polish grammar is... transphobic???? :O
That’s a big lesson in life I think -is realizing you can not control other people or circumstance but you can control how you respond to them. I have become a much stronger fuller person since I realized that and I’m still working on it, because it’s not easy!
Who on earth can be so demanding, coercive, manipulative in such an insipid fashion claiming you are bound to do it or else.?
Oh look! It’s a blue haired, horn wearing, singing clapping seal!
So original, and soo clever!
Will someone please toss it a fish?
It's funny that these people think they can control your perception of them. Laughing so hard right now.
I'm a biological woman and if someone asked me what my perferd pronouns are or my pronouns, I would feel so offended like i'd look down at my chest like "Damn ladies you had one job!"
Man. A lot of this is exactly what I've been saying/thinking.
These activists are hurting everyone.
Thank you for the upload.
I really don't care what pronouns they are using. Not because I don't respect them but because I don't want them to control what I can and can't think feel or say. As well as I don't want to feed their narcissism.
Bravo Marcus! Another clear cut slice through their delusions. 👍
He said she's in an elf costume we aren't the same 😂😂 lmao
What's the end game for them? To end up even more alone and miserable? I will support real transexuals that have a medical diagnosis. I'm sick of this self-diagnosing garbage. If someone does not have a legit diagnosis, then they can get bent and get out of my space. Sex exists and is a vital part of us. Gender, if it exists at all, would be one small aspect that falls under our personality "umbrella" and I will not be forced to like, celebrate, and accept people with horrific personalities under the guise of gender ideology. It's such an odd way to try and force people to like you. (Not you I mean those entitled brats).
I continue to tell people who ask me my pronouns to use whatever they want. It has zero impact on me.
Over my career I have had the opportunity to hire hundreds of people. The blue haired one would not even make it through the front door for an interview.
My attitude is: “Your rights end where my rights start. You do not have the right to command me to mangle the King’s English.” People like you, Blaire and Buck “pass” it is easy to know how to address you and refer to you. The TRAs seem to want to torpedo the progress the has been made in the acceptance of those suffering from sexual dysphoria.
I live in California and work with tons of people my age (20’s). Lots of them go to universities yet I never see this in real life. Even people who wear the flag pins never ask someone their pronouns. It’s so weird like does this only exist online and in schools??
Happy Thanksgiving, Marcus! we cannot control or mandate how others perceive us. being hung up on presentation and identity is unhealthy and unproductive. just BE.
"You do not get to decide how someone identifies."
Well, YOU don't get to decide how I refer to you when I'm not even talking to you.
Nope. I don’t have to pretend along with them. And yes, this is all about them controlling and manipulating other people. And forced participation in their games. And dressing up as an elf doesn’t mean I have to call you one. If I say freak everyone one will know who I’m referring to, so communication accomplished.
That person should realize that if I must call them what they want to be called, then they must call me what I want. I am a woman, not cis, and I say that you can tell my pronoun by looking at me. I shouldn't have to say my pronouns are she / her. I don't present or identify as a woman, I am a woman.
Look at all these whiny babies who I'm never going to interact with. "Hey! My pronouns are..."
"I don't care." and keep walking.
Thank you.
I'm a 50 year old, straight man with a 10 year old daughter and lately I have been feeling like i need to keep my mouth shut, because I'm completely lost and don'twanttoupset anyone. I'm suddenly surrounded by blue haired 'people' demanding i use a thousand different pronouns.
I deliberately search for videos that have opposing opinions to me, in an attempt to learn more instead of being caught in an echo chamber.
This is the 1st time i have come across a video from a real trans person, that shares my view.
I completely understand your story. It makes complete sense. No BS. You are now a man and don't need to wear a huge badge to tell everyone. You just want to get on with your life, like everyone else.
It's very refreshing. Thank you. I feel like I've always kept myself well informed, but this new trans/non binary movement has got me scratching my head.
For me, you're the expert in this field as you've 'been there,seen that,got the t-shirt' so to speak.
I'm sure you get your fair share of hate for speaking up.
I've tried talking to the so called trans activists, but instead of answering my questions, they reply with rudeness and laughter.
Thanks. It's nice to know I'm not insane.
I am a nonbinary red haired youth if you want to ask any questions go ahead
@@justokei OK thanks. I'm not here to offend anyone though. I just have genuine questions and the general population seem to run on here say.
What is non-binary? I understand that some people feel different from their birth gender, as Marcus did, but I don't understand how someone can be neither male or female. Everyone has to be one or the other. The non-binary is just feelings right? Like gender dysphoria.
Or am I completely wrong?
@@notbadsteve Okay so nonbinary is a gender identity outside of the gender binary ie male and female. the basis for being nonbinary is essentially that the majority of what we would consider to be gender falls outside biological sex so gender in this circumstance is not bound by a gender binary there for someones gender could exist outside of a sex binary. Personally I'm nonbinary I prefer it when people use masculine terms to refer to me, I have some dysphoria and choose to present myself in an androgynous way as a way of making myself feel more comfortable.
@@justokei thanks. So gender is different to sex?
Can I ask what your sex was before you discovered you was non-binary.
For instance, if you needed medical treatment, for say testicular or ovarian cancer, you'll have one of those parts, which makes you male or female.
So I guess what I'm trying to figure out is , can you be a non binary male or non binary female? Because from my understanding, non binary can't exist in a medical procedure , other than if all those parts have been removed.
I'm sorry if I'm sounding stupid. This is the 1st time I've ever had a sensible, calm conversation on the subject.
@@notbadsteve You are good so nonbinary is a gender identity meaning that it isn't dependant on medical procedures, many nonbinary people might choose to medically transition too feel more comfortable in their body but many also do not.
at least the one at 1:50 said its ok to ask "what are your pronouns" some even say NOOOO THAT IS WRONG!!! At least that one is more approachable.
I'm actually glad for the crazy colored hair. It gives me a warning of the craziness I'm probably going to have to deal with if I engage with that person.
toxic/poisonous frogs usually have bright flashy colours such as bright blues and yellows, etc.
@@thatstockinI was about to mention that🤣
And the face piercings…
@@ravenID429 ..Oh you nerd, Ya frog nerd😆
@@thatstockin I've just seen the meme🐸
They behave like petulant children and are straight up annoying. Cos playing day in and out must be so exhausting. The main objective is to be offended. Being offended provides the narcissist with adequate fuel needed for TikTok tantrum’s.
Thanks! You are one of the very few voices of reason. I have learnt so much and can discuss things better with my trans niece God bless
Thank you!!!
You always talk so much truth!!!! ❤ your words need to be spread everywhere! You always speak in a factual and intelligent way, I genuinely love every video of yours 🥰and your message is soooo important right now, shit has gone crazy!!
I just found this channel. I really enjoy your insight on these topics
I’ve yet to have anyone ask me my pronouns…. I think my response will be feigned confusion followed by “well I’m a women but if you choose to refer to me as ‘he’ that’s your choice”
I think I fell in love with you when you talked about how they act like children and just like children, we need to tell them, "no". I never thought I would want to divorce myself from the T in our community, but today's generation of fake activists are doing nothing more than LARPing. They're taking our community backwards after we fought so hard and long for rights. It's disgusting.
Whilst demanding womens' rights including gay women return to the stone age. The saving grace is the rope we gave them allows initially sympathetic governments/public service to see through the lie they were fed. Australia has enforced equality laws which means just that. An influential equal marriage lobby group was taken over by T activists who basically demand the T get more rights than the majority. Religion has little influence here yet with our acceptance are granted an exemption from those laws due to belief. Those activists now demand self identifiers access all female only sport/spaces & religious schools/churches be denied their exemptions. Fortunately few are listening.
1:28 actually it wasn't an elf costume, it was a demon costume because it had two huge horns. That's what I thought at first as well, but the demon costume seems more fitting, don't you think?😂😂😂
I’m just wondering how many times are these people are really getting “misgendered.” BUT if you have a 5:00 shadow and wearing a dress? That is confusing to people!!! Legitimate trans people want to blend into society. Thank you for your content, Marcus. We need more content in the forefront and not silence you, Blaire White, Buck Angel, etc.
5:05 more precisely here, everyone can tell that this is a girl.
Rules of language aren't preferred, they're mandatory. 1 cant be refered to as a plural
Thank you for being a actually sene trans guy I remember seeing people like this when I where 12 and gender dysphoria and they made me so depressed I thought I was the only girl in the whole world that wanted to be a guy cause I had only heard of trans women and after 3 years I finally found you so thank you :3 you have helped me make my mom understand better and myself and just given me hope :3 ❤❤❤
I used to be afraid of them, now i just despise them.
I will not spend the rest of my life asking people what their pronouns are! I have a deep voice for a woman. I cannot count the times on the phone someone has called me mister. I dont care,lol
Those people really think It is other people's responsability to validate Them?
What a great explanation and insight ! Thanks for posting this.
As a biological woman, I don’t like being called cis
Well, calling yourself a biological woman is every bit as bad. It's Trans Activists who have labelled us with prefixes and yet here you are aiding them. You are a woman. That describes you perfectly. We never needed prefixes before and we certainly don't need them now. We are not cis women, real women, or biological women. We are women.
I don't mind respecting people's pronouns but they should never be forced on people.
I do mind since i could be bothered to no end.. 🙄
non-passing trans people? definitely, I'll do my best to make sure I don't slip. they/thems? nope, fucking done with them. I do my best to avoid interacting with those.
I would feel offended if someone would ask for my pronouns! I don't want anyone to think I am that confused
0:18 why are they always singing songs with this tune😭
You’re so correct. It’s about them winning an argument and people saying what that trans person WANTS you to say. Ignore EVERYTHING you know as truth and come on into the twilight zone!!