Threats probably from people who are just trying to intimidate her. Not real threats. Hoping to make her go away. Hope she ignores them and keeps living her best life.
I think the hate is coming from envy mostly from those stuck in unhappy relationships with kids they can’t afford and perhaps even wish they never had…especially with the person they are with!! There is not one happy person who would be bothered about this woman’s lifestyle! Happy people enjoy seeing others happy!!
Support to you girl. I'm 69 and traveling right now in Milan alone to celebrate my 70th birthday in Italy. I'm single, no children and have had a great life doing exactly what I want to do which is travel and enjoy life. This life is not for everyone but some of us thrive with this lifestyle.
Death threats and being investigated by authorities just because people are jealous beyond comprehension! The hate for women, happy women, free women is absolutely insane!
@@charmainewalker8627 Oh, there's definitely a problem for some of those looking from the outside. For men who are crap, 'cause they know a happy woman won't fall for less than what she deserves and they won't ever do right by any woman so the pool they'll have to choose from will become even more scarce. Especially while they age. And for the type of women dealing with that type of men because they think "how dare you're all happy over there without a man and I have a man and still my life is crap?" It messes them up. So they rage in apparent unexplainable ways.
I'm a mom, and if they want to be single and without kids..then kudos to them. Their happiness is what matters in their life, not any judgement from other people. We are not meant to be what everyone else expects of us. If we live like everyone else wants, then we wouldn't be living life at all.
Definitely projection. In no world should anyone be so bothered by how someone chooses to live their life. I have no kids, but I don't get mad at women who say kids are the best thing that happened to them. This world is a mess!
It also challenges the patriarchal concept that women are adjunct beings to men. The systemic patriarchy has squashed the will of women (or even their lives) for centuries who might break away from the role that accepts that control. Why? Because if one woman successfully models independence, then all women will get the idea that they could also survive independently.
It is, and I have gotten it too, but nowhere NEAR on this scale! WHY? Because she is a happy single woman, who doesn't want to be tied down? The hate threats should be investigated, and the threatening people should spend some time in jail! Women's freedom should not attract such dimwit incels, but it's a very sick society with trump and the other nutcases of MAGA around!
As an attorney, I've done enough wills and estate planning to know that who you choose as a spouse and parent of your children is by far the most important decision you'll make in this lifetime. And the stakes are high if you make poor choices. The problem is people want the life they want immediately, and their sense of urgency leads them to make rushed decisions that are not in their best interest. I'm not saying wait until 70 to settle down. But TAKE. YOUR TIME.
I'm glad that Tamron is highlighting this issue. There are people who become extremely violent when they see a woman just enjoying her life. They want women to live an imprisoned miserable life.
The shaming and targeting is intended to cause distress and take away her peace. They see she is happy, in her autonomy and (some) viewers have taken it upon themselves to try and take that away from her. It's a real mirror to what society including women, will do to other women. We are socialised from birth to follow societal and cultural 'norms' this is what can happen if you choose your own path. Go, Emily!
I'm 39 with no kids. Just walk away from a toxic relationship. I will post how I enjoy life when I'll have some money as for now I have hardships. People can say whatever they want, I don't care.
Why are people so desperate for single and/or childless women to be miserable??? 😖. I wish she didn’t apologize or clarify anything. Married women don’t apologize for posting their flowers or date night. Mothers don’t apologize for posting their kids. They don’t have to be sensitive to others feelings about their lives. But single women have to make sure we don’t trigger married women or mothers 🤔. If being married or being a mother is so amazing and the be all end all to happiness, why are they the ones who can’t handle seeing the grass on the other side…..
Because these women are secretly depressed and miserable in their marriage or relationship because maybe that their husband's or boyfriend's are out running the streets and cheating on them and the women are home with their kids while they out partying with their boys at a strip club somewhere. Thank God I don't have to deal with that type of drama because I choose to be single and child free.
Probably because we have our freedom and are happy, and don't have to put up with what they do and don't want to! The women are miserable, and think we are bragging, and the men want slaves.
People are soo mean and miserable, smh. They’re jealous because they have all these kids and can’t enjoy their own lives, it’s a shame. Live your life girl, have fun on all your amazing travels and don’t worry about the haters. ❤
Tamron, your outfit is fire! Love it! I'm an American living in Costa Rica and have never gotten so much hate for being a single woman with no kids in my life at age 39. It's absolutely disgusting how much people try to suffocate happy independent women out of their own misery. Keep thriving!
Men (mostly) react this way bc she is showing other women (and women are resources to men) that we can be happy without being in relationships with them.
Thank you for pointing that out. Most people think this is about jealousy, from women I guess, but it's mostly about men hating on untraditional woman.
Yep. And women want to FINALLY benefit from this life before we go, instead of being stuck in some dead-end relationship with a person we REALLY don't like and would be hard to get away from.
As a woman who spent most of her 30s single and childless I can 1000% say this is jealousy and projection. I'm now 39 and got married this year and expecting a baby. Prior to all of this, I lived all over the world and travelled very often...the comments I would get from the people around me that chose to start all that in their late 20s seethed of envy and judgement, except for the good honest friends who openly said what they would give to have waited a little but the societal pressure is real and I never let the fake shaming pity of "oh you're single? you'll find someone" stop my joy of living live! My husband and baby are getting the best version of myself now that I feel like I lived so much and such fulfilling things outside of them, and the adventures will not stop for me, now it will just be an "us".
I’m in my early twenties and seeing comments like yours is so inspiring!! I always imagined myself settling down later, when I would have a more well rounded experience of the world to share with family. I can’t wait to put myself first and teach my future kids all the wisdom that comes w that ❤️
You are my inspiration. I am in my early 30s and i am discovering travelling and self care. Till i find someone worth ditching my singlehood i wont settle for less.
Unpaid labor at home after working a 40 hour a week occupation. No thanks. I hate cooking and cleaning up after my partner. It's a burden I want to be free of immediately! He was raised by women who did not teach him to do any chores around the house. He can't even fold a pair of socks together yet he is an engineer. He doesn't have any interest in those matters.
@@momi1610How do you know its not that happy men getting married bc women like happy men? And the single women are happier bc they dont have the ability or desire to hold down a man so are happier without one? Meaning I dont get why youd assume its bc women care for them. All the married men I know were happy before being married and all the single women I know tend to be career women who dont care for relationships.
What if you just never find the right man? You don't want to settle down and have kids with just anyone. If you just NEVER find "the one" before your biological clock ends, and you don't want to be a single parent, you can still have a life. Why sit around and be miserable? That's ridiculous.
This topic is so interesting to me. People want others to be married and have kids so bad (for whatever reason). Has anyone ever thought about all the miserable, abusive parents out there who feel trapped??? Good Lord people get a grip!!!!
From bitter men! I don’t know why bitter men hate to see a woman single, happy & contented. It’s like a form of projection ,, if they were rejected at any point by single women, they’re upset and take it out on you.. like how dare you be single?? lol. There’s that weird ownership mentality And just to add, there are whole men with healthy mindsets who wouldn’t think that way!
This is crazy! I’m married and have friends who live like she does. I’m glad that they are happily single, although they would like to be married. It’s a drag to be around people who are miserable with their lives whether they are married or single. Folks need to mind their own business.
It is SIMPLY JEALOUSY because she is single enjoying life going wherever,whenever GOOD FOR HER . Some of the married couples surely would want more time too. I am single the best decision ever of not wanting children.
It is jealousy. I had an ex-friend say how dare I enjoy my life and be out in these streets when she was dealing with her marriage. Huh? So when was HER marriage MY responsibility? I swear some folks need help for real.
Haters simply hate themselves and want to make other people miserable that they are hating on. They rather focus on someone else instead of fixing themselves and whatever is going on in their life. Don't stop living life, just because there's some wannabe keyboard warriors, who need to start focusing on correcting themselves. Maybe they should take a page out of your book in a sense and start enjoying life.
No one should be shamed for their life choices. As long as the person is happy and not hurting anyone…it’s nobody else’s business. You go Emily!! You ROCK!!
The problem here is that she’s advertising how happy she is. If you post yourself online you open yourself to criticism. She should just stop posting and then all the hate will disappear.
No…the problem is that other people are envious and clearly full of hate to have to be so critical of her life choices. She can post her life but to receive death threats - clearly it’s those people that have issues! Moms post pictures of their kids and if they received death threats…they wouldn’t be seen as the problem. People are just hateful!
I dont understand why people are invested in the decisions other people make in their lives. Kudos Emily! I wish you all the best. - From a single, childless woman over a certain age who hopes to be married and have her own children. Who's traveling, has a masters degree, and is an IT Manager.
This was the plan....I never wanted kids and marriage is not on my bucket list! Who says I must? I am full filled as is. Thank goodness I have tough skin, and I dn't care about what people think.
When I started working 50 something co-workers start asking me about having children. A doctor asked me about having children. I went to another job and women kept picking at me about not having children and she said that she did this because, "I'm jealous of women who don't have children." These women need to focus on their lives instead of focusing on someone who doesn't have children.
When I was younger the people at my job couldn't understand why I wasn't dating much. It bothered me how bothered everyone was that I was fitting the societal norms. I'm glad people are speaking about this more today.
Not everyone with kids is jealous of single women. I got married late and had kids late so I was able to enjoy being single. I had my first child at 39 and second at 41. I have a few single girlfriends and I wouldn’t want to trade places with them. Some of them are content being single and childless and some of them wish they were in my position. I think the important thing is to live and let live.
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She has one advantage and that is, she's not a minority. People can hate her overseas for being an American but never for the color of her skin. That's the issue so many others unfortunately, have to face when traveling. Solo or not.
It's nothing else but jealousy of the freedom she has to do what she wants, when she wants. Chances are the nasty trolls are trapped in an unhappy relationship and with kids they regret having. They are mainly unhappy with their own lives
This one of the reasons I left social media… women bullying me and men. Men after my womb. Mad I won’t be with them. One guy even stalked me and found out where I lived. I moved. Married people are miserable some of them. This married guy, pretending to be single got mad i didn’t want to sleep with him. This happened twice. At 23 and 30. At 23 I got him out my place. Never saw him again. The other one was over the phone. Just met him. First and last time he saw me. People get mad when you’re single and child free and keep your legs closed.
These people mad bc they broke, busted, and disgusted! This is why people should only share their peace and joy with those that truly love them! Everything is not for the internet, especially precious moments!!!🤦🏽♀️
Only miserable people are offended by someone else enjoying their life. Single or married, with kids or child free, it doesn't matter, as long as you're happy and feel grateful and fulfilled. The issue here is that there are a lot of miserable and unhappy people in the world whether married or single, child-free or with kids. Let Emily live her life and enjoy whatever season she is in.
Imade it to 33 single and childfree....Even with 2 kids now, I'm happy for others choosing a life that works for them, she has plenty of time to have kids. 😊if she wants!
I'm a happy single mom of two small kids and people simply don't believe me when i say I'm not looking for a partner in the future. I'm just happy the way things are. And when my kids leave the house some day, I'm gonna be a happy single cat lady 😊
In 10 seconds, I don’t see any reason for anybody to threaten this young lady. It’s amazing to me how brazen people become when there’s a keyboard and they’re not face-to-face with people. Life is all about choices. She has made the choice to enjoy being single and to be happy. I’m single and childless as well and I’m 53 years old. I’m grateful for my life, and I understand why some young women and some young men are opting out of a tradition of marriage and family. Being single works for you and fantastic. If being married, and having children works for you fantastic. If being a single parent works for you fantastic. We all should have the option to do whatever we want without judgment.
I'm single and happy with no interest in getting married or being a parent. I have family and friends I support and who support me. I've always said that there is no comparison between being single and being married. They are vastly different and both have advantages. Single people are never celebrated and looked at as being lonely and sad. Live your life in whatever manner suits you as long as it's not harming anyone else.I applaud this women for living her life and making no apologies. Many blessings and safe travels.
Please note, many married people don't live full lives. Some men have told women to settle down and stop traveling and stop seeing/experiencing new things in life. There are partners that just want to come home and sit on the sofa for the rest of their lives and demand their mate do the same. If you come into someone's life does not mean you get to control a person's life experience. This is not a prison. It's a free life. We are on earth for a very temporary amount of time. If I've been traveling seeing this world before I leave it (DIE), then join in. Don't tell me to stop it. FYI, single simply means people have options. Travelers have friends all over the world. Many couples limit their interaction with human beings in many cases. Sounds a bit Boring. Even if people had children and traveled with their kids then society will have something negative to say. In addition, don't pressure people to have kids and think they are cute at 1 month old and then think they are a threat by the time they are 10 years old which many people do. Someone reducing themselves to 1 mate and children, how does that benefit you? It does not. Plus, I question how in LOVE most couples are with one another. Everyone does not want to "settle" which mean "less." Many people want "More" "Abundance." If your added existence makes me live less of a life, then question why my peace is being disturbed for less. When or if my path crosses my Ultimate Love and want to live life filled with adventure then it will be at that time. Not looking for "randons" to be road blocks in my life. That's how people run into abusers. No Thank you. Take your time and enjoy YOUR LIFE.
Let them hate!!! These women who sent death threats towards her for not having a husband or kids belongs in prison!!! It's not that serious and also for the women who where in their late teens to 20 and 30s, who made poor reckless decisions by having kids out of wedlock and becoming single mothers, don't take your poor decisions on as unmarried and child free women. I also rather not have kids then having kids by multiple different men like my ex cousin from Michigan did!!! Is disgusting!!!
I’m married and have 1 son with my husband. I love my little family AND I understand why women would decide not to embrace the journey or marriage and parenthood. There are a lot of sacrifices and if you feel like you’re not able to make them, God bless you for figuring it out BEFORE hand!! Better that than your kids suffering because you “made a mistake.”
My take is that people who are bothered are projecting. I'm not saying they regret their kids, but they may be unhappy or unfulfilled in life. They may be bothered by seeing people be so carefree. So nothing distracts you from your misery than looking down or criticizing someone else.
Why does she have to justify her life in any shape or form? You only have so many years on this planet -- make the most of it. Do not allow anyone to dictate who you should be or how you live.
That woman is enjoying her life, alone. I chose to have kids and marry young. What do I regret 30 years later? Having so much of my heart living outside my physical being. I love my kids but I worry. As a mother you do that. I think that is my only regret. I just recently started traveling and cannot wait to do more, as well as move abroad. Happy for her. Get off social media and live your like because those people are not telling you all the hell they cause while giving someone else hell.
They hate her because misery loves company. So many married women with kids find themselves somewhere within a tolerable level of permanent unhappiness.
How about people put that energy into shaming all the deadbeat dads out there. Almost none of my Friends had a dad growing up their moms did all the work of child raising plus worked and payed for everything . But I never heard those guys get the heat and hate I get when I say I don’t want kids
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📢 ~ JEALOUS much?!? Probably a bunch of angry KARENs & some men (KENs) ... WTF is wrong with humanity these says?!? I'm so sorry this woman had to endure such anger & hostility!!! Keep doing you - Emily re Lovely Lady 🌹
It is a shame how other folks think they can dictate to others how to live their lives. You go girl and enjoy your life. You do not have to explain yourself to anyone afterall you are paying your own travel expenses while they are stuck in the mud.
I find it interesting that she received a death threat but none of the Tradwives did.😮 Nobody should get a death threat. But, what does it say about society when one way a woman lives gets a death threat, but the other way does not?
Resentment is an awful thing, especially when it’s channelled towards a child. Some women feel forced into having them or conned. Kids aren’t a happy tv show. Be sure you want them if not don’t. Live and let live I say.
As someone who used to wanting to settle down in my early 20s because of society pressure. I dont give a damn now. I am living my life and now giving my own time as much as i do. I dont give a hoot about what society has to say about me because at the end of the day i paid my own bills and live my own life.
Envy! Envy! Envy! That's all this is. Too bad. Get a life and travel and stop envying another person's life. Save up and travel, Noone said you shouldn't. It's your choice.
Death threats seriously?what world we live in society it’s full of envy and jealousy because in reality people don’t like to see others happy enjoying life those who threaten her are people stuck in miserable marriages with kids who can’t divorce or leave because they will lose everything or women stuck with man they hate and kids that are making her life miserable
WTH!!! NEVER in my life have I heard of such INSANITY! A person receiving death threats and being shamed for living THEIR life on THEIR terms? #thatsherbusiness May God BLESS her present and future endeavors!
The Civil Rights Act was the Emancipation of Men, it freed Men from the obligation of sharing their resources with women and allowed women to work for themselves. Women's labor force participation rate grew from 34% in 1950 to 60% in 2000.
The hatred some people have for single and childless/childfree women is downright diabolical. The extreme right-wing online women's publication actually blamed childfree women for toxic mom culture. No, I don't get that one either.
People who are threatening her are living unfulfilled, miserable lives. What sane, happy person would send a death threat? What is she threatening by enjoying her life?
The same people that were outraged are the same ones that are miserable because they’re unhappily married with kids……. Choices, people, choices! Jealousy is a sick disease! I’m single with no children either and I’ll be damned if I live my life based on someone else’s opinion….. kcuF ‘em!
God has given us all a life to live, ✝️ hopefully, in a positive way. This is all what this young lady is doing. Others should not take anger towards her for decisions made in their lives that hindered their growth for whatever reason. She knew what she wanted and pursued it, successfully. People don't have to embrace her decisions but there is no need to hate her either. There's too much of it in the 🌎 already.🌟 Blessings.
So happy for her! Live your best life. AND..have a financial plan and support system in place should you get a serious disease or face disability as our healthcare system discriminates against Single childless people both financially and in actual care. ONE illness or one medical condition will bankrupt you. Medical transportation does not exist for Single childless people....as those who are married with children get priority for medical services and care that are limited on a local level.
She received death threats?!? People are insane. Humanity needs a reboot. Stat.
Threats probably from people who are just trying to intimidate her. Not real threats. Hoping to make her go away. Hope she ignores them and keeps living her best life.
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I think the hate is coming from envy mostly from those stuck in unhappy relationships with kids they can’t afford and perhaps even wish they never had…especially with the person they are with!! There is not one happy person who would be bothered about this woman’s lifestyle! Happy people enjoy seeing others happy!!
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how dare she enjoy her life! She should live in an attic covered in cobwebs! She should live like a nun in penance!
With a heaping helping of misogyny on top.
" Happy people enjoy seeing others happy " 🎯
Its coming from incel men.
Support to you girl. I'm 69 and traveling right now in Milan alone to celebrate my 70th birthday in Italy. I'm single, no children and have had a great life doing exactly what I want to do which is travel and enjoy life. This life is not for everyone but some of us thrive with this lifestyle.
Death threats and being investigated by authorities just because people are jealous beyond comprehension! The hate for women, happy women, free women is absolutely insane!
I just don’t get it. There seems to be a problem if a woman is single and happy 😮. You go girl. Society has gone crazy
@@charmainewalker8627 Oh, there's definitely a problem for some of those looking from the outside. For men who are crap, 'cause they know a happy woman won't fall for less than what she deserves and they won't ever do right by any woman so the pool they'll have to choose from will become even more scarce. Especially while they age. And for the type of women dealing with that type of men because they think "how dare you're all happy over there without a man and I have a man and still my life is crap?" It messes them up. So they rage in apparent unexplainable ways.
It is the ignorance and jealousy of those who have committed such acts against her. People need to leave the “single by choice” people alone.
Keep living your life Emily! You deserve it!
I'm a mom, and if they want to be single and without kids..then kudos to them. Their happiness is what matters in their life, not any judgement from other people. We are not meant to be what everyone else expects of us. If we live like everyone else wants, then we wouldn't be living life at all.
Thank you!
@@quickpstuts412 😎👍
This should be pinned
Exactly! Just imagine how boring this world would be if everyone is the same.
As a mom I agree
How can anyone be offended by a woman being single and childfree? Seems like jealousy to me.
It’s jealously and projection. Misery loves company.
Definitely projection. In no world should anyone be so bothered by how someone chooses to live their life. I have no kids, but I don't get mad at women who say kids are the best thing that happened to them. This world is a mess!
It also challenges the patriarchal concept that women are adjunct beings to men. The systemic patriarchy has squashed the will of women (or even their lives) for centuries who might break away from the role that accepts that control. Why? Because if one woman successfully models independence, then all women will get the idea that they could also survive independently.
It is, and I have gotten it too, but nowhere NEAR on this scale! WHY? Because she is a happy single woman, who doesn't want to be tied down? The hate threats should be investigated, and the threatening people should spend some time in jail! Women's freedom should not attract such dimwit incels, but it's a very sick society with trump and the other nutcases of MAGA around!
Death threats should result in automatic prison time.
As an attorney, I've done enough wills and estate planning to know that who you choose as a spouse and parent of your children is by far the most important decision you'll make in this lifetime. And the stakes are high if you make poor choices. The problem is people want the life they want immediately, and their sense of urgency leads them to make rushed decisions that are not in their best interest. I'm not saying wait until 70 to settle down. But TAKE. YOUR TIME.
🤣🤣I'm almost 70 still single and solo traveling and having a great time and not ready to "settle down".
Wow, people are pathetic! Let this woman live her life her way!!
Exactly live your life the hell with what others have to say negatively on this
I'm glad that Tamron is highlighting this issue. There are people who become extremely violent when they see a woman just enjoying her life. They want women to live an imprisoned miserable life.
Not people, men.
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Can you imagine a single man posting the same and getting ... DEATH THREATS?
No I couldn’t imagine that! Double standard is real.
Yes, from the same unhappy people.
@@Sheyshel Women statistically get far more threats of violence than men.
The shaming and targeting is intended to cause distress and take away her peace. They see she is happy, in her autonomy and (some) viewers have taken it upon themselves to try and take that away from her. It's a real mirror to what society including women, will do to other women. We are socialised from birth to follow societal and cultural 'norms' this is what can happen if you choose your own path. Go, Emily!
I'm 39 with no kids. Just walk away from a toxic relationship. I will post how I enjoy life when I'll have some money as for now I have hardships. People can say whatever they want, I don't care.
Why are people so desperate for single and/or childless women to be miserable??? 😖. I wish she didn’t apologize or clarify anything. Married women don’t apologize for posting their flowers or date night. Mothers don’t apologize for posting their kids. They don’t have to be sensitive to others feelings about their lives. But single women have to make sure we don’t trigger married women or mothers 🤔. If being married or being a mother is so amazing and the be all end all to happiness, why are they the ones who can’t handle seeing the grass on the other side…..
Because these women are secretly depressed and miserable in their marriage or relationship because maybe that their husband's or boyfriend's are out running the streets and cheating on them and the women are home with their kids while they out partying with their boys at a strip club somewhere. Thank God I don't have to deal with that type of drama because I choose to be single and child free.
Exactly well said.
Exactly
Probably because we have our freedom and are happy, and don't have to put up with what they do and don't want to! The women are miserable, and think we are bragging, and the men want slaves.
Best comment ever!!!! 💯🎯
Enjoy your life, this is not a dress rehearsal. There is no do overs.
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And you get old and things slow down
🗣️NO DO OVERS!!!!!
People are soo mean and miserable, smh. They’re jealous because they have all these kids and can’t enjoy their own lives, it’s a shame. Live your life girl, have fun on all your amazing travels and don’t worry about the haters. ❤
Its mainly incel men
What this teaches me is to enjoy my single season! 😜
Tamron, your outfit is fire! Love it! I'm an American living in Costa Rica and have never gotten so much hate for being a single woman with no kids in my life at age 39. It's absolutely disgusting how much people try to suffocate happy independent women out of their own misery. Keep thriving!
Men (mostly) react this way bc she is showing other women (and women are resources to men) that we can be happy without being in relationships with them.
Thank you for pointing that out. Most people think this is about jealousy, from women I guess, but it's mostly about men hating on untraditional woman.
Yep. And women want to FINALLY benefit from this life before we go, instead of being stuck in some dead-end relationship with a person we REALLY don't like and would be hard to get away from.
THIS! 🎯
As a woman who spent most of her 30s single and childless I can 1000% say this is jealousy and projection. I'm now 39 and got married this year and expecting a baby. Prior to all of this, I lived all over the world and travelled very often...the comments I would get from the people around me that chose to start all that in their late 20s seethed of envy and judgement, except for the good honest friends who openly said what they would give to have waited a little but the societal pressure is real and I never let the fake shaming pity of "oh you're single? you'll find someone" stop my joy of living live! My husband and baby are getting the best version of myself now that I feel like I lived so much and such fulfilling things outside of them, and the adventures will not stop for me, now it will just be an "us".
I’m in my early twenties and seeing comments like yours is so inspiring!! I always imagined myself settling down later, when I would have a more well rounded experience of the world to share with family. I can’t wait to put myself first and teach my future kids all the wisdom that comes w that ❤️
congratulations to you! ❤️
Good for you! 👍💝
You are my inspiration. I am in my early 30s and i am discovering travelling and self care. Till i find someone worth ditching my singlehood i wont settle for less.
There’s a study I have read that women who are single are the happiest. Men who are married lived the longest and are happy.
WTH?
Because the married men have women to take care of them; and the single women have the time and space to take care of themselves.
Well said @@momi1610
Unpaid labor at home after working a 40 hour a week occupation. No thanks. I hate cooking and cleaning up after my partner. It's a burden I want to be free of immediately! He was raised by women who did not teach him to do any chores around the house. He can't even fold a pair of socks together yet he is an engineer. He doesn't have any interest in those matters.
@@momi1610How do you know its not that happy men getting married bc women like happy men? And the single women are happier bc they dont have the ability or desire to hold down a man so are happier without one? Meaning I dont get why youd assume its bc women care for them. All the married men I know were happy before being married and all the single women I know tend to be career women who dont care for relationships.
@@watamutha@momi1610 is exactly right. If you're disagreeing, as my grandma used to say, "keep living".
What if you just never find the right man? You don't want to settle down and have kids with just anyone. If you just NEVER find "the one" before your biological clock ends, and you don't want to be a single parent, you can still have a life. Why sit around and be miserable? That's ridiculous.
I agree
Glad people have a choice today
This topic is so interesting to me. People want others to be married and have kids so bad (for whatever reason). Has anyone ever thought about all the miserable, abusive parents out there who feel trapped??? Good Lord people get a grip!!!!
Crazy world! How does that video get "death threats"?😡😡
From bitter men! I don’t know why bitter men hate to see a woman single, happy & contented. It’s like a form of projection ,, if they were rejected at any point by single women, they’re upset and take it out on you.. like how dare you be single?? lol. There’s that weird ownership mentality
And just to add, there are whole men with healthy mindsets who wouldn’t think that way!
This is crazy! I’m married and have friends who live like she does. I’m glad that they are happily single, although they would like to be married. It’s a drag to be around people who are miserable with their lives whether they are married or single. Folks need to mind their own business.
It is SIMPLY JEALOUSY because she is single enjoying life going wherever,whenever GOOD FOR HER . Some of the married couples surely would want more time too. I am single the best decision ever of not wanting children.
It is jealousy. I had an ex-friend say how dare I enjoy my life and be out in these streets when she was dealing with her marriage. Huh? So when was HER marriage MY responsibility? I swear some folks need help for real.
@@lunairis570 pathetic shameful really
She is living her best life. Those who are stuck in lousy marriages are jealousy
It’s the people who are miserable with their own lives want to make others miserable. 😢
Haters simply hate themselves and want to make other people miserable that they are hating on. They rather focus on someone else instead of fixing themselves and whatever is going on in their life. Don't stop living life, just because there's some wannabe keyboard warriors, who need to start focusing on correcting themselves. Maybe they should take a page out of your book in a sense and start enjoying life.
No one should be shamed for their life choices. As long as the person is happy and not hurting anyone…it’s nobody else’s business. You go Emily!! You ROCK!!
The problem here is that she’s advertising how happy she is. If you post yourself online you open yourself to criticism. She should just stop posting and then all the hate will disappear.
No…the problem is that other people are envious and clearly full of hate to have to be so critical of her life choices. She can post her life but to receive death threats - clearly it’s those people that have issues! Moms post pictures of their kids and if they received death threats…they wouldn’t be seen as the problem. People are just hateful!
Emily enjoy ur best life. U only get one❤❤❤❤
I dont understand why people are invested in the decisions other people make in their lives. Kudos Emily! I wish you all the best.
- From a single, childless woman over a certain age who hopes to be married and have her own children. Who's traveling, has a masters degree, and is an IT Manager.
This was the plan....I never wanted kids and marriage is not on my bucket list! Who says I must? I am full filled as is. Thank goodness I have tough skin, and I dn't care about what people think.
The death threats are wild. Why were authorities investigating her? Are single, childless men living their best lives treated this way?
No just women are treated this way
Girl, enjoy your life. I am praying for you
Live your life!!
When I started working 50 something co-workers start asking me about having children. A doctor asked me about having children. I went to another job and women kept picking at me about not having children and she said that she did this because, "I'm jealous of women who don't have children." These women need to focus on their lives instead of focusing on someone who doesn't have children.
When I was younger the people at my job couldn't understand why I wasn't dating much. It bothered me how bothered everyone was that I was fitting the societal norms. I'm glad people are speaking about this more today.
Not everyone with kids is jealous of single women. I got married late and had kids late so I was able to enjoy being single. I had my first child at 39 and second at 41. I have a few single girlfriends and I wouldn’t want to trade places with them. Some of them are content being single and childless and some of them wish they were in my position. I think the important thing is to live and let live.
Yes people at work will always investigate if u have children or not! I have also been asked tough questions & treated like trash because of that.
Blessings to you young lady, it’s unfortunate that you had to encounter so many ignorant people. Safety and blessings to you ❤
I Had My Daughter When I Was 30yrs Old & Now She's 22yrs Old, I'm Going To Be 53 Tomorrow Thank U Jesus ✝️ But I Was Treated The Same Way When I Didn't Have Kids "That Ish Hurts" But Do U & Live Dangerous "Safely" Darling Prosperously 🙌🏽🙏🏽💪🏽✊🏽
Married people with families travel also and have a great time! It comes down to whether your enjoying the life you have or not.
She dares to be pretty and independent! Go girl !!!
Even more reason to stop sharing your life on social media, toxic people scrolling and bullying people on these platforms
This! Share in community with like minded people. Too many folks out here are not well, petty and living small.
32, single, happily unmarried with two 10 year old cats
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Like every other person in this world, people in my country🇧🇩 also stigmatise single women 😭😭😭
She has one advantage and that is, she's not a minority. People can hate her overseas for being an American but never for the color of her skin. That's the issue so many others unfortunately, have to face when traveling. Solo or not.
It's nothing else but jealousy of the freedom she has to do what she wants, when she wants. Chances are the nasty trolls are trapped in an unhappy relationship and with kids they regret having. They are mainly unhappy with their own lives
Good for her, she is doing what makes her happy, nothing wrong with that!
This one of the reasons I left social media… women bullying me and men. Men after my womb. Mad I won’t be with them. One guy even stalked me and found out where I lived. I moved. Married people are miserable some of them. This married guy, pretending to be single got mad i didn’t want to sleep with him. This happened twice. At 23 and 30. At 23 I got him out my place. Never saw him again. The other one was over the phone. Just met him. First and last time he saw me. People get mad when you’re single and child free and keep your legs closed.
These people mad bc they broke, busted, and disgusted! This is why people should only share their peace and joy with those that truly love them! Everything is not for the internet, especially precious moments!!!🤦🏽♀️
Only miserable people are offended by someone else enjoying their life.
Single or married, with kids or child free, it doesn't matter, as long as you're happy and feel grateful and fulfilled.
The issue here is that there are a lot of miserable and unhappy people in the world whether married or single, child-free or with kids.
Let Emily live her life and enjoy whatever season she is in.
Imade it to 33 single and childfree....Even with 2 kids now, I'm happy for others choosing a life that works for them, she has plenty of time to have kids. 😊if she wants!
Plenty of time? She’s 38 and I don’t believe she wants kids
A lot of people would LOVE that lifestyle!!
GOOD FOR YOU GIRLFRIEND!!! Live YOUR life!!! 🥰..
I'm a happy single mom of two small kids and people simply don't believe me when i say I'm not looking for a partner in the future.
I'm just happy the way things are. And when my kids leave the house some day, I'm gonna be a happy single cat lady 😊
You have a positive healthy mindset. Blessings to you.🙏🏾💛🙌🏾
In 10 seconds, I don’t see any reason for anybody to threaten this young lady. It’s amazing to me how brazen people become when there’s a keyboard and they’re not face-to-face with people. Life is all about choices. She has made the choice to enjoy being single and to be happy. I’m single and childless as well and I’m 53 years old. I’m grateful for my life, and I understand why some young women and some young men are opting out of a tradition of marriage and family. Being single works for you and fantastic. If being married, and having children works for you fantastic. If being a single parent works for you fantastic. We all should have the option to do whatever we want without judgment.
Well, hopefully those who posted those threats were reported.
I'm single and happy with no interest in getting married or being a parent. I have family and friends I support and who support me. I've always said that there is no comparison between being single and being married. They are vastly different and both have advantages. Single people are never celebrated and looked at as being lonely and sad. Live your life in whatever manner suits you as long as it's not harming anyone else.I applaud this women for living her life and making no apologies. Many blessings and safe travels.
It amazes me how some people care how others live. Every person has the right to do with their life whatever they want.
Please note, many married people don't live full lives. Some men have told women to settle down and stop traveling and stop seeing/experiencing new things in life. There are partners that just want to come home and sit on the sofa for the rest of their lives and demand their mate do the same. If you come into someone's life does not mean you get to control a person's life experience. This is not a prison. It's a free life. We are on earth for a very temporary amount of time. If I've been traveling seeing this world before I leave it (DIE), then join in. Don't tell me to stop it. FYI, single simply means people have options. Travelers have friends all over the world. Many couples limit their interaction with human beings in many cases. Sounds a bit Boring. Even if people had children and traveled with their kids then society will have something negative to say. In addition, don't pressure people to have kids and think they are cute at 1 month old and then think they are a threat by the time they are 10 years old which many people do. Someone reducing themselves to 1 mate and children, how does that benefit you? It does not. Plus, I question how in LOVE most couples are with one another. Everyone does not want to "settle" which mean "less." Many people want "More" "Abundance." If your added existence makes me live less of a life, then question why my peace is being disturbed for less. When or if my path crosses my Ultimate Love and want to live life filled with adventure then it will be at that time. Not looking for "randons" to be road blocks in my life. That's how people run into abusers. No Thank you. Take your time and enjoy YOUR LIFE.
Let them hate!!! These women who sent death threats towards her for not having a husband or kids belongs in prison!!! It's not that serious and also for the women who where in their late teens to 20 and 30s, who made poor reckless decisions by having kids out of wedlock and becoming single mothers, don't take your poor decisions on as unmarried and child free women. I also rather not have kids then having kids by multiple different men like my ex cousin from Michigan did!!! Is disgusting!!!
I’m married and have 1 son with my husband. I love my little family AND I understand why women would decide not to embrace the journey or marriage and parenthood. There are a lot of sacrifices and if you feel like you’re not able to make them, God bless you for figuring it out BEFORE hand!! Better that than your kids suffering because you “made a mistake.”
My take is that people who are bothered are projecting. I'm not saying they regret their kids, but they may be unhappy or unfulfilled in life. They may be bothered by seeing people be so carefree. So nothing distracts you from your misery than looking down or criticizing someone else.
Thank you Emily👏🏾👍🏽🌺💕🥰
Why does she have to justify her life in any shape or form? You only have so many years on this planet -- make the most of it. Do not allow anyone to dictate who you should be or how you live.
I ❤ this. Live life the way u see fit.
That woman is enjoying her life, alone. I chose to have kids and marry young. What do I regret 30 years later? Having so much of my heart living outside my physical being. I love my kids but I worry. As a mother you do that. I think that is my only regret. I just recently started traveling and cannot wait to do more, as well as move abroad. Happy for her. Get off social media and live your like because those people are not telling you all the hell they cause while giving someone else hell.
WOW so crazy! I think she is inspiring!
They hate her because misery loves company. So many married women with kids find themselves somewhere within a tolerable level of permanent unhappiness.
We miss seeing your show Tamron in the Atlanta market. 🙋🏽♀️💖😓
Love to Emily, and stunning rainbow dress Tamron!
Go head Emily!!
We have life people. Married. Single whatever.. We have life.. Each day is a chance to make it what we want.. so many would trade places with us ❤
Girl! do you. Forget about the so called haters!
Good for Emily. More women should be like her. Do your own life and live like you want.
How about people put that energy into shaming all the deadbeat dads out there. Almost none of my Friends had a dad growing up their moms did all the work of child raising plus worked and payed for everything . But I never heard those guys get the heat and hate I get when I say I don’t want kids
Preach! 🙌🏾
Thrilled for her
Life is good🎉
I was married
then became a single mum
Life was adventurous for us🙃
Now a granma
Still single
Life is good🎉
Adventure around every corner ...
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📢 ~ JEALOUS much?!? Probably a bunch of angry KARENs & some men (KENs) ... WTF is wrong with humanity these says?!? I'm so sorry this woman had to endure such anger & hostility!!! Keep doing you - Emily re Lovely Lady 🌹
But one fact was left out. You gotta be single and ballin'😂
Haters are just hidden cowards. From a single, childless lady to another, keep living and thriving sweetheart. It speaks. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Wait, so now we can't be single women, not married, and no kids. Make it make sense 💪🏻💪🏽💙🇺🇸🗳🎯
It is a shame how other folks think they can dictate to others how to live their lives. You go girl and enjoy your life. You do not have to explain yourself to anyone afterall you are paying your own travel expenses while they are stuck in the mud.
I find it interesting that she received a death threat but none of the Tradwives did.😮
Nobody should get a death threat. But, what does it say about society when one way a woman lives gets a death threat, but the other way does not?
Resentment is an awful thing, especially when it’s channelled towards a child. Some women feel forced into having them or conned. Kids aren’t a happy tv show. Be sure you want them if not don’t. Live and let live I say.
Love you so much Tamron
Go Emily girl!❤ Forget those ridiculous people.
Should mind their business. Love it!
iam in late 30s a man and have no kids and married , and i dont get crap for it wtf is wrong with ppl
What would there be to investigate? Crazy!
As someone who used to wanting to settle down in my early 20s because of society pressure. I dont give a damn now. I am living my life and now giving my own time as much as i do. I dont give a hoot about what society has to say about me because at the end of the day i paid my own bills and live my own life.
Envy! Envy! Envy! That's all this is. Too bad. Get a life and travel and stop envying another person's life. Save up and travel, Noone said you shouldn't. It's your choice.
Death threats seriously?what world we live in society it’s full of envy and jealousy because in reality people don’t like to see others happy enjoying life those who threaten her are people stuck in miserable marriages with kids who can’t divorce or leave because they will lose everything or women stuck with man they hate and kids that are making her life miserable
I've been a nomad for 2 years now and I get the most hate from married people with children
WTH!!! NEVER in my life have I heard of such INSANITY! A person receiving death threats and being shamed for living THEIR life on THEIR terms? #thatsherbusiness May God BLESS her present and future endeavors!
The Civil Rights Act was the Emancipation of Men, it freed Men from the obligation of sharing their resources with women and allowed women to work for themselves.
Women's labor force participation rate grew from 34% in 1950 to 60% in 2000.
The hatred some people have for single and childless/childfree women is downright diabolical. The extreme right-wing online women's publication actually blamed childfree women for toxic mom culture. No, I don't get that one either.
People who are threatening her are living unfulfilled, miserable lives. What sane, happy person would send a death threat? What is she threatening by enjoying her life?
Women celebrating women 🎉
Amen...
The same people that were outraged are the same ones that are miserable because they’re unhappily married with kids……. Choices, people, choices! Jealousy is a sick disease! I’m single with no children either and I’ll be damned if I live my life based on someone else’s opinion….. kcuF ‘em!
God has given us all a life to live, ✝️ hopefully, in a positive way. This is all what this young lady is doing. Others should not take anger towards her for decisions made in their lives that hindered their growth for whatever reason. She knew what she wanted and pursued it, successfully. People don't have to embrace her decisions but there is no need to hate her either. There's too much of it in the 🌎 already.🌟
Blessings.
So happy for her! Live your best life. AND..have a financial plan and support system in place should you get a serious disease or face disability as our healthcare system discriminates against Single childless people both financially and in actual care. ONE illness or one medical condition will bankrupt you. Medical transportation does not exist for Single childless people....as those who are married with children get priority for medical services and care that are limited on a local level.
This is a very important and often overlooked point. Well said.